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Lol cause he’s gettin blocked
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 11:00 PM
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My favorite part of this was when a stranger who knows neither you nor your husband told you that sweeping elements of your life were a non factor and that “for you it all comes down to whether or not you’re hot”. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 11:41 PM
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Dad bod = works out but doesn’t cut. There are plenty of guys like that all over the place. They have nice arms and some belly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 11:53 PM
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The O-line bod is the hottest bod dont @ me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 11:47 PM
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It’s just the wallstreet bets diamond hands avatar. Apes come in all sexes. And OP is a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 08:52 PM
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Not every poster is a man you know
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 08:23 PM
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“Why is love not enough”? This is one of those things you learn at the end of your first intense relationship. Any idiot in the world can love. Abusers can love. People with different values and life goals can love each other. People who are bad with money can love. People who think yelling is a reasonable response to an argument can love. Codependent people can love. But there’s a nuance beyond that, that a lot of guys here seems to fail to realize. And that is that their love is not enough. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 04:44 PM
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The no agency thing is the crazy part to me. Like women have fought for hundreds if not thousands of years in many cultures to have agency over their lives. I think a lot of men who feel like they’re without it often end up resenting women they see exercising it. It seems like it stems from a combination of helicopter parenting in early adolescence and the growing wealth and mobility divide in western counties.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 08:48 PM
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I don’t think most of the people here are open to change and certainly aren’t open to making meaningful differences in their lives. They’re just sort of sitting around waiting for other people to validate them, whether that’s from women in the form of sex and attraction or from internet nerds backing up their preconceived notions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 08:42 PM
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Why don’t you try to make friends with the kind of people you want to hang out with and the kind of people you’d like to date? There are plenty of people out there who are fun and positive and out going.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 08:37 PM
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Something about the way you’ve written this seems incredibly voyeuristic
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 08:28 PM
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She wants you to be well dressed with good hygiene. That’s why she’s buying you nice clothes and toiletries and encouraging you to wear and use them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 08:11 PM
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Lol spoken like a true adventurer
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 04:56 PM
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I don’t understand what you’re asking. Of course this is vague and general, because “healthy” relationships can look all sorts of different ways and have different dynamics for different people. But you can’t have a healthy relationship without mutual respect. And yeah, usually you have to appreciate each other. Are you asking why the goal assumed for most people is a healthy relationship as opposed to an unhealthy one? Or why you wouldn’t want to have an unstable relationship where you disrespe…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 08:24 PM
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I know a few of these guys and they all have two things in common - zero boundaries and an expectation of equal reciprocity for every unsolicited over the top act of goodwill. Like, they have low self esteem and think that if they go out of their way to do everything for someone, set no boundaries, etc. that the person will be obligated to love them and go above and beyond in the same way, tit for tat. They keep score. And when it doesn’t add up, because with these kind of people it never will, …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 04:17 PM
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I think men are instead naturally inclined to dehumanize women. Both putting women on a pedestal and denigrating them as less then are simply two different iterations of this same phenomenon. Which of them occurs depends on the needs and views of a specific society or individual. They allow men to control women and society to keep women in their place. Regarding the “women are wonderful effect”, I’ve encountered it so many fucking times it’s so fucking annoying. Women’s suffrage had to argue tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 07:00 PM
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I’m a heterosexual woman. All of my friends are heterosexual women. Allow me to disavow you of this notion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 10:48 PM
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Who would possibly enjoy being weaker and smaller??
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 09:41 PM
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I swear STEM people think they’re the whole world. Like it’s stem professionals or burger flippers (inset other low skilled labor) and no other type of professional work out there that requires critical thinking and intelligent complex decision making.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 07:01 PM
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Intelligence women aren’t only in STEM and nerdy STEm guys don’t have to stick to the STEM pool
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 02:58 PM
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So they can spew misogyny from a place of bitter skepticism but I can’t ask them about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 01:55 AM
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I think this is why bdsm has spread so much. People who aren’t good with social cues like clear explicit steps and rules to follow. Most well adjusted people neither need nor do this. Internet nerds on the other hand...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 08:12 PM
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It’s a warning to predators to stay away. Not to others in their species. And when we’re talking animal mating, bright colors tend to attract mates.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 05:20 AM
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Everyone has the capacity for bitterness
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 05:43 PM
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> The raging misogynistic tone you whitness in the red pill is mostly a reflection of what women said to these guys in one way or another. It's mostly a reflection on them, not on what women have said to them. Women say things to a lot of people. Almost every single person on the planet has been rejected or lied to, including and perhaps especially in a romantic context, and they don't all go out and become bitter and redpilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 05:16 PM
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Not just “falls in love”. Falls in love with the right person who is a good fit. Someone who isn’t just fun and sexy and a good friend but emotionally mature, whose values and goals and life style align.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 11:26 PM
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> I don't mind dying at 70yo for a big discount instead of 80yo since I find those last few years to not have much quality anymore anyways. This seems like a huge misconception. If you take care of yourself, barring some crazy disease or illness, your 70s can be full of life and fun and enjoyment. My grand parents on one side are mid 70s. They go bike riding every day and camping on weekends. They got to see their grandchildren grow up and a few get married. They have good friends in town and ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 06:44 PM
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When I worked front desk of a resort, 8 times out of 10, it was the 40yr white bald dude yelling at me. Women were rude sometimes. But it was usually the men. And men who were upset were waaaay more likely to yell and make threats and curse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 05:28 PM
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You know it’s possible to masturbate without porn, right? People used to do it all the time and many of them still do
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 08:58 PM
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I just don’t understand how you would get satisfaction from an encounter knowing that the only reason they’re fucking you is because they need money to live How do you know that they’re in that situation willingly? Most prostitutes are are victims of trafficking and/or are experiencing extreme poverty, and often experience the comorbidities of mental health issues and drug addiction. They’re an incredibly vulnerable group aside from the handful who are privileged enough to deem it a comfortable …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 08:56 PM
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Who hurt you Jesus Tap dancing Christ
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 12:16 AM
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Since when is satire calling out bias uncivil
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 05:03 PM
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Stop calling us females and you might find someone
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 03:49 PM
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Right, again, resources. Day care is expensive. The most impoverished in western countries also don’t tend to have familial networks to fall back on either. What are you supposed to do with your kids if you can’t afford to send them off while you work?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 04:35 PM
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Gender roles are costly to maintain, especially those assigned to women. Being attractive takes time and money. Ie Hair maintenance, waxing, manicures, workout routines, clothing, facials, manicures, etc. Having kids is costly too and their daily roles in the traditional gendered sense are unpaid. You have to have both time and resources to support this. Everyone wants to conform to what society says to do in varying degrees and weather or not it’s what makes us most happy, we all experience val…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 03:48 PM
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Careers change as you go up the ladder and typically for the better. You find the elements of your entry level job you like doing the most and you can start focusing more on those tasks. I started out in a consulting firm which had the huge benefit of giving me tons of different types of work - from grant writing to compliance to project management to sales to marketing to research and data analysis. I found the stuff I liked and learned what I hated and what I was good at and focused on the typ…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 08:11 PM
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This is some “he who smelt it dealt it” level shit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 04:50 PM
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I love her with the fire of a thousand suns She is my spirit animal
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 02:04 AM
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Totally
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 07:26 PM
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In their minds, it’s not possible for a woman to ever love them. They have awful self esteem and believe that all they’re worth is being settled for or used in some other way. It’s a reflection of how they view themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 07:24 PM
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I think it hits one minute after midnight on your birthday?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 07:16 PM
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Please point out the valid data backed statistical analysis here. Assertions made from anecdotes can be dismissed with anecdotes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 05:09 PM
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I can tell you that most of my friends, who are all mid twenties to early thirties, have certainly not been dating exceptional men. They’ve been dating average men (at best) who they have a connection with. I, personally, would never in a million years be into the men my friends have been in relationships with. But they are head over heels for their partners. I’m not saying any obese incel with social anxiety can walk out their front door and snag a gf. I’m just saying you don’t have to be perfe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:09 PM
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I don’t think you understand. Women are actually a monolith. A hive mind. At any one time, they know what any other woman is going to say or do and they use this single unified consciousness to fuck over all men in as many ways as possible. Fun fact, this is where child support was born. And wedge heels. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:03 PM
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Um, what? Have you ever been out in public? There are tons of average couples. Go to a park or a a brewery or a strip mall. You’ll see couples everywhere, most of them are super average. There are short men, men of average height, balding men, men with mullets, men with beer bellies, men with disabilities, all with partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:01 PM
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They complain that we don’t settle and then they complain that they’re being settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:48 PM
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Maybe we should sticky this or something
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:16 PM
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So what was transitioning like?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 07:36 PM
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Also, why does the mom have to be "the female partner" but the dad gets to be a dad? Because women aren’t people. Obvi /s
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 06:19 PM
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Just one point to nitpick. It’s not that the more freedom we have, the more we engage in gendered behavior, it’s the more wealth we have, the more we engage in gendered behavior. Poor people have never been able to afford to conform to strict gender roles. As you move down the income ladder, relationships become more equitable, and as you move up it, they become less so. Fulfilling the female gender role is expensive. Making babies doesn’t bring in money, looking beautiful takes money and time. …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 09:03 PM
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No they’re all songs. I got tired of typing the word by and switched to commas Here’s a summary: The Beer is about Kimya’s spiraling alcoholism Spring water by birdcloud - a bender We are Fine, Sharon Van Etten - dealing with a panic attack Truce, Andrea Gibson - I think this is an explanation about who she is and the lessons she’s learning but fuck if I know tbh Suicide Hotline, The Prittiots - dealing with being super depressed but consoling everyone by telling that don’t worry you’re not that…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 04:08 PM
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The Beer by Kimya Dawson Spring water by birdcloud We are Fine, Sharon Van Etten Truce, Andrea Gibson Suicide Hotline, The Prittiots Zombie, Cranberries Table Song, Katie kuffel Both Sides Now, Joni Mitchell That’s just off the top of my head
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 04:06 PM
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Preach
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 01:27 AM
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Do you think maybe OP thinks this is how typical women behave because this is what porn shows him and he doesn’t interact with women outside of that context?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 07:28 PM
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He’s saying he has a preconceived notion that creep is just a term women use to call men ugly and undesirable and has created a narrative around that to support his pre-established belief
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 07:25 PM
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I don’t know when or how my mom had the time or the energy to do it or how any single working mother does. Going through court processes is time consuming and headache inducing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 06:55 PM
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My dad never paid a dime and never went to jail either. In 26 years, I think I've seen him 8 times total, and my mom certainly tried to get him to pay. Single mother working for non-profits needed the help
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 06:49 PM
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Well for example, all of society who minimized and dismissed that Kobe Bryant was an admitted rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 09:38 PM
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The best part is that plenty of them also think that if she does sleep with them, that means she’s just settling and trying to trap them and isn’t actually attracted to them at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 03:55 PM
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I’m not sure what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 08:32 PM
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Late 20s to mid 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 08:19 PM
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If we’re going off of anecdotes, I’ve been in 2 LTRs, including my current one. In both instances I was head over heels in love and felt intense connection to my partners. I’m also a woman. My SO is a sexy fucking beast, a great partner, and I love him with my whole heart. I would never been in a long term relationship where this was not true. Nor would any of my friends. In fact, I don’t know a single woman who has stayed with someone because it’s simple practical
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 07:59 PM
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Do you think accusing people of being offended makes your argument have any more basis in realty?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 07:04 PM
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It’s interesting to me that OP and a fair number of people in this thread seem to think that statistics about LT relationships like marriages ending means people are staying in unsatisfying situations where they were settling rather than the explanation that people are only together as long as they both want to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 06:57 PM
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I would even venture to guess that most people walk away from unsatisfying relationships. They’re too much work if they’re not bringing you the good parts like emotional connection, mutual support, love, and fun companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 06:51 PM
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Just because you’ve never had it doesn’t mean most people haven’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 06:49 PM
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If his definition of a 5/10 is literally a woman who’s been named “sexiest woman in the world” multiple times, then I get the feeling he isn’t all that attracted to women to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 04:03 PM
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I don’t think you understand though. Anything any woman does is actually representative of every entity with a vagina. There are no individual differences or personal motivations.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 08:52 PM
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Any one who honestly believes “there are only two types of people” are naive basement dwellers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 06:20 PM
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Are you serious? People don’t exist in a binary vacuum. There are also women who exist all over the spectrum between your two extremes. You can absolutely love your man with all your heart and want to compromise and be real partners and be willing to have a pomp and circumstance free wedding if that’s what they want but also look forward to having a big celebration. Plenty of people like parties and want a traditional wedding but still also deeply love and cherish eachother and want to have a la…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 06:19 PM
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I think you see what you want to see when you go web diving. I think most of the men here agreeing with you don’t take the time to understand feminist thought or communities or they would see that the abolishment of gender roles in general is a huge component of feminism since they’re all rooted in and contributing to the continuation of the patriarchal structure of our society. The idea is a do away with the underlying attitudes and beliefs that say men must be the strong provider and women mus…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 04:17 PM
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Not superficial enough to be referring to people as numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 05:36 PM
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Are you serious? Building wealth is an absolutely inherent part of our capitalistic society. A big way to do that is through investments in appreciating assets like land. And you’re naive to the point of folly if you think upper middle class and upper class families aren’t concerned with amassing those assets and then passing them on to their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 05:30 PM
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Didn’t you know that men who lead with their fetish preferences as the primary descriptor for a partner are the epitome of stability and attractiveness to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 07:55 PM
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Lol thanks for the laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 03:44 PM
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I think he’s looking for other people to agree with him so he feels validated in this decision he’s come to that he’s maybe not quite convinced of. But who knows
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 10:13 PM
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May I introduce you to such gems as “women should not be treated as equals. They’re glorified children” and “I don’t understand why anyone would ever want to travel except to whore it up in a foreign country. I never want to leave where I live except for work” So, he’s a boring misogynist who only values sex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 10:07 PM
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Have you seen their comment history? OP is right. His personality needs a serious overhaul.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 09:40 PM
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Dating apps are for cowards and shut ins
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 11:54 PM
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It’s because men think everything is about them
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 09:57 PM
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Im sorry sir, this is purge day, and real answers aren't allowed
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 08:53 PM
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If you marry the incels instead, you don't have to bang them
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 08:39 PM
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Fuck Marry Kill: Incels, MGTOW, Blackpill
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 08:35 PM
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I'll be your side piece if you don't tell automod
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 08:32 PM
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Men assume their dicks are so big they have their own gravity so everything in the universe must actually revolve around them. And if it's not their dicks, its their egos.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 08:30 PM
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This would actually explain quite a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 08:15 PM
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I thought men liked hate fucking?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 07:57 PM
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I thought sphincters were generally understood to be tighter?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 07:46 PM
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They're probably also all size queen too tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 07:46 PM
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This explains why all women are communist. They're paving the way for their machine overlords who will make people redundant
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 07:23 PM
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Vagina means trick men into do things for me. Why skills when box will do
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 07:19 PM
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Good point. This should actually make them volcels. I propose we all switch over our vocabulary and use this term exclusively. Except when referring to folks in solitary confinement in prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 07:06 PM
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Well abortion at 38 weeks is generally considered murder soooo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 03:52 AM
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Kingsburg. And also almost every school in Tulare and Fresno counties. Even freaking porterville
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 08:55 PM
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So you sacrificed and gave way above and beyond and kept score of the fact that it wasn’t reciprocated and felt like you gave this much therefore she was expected to give that much. That’s not how it works. You need to work on your boundaries and self respect. You can’t go out of your way for people so that they’ll do the same thing. You go out of your way for people who you know will go out of their way for you. It sounds like you did finally realize where your boundaries are so good job there …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 07:12 PM
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Try outskirts of Fresno
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 06:14 PM
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Don’t most high schools have water polo teams? I grew up in rural central CA and every one I knew about did
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 05:59 PM
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Everyone who says this has zero understanding of social interaction. Hi, I’m a woman. I don’t like being hit on by randos when I’m going about my business. Let me explain what that means. Don’t walk up to me when I’m sitting on the train with my headphones in, and say “you’re really beautiful would you like to get coffee with me?” . Who are you? You’re just someone who saw me and thought I was attractive. That doesn’t entitle you to my time and I have no reason to want to spend more time with yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 05:30 PM
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I highly doubt they're having any sex at all, to be honest. Unless you start counting their own hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 07:11 PM
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These aren't rates of divorce. These are rates of who initiates divorce. Can you read?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 07:08 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 07:05 PM
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A given to who? You? Because all I see from here is a pretentious walking ego who can type.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 07:02 PM
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No, we get them because we think they look cool as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 07:32 PM
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Are you serious? You think women only see their own worth as either sex objects or mothers? And are you really questioning whether or not the only thing that makes childless women happy is attracting men? Do you actually know a single woman aside from your own mother? Do you know she actually has a name and isn't just mom? There are plenty of reasons that any person, including women, would change their mind about having children that have absolutely nothing to do with how men view them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 01:12 AM
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Damn. Someone find the nearest burn unit please
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 12:16 AM
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Can you point to any part of gender performance that is inherent to biological sex? There's nothing that I know of that's significantly different between a male and female brain. You certainly can't scan a brain and tell the sex of its owner. Even ideas that men have more spacial navigating ability and women are better with language are averages, and can still have huge cultural influences. Why don't we just decouple gender roles and gender performance from biological sex entirely? If a man want…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 10:05 PM
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I think they might be projecting? Like maybe they’re here because they’re lonely and can demand attention by stirring up drama on an Internet forum so assume it’s the same for everybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 03:51 PM
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Because your friends are going and it’s fun. Not everything is about finding a man
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 03:46 PM
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Thanks for the laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 06:03 PM
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So what you’re saying is, if you didn’t get a lot of romantic interest in your youth, then clearly no woman will ever actually love you the way you want and if they are interested in you in your thirties, it’s just because they’re using you and arent attracted to you physically nor do they respect you in anyway and that the only valid form of love stems from complete physical infatuation? This just sounds like a big self esteem problem tbh. Work with a therapist on finding ways to value yourself…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 03:43 PM
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As though women weren't pressured to have sex before the sexual liberation movement and availability of birth control? It's not the price we pay, it's there no matter what
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 06:32 PM
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That's a really cowardly way of looking at relationships. And boundaries and respect absolutely go hand in hand with vulnerability in creating a healthy relationship. It's not one or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 10:44 PM
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Love comes from acceptance. To be accepted, you have to be vulnerable. Anything that gums up your ability and your partners ability to be vulnerable is going to cause a breakdown in your relationship and feelings of insecurity and eventually apathy. Don’t be defensive. Get good at listening when your partner talks. Make eachother feel appreciated.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 03:30 PM
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Undersigned
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 04:53 PM
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That’s my point. And he doesn’t throw fits to get what he wants like a spoiled little toddler
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 03:54 PM
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I’m sorry, who is supposed to be the Chad in this scene? The guy with the gun and a Napoleon complex?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 03:48 PM
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This isn't possible because most of the women who post here, aren't in fact, women. No average man has the ability to betabux
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 07:44 PM
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RC is for autists
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 07:42 PM
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What? Lol no. Tombstone is fantastic. Because you won’t admit to the superiority of Val Kilmer as Doc Holiday.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 09:18 PM
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I always suspected you were a man
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 09:12 PM
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Nah, keep her on as a side piece for both of you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 08:50 PM
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counter point, Doc Holiday from Tombstone
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 08:50 PM
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Oh right, literally the worst decade for everything
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 08:49 PM
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Except with a real job. Anyone who says different is lying
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 08:38 PM
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I can't get over his hair. It's so .... date rapey
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 08:37 PM
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What, in your opinion, makes Tristan a Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 08:35 PM
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No, I'm sorry, beta cucks aren't appropriate for submission
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 08:30 PM
2

okay gross, he's yours
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 08:29 PM
1

Jobs are just a product of our capitalistic patriarchy. Free yourself from the man made chains of wage slavery
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 06:47 PM
4

You can just say you’ve never had sex before
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:12 PM
5

Don’t forget the specs of dirt, feces, and hobo residue mixed in
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 03:34 PM
2

One or two dudes raping you still ends in you raped so, it's not like you need many of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 11:16 PM
1

I don’t think I’ve ever said that ? Also, I’d totally bang jack black so, thanks I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 01:46 AM
9

Ugh, women. Can't even hear of hobbies the right way
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 10:07 PM
1

This is cyber bullying
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 08:21 PM
0

I bet you’re fun at parties
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 08:02 PM
-1

That’s good. You know, one woman’s trash is another man’s treasure
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 07:56 PM
-2

/#nOtAlLmEn
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 06:27 PM
20

You’re right. He does own his own home and has a full head of hair. Chad the Grouch, more like
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 04:19 PM
4

Now who needs to lower their expectations
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 03:33 PM
10

Real talk, I think you posted your comment faster than auto mod did.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 02:52 PM
2

It’s like watching aliens take notes on human behavior and then trying to replicate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 03:05 AM
1

If you have to ask, you’ll never know
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 02:36 AM
4

You're like if Jack Black was conventionally attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 04:13 PM
3

I think that because they don't value themselves at all, they just assume that anyone who dates them or shows interest must be settling or using them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 06:19 PM
1

My mom was single and raised me on her own. She didn't date much, and only introduced me to her partners when it was very serious. She really tried to make it a huge point to me that while romantic relationships are important, they're not the most important and shouldn't come before other things. That you should never rely on a relationship more than yourself. I think it's because her mother did that and neglected her children, and as a social worker, she saw parents doing that constantly and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 04:25 PM
10

Oh come on. Go ahead and tell your BF that you didn't have any sexual attraction to him or that he's the smallest penis you've ever been fucked by or that you don't really feel that much for him but you like attention and gifts and dates...basically that your settling until a better option shows up. It suddenly hit me that maybe the reason all these men on all these redpill MGTOW incell sites think women are only ever settling in their relationships is because they feel like all they're worth is…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 11:51 PM
9

RE #2: There are a lot of factors that go into the divorce rate statistic For example conservative/religious folks tend to be the people who 1) marry with no or few prior partners and 2) frown on divorce. So conservative people tend to be conservative isn't a relevation and also doesn't really count in this situation. People who have their first marriage later in life are more likely to stay married and are more likely to have more partners Check out all these fun statistics: https://www.mckinle…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 06:09 PM
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I don't think I said that? Also there's nothing procluding someone who has had multiple partners from having had a lot of sex with one, a few, or all of them. So that's a weird assumption you're writing in
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 06:02 PM
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Well it's not like there aren't at least a few obvious benefits. more experience = more likely to know what they're doing. How is being better at sex not a positive? more experience = less likely to feel hesitant about commitment because of the "what else is out there" question. They know what else is out there. you don't have to agree but don't dismiss it as out of hand
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 05:55 PM
4

Are you going to shame the tall men who go after tiny women too? How about you mind your own business and not worry about other people's dating choices?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 06:28 PM
11

This is not a complex issue of sexual past. This is you not respecting your wife's boundaries, being insecure, and making everything about you and your own enjoyment over her comfort, enjoyment, and autonomy. You're also intentionally misrepresenting the situation when in your last post you explicitly mention she tried these things, including anal (multiple times), with you and didn't like it. You don't mention making any attempts to try things she would like. What about taking one of those quiz…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 06:15 PM
1

I think part of it is that people value more highly things they put more effort and work into
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 04:01 PM
4

My guy, you need to get out into the world and work on yourself a bit. This kind of outlook isn't healthy or normal. If you're only dating people who are taking advantage of you, you need to work on setting boundaries and dating new kinds of people. And when I say boundaries, I don't mean making arbitrary rules and shit tests. I mean knowing what you want and not bending over backwards to give someone else everything you think they want to make sure they stick around or in the hope they're recip…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 04:25 PM
1

I'm a woman. I online dated for 2ish years. Here's some insight daily dick pics daily vulgar messages 95% of men online date solely for hook ups and trend to treat you like a sex dispenser Men suck at creating profiles, taking pictures, and messaging Personally always had better luck finding what i wanted with less abuse and fewer idiots to wade through irl for a wide variety of reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 07:06 PM
4

Average looking dudes with average jobs and average cars date and have relationships all the time. The biggest mistakes I see again and again are issues of self esteem, thinking that if they give enough and sacrifice enough and don’t establish any boundaries, then a woman will see how generous they are and reciprocate. But people don’t work that way. You have to be your own independent person who is willing to establish the boundaries you need and not give everything away and expect everything i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 04:16 PM
2

You know all these things you can get from other information, right? And in ways that are much more accurate because they're specific to the individual, not assumption based on self reported trends. Like if you're worried your partner might have an STD, you can and should both go get tested before you sleep together, or at least before you rawdog it. If you're wondering about how agreeable your partner is, you date them. Happiness? You date them. Get to know each other. And if you have no idea o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 08:16 PM
1

I think it’s often used colloquially by most people to mean “the one I’ve picked, the one I want to marry, the one who out of all the people I’ve dated or those that I see around me, I want to have a life with. Most adults don’t subscribe to the notion of soul mates as far as I can tell
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 11:35 PM
1

At 5’3 and 105lbs as a woman your TDEE is about 1200-1300 calories. You can get up to 1500 if you’re working out. That means if you ever want to feel full you live on lettuce, low fat cottage cheese, yogurt, and maybe some boiled eggs. Your meals are 300-400 calories max if you want to eat three of them a day. If you eat a cookie your coworker handed you, forget lunch. That was your lunch. You spend years keeping anything as calorically dense and addicting as bread or peanut butter out of your h…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 05:58 PM
1

Oh do they? Please tell me more
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 07:52 PM
7

Boundaries are a must for every kind of relationship with everyone Ironically, our society says that refusal to cater to the whim of every woman is misogyny. I’m curious where you possibly see this happening
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 04:18 PM
1

Besides, if she's feeling lonely she can call the hot Uber Eats delivery guy for some netflix and chill. I’ve seen this porn
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 04:02 PM
2

Did you just use “alpha” unironically?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 07:19 PM
6

Are you serious? Older people date and bang and fall in love all the time. Why do you think nursing homes are so full of STDs?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/19 04:47 PM
3

Have you ever met a human?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 11:57 PM
2

Reading your responses I’m less and less sure you know what a CEO is. Honestly I’m not even sure you know what a nurse is
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 11:41 PM
2

Are you seriously comparing having had multiple sexual partners to being a drug addict or a rapist? Good lord
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 11:40 PM
7

Gross
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 09:01 PM
2

You can do what you want but this is a weird fuckin hang up and it might help you in general to be less insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 08:13 PM
1

So ... you wouldn’t talk to women at all except for wanting sex from them?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 08:10 PM
12

Plus if we’re following OPs Logic, the man who doesn’t help with house work also creates additional house work himself. Extra laundry, dishes, dirt tracked in, a schedule to manage, plus whatever his expectations are of your living space and behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 07:34 PM
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Okay but for real can none of you see the merit of this service? Like a cafe deciding to charge men more based on the idea of the wage gap is obviously gender discrimination but this is sort of a different situation. Maybe there’s a nice way around the issue where it’s a ride service that matches women passengers with women drivers and men passengers with men drivers. This way everyone has access to the same service and women are given the opportunity to have a level of safety and comfort that t…
/r/PussyPassDenied10/06/19 08:33 PM
6

Does this mean gay folks are always virgins?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 05:25 PM
10

Have you considered that the people who believe you shouldn’t live together first are also usually the people who feel tremendous pressure to not divorce? They tend to be conservative and religious. This doesn’t mean that they have better, happier, more compatible marriages, just that they don’t get divorced as frequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 11:39 PM
3

I see you were the defensive council Get it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 09:14 PM
4

Do you take everything so personally
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 09:01 PM
2

Are you calling me a fish
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 04:22 PM
1

Maybe confirming to that cultural idea is a fitness indicator in itself. For example, in some cultures in some points in time, larger, even overweight women were considered the ideal because it meant they had resources. In the 90s, extreme waifishness was a sign of status as well. Those folks had the resources that allowed them to stay thin (trainers, money, healthy food, time to work out).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 08:10 PM
-2

Ah yes, a “who has it worse” thread. I’m sure this will be productive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 07:58 PM
4

Typically older people that go for those who are significantly younger with less experience and resources are doing so chiefly because it allows them to “exploit” the more naïve party. I’m willing to bet most situations of older men dating younger women isn’t this sugar daddy vision you have in your head. It’s usually normal immature guys who can’t keep a women nearer their age with a good sense of self, support system, and their own resources. So they resort to women who will put up with their …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 01:13 AM
2

Have you ever been around 18 year olds? I can guarantee any one over thirty who has would need at least a second to think about it. And furthermore if you think that the only important trait a partner brings to the table is their genetic code, you’re not in a position to be reproducing anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 01:08 AM
5

Going to meet strange men can be dangerous, even in a day lit public setting. Online dating means half the messages you do get are explicit messages. It’s so hard to find men who are on the same page as you. And many are willing to lie about that just to get in your pants. Or if you just want something casual they often get upset when they realize you meant it. Even beyond lying about what they want, you end up with a parade of men who waste your time. Or men who pretend to be upstanding people …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 05:04 PM
0

Do you so lack empathy that you couldn’t see how a thing could be difficult for someone else just because they don’t have the same set of struggles that you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 02:32 PM
7

And we see which camp you fall in to
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 04:27 AM
4

I think you’re forgetting the part where the world tells you that you can trust people in authority or with power and fame, that they can seem safe because why would all of these people worship them and work with them and promote them otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 08:10 PM
7

Holy mommy issues Batman
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 02:26 PM
1

And where is OP’s data? Claims that are made without data can be addressed and dismissed without data
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 03:52 PM
1

Thanks?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 06:38 PM
1

Lordy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 06:35 PM
2

My boyfriend and I banged the first day we got together. Had only met briefly once before as friends. Stayed up all night partying, had a hung over breakfast and went back to his place. Now we’ve been together for over a year and a half, live together, and have a 2 year lease. Do what you want to do, be confident in it because the only thing you win by playing stupid games is stupid prizes. You can’t manipulate someone into a relationship with you. Or rather, you really shouldn’t. People who jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 05:17 PM
3

And I’d also continuously employed, not dealing with the issue of a huge gap in their work experience and corresponding career set back
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 11:21 PM
6

How is that what I said? I’m giving you solid, data backed information on trends and you’re reducing it to individual responsibility? Which individual ever acts in a vacuum? How do you get trends if not the mass of individuals?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 06:29 PM
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So first I’d like to clarify we’re talking power imbalance. Regardless of why, it can’t be argued that women hold equal power as they aren’t equally represented in the positions that hold power As to your assertation that women don’t want to run for office or hold jobs at the top of the corporate ladder, I think you’re ignoring all of the confounding social factors that go in to this trend. That would be like saying “Black people just don’t want to hold office like white people do”. You see how …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 06:19 PM
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Let’s talk politically: Women make up only 23.4% of US House representatives, currently an all time high. Weird, huh? Considering they make up more than 50% of the population. Pew data shows us that to date, 44 women have served as governors in the US in 30 states. There has never been more than 18% of governors at any one time who are women. Women make up 25.5% of state senate seats and 29.7% of state house or assembly seats. Let’s talk corporate leadership: Although they hold almost 52 percent…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 07:16 PM
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How is this an answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 02:59 PM
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It’s not a lie when you consider that the root causes for the differences in the way we treat women and men are the same. The society that says women have no control over their emotions is the same one that says that men shouldn’t cry. If you look at it the way many feminists do, dismantling gender roles, then of course the end result should benefit men as well. But as with anything, proponents tend to be more focused on their cause and their own group than that of others. And rightly so. You bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 10:31 PM
4

Literally only insecure children give a shit about this
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 12:51 AM
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