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11

it doesn’t matter, but i would say number after a good interaction. try not to be too logical in your conversations if they are into you, it won’t matter
/r/seduction01/09/22 05:37 AM
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David Goggins as a playah
/r/seduction08/08/22 06:36 AM
12

what is SMV?
/r/seduction28/07/22 05:37 PM
6

telepathy
/r/seduction21/07/22 05:18 AM
2

No worries good job. You said you were sober and that’s big because the large majority of guys cannot do what you just did.
/r/seduction09/07/22 05:57 PM
10

don’t let the last one beat you down. also did you get brooke’s contact if you spent half an hour with her?
/r/seduction09/07/22 06:00 AM
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i’m my opinion the really attractive ones usually have the best reactions
/r/seduction07/07/22 06:11 AM
2

lmao he’s spitting facts dude (not really)
/r/seduction02/07/22 07:12 PM
1

dude say that
/r/seduction02/07/22 07:11 PM
3

then you have to join clubs, play a sport, sit and talk with people in your classes. these are just some of the ways on how you meet new people and form relationships
/r/seduction02/07/22 04:50 PM
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dude nobody has more than a few close friends, after college a large majority of these people will do their own thing and will only keep in contact with a few people that they once knew. you’re not really missing out on much, but if you really feel this way talk with everyone not just girls and make friends that way
/r/seduction02/07/22 09:41 AM
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yeah you’re right lol
/r/seduction01/07/22 07:20 PM
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oh okay gotcha, i misread that thought you were waiting for someone to approach with you but i think you just want a wingman haha. good luck
/r/seduction01/07/22 05:43 PM
1

So then stand out and go up to someone.
/r/seduction01/07/22 01:12 AM
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don’t take drugs or alcohol during day game. Minimizing anxiety actually happens when you do like 2-3 approaches in a day. I call this baseline anxiety, which for me is like a 6 out of 10, but as i do more approaches it goes down to like a 2. warming up socially by talking to everyone before these approaches is important. each new day, your approach anxiety will come back but as you get more practice your baseline anxiety will start to decrease with time.
/r/seduction30/06/22 08:31 AM
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You will get through this, it helps to have a friend in a similar position. If not, if you live in the city, try going for a walk and reading a book or two at the park, that’s usually a good spot to meet people. Remember that it’s okay when you don’t approach when you finally get the courage to give it a go, just remember at some point your gonna have to do it and the very first time you do it, you might stumble on your own words but that’s okay it takes practice just like with everything else. …
/r/seduction29/06/22 04:08 AM
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yeah i mean those points are just your brain telling you not to do something. But you just have to do it, start small like compliment the barista at starbucks on her bracelet or something. They will most likely smile and say thanks, then you could ask them where they got it from. But remember to be aware socially, if it is really busy that day you should just compliment and not start a convo because others are in line. This will help you to realize that you can talk to literally anyone. Just rea…
/r/seduction29/06/22 03:56 AM
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Why do you have this belief? Sounds like your not confident in yourself
/r/seduction29/06/22 03:33 AM
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sus
/r/seduction20/06/22 04:31 PM
1

Gotcha thanks, I also find it I’m more confident when i’m with a friend for some reason. Good luck
/r/seduction20/06/22 03:23 PM
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True, i think i’ll try avoid complimenting next time and see how it goes, maybe with someone sitting down at the park or something. Also I do like a social warmup by talking to everyone to reduce my approach anxiety if i’m going out, is there something similar you do?
/r/seduction20/06/22 08:10 AM
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Usually indirect opener at night, but during the day i say “excuse me… i was just over there and i thought you were cute..” and go from there so she knows why i’m there from the start and i can also tell if she’s interested or not. At night i like indirect because it’s obvious why i’m talking to them, but i escalate from there
/r/seduction20/06/22 06:43 AM
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okay just sounded indirect the way you phrased your openers
/r/seduction20/06/22 04:30 AM
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Are you direct with your approaches or do you prefer indirect
/r/seduction20/06/22 03:21 AM
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Honestly, when you overthink it the chance that you will approach goes down. So you have to just go for it as soon as you see someone you might like. I’ve noticed that if i do hesitate, i get more nervous and when i do eventually approach i’m not at the top of my game. However, when i have just went for it with no hesitation it is easier to be myself and be confident. Another thing that helps is to warm up socially, just by saying hi or having a conversation with somebody else. The anxiety goes …
/r/seduction19/06/22 07:13 AM
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thank you lol this person got offended even though i wasn’t even asking them
/r/seduction18/06/22 03:18 AM
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huh? i’m genuinely wondering
/r/seduction18/06/22 03:06 AM
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looked at your vegan results from your profile, did you have enough energy when you were eating non meats and how did you hit that protein mark? edit: serious inquiry, not sure why i was downvoted
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:09 AM
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wtf
/r/seduction13/06/22 06:59 AM
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Unless at a bar/club right?
/r/seduction10/06/22 09:06 AM
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yeah skewed for men i suppose. Where did you take photos? like park and things like that?
/r/seduction10/06/22 12:20 AM
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didn’t you say tinder algorithm was a scam on a previous post
/r/seduction09/06/22 11:49 PM
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dude this is a beautiful story, i wish you guys good luck
/r/seduction05/06/22 11:07 PM
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dude just say “hi i thought you were cute” and then go from there. Also if you’re new talk with everyone so your comfortable with how to socialize, and then go up to girls
/r/seduction05/06/22 05:04 AM
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regret is worse, just remember that
/r/seduction05/06/22 05:02 AM
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if she likes movies/shows, invite her back to your place to watch something. Then during this start small, for example putting your arm around her if your on the couch. If she leans in then that’s very good. Afterwards, you can start playing around with her arm and hand, if she doesn’t pull away then good. Finally, get her attention and you could literally ask to kiss her. I’m not sure how experience you are but you could just say “I really feel like kissing you rn” and if she’s silent or says o…
/r/seduction05/06/22 01:22 AM
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this right here, plus she might change her mind as well
/r/seduction03/06/22 03:48 PM
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what if i’m comfortable showing intent when approaching so then they know why i’m there talking to them if it’s cold approach? But if it’s like a party, i usually talk to the person and then show intent if i like them
/r/seduction03/06/22 01:52 AM
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you have to restart the game
/r/seduction29/05/22 02:13 AM
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go approach them
/r/seduction27/05/22 04:45 AM
2

wdym generic lottery?
/r/seduction24/05/22 08:51 AM
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Lmao jackass, funny word
/r/seduction16/05/22 07:20 PM
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Yeah same lol I get all warmed up
/r/seduction14/05/22 07:00 PM
2

Listen to this guy OP, it doesn’t matter what you do
/r/seduction13/05/22 10:23 AM
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Gotcha. Honestly I prefer a little bit more direct but I like that it worked out for you. I want to work more on a connection. I think I’ll start doing more of a spontaneous thing and then if they’re cool I’ll ask them out
/r/seduction10/05/22 06:17 AM
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So on approach you usually just walk up to them and say “hi” or something that you notice about them or the surrounding right? I’ve done some direct approaches by telling them they’re cute but the numbers I’ve gotten they were either headed to class or at the library so I didn’t build enough connection
/r/seduction10/05/22 12:17 AM
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I need to practice my flirting through teasing and such. Also when you approach are you direct “hey I thought you looked cute”
/r/seduction09/05/22 10:37 PM
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Any tips for better conversation?
/r/seduction09/05/22 09:52 PM
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Meeet people in class, meet them playing basketball, meet them in clubs (probably will have to wait until next school year for this)
/r/seduction08/05/22 07:01 AM
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It can be anything but typically show intent so the girl knows why you’re there. “… thought you were cute”
/r/seduction27/04/22 12:53 AM
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monke!
/r/seduction26/04/22 01:57 PM
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And ur mother 😏
/r/seduction23/04/22 11:50 PM
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Is it because of personality or what?
/r/seduction22/04/22 02:04 AM
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Girls have a lot of people on their snaps. If she wanted to meet up she would have. Trust me just move on my guy
/r/seduction21/04/22 03:12 PM
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Okay will do hahah
/r/seduction20/04/22 01:00 PM
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Where to find these groups?
/r/seduction20/04/22 06:42 AM
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Yeah
/r/seduction19/04/22 05:28 PM
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Is it better to ask this girl from my class over the phone or in person when I see her
/r/seduction16/04/22 02:09 AM
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I see thanks. I think I’m gonna practice my social skills on everyone because I like learning more about people since everyone has their own unique story. It’s fun to see how different everyone is. At the same time tho this will also help me when approaching girls and how to communicate and make better connections with them. Good luck and thanks for making this begin to click for me!
/r/seduction10/04/22 11:57 PM
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I like this
/r/seduction10/04/22 06:24 PM
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To himself lol?
/r/seduction10/04/22 04:55 PM
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Okay I see thanks. I don’t think I’m gonna have worry about reputation then because I think I’m usually pretty socially calibrated in terms of cues and whether someone is uncomfortable or not, so I think it shouldn’t be too much of a problem. And that’s a great talking point I never knew it was from Argentina and about the tango dancers lol. I think it’s starting to click on how I can make deeper connections and not have to rely on the usual “what’s ur major” type questions. Thanks for the advic…
/r/seduction09/04/22 08:59 PM
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Approach at like the grocery store or something
/r/seduction09/04/22 06:11 AM
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Also what that video you linked, I actually did this today without realizing. I was in my writing class and I’ve noticed for the past few weeks this girl always has a Yerba mate in her hands. So I said “do you have an unlimited supply of those drinks?” and I proceeded to have like a 3 minute conversation with her and this other dude next to us. It was quite simple and I feel like doing this with my daygame will help a lot. Then again I also don’t want that reputation like I mentioned in my past …
/r/seduction09/04/22 01:15 AM
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Currently I’m meeting new girls through cold approach. Socially, I have a bunch of friends who are girls but a lot live at home and some aren’t here. I’ve actually only gotten one number out of the 3 approaches I did this week and that number was a ghost because I was on the phone with a friend. I told him this girl was cute and he said give her the phone I’ll wingman you. She left for water so I decided to do the front desk girl but he hung up because she wasn’t too attractive. I played it kind…
/r/seduction09/04/22 12:37 AM
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I’m starting to take advantage of this, in my early 20s in college right now.
/r/seduction07/04/22 10:32 PM
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Okay will do thanks for the resource
/r/seduction07/04/22 03:30 AM
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By close I meant number. And my opener is usually, “excuse me… I just saw you walk past me and I thought you looked cute so I had to come and say hi” then I ask for their name and a little bit about themselves. I feel like my opener should change to something that I notice about them, for example “I saw you and I thought you looked nice in your outfit and I had to say hi”. I’m still fairly new at game so I’m not too sure if it’s better to just do more approaches and then later move less into pre…
/r/seduction07/04/22 03:29 AM
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Do you think direct approach is better or should I also try to aim for natural conversation. This week closed 1/3 girls with direct approach. The other two had a thing and boyfriend but one of them complimented my confidence and said that nobody goes up to people anymore these days
/r/seduction06/04/22 11:38 PM
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I think you just need more time, just focus on yourself by doing your hobbies.
/r/seduction05/04/22 10:47 PM
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Same here
/r/seduction05/04/22 10:19 PM
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Yeah good she’s not worth your time, good luck brother
/r/seduction05/04/22 07:28 PM
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It seems like your too hung up on her. I would seriously consider moving on king, plenty of others out there. But if you do decide to send this manage your expectations because she may just leave you one read again
/r/seduction05/04/22 05:40 PM
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Have you been on a date yet?
/r/seduction05/04/22 05:32 PM
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Wait did you call because she didn’t respond to your message yet?
/r/seduction05/04/22 05:20 PM
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I think you should get off dating apps because women on there have a lot of abundance. What most guys don’t do is approach. Go do that and I guarantee you’ll get results
/r/seduction05/04/22 05:19 PM
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Okay yeah move on, she’s not worth your time
/r/seduction05/04/22 04:53 PM
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And she didn’t respond?
/r/seduction05/04/22 06:32 AM
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Yeah you said in the post that she commented on your posts saying ur funny. You should send her a video saying you want to hang out with her. If she doesn’t respond move on
/r/seduction05/04/22 05:19 AM
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And let’s say if you don’t do it, don’t beat yourself up over it. There’s always another girl :) But do it! Good luck
/r/seduction05/04/22 04:18 AM
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Yeah and to be honest a month ago I was in a similar position to you. But what changed my mindset was not caring about the outcome. You won’t die if you get rejected. Although we all will die one day so that’s a good motivation as well. Watch James Tusk on YouTube for some good day game content. Again, go approach her. Count to 3 if you need to and just start walking trust me it will be easy if you do that. Remember that approach anxiety is just you being excited, and you’re just having fun. You…
/r/seduction05/04/22 02:50 AM
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DM her again with a funny video saying you’d like to take her out for coffee or something. If she leaves you on read again ignore her she just wants attention and move on. Trust me there are so many others out there even if it doesn’t feel like it.
/r/seduction05/04/22 01:57 AM
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Don’t assume anything. Since you mentioned that your dm to her was just saying he wanna get coffee, she is less likely to respond because she doesn’t know you. It doesn’t matter if she followed you, it’s still important to have some sort of connection. Yesterday I approached a girl at the library, my friend was on the phone and I actually tried something funny since I’m just having fun and handed her the phone to which my friend asked her if she likes my type of boys. She looked up and said yes.…
/r/seduction05/04/22 01:54 AM
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Okay thank you!
/r/seduction03/04/22 02:44 PM
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Does oneitis mean focusing on one girl at a time cause I feel like this can get frustrating sometimes
/r/seduction03/04/22 05:46 AM
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Damn
/r/seduction28/03/22 02:08 AM
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Okay thank you
/r/seduction26/03/22 11:51 PM
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Practice makes perfect
/r/seduction26/03/22 07:52 PM
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Natural progression takes so long ahah. I just have to stay consistent and it’ll be worth it in the end
/r/seduction25/03/22 04:36 PM
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How many meals do you usually have? This sounds very similar to my diet honestly. I might pick up some low fat cottage cheese
/r/seduction25/03/22 04:35 PM
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Okay yeah makes sense thanks, I guess it’s just about consistency. Natural progression just takes so long haha
/r/seduction25/03/22 04:33 PM
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Oh okay, would I still continue to lose fat as long as I keep working out while eating cheese in my burrito for example
/r/seduction25/03/22 05:55 AM
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That’s what I use to make my smoothies lol but with chocolate whey
/r/seduction25/03/22 05:55 AM
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True, I’m trying lose fat so wouldn’t cheese be detrimental to that goal
/r/seduction25/03/22 03:59 AM
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What’s your diet like? I’m trying to reach my 150-180 protein per day but it can get difficult
/r/seduction25/03/22 03:26 AM
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Yeah drugs can be lethal with that dopamine blast
/r/seduction22/03/22 12:08 AM
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So no teachers, got it
/r/seduction21/03/22 06:18 PM
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Also forgot to mention but there was a comment in this post which had a bunch of examples on YouTube. Search up James Marshall. Also James Tusk is good too
/r/seduction21/03/22 09:06 AM
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I guess just look up some banter. For example, if she has long legs be like “excuse me I had just saw you walking with those pecky long legs, thought you looked nice and I had to come and say hi.” Or if she looks like she has fitness clothes on “you look like you’re ready to go on a marathon”
/r/seduction21/03/22 09:05 AM
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Sounds like you just need confidence. Practice and fake it if you need to. Pretend your with your friends when talking with these girls.
/r/seduction20/03/22 10:51 PM
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3 - Leonardo DiCaprio
/r/seduction20/03/22 04:48 PM
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Honestly that part cracks me up, how was she stammering lol
/r/seduction19/03/22 02:00 AM
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Uh, just meet her dude, she seems interested. Not sure what the bulge part was about, seems made up
/r/seduction19/03/22 01:27 AM
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Same
/r/seduction18/03/22 06:56 PM
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Yeah shouldn’t be wearing anything 😉
/r/seduction18/03/22 03:20 AM
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Facts lol
/r/seduction18/03/22 03:20 AM
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Just ask her to study over coffee
/r/seduction17/03/22 06:07 PM
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This right here
/r/seduction13/03/22 11:14 PM
2

Nice job OP, I hope to do this later on
/r/seduction13/03/22 08:41 PM
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Same, you’ll always be glad you at least tried than if you didn’t. Then you just get those what ifs
/r/seduction10/03/22 07:29 AM
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I haven’t in about 2 weeks and honestly I feel great. The urges are the tricky party but just feel them, don’t fight just observe your urges. Also it’s important to have something that helps you channel your energy. For me it has been the gym and I’ve been going at least 5 times a week lately
/r/seduction09/03/22 04:16 PM
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Oh okay thanks
/r/seduction05/03/22 11:16 PM
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Which James marshal video did you watch? I’ve seen some of them but I don’t remember him talking about approach anxiety
/r/seduction05/03/22 04:19 PM
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Okay yeah I just need to be back out there. I did one a month ago and I was scared shitless even though I knew nothing bad would happen to me. In the end she just had a boyfriend and she wished me good luck with finals
/r/seduction01/03/22 05:17 AM
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Yes thank you, I just need to get back out there. I did one a month ago when this girl was studying, and I tell you my heart was pounding as if I was getting chased by a pack of hyenas. She just said she had a boyfriend and wished me good luck with finals since we were talking about that. I need to stop listening to my inner voice for reasons not to approach
/r/seduction01/03/22 05:16 AM
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How do I get rid of this fear when I’m in a college environment. Do I build up by first approaching girls sitting down somewhere because im a little nervous to do it when they’re just walking
/r/seduction01/03/22 01:32 AM
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Okay I was thinking of approaching girls sitting at a bench or reading a book or something
/r/seduction28/02/22 08:04 AM
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Lmao I’m in university, also do you think it’s fine to approach girls when I’m just walking to class. How do I get rid of that others listening to me mentality
/r/seduction28/02/22 06:40 AM
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College campus and probably clubs
/r/seduction28/02/22 05:29 AM
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Okay makes sense thanks
/r/seduction25/02/22 05:18 PM
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Okay just confirming thanks. How do you get rid of that feeling that this girl was special or something. Is it just to talk to more women
/r/seduction25/02/22 07:15 AM
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Is the nice guy part where you lose yourself in pursuit of the girl and being available and stuff?
/r/seduction25/02/22 04:48 AM
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I agree with this, asking in person is better
/r/seduction25/02/22 03:44 AM
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Lol
/r/seduction25/02/22 02:42 AM
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That’s true. I’m a decent looking and this one time some girl dmed, it was weird because I was just being myself and making a sarcastic comment since the food was taking so long. Later that night I check Instagram and she found me lol. So women approach, but I think the majority are too scared
/r/seduction23/02/22 08:42 PM
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What would you say?
/r/seduction23/02/22 06:20 PM
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Okay sounds good thanks, I try to look at their profile to carry on conversations and such
/r/seduction22/02/22 06:07 PM
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How many messages do you send back and forth before you decide on a date
/r/seduction22/02/22 08:50 AM
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Ah gotcha, I’ll try this thanks
/r/seduction22/02/22 05:31 AM
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Text her a bit sooner don’t you think. 5 days might generate less interest and memory of you
/r/seduction22/02/22 05:06 AM
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Sounds like she’s interested man
/r/seduction17/02/22 05:25 AM
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Okay thank you for the feedback. I feel like I’m trying a little too hard to be unique which probably hurt my chances
/r/seduction15/02/22 06:53 AM
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Don’t let this get you down. Honestly this happened to me as well but it has nothing to do with who you are as a person. Online dating is kind of crap, but I would just treat it as a tool on the side. Cold approaching will be hard in the beginning but you’ll get better as you do more. It’s important to not focus on the outcome of the interaction. The worst that can happen is the girl will say no. Also remember that you’re deciding whether you actually like the girl or not. I would look up James …
/r/seduction15/02/22 05:40 AM
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Okay I’ll work on that thanks for the feedback
/r/seduction14/02/22 08:53 PM
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Okay thanks for your help!
/r/seduction14/02/22 07:56 AM
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Okay I understand thanks, I’ll keep that in mind I appreciate the feedback.
/r/seduction14/02/22 05:13 AM
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Ah okay I see what you mean, thanks. I’m usually good at creating banter but I find it difficult to move that conversation into a date. I’ll do what you said about focusing on me and her after two or three back and forths. Thanks again I appreciate it Also any tips on creating a social circle? I have friends but none of them really party. The ones that do are in a fraternity which they asked me to join but I can’t afford the fees, also those guys and I aren’t that close.
/r/seduction14/02/22 05:07 AM
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I see thanks for the tips! Here’s my last conversation which ended up in a ghost: https://imgur.com/a/6hOknsd I responded to that last text by saying “it sounds like you’re just trying to use me 😧” Any feedback on this conversation? I feel like I might just have to cold approach
/r/seduction14/02/22 04:47 AM
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I usually try to find something that they have on their profile and add humor. Here’s an example: https://imgur.com/a/6hOknsd After that last text I said “it sounds like your just trying to use me 😧” Also yeah I’m not too sure how to make a social circle with people who throw down a lot, I have friends but they don’t really party too much.
/r/seduction14/02/22 04:44 AM
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I have a possible date next weekend, but its taken me quite a few matches to get there. Maybe I need to update one or two of my least favorite photos on the app. But yeah I think I’m gonna try to coke approach. I’m in college, do I just not give a crap if someone overhears what I’m doing, it’s a college with 35k students but I keep having these what if scenarios lol
/r/seduction14/02/22 04:08 AM
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It’s easier if you somewhat know the person or maybe know someone who knows them.
/r/seduction14/02/22 04:05 AM
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How many messages would you say? I’m on hinge and I’ve gotten ghosted a lot, but some of them the conversation is just starting out. Also do you do small talk?
/r/seduction14/02/22 04:04 AM
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Ah yes the old distraction technique. I like it. One time I just told the girl random nutrition facts
/r/seduction13/02/22 08:11 PM
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Did you run away?
/r/seduction13/02/22 07:31 PM
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Okay will do thanks
/r/seduction04/01/22 11:25 PM
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When you approach what’s the first thing you say? And I noticed before that after my an initial approach im happy I did it and want to do more
/r/seduction04/01/22 06:24 PM
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Yeah that’s a mindset to have because I’m not trying to go for a girl who’s attractive but just not interesting to even talk to lol. I also notice that after I do an initial approach, even if I sound nervous as shit I always feel better that I actually did it and it makes me wanna go and do more approaches
/r/seduction04/01/22 06:22 PM
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Bro how do I stop being a nervous when talking during approaches, is it just more practice. I’ve done just a few so far after a long time
/r/seduction04/01/22 07:45 AM
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Confidence comes from being comfortable with yourself. First find out what you don’t like about yourself. Then cross off things you can change such as height, skin color, eye color (although contacts exist lol), etc Then find out how to improve things you don’t like about yourself. But know that your good enough, even right now. You have a lot to offer!
/r/seduction02/01/22 06:23 AM
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