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negative iq rebuttal. People form movements all the time even when the status quo is largely on their side regardless. I said people are LESS likely to form movements when the status quo is on their side, not that they wouldn't attempt a movement altogether. Reading is fundamental. Mind you, your counting of what qualifies as a hate group on reddit alone is rather generous towards women. No bias here, of course lol. There are certain women-centric subreddits here that I would absolutely consider…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:32 AM
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People are less likely to form/join underground movements when the status quo is already on their side. Since misandry is rampant in mainstream culture and is accepted if not encouraged, no shit there are less man-hate groups. Because that's something that's already done openly. Your entire argument falls apart once that is taken into account.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:03 PM
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There was a question on AskReddit about a year or so ago for women that dealt with inceldom and why a man might struggle to get laid. By far the most upvoted comment in that thread was "he must be a bad person". By far. And the most common replies were pretty much all in that vein. So ummm yeah, women are telling men this. Heck, you ask any women to this day what she wants in a guy and it will still be "kind, respectful, considerate, funny, emotionally intelligent blah blah blah". It's not that …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:52 PM
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Aptly put and certainly fits all my experience with casual sex. Women almost always want more and the reason is obvious. Their standards for casual sex alone is so high that if you meet that threshold, it's very likely that you'll meet a lot of other thresholds too. I got divorced a few years ago and have a 30+ n count since. Of those 30+, I'd say 90% of them wanted more than just "casual" with me whereas for me that number was somewhere close to 10%. Men's comparatively far higher desire for se…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:46 AM
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Usually the type of guy who would wait a long time for sex is the type women wouldn't be attracted to begin with lol. Glad it worked out for you though. Men with options wouldn't really put up with this, no matter how much they like the girl.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/26 02:09 AM
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If most men you are receptive towards are only interested in casual, chances are very high you are shooting out of your league. Men have incredibly low standards for sex, but have little to no interest in pursuing something of substance with someone they perceive to be of lower value than them. Go after a looksmatch (or god forbid, an inferior) and watch how much different things will be.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/25 11:27 AM
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As a guy in my 30's who joined OLD post-divorce in 2022 and has slept with about 30 women since, this is simply not what I have observed at all. I'm not Chad and majority of the women I was fucking were as basic as they come, yet literally all of them were out in the market having consistent casual sex. Here's the catch though, most of these women were seeking relationships, but those are generally hard to come by and until they actually found one, majority of the women I was dealing with had 0 …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 06:30 PM
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This doesn't refute what I said. It says 61% of men are currently looking for a relationship or dates compared to 38% of women. "Or dates". The article doesn't specify what % of that 61% is looking for a relationship and what % is just looking for dates. For all we know, majority are just seeking casual dates to get laid. Men are the far, far hornier gender. They're always going to be more present in the dating market to satiate their libido. The same article also has this to say: Women daters a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 12:02 AM
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Meh. Nothing I've seen tells me men at any age desire a relationship more than women do. And I wouldn't even consider it close.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 09:03 PM
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Women are deluding themselves if they think genuine male/female friendships actually exist. If he's trying to hang out with you 1-on-1 or texting you consistently, he's not trying to be your friend. Men simply don't see the value in exclusive female company if the end goal isn't sex. Male/female "friendships" only work in the context of school/work/group gatherings where you're obligated to be around each other and socialization is inevitable. But any attempts at socialization outside of that co…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 05:48 PM
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This has to be a joke 😆😆 You don't sit behind a screen and then get to proclaim what people look like. End of story. More importantly, even if most men here are average/decent looking, how the F do you know it's their PeRSoNaliTY holding them back? You don't. And of course, the ridiculous assertion here being that women are sooooo reasonable, that they're indeed clamoring for average looking men, but men are just shooting themselves in the foot by being awkward/misogynistic weirdos. This persona…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:09 PM
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You have no idea what people in here look like. It's a baseless assumption on your part. More importantly, in the age of dating apps, being decent/average looking goes absolutely nowhere. 😆 @ also insinuating it's just ugly men who struggle with dating. God, women truly are deluded when it comes to the male plight. As long as women continue to deny the importance of looks for anything else to even matter, men will keep harping on it. And no, being "decent" looking will get you nowhere with most …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 02:45 PM
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Of course OP only lists non-physical attributes when describing what makes someone unattractive lol And no, nobody's saying non-physical attributes aren't a big fucking deal, but they are largely irrelevant if you don't possess the attributes that get your foot in the door (looks).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 02:27 PM
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Turns out she didn't fuck him after all because he was handsome/tall/fit/confident. It was his maNiPuLaTioN!!!!1 The lengths women will go to absolve themselves of any perceived shallowness and accountability will never stop being hilarious. I joined dating apps in 2022 and have an n-count of 30 since. I had 0 intentions of pursuing something of substance with majority of those women, communicated those intentions to them and somehow they all still gladly spread their legs for me. 0 "games" and …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 09:11 PM
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Ok, I scrolled across your post history for a little bit and noticed that you're a Muslim (I am too). Given the strict nature of our religion and the culture Muslim girls are brought up in, your experiences may vastly differ from the average non-muslim girl. I guarantee you, here in the western world, shy/awkward girls aren't lacking in dating options as long as they are not ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 09:30 PM
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Ahh yes, the phenomena called feminism lol. When you've been brainwashed for 50+ years on how men have been reaping all of society's benefits by trampling on women for centuries, all empathy (and common sense) goes out the window. In reality, 99% of women would become downright suicidal if they got to experience the average man's dating life for a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 09:00 PM
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The shy/awkward women I've known IRL that struggled with dating were almost all very unattractive. Otherwise anyone who looked AT least decent never had any issues. Some of these girls could barely hold a conversation for more than a minute and even they were regularly in LTRs. The traits that accompany shyness/awkwardness is usually low confidence, lack of assertiveness and a timid nature. Are those attributes a turnoff to most men? I'd say no. If anything, provided they find the girl attractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 08:39 PM
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39 year old brown Indian guy here with an n-count of 25 since joining dating apps in mid-2022 after my divorce. I would consider myself a 6/10 and maybe a 7 on a really, really good day. All my notches came via American dating apps (mainly tinder), where on a scale of 10 I'd say the woman I f'd ranged between 3-5 with the rare 6+ thrown in. I'd say on average I got about 1-2 matches per week on tinder/bumble. Usually from women whose attractiveness was well below mine. Here's the catch though, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:38 PM
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😆😆😆 @ anyone saying feminism is about "equality"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 05:53 PM
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But it's not just the lower rung men dreaming about virgins. Even the upper level men are and I don't get that at all. They clearly have never actually been with a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 03:10 AM
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Every virgin I've ever been with was a massive turnoff both in bed and outside of it. They're just....lame, for lack of a better word. There absolutely is something off about them. RP's obsession with virginity is misguided to say the least. It only works in theory, but the actual reality is she's a complete lame-o and if you're a man with any experience, she'll absolutely turn you off. There's a happy medium between virgin and hoe. Find that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 02:24 AM
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Can speak from experience that women DO take great offense to a male friend/acquaintance not desiring them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 10:39 PM
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I've never been home and thought "you know what would make this better? Another person being here....all the time". I can easily have a g/f, fwb, fb or some good ol' companionship without cohabitating or having my entire life tied to them. Marriage is absolutely not worth giving up my peace, my solitude, my freedom and my money. I actually was married for a few years and all it taught me was how much I hated having someone always around. How much I hated having to make every decision with them i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:07 AM
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😆 @ the notion that the gender that can't get a single date "overestimates" itself....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:23 AM
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It's called testosterone and men have 18 to 20 times more of it. Pretty much all of dating can be answered by that one metric. Men are just infinitely more horny and will gladly fuck down.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 08:17 PM
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A 30+ year old virgin woman is a massive turnoff, if anything. Men's obsession with virginity is weird. It sounds good in theory, but no guy with experience would want a virgin in bed. They are lame. There's a happy medium between virgin and hoe. Find that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:07 AM
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When 250+ lb landwhales are swimming in 1000+ likes while most men are struggling to get a single match, then you know dating apps fucked up the whole market. All we have now is women with a severely inflated sense of self chasing something they'll never get anything substantial from, whereas men are relegated to desperately sift through scraps.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 06:56 PM
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Trump got nearly 50% of the female vote. Plenty of bitches to fuck still, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 05:01 AM
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I've never understood this. I have recorded myself often over the years while having sex (with the girl's consent) and the video has never deviated much from what I see in porn. Makeout initially, suck tits, eat 😺&🍑 and fuck her doggy or occasionally missionary. That's literally 90% of porn. I don't know wtf ya'll doing....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 05:35 PM
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I did and gave you the appropriate response Calling looks "first important" and not "most" is asinine when most men get rejected on the basis of looks. If most men were swimming in likes/matches on OLD and comfortably getting dates through in-person approaches, then maybe we could entertain 'personality' as the most important attribute in dating. But that's NOT happening, is it? Thus making it very apparent that LOOKS is where women find men most lacking. And the fact that women continue to deny…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:38 PM
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Wrong The single MOST important thing is getting your foot in the door. Nothing else matters until you get your foot in the door. And the only thing that gets your foot in the door is LOOKS. For the faaaar majority of women, most men can't even get past this threshold (hello OLD). That's the basis most men are getting rejected on first, not personality. Thus, having looks is the single most important attribute one needs to possess for anything good to happen in dating. This isn't even getting in…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:20 PM
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Except looks are the MOST important thing. Personality only becomes relevant AFTER you pass the looks threshold. Denying this fact is the definition of downplaying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:58 PM
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Big time reality and more common than ever today due to dating apps and women's inflated sense of self. Since majority are chasing a small minority, most men are left with nothing but scraps. Almost every guy attractive enough to get laid has engaged in "slumpbusters", myself included. And OP's description couldn't be more accurate. I would personally call them "convenient holes". They are someone you call upon when extremely horny and maybe lacking in options because....well, they are convenien…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:33 PM
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There are channels on YT that have done this experiment and it went exactly as you think it did. The attractive girl would barely get any matches (after paying for numerous boost features) and of the few she would get, the conversation would go nowhere. Mind you, this experiment would yield the same result no matter what type of girl was using the average guy's profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:46 PM
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Short hair is an instant left swipe for me on dating apps and I'd imagine for a lot of men. Dressing like a butch lesbian (oversized, baggy clothing all around).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 12:20 AM
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"All men just want sex" cries literally every women out there who's single or stuck in a rut of FWBs, fuck buddies and situationships. Let's provide some nuance to her struggles though. Yes, all men do want sex, but sex is all they want ONLY when dealing with women beneath them. ONLY. Women will hear this and say but-how-do-you-determine-she-is-beneath-you. Men simply don't have the luxury of having an overinflated sense of self. They are realists by nature and in a sexual market place that is s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:06 PM
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That's basically online dating for men 😆. Most likes/matches you do get will be women 2-3 points below your SMV and will have you contemplating if she's even worth fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 07:28 PM
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The collapsing marriage rates and the high % of single men tells me men are NOT committing down. From an anecdotal standpoint too I rarely, if ever, see a couple where I go what-is-he-doing-with-her? Men are certainly desperate for sex and will gladly fuck down, but those girls don't end up getting any g/f-benefits. They are usually just a booty call.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 12:54 AM
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I don't think any man is pretending finding a relationship is easy for women on dating apps. Unlimited attention and options for sex? Sure, and since most men don't get even 1% of that, they are going to lack empathy. I will say this though, the odds of women finding a relationship on dating apps would increase tenfold if they simply swiped on men actually on their level (or god forbid, a little below their level). Men have 0 interest in pursuing something of substance with matches that are cons…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 09:58 PM
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It's not just Chads. This applies to any guy fucking someone less attractive than him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 06:50 PM
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Here's a telling experiment I've ran with at least 20 hookups/fwbs that always reaffirmed hypergamy. I'm a 6/10 guy with an n-count of about 20-25 women through dating apps over the past 2 years. The women all ranged between 3-5 on a scale of 10. This is what I would do with every single one of them when we'd hang out. I'd tell her to open up her dating app and I'd do the same and we would both swipe together. Always a fun activity. Now, remember, the women I'm banging are all 3-5's, so you know…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:31 AM
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Bro, it's over. We have all been where you are, but the hardest pill you learn to swallow as a guy is knowing that she is really over you. And unlike men, women will get over you. Fast. Get better and go find somebody else you really like. It won't be easy and you'll continue missing your ex, but it's the only solution. Do not contact her again. She obviously doesn't care and it's just further self humiliation for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/24 02:24 PM
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Nah. Plenty of women pass the fuck-threshold but brutally fail the dating/girlfriend threshold because of their looks. Men indeed will fuck anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:26 PM
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As someone who fucked a few "landwhales" (around 225 lbs) off tinder over the past couple of years, they showed me their account and I kid you not, literally every single one of them had 1000+ likes. This is not a myth. Fat women can get laid on command and with significantly better looking men than them. They easily have more options for casual sex than Chad does.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:24 PM
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Zero accountability once again lol Yep, no woman is an entitled bum off her own accord, it's those lazy men who pushed her that way!! 😆😆 I must be daydreaming when I run into countless women who have never cohabited in their life that prescribe to the Sprinkle Sprinkle mindset. In fact, I don't know 1 woman, regardless of age or relationship experience, that doesn't wanna be financially taken care of by a man. The younger they are, the more prevalent this mindset is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 12:36 AM
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There's nothing traditional about Sprinkle Sprinkle women. They are opportunists who cling to tradition only when it's convenient to them. Mind you, same applies to lib feminist 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 12:27 AM
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Provider mindset lol More like sugar daddy mindset for goldiggers
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 12:12 AM
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Nice strawman These poor ol' Sprinkle Sprinkle bums are just asking men to pay for the first date, that's all. No other outrageous demands in those videos, yeah 😆😆
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 12:06 AM
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So the way to attract men with a "provider mindset" is to be an entitled bitch? Sprinkle Sprinkle is completely built on GO FOR THE STARS, GIRL. YOU DESERVE IT. FUCK HIM. Their demands are not remotely built on realism, which you seem to be ignoring. This isn't a case oh-these-sweet-women-are-just-looking-for-a-good-man-who-can-provide. These women are basically looking for sugar daddies. Nowhere in these videos have I ever seen women talk about how they need to present themselves to be taken se…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 11:23 PM
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Holy excuses, Batman 😆😆 Women asking for the moon and the stars on the first date or during the early stages of 2 people talking has NOTHING to do with them "anticipating unpaid future labor" and everything to do with being a spoiled, entitled bum. They just don't want to pull their weight period
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 10:30 PM
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Nothing sweeter than seeing how riled up women get about Tate 😆😆😆
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 09:52 PM
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Lol can anyone read a single post on twoxchromosomes and not picture a 225 lb, blue haired whale? It's literally a place for femcels to congregate and hate men. What did you expect....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:04 AM
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Red flags in terms of personality/past are definitely part of being fuck-zoned too. But I don't think 7+ women continue seeing that 1 man for long. Nor does he himself want the headache. Both parties will move on. But when a girl is being fucked by 1 guy for a prolonged period and that's all she's getting, that means the guy doesn't mind her company but more so doesn't find her attractive enough to progress the relationship past sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:26 PM
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This is generally what's going on: Fuck zoned/fwb/situationship? 99% chance she isn't attractive enough to date, just passable enough for sex Wants to date multiple women? He's not that into you and thus keeping his options open. A guy who genuinely digs a girl would never jeopardize the relationship by verbalizing his intent to see other girls or admitting to seeing other girls. Relationship doesn't progress beyond merely dating? Never forget, men value peace and freedom above everything else i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:28 AM
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Every guy who has ever rejected a woman knows how utterly terrible they are at it. Not only are they the most petulant little bitch in the short term, but also basically take that shit to their grave. Women's egos are a bazillion times more fragile than men's.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 06:54 PM
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There's a reason why the RP and manosphere rose in popularity. This is it right here. 50+ years of blatant misandry wasn't going to go unchecked forever. And then women have the gall to feign shock over men's response.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:21 PM
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It doesn't just apply to unattractive women. It applies to any woman messing around with a guy at least 2 points higher than her. She's not going to get a relationship out of it. All women need to know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:25 PM
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Women of all ages conflate their RMV with their SMV, not just young women. There's no shortage of older women (35+) out there who can get sex on command from far more attractive men, yet remain clueless about why none of 'em display the slightest interest in dating/committing. And no, women actually haven't been told the REAL reason why men just want to fuck. The videos on tiktok/social media is a very recent development and not something most women have been privy to in their lives. The reason …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:49 AM
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I'm not giving an opinion. I'm telling you my experience with a wide variety of women. The 30-something women of today who desperately crave a relationship/marriage/kids were all singing a different tune in their early 20's too. It's naive to think people's priorities stay the same as they get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:02 AM
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Eh <25 women are still in their party/fun years. I don't think their opinion is of much relevance. They'll all change once they get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 01:51 AM
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My personal experience has been quite different from this. I (38m) got divorced about 2 years ago and have either messed around or been on dates with about 30 different women since. I'm not remotely exaggerating when I say this, but literally every single one of them badly wanted to be in a relationship. Like, zero exceptions. They all wanted a man in their life and were generally miserable about not having one. Obviously, when I say man, I don't mean hookups or fwb. All women can easily attain …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 01:47 AM
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Men who don't desire causal sex are almost always men who don't have the ability to attain it. And when you haven't dealt with women in that capacity, you're bound to have a Disney-ish view of intersexual dynamics. It's always going to be centered around romance. I'm a guy in my late 30's who has engaged in various hoe phases in my life and casual sex remains exciting as ever. It's anything but easy, but conquering new pussy and the ego boost from it will always be invaluable. You're also gettin…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:02 PM
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To me it would imply you actually have decent long-term dating options out there but have chosen not to indulge. I don't think either gender is ever really single by choice. They just can't attract the person they actually desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:18 PM
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I've seen 250+ lb landwhales swimming in 1000+ likes on tinder. A woman doesn't need to be "average" to have more sexual options than a male celebrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 10:46 PM
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No man out there is saying a woman he fucked only caught feelings because he lied to her 😆 Any guy with decent experience with casual sex knows sex is always emotional for women. What you told her in order to attain it is not really relevant. She will always want more.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:59 PM
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Because me and literally every other guy has had the same experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:44 PM
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What I'm saying is whether he's being manipulative or not is irrelevant. Women are going to catch feelings regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:30 PM
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Holy cope, Batman! 😆 I'm as honest as it gets when pursuing sex and literally every single one of those women caught feelings/wanted something more beyond the deed. This is simple biology. Has nothing to do with manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:21 PM
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I'm good as long as she can support herself
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 10:22 PM
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Men's lack of standards only applies to sex. As in, a guy who's a 7 will happily fuck a 4. But that's all she's getting. Men are just as hypergamous as women when it comes to relationships. That 7 guy ain't committing to anything below a 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 10:01 PM
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Women who are financially independent/have their shit together. No bigger turnoff than a woman looking for you to bail her out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 09:55 PM
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Literally everything you're saying - posture, grooming, eyewear, clothes - all of it falls under just "looks". It's all physical appearance. None of this is some intangible quality that can only be picked upon in person. Which brings me to my point again - OLD is all looks - yet men still can't find any likes/matches from an actual looksmatch. It's always women beneath them. So I'm not buying the whole ooooh-men-and-women-judge-SMV-differently-thus-your-looksmatch-is-not-interested-in-you-in-rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:31 AM
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I expanded more in my response to your LaBeouf post.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:41 AM
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The LeBeouf pic comparison makes 0 sense. Remember, this entire topic is about LOOKSMATCH. So find me 2 pics of LeBeouf where he LOOKS the same but is better in one of 'em due to "rizz/swag/sexiness/vibe/frame/presence. Not a random out-of-focus pic where he's clearly not glammed up in any way to a bunch of pics where he's clearly ready. That is not remotely an apples to apples comparison. Moving on, your initial post was entirely about how men and women judge SMV differently. I said OK, fine, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:19 AM
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Men generally aren't complaining about how <looksmatch girl> got to know him a little bit and then rejected him. Their observation is usually that he wasn't even on her radar. How she wasn't even interested in talking to him. Your theory also doesn't translate to online dating at all, where personality is a non factor and looks+quality of pics are the be all end all. Literally every guy will attest to matching ONLY with women beneath him in physical attractiveness. How do we explain that? You'd …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 02:45 AM
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Ummm wanting her to be self sufficient is "worst case scenario"? How low are your standards lol And the argumemt was never whether she can support you. Nobody is looking for that. It's whether you'd be OK dating a woman who's financially a bum. I'm not and when it comes to relationships, neither would a lot of men who aren't making a shit ton. This is where the RP gets it wrong. Yes, men will fuck anything, but relationships are a different story. If I'm on a date and I find out she's either une…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:00 AM
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That's what I mean by can-she-take-care-of-herself. As in, can she afford her lifestyle without somebody helping her out? Or does she need me to pay her car bill/credit card/student loans etc. I'm a completely self sufficient guy in my 30's, divorced and have 0 interest in cohabitation again. So when I'm seeing a girl, she better be able to take care of herself. And I think this would be the attitude of most men who make average to above average money. Even if they plan on living with her, they …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 07:50 PM
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As long as she can support herself, I don't care how much she makes. But if she can't support herself, or is unemployed and is basically looking for a guy to bail her out, then no. There's no bigger turnoff than a lazy/entitled woman. One of the biggest myths perpetuated by the RP is how men don't care about women's money. They don't care if only looking to smash/fwb, but guess what, the average guy doesn't make that much and if he's looking for something of substance with a girl, he definitely …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:25 PM
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Places like Twoxchromosomes and FDS would cease to exist if you needed a photo ID to post there lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:44 AM
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No shit being single is a lot easier when sexual validation is always on tap (thanks to the far greater male sex drive). And make no mistake, that is the ONLY reason why women are comparatively more content being single. Take away her daily compliments, all the dating app likes/matches, the easily available dates/casual sex and then me tell how much joy she finds simply in "friends, family and community" 😆😆😆
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 01:03 AM
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The fact that the #1 reason women STILL cite for someone being an incel is how they must be a "bad person" is pretty direct endorsement of women advocating "being nice" to get laid. And this is something men have been told for eternity. Turns out it's all BS. Being nice doesn't mean shit without also being 1) physically attractive and 2) possessing at least above average social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 12:58 AM
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It means I'm gonna go talk to someone else. Not wasting my time working for something others didn't have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:18 AM
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Women swipe on less than 5% of profiles on dating apps. I don't think men are overestimating anything 😆. Women have spoken loud and clear - they find the majority of men UNATTRACTIVE. As far as women thinking men only want models are concerned, why in GOD'S name would they think that when even women who look like nothing aren't lacking in attention. An obese 40 year old will be swimming in 1000s of likes on tinder and will have 0 trouble getting attention even outside of social media. Your state…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:44 AM
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It's not. Game is basically social calibration. Not spouting off a bunch of lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:58 PM
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Ummm RP doesn't advocate for any pickup stuff. RP promotes money, muscles and game. More so the latter 2 if the goal is to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:28 PM
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I'd say around 50% constantly downplay the importance of looks in men's dating success, which is a very significant amount. How do you not see women constantly attributing "being a bad person" to male sexlessness? It's all over the net.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:12 PM
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Not the vast majority, no, but a significant amount, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:06 PM
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I didn't say they say it all the time, but it's still an annoyingly frequent occurrence. Particularly on non-pill related dating forums.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:04 PM
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Ummm no, a lot of women DO say something exactly of that sort. Especially on other dating-related boards.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:58 PM
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You'd think it would be maximizing your physical appearance, but all too often I still see women spewing absolute garbage about how looks don't really matter and it's more about your personality. I don't think there's anything all pills agree on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:45 PM
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Myron from the infamous Fresh and Fit podcast is so obsessed with leverage and the girl being dependent on him at all times, that this is generally what he advocates on his podcast. His main girl today is a bland, pretty girl who can barely string together a coherent sentence in English. Basically is his secretary. The whole thing is a massive turn off. Men certainly don't care for fancy degrees or boss babes, but I think we all do care about work ethic, functional intelligence and some level of…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/24 06:03 PM
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I don't see why the behavior of millions of women should be discounted simply because it's taking place online. It's 2024. Everybody is living some aspect of their life online. Dating in particular. How women think, feel and act on this massive platform is very relevant because not only does it effect men, it's also a humongous sample size. Literally millions of women. Women got so used to the decades long and ongoing women-are-wonderdul propaganda that pointing out any unflattering behavior on …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:29 AM
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I honestly don't see any couples out n about where the guy is notably more attractive than the girl. Heck, I barely even see any couples where the guy is more attractive than the girl. Those girls just get fucked behind closed doors and that's all they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 02:52 AM
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Lol women are NOT "getting" men above them for anything beyond sex. Pumped and dumped. Men will fuck anything. "Getting" somebody means actually dating them or being in a relationship. Men don't do that with women beneath them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 02:00 AM
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Ummm for sex, yeah, but for relationships men are absolutely looking for someone they consider to be on their own level. They are not going to commit otherwise. Men do have a much better grasp of what their level is though. This is where they differ from women. A guy who is a 5 will be more than content with a 4-6 girl. Most women on the other hand, be it casual or long term, are generally shooting for men at least 2 points higher than themselves. This is where the desire gap between the 2 gende…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 10:22 PM
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PNC simply means you no longer have any sexual desire. But having sexual desire doesn't mean you are performing other tasks less optimally. That's not how horny works. Being horny simply makes you more aggressive in pursuing your nut when opportunity arises. You are more inclined to talk/text girls, masturbate etc. But it won't impact your ability to have a perfectly productive day at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:42 PM
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That guy they actually desire is a small % of man and usually well above her league. It's literally the perfect example of women's comparatively low libido. Imagine for a second if men only desired casual sex from 7+ women 😆😆. The entire world as we know it would cease to exist. This notion that women are more content than men being single due to friends/family/hobbies/career is the biggest piece of horse shit I have ever heard. It has nothing to do with that and everything to do with simple bio…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:52 PM
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I think the general reason women tend to feel less lonely than men is because i believe that most women don’t have an inherent desire to be in a romantic relationship as much as men do. The gender with 1/10th the libido and 10x the dating options has less inherent desire for romance? OMG whodathunkit?????
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:47 PM
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The LVM most likely still has equivalent/higher value than the LVW though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:17 AM
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Facts This is also just common sense. We all know in a casual setting, women only fuck UP. So they are rarely ever having sex just for the sex alone. The sex will almost always be with a guy they consider a 'catch'. And naturally, the goal is to turn this 'catch' into an actual partner. And when that doesn't happen, it becomes a "situationship". Women are masters at coddling their ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 04:38 AM
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This, basically
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 08:48 PM
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Just purely from an anecdotal standpoint I haven't experienced this at all. I have been with about 25 women through dating apps over the past year and literally every single one of them badly wanted a relationship. And were generally miserable about being single. Now, are they as miserable as single/sexless men? I highly doubt it because 1) women are nowhere near as horny as men 2) because of reason #1, single women can find male companionship with the blink of an eye. It may not be their dream …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 08:07 PM
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When women hear muscles they're picturing a roided up freak who's about to compete in Mr Olympia 🙄 99% of women have 0 concept of the amount of work and dedication required to build even a decent physique, much less a good one. The fit guy who ALL women like and don't think is "that big" has been busting his ass in the gym for years. In a social setting, be it work, the streets, store or a bar/club, the ONLY men i ever see getting attention are the ones who clearly work out. The physical attribu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 08:29 PM
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We are talking about real life, not porn. MILF always referred to older women, as in 35+ at least, who are attractive. Why the fuck would we come up with an entirely new term to define <30 year old women?? That makes no sense. Those are just regular hot women. The entire point of MILF is to highlight the fact the attractive woman in question is an OLDER woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 09:00 PM
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You can't redefine MILF lol. MILF has always meant an older woman who's attractive. Being a mom actually has nothing to do with it. It's all about your age.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 08:46 PM
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A MILF is an older woman (35+ at least) who's still attractive. What you're talking about is just a young hottie who happens to be a mom. "MILF" wasn't coined for those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 08:26 PM
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Right, but OP isn't talking about late 20's women when referring to MILFs. He's talking about the 35+ crowd and those women simply cannot compete with younger women when it comes to facial beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:01 PM
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Notice how OP doesn't talk about FACE anywhere here 😆 I do believe strictly from a below-the-neck standpoint, women can retain their sex appeal for a very, very long time (provided she doesn't completely let go). Pornhub released their stats for 2023 recently and MILF was once again the most searched term. Men do dig that curvy mom bod + attainability factor older women have. But I don't think it extends beyond purely sex. When it comes to atttaction beyond just sex, facial aesthetics reign supr…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:51 PM
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Once you become attractive enough to attain casual sex/fwb, relationships/marriage simply don't seem worth it. Life is so much better without having to take every step of your life keeping another person(s) in mind. Sounds harsh but women can be a massive drain on your freedom, finances and mental health, with very little upside (kids to take care of you in old age is honestly the only upside). Yes, that includes the "right" women too, because honeymoon periods are short and relationships requir…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:54 PM
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Nice strawman lol. Literally nobody's telling women to "settle" for an inferior. Nobody. People just want women to have the common sense to go for someone on her own level, which most women seem incapable of doing. That is why they are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 07:18 AM
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Women stuck in deadbedroom doesn't necessarily mean the man has a low libido. Sex with the same person gets old fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 07:55 PM
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This would hold some merit if those 80%'s "more effort" actually put them on the same level as those 20%. But we all know that's not remotely close to being true. Majority of those 80% wouldn't be pursuing equals in this set up. They are chasing men who are either physically more attractive or socioeconomically more attractive. In most cases, it's both. Hypergamy is a bitch. So this isn't a case of oh-only-men-in-the-top-20% measure up to these women. It's more a case of male libido allowing wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:12 AM
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Most women don't chase men though, not really. For 80% of women to be chasing men would be an interesting dynamic in dating, especially given how much men complain here about having to pursue. You are taking "chasing" too literally. "Chasing" implies 80% of women are receptive to the advances of certain level of men only. Or they might swipe right on a very small % of men online. The impact on men would be the same - pursuing to date and ignoring the rest of men or actually dating them - that me…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:15 AM
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The red pillers that constantly spout this belief that 80% of women date the top 20% men” have no idea how the real world works. You are misconstruing what they said. The statement goes, 80% of women are chasing the top 20% of men. Not that they're all actually dating 'em, but that's what they are chasing and claim to be attracted to. There's no shortage of data that supports this. If anything, 20% seems quite generous if we look at online dating. It's more like 90% are chasing the top 5-10%.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:54 AM
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lol any woman who needs $$$$ to look good was never attractive to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:18 PM
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Don't take femcel so literally. It's basically an euphemism for bottom of the barrel women. And I said average WOMEN aren't on reddit whining about relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:22 PM
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No such thing as an average woman posting on reddit discussing relationships lol. You are most likely a borderline femcel. Used as a cum rag by desperate men and that's the extent of it. Keep dreaming that somebody wants to live with you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:13 PM
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Good, go ahead. You don't sound like someone who any man would want to live with anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:04 PM
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Lol nahhh On a scale of 10 men's dating difficulties are a 9 while women's a 3. Their lives aren't remotely similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 05:14 PM
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People will shit on other people for acting shitty. It's not gender specific. The "nice guys" subreddit is literally dedicated to hating on men for having any type of dating-related opinion, preference or boundary. Because, as you know, being a man inherently means you have dark motives and don't deserve to have a say on any matter that also involves women in some capacity. It's just a place to hate men, nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 10:24 PM
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Dudebro content: not about dating specifically, but definitely about obtaining sex. And none of them say men "deserve" sex simply for being men. Or that they are precious beings that women should cherish. The message always is, if you want sex, then work on yourself and go earn it. Religious content: There are so many religious books I was subjected to that taught about how all a man needs to do is be a good Christian/Muslim/Jewish/Whatever boy and God will assign him a wife, and those same book…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 09:51 PM
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I just browsed through the first page and nowhere do I see men talking about what they "deserve". It's mostly venting over dating struggles and women's actions rarely ever matching their words. lol @ referencing that male-hating shithole of a subreddit btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 09:28 PM
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I don't follow a lot of female centric channels, but I feel like most of the ones who would do that are responding to the male ones saying the reverse. There's not one dating-centric male channel that promotes this line of thinking. Nor do men think that on an individual basis. Only women ever talk about what they "deserve" and I don't know why you are acting like it's news. We have countless data out there that paints how selective women are. It's only common sense that the ridiculously picky g…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 09:10 PM
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The more physically capable gender is always going to be more violent, irregardless of context. Men are much more violent against other men anyway. In the context of relationships, women are actually most violent if we look at stats for domestic violence (with lesbians being the worst offenders). When it comes to entitlement in a romantic setting though, I never, ever see men talk the way women do. With women, it's always about how she "deserves" the moon and the stars simply for existing. You w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 07:57 PM
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I never, ever see men talk about "deserving" anything when it comes to dealing with the opposite sex. They do vent a lot about how hard dating is, but venting isn't entitlement. They're usually looking for solutions to their misery. The only gender you'll ever see talk about how they're deserving of the world is women. And no, not just "in the wild", it's literally everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 07:20 PM
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There's only 1 gender I see that constantly posts stuff on social media about how they "deserve" [insert laundry list] and it sure as hell ain't men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 06:44 PM
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If I didn't swipe on women below me, I'd barely ever get matches. Women on dating apps aren't swiping on their looksmatch. They are too steeped in options to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:06 PM
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I'd fuck most of the 25 IRL too, but that'd be the extent of it. I wouldn't date them. That's the problem you run into when hypergamy runs rampant on dating apps. All your matches will be women 2-3 points below you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 10:51 PM
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I think a lot of people fail to appreciate the role that alcohol plays in casual sex. Most ONS are not sober experiences. This is just not true anymore in the age of dating apps. Perfectly sober people are hooking up and there's usually a mismatch between the 2 parties in terms of attractiveness. I've been with about 25 girls through OLD over the past year and not only were 90% below my attractiveness level, but I'd say about the same amount also wanted something more than just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 08:15 PM
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That's not why they have lower standards. Sex drive is driven by testosterone. Men on average have 15-20 times more testosterone than women do. This is the singular biggest reason for men's low standards. They simply need a release. This doesn't mean other factors aren't at play, but they're all a distant second to the very different biological make-up of both genders. ​ Plenty of data shows that women ideally want to have sex almost as often as men, but their high-standards makes that more diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 08:08 PM
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That's the entire point. Men have lower standards because they are more horny. It takes wayyy more for women to get to that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 06:47 PM
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Obviously I was being a little hyperbolic, but it does take a while for women to figure out chasing men out of their league doesn't bring them long term satisfaction. And some never figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:40 PM
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It's just simple biology. Men are infinitely more horny than women, have infinite less options due to it and will thus never have any leverage on them pre-sex. Men only gain some leverage after fucking the woman (most men don't get to this point). Since women only fuck up when it comes to casual sex, the guy is bound to be a catch in her eyes and she will be looking/hoping for something long-term. The guy on the other hand already accomplished his goal and is now functioning on abundance mindset…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:32 PM
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This is honestly the most accurate summary of dating apps out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:43 AM
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I'm sure there's the odd woman here and there who cherishes being single, but I've certainly never met them. Literally every single woman I've ever known craves the companionship of an attractive man (to her) and having something of substance with him. The ones who don't have that past a certain age tend to be pretty miserable about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:28 PM
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Lol someone clearly hasn't seen women's profiles. 75% of them are nothing but selfies, low resolution shit from god knows how many years ago and pics so heavily filtered you wonder how they don't feel ashamed posting it. And they all have the same mundane bio. Of course, none of that matters because men are horny af and will fuck anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:44 PM
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This shouldn't need to be asked. There's a massive desire gap between the 2 genders. Men have 18x more testosterone on average than women. They are way more horny than women are. Women not only desire sex way less, but most of them are also swimming in countless options because of men's incredible horniness. So not only do men have to somehow convince way-less-horny women to spread their legs for 'em, but they also have to stand above all the other options she has. That's a lot of work, hun.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:00 AM
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Common sense is not a very good argument. An observation based on ample evidence is a perfectly sound argument. If most couples feature better looking women than men; and men are the ones who hand out commitment, safe to say that's mostly what men are seeking. ​ Just because you see couples where women are more attractive than men doesn’t mean those women have feelings for them. Ummm ok? What does this have to do with anything? We are discussing what matters to men when seeking commitment. How t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 11:42 PM
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That’s an interesting claim…do you have anything to support it? Like books, articles, statistical studies? Or is this just based on your own douchebag “logic”? It's mainly common sense. It's also both from personal experience and observing almost every couple out there. How often do you see a couple where the man is better looking than the woman? Especially significantly so. Almost never. But you'll see plenty the other way around. In fact, I'd say that's the norm. All this despite women having …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 10:51 PM
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This is honestly a very accurate summary of intersexual dynamics. Particularly today. Most casual sex men have (the few that do so) will be with women well beneath them. The man's somewhat excited because he finally gets to fuck while the woman's ecstatic because she's with someone she considers a genuine catch. Although she's deluded enough to not see the SMV difference between the two. Since the guy's a catch, she wants/hopes for something more than just sex, whereas the man considers her noth…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 06:11 PM
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Why even post something this idiotic when there's no shortage of data out there that confirms female selectiveness. The record levels of male virginity The 5% swipe rate across all dating apps The ratio of single men compared to single women None of these are anecdotal examples. They are all hard-core numbers by this point that firmly establish women only find a very tiny % of men attractive. Even though the majority of them have no shot of attaining those men. Which is what makes their standard…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 11:13 PM
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You don't need a "sense" to recognize confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 11:00 PM
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There's an obvious explanation for this: Older women (40+) are a far cry from what they once were and thus need to put more effort into getting what they desire. And don't for a second think their intentions aren't sexual. Older women love getting railed by men much younger and attractive than them. Huge ego boost for them. No issues of ED either. Men also enjoy it because 1) duh sex 2) older women are lower value thus more attainable 3) both parties intrinsically understand neither is looking f…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 02:14 PM
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Gotta love it when women inadvertently admit to being just as hypergamous as all data claims them to be 🤣 This is all a pipedream, of course. Mid woman chasing way out of their league will never get what they want. They'll eventually "lower" their standards and settle down with someone gulp actually on their level. Or continue to stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:43 AM
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I'll stretch your scale little bit. I think all sub-35 year old women who are 4 and above feel entitled to Chad. Understandable if the girl herself is at least 7+. But the 4-6's? Come on, they need to get real. Sure, men's insatiable libido and scarcity means they'll gladly fuck down, but that's the extent of it. Chad has 0 interest in committing to 4-6's. You are just a hole to him. But most women will never understand that. They conflate their intercourse value with relationship value and delu…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:18 PM
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And 5x as many people in this thread have told you you are wrong. Which you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 01:51 AM
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But men are very transparent about wanting the hottie. If they don't end up with one, it's because they couldn't. In women's case, they lie about what they truly desire, and then go on to completely contradict that with their behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 01:48 AM
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it does actually! just because someone’s attractive, it’s not going to guarantee a swipe. Nobody said it does. But the attractive guy is wayyyyy more likely to get a swipe than the average looking dude with the "good bio". ​ looks alone isn’t going to be a motivating factor if most of the men on there are attractive. Except most of the men there AREN'T attractive to women. Thus the 5% swipe rate. You only think they're attractive because you only swipe on those men and further narrow them down b…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 01:39 AM
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What women desire and what they have the ability to attain are 2 very different things. No matter who they're with, it doesn't change what they are truly attracted to. They probably just aren't good enough to lock down a guy like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 01:29 AM
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Not everybody passes someone's looks threshold. Not even close, in fact. Women's taste on men's looks is very narrow. They pretty much all like the same type of man - tall, broad shoulders, jawline and full head of hair. Again, if women liked a wide variety of male appearances, OLD wouldn't be the joke that it is for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:58 AM
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By no means does the gender imbalance on dating apps remotely explain the 5% swipe rate. All that # tells you is that women are ridiculously picky. And 😄😄😄 @ guys getting matches because of their "charismatic profiles" and "witty bios". Amazing how only the best looking guys seem to have that 😄 Just take the L and stop doubling down on your retarded initial post.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:52 AM
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Right, but if women really cared soooooo much about personality, they wouldn't be dismissing 95% of men on looks alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:32 AM
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She just reeks of stupidity in her posts lol Mind you, I sincerely doubt her 'stories'. Women with hot men in their DMs aren't posting on reddit. The easiest way to spot a femcel on reddit is if she's posting on a dating forum. She clearly has an agenda to push and is lying out of her ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:14 AM
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Yeah, men sure are killing it in real life where the gender ratio is 50:50 😄 Pretty much all data we have on intersexual dynamics today firmly points towards the 80:20 rule. Most women find most men unattractive and are chasing top tier men only.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:10 AM
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Way to completely miss the point. I'll try to explain this to you in more detail this time. OLD is considered a shit hole for men because the faaaar majority of men don't even get matches. Here's a fact: Women swipe on less than 5% of profiles on dating apps. In other words, men don't even get a chance to display their "charisma" 😄 You know why? Because women don't give a shit about your personality unless you meet their physical threshold for attractiveness first.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:05 AM
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This has been debunked a gazillion times. If women gave 2 shits about personality first, then online dating wouldn't be the shithole that it is for men. Looks Get Your Foot In The Door. Everything is secondary to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:50 PM
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Because testosterone is just that powerful. Sex is a NEED for men. Questioning why they desire it so much is almost akin to questioning why homeless people are so starved for food.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 09:28 PM
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Literally every study supports the massive desire gap between the 2 genders. It's also just common sense. Yet women still try to hamster their way into poorly explaining how there are other factors at play. All because it cheapens their absolute control on dating lol The mere fact that it takes extremely attractive men for women to desire casual sex is the DEFINITION of their low libido. Imagine for a second if men only wanted casual sex with 8's and above 😄. The entire world as we know it would…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 03:54 PM
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Because I keep reading and hearing that unattractive men should work on their status, finances, and game, and that once they are 40 or 50, they will magically become attractive and they will magically have hoards of hot women flocking to them. OK, where exactly are you reading this? RP absolutely promotes enhancing one's non-physical attributes to become more attractive (especially for unattractive men), but nowhere does it say this will result in hot women flocking towards them. More so that th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:44 PM
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Ummm I haven't noticed this at all. I either see looksmatches or the much more common one - women being more attractive than their partner (as they should be). Men aren't wired for monogamy the way women are. They are desperate for sex, not relationships. So for him to WANT to commit to a girl, there better be something about her that makes it worth his while. That 'something' is her at least being within a digit of his own SMV. I firmly believe men are incapable of catching feelings for a girl …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:21 PM
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You said "tinder exists", which we're all assuming is you alluding to getting laid on tinder. And no one is buying that given your stats. Heck, nobody is buying a morbidly obese single man getting laid outside of tinder either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:50 PM
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Women swipe on less than 5% of profiles on tinder. Something tells me a grossly obese guy isn't part of that 5%.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:24 PM
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260 lbs at your height is morbidly obese. Unless you are married or have a steady g/f, I sincerely doubt you are getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:21 PM
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There's an easy way to avoid this. I'll give you a hint: Men fuck down, they don't commit down. Stay in your lane.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:55 PM
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Nobody has ever denied that being an awkward weirdo will prevent you from getting laid, even if physically attractive. But it is still a secondary issue compared to looks. What comes out of your mouth is irrelevant if you don't pass the physical threshold for what she considers attractive. That guy you mentioned is an anomaly. Not really something to fuss over. Most fat dudes, no matter how sharp socially, are invisible to women in reality. But yes, don't be the guy who can't carry a conversatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:39 PM
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This needs to be said more often. Most men you see in real life, particularly anyone below 40, are likely to be on reddit in some capacity. Most women on the other hand are NOT on reddit. Especially anyone young or attractive. The ones who are here are pretty much bottom-of-the-barrel from a dating standpoint. That is why their posts often seem so out-of-touch with reality. They have no ability to attain conventionally attractive to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:58 AM
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I genuinely believe the far majority of men would be completely fine if they simply had access to casual sex. As in EARNING sex and the dopamine/ego boost of having someone like you enough to spread their legs for you. A relationship merely ends up being a bonus to such men. If a good one comes by, great. If it doesn't, no biggie. Men aren't anywhere close to as emotionally needy as women are. We like our solitude. The issue for most men, obviously, is that sex is so hard to come by. And when a …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 02:43 PM
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Spark is a real thing. Neither gender wants to be with someone they have no chemistry with. I do agree one needs to pass a certain physical threshold for that spark to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 03:50 PM
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Of course Poor hygiene of any sort is a massive ick. A lot of woman have bad breath or reek down there. It's such a mood killer. Especially during sex. Virgins. Yes, contrary to what the redpill might tell you, women who are clueless about sex are a massive turn off in bed. And their persona in general is a big 😴😴 Unpleasant behavior - if a woman's loud, easily irritated or combative, the most she'll ever be is an acquaintance. Being clingy/pushy when they know you aren't into them like that. Sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:41 PM
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It's a biological fact too - men have 18× more testosterone on average than women. Of course, this cheapens women's absolute control on intersexual dynamics, so they'll pretend other factors are at play too to massage their ego. But nice try. The ridiculous male libido is the reason why land whales have 0 trouble getting laid. It's the reason why the ugliest chick will be swimming in 1000+ likes on tinder. The reason why you keep getting pumped and dumped by men far better looking than you. Men …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:16 PM
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It's not "settling" when you end up with someone on your own level. The insatiable male thirst and lack of abundance leads to women getting sex/attention from men out of their league. None of that means that's actually your level. Men have ZERO interest in committing to a girl who they perceive as beneath her. And most casual sex will occur between mismatched SMVs (the guy will be more attractive than the girl). Women stay single because they equate their casual sex value to their relationship v…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 11:57 AM
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Any woman who says she doesn't like attention is either 1) unattractive and doesn't get any attention to begin with 2) is unattractive and only gets attention from other unattractive men and boy do women hate being shown their true SMV That's it. In reality, literally never met a woman in my life who didn't like attention. Obviously, this doesn't include attention that borders on harassment. But anything less than that is literally oxygen to women. They function on validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:21 AM
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Awww somebody's feelings seems a little hurt. Not only have I met them, i have smashed quite a few of them over the past year. Women being happier single is a complete myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:57 PM
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A b/f they are truly into and vice versa? I doubt it. Given women's penchant for hypergamy, few men can truly live up to their unrealistic standards. That's why they are single to begin with (and miserable). Yes, miserable. Look up any profile of a 30+ women on a dating app. Literally every single one of them is looking for a relationship and has no time for "games" and "hookups". I'm a 37 year old guy with about 20 lays through tinder over the past 14 months. Most of these women were 30+. To sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:27 PM
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Has anyone ever actually met a woman who is 30+ that is content being single? I certainly haven't. It's usually the complete opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:17 PM
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I do know I'm texting FWBs and swiping on tinder wayyyy less vigorously after I have rubbed one off. It's amazing how irrelevant women seem after that 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:18 PM
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Men are looking for functionable intelligence. As in, can she hold a conversation? Does she have a sense of humor? Can she have an intellectual discussion about a show/movie we just watched? Can she keep a job? Can she navigate through life on her own - drive, shop, cook, schedule appts? Is she responsible enough to take care of a child? All of these are attainable characteristics even with minimal education and that's what men mean by intelligence. A woman's degree or high paying job will be ir…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 10:34 PM
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It cracks me up that a gender so utterly obsessed with finding a partner superior in every way has such a fixation with keeping a chore tally. Don't wanna end up doing most of the house work? Then go fucking find someone on your own level so he feels less obligated to chill at home. But see, women just aren't wired to do that. The whole thing is nonsense when it comes to real life applicability anyway. I'm a guy in my late 30's and everyone in my circle is married with kids. The men out earn the…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:08 PM
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Men are hypergamous in terms of RELATIONSHIPS. As in they will only commit to women on or above their own level of physical attractiveness. Men are the opposite of hypergamous when it comes to casual sex though. This unfortunately leads to a lot of women with an overinflated sense of self.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:23 AM
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In my experience, the women who do pass the physical threshold of attraction but lack sex appeal are usually women who are 1 of these things: goody-2-shoes (or sexually inexperienced) lacking in confidence (mousy) extremely masculine (boss babe)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 05:17 PM
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This works the other way around too. There are women who are objectively attractive that I can't see in a sexual light at all. I don't think it's lack of chemistry as much as something about their personality/how they carry themselves just doesn't make your mind go that way. Now, a lack of physical attraction can definitely enhance this, but there are other factors at play here too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:34 PM
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Uninterested women is literally all most men have.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:37 PM
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Again, men do feel the "need" to lie because it increases their odds of getting laid. If transparency worked better then they wouldn't be lying. But as I said before, I don't think men lie in the sense women imply they do. Usually it's a case of her equating sex with some type of commitment when no such discussion ever took place.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 07:07 PM
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The goal is to increase your odds of getting laid, not lower. Women simply aren't going to get it because they neither understand nor care about how difficult acquiring sex is for most men. That said, I really don't think lying occurs in the manner women imply it does. More like guy-girl matched and hooked up early, she caught feelings, he didn't and bolted. Woman now feels cheated, but nothing was ever established to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 05:58 PM
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Way less women are interested in casual sex compared to men. Thus men's need to "play games".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 05:24 PM
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Women absolutely are hypergamous, but it's only truly discernible in casual relationships. Men's irrepressible sex drive allows women the luxury of temporarily bagging men superior to them (be it looks, status or socioeconomically), but that's generally where it ends. Men fuck down, they don't commit down. If he has made her his g/f or wife, then you can bet he perceives her value to be equal to his or around it. I firmly believe men are incapable of catching feelings for a woman beneath them. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:17 PM
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Paragraphs, bro. They are your friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:28 PM
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I do find them attractive enough for sex, just not attractive enough for something to exist beyond that. And I do compliment them - I'll call them 'hot' or comment on their body. I think it is implied when a girl is sex-only that she's lacking in facial aesthetics. So yeah, no facial compliments. Or any kind of romantic comments (I miss you, I was thinking of you, I can't wait to kiss you etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:47 PM
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No problem. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:35 PM
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I'm pretty straight forward about not wanting anything serious. They go along with it initially, but like you said, it's very hard for women to not catch feelings when having sex. So they'll starting hinting for more, but they do catch on quick enough when you aren't reciprocating the same energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:26 PM
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I mean, I find them passable enough for sex, but not attractive enough overall to be seen with them. I know it sounds terrible, but just being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:11 PM
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Ummm not necessarily. There are plenty of women I've fucked on tinder that I was sexually attracted to, but wouldn't be caught dead in public with them or show them off to friends/family. The bar for sexual attraction is very low for men. As far as OP's question is concerned, see how affectionate the guy is post-orgasm. If he's willing to hang around, cuddle or kiss, then he does find you attractive on some level. If all he does is set up the physical act and quickly bolt after that act, then ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:21 PM
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A 31 year old going out with a 24 year old is one thing. When people talk about age gap relationships featuring young women, they are talking at least a 10 year age gap or more. How often do we see that? I don't. I don't see guys past 35 with a girl below 25. Nor do I see either gender pursuing one unless it's a sugar daddy set up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 01:05 PM
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Getting them for free, actually. And the only clueless one here is any idiot OD'd on RP porn that thinks age gap relationships are anything but an exception. They are statistically insignificant.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 01:00 PM
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I'm being serious. Do you know 35+ men who are in a serious relationship with <25 year olds? Or men who are even pursuing such an arrangement?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:30 PM
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This is where the Redpill, which I do support, comes unhinged. You can't be the bastion of "reality" and then act like age gap relationships are remotely close to being a thing. Or even something either gender desires. The average age gap in married couples is about 2 years. 2 fucking years. Give a 23 year old girl the proposition of dating a 35 year old and watch her recoil in disgust. And the same holds true the other way around too. Literally no mid-30's guy has any interest in taking a 23 ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:26 PM
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I wasn't even aware men had a rep for not being able to take rejection. In my experience, of the few times women do kinda put themselves out there, they handle rejection 100x worse. Their egos seem much more fragile.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 02:30 PM
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Oh yes, I'm sure those tinder men would be getting laid like no tomorrow if they had the "right" profile 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 12:30 AM
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The issue with "personality" sluts is that they tend to attribute all struggles men have with women to that. And it's a joke. Because even when we completely remove personality out of the equation (dating apps), men still fare like dog shit. So clearly, looks matter. A LOT. Which isn't to say personality doesn't, but it's still a distant second to looks. And 😆 at women being into a wide range of archetypes. Where did you get that from? Pretty much all data we have on female preference shows that…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 12:27 AM
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I do agree one needs to venture outside of dating apps if they're looking to find something substantial. But dating apps do debunk the notion that it's personality that's primarily holding men back in dating. If that was the case dating apps wouldn't be the complete disaster that it is for the far majority of men. Women don't give 2 shits about your personality if you don't pass the physical test first.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 07:50 PM
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You don't see women complain about how men only want 1 thing? Or how there are "no good guys" out there? Come on now. 90% of female dating complaints revolve around those 2 things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 07:20 PM
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I'm speaking in generalities - something that applies to the majority. Of course there are exceptions, but that doesn't make my point any less true. If a woman is constantly being pumped and dumped, that can only mean 2 things: she's either shooting way out of her league (more likely) or she possesses characteristics that disqualifies her for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 07:13 PM
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Men don't commit down, they only fuck down. The women who are always complaining about being pumped and dumped are shooting way above their level.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:13 PM
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Ummm that's exactly what I'm saying
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:02 PM
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Haven't men's struggles on dating apps completely debunked the "bad personality" myth? If it really was so much about personality, women wouldn't be swiping right on less than 5% of profiles they come across. Personality is only relevant after you pass the physical threshold for what the other party is willing to interact with. And even on that front female delusion is completely maxed out. The insatiable male thirst for sex means men will gladly fuck down, which leads to a market where most wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 05:47 PM
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WTF? Freedom and $$$$. As someone who was married, there's literally nothing worse than always having someone around. Women IMO work well in 2-3 hour increments. Anything more and it's a fucking headache. As someone who likes my space, it drove me insane. No matter how much you like her, that magic is going to disappear fast once you start living together. And that's just the tip of the iceberg. Always having to make decisions as a community, always having to tell someone where you're going, not…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 04:18 AM
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Women are the fairer sex by a pretty humongous margin. Just how God made them. Ass, tits, legs and hips are universally attractive to all men - she simply has to avoid being obese. You add make-up to this and it's not even fair. Men on the other hand are born with nothing (besides height, if they luck out). If a guy is going to be turning heads, he better be prepared to work very hard for a very long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 05:47 PM
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I think a lot of the dating-intensive boards/videos tend to have an audience that skews younger. To them 30+ year old women indeed seem ancient. But it's just not reality. Unless a woman REALLY let herself go, she's not going to stop being attractive at 32 if she was hot at 25. Now, it won't compare to what she used to be in her 20's (especially facially), but she'll still be pretty good. If you've worked at places with 30+ year old women or set your age range between 30-40 on online dating apps…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 03:40 PM
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Femininity is essentially being pleasant and nurturing - characteristics men greatly desire in women. It doesn't mean you don't have a backbone. I don't know why femininity is being painted by OP as overt submissiveness. A little is fine, but I strongly believe men would prefer their girl with some spice. Someone who does speak her mind without being overbearing. Otherwise not only will they lack respect for her, but find her boring too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 09:21 PM
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This is actually a pretty good post. As someone who has watched a lot of F&F, I'll say this, Myron's completely blinded by solipsism. He constantly projects his own experiences/preferences on all men, when in reality, it may not even apply to most men. One of the biggest falsehoods being how most men want to settle down with the pretty and fertile 21 year old. Not only is this completely contradicted by statistics, but seriously, does anyone in their own personal life know a single 30+ year old …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 11:17 PM
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Ass, tits, legs, pussy are infinitely more appealing than anything on a man's body unless it's been honed and sculpted in the gym. All a woman has to do to standout is not eat like a pig. This isn't even getting into makeup and how women have the benefit of significantly increasing their facial aesthetics too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 06:18 PM
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Just accept that the West pretty much declared an all-out war on men 30+ years ago. You cannot consume any type of media from the 90's onward that doesn't heavily promote the women-are-wonderful and men-are-pigs propaganda. And it has gotten progressively more extreme with time. Anything short of blatant female privilege and superiority is considered misogynistic today. That's what modern feminism is. And this isn't even getting into how the legislative side (divorce & affirmative action) comple…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 01:32 AM
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Right, but I'm saying no matter where they meet, looks are always going to play a significant role in determining what kind of relationship they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:55 AM
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Right, but even when 2 people run into each other for the first time in person, even then looks play a huge role in what kind of relationship those 2 people will have.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:49 AM
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Personality is only relevant AFTER you've already passed a certain physical threshold for what the other person finds attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:55 PM
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Right, but the mere fact that 95% of men aren't getting swiped on completely debunks OP's bogus premise of "it's what the men are saying!!" 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:17 PM
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Oh yes, the men on online dating who are being "polite" and "respectful" sure are drowning in pussy lol. Women continue to make this colossal mistake of attributing lack of sex to "personality". Here's a dose of reality: Less than 5% of men get swiped on on tinder and that number generally holds true across all dating apps. What does that tell you? It tells you women don't give 2 fucks about "what you have to say" if you don't even pass a certain physical threshold for what they consider attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 04:51 PM
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If a girl is even remotely into you, she is not waiting. I have never had to "wait" for sex in my life and I'm no Chad. If we are on a date, then attraction is obviously implied and sex is pretty much right around the corner. This ain't the 50's. If she finds you attractive and you are meeting in person, nothing is stopping her from spreading her legs for you fast. Even the "good girls" engage in this. If a girl is not doing this for you, then she's just not into you like that period. Men need t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 05:17 AM
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I wouldn't consider majority of these women overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:44 PM
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Looks are subjective. A 4 to me is a somewhat below average to average looking woman. But what's a 4 to me might be a 6 to one person and 2 to someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:50 PM
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Hypergamy works both ways when it comes to relationship attraction. Just like women are incapable of being with a man who is beneath them socioeconomically (at least), men are incapable of catching feelings for a girl who they don't consider AT LEAST an equal in looks (preferably superior). I firmly believe this. For a man to deem a girl relationship worthy, he needs to look UP to her looks. This is why most couples you see out there, the woman is almost always better looking than the man. Ain't…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:25 PM
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Hate to break it you girl, but you are most likely not a 6/10. Genuine 6's are not only swimming in quadruple digit likes, but are getting fucked by Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:55 PM
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Literally every single 4 or 5 I've matched, conversed and fucked on tinder was swimming in 1000+ likes. Every single one. Most of these women were 35+ in age. Heck, there's one i'm gonna see this weekend who's 45 and no more than a 4 and even she has 1000+ likes. They all showed it to me too. Women, irregardless of looks or age, are living a completely different life than 99.9999% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:54 PM
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Yeah, forget about asking him any kind of personal question. He'll just go into some RP diatribe instead of giving a genuine answer. The disappointing thing about Myron is that there a lot of good things he has brought to the RP community. Especially his relentless work ethic and unshakable frame. You watch these other F&F copycats and you see how quickly those shows derail into a mess because the hosts struggle to get a handle on spoiled, entitled women. Myron on the other hand controls a room …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 11:59 AM
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He's like this whenever rape comes up though. It's not that I disagree with him, but he has 0 tact when addressing it. He can say "fact over feelings" all he wants, but presentation matters a great deal when discussing a topic this sensitive. This is the problem when you're constantly in "I need to put these girls in their place" mode. I do agree that emo girl was clearly someone who watches the podcast, came in with the intention to do nothing but troll and get under his skin. I was disappointe…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 03:06 AM
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Why does anyone need to be blamed. Fact of the matter is, most men simply aren't interested beyond sex, no matter how nice the girl is to you. Will some men keep a girl around purely for sex even when they don't like her like that? Depending upon how many options they have, yes. But a guy with some abundance CAN leave a girl post-sex rather fast if there are no feelings involved. With no fault on her part. Men will especially leave a girl fast if they see her as significantly below their own SMV…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 11:05 PM
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This is where Myron's pathological need to browbeat the girls or catch 'em in a gotcha derails the show. If he simply displayed a little more sensitivity towards how heinous rape is, then most people would have little issue with him dismissing "rape culture" or the dubious 1-in-5-women-get-raped statistic. Both are factually untrue and Myron actually has statistics on his side to deconstruct those myths. Unfortunately, Myron harbors such animosity towards women that he struggles displaying any t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 10:25 PM
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What did you expect. For 50+ years men have heard little beyond how awful they are and how wonderful women are. And this rhetoric has only intensified with time. Try following any mainstream news outlet, any variety show or any show period without getting a heavy dose of GRRRL power and men = bad. You won't. Men's very existence over the last 30 years primarily revolves around how they're inherently bad/dumb/incompetent and women are better. And it's worse than ever today. So I ask again, what d…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:41 PM
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There's literally nothing more mortifying for a woman than rejection. Nothing. Every single woman I have ever rejected in my life dealt with it in the most petulant way possible. And they take that shit to their grave. Women simply cannot take L's. Yes, it'd be nice if they approached men, but to put it bluntly, women are abject cowards when it comes to this. Men will have to continue doing the heavy lifting when it comes to all things-dating related.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 04:51 PM
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Speak for yourself. I'm in my 30's now and casual sex remains fun as ever. There's nothing quite like conquering new 🐱, a new body and a different personality. The physical pleasure is obvious, but the ego boost is immeasurable too. And with the advent of dating apps, I believe one doesn't need to jump through hoops in order to attain it. Take good pics, lower your standards and find a girl willing to hook up 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:45 AM
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Either that or you are shooting way out of your league.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:47 PM
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Oh I'm sure not every lesbian relationship features a butch one. I was just going by what I've observed in my circle - as in both at work and female friends/acquaintances I've had that were gay. Literally every single time they were with someone, it was always a feminine/masculine dynamic. Always. Feminine lesbians seem genuinely attracted to butch girls and go out of their way to seek them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 05:21 PM
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The surprising part is that the fem lesbian genuinely finds the butch lesbian super attractive. My ex was bi; she was also feminine and beautiful. After we broke up, she started dating this super-butch girl who was completely beneath her from a physical standpoint. This girl was short as hell, severely overweight (with no shape), ugly and of course, masculine in demeanor and attire. No guy would ever look at her, yet I remember my ex positively gushing about her appearance. And it was no act eit…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 01:11 AM
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Not to be mean, but most likely. The only girls I've seen struggling for attention/matches are 1's and 2's. They even have data from online dating sites that shows average women get hit up more often than men who are in the top 5%. Getting matches for a 5-6/10 woman on tinder should be the easiest thing in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:21 PM
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You simply aren't a 5-6/10 if you are struggling for attention. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:30 PM
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Even women with high sex drives tend to be picky though (hint: because she's still nowhere close to as horny as 99% of men). More importantly, they can afford to be picky because of their endless amount of options. So they're still having sex mostly with the top % of guys. Majority of men have no such luxury. They have to settle for any crumbs that fall in their path. As long as men's need for sex far outweighs anything MOST women need from men, women will always be the relatively happier gender…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:16 PM
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This boils down to 2 things: 1) Sex. There's nothing women need from men that remotely matches men's need for sex from women. 2) Options. Do you know why most women seem far less bothered being single than men? Because very, very few women are involuntarily single. Majority of 'em always have options, although it may not be to their utmost liking. But they're still going on dates and having sex. They're not starved for validation the way single men are. If a guy's single or sexless, it's because…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:25 PM
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Any g/f I ever had for a meaningful period moved on way faster post break up than I did. Leaving me feeling very, very shitty. I'd say it mostly boils down to options. The more you have, the more likely you are to find someone you really like. Or heck, just having the option to quickly start dating someone else is a massive luxury to have. Less likely to be hung up on an ex when you're quickly having new experiences with someone else as opposed to sitting alone at home. From what I have observed…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:03 PM
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The entire concept of feminism, particularly modern feminism, is built on victimhood. That women have been trampled on, continue to be trampled on and constantly need to fight back against the patriarchy. So saying something is easier for them goes against the very fabric of their indoctrination.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:34 AM
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For sex - definitely online For a relationship - in person
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 09:22 PM
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Guy here with my fair share of sex-only entanglements (and currently in another one). This is usually how I behave when I only want sex: Only meet her for sex. Never take her out on a date. Only text her to talk dirty or set up logistics for the next physical act. Never talk about the future/being exclusive. Not physically affectionate beyond sex. As in, once post-nut clarity hits, I either disappear or keep intimacy (kissing/cuddling/general closeness) to a minimum. And it's because I'm not tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 11:32 PM
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Obsession with virgin women. How they'll wife up or take a girl serious only if she's a virgin. I've messed around with virgins and they're beyond lame in bed. It's a humongous turn-off. And that lack of experience permeates in other aspects of their personality too. They just lack a certain sex appeal that makes you desire 'em sexually or even romantically. It's hard to explain, but virgins just come off lame. None of this means I want a hoe, but there's a happy medium between virgin and hoe an…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 08:26 PM
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There are no short-cuts, but this is the MINIMAL men should be doing: 1) Gym. Looks get your foot in the door. The other stuff is irrelevant if she finds you physically unappealing. And the quickest way to be unattractive is not being in shape. 3-4 hours of weights per week will give your body and face certain aesthetics that are universally attractive to all women. Keep your calories under control. If you do those 2, you're already ahead of most men. 2) Have "game". Game is basically social cal…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 01:58 AM
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This is the biggest DUH in the world. Women on average are much more physically attractive than men. Better face (with make-up for enhancement) and way better bodies. It's just how GOD made them. And this isn't even referring to women who go the gym and really take care of themselves. I'm talking about women who simply exist - as in adhere to no proper diet or ever workout - yet still easily rate over a 6 on a scale of 10. Men have no such luxury. If they don't bust ass on their appearance, they…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 11:11 AM
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I'm assuming this person is someone we already find physically attractive. So what would be a deal breaker that would prevent me from pursuing a relationship? For me, it would be: - just being unpleasant. If a woman is loud, excessively moody or combative, I actively avoid her. - high maintenance. Someone who constantly needs to be given gifts or taken out. That entitlement is a massive turnoff. - outdoorsy. Not that there's anything wrong with that, but I'm someone who prefers going to work, co…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 04:52 PM
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I've had both positive and negative experiences. A positive would be it improves your general comfortability around women. You realize they're human beings just like everybody else. So whenever you are in social situations around other women, you feel confident. Plus, SOCIAL PROOF!! Women absolutely find you more appealing/safe/interesting when they see you around other women having a good time. Negatives would be the general unpredictability of women. Doesn't matter if she's your g/f or your fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:58 PM
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Women always prefer having the moral high ground. An innate need to always be seen as the "better" person (publicly). Image is everything. Thus their hilarious answers on the importance of looks. We are not shallow, OK? Not like those creepy ass men! Us women....we care more about your personality, your character, your values....we are real....looks aren't that important.....just shower and wear clean clothes.... You'll never see this play out in reality, btw. Run this experiment with some femal…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:49 AM
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There are zero similarities. TRP fully acknowledges how much men want women. And their only goal is to arm men with all the necessities required to get what they want. This includes understanding female nature too, obviously. Which tends to get many panties in a bunch, but hey, it's reality (lord forbid women ever get shown the mirror). After that, it puts the onus entirely on the man. You didn't get her or lost her? Well, you were clearly lacking in some way. Now go self-improve! Accountability…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:15 PM
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Wait, men are debating they won't cheat on women who are feminine/cooks/cleans/submissive? Where are men debating this? I think most people understand men will cheat even if they're in a happy relationship. The caveat being, none of it means he loves his wife/girlfriend/partner any less. Men can separate emotions from sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 10:12 PM
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Don't see anything wrong with it either way. I've messed around with 40+ year old women both in my 20's and now in my 30's and honestly, MILFs make for great fuck buddies. They seem grateful about a younger man hitting on 'em, are eager to please and given the age difference, are aware that you aren't looking for anything serious. The downside is eventually they'll want something more, but I've personally found it impossible to catch feelings for older women. That's when you cut the cord. But if…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 09:01 PM
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2 reasons why women take rejection way harder than men: 1) Fair or not, a woman's worth is mostly based on her looks. So when a guy deems her not-good-enough, she basically feels worthless. 2) Women are fully aware of how desperate and horny most men are. So when rejected, they are left to ponder "damn, how ugly am I?". It's a total confidence killer. Every women I have ever rejected in my life lashed out in the angriest, pettiest and most vindictive of ways. It's very embarrassing. And honestly…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:41 PM
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lol talk about an oxymoron. People who post on FDS wouldn't be on FDS to begin with if they were attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:36 AM
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You are misinterpreting what they're saying. What they mean is looks are the most important attribute in getting laid. Not that it is the only important attribute. RP by no means ignores the social aspect of getting laid. Its foundation is literally built on "alpha" and "beta". "Alphas" are confident, hold frame, lead and know game (aka social calibration). All characteristics that are highly attractive to women and increase your chances of getting laid. And RP bluntly tells if you don't possess…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 03:16 AM
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Literally nobody has ever said looks + no personality will get you laid. Looks are far and away the #1 thing that will get your foot in the door though. That is why RP makes a big deal about fitness. She won't give a shit about your personality if you don't pass a certain physical threshold for what she's even willing to interact with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:49 AM
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There's no wrong reason to workout. Whatever your reasons are, these will be the benefits: - healthier - happier - more confident - more disciplined - more receptiveness from the gender you're looking to attract - better treatment from everybody. Lookism is absolutely a thing. People treat you according to how you look. So who cares what the reasons are? Only the end results matter. And those results are a much better life in every way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:37 AM
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Don't ever confuse delusion with confidence. You're a mid-40's single mom. The entitlement, condescension and arrogance your posts drip with are not the sign of a confident women. It's usually the opposite, hiding behind the pretense of confidence to mask insecurities. Whatever you outwardly project about yourself, believe me, no man of value sees you that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 06:07 PM
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FDS is essentially a place for old, fat/ugly and mentally ill women to get back at men for why their lives suck. That's all. It's simply revenge. If you look at it from that perspective as opposed to the hilariously titled "dating strategy", it will all make sense. There is no strategy. The sidebar is a joke. Nobody's actually implementing any of what they say because they know exactly where it will lead 'em - even lonelier and more miserable than they currently are. It's' just a place for extre…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 04:53 AM
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I was in an arranged marriage that lasted all of 3 months. I really don't think it's a good idea unless both parties are coming from the same place - ideally speaking limited to no experience with the opposite gender. Simply being with someone should be fresh and exciting in itself. And that lack of experience will make it easier to pair-bond and genuinely like each other. It's easier to fall for someone when you have nothing to compare them to. I don't think it's practical at all if you've alre…
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/22 04:49 AM
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You have to be intentionally obtuse to not get this. What is a man and a woman's ultimate goal when it comes to the opposite gender? For men, it's easy access to sex from as many attractive women as possible. Since men have insatiable libido yet sex is hard to come by, it's easy to understand why this scenario is so coveted. For women, their goal is getting the man they like to invest in her beyond sex. Women are fully aware men are scurvy horndogs who'll pretty much plow anything and bail. So t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 03:11 PM
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Nobody likes to be rejected. Women more so because they're fully aware of how low men's standards are. So if the approach doesn't work out in her favor, it's just further destruction of an already very fragile ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 11:05 PM
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TRP basically points out unflattering aspects of women's mating strategy and teaches men how to deal with it. So in a world that's so heavily invested in spreading the women-are-wonderful propaganda (while marginalizing men at every turn), TRP's teachings are obviously unacceptable. That's it. That's the sole reason for the hate. What's even more painful for them is the fact that TRP isn't merely made up by some "angry incel"; you can tell years and years of research has gone behind it. Many stu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:26 PM
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If a women is truly into you, then she's not waiting PERIOD Men should start playing this retarded game too. If a woman's withholding sex in the name of oh-I-just-wanna-make-sure-you-are-truly-into-me, these men should also cease to pay for all dates in name of oh-i-just-wanna-make-sure-you-aren't-just-using-me-for-my-money. Let's see how long she withholds sex after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 02:13 AM
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Posting on FDS
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 06:26 PM
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35 Male Mixture of red and purple - Physically attractive (curvy body is a must). I'm a workout nut, but don't care if she isn't. Anything below 200 lbs is fine, as long as the fat is in the right places. Having mostly dated Latinas, it's amazing how most of them have good physiques despite 0 exercise. - She should be pleasant to be around (sweet/non-combative/submissive). This is probably the most important for me. She could be the prettiest thing on Earth, but if she's a headache, it's an inst…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 01:06 AM
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Don't think it's a fair assessment at all. Never seen a woman go out of her way to call out a man's baldness or express repulsion towards it. It's just not reality. I see bald guys with partners all the time. Obviously, having hair is better than not having it, but I've never seen a guy struggling with dating specifically because he was bald or balding. In fact, some of the biggest players I've known were white and balding. And they weren't anything to look at below the scalp either. But hey, it…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 06:06 AM
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The fuck is this garbage? Romantic love is not only deep affection but more importantly, it's passion. Without either a relationship is going absolutely nowhere. I was in an arranged marriage that predictably featured neither and it was absolute hell. My partner was a perfectly fine person, yet I felt nothing. I had no interest in doing anything with her. The entire time I was going WTF-am-I-even-doing-here? Needless to say the marriage ended fast. Message to people: Do NOT ever get into a serio…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 05:59 PM
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You're not entitled to extra shit when you have to put 0 effort for me to cum.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 02:59 PM
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That's some entitled garbage. Takes way longer for a woman to cum than a man. And some never do. I'll definitely try, but I'm not gonna go all crazy to please her when she simply has to show up for me to cum. My thing is, if you care about her, try to get her off before penetration begins. Once you start pounding it inside her, you're guaranteed to cum while she may not. And once you cum, lord knows you have no interest in anything sexual after that. Nor should you feel any obligation to do so. …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 02:31 PM
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Yes, you ARE lucky. Because sex becomes repulsive after a man cums. And no man should feel obligated to continue after he ejaculates. That's gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 02:13 PM
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It just never fails to amaze me how little women understand men's sexuality. Literally the moment a man orgasms, the last thing he wants to continue doing after that is what he WAS doing. The body and mind completely change. What seemed appealing mere 5 seconds ago is now borderline repulsive. It's gross. Sex or anything related to it is the absolute last thing you want to engage in. It's just how we were built. This is not about being selfish, it's simple biology. Men have no physical nor menta…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 02:03 PM
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FDS demographics showed it's basically 75% femcels and post-wall women. Nobody who posts there looks anything like that girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:43 AM
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In my experience, on those incredibly rare occasions when a woman does make the first move, it's usually because she's very unattractive and has little hope of somebody approaching HER. And of course, being a woman, she's naturally going to go after someone who's clearly out of her league. I think this is why most women who approach first tend to have poor experiences. They 1) don't stay in their lane and 2) they are low value (aka FDS), so men who are already out of their league show minimal in…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 05:23 PM
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Uhhh none of this remotely applies to me. I only become close friends with women I'm not attracted to. And here's the funny part, they HATE this. There's nothing worse for a woman's ego than knowing a man, particularly one who talks to her quite a bit, has no attraction to her. But it's a far more beneficial friendship to me than being friends with someone I want to fuck. The girl you don't want will always be a more loyal friend to you. She seeks your approval. It's also just wayyyy easier to r…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/21 02:59 AM
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Let me preface this by saying I had no emotional attachment to either girl. I just saw it as an opportunity for easy sex because they were really into me. So what turned me off about them? It's just how they moved - not knowing what to do or even how to react, their expressions, the lack of confidence and heck, even their smell down there. Basically, the same thing that would turn a woman off about a guy who's a virgin, that's what turned me off about them too. Both these women were also 25+ (de…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 02:30 AM
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Low n count should be the goal if you're looking for something serious. But there should be an N count. As a guy, I really do not get men's infatuation with virginity. It only makes sense if you are a virgin yourself and are feeling insecure. Otherwise, no. Having messed around with a couple of decent-looking virgins in my life, their lack of experience was a massive turn-off in every way. And it's something that permeates in every aspect of their behavior. Give me a woman with some know-how any…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 03:24 PM
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Imagine going to FDS - a femcel driven shit show that literally drips with misandry with every post - and coming to the conclusion that OP did lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 04:26 PM
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Yes. Would frankly excite me more, if anything. Tells me she has a healthy libido. As a guy, I really don't understand women's infatuation with men who watch porn. To the far, far majority of us, porn is nothing but an easy outlet to bust a quick nut and go on with our lives. It doesn't consume us is any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 02:29 AM
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The 2 loves of my life both came from work. Both relationships were about a year long and it was beautiful while it lasted. But a nightmare once it ended. Not because they tried to get me fired or anything that was actually related to the jeopardization of my work. There was no such drama. It sucked because I still had major feelings when it was over. And there's nothing harder than being around an ex who's over you while you're not. What's even worse is when that ex moves on with someone else t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 02:33 AM
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Guy's perspective here. I don't think men and women can be friends in the sense where they're hanging out 1-on-1. Part of a group? Sure, it's normal. But 1-on-1? A guy wouldn't even hang out with a girl 1-on-1 if he didn't see her as a potential lay. And even if there is no attraction, being alone is practically begging for certain urges/feelings to come out on either party. Men in particular have low standards for sex. If it's "easy", they are going to indulge. I have female friends I feel no a…
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/21 09:10 PM
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This is an often overlooked point. We tend to fixate 100% on looks and personality, which are undoubtedly important, but I'd say lifestyle compatibility is just as important. If you are someone who prefers staying home, then someone who craves the outdoors and social interaction is really not a good match for you, regardless of sexual attraction or even personalities that click. Too often your partner will want to do things that you simply have no interest in. But you'll end up doing it just to …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 04:41 PM
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Pretty sure the women that were called "lame" or "boring" for not adhering to the spin-the-wheel outcomes was more within the context of the show. People are tuning in for entertainment, after all. They want to see something "wild". Doesn't necessarily mean they want a "hoe" in their own personal dating lives. As far as F&F are concerned, they've exploded for 2 reasons: 1) Having attractive girls in their studio and asking 'em basic dating questions. From both an entertainment and informational …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 10:50 PM
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So much stupidity here. In what world do the far majority of women NOT find Cavill and Mamoa incredibly attractive? They could've been regular men just walking down the street too and still be getting eye-fucked by most women. Men are fully aware women like pretty boys like DiCaprio and Milo too. They are also in pretty good shape. There is no disconnect between the genders here. Men KNOW good body = female attention. Handsome face = female attraction. Difference being, a good body can be attain…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 03:17 PM
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Dwelling on trufemcels and datingover30/40 is the biggest giveaway, I think. These are old, hideous women. It explains the extreme bitterness over on FDS. Life's hard when you are old, fugly and mentally disturbed on top of it. They are LOW VALUE and get treated as such by men. FDS is their way of "getting back" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:43 PM
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I think it's fairly well established by now that RP works. And thus the hate. Women lose their leverage when men 1) self improve and 2) can see through their BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 07:00 PM
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Contrary to what they pretend to be, a 10 minute visit to their board will confirm that 1) they have absolutely zero interest in self-improvement. You will be hard-pressed to find a single post where they talk about improving one self to attract better men. 2) so when there is no interest in self improvement, naturally, everything becomes about blaming those EVIL MENS for why their dating lives suck. And given their "strategy" lol, you can bet their lives will continue to suck. 3) it's clearly a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 12:49 AM
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I have no clue what kind of dynamic they had before our break up. The ugly girl worked a different shift, so I wasn't even aware of her existence. But doesn't take a genius to figure out what must have been going on when they were together so quick after she dumped me. Yes, my ex was the ugly girl's first g/f, judging by her FB. My ex is no more or less crazy than your typical girl. She's a legit beauty, but for whatever reason suffers from low self esteem. That might explain why she's with some…
/r/askTRP01/06/21 08:35 PM
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I did. Wasn't remotely enjoyable though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 08:22 PM
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It's mostly a relational thing. As a man who works out, I know how hard it is to get and maintain even a decent physique, much less a good one. So when I see some fit looking dudes out there, I know the work they've put in. And thus the appreciation.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 01:55 AM
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She's OK. It was weird, even though she knew she was married to a guy with 0 interest, she still had no intention of leaving. Too "humiliating" for her to go back home, see, even though her family was 100% behind her. And it's not like any of it was her fault. But her massive ego simply couldn't handle me not being sexually attracted to her. Mind you, I showed no interest in her in any other way too, but she just couldn't get past that we slept on the same bed yet I had no desire to have sex wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 08:05 PM
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We are definitely upper middle class, bro. Everybody's at least a college graduate making over 6 figures. And frankly, not even that socially conservative. But there was no unsupervised hanging out going on between boy-girl pre-marriage. Not that it mattered in my case. We lived in different states pre-marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 01:48 AM
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I'm done with arranged marriage, not necessarily marriage. If I do get married, you can believe it will be the "American" way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 06:19 PM
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Indian here who was in an arranged marriage last year for all of 3 months. Yep, lasted 3 months lol The process for how we came together was typical. I was given the girl's information from an Indian lady who arranges people for a living. Lots of Indian "aunties" are in this business. The girl's biodata consists of her name, age, education, residence, family history and pictures of her. If you like what you see, you let your family know that you are interested in getting to know the girl. The gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 05:52 PM
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Ummm nowhere does OP say your partner needs to have more sexual desire for you than anybody who has ever been in their lives. He just states that your partner needs to have a lot of desire for you off the bat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 03:05 PM
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Do men really do this though? In my experience it's mostly married women north of 30 who seem to hate seeing men without the burden of certain.... responsibilities in their life - such as relegating themselves to 1 partner and devoting their life to wife and kids. They look at their husbands and think that's what a man should be doing. That's what makes him a "man", see? So when they see men who are content being single/unmarried, focusing on themselves and looking happy as fuck doing so, it bot…
/r/askTRP14/05/21 11:16 PM
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Simping will get you nowhere with women. Especially women who rejected you. Even to this day, men are led to believe to just be yourself, be nice, share your feelings, tell her how amazing she is and you'll end up getting the girl. The whole if-she-just-knew-how-i-feel-about-her, she'll start liking me or take me back and all that jazz. As we all know, it's utter garbage. In reality, the more you validate and the more you let 'em know how much you need 'em, the less attracted they are to you. Ma…
/r/askTRP12/05/21 09:50 PM
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It's never too late as long as you can find someone like yourself. An incel can always find a femcel. And I've seen this in person too. I have a female friend at work who's 26, unattractive, not confident and obviously, a virgin. But she has managed to date a couple of guys over the past year exactly like herself. Those are the only 2 men she has ever been with and she genuinely liked them. Moral of the story being, if you are a loser, you'll have to find a loser like yourself. And there are ple…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 01:48 AM
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This is just bizarre to me as a guy. Not once have I ever heard a man say "I want a girl who looks like [insert pornstar] or fucks like [insert pornstar] or in any way behaves like a pornstar. Wanting an attractive woman has nothing to do with porn. The fact that men are attracted to such wide variety of women is testament to porn not warping their standards. And if you are still struggling to attract decent men as a woman, then I'm sorry, but you must be painfully unttractive. Men do not have h…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 04:19 PM
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Just how common are couples where the guy is more attractive than the girl to begin with? Not common at all. Nor should it be. It's a million times easier for a woman to be attractive than it is for a guy. Their body is infinitely more aesthetically pleasing and they have make-up to significantly enhance their face. Men on the other hand are born with nothing. There's nothing appealing about their bodies unless they bust ass in the gym. And make-up isn't even an option. The whole women-date/marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 09:59 PM
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Ummm why is the type of attraction even relevant to the topic? I'm merely pointing out how women react to men who like thicker girls (too). Most of 'em have a narrow definition of beauty and consider any women with some chub as someone not worthy of high praise. I know there are some men who do this too, but in my experience it's an attitude much more prevalent amongst women. They seem confused and sometimes downright annoyed when a guy likes a woman who GASP has a belly. In reality, most MEN (n…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 01:03 PM
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This 100%. As someone who's maybe more partial to thicker women (thick, not fat), the attitude i get from skinnier women when I pick so or so as super attractive is just bizarre. They basically don't consider anyone with a little belly as worthy of being considered a legit babe. Reality is, majority of men don't give 2 shits about a little chub on a woman. Many even prefer it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 12:44 AM
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Smart guy who has made invaluable contributions to the RP community, but good lord is he a horrible speaker. Takes forever to make a point, seems incapable of speaking normal English - everything is an RP buzzword, still seems stuck in the anger phase and you'd have to be completely out of touch to make videos that last hours. Nobody's staying past the 10 minute mark.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 07:26 AM
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They, or at least Myrion, seems like your average joe who has managed to level up following basic RP philosophy. Making him a lot more relatable and frankly, given his age, a lot more relevant than some of the old farts out there. He's actually out there putting RP principles in practice. I don't care much for the segments where they bring in hot women, but the rest of their stuff is on point in regards to RP and more importantly, it's entertaining. The latter is something a lot of the RP-focuse…
/r/askTRP02/05/21 06:57 AM
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lol at least your ex looks at you at work. My ex-LTR will literally do anything to avoid looking at me and she has kept it up for almost 2 years! Funny thing is, she's the one who dumped me. Fortunately, we are only around each other twice a day for a few seconds, so I don't have to deal with any drama. My advice? Treat her like you would treat any other employee. When you guys cross paths, just a casual greeting (hi/hello or a head nod) will suffice. Ignoring her, looking mad or going out of yo…
/r/askTRP27/04/21 11:29 PM
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Confused by people who aren't listing looks as the primary reason. Men are visual creatures more than anything and will always judge a woman's value on her physical appearance first. Everything is secondary to that. The universal thing that all men want nothing to do with is the UGLY girl. And when I say ugly, I mean both face and body. All other women, be it single moms, hoes or those with hideous personalities can and do have men interested in them provided a certain level of attractiveness. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 06:28 PM
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I didn't even want to have sex with her, bro. Putting a baby inside her was the last thing on my mind. With your high n count, I'm telling you, you are just begging to be sexually dissatisfied in this relationship. Poor farm girl who is bound to be sexually clueless and maybe even socially clueless to US culture is not going to get you going in any way. And I don't know how you expect to live a happy life with someone you don't love. You may just want a good mother, but she wants a man who loves…
/r/askTRP26/04/21 09:12 PM
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Take it from a US-based Muslim guy here who had 0 interest in marriage but eventually gave in to family's demands and did an arranged marriage - IT WON'T WORK OUT. Marriage is something you should only partake in if you are 100% in it emotionally. I did what you are planning to do too. I chose the conservative girl who grew up in the middle east, had a middle-class financial upbringing, never had a b/f (or even a first kiss for that matter), wore a hijab and basically been raised to get married,…
/r/askTRP26/04/21 08:41 PM
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Pretty sure 70+ is too old even for 90 year old men. 50 should be the cut-off. Women just look old after that. To answer OP's question, in my experience MILFs/cougars make for ideal fuck-buddies. They are fully aware of their age, so they know a younger guy won't be looking for anything serious as it is. They just want a good pounding at the end of the day. And since they are well past their prime, there are so many less headaches to deal with that you do with younger women. MILFs are simply gra…
/r/askTRP21/04/21 05:11 AM
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Rollo has shared invaluable information with us and we all have endless gratitude towards him for it. But OMG is he a horrible speaker. His YT channel is borderline unwatchable because of his inability to make a point in a cohesive, time-conducive manner.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/21 07:54 PM
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Boy, how does one even recover after something like that. Stay strong, OP. This will take a while to get over. I do wonder the reasoning behind women cheating with or dating clearly worse options after dumping a guy. 2 years ago my bisexual ex (who was also my coworker) dumped me. And she was dating another coworker a month or 2 later - a butch, mid-30's female who was, by all means, fugly. Whereas my late 20's ex is a legit HB7 and I would consider myself her looksmatch. Yet here I was, watchin…
/r/askTRP19/04/21 09:39 AM
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Agreed. Going from experienced women to someone with none is a massive difference. I personally found it very off-putting. And frankly don't understand men's infatuation with virgin women. I'm sure there's a happier medium that can be found.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 04:42 PM
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Isn't this obvious? Since it is pretty much established that any woman can have sex (unless she's incredibly fugly), virginity implies this is a conscious CHOICE she has made. On the other hand, sex is hard to get for most men, despite their constant desire for it. As a man, you need to have a few things going for yourself for a woman to spread her legs for you (looks/social skills/job etc). Thus, if a man isn't getting laid, it implies he's lacking in those highly sought after areas. Thus, a lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 02:51 AM
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Unless you are using steroids, then no, you are not "too jacked". Genuinely natty body builders who dedicate their life to weights don't get too big, so I sincerely doubt you have.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 12:10 AM
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It's only a negative if it's excessive. The whole you-can't-love-someone-who-doesn't-even-love-themselves saying. That can be a turn off. But if it's not extreme, honestly, it's better to be with someone who isn't full of themselves. It's just way easier to keep them attracted/interested in you.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 12:04 AM
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Being respected and being liked are 2 very different things. Kobe was most certainly an alpha and respected and even feared by teammates/opponents. By no means was he a well-liked guy though. He wasn't very popular with his teammates - "selfish" style of play and "demanding" style of leadership. A lot of teammates wanted him traded during his early years. A lot of players didn't want to come to LA because he was deemed hard to play with. Outside the court he's easily the 2nd most polarizing athl…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/21 05:51 PM
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People break up for only 2 reasons: They are over you They found someone else Usually both
/r/askTRP04/04/21 09:43 PM
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PAWGs are fairly popular. Or any 'thick' girl weighing less than 200 pounds, frankly. And by 'thick' I mean bigger women with generously distributed fat (ass/thighs/hips as opposed to face/stomach/arms). But BBWs? Those are women who are massively obese. I really don't know any men who are into those. Not saying BBWs don't get dick, but those are some very, very desperate men. I do agree white men's preference for thin-only perplexes me. I work in a place with a lot of Latinas who are naturally …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 01:48 AM
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Was recently married to one (arranged) She was 30 years old Youngest of 5 siblings $0 in her account when we got married. Not that I care about her money, but she had lived with her family her whole life. Never had to chip-in for anything (rent/mortgage/bills). Not even the monthly payments on her car her family bought her. So 0 savings is a major red flag. I do know she had held a job or 2 in her life, so whatever little money she made was pissed away long ago through shopping (her only interes…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 09:52 PM
1

Just browsed over there for a few minutes for the very first time. Pretty much came off as the female version of MGTOW. Just a lot of hate and bitterness. I interpreted it as LVW venting over being treated by men as....well, low value. So it's essentially a place for women to come to terms with their own mediocrity. Didn't see any similarities with TRP - which is primarily about male self improvement and the role it plays in getting women. In FDS you are already.....uhh.....'speshul'.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 07:27 PM
7

1) Married women are more likely to be older and thus have lower SMV than single woman (more likely to be younger). 2) Lower SMV means lower standards and more eager to please. 3) Life gets boring being with the same person for a while. So married/taken people are bound to be more excited by something that is 'different'.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 11:56 PM
1

You did just fine. btw, jealousy isn't necessarily a bad thing unless it's completely OTT. If she's not getting jealous, then she doesn't see you as all that to begin with. Your girl should always feel a little jealous/insecure in the relationship.
/r/askTRP27/02/21 02:30 AM
2

Make-up, shopping and dressing is not what I would consider "work". They require minimal effort at best to accomplish. Not remotely close to the level of discipline and hard work required to consistently go the gym and bust ass. If a guy replaced his gym time with "working" on his hair, clothes and shopping, he might as well cut off his genitals because it's going to get him nowhere with women. More importantly, even if the average women didn't put all that "work" into shopping and dressing and …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 01:15 AM
3

As a man, I do about 4 hours of weight training per week to keep myself fit. And I know I would be completely invisible to women if I didn't do that. How do I know that? Because being invisible was my reality for years when I didn't work out. And it's not like I was fat or something. I just wasn't fit. And I'm no chick magnet now either....but it's amazing how much hard work is required to even get a modicum of attention as a man. What makes me jealous? The fact that majority of women literally …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 07:35 PM
0

Low n-count SHOULD be the goal if you want something serious. Can't expect loyalty from a girl who spreads her legs easily. That said, virginity should NOT be the goal if you are experienced yourself. Believe me, it will absolutely turn you off. Take it from a guy who was recently married (arranged) to a virgin. There she was, sleeping next to me every night and just waiting to be drilled. She had a decent face, good body and by all means I should've been willing to fuck her. Or at least engage …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 03:44 AM
2

I think we can all attest to seeing this numerous times. Women despise being shown their true SMV. It shatters the i-am-the-shit bubble they live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 12:56 PM
3

Close female friends you don't want to fuck either have a lower SMV than you or are simply unattractive. A few things are guaranteed to happen with such friends. 1) She'll develop feelings or a strong attraction to you. Amazing how not giving them THAT kind of attention always results in them wanting you 2) is going to get jealous/petty when your attention is on OTHER women. It's almost frightening how ugly their behavior can sometimes get. They simply cannot stand to see you succeed with other …
/r/TheRedPill05/10/20 10:00 PM
2

She feels the opposite, unfortunately. She has told me she finds me very attractive and looked 100% engaged from the get-go. Clearly came into the marriage with very high expectations. When she noticed my lack of emotional interest in person and particularly my lack of response to her constant physical touches, it has devastated her. She thinks very highly of her appearance too, so the fact that I'm not into her has left her very confused and bitter. She has alluded to something being medically …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 02:59 PM
8

I'm currently in a similar predicament. I recently got married (arranged). I chose her based on 1 pic I got to see of her (she looked decent), some long phone conversations to get to know her and meeting her in person a couple of times. That's how arranged marriages work. The primary reason I said 'yes' was because we had stuff in common, she came off sweet+conservative and someone who'd work well with my parents (who live with me). That was essentially what I was looking for in a girl. We talke…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 01:52 PM
1

It's just so much easier to look attractive as a woman. Even if you aren't born beautiful, there is always make up to significantly enhance your look. And your physical assets - ass/boobs/thighs/legs/pussy - are all greatly desired by men. Not being fat is literally all a woman has to do to not turn most men off. Just don't eat like a pig and you'll have little trouble attracting male attention. Gym is simply a bonus. And the fact that GOD made men so horny only makes matters easier. Even 4's an…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:53 PM
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I think so. I could point out an attractive 35 year old at work to a <25 year old and they just seem confused. The response is almost always "uhhh she's too old". Those women couldn't be less on their radar. And anything 40+ seems practically gross to them. Just screams lack of worldly experience to me. Their tastes will certainly expand once they are out of school, enter the workforce and mature a little. I'm 34 and I can easily imagine myself fucking 22, 35, 44 year olds. And have too. At the …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 04:55 PM
1

She told me that at the beginning of our break up. 1.5 years later and she's still doing that. While being in a LTR with someone else. That's strange behavior.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 12:40 AM
1

Thanks, bro. I value your input. I will wish her Happy B-Day on the day and that will be it.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 12:47 AM
0

When I said "I care", I meant I care about the responses in this thread. Since the guy who I was responding to initially said "who cares?" I wasn't implying I care about her. She's a friend and a decent fuck and I'd rather that continued than not. But I don't feel the least bit romantically about her beyond sticking my dick inside her. Which is why I don't feel the desire to do anything extra for her (despite her wishes). But I understand b-days are a big deal and how not doing anything might le…
/r/askTRP13/01/20 12:33 AM
1

Ummm, I care? That's why I made the post. She's 1 of 2 I'm fucking and it would be fun to keep it going.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 11:20 PM
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Very disrespectful. It's a given that you don't stare at the opposite sex when out with ur SO. Everybody knows this. I'd let her know right away that it's not acceptable when you are around.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 11:10 PM
2

Women are generally clueless about men's bodies. They see little beyond biceps and even if they do notice, they'll only notice the most jacked guys. They have no appreciation for what it takes to even have a decent build, much less a good one. Men notice because we obviously know our bodies better and we know what it takes. And yes, to women, face/height/clothes come before muscles.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 02:21 PM
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Absolutely. Older women can absolutely look attractive though. And younger men will gladly stick it into anything they find attractive, irregardless of age. But something long term is an entirely different story altogether.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/19 03:34 PM
1

This should be pretty simple. Take it from a MILF lover like myself. Just because you wanna fuck something, doesn't mean you wanna date them or settle down with them.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/19 01:30 PM
1

I disagree with this. I'm 5'9-5'10 and while I can certainly find a tall woman attractive, I've never felt any particular desire to date them or even lust after them. I think it's simply in our biology to prefer women who are shorter than us.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 01:19 PM
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It's not uncommon at all, OP. People talk about fucking 10 girls after a break up to get over an ex, which, mind you, is excellent advice. I truly believe only way to get over someone is time + being with other girl(s). But if you truly loved someone for a while, they loved you back and you guys had excellent chemistry, nothing works. All periods of happiness feel temporary. Eventually, your mind goes right back to her. Currently in a similar predicament. It's been 9 months and I still think abo…
/r/askTRP07/10/19 01:46 AM
2

Well, where do these women rank on the looks scale? If they range from 6 and below, what it most likely means is that you aren't much to look at yourself. It could also signify low self-esteem on your end, for chasing girls who lack high self-worth themselves. Mind you, every girl is insecure. But the insecurity of an HB8 is different from that of an <=HB5. Personally, I don't think it's the end of world to be ending up with HB5 and 6's of the world with insecurity issues, as long as you are hap…
/r/askTRP07/10/19 12:09 AM
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We have all been there, bro. You probably don't want to hear this, but in my experience, usually when a girl's decision to break up comes out of "nowhere", it's almost always because there's someone else and it's likely been going on for a while. Maybe not explicit cheating, but texting/flirting and so on. Women are masters at hiding this. Do not let her see how much this bothers you. Do not act needy. That only strokes their need for validation. Just say "if that's what you need, then go ahead"…
/r/askTRP06/10/19 08:05 PM
1

Seems rather extreme for something that lasted only 5 weeks. But hey, we all deal with situations differently. My biggest advice would be, DO NOT WORK WITH HER AGAIN. I don't care how beneficial that job will be for you. Seeing her again will only remind you of what you used to have and it will be never ending mental torture. There's nothing worse than being around an ex that doesn't care for you anymore while you still pine after her. You say now that you don't care about getting back with her,…
/r/askTRP06/10/19 02:42 AM
1

You have every right to feel the way you are. I wouldn't necessarily make it a gender thing though. Statistics say men and women pretty much cheat in equal numbers. At the end of the day, if somebody really desires something and they can get away with it, they will do it. And that's how I essentially see your g/f's actions. She liked being in a 'relationship' with you, but she also enjoyed the tingles she got from this other guy. And thus, she did it. It wasn't something she did to make you look…
/r/askTRP30/09/19 08:38 PM
1

Sound advice. The reason why we have been spending those 30 minutes together over the last month is no longer valid. I even told her last week that that conflict is pretty much solved and there's no point in us meeting anymore. She got panicky and basically told me she wanted this to continue. Which, again, shows a distinct lack of respect for her current g/f who works at the exact same place! Everybody at work now thinks we are a couple again! No matter how tight she is with her g/f (as FB evid…
/r/askTRP29/09/19 04:00 AM
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Honestly, there's nothing worse than seeing an ex LTR that you are not over having the time of her life with someone else. You handled it well enough by not outwardly reacting and I can totally feel your internal torture. In my experience, depending upon how bad you had it for an ex, even hooking up with other girls is unlikely to help (it's just partial distraction). Keep going to the gym, because that's a humongous part of a healthy self-esteem and attracting others to you. The way I see it th…
/r/askTRP28/09/19 03:49 PM
2

Aren't desperate for attention (not constantly flirting with guys, not super active on social media) Willing to stand up for themselves without being a bitch Don't feel the need to tear other people down in order to feel good about themselves (this is huge).
/r/askTRP22/09/19 02:04 PM
0

Well, I did break off all ties once we broke up. But couldn't let it pass once a good friend at work started talking shit behind my back. I'm not hoping for anything with my ex. I'm just confused by WTF she's doing here.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 03:37 PM
2

In my experience, it only seems genuinely possible when sex is not even on the cards. In other words, when there's a big age gap between the 2 parties. The younger one isn't attracted to the older one and the older one is fully aware of the fact that they are old, so they know how they are looked upon as and thus, aren't even anticipating/hoping for that type of attention. As a guy in his 30's, I've noticed I can get along perfectly well with women who are 45+. And it has always been like that. …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 11:34 PM
1

There is a very simple explanation for this. Women's SMV in their 20's is far higher than it is in their 30's, when they are clearly past their prime and can no longer afford to have a I'm-the-shit attitude. 20's is their peak SMV on the other hand. As long as you are a 6 and above, life should be pretty sweet to you attention-wise. And naturally, when you have options, you are not going to be on your best behavior. I think almost every guy will attest to women in their 30s treating them better …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 02:13 AM
1

In my experience, women struggle with the friendzone just as much as men. Subconsciously or not, it's easier for me to be friends with women I'm not attracted to. I find them easier to talk to (or maybe I'm just more relaxed around them because of no attraction). Women can sense when a guy is not into them right away. You don't overtly have to do anything as a man. Just how you interact with them instantly lets them know how you see them. And their ego really struggles with it. While most men's …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 02:43 PM
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