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He addressed RP grifters Judging by the content of the full video I pretty much agree with everything he’s saying
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 02:24 PM
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TIL this isn’t a normal thing for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 11:27 PM
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So one link is about fetuses and penile development, and the other ones are about prostate cancer which I never challenged
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 09:50 PM
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You did not learn that not masturbating caused atrophy in anatomy Also words without sources means very little. Would look it up but on mobile
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 09:09 PM
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That’s not how it works like at all wtf. The penis is not a muscle Your dick isn’t going to shrink because you don’t masturbate, you’ll still get erections and you’ll still have the same penis size you did a month ago
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 08:50 PM
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Okay, vast majority of women make less than or equal to their partners. Fixed it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 07:02 PM
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me me me You could know 50 women like yourself. That’s still very insignificant to the larger population Speaking in general terms it’s something like 90% of women marry men who make more than them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 05:01 PM
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Most men aren’t really valued on their looks, so the wall isn’t really a thing for them fortunately Everyone ages, that’s nothing new or profound
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 03:27 PM
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Younger doesn’t have the same ring to it as children when trying to make a point
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 03:10 PM
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Sincerely doubt you ever gotten close to a swipe rate of 40% even if you had similar swipes as she did
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 03:08 PM
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Neither really want each other 90% of the time so there’s that too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 02:46 PM
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Good thing it doesn’t advocate to drop bags on women It’s actually a big critic AT has with red pill and why he’s not, he loves to blow bags on women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 02:44 PM
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guys on here Guys on here typically aren’t rp and are not a good measure for whatever you’re looking for. It would be like if I looked at the women here and generalized women/feminist based off that It would be dumb for me to do that. And I don’t even believe what you say to be true, but there’s no way to confirm it or deny it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 02:41 PM
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That’s quite literally the whole point of it all Most men have an idealistic view of women especially sexually. Dropping this women are wonderful feeling is important to not being used by women. If anything, TRP is one space that challenges this common view, whether you agree or disagree with how they do it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 02:48 AM
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Penis size does not go into LTR thinking lmao. doesn’t even mean better at sex, especially for women. I say this as a big dick guy, it’s done nothing for me in getting a girlfriend since you have to spend time with them outside of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 11:20 PM
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plenty of people here That’s a horrible sample to use
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:00 PM
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There’s no point or anything just an observation Women in abusive relationships is one of the more in your face and negative examples if you’ve ever done that. The logical response to abuse would be to leave, but the emotions evoked override the logic to just leave If I made a CMV and said how you make women feel is more important than how you actually treat them, I promise many women would disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:41 PM
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It is actually a major part of TRP. A woman will sleep with you invoke the right emotions, short, tall, rich, poor, etc doesn’t matter if you say the right things at the right moments, and men can set up life to have those moments The general public doesn’t like this though, since it implies that women aren’t logical when choosing partners and instead are more emotion driven. It’s also very much so seen as predatory many times
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:25 PM
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Let’s not kid ourselves, most obese people are ugly and def would look better if they lost weight
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:24 PM
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Lol no you just have to attract them not trick them. Most women dont know inherently what attracts them which is why commonly women say “yeah thighs just kinda happened and we ended up in bed” just like most fish dont inheritly know what bait works best. The people who attract women/ catch fish know
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 01:19 PM
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You think a fish will seriously tell the guy how to get caught if they could speak? Makes zero sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 10:23 AM
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If that’s how much I’d have to pay to never see bangs again I’d start apply for loans rn
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:18 AM
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Women aren’t used for their bodies unless they’re raped which is far worse than a man being used for his money Nobody is being used when people have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:14 AM
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Please stop
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:00 AM
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No i assumed it was code for men who have dating problems. You literally are the one that said you’re not talking about men in general with dating problems wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:43 PM
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I assumed you were talking about men with dating problems as you literally said that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:41 PM
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What’s the difference? Have a feeling if they weren’t struggling they wouldn’t be incels even by your definition right? I just think you need to be a bit more specific in your op, doesn’t seem like people know who you’re directing all this towards
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:35 PM
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But In your response to me you said it’s for a small subset of men who come on PPD and bitch about women and struggling. Wouldn’t incels fit that description?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:30 PM
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I mean I guess but should you change your original comment to PPD men and not just “mens dating” problem’s? Sounds like you’re talking about every guy in your original post
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:20 PM
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Shabbat shalom and all but it’ll always be free Palestine till it’s backwards
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:16 PM
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How do you know they’re chasing Stacy though? That sounds like when men here claim women are chasing Chad. None of us know anyone else’s dating life, so how can you make assumptions off it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:15 PM
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It seems like many people here use red pill the same way gen pop uses virgin Anything bad/ I don’t like = Red Pill
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:13 PM
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It’s their life, they can do whatever as long as I’m not affected I know a couple kids that went through transition. Before meeting them I had some pretty ignorant views kinda like how people get their views of gay people from drag queens. After meeting them I realized while I’ll never understand it, I’m not going to be the one that stops them from choosing what to do
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:10 PM
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How does this place function without being able to block people? You just have to deal with annoying people being annoying?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:06 PM
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Text 1-800-deez-nuts and it’ll give you ask the info you need
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:00 PM
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I’d bet my life savings most those men have no clue what frame is if asked But it’s your life not mine
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:58 PM
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Now that definitely sounds like the other guy was right if women in the same age group are still paired up haha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:56 PM
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Yeah can’t lie sounds like you dont really know how to spot a red pilled guy but just assholes Like these guys aren’t going to know what frame is outside the context of body frame just going off your list
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:54 PM
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When I’m talking with guys it doesn’t seem like they’re all chasing the hottest woman available just a woman who’s decently attractive and nice to be around. Some guys struggle but it’s not like they’re gunning for the top sorority/ models just decent women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:53 PM
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Aren’t a ton of young guys single? That seems to support what you’re saying
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:50 PM
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Season 4 is absolute garbage And yeah women hate male feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:49 PM
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What’s a Stacy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:48 PM
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Honestly. It’s a bit annoying how vague this is especially with the shoes part in which there’s no elaboration or anything other than “look at the list” makes me doubt if anyone here actually knows what they’re talking about when they say RP men don’t get bitches or treat women like shit in relationships If they’re going off things like this list
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:48 PM
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Do you think guys would be better off being themselves to attract women since they’re being genuine?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:44 PM
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I certainly wouldn’t call someone with no knowledge of trp red pilled. Again they could just be an asshole. You still haven’t painted the whole picture with the shoes and watches. It’s a pretty simple question that many people have asked you to expand upon but you haven’t for some reason. Makes me think you conflate assholes with red pilled which wouldn’t make much sense as you can be one or the other without being both If you don’t want to answer the question people are asking that’s cool, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:39 PM
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That’s what I’m thinking. This just sounds like a list to determine assholes. Not red pilled men. They’re not the same and I think many people conflate the two
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:34 PM
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That doesn’t explain anything at all not gonna lie. So if he has shoes and fits the rest of the list he’s red pilled? I’m asking what about the shoes or watches indicates you know a man is red pilled. Guy could just be an asshole and know nothing about Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:33 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:24 PM
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lol Everytime I hear women going on date with losers I just think why does the world even give these men the chance to fuck up like that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:22 PM
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the natural genuine narcissist asshole isn’t rp though right
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:21 PM
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Mama always said women care a lot about shoes, didn’t listen but maybe should Don’t really know how you can tell they’re red pilled beyond 4&5 though. Dude could just be an asshole/ cares too much about his appearance
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:18 PM
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Makes sense. I have some friends that fit your second sentence to a tee and never heard of any of this shit ( I think haha) . While I have a good bit of success I would’ve never knew about things like frame, Lmr and what not consciously. I wouldn’t say I’m weak or fake though, also wouldn’t say I’m red pilled though, especially now, that place is a dump now. There was some good nuggets of advice though that I still retain subconsciously today I also wouldn’t call those guys rp even though they f…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:16 PM
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Haha I think I’ve heard like two guys in my life use that term unironically which would make sense since I assume anyone using shit like that in public is a moron, even if they’re red pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:10 PM
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That’s why I’m a bit confused. when I was younger like a teenager, I remember coming across all this and thought you’d have to be a fucking idiot or autistic (no offense) to say this shit out loud to people so I just kinda viewed it, took what I thought was good and lived life with what I took from it Even if I were to treat a woman like shit I don’t think she’d say I’m red pilled. I don’t think I’d say I’m red pilled tbh but I do agree with a few things yet so many people have seen red pilled m…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:07 PM
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I mean I get that, but like a misogynist isn’t always a red pill guy or say like a trad con isn’t always red pilled either What makes it so that women can tell a guy is redpilled? I think The Wall is a good one, most people just call that aging
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:01 PM
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Everything but hypergamy, subservience and women dying alone sounds like normal guys talking tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:57 PM
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How do women spot a RP guy? It seems many women in this space either met a RP guy or just knows how they act so what are some indicators that a man is RP? I ask because in two responses I’ve gotten so far in other threads people have said something akin to “RP men are terrible people and they get no bitches because they’re terrible people” but where I’m struggling is how do people know that these terrible people are red pilled. I can’t think of many guys I met that I could say are openly red pul…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:53 PM
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Lol damn lady that’s a whole essay Jesus! Are there certain red pill guys you hate or posts you dislike that cause this degree of hatred? I fell down the rabbit hole like years ago and kinda forgot about it but remember some just sick posters and stories that would cause a side eye like many posters views on rape. I also remember decent guys with decent advice like Dalrock I’m just wondering if there’s any person specific that caused you to hate TRP or like any of the posts/ articles that caused…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:47 PM
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Heartbreaking how many family have been broken up because of this. But I don’t know their relationship and I cannot judge
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:17 PM
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Fair enough. I could see most men wanting to work rather than take care of a kid for the day, depending on the work that is
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:15 PM
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Maybe when they’re younger but most adults seems to want respect at a min in a relationship, even these traditional relationships I keep hearing get shitted on here If there’s no respect she’ll just leave you after a certain point
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:12 PM
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I can’t think of anyone that wants to work. Something about “what’s your dream job” “ i don’t dream of work” Most jobs are boring and uninspiring. My dad would love to be a golfer rather than do whatever he did for his life, but I wouldn’t be able to eat as a child if he didn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:04 PM
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I would hope everyone wants that Some people want to rely on others and I just don’t see the point
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:58 PM
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I’m sure they’d figure it out. Both men and women have their unique struggles but one thing about humans is that they adapt fairly well
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:56 PM
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Anyone could say the same about liberals and it would mean just as much as the words you typed out
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:52 PM
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Don’t many women choose to live a trad life style like many religious women or SAHM? I’d think that most relationships the partners agree on their roles and who does what. I can’t see how a woman gets forced into that role in America nowadays when she’s not beholden to men like women were in the past This just seem overtly like it’s meant to paint men in a bad light when relationships take two
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:50 PM
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Exactly. You can go around being the guy that’s roaming around the bars talking to any women that you see fit. I’d rather be the guy that has women coming up to him showing clear interest bc of status/looks One thirsty as fuck and is like fishing, you’ll be lucky if you catch anything that day. The other is a much more enjoyable experience with much better outcomes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:18 PM
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They not. One is a guy waiting on a drink, the other is a guy standing around not doing shit looking like he’s scared to dance/interact One is normal and necessary to get drinks, the other is clearly antisocial. Plenty of guys pull while waiting on their drinks, Shit I’d recommend it if you don’t like dancing. I don’t see many guys pulling while they’re stuck to the wall, looking around with a drink in their hand. You look like a loser and nobody’s gonna approach bc you look like a loser This is…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 02:46 PM
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“Standing at the bar waiting for a drink” Is not the same as, “standing against the wall with a drink to his chest” the two are completely different situationally speaking
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 02:42 PM
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Nobody in the thread said anything similar to what you’re saying here
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 02:41 PM
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Literally the first has happened to me multiple times and I’m like a 7-8. Could only imagine a 10, but I’ve heard similar stories like the second one from pretty good looking guys People might not like it, but the Don was spitting when he said if you have the looks/status many women just let you grab em by the pussy, which is very unfortunate
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 02:04 PM
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You realize you have to swipe right on him first right? Bffr, Aziz is not some stud women are lusting over. That man ain’t no model and you say yourself his pics aren’t great. If that’s the case then he won’t even get the chance to message you, which is the point Plus cali is ruthless when it comes to looks
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:07 PM
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This is my literally my first comment in years here. To tell people this shit is retarded. Think about that
/r/TheRedPill01/12/22 08:57 PM
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I’ve got plenty of experience, enough to not even think about the black pill or incels tbh No need to respond brother, don’t really care for your opinion
/r/TheRedPill01/12/22 08:52 PM
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cool story bro 👍🏾 His post was retarded, glad it’s delete
/r/TheRedPill01/12/22 08:48 PM
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Glad someone else said it. Took one cute girl to respond to him for him to start simping. Just pathetic
/r/TheRedPill01/12/22 01:23 PM
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This man is not high value lol. No high value man is running to an Internet forum asking this. Ever
/r/TheRedPill01/12/22 01:20 PM
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Stick to your ltr buddy, the grass will not be greener on the other side for you seeing the way you are lmao
/r/TheRedPill01/12/22 01:19 PM
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If masculinity and strength was determined by male genitalia I’d also say you’re wrong. Femininity and submissiveness, if those are your values you like in a woman, aren’t there just because she has a vagina I also think we place fertility on a different scale. I Don’t really look at a woman who’s had three children and say “wow you’re so valuable” now if it’s 3 college educated kids doing well, that’s different. But I’ll tell ya now it’s not hard for that woman to have three children if she wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 02:04 PM
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If 90% of women can do the same thing you’re doing up until a certain age you’re not special. Now if like 5% of women had Superman children coming from their wombs that would be something worth being valued
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:51 PM
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“She has a vagina so she inherently has value” Being born with genitalia doesn’t make you valuable. Nearly every woman has a vagina Also the top men and women aren’t conspiring against anyone to make their lives miserable. I can see how a guy could see every type of woman in the planet they could imagine getting fucked by average guys, then their tinder having 5 matches in a year, then seeing an endless supply of beautiful women on TikTok and Insta, then get a depressed. Add in a few bad experie…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:44 PM
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Nah women as well. Things like your partner coming out as gay, dealing with an abusive boyfriend, trying to handle a ldr, not being sexually compatible w your partner, etc. would all be better done dating rather than waiting for marriage and trying to deal with it I’m just a guy so I phrased the last part from a male’s perspective, as most men are kinda clueless about women and are more likely to be ignorant abt relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:30 PM
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The dating experience is alright, but sooner or later it’s gonna lead to marriage if you want a ltr with a decent woman. I’m fine with missing out on the marriage experience, but yeah, people should date and have experiences with women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 02:31 AM
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You’re right. If you’re a manlet under 5’ 9” might as well just give up now lol. You can live like that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 01:04 PM
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If you think every man in a relationship is doing all that you’re just wrong my guy. Seen plenty of guy’s shorter than me w girlfriends and that’s just a start. Idk what to tell you other than go outside bc I can see how you gather this opinion from social media, real life isn’t like that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 02:03 PM
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I mean this is just false, there’s plenty of people in relationships that don’t fit all these criteria
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 12:45 PM
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Models is pretty solid. Everything else is kinda the same imo. Get fit, dress nice, get a haircut, get out, do something w your life and talk to women
/r/seduction31/10/22 08:05 PM
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I feel you and can def sympathize with how you’re feeling Main thing is there’s no magic pill that will save you. It sucks but you’re the only one who can change yourself. Do you think you need to save to move to a new city? Do you travel at all and get out? Do you go out of your way to make conversation? You have to ask yourself , what do you want and then plan on how to get it. Just know the only person that can do it is you
/r/seduction31/10/22 11:06 AM
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Less is more. I had this problem and honestly the only advice that will help your problem is stfu more Idk about you personally but I don’t care much abt someone’s past the first time meeting them. Most people, including women feel the same
/r/seduction28/10/22 04:29 AM
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Guys are only written about as jerks and assholes when they fuck the girl that the author thought he has a chance with With every “women suck!” post you should ask, would they be writing this wall of text if the woman (who they probably known for less than 2 weeks, at most and even worse through OLD) fucked them, and then ghosted them? 99/100 times the answer is no. They’re not mad she fucked “some dude”, they’re mad that “some dude” wasn’t them
/r/seduction28/10/22 04:11 AM
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Then join clubs and whatever is the most social thing on campus, I’m sure people are talking with each other Like I said, you can come up with as many excuses as you want, nobody is stoping you. College is the easiest time to meet people and I would do my best to learn social skills now than later. it won’t get easier after college
/r/seduction28/10/22 04:04 AM
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This is great advice for the sub. Too many times I seen rejections having a number attached. If you’re counting and dissecting your rejections you’re already doing way too much. Rejection is normal, nobody gets everything they go for.
/r/seduction28/10/22 03:58 AM
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That’s really it. A kiss changes everything from platonic to romantic instantly
/r/seduction28/10/22 03:55 AM
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Being social is actual advice. If it’s too hard for you to do things like go to clubs, join a frat, etc then you’ll have a hard time because everyone else is doing that. You can make as many excuses as you want, nobody is going to stop you. You’re never going to get a woman sitting behind a computer screen unless you make a lot of money doing that
/r/seduction28/10/22 03:50 AM
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Unless it’s someone you’ve cuffed, there’s always gonna be that possibility she has sex with someone else. that’s just the game. How you reconcile with that is what matters
/r/seduction27/10/22 04:22 PM
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“How Hollywood portrays romance is not accurate “ is not the same as “romance doesn’t exist”
/r/seduction27/10/22 09:07 AM
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If someone I met with intentions of being friends stopped talking to me after a week I wouldn’t worry to much about that. I also don’t ponder upon what could’ve been with former coworkers, even though I had great times with them Women can be good friends. If you’re making friends w women through Tinder then lol
/r/seduction26/10/22 06:46 PM
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Bounce back by going out and finding another woman. Women are not out your league esp in college. It’s self defeating to think like that and it gets much harder after college if you don’t get out now. Go out to clubs, parties, rush events, gym and you’ll see they’re human like you Don’t get emotionally attached to someone you barely know, especially in college. After graduation you won’t see a large amount of these people again
/r/seduction26/10/22 06:04 PM
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You’re thinking way too much about a girl you met from tinder and kissed once
/r/seduction26/10/22 04:59 PM
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Don’t get emotionally attached to women who aren’t you’re girlfriend or family
/r/seduction26/10/22 03:42 PM
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Harsh reality but it’s the truth
/r/seduction26/10/22 01:07 PM
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Most women in your life have had sex with a man knowing him for less than 2 hrs. “High quality” or not
/r/seduction26/10/22 01:04 PM
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One of the few solid posters on this sub, never disappoints
/r/seduction26/10/22 01:01 PM
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If this doesn’t work then she isn’t interested and you’re just delaying the inevitable while likely getting played 90% of women will kiss first date if it went well 99.9% on the second date Coming to your place to fuck is a bit different but still she’s not there to play checkers
/r/seduction26/10/22 12:51 PM
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Oh I see the timeline now. Yeah I would just wait for her to text bc dry responses after talking about slowing down isn’t the greatest sign It’s different though bc you’re obv not going to be a priority over cancer but I see you already talked with her so I think you’re doing the right thing waiting for her to respond and giving space while letting her know you’re there for her and appreciate her
/r/seduction26/10/22 12:28 PM
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Man this is tough. Personally I say vulnerability hurts a guy more than helps but this is a time that vulnerability can help. I feel like you want to see if she’s still interested or see if she’s legitimately busy which makes sense as well and the only way you’ll figure this out is being direct I would be honest with her about how you feel but moreso about her situation and how you feel about that.
/r/seduction26/10/22 10:29 AM
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He probably has better pictures. That’s 97% of why someone swipes left or right. The other 3% is location/preferences. Or he’s had an account longer Also just an anecdote but a lot of times people set their location like >50mi and can get a lot of matches. Not me tho that’s way too far
/r/seduction26/10/22 10:17 AM
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Exactly, this is not seduction. This is dating advice
/r/seduction26/10/22 09:59 AM
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If you have a decent looking page it shows off a bit about you, most people post stories which you can reply to rather that text “how’s your day”, and she’ll prob give you her number if you planning to meet or anything important
/r/seduction25/10/22 11:09 PM
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She had a boyfriend so it doesn’t really matter You’re in college, I’d ask for their Instagram instead of their number
/r/seduction25/10/22 11:01 PM
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Generalizations are generally wrong
/r/seduction14/10/22 11:52 AM
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Yes you’re overthinking If you wanted, you could come up with as many excuses as you want. Just do it if you’re confident in yourself
/r/seduction13/10/22 02:25 PM
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Your dating life gets better as you get older because of the experience you gain plus the things like more money If you take a near decade break, you’ll just (hopefully) have more money but you still wouldn’t have developed those social skills
/r/seduction13/10/22 01:43 PM
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Any day is fine imo I just don’t do dates during the day. Hard to close after 2pm coffee on a Tuesday
/r/seduction12/10/22 06:39 PM
1

Keep having to pay columbians lil bro 😂😂😂 Pathetic
/r/seduction11/10/22 11:47 PM
0

Lol says the guy bragging about fucking prostitutes
/r/seduction11/10/22 11:46 PM
1

It really just depends. No matter how many lines you remember , you’re gonna get a different response. I do think it’s important make it clear you’re interested in her sexually as soon as you can, as you don’t want to beat around the bush
/r/seduction11/10/22 05:59 PM
8

While it’s good to know some openers, I learned it’s what’s more important is how to respond after esp in situational moments Pretty solid advice though, never thought abt the Starbucks one
/r/seduction11/10/22 04:42 PM
12

Lol this makes a bit more sense. Yea the girl thinks you’re good looking
/r/seduction11/10/22 02:27 PM
1

Are you serious? He’s literally saying that sex workers, like strippers, want your money It’s cool that he wants to fuck bitches now but OP will be very sad if he goes trying to find love at a strip club
/r/seduction11/10/22 02:14 PM
0

That’s literally the least impressive thing you could do while traveling abroad It’s hysterical you think that’s a flex. That just makes me think you’re even more an incel
/r/seduction11/10/22 02:04 PM
1

only a angry virgin would legit think this
/r/seduction11/10/22 01:05 PM
7

There are no “right words” and there’s no reason to lie to anyone if you’re not boring as shit If it were that easy then everyone would say the magic words and have sex. It never will be and I would get out of the mentality of trying to find “the easy way”
/r/seduction11/10/22 12:47 PM
1

Exactly. This is not winning a woman over, it’s paying a sec worker to work It’s good this fire has developed but we should not be encouraging him to keep looking in the strip club. He’ll never get real intimacy like that, just expensive intimacy as long as he has money
/r/seduction11/10/22 12:39 PM
2

for every one story w fucking a stripper there’s literally 10’s of thousands of dudes getting fleeced by them for nothing. It’s literally her job to make you and everyone else feel good and sexual If you’re looking for love in a strip club be ready to lose a lot of money. It’s never free to talk to a stripper
/r/seduction11/10/22 12:35 PM
28

While it’s good this gave you a spark just remember this is a job for them Their livelihoods rely on making you and everyone else feel that way, they’re gonna be good at it. You’re not the first guy she made feel this way
/r/seduction11/10/22 06:01 AM
3

I promise you, you know multiple women in your life who have fucked guys they met <30min from first meeting them
/r/seduction11/10/22 05:56 AM
1

You sound stupid “Stay around after a chick tell you she’s not interested”, all while this guy literally did that and still got told to go away. That’s bad advice, just move on to someone who wants to be around you The fact that most your post is just you attempting to shit on me is pretty pathetic. I don’t care what you think, I didn’t ask, and I don’t know you.
/r/seduction09/10/22 04:18 PM
7

He literally said he tried more and she told him to go away You’re giving terrible advice bro not everything is a shit test. If you approach someone and they say get away from me, there’s not much you can do The more common thought is “why is this weirdo still here after I told him to leave” not this rom com scenario you’re thinking
/r/seduction09/10/22 02:13 PM
15

That is not a test, she very clearly was telling him to go away. Strongly advise against trying to convince someone to continue talking to you after telling you to get lost
/r/seduction09/10/22 01:41 PM
1

Anything serious related like school and work I only wait for someone to make ash obvious advance on me You’re risking a lot by trying to go after women in a class you teach. That being said, many girls do wanna fuck their TA’s, so again I’d just wait for obvious signals
/r/seduction09/10/22 04:17 AM
3

You won’t even get the chance to showcase your personality if your pictures are garbage. That goes for anybody on OLD
/r/seduction07/10/22 02:07 PM
3

She doesn’t want you. Don’t waste your time trying to convince someone to want you, it won’t work and you’ll end up hurt when you see her w another guy
/r/seduction05/10/22 06:49 PM
22

You can get Jacked, get a decent looking haircut and nice clothes. Prob will lose weight in the face and have better posture The best time to start is today, if you don’t start you’ll never make progress
/r/seduction05/10/22 01:12 PM
2

Some women love black guys some don’t, nothing major. Everyone has preferences, can’t please em all
/r/seduction05/10/22 09:41 AM
1

Congrats bro, hope the party goes well
/r/seduction02/10/22 01:25 PM
5

Have you tried talking to women
/r/seduction30/09/22 03:31 AM
5

Fucking thank you! For every post that’s “how can I compete against guys in her DM’s/OLD!!!!” there’s multiple guys who are getting the chance to fuck, while they sit and complain instead of doing something
/r/seduction27/09/22 07:26 PM
1

Just look in the mirror, it’s your life. Pathetic
/r/seduction27/09/22 10:59 AM
1

You know, I can tell exactly why you’re struggling with women You’re a bit of a dickhead, and not the kind women like
/r/seduction27/09/22 08:48 AM
22

Don’t try then I don’t care The truth is nobody cares if you’re bitter and wants to give up on dating. You can come up with a million excuses and analogies and the situation still won’t change unless you do The top tennis players never sat and thought how unfair it is there’s people better than them and how hard the game is to them, they went out and got better.
/r/seduction27/09/22 02:49 AM
29

That’s up to you. We’re not you, we can only answer for ourselves
/r/seduction27/09/22 02:25 AM
1

Kids are no joke Personally I wouldn’t entertain someone who wants my kids after 4 dates. I get the clock is ticking but that’s a huge red flag
/r/seduction26/09/22 11:54 AM
3

Still the wrong headspace. As with any skill idgaf how many times I’ve messed up, it’s a part of the process of getting better Though after ~300 straight it’s time for some introspection
/r/seduction25/09/22 10:30 AM
12

If you’re tracking how many rejections you’re getting you’re already in the wrong headspace
/r/seduction25/09/22 10:24 AM
1

Guy who never asked for a kiss still blowing up my mentions Bro I’d ignore you in person, now you’re getting blocked on the internet too
/r/seduction25/09/22 07:21 AM
3

Nobody is the same. One woman could really like your dancing, the other think your funny, the other like your ambition and hobbies etc The main thing is that you have an interesting life then you go out and meet people who take value in that and want to spend time with you more. They’ll care a lot more to actually answer your question and start a convo than it be more like an interview
/r/seduction24/09/22 01:12 PM
4

Nobody knows the answer as it depends on the person. Why do you care that someone exists is prob a better mentality to find people you like There’s no one size fits all to getting someone to like you
/r/seduction24/09/22 12:39 PM
50

I forget what book it was, maybe models, but it has really solid advice that was essentially don’t let your conversation turn into an interview Ask some questions sure, but build upon those questions to have a convo, don’t just ask question after question. More often than not she’ll be more than welcome to talk about herself and share stories
/r/seduction24/09/22 12:37 PM
1

The projection here is insane lmao You’re here on Reddit too buddy!
/r/seduction24/09/22 12:33 PM
1

Nobody cares what you think Gabe, you sound like a dick
/r/seduction24/09/22 12:31 PM
0

That’s weird bro. Never asking to kiss a woman in your life? Anyways not to be rude but I don’t need advice from you, you’re good man. My thoughts are the same as Topher’s, save your advice for someone who’s gonna listen because it damn sure ain’t me lol
/r/seduction24/09/22 08:55 AM
1

You’ve never asked to kiss a woman? You see how that sounds right?
/r/seduction23/09/22 11:49 PM
1

2 dates, maybe a 3rd if it’s truly worth it. If not she’s prob using you Doesn’t change the fact that if there’s not a kiss on the first there prob won’t be a second date. It happens, but being realistic that’s just not the norm I can guarantee that if he had at least asked to kiss her he would feel a lot better than how he feels now, and would save him a lot of the hurt of being ghosted
/r/seduction23/09/22 01:54 AM
1

lol this is gonna be a learning experience for ya Just let her go
/r/seduction22/09/22 10:21 PM
7

Def improved myself since I’ve first came into be sub Lots of good advice but also just dumb shit. Up to the person to filter through and see what works
/r/seduction22/09/22 05:26 PM
1

What he should be concerned about is “now what”? If you want support and coddling there’s subs for that. This sub has turned into so many woe me stories that offer nothing of value except letting us all know that he’s struggling with women, which is nothing new The subs not offmychest, it’s seduction. Posts about” why don’t women love me” add nothing because it’s nothing new
/r/seduction22/09/22 02:23 PM
4

If you look at the sub this question has been asked a shit ton, prob in the just last week. Look at those posts for more insight Move on is essentially what they’ll say tho
/r/seduction22/09/22 01:44 PM
1

If you don’t kiss her on the first date there’s probably not gonna be a second date A kiss is nothing if the woman is interested in you
/r/seduction22/09/22 01:41 PM
2

So what do you think the solution is? Cry on Reddit that your Tinder date isn’t responding? Is that gonna really clear up your frustration?
/r/seduction22/09/22 01:37 PM
3

This is why people say “hurr durr don’t ask women for advice w men”. Just condesending criticism with nothing of value to add You suggesting this guy wait till the fifth date to kiss or something? Or do you just want to bring in negativity and that’s it
/r/seduction22/09/22 01:24 PM
2

Thank you! It’s a hard truth but that’s reality and works both ways. If some fat chick approaches a guy asking for a dance or some chick tells you to take her to nobu then Neimans Marcus for the first date, that’s gonna be turn offs for a lot of people Simply not everyone deserves the chance, you gotta have a reason for them to give you a chance
/r/seduction22/09/22 01:14 PM
1

Can’t blame them for not wanting to date Can blame them for feeling helpless, giving up on dating, then doing nothing to stop that helplessness and complaining about how the scene is unfair
/r/seduction20/09/22 08:39 PM
7

To say it’s basically over is just ripe for a self fuflling prophecy. Most dudes are 4 months in the gym and a haircut away from getting some attention. Just accepting that you’re never gonna get with women bc your ugly is just digging the hole deeper rather than trying to climb out
/r/seduction20/09/22 08:27 PM
7

You can go through life thinking this but it’s just wrong Yeah you shouldn’t worry about what the other guy is doing, but 90% of the time there’s another guy who also thinks that girl is cute and wants to go out with her. Waiting around only hurts your chances
/r/seduction20/09/22 07:43 PM
0

Now what?
/r/seduction20/09/22 07:38 PM
4

First one I agree with. Just look at guys when they finally go to the gym. Not only do they look better to themselves, they also start to be more confident bc of that. While if you’re body language and words shows that you don’t like yourself that’s off putting to everyone Second one I agree, getting attached to a woman to quickly is a great way to make her uncomfortable and for you to get hurt Disagree with the last point. You can do this but you’ll be limiting yourself a good bit and losing ou…
/r/seduction20/09/22 07:35 PM
1

People change after years esp hs. Esp if you get fit and it’s looked like you changed. People become interested to see how you changed although it’s likely superficial since they didn’t care before hand
/r/seduction18/09/22 01:34 PM
4

Not reading that but good luck man Oh and please for the love of god read the wiki and get some pussy man
/r/seduction18/09/22 12:39 AM
1

Very. Just not worth it imo. If you do get rejected then you have to see her the rest of the year. I’d at least wait
/r/seduction17/09/22 11:35 PM
3

You don’t even know me and you’re already going for personal attacks If you want some help I can help ya man. Not everyone has to be a gentleman from the 60’s to smash People that aren’t like you have sex bro, idk if I can say the same for people like you though bc you seem irrational angry at other men for not having the undying respect for women to the point you’re convincing yourself there’s no way people who don’t, have sex. Also is funny that you automatically assume these women have little…
/r/seduction17/09/22 11:02 PM
12

Tinder also just isn’t a great place to find an actual relationship. If you’re trying to go for a relationship I’d use Hinge. Still a bit superficial but far less than Tinder
/r/seduction17/09/22 10:24 PM
4

If someone isn’t exactly like you that doesn’t mean they’re virgins buddy Plenty of men who you’d consider misogynist have sex a bunch. No need to be angry at them, that’s just not your game
/r/seduction17/09/22 10:20 PM
2

There’s been so many “why don’t women want a guy like ME instead of CHAD” posts recently, it’s crazy. They add no value and many of the things they’re wondering have been answered years ago in this sub
/r/seduction16/09/22 11:15 PM
1

There’s literally countless resources not only in the top posts of this sub but on the wiki which was stated
/r/seduction16/09/22 06:41 PM
52

Still ain’t gonna work. You’re not the first guy with this idea and won’t be the last. Unless you’re loaded you’re not picking up chicks at a strip club. Waitresses and bartenders included
/r/seduction16/09/22 03:26 PM
133

Lol the last place you wanna try and get women after a divorce is a strip club
/r/seduction16/09/22 03:14 PM
1

Even reading the second part of the paragraph it sounds like you need to just find someone else Maybe one day she’ll come around but I would not put all my energy into someone who’s not reciprocating at all. Plus you already known her for a bit and are going to have to see her all year
/r/seduction15/09/22 11:19 PM
11

Do you want to get with women who wallow in self pity and lack self confidence?
/r/seduction15/09/22 11:16 PM
14

And the best part is, so many people aren’t trying. There’s always the other side when it comes to dudes complaining they get no lay
/r/seduction15/09/22 11:14 PM
14

Fucking thank you. This sub has been filled with pity posts about why women don’t want to fuck them. Bitching on the internet won’t change anything and definitely shouldn’t be on this sub
/r/seduction15/09/22 11:12 PM
17

Whatever the statistics are, not all women have 10+ bodies and not all women are onlyfans girls. If you don’t like those girls, don’t talk to em, but all this bullshit is just dudes getting mad that women fuck guys that aren’t them. Doubt anyone would feel the same bitterness if that promiscuous woman they’re describing fucked them
/r/seduction13/09/22 11:31 PM
32

If you think the majority of women fit this or OPs viewpoints you need to meet more women
/r/seduction13/09/22 10:29 PM
1

Instead of trying to model your life after people who aren’t you, try being yourself and find your own values That’s a real “HVM”.
/r/seduction11/09/22 12:44 PM
1

That’s not what OP said
/r/seduction09/09/22 03:56 PM
7

I get nervous talking to bots ngl
/r/seduction19/08/22 08:54 PM
8

Die
/r/seduction19/08/22 08:28 PM
5

Very true. Nobody cares if you were a part of a club but if you started the club of your interest, that means a lot more. Shows your confident in yourself and hobbies and shows that you can be the guy that make things happen, which I feel is the most important part, plus it builds social status
/r/seduction19/08/22 08:26 PM
2

If you’ve ever seen a woman on tinder it’s literally every right swipe is a match. Just a game to see what a guy will say to em
/r/seduction16/08/22 01:43 PM
1

A kiss maybe but if you have to ask to hug her I wouldn’t even bother
/r/seduction13/08/22 01:45 PM
2

It’s your girlfriend, you know best what to do and goes to communicate with her, no redditor is going to know the answer, but I doubt your girlfriend is gonna be estatic about a “cool pic” “Game” is more so for single people who are looking for a relationship
/r/seduction13/08/22 01:18 PM
12

This gotta be a copypasta bc nobody said anything about 85% of what you wrote. Nobody is upset or anything, it’s just true that dating apps give women hella options and with hella options you’re going to settle for a few of the best
/r/seduction11/08/22 03:10 PM
3

Exactly this. There’s single women in all ages. Trying to say “after 30 they just don’t want sex” is an excuse
/r/seduction09/08/22 10:28 PM
1

This is it. If you feel like you wasted decades, don’t waste the rest of them by thinking in the past
/r/seduction07/08/22 09:25 PM
0

Well that’s one that he doesn’t really have to deal with. Actually she’ll prob like a guys condo better than someone’s basement. Health issues, money not helping, Chad, etc, at all just excuses
/r/seduction07/08/22 09:22 PM
4

These are all excuses, which are easy to come up with and get you no where
/r/seduction07/08/22 09:19 PM
1

Paying for pussy straight up is not simp lol.
/r/seduction26/07/22 05:25 AM
25

Well they get fucked by 40x the guys as tinder girls do because it’s literally their job. Don’t eat out hookers my guy, esp don’t eat their ass wtf
/r/seduction26/07/22 03:43 AM
200

Should’ve taken this story to the grave, how you gonna eat a hookers ass
/r/seduction26/07/22 02:27 AM
8

Lol deadass. They’re probably into guys built like an offensive line, not dudes who are built like they belong on trailer Park boys
/r/seduction26/07/22 01:00 AM
1

Well you can either ditch the self deprecating attitude and improve or continue to live like this Either way these women, no matter what the rating, gonna get fucked. If you truly believe that’s gonna be your life and you can’t change that then I hope you make a lot of money lol
/r/seduction23/07/22 01:42 PM
14

The second point is very important. I remember being a karaoke w my friends and some girls and I literally felt them getting turned off when my friend didn’t want to pick a song and sing They didn’t give a fuck if he was a shit singer, but seeing him not even try was a mood killer for them
/r/seduction23/07/22 01:34 PM
2

It’s a tough pill for people to swallow but the quicker you do the better. It’s like school, nobody wants a D-F, some might take a C, most people want a B-A, takes work to earn that B-A unless you’re born gifted, and even then it still takes work to do well. Many people are getting C’s and asking “ why is Harvard rejecting me”.
/r/seduction23/07/22 01:28 PM
8

I’ll never forget when I was sitting w some women who were calling this guy a creep. “Oh he was trying to get w me” “oh my god you too, he came across so weird” etc Bout month later one of them is going on dates with the guy after hearing all that shit form the other girls. I wouldn’t want to be like that guy but is very clear that if you at least say hey you’re doing better than the guy just on his phone
/r/seduction23/07/22 01:14 PM
5

Trust me I was the same way and know guys who had it very rough. One of my closest friends got extremely fucked over homecoming and prom and it really just fucked him up as it would w anyone, plus was still The Virgin. Few years later my guy is pulling and doing much better than those women Best thing I feel is let them know you’re interested before you get attached and be okay with rejection. It comes with practice but it does get better, especially if you get better
/r/seduction23/07/22 01:08 PM
1

That’s quite the assumption and is just wrong. None of these guys, myself included solely focus on fucking chicks. I’m honestly surprised you went that far deep with that assumption after saying short guys/ fat guys can get pussy You simply live the life you wanna live and talk to the women that show up while doing that you should do well. If you’re interesting you’ll be bound to find someone’s who interested in you as well, esp if you’re doing something you like to do. What will never help you …
/r/seduction23/07/22 12:56 PM
2

If I like something about someone I’ll say that b just don’t say “wow you’re so hot” at least try to be specific
/r/seduction23/07/22 12:17 PM
0

Cool. Now what?
/r/seduction23/07/22 11:55 AM
-1

All men won’t though, that’s why there’s an average. It’s very easy to come up with excuses, unfortunately with every excuse you think of shit won’t change. Ik short guys who get plenty of women, fat guys too. They could sit and whine about how hard they have it, but instead they nut up, because complaining about what we already know does nothing
/r/seduction23/07/22 11:54 AM
-1

Just gotta not be average. For example if you truly want a date, ask her to go skydiving or do something that most people would not wanna do. Shit I went fishing as a date and I hate fishing but it worked out well. Just don’t be like everyone else “hey” “what’s up” “ how are you” thing deeper than those
/r/seduction23/07/22 03:21 AM
2

Depends. Are you eating Doritos while playing league of legends with no real ambition wanting a pornstar girlfriend or are you a guy that a woman would want actually to be with If I only wanna fuck chicks like Kim K, I shouldn’t be disappointed when she rejects me bc I’m not Kanye. Note that I think abt it Pete Davidson is the perfect example of being your best self and women following along
/r/seduction23/07/22 03:16 AM
16

Eh. I have a great relationship w my mother but that’s got nothing to do with me attracting women. Practice makes perfect, you’re not practicing “how can I get this chick to come home with me” when you’re hanging out with mom
/r/seduction23/07/22 03:08 AM
1

If it was easy then everyone would do it. Most nice things in life require you to work for it, even moreso when you’re competing w other guys
/r/seduction23/07/22 03:03 AM
27

I feel like the main thing stopping guys is actually talking to a chick and then showing you’re interested. Parties, bars, etc many guys just don’t talk to women, most rely on dating apps. Also a lot of men are insecure esp when it comes to women. Lots of guys compare themselves to “omg look at Chad who gets all the ladies” and try to be like him instead of just being yourself. One advice from a woman that I’ll never forget is “No woman wants to be with an insecure man” and it’s true. If you liv…
/r/seduction22/07/22 08:27 PM
2

Yes we both agree on that. It’s great yes I understand that I’m saying replace this post with like Tinder and it would be terrible advice because most guys are not gonna do well on tinder Yes I know that it’s different with Instagram shit probably Facebook too, they’re not dating apps. Just like Reddit can be a way to meet people
/r/seduction22/07/22 12:57 AM
3

Of course you can get with people through Instagram, but that’s not the sole purpose of Instagram Tinder, bumble, hinge, etc are solely for dating
/r/seduction22/07/22 12:52 AM
1

As long as she’s not a horrible person or like my friends gf, If she’s cute why wouldn’t I have sex with a chick? If you’re not someone else is, it’s just sex
/r/seduction22/07/22 12:48 AM
3

Tinder and bumble are trash. Any dating app that’s a stock is bound to be shit bc the share price gotta go up. Best way to do that is to get guys to pay more for maybe a chance to match w a girl Instagram isn’t a dating app, you had the chance to make a move
/r/seduction22/07/22 12:39 AM
3

If you get a fake and go hit some bars older women love it when younger guys talk to them. If they’re having a convo w you there’s a good chance they’re interested I wouldn’t do dating apps, 18 is super young to older women
/r/seduction22/07/22 12:16 AM
1

If she wants/ doesn’t want to kiss you after a date, asking her isn’t going to change that unless you ask like a complete pussy. Going off vibes you either have to be fully sure that she’s into you, which could limit yourself, or okay with the risk of being known as a creep or worse If I have history w the girl it’s different, but if it’s a first date I generally ask unless they’re obviously wanting to kiss me. Shit I’ve pushed off girls that just randomly started making out w me at parties and …
/r/seduction21/07/22 09:48 PM
0

This. It’s an easy way to close. Better than doing nothing and much better than what could happen if you just randomly try to kiss her Ofc there’s situations where you can tell and it’s pretty obvious
/r/seduction21/07/22 09:38 PM
1

Thing is I’ve had sex w girls who have said no. Don’t think it’d be the same if I just went and tried to plant a kiss on them. Same if they know the same people you do, you’ll look like a creep Consent is hot, I think it’s bad advice to tell a guy to feel out the vibes. It can work but could also go very wrong
/r/seduction21/07/22 09:33 PM
0

I mean this is what I do and it works most times. Better than just going for it as she might not be interested and now you look like a creep
/r/seduction21/07/22 09:30 PM
1

Rarely is anyone, male, female, whatever, attracted to someone overweight. Luckily it’s something you can change and people love the gym so great way to meet people too
/r/seduction20/07/22 10:57 AM
3

It’s not an Incels post it’s just a realization many people had after puberty. Nothing he said was necessarily wrong, it’s just up to him to solve that problem of being average
/r/seduction20/07/22 10:55 AM
24

Don’t be average then
/r/seduction20/07/22 10:14 AM
1

Never take a trip just for pussy. take a trip, get pussy and have fun. Also don’t worry about what others think is simping. Unless your getting cucked or pay crazy amounts on a woman who doesn’t want you, you’re fine, esp since you know her already
/r/seduction19/07/22 10:52 PM
5

Yeah smoking before social events is something I learned hurts more than helps. It was a habit for me too and I never realized how much it hindered me until I didn’t. I’d just be too comfortable when I smoked and never went out and talked to people. Plus I’m ugly when I’m high so that doesn’t help lol
/r/seduction23/06/19 07:46 PM
3

Ask her to come get it
/r/seduction10/06/19 06:12 PM
1

Talking to them
/r/seduction01/06/19 08:36 PM
5

Tinder is pretty shitty just because most girls aren’t gonna want to meet up with a guy from he Internet. They’ll just want someone to give them attention and be a pen pal. There’s some who will want to Fuck but most aren’t gonna want to meet in person until at least a week or two
/r/seduction01/06/19 12:44 PM
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