ChiMarOra Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
15	Lies and more lies		ChiMarOra	/r/Divorce_Men	12/09/24 11:45 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	My kids basically begged me to stop the big weekends… so I said forget it and bought a $30 soccer goal Commenting so that I can return to this post later. I'll see if I can follow your advice, because my mindset is "dad is just a weekend play thing." All I have is two hours in a car and four hours to do things, twice a month. FML.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/05/26 02:01 PM
3	When do you guys take off your ring? The moment I got served 🙄	/r/Divorce_Men	21/05/26 12:14 AM
4	If you have children, do you wish your Ex a “Happy Mother’s Day “ ? 😂😂 No.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/05/26 08:34 PM
3	Advice? Retired AF here. Sorry to say, you don't owe her anything. Let them live with the consequences of their betrayal.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/03/26 11:29 AM
7	How long did you wait to be intimate again? Two months. If you've been out of the dating market for a considerable amount of time, then buckle up. Things have changed over the last 15 years and. it. is. nuts. Not in a good way either.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/03/26 02:39 PM
5	Seek and destroy. OMG, this hits home because this is EXACTLY how I feel. "Flick of a switch" really resonates with me, because, just like you, I will never get the answer to the situation. I still haven't hit the acceptance phase because I'm holding out for the hope she comes to her senses, but based on your story, I should plan on to learn how to <embrace> the situation and find myself. Thanks for sharing.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/09/24 02:07 PM
2	What was the event that led to your divorce? Was it preventative? Thank you for your telling your background. I feel that I can relate well to this.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/09/24 07:39 AM
5	No love for Divorced Men My wife claimed I'm mentally unstable. Sure, I have depression and anxiety, but I'm not unstable...That's not me being in denial, lol. She thought my behavior occurred within a vacuum, but in reality, I was reading her text messages nightly and saw the trainwreck coming, so I prepared. I canceled the Netflix membership--among other streaming and cloud-based services tied to my account-- because she said she texted to all her peeps that she wanted to separate, and she had already left the house. …	/r/Divorce_Men	16/09/24 11:38 AM
2	Hope Good on ya! Sorry to hear, though, that it wrecked you, but I'm glad to hear the case went favorably for you.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/09/24 01:04 PM
5	Wife doesn’t know what she wants The wife pulled the mental health card on me to get a preliminary protective order. Sure, I had an outburst that may have been over the top, but that incident "escalated" because she "shushed" me and completely undermined my attempt to correct my child's behavior. That said, I was reading the wife's text messages, and she should probably have realized that her words (texts) had consequences. Based on what I was reading, I believe she had no clue I was seeing what she was texting, thus, she thoug…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/09/24 11:31 AM