| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 183 | Dude... | DUMP HIS ASS | Chi_shio | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 11:29 PM |
| 88 | Let's revive FemaleLifeStrategy! | How-To High Value | Chi_shio | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 08:30 AM |
| 62 | Just HOW?!?! How can she degrade herself that much to be with this NVM (negative value man, he's even less than no value) | DUMP HIS ASS | Chi_shio | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 01:02 AM |
| 3 | I wonder why she is mad.... 🤔 | #JustLVMThings | Chi_shio | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 10:55 PM |
| 0 | Woman has reasonably solution, comments are full of "NoOoOo! It'S nOt NoRmAl FoR a WoMaN tO hAvE hEr OwN rOoM iN a ReLaTiOnShIp!!!1!1!!11 That'S nOt HeAlThY!1!!!“ | MALE DEPRAVITY | Chi_shio | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 12:37 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | 🤡*Circus music slowly gets louder*🤡Why do they always think we would be angry or sad if "get picked"? Why do they want to tear us down, just because we value other traits? Isn't tearing others down worse than having high standards? I mean, ultimately, we don't care. If it makes you happy, perfect. I am happy for you, too. I just don't get it, why you are shoving it in my face, then. It just seems like they want us to be miserable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 01:58 PM |
| 10 | The audacity of this LVM to ask me to take him on a date.. OLD is full of them.Be all like "ooh, I didn't know you were gay" and "I'm sorry that it's not that obvious, but unfortunately, I am a woman :(" or "maybe you didn't change the settings?" (then instruct him how to do that) then block and delete | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 09:40 AM |
| 10 | Ugh. 30, the new 15.If you are really, really bored, send him to a sex shop website, category pocket pussies or sex dolls. Then write him something along the lines: "Make sure to buy a high quality one, because with that disgusting behavior you won't get a gf ever." Then block and delete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 09:14 AM |
| 8 | In an ask men post, I came across hundreds of comments in a thread talking shit about FDS, saying no one here has a boyfriend or has ever been near a man, and that women here have only baby daddies and have no jobs. What the heck?They simply can not believe, that we are successful with our strategies. For men, it would mean, that there are better and more desirable men than themselves and therefore they would have difficulties finding women. If they just keep telling women that there ISN'T something better than them, women have to settle for them, which means settling for far less. For women, it would mean, that there are other women out there, having it way better than themselves. It is easier for them to just deny the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 04:53 PM |
| 157 | When the trash takes itself out"Walk in the park?" "If that is the first thing that comes to your mind when thinking about taking me out to a date, then we are not compatible. Goodbye." Don't give second chances. Block and delete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 09:08 AM |
| 1 | How much do you think a man should spend on an engagement ring?Where I am from, the price of the wedding ring depends on the income of the man. Normally it should be about 3 months. The absolute lowest is 1 month. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 01:42 PM |
| 21 | my bf doesn't pay for me anymoreThe harm is telling men how to manipulate you. You are basically telling them "do this and I am yours!" If a man can't keep doing these things it means he just did it to get you. They think that after they got you, you won't leave them if they just stop doing it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 03:05 PM |
| 9 | What’s your cut off for when a guy can ask you on another date?Nah, you could write something like "We are not on the same page. Good luck. Bye.", but please don't wait for another message. He already showed you his honest disinterest in any more dates with you. He already told you the truth. Don't wait just to hear a lie that will stroke your emotions. You don't need that bs. You don't need him and after having the audacity to ask you out in such a disrespectful way, you don't want him anymore. You are the queen and he fucked up. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 02:50 PM |
| 34 | “We’Re OpPrEsSeD ToO”Sure, maybe you've done nothing wrong, but what are you doing to make it RIGHT? YOU are still walking behind a girl in the night, because YOU would never rape her! Who cares if she is scared? I mean, it is not YOUR fault, right? YOU still get loud and bend over women in arguments or raise a hand. I mean, it's HER fault she is intimidated since YOU would never hit her, right? YOU still try to talk to women that are alone. Why should she be uncomfortable? She is with YOU and who doesn't like a lit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 07:56 PM |
| 23 | Is it strange that potential date sent me an unflattering photo?He tells you that he won't try to impess you or put any effort towards making a good impression on you. I mean, would you send a pic of you in ugly homewear and messy bun to someone you want to make a good impression on? No? Then why did he send that to you? He doesn't care. Block and delete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 04:53 PM |
| 15 | LVM Behavior, what are your examples?He agreed to do stuff I wanted to do and then sighed and whined the whole time until I agreed to leave. He rarely wanted to come to my place because it was "boring" but wanted me to come to him every weekend. Which I had to pay the train for while his mother would always drive him to me. He wanted to go to an event with me, where he didn't tell me I had to pay beforehand, then wanted the money back from me an during the whole event, I just sat on a couch alone while he talked with his friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 10:38 AM |
| 47 | Guys would use my tip to make their dinner cheaperYeah, I've never dated anyone with another cultural background (not a preference, just haven't met anyone else). Why should I waste my time with guys that don't pay? Even if that would mean to be single forever (which it clearly doesn't mean). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 07:52 PM |
| 87 | Guys would use my tip to make their dinner cheaperSis, why are you paying? I'm from Germany, too and I don't pay for dates. Never. It doesn't matter where you are from, the man pays for the date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 07:21 PM |
| 137 | **LVM; it’s not even always ‘a taste of their own medicine’ it’s just saying ‘enough is enough’That's why you don't let them push you. Be crazy the first time they pull that bs. No second chance. They can't behave, you leave. and most important: Be crazy, y'all! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 07:17 PM |
| 16 | He seemed to be HVM, until his texts and calls started to become far and few in between and then he started to try to convince me to be ‘spontaneous’ and come to his place at 10pm after not hearing from him for 2 weeks. Immediate block. He’s ‘hurt’. LolOops, I missed that one :D thanks! yeah, if he wants to "spontaneously" stick his dick in something he should try a blender sex doll | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 08:24 AM |
| 179 | He seemed to be HVM, until his texts and calls started to become far and few in between and then he started to try to convince me to be ‘spontaneous’ and come to his place at 10pm after not hearing from him for 2 weeks. Immediate block. He’s ‘hurt’. Lolsoo.. He messaged you despite being blocked on another number? Flag 1 🚩 He didn't think which means he's incapable of learning.. Flag 2 🚩 Only messaging you if he wants something from you? Flag 3 🚩 "I'm sorry you feel that way" whoa BIG red flag, so this counts as two.. Flags 4 & 5 🚩🚩 I HOPE he's hurt. Stupidity has to hurt. His arms have to hurt from waving that much flags. I'm really really glad for you that you dodged that bullet :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 11:35 PM |
| 19 | A post where a woman asks men to stop mansplaining on a female orientated subreddit and the responses by angry scrotes.That's why I wish there'd be more subs like this one.. men are ALWAYS manipulating women into pick-me behavior. With more women-only spaces, more pick-mes will see their self destroying behavior and level up. That's why they always try to invade our space. They want to keep us away from that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 07:25 AM |
| 52 | My heart breaks for her. Wish I didn't read this.After reading everything, I hope that, too. He even adresses her as "best friend" and not even as gf? Wtf? This makes me sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 07:13 AM |
| 14 | Girl is harassed by a Low Value Man: he's trying to get her number trough her dog's ID TAGyou could train your dog to show aggression signs on command. regardless of the size of the dog most people will leave a teeth showing, growling dog alone. The dog doesn't even care about the command word. you could use "fight" or something similar for extra scare points. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 04:13 PM |
| 47 | Girl is harassed by a Low Value Man: he's trying to get her number trough her dog's ID TAGThere are little tubes you can put on the collar where you can put your contact info inside. It will be more difficult for this scum to grab it and quickly see your number since you have to unscrew them to open them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 10:06 AM |
| 55 | Queen wanted her manchild boyfriend to learn basic life skills before moving in together. He Got offended and ignored her while turning her friends against her. Finally reaches out, only to offer hiring a maid to his “half” of the chores.Dear male lurkers! This is a good example for men about Value (HVM/LVM) and Standards. Wanting a man, that knows how to do chores and housework is a Standard. Nobody is ever low value for not knowing anything, but choosing someone who doesn't even know simple things is low standard. And queens have high standards. Not wanting to learn doing his chores to relieve his gf and/or not finding a solution that make it equal to both of them (a maid that does all the chores or an even split like 50% maid… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 09:08 AM |
| 30 | Men call women “gold diggers”, but no one ever calls men out for what they dig for.Let's put this even further. There is a wonderful post about how you have to pay attention about what a man spends his money on, which explains how man constantly compete against other men. Even financially. Having more money and therefore more "power" inflates a males ego A LOT. By calling a woman a gold digger, he's indirectly saying, that he has very much money (otherwise there wouldn't be a woman digging for it) and baiting low maintenance pick-mes that are staying with him for everything el… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 12:00 AM |
| 64 | when tall women wear heels unapologetically, I liveI mean, if it bothers them that much, men can wear high heels, too.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 11:56 AM |
| 3 | Can’t be an incel if I’m celibate willingly 😉 Looked at the profile and it’s actually a WOMAN who posts pictures of her boobs on gone wild subs. Pickme, much? Reported & blocked!Aah yes, without men, all women are miserable and sad!!!! 11!!!1!1!1! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 09:39 AM |
| 13 | A recent AITA post - oh ladies, this girl has just had the luckiest escape ever. This scrote is unbelievable.this was posted here 3 times already... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 01:01 PM |
| 95 | The downvotes I get for saying that grabbing you gf's ass and saying you'd like to fuck her isn't foreplay. Guess what? Apparently sex doesn't require foreplay every time! I'll know in ten years when I've had more sex. Honey, I've had more than 10 years of bad sex, that's why I'm saying this 🤣notice, how it is completely normal for him to grope his gf just because his pp itches? he totally doesn't care if she wants to or not. if he'd really care, he wouldn't sneak up on her while she's sleeping. What a creep. Thats gross and disrespectful af | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 04:09 PM |
| 4 | Shut the F*** UpPally... I'd give up my whole level up process and became a pick-me again, if ANYONE on here thinks this is NOT disrespectful.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 12:22 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/22/2020Hi y'all, I just wanted a place to vent about my former flatmate because she's the reason I'm now tempted to give guys that say their ex is crazy the benefit of the doubt -.- That girl was an absolute pain in the ass, lying and manipulating everyone around her. She crashed my ex bfs car and refused to pay for it, poisoned his aquarium because he evicted her, neglected her dogs which shat all over the house and garden and is doing heavy drugs like heroine and cocaïne. I'm so happy she got kicked … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 11:08 PM |
| 19 | Girls, HVM behaviour?nah, that's just some basic human decency | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 09:38 PM |
| 14 | Is it just me or is this crawling with red flagsHe called you beautiful. Thats as worse as pet-names and not a compliment here. He hid his age. He WANTS to meet you. He doesn't even ask if you would like to meet him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 01:07 AM |
| 200 | If women approached biological science like menFurthermore males are not supposed to have hanging testicles. The balls of a fit and healthy man are inside his body and barely noticeable. Hanging, saggy balls are a sign of too many sex partners that have intoxicated their testicles and therefore their body pushes them out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 11:38 AM |
| 61 | Men get creative when they love you. Find yourself a man that craft you a ring as intricate as this. Historical HVM alertI think there's an AITA where a woman asks if she's TA for wanting a real engagement ring instead of the one her bf wants to make because she doesn't trust him to make one.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 06:29 PM |
| 9 | Some stuff I’ve changed since reading a lot of FDS. What are your standards?The last film is quite good if you look at it like a star wars parody | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 01:50 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/29/2020UPDATE: I'm leaving him. I just wait until the lockdown is over since I want to move out as well. Thank you all for realizing that he isn't the right one for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 01:09 PM |
| 2 | My friend is seeing a guy who keeps sanitary pads at his house for his female friends and she thinks this is a HVM traitThe Internet is flooded with pics about how women would instantly marry guys that get them tampons, pads and stuff or have them in their house for their female friends. Given the fact, he mentioned that out of nowhere, he's using that to get a her. "LoOk, I tReAt YoUr NORMAL BoDy FuNcTiOnS cOmPlEtEly NORMAL!!!111!! lOoK wHaT a GoOd GuY i Am!1!1!!!!" Plus, I bet he doesn't even have pads at his home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 01:04 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/29/2020That's a little difficult, since we are living together but I'll try! (time to work on myself and keep him locked out of my room) " If you leave him next week because you decide that if you aren't in a relationship with future goals in mind, then you would rather not be in one, is he going to come back or leave? If he leaves is that really a loss to you?" I'm asking myself the same questions over and over and I honestly don't know what to do with the answer.. If I told him, he'd probably marry m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 02:34 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/29/2020He had an open relationship with her and I don't think the ring mattered to her since they both had planned on having kids together before she cheated. Of course, I wasn't there so I can only judge the things I know, but given the fact, she admitted, she had fucked up, her family saying, she had fucked up with him, her current bf saying that and all their common friends I know saying that, either, I do have my doubts that this is some classic textbook red flag here. They broke up like adults and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 02:25 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/29/2020Hi, newbie here :) I met my bf before discovering FDS and I just can't find any LVM traits on him.. there's only one thing, that's bugging me and that is marriage. We are together for about a year now and my plan is to marry him in max. 5 years (if everything is going well until then). He doesn't like the idea of marriage. I think it's because of his last relationship (8 years, then she cheated on him). I don't want to be just a gf forever but I could need some advice on this because just apart … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 03:42 AM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/29/2020Girl, he pushed you away. He doesn't WANT you back and since you don't seem to have a dick, you are the WOMAN here. You don't pursue men. This man is TOAST. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 10:58 PM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/29/2020No... just no... You don't WANT him back. Come on, you can't possibly have that little self respect to voluntarily humiliate yourself LIKE THIS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 10:46 PM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/29/2020Would you, as the boss, let some half assed applicant drive YOU, the boss, to the job interview? Me neither. It's the first date. He could be LVM and you don't want do depend on scum like that to get back to your house. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 12:50 PM |
| 18 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/29/2020Just block him. The less you do, the better. No last message. You told him how you feel, he doesn't care. He is toast and you don't need toast. Throw him out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 12:12 PM |
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