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Don't hesitate. Just go ahead and approach her. We won't know what she's really thinking, whether she's smiling because she likes you or she's smiling because she's being a friendly waitress. Regardless, what matters is that you take the initiative and see for yourself. Doesn't matter too much of what you say. Introduce yourself. Ask if she's from the area. What are some good place to visit. Anything to get the convo going. Good luck!
/r/seduction06/06/15 12:09 AM
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Not awkward if you don't make it awkward. I believe it might be to your advantage since it helps to establish some familiarity. Go ahead and approach her.
/r/seduction18/02/15 11:18 PM
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Yeah you might need to take some time to learn about yourself. If you end up doing this just because she urges for you to, then you won't truly follow through with it. You have to know intrinsically that this course of action is best for you and you want to make a plan for yourself.
/r/seduction16/02/15 07:56 PM
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I can tell that you're committed, mature, and serious as to what it takes to move things along. Sometimes you just need a good wakeup call like this breakup to get you back on track. My advice is if you really want to be with her, you have to communicate that you will do what it takes to stay with her. Of course, words are just words, so you've gotta show her that you'll start taking responsibility for yourself and prove that you're goal-driven and have a plan. You cannot be comfortable with you…
/r/seduction16/02/15 05:28 AM
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I think for you to find out about your inner self -- you have to focus on your weaknesses (your passion, drive, and goals). Sometimes when we look for a person we want to be with, we look for these qualities. You mentioned that you're attending classes. Do you have a goal? Or are you taking classes just to get by and graduate. Think to yourself. What are you doing with your life? What are your plans after school? What career are you pursuing? What are your passions and hobbies? You probably won'…
/r/seduction16/02/15 05:06 AM
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She just wants sex. She clearly agreed to hook up from the initial conversation.
/r/seduction10/02/15 06:06 PM
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Keep texting to a minimum. Use it to arrange dates and show her what you have to offer in person.
/r/seduction10/02/15 06:52 AM
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Congrats on the close. I totally agree with your last point. Often times we hear that things should be done a certain way, however, it is simply a template and CAN be adjusted accordingly. In this case, it worked out totally fine.
/r/seduction09/02/15 07:37 PM
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Always assume attraction. I don't think you need to ask if it's a date, just assume it is. Stop texting as much. Save the convo for tomorrow where you can chat, flirt and kino her.
/r/seduction09/02/15 04:04 AM
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Take a glance at them, acknowledge their presence with either a smile, a head nod, or both.
/r/seduction09/02/15 01:31 AM
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During the high energy moments, when eye contact is maintained, IOIs are shown, and enough kino is performed (high fives, brushing her arm, hugs are exchanged). Make sure you're close enough to have an easy lean in.
/r/seduction08/02/15 02:32 AM
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Try calling her. Maybe she missed the text.
/r/seduction08/02/15 02:20 AM
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Sorry to hear you've been cheated on. I've been in the same boat and it's been one of the motivating factors that has gotten me into self improvement and pickup. I'm glad you're making the improvements necessary to move on with your life and becoming the best version of you possible. The only way you'll have more to talk about is to immerse yourself in a variety of things: read a lot, watch shows, follow sports, have some hobbies, etc. It's not to say you have to do all those things, but the mor…
/r/seduction07/02/15 01:37 AM
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By switching venues, it shows that you can take initiative and be able to build up the fun at the next venue. From her following you, it shows her investment and her compliance of becoming much more comfortable with you.
/r/seduction06/02/15 08:56 PM
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DiCarlo Escalation Ladder
/r/seduction06/02/15 08:50 PM
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Always assume attraction. Follow the kino escalation ladder.
/r/seduction06/02/15 07:57 PM
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Meh, I don't usually do the good mornings/good night texts that early.. maybe after a certain number of dates and you both are clearly established? To me it seems a bit too try hard.
/r/seduction06/02/15 06:47 AM
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Congrats on the approach and number close! It's hard to tell, the chuckle could be a variety of reasons -- nervous reaction, she's never had someone approach her like that before, she's interested but tries to keep her cool etc. Continue to develop rapport now that you've got her number and try to set something up.
/r/seduction06/02/15 06:45 AM
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She thought you were cute. That's already a sign of interest. She would definitely remember you. Just approach her and say hi!
/r/seduction06/02/15 03:15 AM
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Bitches love smiley faces.
/r/seduction05/02/15 02:17 AM
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Ask her when she'll be free or back in town. Then hit her up again. If you feel that she isn't receptive to that, then it's time to move on.
/r/seduction05/02/15 02:05 AM
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First off, great job grabbing a number with another girl! Secondly, it happens, man. The more you hesitate, the more you think of reasons to not approach. Don't beat yourself over it. Let it be your motivation the next time you see a HB. Practice practice practice.
/r/seduction04/02/15 05:34 AM
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The solution isn't to remove negging from our vocabulary, but rather, it is to increase our awareness on the proper way to do it. Negging should be shown that it IS playful, and not a douchebag insult. Make it obvious that it's playful (smile, wink, grin).
/r/seduction04/02/15 12:37 AM
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Maybe you're better at daygame approaches rather than nightgame approaches. Use that to your advantage and continue approaching more girls.
/r/seduction04/02/15 12:29 AM
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Congrats man! Glad to hear about your transformation. Awesome to see that you're making the right moves towards improving yourself. Best of luck with her. Update us!
/r/seduction04/02/15 12:24 AM
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Goto settings, speed, change to 1.25x
/r/seduction04/02/15 12:19 AM
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Chat with everyone. Show that you're sociable, fun, and not just going for the hotties. Then go for the hotties.
/r/seduction04/02/15 12:09 AM
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If you feel the chemistry is right go for Saturday. It sounds that she is digging you since she agreed to a third date.
/r/seduction03/02/15 11:57 PM
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Sorry to hear you came off a breakup. But congrats on making the first approach towards moving on. It'll take some practice to get used to having impromptu conversations. I think you know where you went wrong here, but my only advice for next time is to keep the convo casual and friendly. I'm sure you didn't have any intentions of offending her.
/r/seduction02/02/15 06:23 AM
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Don't get back with her. Clearly you both were not meant to be. She threw all those 3 years down the drain and cheated on you with other guys. As soon as you started improving yourself, she puts up a front and tells you everything you want to hear in hopes of trying to win you back. Don't fall for it. You're still young. There are millions of girls out there that would treat you better than her.
/r/seduction02/02/15 06:17 AM
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Meh, that is something I won't mess with personally. If she cheats with you, she will cheat on you. But to each their own.
/r/seduction27/01/15 05:42 AM
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