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Chicagolax/r/askTRP05/11/19 07:16 PM
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Chicagolax/r/askTRP10/09/19 01:54 PM
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What part about validation and attention seeking behavior, literally as a job, isn’t a red flag to you
/r/askTRP19/11/19 01:11 AM
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OP going to wake up in an ice bath w missing organs
/r/askTRP11/11/19 04:07 PM
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Nailed it
/r/askTRP07/11/19 02:41 PM
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Yeah I was like micro analyzing texts I might have sent I was so shocked. Definitely didn’t do any of the above (at least hope not - 5 year+ lurker here so would be pathetic if so). Think you’re right - emotional unavailability, immaturity, wants this on 100% her terms or not at all. Deserve better than that and not taking her shit. Appreciate the offer to talk through this. This has been super helpful in processing things while going through the motions of detaching
/r/askTRP06/11/19 08:08 PM
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I’m already wondering what I did to fuck this up so quickly bc ive never experienced pull back suddenly like this before and it’s already rattling me. Sorry buddy, that sounds like pure torture and sorry you had to go through that. Sounds like you’re a better man coming out on the other side though. Don’t think I could ever plate - it’s all those qualities above that I like that I don’t necessarily need in plates. Those things are my Achilles heel. Appreciate the anecdote and hope you’re doing w…
/r/askTRP06/11/19 01:48 PM
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Woof
/r/askTRP06/11/19 12:32 PM
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She didn’t know I was seeing other girls the whole time but yeah guess she was just looking for someone to put up with her shit.
/r/askTRP06/11/19 12:08 PM
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Man I didn’t even know this was a thing until this thread and I’ve been reading this forum for years. Just did some research on it and holy shit reading other people’s posts it’s identical
/r/askTRP06/11/19 05:19 AM
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You think so? Feel bad for her, but also a little less rattled that I somehow blew it and have no idea what I did here
/r/askTRP06/11/19 04:20 AM
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Thanks man. Already feeling some burn and confusion so if it’s not a fuck yes it’s a no
/r/askTRP06/11/19 03:28 AM
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Nah you’re right. Otherwise I’ll just be scratching my head two weeks from now wondering how I blew it and way more devastated
/r/askTRP06/11/19 03:27 AM
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👌🏻
/r/askTRP06/11/19 02:26 AM
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Not sure about you but feel like the neediness attracts me. Wanting to be wanted I guess. Hope you’re doing well after walking away from that. Sounds like you made the right play
/r/askTRP06/11/19 02:09 AM
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Yeah you’re right. Just one of those taste of honey worse than none at all situations
/r/askTRP06/11/19 02:08 AM
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Thanks bro
/r/askTRP06/11/19 01:56 AM
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Holy shit
/r/askTRP05/11/19 11:56 PM
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Yeah man. I know her dad had an affair on her mom and there was some divorce and other stuff that I think maybe has played into this but in either way, this definitely isn’t a fuck yes on moving forward. Wouldn’t even say she’s narcissist think she’s more insecure than anything. Time to bail.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 10:30 PM
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She asked me if there was anything she should worry about with me and I gave some answer not taking it seriously, then proceeded to tell me “she hasn’t really had any real LTRs and ends up sabotaging good things as soon as they start to progress somewhere” I feel like if someone is showing you their true self, believe them
/r/askTRP05/11/19 10:29 PM
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Yup, sucks but gut agree
/r/askTRP05/11/19 10:27 PM
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She had a pretty face, always wanted to be holding onto me/touching me and told me how great I was. Feel like she just caught me at a time when I needed that attention. Just feel stupid for getting attached to it and thinking it was real
/r/askTRP05/11/19 10:20 PM
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Preach
/r/askTRP05/11/19 10:17 PM
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Love it - gonna blast this hard
/r/askTRP05/11/19 09:46 PM
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Yeah that’s the thing man. Just makes it frustrating when they’re the ones bailing on you. She wasn’t even that great in bed! Not even sure why I caught feels here tbh but just really liked the companionship.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 09:42 PM
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Yes a bunch of times, can’t plate, too emotionally invested
/r/askTRP05/11/19 09:41 PM
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Thanks - Too many feels to plate. Gotta cut the chord.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 08:40 PM
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Yeah you’re right. Can’t reconcile the no serious relationships and saying that she sabotages anything that starts to look like potential. She told me her playbook in advance and looks like she’s running it
/r/askTRP05/11/19 08:40 PM
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Love bombed is exactly right. She couldn’t get enough of me. Just sucks seeing this light switch seemingly flip. Time to hit the gym.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 08:38 PM
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Yeah def, have tons of plates who are dtf whenever, just really just liked the chemistry and way she made me feel when I was around her. Recently-ish off a break up w ex LTR so it was nice feeling genuinely liked wanted again, and not sure I ever fully processed that so feel like I’m just catching it double here. In too deep to plate, so gonna just gonna have to call up the bench.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 08:04 PM
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Thanks - usually I’m the one who pulls back so just feeling a little rattled. Time for more gym and hobbies.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 08:00 PM
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Yup you’re right. I’ve been dating/fucking other girls but definitely have caught feelings here which sucks man. Time to abandon ship though for calmer waters
/r/askTRP05/11/19 07:33 PM
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We talked. She’s essentially looking for a fiancé and I’m not at that point right now and want to keep focusing on my career and skydiving. She wanted me to prioritize the relationship like a goal aka progress this towards a proposal. We parted ways.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 01:24 PM
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Thanks man, yeah you’re right. Tired of feeling this way
/r/askTRP10/09/19 11:56 PM
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You’re right. I feel like women today have “hobbies” that consist of drinking on patios, brunch, and the bachelor. Gotta do a much better job of screening and need to find a way to meet women with actual hobbies
/r/askTRP10/09/19 05:37 PM
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Yeah maybe not gold digger but certainly provider. I think I’m gonna call it today. Life’s too short to feel alone in a relationship.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 03:59 PM
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Yeah you’re right. It’s killed plenty of them in the past but this is the first time I’ve felt legitimately unappreciated. Every other one was happy for any crumb of time they could get with me or at least made me feel like it. and for sure, definitely not changing anything.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 03:58 PM
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Too scared/not interested
/r/askTRP10/09/19 03:08 PM
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This has actually been a huge issue and the first time I’ve ever had this issue with someone I’ve seen regularly. There are fundamental table stake issues of appreciating any time that I give her and I should have noticed these earlier on. I feel like I’m a hand bag or some other accessory she likes knowing she has and showing off but doesn’t really truly care about spending time w me or she would put more effort into it
/r/askTRP10/09/19 03:07 PM
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I think you’re right
/r/askTRP10/09/19 03:05 PM
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My man
/r/askTRP10/09/19 02:00 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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