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If you want to grind down your AA with repeated approaches, openings, and rejections and closes multiple nights per week, get used to going out alone.
/r/seduction16/11/12 04:04 AM
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I play guitar and I've been considering just going out and playing on the street, not for tips like most people who do that but just to see if people stop and talk to me.
/r/seduction10/11/12 08:31 AM
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Are you attracted to "AFC"s? Don't run game on people you wouldn't actually be interested in getting physical with..
/r/seduction31/10/12 06:33 PM
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I don't have any sisters but it makes sense to me. I had several female cousins slightly younger than me, that my family saw all the time, and I can easily look back and see my interactions with them in this light.
/r/seduction30/10/12 03:24 PM
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Yes, this list seems to assume that extroverts will make the effort to befriend an introvert in spite of the differences. While this occasionally happens (it has happened to me, for instance, resulting in some really close friends), its rare enough that no one should count on it as a way to make friends.
/r/seduction19/10/12 06:25 PM
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I'm in my 30s and I'm going to a college Halloween party. My main "do" is "be the cool older guy" and my main don't is "don't be the creepy older guy".
/r/seduction17/10/12 01:22 PM
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In my city the serious dancers all kinda know each other, and have their own social circle. You'd have to become seriously good at dancing to have status in that circle. However, its really good practice for dancing with other girls that you meet somewhere else.
/r/seduction17/10/12 01:19 PM
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I thought the point of cold approaches was because you can do a lot of them and so become desensitized to rejection. I don't go into them expecting much.
/r/seduction17/10/12 01:11 PM
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I would think being a DJ is inherently status-enhancing if you are remotely successful... I'm surprised you don't get approached more often.
/r/seduction16/10/12 03:45 PM
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I don't think OP was advising to hit on girls that you find unattractive. He's advising to not artificially limit yourself to "8" and above. I think if a guy is truly, psychologically/biologically unable to be excited about hitting on a girl that's "kinda cute" then he either already bangs much hotter girls regularly or his eyes have been spoiled by looking at too many naked pictures of much hotter girls.. lol.
/r/seduction16/10/12 03:27 PM
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Particularly interested in hearing from the older 30+ American/Canadian cats if they've also witnessed this change over the years. I'd noticed that the bars I was in have become hangout venues, but I figured that was because as an older person I was now going to a different kind of bar than when I was in college. I was such an unmitigated beta (almost omega) back then that I don't have much hard data to compare here, but I can tell you that it couldn't have been very hard to pull chicks in a bar…
/r/seduction12/10/12 03:41 PM
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Of course it's a bad reason for monogamy, but it is what a lot of people do, and I bet some here recognize themselves (or their past selves) in that paragraph.
/r/seduction08/10/12 01:14 AM
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FWIW I actually think that's a pretty funny opener.
/r/seduction05/10/12 07:38 PM
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I honestly don't know if I want monogamy or not. I always thought I did, but the more I learn about pickup the more I think that whether or not to lead a monogamous lifestyle is a question that I will only honestly be able to answer once I have all possible options at my disposal. For many guys, monogamy looks like a good deal because there is a scarcity mindset. If you think of attractive women as very hard to get, of course you just want to get one and hold onto her as long as possible. If you…
/r/seduction05/10/12 05:38 PM
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As someone who is both learning game and seeking to learn to Dom, I appreciate your words. I've been one of those kinky AFCs, they aren't really getting any more than their vanilla counterparts. The main difference is in the kink world, the betas actually know how much crazy shit the alphas are up to.
/r/seduction02/10/12 02:34 PM
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Getting buried deeper and deeper in leading someone on is a real thing. Back in more beta times I quite literally married the first girl I laid, because I didn't know how to break up with her or admit that the only reason I'd stayed with her as long as I did was to lose my virginity (it took months of dating before we did it).
/r/seduction30/09/12 11:42 PM
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A while ago when I was a lot more timid I was talking to a girl at work about a movie that we both liked, and she invited me over to watch it. I was actually interested in her, and I wanted to think it was a date, but I never escalated or anything. I just sat around watching the movie. I never even touched her, suffering in horny silence, except when hugging good night. And then I wondered why she seemed colder and less interested in me after that. Now I can imagine she was probably felt more re…
/r/seduction30/09/12 11:34 PM
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Use EA as a CUE. Not sure when you should try and touch her leg or put your arm around her? When you get the feelings of EA. Do it THEN I really like this idea.
/r/seduction28/09/12 02:48 PM
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Just speaking for myself, I would rarely go out of my way to initiate conversation with a girl I wasn't at least a little attracted to.
/r/seduction19/09/12 03:59 AM
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Upvote for fucking balls. Introduce yourself to people as soon as you see them, don't hover around waiting before you talk to somebody (unless you're still talking to someone else at the moment). Don't try to be "alpha". Don't self-deprecating humor, it won't sound the way you think it does. Look people in the eye when you are talking to them; but don't stare at them at any other time, especially not when they are talking to you. Update us later.
/r/seduction15/09/12 02:13 AM
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Most of the material in the community is aimed at women in your age group, because women don't really get any hotter than that except maybe by losing weight. (I expect down votes, but thats just my opinion man) 37 here.
/r/seduction15/09/12 12:23 AM
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Double Your Dating was the first place I saw it spelled out that even your intent is a long term relationship, there has to be sexual attraction from the beginning. You can't beta-orbit your way into a nice girl's heart. I probably want to revisit it, especially after reading No More Mister Nice Guy.
/r/seduction11/09/12 12:07 PM
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If you're fat, lose weight. No matter what anybody says about game making up for appearance, handling your weight can only help.
/r/seduction11/09/12 12:02 PM
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I'm 37 and I think I look about 37. I've #-closed and k-closed all the way down to 18 (when I was 36), but the biggest age gap I've actually slept with or had a long term relationship with was 26 when I was 35. Didn't even seem like being with a "younger woman", really, just seemed right. There are attractive women in their mid/late 30s and even older, women that still have good bodies, but they lack the "cute" factor that you mention, and to be honest I actually think the younger ones like me b…
/r/seduction10/09/12 01:47 PM
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You have taken your first step into a larger world.
/r/seduction07/09/12 09:31 PM
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You can read up about IOIs, there are many resources on it. But I think you need to develop the courage take the shot if you are interested in her whether you see a "sign" or not. Personally, I always sucked at reading IOIs, even after I started reading up on game. Meanwhile I noticed that sometimes when I was talking with a woman I'd start to feel extra excited, maybe even getting hard, even if nothing sexual was being discussed at all. It didn't directly relate to the hotness of the individual…
/r/seduction07/09/12 03:03 PM
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"You fall in love, you lose" Sweet, cute, shy, geeky, girls-next-door: these are the worst, because it is hardest to avoid developing oneitis and thinking of them as some kind of angel. I like to say such girls exude "beta rays", a kind of radiation that turns you more beta just by being around them unless you take efforts to shield yourself. Have to make an effort to remember that they too are base human beings, with sexual desires and emotional issues and bodily functions.
/r/seduction07/09/12 02:46 PM
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I was married from age 23 to 35, and when I finally got divorced I was considerably more awkward with women as when I was going into it. I spent that whole time "letting myself go" and I don't just mean physically. I stopped interacting with women in a flirty way, and totally forgot how to do it. (None of this helped keep my wife attracted to me.. by the time it ended she was basically refusing to have sex with me) However, I imagine if I'd stayed single all that time, just raw experience would …
/r/seduction06/09/12 02:48 AM
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I wish seddit and all the modern thinking on game had been around years ago when I was trying to lose my virginity. I remember stumbling upon early versions of Speed Seduction way back in the mid 90s and thinking, "this shit couldn't possibly work". As it was, it took me years of oneitis, friend zones, beta providership, and failed marriage before I finally gave Game a serious look.
/r/seduction06/09/12 02:33 AM
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I agree. Although I will say I've only hit on black girls that already have a lot of white friends, which might bias things towards the ones who are open to white guys.
/r/seduction06/09/12 02:04 AM
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OP stops being an AFC if he puts these wise words into practice.
/r/seduction05/09/12 01:54 AM
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The closest thing I've come to clever is when I asked a girl a question about movies or music or something, and when she answered, told her it was the right answer and here was her reward.. and then kissed her. I will emphasize that it only worked because I'd been escalating kino well before then. Dancing, holding hands, playing with her hair. And I probably could have just leaned in and kissed her without saying anything, again because of the kino had paved the way for it.
/r/seduction05/09/12 01:46 AM
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Personally I think OP is too young to pull off a fedora. They look better on older guys. A young guy in a fedora looks incongruent.
/r/seduction05/09/12 12:09 AM
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I'm 37 and bald. I don't claim to be an mPUA but I am able to approach 23 year old girls without it being creepy. I have made out with an 18 year old, gotten a day 2 with 23 and 24 year olds, and fucked (EDIT: made an FB out of) a 27 year old. I will say that shaving my head (which I started at 35) made a huge improvement in my looks.
/r/seduction05/09/12 12:07 AM
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I've got the opposite problem from OP. Too many of my friends are married or in very long term relationships, so they aren't even interested in situations where I might be able to pick up women. The lesson I learned is to just go out without them. Going out alone is part of the game.
/r/seduction08/07/12 12:05 AM
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I dunno if I can pass for 20s or not. A couple of girls have claimed to think I was, but they were obviously already attracted to me and may just have been flattering me - one said it after kissing, the other said it while already on a date. I don't know that the average person could be expected to think that. TBH I'm not much interested in meeting women my age in a club, I can find them other places. The whole point of going to a club would be for the younger girls. Which I guess, is kinda sket…
/r/seduction06/07/12 05:04 PM
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Earlier this week: I walked out of one of my regular bars early because I had work to do that might and had only stopped in there to eat a hamburger, saw a cute girl walking down the street, I crossed the street to get to my car, as she walked past me she turned her head towards me very briefly and with a smile that would have gotten an immediate approach from me if it had happened when I was still on her side of the street. But by then I figured anything I did would look desperate, like getting…
/r/seduction06/07/12 04:54 PM
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Male, 36 here. I've never been much of a fan of any of the genres of music to which people normally dance in clubs, so I don't know that much about what they are like. Is club game worth the price of admission for a guy my age, or should I just leave it for the 21 year olds?
/r/seduction06/07/12 04:34 PM
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yes, the dance floor was right next to the bar. in order to get away from her friends we'd have had to quit dancing and go sit down at a table or something. we were spinning every which way during the dance. by chance she would have been facing her friends every once in a while, briefly. when they came to get her I don' t think she was facing them, she was facing me.
/r/seduction15/06/12 03:21 AM
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That part about the beautiful eyes contradict advice regularly I see here and elsewhere. Complimenting a girl's physical appearance is usually discouraged here I thought.
/r/seduction15/06/12 03:15 AM
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