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| 1 | How I reply to girls IG stories that make her respondI agree. Almost all of them are so negative. Saying we wouldn’t get along because I’m fit and take the gym seriously would just be a turn off. Most guys I go for are also serious about the gym and would never say something so lame like that. I like it when men are supportive and praise me for my hard work in the gym… | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Shot my shot at the beauty salonProbably what every girl has been through, I’m not into casual hook ups so maybe that’s my own issue but everytime a guy tries to casually sleep with me it’s like a reminder that no one will ever really love me. Oh well | /r/seduction | 17/10/25 02:04 AM |
| 1 | How do I move from small talk to a fun, specific date suggestion without it feeling forced or awkward?I get what you’re saying and the second one is very true but it’s more about the effort and time it takes to get ready. Don’t get me wrong I’d say about half of women like coffee dates. And that’s great. But I’m just suggesting that maybe some wont like it and you can just chalk it up to that and not take it personal. If you prefer a girl who is more simple for a first meet go for that.. I’m not saying anything’s wrong with coffee dates. I just don’t like them cuz I don’t drink coffee anyways an… | /r/seduction | 17/10/25 02:00 AM |
| -8 | How do I move from small talk to a fun, specific date suggestion without it feeling forced or awkward?Also sorry for lowkey spamming you but some girls just don’t like coffee dates. I say no to ALL coffee dates even if I’m very interested in him. If an NBA player offered me a coffee date I’d pass. It’s way too casual and low effort. Remember we women pay a lot for makeup, hair care, outfits and nails. It’s kind of offensive to some women but don’t get me wrong, some women love them. To avoid this just simply ask if she’d prefer coffee date or a dinner and there’s your answer. | /r/seduction | 16/10/25 03:41 AM |
| -4 | How do I move from small talk to a fun, specific date suggestion without it feeling forced or awkward?That’s why it’s not progressing. I’d probably unmatch a guy for suggesting we go somewhere but not asking me out. I’d assume he’s really not that interested or wants me to beg on my hands and knees for his time. | /r/seduction | 16/10/25 03:39 AM |
| 6 | How do I move from small talk to a fun, specific date suggestion without it feeling forced or awkward?Literally just ask. Most women want to go out and do something fun, get some food or do something new! Instead of asking let’s get food sometime (lack of enthusiasm and no specifics) just say “is there a restaurant you’ve been wanting to try?” Or “when are you free?” Then- “Let’s get Italian food on Friday” | /r/seduction | 16/10/25 03:39 AM |
| -5 | Shot my shot at the beauty salonI don’t know. I kind of just gave up dating in general. I like meeting guys through friend groups, though it doesn’t guarantee he will see me as a human being, atleast he will somewhat be more respectful because of mutual friends. | /r/seduction | 15/10/25 09:06 PM |
| -4 | Shot my shot at the beauty salonOkay that may be true. I live in a city where a man hasn’t bought me a drink at a bar months, one bought me one as a friend this whole year and I go out every weekend. I’m also in my early twenties, 115 lbs and used to model so I know I’m not ugly. I rarely rarely get approached, if ever, but when I travel to Miami or LA I get approached and even get free meals on the house from the chef. I think living in an ultra liberal city is the issue here | /r/seduction | 15/10/25 08:55 PM |
| 3 | Do Techniques Like Those In The Book The Method Work With Women Like Everyday Women? Tell me from your experienceIt’s really just insane to think that they can manipulate a woman to a point where she will just lose all autonomy and be insanely atttacted to this dude because he watched a few podcasts or read some books. It for sure can help with socializing and mindset but the rest, 95% of it is largely still due to physical looks, career and personality. | /r/seduction | 15/10/25 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Shot my shot at the beauty salonYup. Only works for very attractive people | /r/seduction | 15/10/25 08:37 PM |
| 13 | Shot my shot at the beauty salonLOL no woman is getting asked out 20+ a week not even model level women, men don’t approach women anymore. I don’t really take it as a compliment anymore though, because we know that the first thing men want or think of when approaching us is sleeping with us (98% of the time) | /r/seduction | 15/10/25 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Most women aren’t good enough for relationships for most menoh okay. New here, sorry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/25 12:40 AM |
| 3 | How to start a conversation with random girls.It’s a good start because attractive women know it and they want to be approached and validated. But the issue with complimenting her body is, it can be perceived as lustful. You can compliment her outfit or just ask how she’s doing. | /r/seduction | 13/10/25 08:16 PM |
| – | Most women aren’t good enough for relationships for most menYeah I agree with you! A lot of men romanticize the helpless gf who needs them for everything, can’t think or do anything on their own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 03:02 AM |
| 1 | If there would be a way to become just more successful with woman, men would instantly do it.I think men have always been told to go after someone who wants them for their personality and people don’t pressure men to focus on their looks. So they think they can bag a young model type beauty while being a slob | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 02:36 AM |
| – | Most women aren’t good enough for relationships for most menFor pushovers or insecure men yes that’s true.. I personally don’t want a guy like that so I don’t act that way. I’ve always ended up with men who work stressful jobs (business owners, physicians, etc) so they tend to turn their brain off outside of work and let me lead like make plans for dinners trips activities. I like to lead to but they provide and initiate, in my eyes they’re fully masculine and I can be feminine but not helpless and incompetent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 02:33 AM |
| – | Most women aren’t good enough for relationships for most menI agree with this as a woman. I’ve seen a lot of my friends not know how to do anything beside be a giant child for the man to take care of. They think they’re gods gift to the world. I know better and know to bring value to a relationship by making a man happy and giving him peace and a safe place, doing little things like cooking and giving him physical affection and quality time. I’ve never dated a guy who needed a maid or money from me so my personality needs to be good, and a lot of women a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Tips for Tinder bio if I’m just looking for casual sexI mostly go so I can dress up and feel good about myself. I work a lot and hardly get to wear anything besides work clothes or use my makeup so going clubbing or to bars is a reason to doll up. And I get to go with my friends and catch up with them, drink with them. Also get to meet new people (both genders) and socialize. Definitely never fucked someone I met at a bar or club and wouldn’t want to, even if he was my type and nice. | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Which US cities have the highest concentration of beautiful women? I need to choose a city to move to.Seattle has more to do. I’d say a bit less nature wise and a bit colder than Oregon, atleast right now. That’s about it | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Which US cities have the highest concentration of beautiful women? I need to choose a city to move to.Yep I have spent time in Seattle. The population is about double, so just double it. Maybe more prettier women I’m not sure. I used to live in LA and Miami so my standards are warped and I’m being mean so everyone’s downvoting my original comment idk why LOL | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 02:47 AM |
| 3 | Which US cities have the highest concentration of beautiful women? I need to choose a city to move to.I love the nature and scenery. Lots of hikes and waterfalls, temperate weather, there’s dunes and beaches and forests. S Tier nature wise. But not much to do in the city and the people here aren’t very motivated. It’s a good place to raise a family or to chill but not fun for 20-30s and terrible for dating | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 01:30 AM |
| -5 | Which US cities have the highest concentration of beautiful women? I need to choose a city to move to.Are you asking about Portland Oregon? The girls here are chopped but there’s a few baddies. The problem with the women here is that there’s not a lot of them, so even the 2s and 3s feel like they’re 10s and act as such. But the 9+ think they’re the ONLY hot girls so they’re total bitches and are delusional. Also it’s libtard town here and lots of women with blue hair don’t shave. Source: I’m a woman living here | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 12:57 AM |
| 0 | Have virtually 0 success with night game i don’t know what i’m doing wrongIdk that’s the only way I’d give a guy the time of day. If we’re out at a bar. If it’s a dance club then ask to go dancing. Idk. It’s not rocket science | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 12:10 AM |
| 2 | This is my routine and lines need advice…Routines and scheduled lines are horrible. Especially if you live in a small town and say the same lines to different girls they will hear about it pretty fast and everyone will know you are lame. Go out and make friends, get better at socializing. I would immediately get annoyed if a guy came up to me and told me I have an “adorable look”. wtf does that even mean. There’s no way for a convo to build off of that. She’d probably awkwardly say thanks and then walk away. What are you trying to conv… | /r/seduction | 06/10/25 08:37 PM |
| -5 | Have virtually 0 success with night game i don’t know what i’m doing wrongAs a woman I hate this line… better to start with “can I buy you a drink?” And then you guys can talk and get to know eachother while the bartender makes her a drink. | /r/seduction | 06/10/25 06:54 PM |
| 4 | Tips for Tinder bio if I’m just looking for casual sexSomething else gonna be on fire too 🍆 jk | /r/seduction | 06/10/25 06:21 PM |
| 3 | Tips for Tinder bio if I’m just looking for casual sexFor me and a lot of women, anything sexual in his bio or messages is an auto swipe left. Displaying thirst is classless and beta behavior. I don’t think guys get this. | /r/seduction | 06/10/25 06:20 PM |
| 2 | GameTouching her would probably get you kicked out of the gym if she decided to complain to the staff. And that’s not game. She is just not interested if she’s lying, and if she isn’t then you need to leave her alone in both scenarios. Please don’t go up to strangers and touch them, ever, thinking that it’s “game”. | /r/seduction | 03/10/25 08:11 PM |
| 0 | Short kingI know a 50 year old guy who’s bald, short 5’4, and unattractive imo. But he’s laid back and goes dancing salsa often and lands hot chicks! They like guys who are kind and will treat them to dinner then go dancing with them. No pressure for sex just fun. They know the sex will be good by his energy. | /r/seduction | 03/10/25 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Wingman DubaiI’ve been to Dubai twice and that’s true for Dubai that you don’t need game or confidence as much, but if all you have is money and you’re not fun to be around, the ladies there will eat you alive and run your pockets. | /r/seduction | 01/10/25 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Wingman DubaiYou need both, not one or the other. A confident guy who has nothing to show is just as useless as a guy with no game. | /r/seduction | 01/10/25 09:36 PM |
| 3 | How To Take Her Home On The 1st DateYeah I don’t think this guy got this tip from women. I have kissed many men without touching them anywhere else first. I actually like that because when the first time you break the touch barrier is a passionate kiss, it’s way more memorable. I would be so grossed out if I sensed on a first date this guy was trying to get me sexually excited by taking any chance to touch my hand or sit next to me at a bar so he can be closer to molest me. I recently hooked up with a guy because he was sooo respe… | /r/seduction | 01/10/25 09:05 PM |
| 3 | How To Take Her Home On The 1st DateI really don’t think the touch one (7) would work unless she’s doing it first. You could really upset her this way even if she likes you. I HATE when I first meet a guy and he keeps trying to casually touch me, on my arm or back or waist. We can sniff out a desperate horn dog like a truffle pig. Please make some female friends and learn some real life tips. | /r/seduction | 01/10/25 08:49 PM |
| 1 | What's a good approach to this?No, unless you’re so poor you can’t afford an uber back home and rely on him for transportation back home. I also run background checks on every one I meet with and have an arsenal of self defense weapons including pepper spray, a .45, and a taser if I need it. Also his name is tied to your uber ride and he’s not even the one driving you so I don’t see any opportunity for him to do something malicious. | /r/seduction | 01/10/25 08:33 PM |
| 3 | Tips on the dating app 'Feeld'Safety is key when it comes to sex for women. That’s why I abstain personally. Talk about testing and make it clear you’re using protection and are clean. Be respectful. | /r/seduction | 01/10/25 08:28 PM |
| 1 | What's a good approach to this?Yes but be careful if she’s asking for cash. Totally fine for you to offer to send her a ride and cover the date- not so much if she asks for money to pocket. Unless you’re fucking her, then in that case just help her out if you like her and she needs help. :) | /r/seduction | 30/09/25 12:21 AM |
| 1 | What's a good approach to this?As a woman 100% she keeps bringing up money and her budget because she wants you to offer to pay for her transportation or cover the whole date. Which is normal and I think you should have gotten the hint and offered. My dates will always send me an uber or cover the date | /r/seduction | 29/09/25 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Karoke nightAgreed. Most women going to karaoke with friends isn’t really looking to go home with a stranger on the first night so this is a bad mindset but it’s possible. Try a bar or clubs where girls go out and sometimes are looking to go home with a guy. But you have to be confident, nice and stand out. | /r/seduction | 29/09/25 06:31 PM |
| 0 | Men of Reddit, how do you feel when women ask “What are you looking for?” on dating apps?We know that. Men think they’re so sneaky and smart for using up our youthful years just to use us for sex and not being lonely while they wait around for the woman they really want, who, newsflash doesn’t really want them. That’s why women are holding out on sex and making dating a business transaction instead of chemistry and love. It doesn’t exist anymore because men are just lying for no reason. | /r/seduction | 29/09/25 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Starting conversation on instaTrue. As a woman I get a lot of DMs and I don’t reply to them if it’s just basic stuff like hi how are you you’re pretty. If it’s an interesting dm I’ll reply once and never again. | /r/seduction | 29/09/25 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Girl asked about me. Need to DM asap😊Do people not know how to interact anymore? Just say hey how are you doing | /r/seduction | 29/09/25 02:38 PM |
| 1 | How can I change my mindset and approach women I actually find attractive?People like people who aren’t their type all of the time. Just go for it! If nothing happens take it as rejection therapy. If something does, just be nice and if she wants to be friends just accept it. Having female friends increases your chance of getting to know more women exponentially. Never understood why men hated being friends with women it’s your golden ticket into getting to know loads of women that are your type. | /r/seduction | 26/09/25 11:01 PM |
| 1 | How can I change my mindset and approach women I actually find attractive?What do you mean by change your mindset? Do you feel like you’re not their type? Go out to parties and clubs and I’m sure you’ll find plenty of those kinds of girls. Just be fun and nice and say hi. Approaching in person is always best | /r/seduction | 26/09/25 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Had anyone reached a level you can pull one night stand whenever?The truth is women just aren’t as desperate to get laid as men, and for us lots of negatives outweigh the positives. I’ve turned down men I really wanted to hook up with. Risk of pregnancy, STDs, UTIs, ph imbalance, and then the mental side like guilt, getting attached, feeling used. Women get shamed a lot for sex tbh so sometimes even if we want it we will abstain. It’s not always about you. | /r/seduction | 26/09/25 09:16 PM |
| 1 | I Know I’m Gonna Catch Some Heat For This But….As a woman, sometimes I know before I meet them if I want to hook up or not. I’ll know for sure in person. But personally I like to wait atleast a few weeks or months. | /r/seduction | 26/09/25 08:22 PM |
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