ChickenRiceSoup Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	It’s not “playing games” to maintain our own boundaries Sounds like a good way to get an FWB if anything, and yet she's acting like she's going to get a long-term meaningful relationship out of it. It doesn't make sense and goes against the handbook(and plain common sense).	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/04/22 12:24 AM
4	It’s not “playing games” to maintain our own boundaries If all your vets are about talking about sex then you're not that good at vetting these men. Them talking about these things so early on is a damn red flag and an immediate block. How are they even supposed to answer the question right, the fact they're even talking about it is game over. There's other ways to vet and you damn well know it, these men had flags you ignored until you started these convos. And frankly it's coming off LV on your part.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/04/22 12:21 AM
33	Demand what you ask for Men think rudeness is when women don't sit quiet and take their bullshit. If it had been your ex who had done what you did he would have been "defending his family" but because you did it it's now morally wrong? The world is a fucking clown show. Most women aren't rude, people just get immediately pissed off when you're not meek and welcoming of everything. Even other women, the internalized misogyny is a trip.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/04/22 08:48 PM
2	LVM infiltrate our spaces constantly and I’m sick of it: A Case Study No, the dynamics are different. You don't know how a man will react to stuff like this, if he rages and hurts the friend then what? Frankly just exiting the situation is the best bet. Cheating is wrong but we can't ignore the very real threat of male rage. I think OP should drop her, this relationship is putting her in harm's way and emotionally taking a toll.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/04/22 04:33 AM
3	Man withholds a 12.5K bonus from his SAHM wife because she didnt share the 200$ she made on Etsy (the first time in 7 years she earned anything). Be careful not to marry miserly men who loathe you. Financial abuse on top of other abuse. She's his prisoner, not his wife.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/03/22 03:51 AM
3	My boyfriend shared a funny video that i didn't find funny Exactly this. And I know it's not an isolated incident, guy has been telling her who he is and what he thinks of her for a while. She needs to listen and dump him.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/03/22 04:18 PM
88	Let's Talk About "Cool Girls"/"Strong Women" It's a red flag because men prefer "strong women" they can control. Strong but not stronger then them, and if they are then they want to beat them down, so that everything good about them is run down. They think it's a game to take a woman and wear her down with her abuse. See it too often. And I know all media and news are real messy and full of crap. But women's rights are worse then they were 9 years ago( conviction rates for rape are absolutely heinous now, and rape itself is on the rise),an…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/03/22 03:49 PM
19	I was 7 years old when “The Pursuit of Happyness” came out. Granted it was a beautiful film, I didn’t realize how much of it was fabricated. “King Richard” is not the first Will Smith movie he’s starred in where the character he plays was not so inspiring in real life. I wish more people knew. I make it a staple to never believe men at this point. They lie about everything, absolutely everything.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/03/22 07:41 AM
27	What do you think about seemingly HVM doing psychedelic drugs occasionally? They're not HV.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/03/22 07:35 AM
4	Reminder to also vet your female roommates! Get a door lock for your room is all I can say. And try and find somewhere else, women like this put you in harm's way.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/03/22 11:33 PM
69	Current guy I’m talking to lied about his height on dating app No. Read the handbook(this is honestly best because you recalibrate yourself, don't let yourself slip) block and delete.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/01/22 01:27 AM
39	Do NOT ever commit to a man whom you are unsure of. He has to be 100% into YOU. Even though this may be a rumor for the sake of publicity, I feel sorry for Kourtney — she deserves much better than this. Ewww what a fucking scrote. Just a loser through and through.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 11:40 PM
61	Bizarre pickme post in another subreddit: woman so excited that the office "hot guy" flirts with her that she goes out to celebrate Ew, they're all gross. The guy inappropriately flirting at work(if it's real), this woman who hasn't aged past her teens emotionally and her creep husband who is probably pornfried and enjoys being cuckolded. Weirdos all around, embarassing and pathetic too.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/12/21 07:17 PM
189	If You're Single, Don't Be Sad During The Holidays. Lol why be sad? I'm not catering to a man in every sense of the word. Not putting up with his bullshit, his needs and angst. Guarantee too many stressed women out there trying to create the perfect holiday that's expected of them during these holidays. I'll say a prayer for them, and hope they can get a day to truly enjoy themselves.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/12/21 02:54 AM
41	From the dad of one of my daughter’s friends, out of literally nowhere. Show it to everyone. Let the creep be outed as the shit he is.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/12/21 06:59 AM
274	Being sexually desired ≠ Being respected Male attention is the cheapest and most easy to come by. It is worth nothing. Focus on your life, your goals and your happiness. If you want to date then vet men who court you, and that's very few because most are not counting, they're just looking to have sex with you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/12/21 08:49 PM
54	A message to male lurkers: So what exactly is it about FDS that triggers you? Not the Triggerati LMAO 💀💀😭	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/12/21 11:44 PM
25	Need advice to level up a guy. Read the handbook Jesus Christ.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/12/21 12:16 AM
141	What does FDS think about the rise of the “stay at home girlfriend?” Exactly this, if you choose to stay at home you need to have your own account seperate from him where he deposits some of his paycheck to you. You are doing labour at home after all. Either that or you need to get some sort of side hustle, consulting job etc. Keep yourself in the workforce even if it's part time. But definitely have a seperate bank account for yourself, and he should pay for everything. Your side money is yours alone. Also a stay at home gf is nothing, literally he can walk away…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/12/21 09:10 PM
50	Woman sees tornado and frantically moves her kids to safety. Husband questions her sanity, slights her for “scaring the kids,” and foolishly goes outside. Exactly, he put his family in danger. He's a gutless piece of shit with no integrity.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/12/21 11:19 PM
26	This is every Tindr conversation I've ever had: Word, there's nothing deeper to see. It's always just a scrote looking for easy sex, and a future victim. Everytime.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/12/21 03:45 AM
7	My response when LVM try to triangulate with other women: At this point, men are below dildos in terms of value. Because even their dicks don't do shit anymore. Too pornfried to be good at anything,even sex.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/12/21 03:43 AM
69	My response when LVM try to triangulate with other women: Ew, imagine someone saying that to you. RUN the other way, don't walk, run. Fucking diseased scrotes and their inflated egos.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/12/21 03:42 AM
38	The First Time He Uses Your Trauma/Insecurity Against You Should Be Last Time Basically you use a false insecurity, or even one that doesn't bother you and you mention it to him offhand or in conversation. Like you hate your nose or smth like that. See if they use it against you, watch how they act, what they do. The name encompasses it pretty well lol. But it came about after there was this post about a guy who pestered his gf to tell her about her issues with her mom, once she did he waited until they were in a fight and then smugly used the same things her narc mom wou…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/21 09:41 PM
69	The First Time He Uses Your Trauma/Insecurity Against You Should Be Last Time Also why you should keep it to yourself. The blood in the water test for this would be a good way to not get your time wasted.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/21 07:49 PM
1	Just saw this in another sub. Stupid comparison but great response! Honestly,men just talk too much and it's always bullshit too.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/21 02:42 AM