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8

Ball is in your court. He tried to pick you up and you declined. If he turns you on reach out to him
/r/seduction22/02/25 07:40 PM
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SEX
/r/seduction16/02/25 03:11 AM
0

I don’t see how I could ever grow to love myself Then you’ll die.
/r/seduction02/02/25 02:32 PM
2

Overeaters anonymous is a good support network. I’m a recovering drug addict and understand some of the struggle, though I understand food and drug addictions are different because you still need to eat food and fix the relationship whereas I must simply abstain from using. The time will pass regardless. Building new habits slowly over time is easier when you’re unburdened by unreasonable expectations. Make change because you love yourself, not because you hate yourself.
/r/seduction02/02/25 02:34 AM
10

I’d fuck at least half of them
/r/seduction19/01/25 06:06 AM
5

Yes. Can’t do anything about it but workout and make friends
/r/seduction02/01/25 01:43 AM
1

I can’t keep up with all these facets man I’m getting overwhelmed
/r/seduction21/11/24 07:52 PM
36

Men, women, trans, cats, pigeons… All are welcome
/r/seduction07/11/24 11:51 AM
1

That’s the right attitude. I started racking weights for me, and even if I’m not getting more bitches than before I’m still being consistent because I continue to do it for me. You feel really good when you’re strong
/r/seduction25/10/24 11:26 PM
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Your moms house
/r/seduction21/10/24 02:48 AM
2

No individual thing will make you happy. You build happiness a little bit everyday with good mental and behavioral habits. Listen to the quiet voice in your head that tells you right from wrong and do what it takes to become the most fulfilling version of yourself.
/r/seduction08/10/24 02:38 AM
1

My mother
/r/seduction06/10/24 12:00 PM
0

I’m in chap but have no experience night gaming and tbh women scare me these days
/r/seduction06/10/24 02:59 AM
2

Your dad just loves you sweetie, don’t get it twisted
/r/seduction03/10/24 06:13 PM
4

But I’m poor, and those cities are expensive
/r/seduction30/09/24 07:27 PM
38

Being poor makes it harder though. Def been shit on for not having a car before
/r/seduction30/09/24 06:27 PM
5

You cannot encourage him to value your opinions. If he views women as followers and enjoys the financial, decision-making and emotional power dynamic between y’all then your (possibly well examined) opinions will always be second fiddle to his first instinct. I’ve met many men like that. He will be only as invested as wants to be. He will only selectively listen to you. The love will likely be conditional. You are intrinsically lesser than him in his eyes. Good luck
/r/seduction25/09/24 02:59 AM
13

Lying, flaking, fake evidence,hot and cold, hiding intentions
/r/seduction24/09/24 08:26 PM
24

Some of this is horrendous advice
/r/seduction24/09/24 08:13 PM
1

It’s only our hubris that leads us to believe it is the universal language
/r/seduction22/09/24 07:42 PM
2

I have scoliosis. You need a mixture of stretching and strength training. Most of all you need functional core strength and the will power to constantly manage your posture until it becomes natural
/r/seduction22/09/24 01:41 PM
36

Bro is drowning while I’m dying of thirst
/r/seduction16/09/24 12:40 PM
3

Fuck yeah we can. Get busy loving yourself bro
/r/seduction09/09/24 11:29 PM
2

Yes. I have a document on my computer that I add to. I have a check in entry, gratitude entry, and success entry that I do one after the other. I consistently write in the mornings so my successes are from the previous day. Doubles as a memory exercise. It’s a good way to start the day. I’d rather not wait until nighttime to express my gratitude. Whatever is consistent for you is the best practice though. If you find it easier to journal before bed all the power to you. Edit: I don’t always have…
/r/seduction09/09/24 10:26 PM
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I journal about how I’m feeling, how the day went, whatever I’m thinking about. I also keep a gratitude journal and success journal, 3 gratitudes and successes are transcribed each day.
/r/seduction09/09/24 08:34 PM
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I work out everyday. I walk to where I need to go when possible. I eat healthy. I slow my life down and don’t get caught up in the small shit that doesn’t matter. I am now 48 days clean of any substances. I have held a daily journal for 16 days. These are good things. Focus on yourselves brothers.
/r/seduction09/09/24 02:53 PM
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Interesting vid bro. Thanks for dropping it
/r/seduction04/09/24 01:35 PM
0

This is when you simply scroll past brother
/r/seduction04/09/24 01:35 PM
3

👏🏾BALANCE👏🏾 I appreciate this write up brother. About to walk down to the coffee shop and implement.
/r/seduction30/08/24 12:41 PM
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Yeah I’m convinced. I never journal at night but I have a time in the morning I’m very consistent where I talk about the previous day. I’m going to start adding a success list after my gratitude list. I’m way too critical of myself and often feel like I’ll deserve happiness and self love when I achieve a certain amount of success in life or hit a certain goal or accomplishment. It’s such an unhealthy mindset. Low key it’s a passive approach to self-love because you’re waiting for happiness to fa…
/r/seduction30/08/24 11:37 AM
2

Then fuck like your life depends on it brother!
/r/seduction30/08/24 11:21 AM
4

Shouldn’t you be more worried about avoiding conscription than getting laid
/r/seduction30/08/24 01:51 AM
1

Please do, and tag me if you do
/r/seduction29/08/24 03:54 PM
2

It always starts with yourself brother. Stay strong and good luck
/r/seduction29/08/24 01:42 PM
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Gratitude journal and exercise
/r/seduction28/08/24 05:14 PM
4

Thank you friendo
/r/seduction28/08/24 01:27 AM
1

Once I get health insurance it’s first on my list
/r/seduction28/08/24 01:27 AM
30

Thanks king. I’m getting back up ✊
/r/seduction27/08/24 05:56 PM
103

Except when I share my deepest emotions with my girlfriend of 7 months and she cheats on me with a redneck with a pickup truck High value men don’t share their emotions apparently. Bottle that shit up boys.
/r/seduction27/08/24 04:39 PM
3

You need to reciprocate initiative to solidify interest. I identify as a woman
/r/seduction27/08/24 02:50 AM
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✊
/r/seduction27/08/24 01:26 AM
5

I learned this lesson the hard way. It’s not fair but it’s how women act. It’s a huge avenue for her to start cheating on you if you provide monetarily for her as well and she doesn’t want to fumble the bag before finding the next guy to jump to.
/r/seduction26/08/24 06:18 PM
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Which is backward as fuck from what we are told in many cases but yeah it’s the objective truth. We aren’t at the point of society where men can wear the spectrum of emotions they feel on their sleeves.
/r/seduction26/08/24 06:14 PM
1

Do y’all dip your wings in bleu cheese or ranch
/r/seduction26/08/24 03:01 PM
7

slaps
/r/seduction26/08/24 02:04 AM
4

Set up another date with her and get some pussy. If she’s not about it unfollow her and move along, preferably with someone at least in their mid to late 20s. She’s 21 the 9/11 memorial had been built before she was born. Edit: nvm that’s hyperbole but still.
/r/seduction26/08/24 02:02 AM
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She’s talking about falling in love after one date? Also why are you hanging on to her every tweet hoping they are for you? Let it go. Find someone who pays attention to you
/r/seduction26/08/24 01:58 AM
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Edited
/r/seduction26/08/24 01:50 AM
13

She’s got weirdo behavior. Move along
/r/seduction26/08/24 01:49 AM
13

That’s needy behavior. You don’t need her validation or confirmation about how she made you feel. She will understand through your actions which is not responding
/r/seduction25/08/24 09:16 PM
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Anyone who uses the words beta loser unironically needs to spend the rest of their life in a wheelchair
/r/seduction24/08/24 02:11 AM
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I haven’t been abroad yet. Getting my passport and starting to learn Japanese though. Hopefully I can make that happen in a year or two. I started approaching a few years back and started getting some success. Was able to have a 6 month relationship and a good few hookups and flings. Tinder has always been dry for me I get really depressed and anxious sometimes for various reasons (and non reasons) and when I get like this I don’t really approach anyone and I isolate. When I isolate I simply get…
/r/seduction23/08/24 01:32 AM
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I get very close to zero pussy online. I actually get pussy in person.
/r/seduction23/08/24 12:52 AM
11

Bait used to be believable. Where did the good trolls go
/r/seduction23/08/24 12:20 AM
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Im pretty horny. Wait why are you asking me😂
/r/seduction23/08/24 12:03 AM
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Probably because it’s the hardest work a man can undertake in his life, nobody wants to hear it doesn’t come easy
/r/seduction22/08/24 11:25 PM
1

How often do you masterbate
/r/seduction22/08/24 10:57 PM
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Porn addiction
/r/seduction22/08/24 10:54 PM
15

This is exactly why he keeps female friends
/r/seduction22/08/24 10:25 PM
3

Actually yes. Anxiety can make it extremely taxing to converse with others even casually, man or woman or themen
/r/seduction22/08/24 04:30 PM
1

Start with a gratitude journal. Loving yourself is an exercise you engage in with every passing moment, with every thought, with every decision. The voices in your head lie brother. They do nothing but lie. One of the biggest misconceptions we have in life is that we have to do something to deserve happiness. That it’s a benchmark after a certain amount of successes. We are illuminated beings in a strange world, you are not what society tells you that you are. You are not your shortcomings nor a…
/r/seduction22/08/24 04:25 PM
1

Do you love yourself?
/r/seduction22/08/24 04:08 PM
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I went through a whole ass carousel with like 10 different meds over 18 months or so. Seroquil made me rage. Lithium made me feel like I was going to have a stroke. 5 different Antidepressants made me feel varying degrees of numb or low energy. Lamectal made my dick stop working. Wellbutrin made me feel generally unwell… Psychiatrist said I had resistant depression and should try ketamine treatment. Saw god and relapsed into drinking again and going full psycho for about a year and ended up home…
/r/seduction22/08/24 03:48 PM
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No I’m rawdogging this shit I never reacted well to the meds. My meds are being outside and daily exercise. When I don’t feel this bad I tend to approach because I’m out of my head and can converse with people
/r/seduction22/08/24 03:09 PM
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These days? Depression and anxiety
/r/seduction22/08/24 02:50 PM
1

Just don’t get too involved connection wise. Give her some rough sex she won’t forget and take out your frustration on that pussy
/r/seduction18/08/24 07:44 PM
7

People want in shape partners. Do the hard work. Don’t put a bow tie on a ham
/r/seduction17/08/24 04:31 PM
1

No problemo amigo
/r/seduction16/08/24 11:02 PM
38

Literally just walk up to a guy you like and tell him to work out with you. Chat him up, if he’s what you’re looking for but he’s too shy to make a move ask for his number and tell him to take you on a date.
/r/seduction16/08/24 11:02 PM
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Here’s the pessimistic view: You’re stopping her, low key trapping her on a thin trail in the woods, and pressing her for attention. Does she even want to talk to you? Who knows because you’re a strange man! Even if she’s pleasant with you she might just be wanting to keep things calm until she can split. She’s out with her dog or whatever to get some exercise, clean stimulation, and forest bathing. Give her some space. If you catch her back at the parking lot cool, say what’s up. My gut says no…
/r/seduction16/08/24 10:57 PM
8

Think about it from her perspective
/r/seduction16/08/24 10:44 PM
15

Or…or. You could not fuck some dudes girlfriend? There are plenty of women out there
/r/seduction15/08/24 08:53 PM
11

Good luck
/r/seduction15/08/24 01:31 AM
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Get fit for the sake of being healthy and feeling better. Do it for yourself. Most people you meet in life don’t want a fat lover. Excessive fat is unhealthy and unattractive. None of that was said to be mean, and I’m sorry if it was harsh. I understand weight is a big hurdle for some people. Start slapping some weights and doing HIIT, and commit to a diet. In a year you’ll be a new man
/r/seduction15/08/24 01:25 AM
5

Great. Now work on your delivery, bud. Also, you can weigh out the negatives with some positives. There are plenty of mid dudes walking around with wives. Just go outside. More than 40% of men are reproducing. Just lower your own standards. If you’re a solid 3, go for the 3s
/r/seduction14/08/24 11:25 AM
13

Everyone is here because they want women. How about you help them instead of shit on them. Otherwise maybe this community just isn’t for you?
/r/seduction14/08/24 11:22 AM
73

It’s just the fad right now. Every single hippie, conservative, nerd, stoner, murderer, homebody, virgin, and dude with syphallis has tattoos these days. You’re more unique by not having them at this point
/r/seduction14/08/24 11:19 AM
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We are here to bring each other up, not put each other down. You should examine why you felt the need to attack the dudes who have sought out this community to make a positive change in their life. Also, fuck the generation war bs. Kind regards from GenZ
/r/seduction14/08/24 11:08 AM
4

Kinda sounds like she wants you to intimate something physical and casual without any expectations
/r/seduction13/08/24 09:45 PM
3

Maybe nothing bro, it’s just hard. Make sure to make your intentions clear
/r/seduction13/08/24 07:28 PM
1

You can’t just talk to women bro you’re gotta make them feel something otherwise you’re just a friend
/r/seduction12/08/24 11:31 PM
4

Btw I appreciate y’all letting me vent. Don’t have anyone to really talk about this with. My friends are all 6’+ really outgoing dudes and I’m just not that explosive of a personality. Getting pussy for them is like drinking water. So they really don’t understand my struggles. People see my looks and assume I must slay but really I’m not pulling like that especially lately since I’ve just been drinking so much
/r/seduction12/08/24 03:08 AM
6

I’m taking this semester off. I’m an addict and completely out of control. Starting recovery and doing NA. Won’t be able to join a team. Going to the gym often tho but tbh I don’t really want to spit game at the gym I’m trying to get ripped
/r/seduction12/08/24 03:06 AM
7

Tbh I’ve tried with tall women and get absolutely nowhere. My successes have only been with girls my height or shorter. I truly believe that’s just something tall girls tell each other on the internet to make themselves feel less shallow. I’ve been with 30+ women btw. Nobody over 5’7.
/r/seduction12/08/24 02:41 AM
20

Women don’t settle these days. They are put on a pedestal by 1000s of dudes online
/r/seduction12/08/24 02:38 AM
9

It just sucks that my dating pool feels small and I still have to compete with taller dudes going after the same girls. It’s rare a girl is into me unless I’m physically looking down on her by at least 4 inches. Like I’m down to date taller women but I don’t get the chance. There are 5’8+ bad bitches with fat asses all over campus that look at me like I’m a child
/r/seduction12/08/24 02:34 AM
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Gotcha. I’ve noticed that in public too. Most of the dudes walking around with girls are tall or average height. Dating is hard man. Some of the reactions I get from women make me feel lesser
/r/seduction12/08/24 01:54 AM
11

How many short guys, 5’6 and under, are pulling above average women
/r/seduction12/08/24 01:43 AM
1

Ah.
/r/seduction12/08/24 01:33 AM
2

Yes you are. You’re a skinny 18 year old lol. Be humble and approach relationships from a place of mutual respect. Accept life on life’s terms.
/r/seduction12/08/24 01:25 AM
0

Don’t they have a drink limit? Like you gotta buy 2 drinks or something
/r/seduction12/08/24 01:12 AM
2

Take better pictures then. If you have a woman friend ask if she can judge the pics
/r/seduction11/08/24 09:23 PM
2

For dating apps specifically it isn’t “easy mode” Putting a 5’6 and under height is literally “might as well delete the app mode” Putting a 5”10 and over height is like “I’ll get matches but I still have to close mode” You’ll get ghosted plenty and have tons of dates that go nowhere. You’ll be getting matches though which means you have a chance. I get like one obese girl match a week and I’m not even bad looking. It’s just bad for my mental health. I get looks all the time out in public from gi…
/r/seduction11/08/24 09:15 PM
0

Good luck, and snag a white tail for me this year
/r/seduction11/08/24 09:01 PM
1

If you’re tall slap that number in your bio and take some good pics. You’ll be getting hoes in no time. Take pictures in front of your car, have one with friends, make sure to show your face at a favorable angle, and whatever other hobbies you like. Idk how well shirtless pics work but I’ve been told not to use those I’m 5’6 and the apps are a barren wasteland for me. My friend gets literally any pussy he wants on it though, so I’m assuming you’ll be closer to his camp
/r/seduction11/08/24 08:52 PM
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Just depends how tall and hot you are. Most dudes are going to get absolutely no action on dating apps. Plus tinder is very overrun by bots. I wouldn’t be surprised if dating apps go extinct the way they’re set up
/r/seduction11/08/24 07:26 PM
119

That sounds expensive
/r/seduction11/08/24 07:19 PM
2

You need to be rich to attract these girls. They have dudes in their dms flying them out to crete to hang out on their yacht and drink 10k bottles of champagne. They get invited to exclusive rooftop parties solely based on their looks. It hasn’t been “dating” for these girls since they were 19, and I’m sure they are quite jaded and entitled That is if the girls you’re describing are the genuine 11/10s in big cities
/r/seduction11/08/24 12:41 PM
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This is something I needed to read
/r/seduction10/08/24 11:35 PM
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