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| 1 | I still don't understand what went wrong... please help diagnose.I’m not reading all this, I’ve read it already and I can see youve already made another post about it this exact topic since making this one so it’s clearly in one ear and out the other. Like I said I don’t think you want to learn anything so you can move on I think you want another excuse to needle her for a date so you can try and win her over again and she clearly doesn’t want that given youve text her like 20 times and she hasn’t responded. You are wildly unrealistic with your expectations o… | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 12:54 PM |
| 1 | I still don't understand what went wrong... please help diagnose.I don’t think that’s weird at all. You are trying to simultaneously argue that you flirted too heavily with her and also not enough. I appreciate I’m on r/seduction which seems to work on the assumption that you can win over the other party with clever tricks and moves but that is not how dating works, I’ve dated people who were perfect for me on paper and who I got on with over text but when we met in person we weren’t feeling it, it sounds like that is what happened here. If you want to learn … | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 09:41 AM |
| 2 | I still don't understand what went wrong... please help diagnose.I have read all of this over and over. I don’t honestly think you would hear an answer at this point either. If someone said ‘it was definitely because you didn’t touch her shoulder enough’ you would just start texting her to go out again so you can touch her shoulder more. She’s not a riddle to be cracked, she’s just a person. I get that it’s sucks when you build something up and it doesn’t match that but it isn’t her fault. Please try and stop this obsessing. | /r/seduction | 09/01/22 10:02 AM |
| 1 | I still don't understand what went wrong... please help diagnose.So then why are you making so many threads about not being flirty enough? The brush off was after the third date- she gave you a fair shot, she wasn’t feeling it, that’s it. I am quite certain if you had only went on one date you’d be complaining that she should’ve given you another one, etc etc. Basically you really like someone and they don’t like you back, and it sucks and it hurts, but you should work in accepting that rather than this obsessive what went wrong dance. | /r/seduction | 09/01/22 08:21 AM |
| 1 | I still don't understand what went wrong... please help diagnose.Op I’ve read every detail about your dates for months as you’ve described them all over and over. I cannot tell you how many times I’ve read about the heart eyes emoji. What you’re describing are blandly flirty text messages, not a commitment to future dates. When she said she was tired that was a brush off. You have over the last few months tried to blame your lack of success on so many different factors- you not flirting enough, you flirting too much (asking her to come upstairs), her being a … | /r/seduction | 09/01/22 06:59 AM |
| 2 | I still don't understand what went wrong... please help diagnose.OP I appreciate that this is the seuction sub so this will prob be downvoted to oblivion but- you need to stop acting like women are a problem to be cracked, this isn’t how flirtation works. It’s not a ‘if only ou had made eyes at her five more times then she would’ve liked you’ scenario. I have been out with guys who are perfect on paper and we just didn’t have chemistry in real life, it’s just something that happens, it doesn’t mean any party done anything wrong or that behaviour could’ve been… | /r/seduction | 09/01/22 06:36 AM |
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