Chickenpastalover Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
36	How long should you wait before opening up about deeply personal things?		Chickenpastalover	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/04/20 02:17 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
52	Imagine playing the cool girl for a guy who talks about you like this. This is not an appropriate Valentine's date and I hope she leaves before they get married I don’t think we should be judging her as a pick me. Any woman who accepts this type of treatment and is of a legally sound mental status is more likely than not a victim of abuse. Even most pick mes don’t have THIS level of low self worth. The ones that do suffer from appearance based eating disorders, childhood abuse, or something else. She is a victim of abuse, whether she’s the standard pick me in OTHER situations or not to put up with this proves that in this relationship with this creep sh…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/02/21 10:22 PM
70	So men apparently need a PSA that it's not okay to rape their daughters It’s upsetting that this is a happening but the amount of signs you see like this is a god send! It’s a GOOD thing. People here are misinterpreting the purpose. It’s not for the rapist or men it’s for the victim. See my previous comment going into detail for WHY you keep seeing these signs. The fact that there are so many is actually proof positive that people are rising up and fighting abuse and there is help out there. This is a step in the right direction. It’s MEANT to look bad for good reas…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/01/21 02:20 AM
412	So men apparently need a PSA that it's not okay to rape their daughters I think you guys have misunderstood this marketing tactic. This has been around for years and is actually clever. This billboard is NOT meant for abusers. It isn’t trying to remind people not to abuse. It’s meant for the VICTIM and non-abusers. 2 reasons: 1: the shock value of it brings attention to the issue and raised awareness. This awareness is NOT meant for the abuser it’s meant for everyday people. It’s a convo starter/awareness gag. Which is CRUCIAL to fighting abuse. 2: lot of victims ha…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/01/21 02:13 AM
23	PSA: just because he pays for dates, doesn't make him a HVM I ate dinner with a guy who insisted he pay for dinner to control me. I guess he felt emasculated if women pay for dinner and he wanted me to owe him. I tried to pay him back for “helping” fix my car by buying dinner and he insisted he pay knowing the whole premise of the “date” (not actually a date but he thinks it was) was that I’m paying him back. After arguing I paid the bill and when we got up to leave he left like 40$ or some insane amount more than 2 burgers cost and claimed it was bc he …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/01/21 07:58 PM
10	I have a feeling my best friends bf is going to ruin out friendship :( Do you feel like he is isolating her? Abusers tend to target those who’ve gone through something like her parents dying. Maybe she brings him along because he makes her think it’s what she wants. An example of this is saying crap like “good partners hang out together with their friends” or “I let you play video games with my friends” so she thinks it’s the “right” thing to do or wants to be a “good” partner?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/01/21 07:51 PM
56	Your friendly reminder that unicorn hunting and polyamory are one and the same. Both are bad news for you. PolyScamory	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/01/21 04:28 AM
11	What happens after you throw the whole man away... (OC from my Bumble a few weeks ago, not sure how/why getting into a trash can and making that your profile pic would attract women??) Didn’t Mindy Kaling actually write several episodes of the office and other comedies beloved by men? I was so impressed and angry bc of the “women aren’t funny” stereotype after I learned that. I don’t really think the office is a woman friendly show at all but there are a few killer episodes and I wonder what part she had in writing the good ones. Women really don’t get the credit they deserve for how funny they are. Makes me sad. I feel like I know more funny women than men but somehow I still…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/01/21 04:09 AM
21	There is no such thing as female privilege. This is why I’m part of this subreddit. I honestly never even thought about that. The discussion is enlightening. Now that I’m thinking about it, It’s not female privilege that men ask us out, pay for the meal, sex comes easier, women get the kids in the divorce (and IDEALY the house to maintain normalcy for the KIDS-not the woman), etc-it’s rooted in a society that hates women and a woman hating history. It feels like most if not all the benefits of being a woman is rooted in something bad :(	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/01/21 08:22 PM
13	How to spot a cheating man The last line before happy 2021 was inspiring to me. I too lost years of my life though not as harshly as you did so the fact that you’re out here teaching us with this post and getting it together is so moving. I often feel like giving up and I think you sound really strong and that motivates me. Thanks and happy new year to you all!!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/01/21 03:51 AM
-16	Mormons brought a man over to my house, he showed me his dick pic without warning after they left to their car. It’s a rule in order to protect people. Missionaries come in twos and the third member is sometimes not a missionary. Three are there to make sure something bad doesn’t happen just in case as missionaries usually going into strangers houses. The rule of three WOULD have worked in this case if it had not been for the fact that the missionaries left without the third, non missionary member. Also, the rule is the same for female missionaries. They are required to have a third girl if traveling to o…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/08/20 06:15 AM
-17	Mormons brought a man over to my house, he showed me his dick pic without warning after they left to their car. That’s not true at all. I’m Mormon. I know the protocol. Also, the news isn’t going to pick up a story like this bc he wasn’t a missionary he was tagging along bc of a rule they have meant to protect people from this stuff happening. Idk why the missionaries left without him.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/08/20 06:09 AM
-15	Mormons brought a man over to my house, he showed me his dick pic without warning after they left to their car. As a Mormon I have to say If someone breaks the law of chastity a few things will happen and if this guy is going with the missionaries unless his family made him go, looking like a “good guy” is IMPORTANT to him so this’ll hit him where it hurts: meet with all three members of the bishopric. Mormons, like most Christians, Catholics, etc can be uppity and self righteous so lots will be judgemental. Not taking sacrament, losing your calling and temple recommend is HUMILIATING. Rumors WILL spread.…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/08/20 06:04 AM
18	If you marry a low value man, it doesn't matter how rich he is, you'll still end up fighting in front of a Wendys like all the other low value couples He is LV. He made a music video for the whole world to see with life like depictions of real people, such as his enemy Taylor swift, naked in bed. He is DISGUSTING!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/07/20 03:53 PM