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LESSON LEARNEDChickpea16/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 05:00 PM
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SCROTES MADChickpea16/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 07:45 PM
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I’m so sorry that you were put through that. I hope that your attacker is rotting behind bars.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 05:50 AM
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Unironic “I hate my wife” boomer humor 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 05:53 PM
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I guess some women are not ready to discuss the toxic masculinity/ bro culture that is pervasive in many outdoor sports like climbing and hiking. Good on you for making a decision and setting boundaries that reflects your lived experience with men in your sport. Tbh, I don’t really go on many women subs on Reddit, aside from a select few, and every time I do I am so sad and disappointed to see that so many women equivocate decentering men and setting personal boundaries to being violently hatefu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 06:33 AM
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The version all the way to the left is so attractive to me lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 06:50 PM
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“He’s neither a monster or mentally ill, they’re the patriarchy’s healthy sons.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 09:15 AM
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Start screen shotting some of your matches/ conversations and sending them to your mom. This killed OLD for my mom lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 03:16 PM
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There are a lot of amazing comments already but one that I will add is a refusal to respect your personal boundaries. This might look like them wanting to CoMuNiCaTe about why your boundaries make them feel bad and why your personal boundaries should be renegotiated with their input so that it is a MuTuAlLy agreed upon decision. Strangely enough, this type of man has no problem enforcing his own boundaries and will shut down any conversation surrounding them as toxic and disrespectful. He unders…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 05:24 PM
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This so much.. no accountability or personal responsibility. Just a strong desire to wallow in perpetual victim hood for the rest of their lives instead of actually doing the hard work it takes to change. I hated it when my ex did this because it’s such an effective manipulation tactic.. if you comfort him and tell him he’s not terrible, then whatever issue you wanted to discuss completely goes by the wayside. If you try to stay on topic and ignore this tactic then you “lack empathy” and that’s …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 05:11 PM
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I think he’s saying that as queerness becomes more normalized, women are “leaning into it more” and realizing that they have more options than settling for toxic men? So normalizing queerness benefits women and heteronormativity benefits straight men? I don’t really agree with this take tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 05:19 PM
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Maybe he should let her peg him. I’ve heard on Reddit that anal really spices up a sex life. Also if he doesn’t like it, there are plenty on men on Reddit who will happily write paragraphs about how he probably just did it wrong and EdUcAtE him on on the right way to have anal sex that results in 10000s of totally real orgasms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 02:41 AM
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And still served him coffee afterwards
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 04:19 PM
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This guy definitely spends hours a day combing through the history of anyone on with a remotely female looking avatar on reddit lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 06:36 PM
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This is the same type of to woman non ironically encourage other women to trust their intuition about other things too. But yeah, so sorry for violating your privacy by catching you cheating on me 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 10:15 PM
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Be wary of male nurses as well. One of the men in my nursing cohort would act completely porn sick and unprofessional about seeing the privates of our patients. Talking about wanting to give suppositories etc. It was revolting. Of course reporting him did nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 01:50 AM
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Suddenly all the edgy dudes come out of the woodwork when there’s an opportunity to make a joke about a murdered woman or a rape victim. But not all men, right? It’s just a joke, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 01:08 AM
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Wow me too.. almost exactly the same response. I guess I triggered a scrote mod by saying that it’s ok for women to consider porn a deal breaker in a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 04:57 AM
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Of course there are loads of comments under the dash video about how “nice” the cop was to Gabby and how he shouldn’t blame himself. How many other women have suffered or worse due to this cop’s incompetence and willingness to identify/ side with abusive men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 02:22 AM
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He’s made it to adulthood and this is the first time he’s overheard someone calling him ugly and picking apart his appearance? Men are really living life on easy mode.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 02:07 AM
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Focusing on physical conditioning and self defense could help you feel more empowered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 05:00 PM
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This is what the “sex work is work” people support. These men fully admit that they don’t see these women as human.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 04:41 PM
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I truly had no idea about the horrors of legalized prostitution in Germany and have just spent the last 20 minutes reading and crying. I came across these comments from men about paying to rape women and it’s completely depressing and rage inducing. I feel like I’m going to throw up. Here’s another link about what the life of a trafficked prostitute looks like. Not for the faint of heart. This woman was tricked into working in a brothel where men would pay 100 euros and were allowed to have rape…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 11:40 AM
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https://www.gq.com.au/grooming/hair/turns-out-almost-half-of-the-beards-out-there-have-faeces-in-them/news-story/2176db1ee73ad1f3f26038be20ce8275/amp
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 08:50 PM
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Apparently most beards are full of fecal bacteria too according to recent studies 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 07:13 PM
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What does raising a child look like 50/50 where there are extreme income disparities? No family vacations unless mom can come up with her half? Will she refuse to like move to a nicer apartment or buy a house unless she can contribute an equal amount financially? It kind of blows my mind that anyone would make their children suffer the consequences of their own pride like this. Obviously I would feel the same if the genders were reversed but I feel like society would correctly diagnose a man who…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 05:13 PM
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I think it really pisses them off as well that calling women fat or has little to no effect anymore. What they don’t realize is that almost every woman has been called fat at some point in her life regardless of her actual weight. I’ve been called fat repeatedly by men of Reddit who have never even seen me. Sorry boys, you have overused your favorite insult to the point where it’s become yet another embarrassing thing you say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 06:59 PM
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Those scenes were so hard to watch. Heartbreaking the amount of abuse these women have experienced.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 05:14 PM
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Remember the post about the guy who couldn’t stop jerking off to the sounds of his wife in labor? The degeneracy is unbelievable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:14 AM
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There’s subreddit on here where men use their mothers and sisters underwear and bras to masturbate and then post pictures of it. It was on r\banfemalehatesubs a while back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 03:46 AM
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I cringe when I think about how I used to try to use “positive reinforcement” to encourage my bf to do things that any normal functioning adult does without thinking. “ Wow you tidied the kitchen. It looks soooo great in here!!!! I’m sooo proud of you!!! Thank you SOOOO MUCH!!!” 🤡 He would strut around like a king and any time in the future I would talk about how he doesn’t pull his own weight he would just defer back to when he cleaned up “that one time.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 03:35 PM
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You often see the “comfort sex” trope in films and it has always struck me as very bizarre as it’s not something I would ever think to do and I have never heard of it happening irl from friends etc. just not realizing it’s probably just another male film writer fantasy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 03:21 PM
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I kind of do this but instead of nature visuals, I focus on immersive music and just kind of get lost in that during personal reflection time. I find it very sensual and would definitely recommend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:00 AM
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So are they agreeing with Jordan Peterson now? We should be assigned to incels by the government to prevent incel genocide?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:39 AM
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Great write up. Small correction is that the other mod was named shill instead of blue. I’ve been super invested in the drama all day but looks like cedar and shill have stepped down and the banned mods are back!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 05:05 AM
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This was the lead up. Basically after this exchange, cedar removed most of the active mods and claimed that all mods needed to reapply and the community would vote on who should be a mod and it would be a transparent process. When removed mods asked if cedar would go through the application process and to state their own qualifications, cedar banned them. The banned active mods were all people who have levels of expertise with abortion, including a obgyn who performs abortions. Cedar has no expe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 04:47 AM
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They are really telling on themselves when they go on and on about how toxic FDS is.. guess what? If you are so triggered by FDS, it’s because you identify with the type of loser we are trying to avoid/ vet and forget. I see other men on Reddit genuinely perplexed as to what’s so ToXiC about our sub after checking it out. The difference is that they don’t feel threatened because they don’t identify with the men who don’t wash their asses and therefore don’t throw a tantrum when we joke about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 01:52 AM
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I love your screen name
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 12:58 AM
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Thank you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 10:43 PM
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tysm!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 10:43 PM
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Can you point me to the pink pill site? Is the forum over on saidit? I miss that sub so much 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 10:21 PM
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“You’re arguing in bad fait so there’s no point in responding”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 08:29 PM
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I think it’s because they are out of print. Yeah I would like to have physical copies one day myself but some of the prices are a lot. I think I saw more reasonable prices on eBay tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 07:21 PM
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Just a heads up, all of her books are available for free download in pdf form here 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 06:13 PM
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Exactly. It’s projection. They are worried that they won’t have a woman to care for them in their golden years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:43 PM
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Showing genuine appreciation for your efforts and respecting your hobbies are such good ones! I feel like I am just reading all of the things that my ex’s didn’t do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 12:48 PM
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Treats animals with care, respect, and compassion His masculinity isn’t threatened by “feminine” things like talking about feelings and cute gifs Is generally capable and is someone you can rely on. Has valuable skills that can improve your life in some way. Offers thoughtful advice but doesn’t get offended if you don’t do exactly as he recommends. Is confident in his own areas of expertise and is self aware enough to defer to more knowledge people when appropriate. Doesn’t need his life to be m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 12:45 PM
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I know a former sex worker who actually walked the streets. Some of her stories include being pressured and coerced by a John into having PIV sex when she initially was only offering oral as she was 9 months pregnant and very close to her due date. She ended up doing what he wanted out of fear of refusal and went into labor a few hours later. She also described being beaten and raped in an abandoned house and laying in her own filth and unable to move for days due to her injuries and withdrawals…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 02:44 AM
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The dogged authoritarianism of the left is extremely concerning especially when violence against dissenters has become sanctioned and normalized. If you are critical of sex work as an empowering profession, no one even bats an eye anymore when you receive threats of violence or rape. Even asking questions can get you labeled as swerf or worse. It’s groupthink to the extreme that leaves no real room for critical thinking, nuance, or healthy debate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:45 PM
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I know 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 04:02 AM
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Who prints out boomer humor facebook comments, complete with emojis to joke about later? Was it really worth the printer ink, Kevin? God this is so cringe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 03:43 AM
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Naomi Wolf has sadly fallen down the alt right conspiracy pipeline but her older work is great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 03:35 AM
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I remember someone likening the experience of being a female fan of commercial male centered rap music to that of a woman being in an abusive relationship. Women give their love, support, and money to someone who fundamentally disrespects, dehumanizes, and sometimes expresses outright hatred for women. Edit: the quote was by Ava DuVernay and it was “To be a woman who loves hip-hop at times is to be in love with your abuser. Because the music was and is that. And yet the culture is ours.” Really …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 01:38 AM
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Exactly you will most likely end being his full time caretaker with no help and struggling financially.. and that’s one of the better case scenarios! My blood runs cold at the thought of being mentally or physically incapacitated and being dependent on a lvm. My last years will be spent rotting alone in a filthy bed while he plays video games. That’s if he doesn’t leave me. Statistically, most men leave when their partners become seriously ill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 01:39 PM
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I feel the music one so much! I’ve been making more of an effort to center women in the music that I listen to but even then most of the lyrics either reflect the libfem pov or revolve around men/ relationships. It’s really depressing once you start noticing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 08:00 PM
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Her customers. It’s in their business model.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 05:49 AM
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“I don’t have to debate my humanity.” My god that phase hits home for me. What a fruitless endeavor too. Happy you got out ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 04:08 AM
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Even if you do get a job, your male coworkers will inevitably “stumble” across your old nudes and pass them around to each other. I can’t imagine being about to keep working in that environment even if you don’t get fired.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 02:38 AM
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His wife is a super talented indie musician (joana newsom) and apparently he was a fan and attended her shows and was a fan before they were ever introduced. He’s very wholesome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:21 AM
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He looks like a pedo now lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:07 AM
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He was hot in moonstruck and valley girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:04 AM
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Post screenshots to FDS superfans!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:34 PM
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This was a great post and very informative. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:38 AM
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Can you recommend a good alternative? I’m looking to cancel my prime but I admit I’ve become more accustomed to the convenience than I’d like to admit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:36 AM
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Huh. Whatever happened to enthusiastic consent? I’ve done some things I’m not proud of but at least I’ve never had a sexual encounter with someone who was crying or clearly uncomfortable. What an odd thing to brag about 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:32 AM
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There is a certain subreddit on here that moms use to vent and the ones about how horrible and useless their husbands are truly inspire terror at the prospect of having children with a man. Some of these women have truly ruined their lives by having children with abusive lvm and are in heartbreaking situations that will be very hard to leave, financially speaking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 05:38 PM
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I’m always astounded at how obsessed these weak minded scrotes are with FDS. Literally having standards and rejecting men who don’t meet those standards is abuse to them. We are trying to manipulate men or trick them. It’s HVM or bust. It’s HVM or single for life. They CANNOT handle it and melt down 😂😂🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 05:15 PM
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They lurk on FDS and get so mad and triggered then have to go power wank to porn featuring a woman being beaten, choked, and raped. Male empowerment 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 05:08 PM
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Miss the old rad fem subs pre purge 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 04:36 PM
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Very amused to see FDS mentioned in the comments and triggered scrotes whining about how toxic we are and that we’re sooo mean 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:29 PM
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TIL that women having standards and choosing to stay single rather than lowering them is more toxic than child pron 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:26 PM
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Excellent point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 03:04 PM
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This is the type of woman who will brag about him ordering her favorite dish on the date so she could have his leftovers. So ThOuGhTfUl 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 11:27 AM
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They love to trot out the tired old “cat lady” trope but never think about the single men who die alone and miserable in their dirty laundry nests; surrounded by dirty dishes and crusty tissues without even a cat for companionship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:48 AM
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Analyze why you are so attracted to them in the first place and use that to work on yourself or identify an emotional need that you have been neglecting and give yourself the appropriate self care. My childhood abandonment issues love to show up in my crushes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:38 AM
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Hey Bellla, if you’re here lurking go fuck yourself. Trying to look and act like a child isn’t sexy, it’s disgusting and you know what you’re doing. We see you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 02:33 AM
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“The bechdel cast” is great! Their fight club episode is hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 03:46 AM
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Is it the sunk cost fallacy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:33 PM
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AsKiNg FoR A fRiEnD 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:28 AM
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https://newrepublic.com/article/162000/bill-gates-impeded-global-access-covid-vaccines
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 09:49 AM
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I have some much rage running through my veins right now. He is full on confessing to raping a crying child and no one gives a fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 09:36 AM
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Guaranteed these are the same men who loudly proclaim “SeX wOrK Is WoRk!” while shit talking their female colleague for having a 10 year old thirst trap on Instagram.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 09:25 AM
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High quality post. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 09:14 AM
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https://www.google.com/amp/s/seetherevival.blog/2019/10/16/is-snoop-dogg-a-feminist/amp/ https://www.theroot.com/that-time-snoop-ran-an-actual-brothel-1790896418
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 09:01 AM
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Keanu Reeves still does it for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 12:19 AM
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This reminds me that I need to watch North and South again. Damn 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 12:11 AM
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Head over to r\raceplay if you want to see some true inclusivity. Sure, they may call black women the n word and fantasize about them being slaves but it’s all cool because of kink 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:56 PM
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The amount of rape and sexual assault/ harassment in the world is only possible because other men who are not directly responsible are complicit. They see it and hear about it but do nothing. It’s all men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 03:41 PM
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I know of at least some of them who do care and try to warn other women from entering the industry, but the insidious nature of sex work is that you are often literally signing your life away. Women are often unable to establish a normal career afterwards and therefore can’t be overtly critical of the industry if they want to stay marketable to their fan bases. It’s heartbreaking because many of them have medical bills and mental health conditions related to sex work and have to keep working. It…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 03:31 PM
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I rewrote a Reddit comment that fetishized sexual violence against women but changed all the pronouns to male and posted it in the SAME sub and was shadow banned by a Reddit admin. How bizarre.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 07:22 PM
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They already had one sub banned for antisemitism. These scrotes in tin foil hats think that porn culture is a Jewish plot for world domination and they are actually the true victims. The mental gymnastics are absolutely mind numbing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 05:16 AM
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Apparently it’s a thing for women on OF to groom other women to sign up using their referral codes because they make 5% of the yearly earnings of anyone they recruit. I follow a former well known porn star on TikTok and she speaks out about how OF is a pyramid scheme and the unforeseen ramifications of being a sex worker... things like difficulty finding a bank that will approve you for a mortgage regardless of income and how producing pornography in your own home might play out in a custody bat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 05:03 AM
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I noticed a shopping bag on the site. What will you be selling?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 09:03 PM
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I would never date a stoner again. Every stoner I’ve met has been complacent and lacking motivation, myself included when I smoked daily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 04:44 AM
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Of course you are..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/19 02:01 PM
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Nice guys like you, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/19 01:59 PM
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It’s because women are expected to be polite in the face of rudeness or take the high road, lest they be labeled a “Karen.” Men love to hold women to a higher standard then they do themselves or other men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/19 12:49 PM
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These men in the comments seem to think that if you want a nsa encounter, you don’t have to put in any of the “work” that you normally would if you were trying to woo a woman. Namely being friendly and engaging. Why would you want to fuck someone be that you don’t even like? This guy is treating sex as a straight up transaction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/19 12:43 PM
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