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Ok this is pretty amazing since I already date latin girls as it is. What sites are good ones? I see mylanguageexchange but it is tricky to find many folks.
/r/seduction23/09/13 06:39 PM
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Professional women are my main pickups. They are just as flaky because they don't go out as much. So it's not about maturity. If you want a mature woman, go after a divorced MILF who has been treated like shit and now wants a "nice guy". You can give a few days notice.."ill be downtown at 1030 on Friday, we should meet up at ____." It definitely does not need to be a spur of the moment thing. The main thing is that it needs to be casual.
/r/seduction19/09/13 08:35 PM
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Well I am doing the same thing, I just don't want to go to dinner. Dinner seems like it's a date. I think it is better to date a girl after you have fucked her. Would you not rather tell her to meet you out somewhere where you can get physical with her and kino? A dinner date is hard for that to happen. Take a girl to a rock show for example. Stay for a set, thats an hour..use the noise as an excuse to be close to her when you talk so you can touch her. After that take her for drinks. Thats one …
/r/seduction18/09/13 07:50 PM
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I give them another shot later on and that's it. Usually a girl will offer to do something another time if she is interested.
/r/seduction18/09/13 07:46 PM
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I agree with everything except the dinner thing. Don't ask them to dinner. Hit them up and say, Im going to be at ___, want to meet up later? Keep it casual at first. Girls flake because they don't want to be locked down to a situation. They want options. If you know that and subtley remind them that you have options too, they will respond better.
/r/seduction18/09/13 05:33 PM
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It was not persistence. It was that you went after other girls in front of her. That always works because as a single guy, you can do that. It's part of the joy of being a bachelor, and if you are gaming other girls, your value is higher. One club/bar we run here is my homebase. I bring girls in there all the time or pickup girls when they come in. All the bartenders are super hot girls who get #s handed to them all night by guys. They watch me do work in that bar every weekend, and the hottest …
/r/seduction16/09/13 08:50 PM
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There are a ton of flake situations now with texting..etc. All of my friends deal with it and so do I. I have had amazing flake outs lately. A girl texts me apologizing and over explaining herself, asks me to do something and then flakes again. That was this weekend. Not a huge deal, I am just sharing examples. Its all about volume and quality. I always talk to a girl after I get her # and setup a date. But that still guarantees nothing. Main thing to do is not acknowledge it bothered you, and r…
/r/seduction16/09/13 08:42 PM
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This is so true. It's all attitude. I had a girl I met a while back where I acted too much like a fag. I was not assertive enough, when we went out she talked about her troubles with her on and off BF..anyway you can imagine that I didnt get anywhere and was in the friend zone. I took a break from her and readjusted..came back weeks later and was my normal self. I had nothing to lose at this point. I'd see her out and be physical, make fun of her a little and she loved it. Still, I didnt get suc…
/r/seduction11/09/13 06:15 PM
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I don't like a lot of this because you are assuming that everyone notices you in the bar/club. They don't. Some may, but you will still need to cold approach girls. It's just how it is. If it feels awkward or creepy to you, that's only your perception. A lot of guys feel that way, and never go up to the girl or by the time they do they actually ARE creepy because the girl saw them hesitating all night. I like to bounce around with my friends to different bars. If I "set up shop" in each one I'd …
/r/seduction10/09/13 04:21 PM
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You are taking girls out to dinner on the first date and my game is chump game? Calm down, you are trying too hard. You said you wanted a rebuttal, but it seems like you want to validate yourself instead.
/r/seduction08/09/13 07:19 PM
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Dinner and drinks? I would not on a first date. Def not dinner, and drinks only after doing something more unique like bowling, pool, live band, comedy club, art exhibit..etc. As for the text itself - yes for sure. I may open with - hey, it was great meeting you last night, random question - when is the last time you have gone bowling? They will usually say something like - lol, wow, I havent done that in so long. why? me - Me neither, I think it would be really fun, plus I want to see you in fu…
/r/seduction05/09/13 02:57 PM
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Without a doubt. That is life. My thing is that I want to vet out the girls who can handle life's lows and those who can't. The girls with a healthy attitude towards life are the ones who will appreciate you being there for them in bad times, but won't seek out to make things miserable.
/r/seduction04/09/13 01:57 PM
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It's tough, but no one has mentioned this and I have been told I do this a lot by my friends. I talk about sex a lot with girls. And I do really early. The last girl I picked up I told I loved to eat pussy probably within the first 5 minutes of meeting her. Now, how I got there I can't remember, but it wasn't creepy or weird and her and her friends were into it. I find that when you talk about sex and have it on your mind, it makes it easier for you to make moves and show what you really want. I…
/r/seduction03/09/13 07:48 PM
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You have to establish early in that you are into fun and see how the girl reacts. Some girls get negative - that is an unnatractive trait to me. I don't deal with that stuff. Sometimes if I am out and a girl is connecting with me and sharing a story that I can tell upsets her, I let her tell it and listen, but I then say something super random and funny to bring her back to my mindset. It always works if I do it with confidence. One of my favorite examples is to quote the dinner with schmucks li…
/r/seduction03/09/13 07:29 PM
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Agree, I had been struggling with this but got past it. Picked up a cutie that I kclosed kinoed and danced with all night. She told me I was hot and couldnt wait to see me. I asked her out after discussing it with her in person the night we met and no answer yet after about a day. The funny thing is I dont care that much. I will follow up in a few days and just try and kick with her when I go out again, see if I can get her back to my place.
/r/seduction03/09/13 04:39 PM
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Agree. Making that thread was pretty therapeutic. Got me refocused and I have been back on my game since. I am giving that girl a break, she still messages me, but I have gone out with other girls and re-centered myself. The point about lifelong companionship is very strong. It is a subconscious thing that creeps in sometimes. Mainly when I meet a girl who wows me. I think making this thread and putting things on paper has been a huge help. I think I was improvising too much on dates and losing …
/r/seduction02/09/13 10:27 PM
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I'll be honest, what you are saying makes sense on paper, but what attracts women to you is the confidence to take risks and walk away. By ramping up physical attraction and seduction you are taking risks and that is what attracts women. I know this, it works. So when I do not do it, I get mad at myself. I agree that many ladies look for more than a hookup. The beauty of seduction is that you can push her as far as she will go and establish yourself as high value and a risk taker, so even if she…
/r/seduction28/08/13 03:13 PM
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Cool. I have no idea if I could pull that off. I almost feel like no response is best because she won't know if I am mad (i doubt she will think that), don't give a shit, got busy..etc. She didn't respond to my first question on going out until I followed up, so it's not like she doesn't play the same game. I think you are right - her level of interest is not high with guys right now. That being said, I have no idea what made her decide to ditch her friends and go out with me without telling the…
/r/seduction28/08/13 01:34 PM
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Ok, so you meet a girl you are digging and then take her out and just go for sex? I have done it a lot. I think the key is that when I get into a girl I feel like that is a bad idea for some reason and I will scare her off. It's stupid. I am definitely going to change my ways after this mishap.
/r/seduction28/08/13 03:24 AM
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Probably, but not in a way where I think Im so great. More in a way where I feel like I'm a fuck up for not getting the girls I value the most. Working on it.
/r/seduction28/08/13 03:23 AM
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I agree with everything you said. I have other girls. One may come over in a little bit actually. I just got weak with this one. Do you think I should just go dark on this girl for a while and not respond to what she said? She said, right now more than anything I like hanging out with my friends. She said this before we went out too, so she thinks I am taking a BF angle, which is the mistake I made. I will need to clarify that I am not down the road when I see her again.
/r/seduction28/08/13 03:21 AM
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Thanks for that. She did just respond to me and said her GFs are her top thing to do over anything, which she did tell me when we met. I got her to ditch a girl's night for me the first time, and obviously that won't happen again since I asked her out on a girls night this week. She said she had fun with me and enjoyed our conversations. I doubt I will respond. I think it is best to say nothing since right now I am not executing anything correctly. I met her through her GF who likes me. Her GF h…
/r/seduction28/08/13 12:21 AM
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Well she responded. She said she didnt notice that I was nervous at all and had a good time. She had fun with all the stuff we talked about. Right now, she loves hanging out with her GFs a lot and they are having a night out the night I asked her out. The thing is that she blew her friends off for me last week and I think I didnt wow her enough to change her mind to do that again. I may be completely screwed here, but maybe if I go dark for a few weeks and see her down the road I will have my mi…
/r/seduction27/08/13 11:54 PM
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Yeah Im not super connected to the club day to day. Meaning, I dont need to be in there on a nightly basis. I use it as a source of entertainment. Im not trying to swing my dick, I just want you to understand you are not talking with a complete mess over here is all. I feel like I failed because you are right. I should have continued to escalate with this girl and tried to fuck her. And instead, the time between us going out I thought about how her GF told me she was a really good girl and all t…
/r/seduction27/08/13 11:43 PM
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I took out a girl that I should have framed for sex, and instead was weak about it and developed oneitis. As a result I think I blew my shot. Normally, this would not phase me, but I really liked this girl and I lost my edge completely. I have had this happen before and blown it with girls that I like and it is starting to really bring me down. Thats the basics.
/r/seduction27/08/13 11:22 PM
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I appreciate the whole mindset you are throwing around on the net but relax. You are assuming im some kind of a pussy because I am venting some issues I'm dealing with. Don't do that. It's annoying as shit and it seems try hard to me. As for physique, I lift a lot. I am actually ripped and have a great physique. So you are wrong there. I have a lot of friends..tons. We own a nightclub and are well known in our area. This stuff can happen sometimes, I dont care what the situation is, guys can fuc…
/r/seduction27/08/13 11:19 PM
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Ok, well all I can do is see what she replies with - if anything. It's nuts to have a girl replying all the time with smiley faces, going out with you behind the back of her friends and still not doing the date right. I mean, I know I can improve, but my god. What a power fail.
/r/seduction27/08/13 09:38 PM
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Ok cool. I can and have done these things before. shit, when I picked her up, I was doing all these things. That is what makes it so maddening. the night I picked her up, I was doing so well other women came up to me and asked if I was single right in front of her. One grabbed me aside privately and told me I had the strongest game she had ever seen. I kid you not. This is why the date-fail hurts so badly. I had everything set up perfect and blew it.
/r/seduction27/08/13 09:36 PM
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Exactly. It honestly made me feel a million times better to just get out of this frame of mind I was in. I agree that I firmly believe the "get the girl" mode was halted anyway, so my only option would be to ignore her, see her out and chat and on her mind would be the fact that she shut me down. By doing this, I may have fucked it all up, but I also showed vulnerability and in all honesty, she sees me as a guy who can get girls. She knows I can, I established that early on via multiple ways sin…
/r/seduction27/08/13 09:33 PM
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Yeah, I normally do it just like you suggested. I guess I just blew this one completely. Kind of embarrassing actually, but whatever. I have no problem laughing off that I was nervous or admitting to it. I went 3 days with no response already and should have taken a step back. I just need to accept that this was not meant to be and move on. It is proving to be difficult. Only reason I said that shit was because she saw me in high social value (long story) and knows a GF of hers who likes me. She…
/r/seduction27/08/13 09:23 PM
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Cool. When you say - do something stupid, do you have any examples? I used to spank a girl pretty hard when I'd see her and that ended up getting her interested in me. I'm not sure thats the best idea out on a date though..lol.
/r/seduction27/08/13 09:11 PM
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Since she had yet to respond to me about a date (she was very responsive before) I took your advice and owned it. Fuck it. I had to get it off my chest. I told her that I would take a guess that the day I suggested was bad or she didn't want to tell me no - and that was ok. I then said I had to admit I was nervous the whole time with her and I never get like that. I closed in saying I still had a great time and I hoped she did as well. Probably terrible, but I was beating myself up about it and …
/r/seduction27/08/13 08:42 PM
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It makes complete sense and is an awesome post. I think you nailed a few things.
/r/seduction27/08/13 08:16 PM
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I think I'm not initiating the sexual attraction too much or properly. It feels awkward and needy. When the date is over, I don't feel like I did a great job. As opposed to when I knock them out of the park and know I did or even when the chemistry was not there and I laugh it off and move on.
/r/seduction27/08/13 08:15 PM
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Much appreciated.
/r/seduction27/08/13 08:12 PM
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Thanks. I agree. I don't get it man. I took out a different girl the next night and brought her home for a nice BJ. The sad part is that I didnt even really enjoy it, I am still thinking about the original girl. Meanwhile I could give 2 shits about the one I was with, and she is rather cute. Fuck me. I have had a life history of getting girls but never getting the ones I really want. It is a very difficult issue to shake.
/r/seduction27/08/13 06:59 PM
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It really is. It pisses me off man. I blew it with a killer chic. I'm just tired of fucking up.
/r/seduction27/08/13 06:05 PM
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Not sure. I didnt feel an opening believe it or not. That is the issue. I have done this a million times before and it feels natural most times. She was not responsive to kino towards the end and initiated the lean in, cheek kiss. It's stupid to try and kiss at the end of the date. too much build up. I should have tried earlier. Fucking terrible.
/r/seduction27/08/13 06:04 PM
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Yeah, I am pretty good about the whole pedestal thing. I tease them, and don't kiss their ass, but you must be right. There are subtle things I must be doing to screw it up. I need to stop being so hard on myself, but it's tough. I could have locked down some incredible women and I have blown some layups. It's torture at times, and the worst thing is that I know what I am doing better than a lot of guys.
/r/seduction27/08/13 04:45 PM
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Have to be honest, you sound incredibly inexperienced. As stated, read sidebar, get to work.
/r/seduction22/08/13 03:41 PM
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Honestly, if I find myself asking if a girl likes me or not, I already know the answer is no. The only chance you have is to pull back ouf the emotional - reactive mindset you are in, be super fun and flirty and not give shit what happens with her anymore. Sometimes a girl can be on the fence and this will draw her back in. Other times, it is not going to happen, but since you are so fun she will end up inviting you out and you will have a crack at her girl friends.
/r/seduction22/08/13 03:07 PM
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It's a good point. I think the worst thing you can do is go on a date and try and frame it as you are looking for her to be your GF. What I have experienced is that if you showcase that you want fun and sex with her properly you can really start pulling a lot more girls. I met a girl who told me she has been single for 6 months after a 4 year relationship and "just wants to have fun." I told her I was in the same situation and that sounded great. She had a guy texting her the whole time she was …
/r/seduction21/08/13 06:13 PM
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I dont think about that anymore. It is a trap. You control your own self improvement. Dress, attitude, fitness level. From there you project a positive mindset that is real because it based on hard work and a sense of pride. It is hard to not get mad when a girl flakes or is not into you at first, but overcoming it a lot easier once you stop investing to much into it in the first place. Stop investing in thoughts about things all being based on looks. You would be stunned at the transformation y…
/r/seduction16/08/13 04:59 PM
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Just some excellent posts in here. I upvoted a lot of you guys. Fired me up.
/r/seduction16/08/13 04:56 PM
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I just realized the mantra. Stop giving a shit about the outcome of 1 situation. It is meaningless. I will always meet more girls. Have to keep reminding myself of this even though I date on average 1-2 different girls a week. It's all about the mindset.
/r/seduction16/08/13 04:40 PM
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I have thought about this one..lol. I love it. Girl A is not into chics at all, I think they would be wierded out. I have had extensive conversation on if she would hook up with a chic, how much she masturbates, what makes her cum the most..been there. My take away is that I have to get these girls separate from each other because the 3way will be under 10% chance of happening. Plus girl A will probably cry at some point and feel guilty about her BF. I may crack and hit up girl B on FB if I dont…
/r/seduction15/08/13 03:33 PM
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True friends will no be mailcious to you. Make sure you have real friends. True friends will bust your balls, but they care about you and are just having fun. Don't be sensitive. That equates to neediness when you deal with women. Accept yourself first, or you will be stuck in that mode with no way out.
/r/seduction15/08/13 02:22 PM
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This may have been a fail report then judging by the response. I just thought it was interesting at how I could get these girls fascinated and intrigued just by utilizing inner game. The next step is seeing how to fuck girl B without dealing with A.
/r/seduction15/08/13 02:09 PM
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A move I have done to girls that I want for sex only is to fuck them until they cum and need a break. I then let them spoon me laying side to side and fall asleep while I have my cock against their ass. When I wake up in the AM I fuck them again. As you can imagine you will have the raging boner from hell, but when you cum it will make your entire day so much brighter. It is a hot cold combo where the girl goes to bed a little rattled that you didnt cum, but when you cover her with it the next m…
/r/seduction01/08/13 06:26 PM
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