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| 6 | Question for those of you who decided to wait to lose your virginity, or who are still waiting for the right moment, how did/do other people respond to it?I waited until I married at 23. It was my decision, and my parents didn't really push waiting. At the time, I didn't discuss it with many people, the reactions I did get were neutral to positive. Now, people seem pretty shocked to hear about it, but not exactly negative. We have been married for 10 years and have two kids. I think it was a good decision. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/16 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Should paternity fraud be illegal?In an evolutionary sense, the ex-husband obviously lost the most, since he had no offspring, unless perhaps he was actually sterile and couldn't have had kids anyway. Financially, he's likely to be worse off in this case because Maria Shriver was, is and will probably always be wealthy. I'm assuming the cost of supporting a child was a much bigger deal to the ex-husband than the Shriver/Schwarzenegger family. Emotionally, it could go either way. If you imagine the reverse, where Arnold ends up r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/16 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Should paternity fraud be illegal?I agree it's not exactly the same thing, I was just trying to think of what might be the male equivalent. In both cases, I think adultery which leads to children really does harm the other spouse. And, I'm not really opposed to some sort of punishment for women who truly try to fool a guy they know isn't the father. But, I think paternity confusion is a lot more common than outright fraud. Also, since child support is supposed to belong to the child and the child is clearly innocent, it's hard t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/16 07:40 PM |
| 7 | Should paternity fraud be illegal?Yes, I suspect that most women who do this actually believe their partner could be the real father and are probably hoping that to be true. There's no special psychic sense that tells a woman 'the sex I'm having right now is making a baby'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/16 01:22 PM |
| 3 | Should paternity fraud be illegal?On the flip side, what about a man who has a 'secret love child' he sends money to without his wife's knowledge? Isn't he defrauding his wife and her children out of his exclusive economic investment and emotional involvement? In both cases, I think punishment gets to be impractical. You can't get someone to pay you back money they just don't have (civil penalty) and it could get very costly to society to lock all these parents up (criminal penalty). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/16 01:18 PM |
| 1 | The ethics of lying to men who have been cuckolded...Perhaps a better female alternative would be if a couple were using IVF and the husband somehow bribed the clinic into using another woman's egg without his wife's knowledge. If this happened to me, I would obviously be very angry, but I doubt I'd really want to stop raising the child. I might ditch the husband, though. I'd probably be happier not knowing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/16 06:56 PM |
| 1 | The ethics of lying to men who have been cuckolded...I think it depends on the specifics. At one extreme you could have a man who is only still in the relationship because he erroneously believes this one child is his and it's still just a baby - I would definitely tell that man. At the other end of the spectrum, you could have a man who has been with a woman for many years, loves her, has biological children with her, but you find out she had a brief affair and one of their several children could possibly not be his - I would definitely not tell … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/16 06:50 PM |
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