ChillingSmite Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Moving in with a female for professional reasons		ChillingSmite	/r/askTRP	14/04/21 03:51 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Moving in with a female for professional reasons Cmon, stop being a douche. It's their money I'm depending on to go there in the first place. Let's see you go tell your CEO or boss to go fuck himself.	/r/askTRP	14/04/21 07:18 PM
0	Moving in with a female for professional reasons This is what typical conservative Asian family logic is like bro. There is a heavy emphasis on pack mentality and living with people of the same ethnicity. Also, the woman is not exactly a colleague like a work colleague, shes simply an option to room with, but I get your point.	/r/askTRP	14/04/21 06:30 PM
1	Moving in with a female for professional reasons Yep, that is one of my top priorities.	/r/askTRP	14/04/21 04:55 PM
1	Moving in with a female for professional reasons Alright man, thanks a lot for your help. I wasn't sure earlier, but now I'm gonna have to argue it out with my parents over this living situation bullshit at all costs.	/r/askTRP	14/04/21 04:42 PM
1	Moving in with a female for professional reasons I agree with your viewpoint, in a perfect world I'd be living alone, this situation is definitely not ideal. Atleast till I make some new friends in the country, it looks like I might be stuck with this female for 6 months atleast. Do you think that short of a time period is still alright?	/r/askTRP	14/04/21 04:05 PM
2	If TRP is 100 % true why not just hire escorts and never have relationships? And you know she didn't cheat because she came and told you everything did she?	/r/askTRP	19/09/20 01:20 PM
2	Does pretending like you care from time to time land better results? I think it will definitely make things worse. Since you've said you're just dating and there's no eventual LTR situation, I don't know why you would even want to catch feelings, since you have the opportunities to maximize and increase the number of women you date. As far as pretending to catch feelings, that would effectively cede some of your frame over to her, as she looks to lock you into a provisional/security minded long term goal, and her attempts to drag you into her reality will increas…	/r/askTRP	17/09/20 10:47 AM
10	What do you do when you break frame? Well, considering that he's your boss, you're already in his frame by way of social order, its not the other way around. Sure, he made an ultimate statement that solidified his frame, but I don't think it would have been necessary to brown nose him or apologize for the sake of appeasement, its easier to move on with things without saying anything, especially in corporate/work scenarios. Appeasement has probably lowered your frame even more if anything.	/r/askTRP	17/09/20 10:32 AM
4	Does pretending like you care from time to time land better results? Pretend like you care about what? That's a pretty vague title, so I'm gonna assume that you're talking about it in a general sense. See here's the thing with pretending, it can be construed in several ways. Now, most people when they try to change themselves for the better, by changing their attitudes or behaviors, face a lot of resistance by people around them, and are labelled as 'pretenders' or 'posers'. In this case, its because people like predictability, and they don't like it when someone…	/r/askTRP	17/09/20 10:26 AM
2	Things I can go outside to do by myself for cheap Surely you must have something you like to do just with yourself, it could literally be something as innocuous as reading a book. Also, you don't need to necessarily step outside of your house to prove your independence, there are things you can get consumed in without giving attention to your LTR in your house. Being physically around is not the only measure of how much attention you give.	/r/askTRP	17/09/20 10:14 AM
2	Living Alone or With a roommate? If money is not an issue, I'd go for living alone. While that will add some financial burden, as you've said you're okay with handling that. You're able to learn the ropes towards self sufficiency and independence when you live alone, and the degree of independence that you get in your personal space also adds a layer of confidence. Women would definitely look at you in a positive light, as a guy who can take care of his own shit. This would be the kinda guy whose frame they'd like to enter in, …	/r/askTRP	17/09/20 05:51 AM
0	Girl who is a friend of my friend randomly followed me on Insta? Time to slide into the DM's? You should never place so much stock in internet requests, most women never approach genuinely, and usually have some ulterior motive. She followed you first, so she texts you first. If you follow back and text first, you're going to end up operating in her frame from the outset. The only time when a woman's approach would be considered genuine imo would be an IRL approach, and that too is going to be subjective to how you read her, because it's easier to read her motive considering you'll have …	/r/askTRP	17/09/20 05:36 AM