Chilling_Music Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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4	DAY 4 OF APPROACHING (caps lock guy) Nice work dude! I'm loving these daily updates. Keep it up!	/r/seduction	30/10/15 01:08 AM
2	Catch 22 of Pickup??? RSD Tyler has a few videos about this. He calls it being process oriented, and it's a really good mindset to have and a good video to watch. He basically says that you should just focus on the moment from the first thing you say all the way to the close. Make the fun part the actual process rather than expecting the fun to only come at the end goal. He even suggests rating yourself on how much fun you have in the process rather than what the result is.	/r/seduction	19/06/15 06:08 AM
5	I'm constantly being berated by other "alpha" guys....and it's hilarious. but fuck em	/r/seduction	12/09/14 04:27 PM
4	8 Scientifically-Backed Ways To Feel More Confident (Even When You're Not) While I understand what you're getting at, it's not necessarily true. There are behaviors that one might think are confident behaviors that are actually things that someone who is insecure would do. For instance, when someone (a girl) challenges your taste in music, clothes, cars, etc. someone of little confidence might think that it's best to defend your view. After all, you're not trying to impress her or change yourself to adhere her view point, so you defend the things that YOU like. But tha…	/r/seduction	08/09/14 03:23 PM
2	Why Women Don't Approach Honestly I think it's just part of chivalry. Like you said, we lead, we open doors, or pull chairs, or pick them up at their house, etc. I think it's something that's still left over from long ago when women were less likely to have jobs/money/cars/etc. Back then it was practical for a man to pay for everything and make all of the arrangements because he's the one who had the means to do it all. Now it's a polite tradition. All that said, most of the times I've been on dates recently I've had th…	/r/seduction	22/07/14 05:17 PM
15	OK - my sticking point is kino escalation, pure and simple As with absolutely everything we learn in the subreddit, things are going to feel awkward when you start doing them for the first time. Kino especially so. At least for me. It's not my strongest suit either, but I do fine for the most part. With practice, things feel more natural, and just like you calibrate with your normal social skills, you calibrate with your kino as well. What works in one situation may not work in another so you have to be aware of how the girl is reacting and what type of…	/r/seduction	15/07/14 05:31 AM
5	RSD has put me in a mental loop and haze Stop reading. Just go out and practice. Screw up, make mistakes, have successes, kick ass, blow it. It'll help you out way more than continuously reading. Just come back to the reading every once in a while to maybe brush up on stuff.	/r/seduction	21/06/14 09:40 PM
1	why does it feel like we are breaking ground here? Indeed. And nothing I've read here has compared to the actual experience of meeting women. Yes, all of the material I've read has helped and given plenty of perspective on what to do/what not to do. But so many of the questions that get asked on this subreddit boil down to people simply not having enough experience in the field. I'm by no means incredible at picking up women (far from it, in fact) but I'm a whole different animal than I was a few years ago. And it's mostly because I've been able…	/r/seduction	10/06/14 04:17 AM
10	[FR] (UPDATE) I just went on a date with the hottest girl in my college "I've never had anyone be so sassy to me before." It only takes mental effort in the beginning. After a little while getting used to talking to girls all this stuff comes second nature. Like walking. You stop thinking about almost everything and just act instinctively.	/r/seduction	07/05/14 12:09 AM