Chillout2010 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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8	I think I’m done boys I'm at a low point myself. I'm not sure how it's all gonna work out. But you gotta be strong for your kids. Don't let them see you quit.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/06/26 12:44 PM
4	Why do men seem to always try and heal and be on there own and woman just instantly jump into dating or monkey branching? I'm too messed up mentally so I'm sure she will beat me to the punch. I have to work on myself so I don't fall into the same web.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/06/26 05:34 PM
-1	Wife forcing vasectomy This hurts actually cause it's prob true.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/06/26 12:06 PM
7	Wife forcing vasectomy My wife really pushed for it when we had our daughter 13yrs ago. One boy one girl. But now at 42 she's divorcing me and can just go out and have a baby if someone convinces her. Not in my case. I'd have to pay a good amount of money to try to do the extraction.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/06/26 10:28 AM
4	Hit me like a punch to the gut They throw us away like trash.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/06/26 01:12 PM
1	Lawyer is asking me to pay half the mortgage Are you still in the house?	/r/Divorce_Men	27/05/26 09:40 PM
6	To the divorced men who visited a sex worker, what was the reason you decided to see one and how was the experience? My ex is Ukrainian lol. I'm scared...	/r/Divorce_Men	20/05/26 03:48 PM
2	To the divorced men who visited a sex worker, what was the reason you decided to see one and how was the experience? I was married for 17yrs, together for 24. Ive never paid for it. Well in marriage I did. But not for a single hump. Ill try to get another woman before I hire someone to pretend to be into me.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/05/26 12:13 PM
1	Anyone gone through this with a pension? I was served. Just retained mine. They had me come in and provide all the stuff I had. Signed the counter claim. Sent me home with a statement of net worth to fill out. I left the office feeling alot better. They should tell you the break down. What to expect.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/05/26 08:12 PM
2	Anyone gone through this with a pension? You can pull the Pension information. I just pulled mine last week. It has current value.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/05/26 07:36 PM
2	Anyone gone through this with a pension? They take half. That's how it works. Unless they have their own. Good luck.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/05/26 07:34 PM
3	Warning Signs? They stop letting you pay for stuff. They wont accept gifts. They ask for their own accounts on certain things. Costco card was the first sign.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/04/26 06:56 PM
2	Divorce asset allocation in high earners Married 17yrs and going through it now. Good luck.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/04/26 03:03 PM
2	Feeling like a loser…and then… I have a designer wife and I have yet to pay. Thats what I was told after a 17yr marriage. They are cold.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/04/26 08:08 PM
1	Anxiety after every call with lawyers! If I go through this eventually. I'm going to be seeking a counselor or therapist. I think it's normal to get worked up. Just gotta find a way to remain as calm as possible. Your going to have a lot of emotions. But this is really not the time or place for those. Good luck.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/05/25 01:23 PM
1	Anxiety after every call with lawyers! Trust I've seen some f'd up attorneys. But most of them can get you through a day in court. I know a bunch of decent attorneys and out of that group I'm bargain shopping. Lol.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/05/25 01:15 PM
3	Anxiety after every call with lawyers! Attorneys are just humans. They do and can make mistakes. They are professional arguers, though. So I think it's all part of the game. They usually have been through enough of these things to give you incite on how things are going and what's happening now and next. That's the peace of mind you should get.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/05/25 01:10 PM
6	Finding Attorney I have alot of access to attorneys and I still have a hard time picking. I know the best but I can't afford and don't necessarily need the best. I just want someone who can get the job done. The faster they settle it the cheaper it will be. Nothing worse then listening to attys waste clients money by arguing like little kids.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/04/25 12:46 AM
24	Those of you who had wives who “changed” after marriage or children. I bet this is alot of us. I'm gonna be real. I blame social media. They got woman thinking they don't need men. Just their money. No compromise to be found.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/04/25 10:10 AM
2	Divorce is “catching”… Interesting lol	/r/Divorce_Men	05/04/25 09:01 PM
1	How to find best divorce lawyer in your area Go to the court house and ask around. People know. It's not really about having the best. It's about you both having a competent council and being able to settle the case. If the attys don't get along, it's gonna cost you more money.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/03/25 12:58 AM