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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 267 | Women Are Being Trained by Porn to Like Degrading, Violent, Male-centered Sex | CULTURAL MISOGYNY | ChimeraSmith | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 11:28 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 5 | Male delusion is realMy friend’s husband and his friend were joking around that it’s easy to find a girl in Asia. “Just pick one out from the grass!” My friend looked soooo embarrassed. Neither one of them are HVM. I mean the friend is jobless, poor hygiene and grooming, and almost squatting in their spare room. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 09:51 PM |
| 78 | I “ built a man up” and now I know why a lot of women refuse to do so anymore.This also happened to me. I stuck with mine and helped build his confidence up. We were poor and I was miserable but I was happy as long as we were together. Flash forward to today and he became really successful throughout the years. Don’t get me wrong he did a lot of hard work to get where he is but he brushes away my emotional support like it was nothing. He told me that I was exactly what he needed when we met but now he doesn’t need me anymore and he deserves better and need to have someone… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 10:09 AM |
| 22 | The fact this sub gets so much hate from people on the manosphere proves us rightWhat subreddit is DOT? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 12:01 AM |
| 106 | Men making us feel ugly but they have hair on their shoulders they can brush with a comb, pot bellies, receding hairlines, pubic hair face beards, bad oral hygiene & dandruff flakes on their clothes. My standards have become much higher because of this sub. No more 🤡I’ve been negged badly by a recent date. Told me I’m pretty but “let’s face it they are really hot women out there.” He said that he dated them and he doesn’t like their personality and he’s glad I’m average. Fuck you, Anthony. Fuck you and your weird bald patches, muscle definition of a cooked noodle, and paranoid delusions. No wonder you don’t have any friends and have a disgusting codependent relationship with your equally needy chihuahua who you’re frankly starting to look like, complete wit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 08:11 PM |
| 95 | Men making us feel ugly but they have hair on their shoulders they can brush with a comb, pot bellies, receding hairlines, pubic hair face beards, bad oral hygiene & dandruff flakes on their clothes. My standards have become much higher because of this sub. No more 🤡Why is this a popular look right now??? It’s so disgusting. Combine that with bad general hygiene and no fashion sense, they blend right in with the homeless population. And ffs, use sunscreen! You look 40 going on 60. But they still expect us to be all horny for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 05:37 PM |
| 162 | The Power of SilenceNo Contact with exes is the only way to go. And I’m not talking about those scams online that tries to sell No Contact as a way to manipulate your ex to come back. Nope. Real no contact. Walk away, never look back, never turn back, always move forward for YOUR future one painful step at a time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 10:28 AM |
| 7 | So I found a HVM and wanted to point out some of his early on green flags...Yep. I dated a guy recently who supposed to have “green flags”: talking about a future with me, prioritizing my needs over his, the small loving gestures, etc. Except, it became a method of control and tried to use his gestures to guilt trip me into doing what he wanted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 10:24 AM |
| 175 | Women Describe What Happened When They Took Their Husbands Back After They Were Separated because he got a new girlfriend. So much FDS Motivational Fuel.I’m on the other side. I was the wife who was left for a pretty young thing. Blocked him, changed my number, email address and moved. I didn’t tell him any of my new info. I did this because he started reaching out to me again mid-divorce. Both sides need to leave men like this in the garbage where they belong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 10:18 AM |
| 5 | This has got to be one of the worst episodes of mainsplaining I’ve ever seen. Avoid men like Tom at all costs, and never let a man a speak down to you!Okay, so this is sneaky. The condescension can come from someone who appears like one of the good ones. I have a male friend who regularly mansplains. He gets away with it because he’s this mild mannered, soft spoken Pooh Bear figure. But most of the time, he doesn’t even have his facts straight. I’m sorry, but being told that exercise and a good diet are bad ideas is ridiculous. Anything is make his overweight self feel better about his choices. They can be sneaky, ladies! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 10:12 AM |
| 21 | What low value men post on their social media.You know how many men will be triggered because a height is listed? Anyone shorter than 5’10”. But yet for them, it’s okay if they put “ideal numbers” on our bodies? “I just have a preference.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 10:04 AM |
| 5 | LVM and HVM revealed in gaming. The last line says it all.As someone who plays an MMO, this is very accurate. There is also a second behavior: they admire you and then, proceed to stalk and sexually harass you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 10:01 AM |
| 2 | ✔️??? Um, I said that I need to stop thinking that I need a man... the wheels are already turning to get independent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 09:41 AM |
| 4 | ✔️Being also 40, this is a mindset I need to adapt. I hate that my ex put me a difficult financial situation. I need to stop thinking it’s too late to fix anything and I need a man to help me get through the rest of my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 08:40 PM |
| 7 | FDS isn’t about menThis is my goal since I discovered FDS. I’m 40 by the end of the year but even though my financials are a mess, I need to believe that if an fix this and I can be a happy, independent woman on my own. I need to figure out who I am and shed my ex’s influence in my taste and personality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 08:38 PM |
| 2 | This makes me sick to my stomachThis was me. I was 11 when I started developing. I’ve been followed, made lewd comments at and blatantly ogled. One time I was playing hide and seek with some friends and I hid in a closet. This man came in after me and started slobbering all over my face. I ran out but I still remember how he was trying to force his hand between my legs. From then on, I got some bandages and started binding my breasts and developed pretty bad posture from years of trying to hide myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 02:49 AM |
| 20 | Terminal uniqueness and proud non-conformity are red flagsI’m in this demographic and entering the dating world for the first time since my early 20s. Omg, the amount of ego these “men” are carrying. They don’t think they have to do anything and believes they can attract 20 year old models. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 02:34 AM |
| 19 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 10 2020How do you guys deal with FOMO? I found myself suddenly single last year at 38 when my relationship of 16 years ended. He found someone (13 years younger than me) who he likes better. They got together within a week of him asking me for a divorce. So I’m 39 now and 40 by the end of the year and the desperation and loneliness is hard to deal with on almost a daily basis. I’ve been frequenting this sub because you ladies make me feel strong. But the desperation is still there. I’ve dated (met thro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 08:59 PM |
| 21 | HVM in media done right, David is a HVM and all the rest, in my opinion, LVMI dated someone who was former military and omg his negativity and paranoia is to the roof. And it made him a very controlling partner. We ordered food and answered the door with this a pistol because it could be a murderer. Controlled my way of walking outside because manholes might explode and there would be a mugger around every corner. Build a rifle (for protection) that he couldn’t buy because it’s illegal to sell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 04:27 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 2020Does this sub have a discord server where we can support each other? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 05:42 PM |
| 3 | Never ever ever beg someone to stay. This concept has been romanticized in the media, but it's toxic to your soul and mind. You teach other people how to treat you, so treat yourself with love, respect, and dignity.I did this to with my ex... he came back and then walked again 3 months later to go after a woman 13 years younger than me. Man I was such an idiot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 05:42 PM |
| 3 | When ever a guy age 30+ says “Ive never been in love” it is a huge red flag (for me). Usually he has commitment issues or has created a fantasy relationship in his mind that reality will never match up to. NEXTMen have taken love languages and personality tests like MBTI and Enneagram as an excuse on why they didn’t do anything wrong. Come on, they’re like the zodiac of the psychology world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 04:34 AM |
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