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| 2 | Antiporn is usually motivated by misandryI kicked all my brothers asses on games growing up. I've built my gaming computer myself. I was also pissed at the constant amount of cleavage and whiny damsels. Games are for me. Sorry you can't keep me out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Misandry is more prevalent than misogynyAre you disagreeing that my comment isn't the same as what he posted? If so, you have the opportunity to explain why your interpretation is different! This is how discussion works! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/26 04:40 PM |
| 2 | No one told men marriage was gonna be a nonstop fuck fest.I don't think it's funny at all. Raping your wives frequently resulted in husbands poisonings and deaths. This isn't a joke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/26 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Misandry is more prevalent than misogynyYeah, I agreed that's what you said, why are you lying now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Misandry is more prevalent than misogynyYou said that misogyny is from 'older ways of thinking', a fallacy that states because something has been widely accepted for a long time that it is therefore valid. You don't see the fact that it is an EVEN WORSE form of hatred because misogyny has historically been the norm and so casually applied that it doesn't feel like hatred to you, but a natural state. That's pretty funny, because that means you also don't understand that institutionalized mysogyny is a SOURCE of the anger that fuels mod… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Misandry is more prevalent than misogynyIt's exactly what you said just restated in different words In school, teachers will often use this as a tool to check if students actually understood the material. If you can put the information in your own words it shows that you actually understand the lesson and are not simply regurgitating information. Are you disagreeing that my comment isn't the same as what you posted? If so, you have the opportunity to explain why your post is different! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Misandry is more prevalent than misogynyJust summarized in a humorous way to highlight the obvious conclusion that you overlook | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Misandry is more prevalent than misogyny"Misogyny isn't hatred it's just natural, it's the way things have always been! And now, we aren't even allowed to do it as much anymore so why are women so mad??" 😂 Guy can't even hear himself Edit: Guy edited his comments multiple times after I responded too. Loser | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 04:03 PM |
| 0 | No one told men marriage was gonna be a nonstop fuck fest.You're the type that would have been secretly poisoned by your wife 100 years ago | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 03:29 PM |
| – | Redpill "tactics" are idiotic and have the opposite of the intended affect.So...ones who want to play games and vulnerable ones? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 04:21 PM |
| – | Redpill "tactics" are idiotic and have the opposite of the intended affect.Two different targets | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Esther Perel on Oprah.I'd rather be single than be with a man I can't talk to, can't trust with kids, and who can't feed himself. There are plenty of men who can hold a conversation take care of their own kids, and feed themselves. Esther sounds like an idiot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 04:00 PM |
| – | Redpill "tactics" are idiotic and have the opposite of the intended affect.Those tactics work on particularly vulnerable targets and targets that are just as invested in playing games. Seems to be exactly what redpill wants | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 03:51 PM |
| 3 | Red pill tactics and female dating tactics are the same thingNot jumping into bed with a dude immediately likely has much more to do with safety and self esteem than a manipulation tactic. If it is being used as a tactic to manipulate then they are perfect for eachother | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 03:43 PM |
| 3 | Why is it look down upon for a man to use his nationality to his advantage in dating? How is this different than other desirable traits?Good sperm 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 03:37 PM |
| 1 | The reason men and women can't empathize with each other's dating woes is because we are experiencing fundamentally different realities.It's still not that much energy so long as you don't have to literally gather facts to understand. If you already have the facts understanding their perspective isn't that hard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 03:27 PM |
| 3 | I find women from other countries respect men more than in USA?The movement existed because of a very serious social issue In which victims were routinely silenced and shamed. It has had the effect of making men terrified of being accused of rape. That's a severe consequence for movement which fought a severe problem. It's a backlash to a backlash and the root is sexual violence, not misandry. I never said women can't lie. I never said women can't falsely accuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 09:58 PM |
| 3 | The reason men and women can't empathize with each other's dating woes is because we are experiencing fundamentally different realities.I can't say that I agree with you but I do appreciate you sharing your beliefs, thanks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 08:08 PM |
| 3 | What do women know about men that men don't know about themselves?I do no such thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 07:47 PM |
| 3 | The reason men and women can't empathize with each other's dating woes is because we are experiencing fundamentally different realities.How does writing down your thoughts equate to empathy? I agree that empathy is a side effect of education and that women were historically less able to access education, but that's more on an individual level than a societal One | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 07:21 PM |
| 8 | The reason men and women can't empathize with each other's dating woes is because we are experiencing fundamentally different realities.It's not that much energy. But yeah, rage gets way more clicks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 06:50 PM |
| 4 | The reason men and women can't empathize with each other's dating woes is because we are experiencing fundamentally different realities.The cure to fear is understanding and exposure, touching follows. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 06:49 PM |
| 4 | What do women know about men that men don't know about themselves?Bullshit. Everyone vents about crap in their lives. Both use anger as fuel to improve situations, I already said that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 06:48 PM |
| – | Having female friends is absolutely a positive in datingIn both scenarios you are in a dichotomy of object vs _____. Object vs Human Or Object vs nothing Object vs Human has the better possible outcome | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 06:46 PM |
| 5 | The reason men and women can't empathize with each other's dating woes is because we are experiencing fundamentally different realities.I think it's because porn consumption and the loss of third spaces, coupled with online echo chambers. 1000% improved by everyone touching grass haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 06:42 PM |
| 4 | What do women know about men that men don't know about themselves?So the next step in the conversation would be you differentiating what you mean from what I first said. If it's different from how I claim Anger works in people then please, explain | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 06:39 PM |
| 3 | What do women know about men that men don't know about themselves?You > women don't understand anger or how it's useful Me > women understand anger and find it useful in this way You > so anger isn't real? Me > anger is real You > why aren't you having a conversation with me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 06:28 PM |
| 4 | The reason men and women can't empathize with each other's dating woes is because we are experiencing fundamentally different realities.What's left out here, at least in online dating, is that the proportion is horrible. So men get very little activity, and when you do you are most likely to get the women who frequent dating apps. The women who frequent dating apps aren't looking for love (they get off the apps quickly) they are the ones most likely to fulfill the dichotomy you pointed out. I don't have a solution, just sucks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 06:25 PM |
| 5 | What do women know about men that men don't know about themselves?You brought up anger first dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 06:20 PM |
| – | Having female friends is absolutely a positive in datingYou're treated that way in both scenarios | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 06:19 PM |
| 3 | The reason men and women can't empathize with each other's dating woes is because we are experiencing fundamentally different realities.Why | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 06:14 PM |
| – | Having female friends is absolutely a positive in datingA great take | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 06:13 PM |
| 5 | What do women know about men that men don't know about themselves?That is not what that means. Anger is a secondary emotion and is real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 06:10 PM |
| 4 | What do women know about men that men don't know about themselves?Being unable to control your emotional outbursts is not biology. It's a skill issue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 06:09 PM |
| 9 | The reason men and women can't empathize with each other's dating woes is because we are experiencing fundamentally different realities.Men don’t like dating because it involves exposing themselves to people who genuinely do not feel anything for them but disgust or lust, and their struggle is to find the exceptions to that binary. Women don’t like dating because it involves exposing themselves to people who genuinely do not feel anything for them but lust, and their struggle is to find the exceptions to that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 06:07 PM |
| 20 | The reason men and women can't empathize with each other's dating woes is because we are experiencing fundamentally different realities.Dating is a very different experience for men than it is for women. That does not mean we cannot empathize with each other. We are all human with fundamentally human experiences. I think that individuals who are in literal despair from loneliness and self loathing are difficult to connect with on an emotional and social level for anyone. This affects dating and socializing. This is not a reflection of ability to empathize. Painting one side or the other as unable to connect as human beings is ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 06:04 PM |
| 1 | There isn’t a socially acceptable way to date if apps don’t work and the rest of your life is in order.I'm disagree that's it's socially unacceptable to ask someone out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 06:00 PM |
| 3 | I find women from other countries respect men more than in USA?I disagree that there is propaganda about hating men, at least there being any more than there is about hating women. I will throw you a bone here, and say I think there is a lot of exposure to ideas that men are dangerous, and it is not proportional to the messaging about the ways that women can be dangerous. This is different than institutionalized misandry. Anyways, I think the actual problem is the modern messaging towards women that they shouldn't do nice things for men. It's an over correc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 05:48 PM |
| 3 | I find women from other countries respect men more than in USA?I was speaking more from the thought of passport bros, so that's a fair criticism. I agree that being appreciated and feeling equal in a partnership feels incredible. It can just turn icky fast if the appreciation only comes from a place of expecting to be oppressed or mistreated. That's a function of circumstance though, and not your fault | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 05:27 PM |
| 3 | I find women from other countries respect men more than in USA?I was thinking in more of the passport bro situation like op points out so I was definitely talking past you a bit there. In your scenario you are not leveraging anything, since she has access to the same culture you do. Appreciation does feel amazing, even if its because the bar is low. Can't blame you for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 05:15 PM |
| 8 | What do women know about men that men don't know about themselves?I just talked about anger at length...? Did you reply to the right post? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 05:03 PM |
| 3 | What do women know about men that men don't know about themselves?When has your survival relied upon you having an angry outburst? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 05:03 PM |
| – | Having female friends is absolutely a positive in datingIt's definitely an edge case. But not so rare that I cannot recall it happening multiple times It's also different than simply being blown off, though it is hard to pinpoint exactly what happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 05:02 PM |
| – | Having female friends is absolutely a positive in datingThat's the better scenario actually. I'm talking about when the switch is off and instead of then seeing you as a fellow human they instead don't see you AT ALL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 04:58 PM |
| – | Having female friends is absolutely a positive in datingI can agree if a guy sees women that way he probably sees men in the same dichotomy of 'useful vs obstacle.' that's not the opposite of my point though, just an expansion of it. I disagree that all men function this way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 04:55 PM |
| – | Having female friends is absolutely a positive in datingYeah, I'm positive there are women who see men as either meat or chaff. I find them just as gross. No it's not a matter of the law. If you don't know how to treat someone as a human being then I can't help you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 04:50 PM |
| – | Having female friends is absolutely a positive in datingI wasn't asking for his love I was asking for the assigned reading from class. I'm not talking about flirting or attention or energy. I'm talking about the way some guys have two categories. 'I want to posses you' and 'you are an obstacle to the thing I want to posses'. It's chilling. Luckily it's a minority | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 04:48 PM |
| 1 | What do women know about men that men don't know about themselves?Hierarchy is how humans take advantage of other humans. You could argue that that advantage has its perks, like being able to organize into armies and commit war, but it doesn't change the fact that hierarchy is a horribly negative tool. Men conditioning their daughters this way is indeed a form of sexual domination. It's why it feels creepy even when on the surface it arguably is reasonable parenting to prepare your child to make decisions for their own health and safety. Good fathers can threa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 04:40 PM |
| 5 | What do women know about men that men don't know about themselves?Women prefer a more collaborative vibe in general | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 04:31 PM |
| 9 | What do women know about men that men don't know about themselves?Anger is a way to cope and mask another emotion. You may use it as an outburst to lessen your own discomfort with the root emotion and feel more in control, but that is an immature use. Anger can also be used as fuel to make changes when circumstances are not serving you, but even then its better that your actions are deliberate and chosen and not the result of a tantrum, collateral damage is bad. Women use anger the same way men do and understand it just as much as men do. We just don't like it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 04:26 PM |
| 14 | I find women from other countries respect men more than in USA?By your own argument you are saying these women are treated like shit, and grateful for simple respect. How could it NOT be transactional and taking advantage of their social oppression to hunt for a woman there? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 04:16 PM |
| – | Having female friends is absolutely a positive in datingI have seen the light go out of the eyes of a guy when he's decided he doesn't want to fuck me and it's like my humanity has fallen through the floor as far as he's concerned. It's honestly a bit scary. This is what we mean when we say to treat us as people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 04:07 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Exactly haha, really ruins my credibility | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 10:20 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I am beyond fortunate to have him in my life, and I feel the best when he feels like hes the luckiest guy alive ♥️ I always want the extra credit though 😏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 10:13 PM |
| 1 | I’ve seen the idea that sex for some women can be tied to emotional validation like feeling desired, cared for, or emotionally connected. But I’m curious about situations where a hookup is mainly based on physical attraction or opportunity.Is this about hookups or a relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 10:03 PM |
| 2 | If women faced a real safety risk in dating, then their behaviour would represent itYou seem like the type to punch a wall as a threat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 10:00 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵A lot of people wonder why older virgins are undesirable, that is different than thinking they are shitty people. Lying makes you an actual shitty person. Don't cater to people who make mean assumptions anyways. They aren't worth being immoral for | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 09:50 PM |
| 4 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵My boyfriend is really really handsome and it upsets me because I chose him for his inner qualities but I still can't take credit for not being shallow because he's just so damn handsome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 09:41 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Lying makes you a shitty person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 09:38 PM |
| 4 | Many men on Reddit who seek long-term relationships claim that OLD is not working out for them (barely any likes, matches or dates), many women on Reddit who seek the same thing claim that there are almost no good men to choose from (most matches seek casual sex, are incompatible or creepy)they’re older or undesirable in someway so their experiences are removed from the conversation This ^ They are also way less likely to complain online about it or try and find a community based on it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 09:11 PM |
| 7 | Many men on Reddit who seek long-term relationships claim that OLD is not working out for them (barely any likes, matches or dates), many women on Reddit who seek the same thing claim that there are almost no good men to choose from (most matches seek casual sex, are incompatible or creepy)All of the above with the note that there are still good men on OLD, they are just outnumbered in the same way that women seeking real relationships are also outnumbered. Except that men are already a massive majority so the 'good' men being outnumbered is a literal avalanch of thirst to try and stand out in. Anecdotally, it took me just a few weeks to find an guy that I fell for completely. In my experience, the women who are hooking up on the apps over and over again are doing exactly what the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 09:09 PM |
| 5 | Dating offline is honestly worse than online dating for most Gen Z men who want to date Gen Z womenYou didn't refute anything. Women will make room for it if she is liking him but girls in this day and age just aren't in these social spaces IN ORDER to troll for dick. She's there for a different reason and those goals clash. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 08:06 PM |
| 9 | Solo travel is a completely different experience for average men and womenI'm proud of the way that women take each other under their wings, and help each other feel safe comfortable and supported even as strangers. I can understand feeling left out in the cold, not having access to that dynamic. Please understand that the root of this dynamic is specifically because women are by default are more vulnerable and this drive to look out for each other is as close to instinct as can be. It's not personal and including someone isn't necessarily an insult or judgement of yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 06:28 PM |
| 10 | The Selectors Trying to Minimize the Privilege of Being the SelectorsI disagree with your instinct there. Women aren't disagreeing in order to control the narrative to feel more special. Women are disagreeing that being the selector feels like a privilege. They point to a lot of reasons why and some are more persuasive than others. But regardless, what happens AFTER selection has so much potential for unpleasantness that selecting just isn't the good time it seems to be from the outside. (Disclaimer: I personally think it's still better to have bad options to vet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 06:12 PM |
| – | There are much more closeted lesbians and bi women than gay menThat's because even incels put homosexuals 'beneath' them closer to women than to fellow men. Women don't socialize that way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Artificial wombs will displace female hierarchyThis sounds equally wonderful for both parents and would have no affect on gender dynamics beyond making everyone happier and more relaxed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 01:52 PM |
| 1 | There are much more closeted lesbians and bi women than gay menAgreed. I would love to feel loved from a woman, I think women can be so beautifully considerate and attentive in a way that is rare to find in men. I would love to feel truly seen and appreciated for the consideration and attentiveness I can give In a way that most men seem to take for granted. If I had a choice I would be Bi | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 01:41 AM |
| – | Online dating isn’t the problem, the apps and their incentive structures areSo any women go on an app, where they can screw a bunch of hot guys with no repercussions. But you think it's the men doing the pumping and dumping? And women are to blame for everything? Have you considered that some women like sex with hot guys? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 09:08 PM |
| – | Online dating isn’t the problem, the apps and their incentive structures areThis is a good take, I don't have any arguments with the points you made. I do think something has been left out though. Part of the environment issue is the drastic imbalance of number of users with men far outweighing women. The inequities of online dating really can't be fixed so long as there's scarcity like that And that has nothing to do with the design of the apps as far as I can tell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Where are all the straight women!?As a woman I feel like I would have very few if any repercussions if I explored sexually with another woman. I don't find other women intimidating, I feel reasonably sure that we would both feel good, there is not a risk of pregnancy, and I feel confident that I could pretty easily find someone who agreed to safety precautions for sexual health. I haven't done it because I have no interest in being in a relationship with a woman, I want to feel romantic with the other person when I have sex whic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Men only need sex to assert themselves over women.It's hard to have a conversation with someone who is being sarcastic Sex is a great thing between people who like and trust each other. It's even better when they see each other as complete whole human beings and appreciate them thoroughly. Sex with somebody that you resent is horrible, masturbation is preferable in that scenario, which it sounds like you are in | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 08:43 PM |
| 1 | There's nothing morally wrong with the af/bb strategy.Yeah that part of this post was painful 😬. Don't take it personally though. There are more "hit the wall" posts about aging women than you could even read through. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 08:12 PM |
| – | Men going their own way is not the answer against feminism.The answer against anyone being cruel and demeaning is to walk away. That goes for this post as well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 08:04 PM |
| 1 | "Liberal feminism" subsidizes extremism, claiming that feminism wants equality is fraudulent, and if you associate all men with violence, you are hypocriticalFeminism is a collection of ideas based on equality. You don't have to take individuals into account at all to engage with the philosophy. If you ARE criticizing the individuals who identify as feminists as a whole you're going to run into the same problem of critizing any large groups individuals as a whole (like we get when any one tries to generalize all men) but THAT is at least equivalent. You cannot discount the ideas just because of the individuals though, or because those individuals cri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 07:14 PM |
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