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2.5 years post separation and I'm getting better. Some days I feel great while others I feel very down and miss the ex like crazy. However the relationship with my son post separation is infinitely better!
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/26 12:46 AM
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Man that's ruthless.
/r/Divorce_Men06/02/26 07:07 AM
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Ah so she's already hit you with a restraining order then. That changes everything then. My ex attempted that but the judge denied it. I wish you all the luck brother. Once they start with the restraining orders and what not things get very dark. At least in my case they did. Try to remember that you aren't alone in this battle and reach out to people even if it is only Reddit.
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/26 01:40 PM
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Unless there's domestic violence or a risk of it I would definitely get back in your house.
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/26 12:31 PM
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Fantastic work! Remember guys we have to take care of ourselves. No one else is going to.
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/26 04:48 PM
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Shit mine wouldn't even help me get health insurance so I could get blood work done yet I give and give to her. Hard pass
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/25 01:41 AM
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Other than the obvious not having my son everyday one of the hardest parts over the last 2yrs has been having to witness the financial, emotional, and physical/mental health rapidly decline of the woman I've loved for past 20yrs . It's truly heartbreaking.
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/25 11:09 AM
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Damn brother that's awful. It's one thing for the kids to eventually warm up to their new step father , which iif the guy is a good dude that's a net positive in my opinion, but to want your children to have his last name is subterranean level of low.
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/25 10:57 AM
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Like others have said she's trying to minimize what she did with him. My ex-wife did the same thing. I legitimately wanted to meet her AP because I wanted to know what kind of person was gonna be around our 8yr old son. That and I sincerely wanted to beat the shit outta him. Fortunately that never happened because it would've made things much worse. What I learned though is that women can be the cruelest most selfish animals on this planet
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/25 09:50 PM
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We all knew my ex was bat shit crazy haha!
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/25 12:27 AM
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Stay strong brother. It sucks but as men we're expected to just shut up and deal with it so we do.
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/25 04:01 AM
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This is something that I struggle with as well. My son is 10 and I'm 47. Lately I've had this terrible feeling that maybe things would have been better if we hadn't had a child because of the struggles that the STBX have put him through. Both his mother and I love him immensely and have this feeling of guilt because we chose to bring him into this world and obviously things aren't working out the way either of us had planned. She's always had this feeling, although not always so overbearing, but…
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/25 10:31 AM
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I'm so grateful for Reddit and this subreddit because posts like this remind me that I am not alone. Keep your head up OP and keep fighting the good fight brother!
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/25 08:51 AM
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Hey OP, have your cousin get in touch with me if he's ever in the N. Florida. I might have some work for him soon haha.
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/25 08:35 AM
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I wouldn't hand over jack shit man. Those are your pictures to do what you please
/r/Divorce_Men04/10/25 10:20 AM
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When I was 26 my fiance shot herself and died in my arms. She was 22yrs old and we were together for 4 years. Now I'm currently going through a divorce after being married to the second love of my life for 10yrs. The death was earth shattering and traumatic but nonnegotiable while the divorce was/is a slow grinding pain that I constantly have to resist the urge to invent new tactics to get her back after she left me for a boy half her age. Honestly the loss of my fiance was easier.
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/25 10:18 PM
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Reading posts such as this serves as a reminder to all of us men that women are wired differently than men. They can turn on you in a New York minute and not feel any remorse at all. I've apologized to my STBXW sincerely at least a hundred times (lying about my drug addiction yet always faithful) and not a single solitary time has she apologized for cheating on me with a 22yr old boy half her age. It's F'ng disgusting man.
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/25 03:54 PM
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That would be a solid negative for me. As much as I miss my wife and would love to go back to a 2 income household there's absolutely no way in hell I'd let that happen. In your case OP I'd be willing to bet she's already seeing someone else and just wants you for financial support. Sorry for being so blunt but I go through this every day with my ex. Mine wants nothing to do with me unless she needs something.
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/25 03:47 PM
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That's it. I gotta go take a looksy for myself haha.
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/25 01:07 AM
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"Bus over a milk carton." hahaha......I fucking love it.
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/25 11:47 PM
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Holy shit your story is much like mine! Wife left me 2yrs ago and said there was no one else. I always knew better and it turned out to be a 22yr old coworker. She's 44 and lost her very nice paid for car, many many pounds unintentionally and her health is not good at all. Of course the relationship with the boy didn't last because why would it? We have a 10 year old son together and it breaks my heart to see her like this but what can I do? Nothing.
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/25 05:22 PM
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When I was 26yr old my fiance, she was 22yr, committed suicide in front of me. shot herself with my pistol. The very pistol I bought to protect us. There were very little warning signs if any. Within a 24hr span we went from having a normal seemingly happy day to me literally holding her head together while the ambulance came all because I found a letter in her glove box from an old classmate she may or may not have been cheating on me with. He was in jail at the time and I was in delayed entry …
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/25 12:11 PM
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Someone please help me. What does AP mean?
/r/Divorce_Men07/01/24 08:22 PM
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