ChippyChalmers Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	After the dust has settled, men (self)report happiness at a higher rate than women These comments give me hope. I'm 9 months out from separation, 36, two very young kids. Feels like something is forever broken inside me, but you give me hope that I must persevere. I want to enjoy my solitude and not long for a companion all the time. Is that what living our best life will look like? I will inevitably date again because I enjoy women but that's an afterthought right now	/r/Divorce_Men	04/08/26 11:36 PM
1	After the dust has settled, men (self)report happiness at a higher rate than women I'm 9 months post separation... 2 very young kids. What part is utopia? My grieving brain can't see it.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/08/26 11:25 PM
1	Wife threatens divorce if I don’t agree to a second child. Agreeing might actually be cheaper than alimony. What would you do? Brilliant?	/r/Divorce_Men	04/08/26 11:04 PM
2	After the dust has settled, men (self)report happiness at a higher rate than women Thank you brother. I have 50/50 with the kids so half my week (life) free... sometimes I feel old (no offense, I'm the oldest I've ever been). It's just perspective. The grief clouds my judgement. Day by day I suppose	/r/Divorce_Men	04/08/26 12:46 AM
1	After the dust has settled, men (self)report happiness at a higher rate than women Super happy for you. It's encouraging. I'm 36 and about 9 months post separation with 2 very young kids. I feel sometimes that I'll be seen as having baggage - or that if I meet someone new (with or without kids), that it'll never feel like a "real" family. I'm assuming that's mostly grief talking ... you seem happy	/r/Divorce_Men	03/08/26 05:42 PM
1	How do you get over loosing half your kids life’s? How long out from separation are you? I'm about 7.5 months and am SLOWLY turning a corner. No shame in hurting buddy. Keep going	/r/Divorce_Men	22/06/26 08:59 PM
1	How do you get over loosing half your kids life’s? How are you doing these days? I'm 7 months out.. struggling	/r/Divorce_Men	07/06/26 12:03 PM
1	She filed How are you doing these days?	/r/Divorce_Men	11/05/26 04:30 PM
1	I need some encouragement. My wife is divorcing me and I’m sad and mad and feeling so many emotions. I also have little kids. I'm on the fence about joining her course ($1,500 USD). Do you recommend it? I'm 6 months post separation, 2 very young kids. Thanks man	/r/Divorce_Men	11/05/26 04:08 PM
2	I need some encouragement. My wife is divorcing me and I’m sad and mad and feeling so many emotions. I also have little kids. How are you doing these days?	/r/Divorce_Men	11/05/26 04:05 PM
1	I need some encouragement. My wife is divorcing me and I’m sad and mad and feeling so many emotions. I also have little kids. How are you doing these days?	/r/Divorce_Men	11/05/26 04:05 PM
1	Positive 50/50 Stories You really made me feel better with the last bit. I'm only 6 months out from separation and worried I'll always dread being alone at the house when my kids aren't with me. Did time just do its thing for you? Do you just tell yourself your daughter will be back soon? I have 2 little girls so perhaps them having each other will make their transitions easier too. Coping here... thanks for anything	/r/Divorce_Men	09/05/26 11:21 PM
1	Positive 50/50 Stories That provides me some comfort. I'm 36 and just feel like with such young kids that women will see them as baggage. But, in time, perhaps that'll change. Or someone may want more kids - which I'm open to as well. Thanks again	/r/Divorce_Men	03/05/26 04:22 PM
1	Positive 50/50 Stories Thanks for the quick reply. Does your girlfriend mind that you have kids. Hesitant at all? I have a 9 month old and 3 year old :\	/r/Divorce_Men	03/05/26 04:17 PM
1	Positive 50/50 Stories How are you managing these days, on your alone nights? I'm about 6 months post separation and am trying to fortify my mind	/r/Divorce_Men	03/05/26 04:07 PM
1	Positive 50/50 Stories How are you doing these days? I dread going 5 days without seeing my kids. Looking for some reassurance. Thank you	/r/Divorce_Men	03/05/26 04:05 PM
1	Positive 50/50 Stories How are you doing these days? Still feel good about it? I'm 6 months post separation; 2 very young kids (9mo and 3yo)	/r/Divorce_Men	03/05/26 04:04 PM
1	Dealing with intense sadness, regret, and self doubt post separation, long post How are you feeling? My spouse left 6 weeks ago with my 2 young daughters	/r/Divorce_Men	23/12/25 01:44 PM
1	Dealing with intense sadness, regret, and self doubt post separation, long post How are you doing? My spouse left 6 weeks ago with my 2 young daughters. Together 6 years. I feel so empty man	/r/Divorce_Men	23/12/25 01:43 PM