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Thinking too hard! Need go collect berries
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 01:27 AM
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Ooga booga, Me go invent fire now.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 12:36 AM
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The book you cited glorifies the role of the hunter gatherer and exactly coincides with my argument, monogamy is not a natural inclination, a natural inclination is to that of the animal. Men are not animals by sheer virtue of the fact that we have transcended natural inclinations through civilization. I am not seeing things through a Western lens. Monogamy/marriage are not aspects of Christian, Western European values- they are aspects of any civilization to have ever raised men strong enough t…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 12:33 AM
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I'm not arguing it is men that aren't monogamous, the blame almost certainly lies with women and hypergamy. What I am saying is that for the sake of those among us who want to become fathers (which I'm sure is a non-0% of RP men), we cannot reject/let die the institutions that created strong family units in the past. In order for those of us who would like to become fathers (again not an imperative, many men don't want children and in that case marriage is a waste of time), we will need strong m…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 12:11 AM
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I'm not going to beleaguer the point anymore. EVERY single psychological survey will indicate stable 2 parent household > Single mother or any alternative for that matter. Children need fathers, a world without monogamous marriage means a world without fathers because no man will settle for a marriage where he gets the shitty end of the stick (no-fault divorce, having to marry a whore, zero respect for being a provider, etc.) Despite this women will continue to have children as is their biologic…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 12:01 AM
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He addresses this often I believe. The issue at heart here is that monogamy is a societal aspiration/foundation at the heart of almost any meaningful civilization. It goes against the grain of our self interested/animalistic intentions (the definition of cuckhold comes from the species of bird that fathers a child that isn't even his), but we aspire to it for the importance of family, raising successful well-adjusted children, etc. To tear down monogamy is to tear down very basic societal framew…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 10:00 PM
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Bingo. The minute she stops respecting you is the minute she stops trying. Pulling away + dread game might get her to come into line but in all reality you're better off chasing new tail. If you aren't feeling it you're just gonna loathe your relationship
/r/askTRP30/06/17 06:28 PM
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For real my dude. I'm 20 and your point that resonated the most with me was don't chase women. Once you start getting with chicks you notice which girls put out signs and they'll start to flock to you. Its so much more satisfying when you get with a woman who was after you from the onset when you used to be in a place wondering why you were getting rejected. When you're not getting any it's hard to understand the advice older dudes give you about focusing on your goal and being the best man you …
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 03:21 AM
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You are 100% right about female humor. Every time a woman I'm around a woman trying to be funny to her peers it's usually rather vulgar. It's interesting you make that point about gender differences with people who compete with us. Usually when I'm in that scenario it instills me with that anger/drive/discipline to outperform others and be the best I can be- motivation to rise to the occasion. With women I usually see jealousy/competition result in them feeling crestfallen/unusually contemptuous…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 05:23 PM
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I'm not sure I understand what you mean about failed shittesting. Could you please explain?
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 05:24 PM
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I totally feel you, man. I obviously can't speak to having gone through a divorce, but from talking to older friends of mine who have, I know it sucks dick and makes you loathe the idea of sticking around with any woman. I think it was a pretty good idea to check out another chick over your oneitis to put the whole thing in context- I might even do this myself this summer to see if my plate is worth picking up again when school starts up in the fall. Sounds like you got a good head on your shoul…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 05:49 PM
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I appreciate the thoughtful reply man. I heard that from someone else somewhere that these feelings are chemically induced to promote bonding, it's only natural but I can't let it consume me. I'm reading that guy's blog post right now and it's good stuff. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 08:46 PM
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I don't know man I'm just trying to have a healthy grip over my emotions.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 03:19 PM
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It's not necessarily that, perhaps I've worded it wrong. I take out and have sex with plates because I have an interest in them and hope things pan out but am ready to bounce if not. It's just ever since the RP, every time I've dated a girl I would slowly lose interest overtime/after sex. It's not a numbers thing or a hating women thing, it's just I sorta came to expect that after sex I would instinctively pull away to some degree.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 02:55 PM
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Not oneitis in the meaning that gets tossed around in this community. It's not that I put this girl on a pedestal, or perceive her to be a "good girl" it's just that I am unusually infatuated with her and didn't know why.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 06:22 AM
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100% for sure, I read your other replies but decided to respond to you here. "She probably doesn't think of you"- tough but fair. I gotta ground myself in myself and what I have going on in my life. You're right about friendship, that's probably why I was so taken with her. I've been wracked with Finals for my Uni so I've been isolating myself from my friends to do school- fooling around with plates was just a way to blow off steam during free time.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 05:38 AM
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That's a good point. I am going to take the advice everyone here is giving me and keep her at an arms length and pursue other prospects if it's not looking good
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 04:46 AM
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You're right, I'm going to pull away and pursue other women
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 04:38 AM
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You're 100% right and I appreciate your quick reply. This chick is pretty chill and at the very least I could see us being close FWB kinda situation. I never text other than setting up logistics and the next time we're meeting is to study for a final in a class we're in (not exactly sexual but it's the last time I'll get to see her before my Uni lets out for Summer). I might have shown a few cracks but I think it's because I started to lose myself a little here. A summer apart from her with no t…
/r/askTRP03/05/17 04:11 AM
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I dropped my other plate to see this girl. I definitely think this fit I've worked myself into stems from the fact that the sex I had with her was the best I've had with a girl. She's also the hottest girl I've bedded. Good news is summer is approaching (I'm in college) and I'll probably distance myself from her because I'm don't believe in texting chicks.
/r/askTRP03/05/17 04:00 AM
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You're right man. It's all coming from a place of weakness when I can take the reigns and choose not to get too caught up in just one girl. For the sake of answering your context questions: my LTR was a year ago, and I had two plates going on including this girl.
/r/askTRP03/05/17 03:56 AM
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To be honest that answer didn't even really occur to me. Someone else said the same thing in this thread. I'll just emotionally divest from her and focus on other things or else I'll just be digging myself deeper into a bad situation. Thanks for the advice
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 03:38 AM
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You're right I have to emotionally divest from this girl in order to be pursuing women from a healthy abundance mindset and avoid emphasizing one girl too much.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 03:36 AM
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I wouldn't call it love so much as infatuation I think. I just need to get my mind off her and stay distracted. I have other plates I can switch to also if things don't pan out.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 03:33 AM
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Look man I came here for honest advice about how to stay grounded in the face of feelings I know objectively are irrational and how I can be a better man for it.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 03:23 AM
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Fuck now that I hear it from another person I totally agree. I just don't know where to go from here in a RP mindset. It's like I have my problem identified before me, I can recognize the symptoms, etc. but have no real recourse to fight it. I objectively know she's not the only girl in the world, that AWALT/she's not a "good girl", and that I can and will find other babes. It still doesn't fully stop these feelings.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 03:16 AM
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oh shit thanks man. I'll be sure to read it.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 04:31 AM
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Don't mean to beleaguer the point but I want to fully understand. Submissive in what regard, as in to demands?
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 04:21 AM
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QS about daddy issues, I feel like that's something everyone talks about but isn't really explained well. What exactly does daddy issues mean for dating other than having had a shitty dad? How does it show up in their behavior. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 03:28 AM
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That's a good point. Women love men they can respect and so long as I continue down a path towards my career and self-improvement I should become a respectable man. What do you mean by coming off as a creepy old guy? Like constantly bringing up your age or something?
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 02:16 AM
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You're right, it's just I've never met a family with an age dynamic like that- so I don't know what kinda chick you can land for that strategy. Of course the whole conversation is kinda moot anyway at this age, I'll probably settle down when I'm inclined to in my mid 30s.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 09:39 PM
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It's crazy right? I'm pre-law and I'm studying for my law school entrance exams. I was on a date with a younger girl who also wanted to be a lawyer and thought I was some huge accomplished guy. A year or so ago women wouldn't bat an eye at me. God do I love getting older.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 09:35 PM
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And still be able to have kids as a 40 y/o newlywed? is that out of the ordinary? I'm not trying to settle down early in my life but I know I wanna be a dad at some point.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 09:32 PM
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Huh that's pretty deep, thanks for the insight. I appreciate the perspective from someone on the other side of the SMV curve.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 09:03 PM
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Is it possible to land women sub 25 for LTR when you're approaching 30? I'm curious only because I'm 20 and none of my plates have been younger than me by at most a year (for obvious reasons). If younger chicks are still down to date older men then idk why any guy would go for a woman approximate to his age. Not only are younger chicks hotter, but I've noticed that they pedestalize you and think you're the coolest person they've met. I've never understood why women your age make you jump through…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 07:54 PM
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Will the videos be posted online for free at a later date for those who can't attend?
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 01:09 AM
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You're right man, I'm going to remember that one. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 04:39 PM
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My question here is kindof a long one but I'll make I'll try to summarize my vent here: how do I stop feeling the anger from being burned by my pre-redpill LTR? Context for my story is on an asktrp thread I posted a minute ago (if you want context you can click it, I don't want to put a wall of text here if it's unnecessary).
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 09:30 PM
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Perhaps my original post was unclear. I'm kinda making a question about my social situation and what I ought to do going forward. I have hooked up with chicks and I usually make good impressions when I have to be social. That said, I usually don't actively seek out that kind of situation, I just let it come to me. Being a dad is just one part of my life goal. My ultimate life goal is to make a shit ton of cash and buy a lot of toys. I don't experience oneitis anymore, so it's not like I'm gonna …
/r/askTRP22/02/17 02:51 PM
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Perhaps my original post doesn't do justice to my situation. I'm not antisocial or have any difficulty socializing with people. I've hooked up with a few chicks and when I'm put into social situations I perform well (making friends and making good impressions). What I meant to say was that I don't put pressure on seeking out these relations. Joining a frat was something I did because I thought it would give me automatic social circles, which it did for a while before not being worth it. I see my…
/r/askTRP22/02/17 02:44 PM
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I myself grew up poor and I can agree and resonate with this post. However as someone in college, I believe that this issue cuts both ways. I definitely have gone through times where I hated and resented people who had life with ease, which is kinda like how a lot of guys (myself included) go through a phase of resenting women for their sexual strategy. It's misplaced anger and I think that as long as you have discipline in life and are secure in your direction, you don't have to go worrying abo…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 05:03 PM
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Question, how old are you and at what point did you get to understand this? I'm 19 and have been with one girl (my ex for two years). I think I'm still in the anger phase because I see the women around me as sluts and I feel depressed that I'm not really getting much action. Any advice to a college sophomore in this position? I'm planning on rushing this sem, so hopefully that will help with access to puss and being around/learning from DT men
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 08:04 PM
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You're 100% right, I am too kind. I guess I have to internalize the idea that "if power isn't used by you, it will be used against you"
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 03:24 PM
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Lesson fucking learned, pussy isn't worth putting life on hold
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 05:31 AM
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Hey Man First, thank you for your service and I really appreciate your reply. My dad walked out when I was a boy, so I really appreciate the insight older redditors can give. I'm definitely not going to be open to a relationship until I'm in my 30's, that's some solid advice there. I'm planning on rushing a fraternity this semester so hopefully that will help with access to puss. Grades wise I've been able to do well (I'm a sophomore) and I know that I can succeed so long as I try. I have a ques…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 05:27 AM
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The weird thing is whenever I do this it makes me hate them more than anything else. like they're not even worth my time, but idk. Maybe it's something along the lines of "we hate things we can't have"
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 05:15 AM
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I wasted my freshman year of college on a long distance relationship, waste of fucking time.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 05:06 AM
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Solid points I will keep those in my notes.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 02:52 AM
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That last part is such a really important point to remember. I'm only 19 and recently broke up with my highschool->college LTR of two years, so I'm new to female attention. It's hard as fuck to fight the Blue pill/Oneitis shit whenever girls give me attention, especially now since I've gotten my shit together appearance wise (game, clothes, fittness, etc.) Any tips for a guy my age to fully get out of Blue pill thought? My buddies tell me that once I start getting laid semi-regularly and can spi…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 02:47 AM
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That's a good point. As long as I don't give up the fight (self-improvement and pursuing women) and avoid LTR's I suppose recognizing the shit women pull will become second nature. It's tough because before TRP I never fully understood the kind of mental gymnastics you have to perform in order to deal with women.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 02:31 AM
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Can you give an example of the shittests she would give in this situation. I've read all the stuff on the sidebar and I'm still trying to improve my understanding of shittests. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 12:47 AM
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Good point, I guess I'll try to keep in mind that saying they throw around on Chateau Heartiste "everything she says is cute" and just don't take them seriously. The smirk totally could help. I appreciate it my man.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 11:05 PM
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I've been having trouble with the whole teasing thing, I was wondering if you guys could give me some tips. Before you mention it, yes I have read the relevant posts on the sidebar. I've been doing a good job of incorporating "Agree and Amplify" into all the questions/shittests women throw me by not taking them seriously. The results are remarkable and when they come on the attack accusing/shaming me I've managed to hold my ground. The only part I haven't mastered is the offensive tease. I feel …
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 06:12 AM
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I have, but I wanted to make sure that what I have been learning is the key tenants to game. I appreciate the reply
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 05:28 AM
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Not related to the thread, but I'm new to TRP. Just needed some advice about taking a TRP attitude towards women before next college semester starts. TRP books like Rational Male and stuff always talk about having game and practicing game but don't really go into how to adopt or practice it. Is game basically like taking an aloof/inattentive attitude towards women and sprinkling in some teasing when you choose to interact with them? Any tips to someone who recently got into TRP? Thanks in advanc…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 06:22 PM
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That's a good point, thanks lad
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 09:56 PM
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Thanks for the advice. I totally hear you on the alcohol aspect, lots of my buddies have flown off the handle due to it. I'm not much of a drinker beyond what's socially acceptable/buzzed (2-3 beers usually). I'm really mostly doing it for the social benefits that come from expanding a social circle with male friends (happiness, confidence, access to pussy, etc.)
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 02:48 PM
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It's funny you say that, because my dad wasn't really involved in my life, so this whole becoming a man thing has been sorta on my own. That's part of the reason why I'm so grateful for this sub. I totally hear you on working hard in school, I'm about 1/3 the way through college and I'm getting great grades for grad school and I have clear ideas of where I'd like to see myself get to.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 07:39 PM
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Any advice to a 19 y/o college student who's struggling with oneitis/abundance mentality/lack of sex life? My ltr of two years from senior year to college ended last year and I'm trying to adopt rp approaches to women/sex in general. Next semester I'm going to rush a fraternity at my school which will hopefully help with me learning and practicing game and focusing on bonding with male friends. Any tips to someone in the shitty side of the smp?
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 06:15 PM
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