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ChngChek/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/16 12:01 AM
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Aye! She's figuratively the serpent in Eden.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/17 07:18 AM
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Being butthurt is truly a race to the bottom...
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/17 08:16 PM
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It's an observation of averages. TRP crew appears younger, has more MGTOW, more PUA, has lots of advice that seems to be geared towards these situations. Ive seen a lot of posts and field reports demonstrating the nature of women, and subsequent anger. That's all fine, these are people who are learning, growing. If you are younger and unplugging, still at college etc, there's a lot to be pissed off at. I think I was a typical 'angry young man', and that was while still blue... MRP evidently has …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/17 11:29 PM
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If you want to read a relevant classic, check out Walden by Henry David Thoreau if you haven't already. 1850s masculine minimalist.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/17 11:18 PM
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Yeah I see a lot of anger at TRP, here there's necessarily more a focus on building then leading.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/17 10:43 PM
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That's life, man. Your woman needs both tingles and comfort in a LTR. The notion of being an oak gets discussed on here, search it. MRP has the same tenets as TRP but it recognizes that 100% alpha won't quite work for a healthy LTR. If you've done the ground work of being attractive and building a solid frame then with practice you will eventually learn how to balance the alpha qualities a woman is attracted to and the comfort that is needed for a LTR to survive and thrive.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/17 10:02 PM
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I'm a long time reader and applicator of MRP but have hardly posted. I have made huge strides ahead over the last year. It's time to log an OYS because reading others' has helped me. Learning My wife is heavily pregnant and this is new territory for me. My frame is strong and the sporadic hormonally influenced barbs bounce off me fine. She is astonishingly quick to turn if I hesitate with my leadership for longer than a few seconds. My head is cool about this and I actually like the challenge to…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/16 10:31 AM
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Not quite a wasted year. He's better than when he started, but more importantly it's all learning. About exercise, himself, discipline, pushing limits. The next year will be fucking huge for OP.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/16 09:52 PM
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I also default to body weight progressions when I can't get into a gym, and I don't know man, you never really conquer the progressions. Sure, push-ups are easy. But sets of elevated normal/diamond/reaching out push-ups, then hand stand push-ups with your feet up the wall should still set your shoulders on fire. And the L sit... I'm sure you know there are stacks of exercises that all progress off into the sunset. Should help stop some gains melting away so fast, although I agree it's hard to sm…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/16 11:32 PM
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Ok so my wife is submissive, but that's because I work at it, I own my shit and she's along for the journey. My wife and I are pretty frantic busy, often at opposite ends of the day but you need to game when possible. Even if you don't feel like it. Because then when you do feel like it, you've done the groundwork and she's more receptive. If she's there chopping vegetables or something, I'll sidle up and put my arms around her. Then breathe on her neck, or lick and laugh, or whisper something, …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/16 05:30 AM
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Own your shit Perfect summary
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/16 10:55 PM
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Some sage advice here for you already. Just an observation: her comment about how it was strange you were ok with the rejection, then that she didn't know how to handle it and it's probably a good thing.... well that was just another shit test. You tried to show a bit of frame, and she was immediately knocking on it. Expect more of this.
/r/askMRP15/08/16 09:23 AM
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This is an excellent answer with some perspective, op. I would just add that to really lead your family unit you should have a financial vision too. Maybe you already do. But your wife can bring a lot of value (in several ways) if she is on board with your plan.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/16 10:02 PM
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Interested in Christian RP writing? Look up the blog of Dalrock. You finish by saying your wife is the boss. You are still so close to the starting line in a race that has no end. Don't sprint, but finish NMMNG ASAP.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/16 03:30 PM
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When you talk to your wife about how you're going to improve yourself, it's like showing your hand of cards at a poker game before betting. You lose edge, mystery and power.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/16 01:06 PM
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Yeah, very hard to look ahead at your own 'after' life, I remember this well. Dwelling doesn't help a great deal. I couldn't really imagine the future much at all, the caring job was so consuming. But it's good to know there are many more chapters ahead for you... I think it's ok to lower your standards or expectations of yourself as you strive towards what it is you have to do. It could be lowering your standard of hygiene, or not beating yourself up for taking time out etc. For the record, onc…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/16 03:42 AM
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Well done on making it this far! My wife was eaten by cancer, we were both around 30 when she died, and I lead her through all the things you are going through. I was not unplugged through this but like you was being the man, doing what needed to be done at the time. It was a 2 year long emotional shit-storm looking after her. What I really want to say is that you can't really know it now, but you are going to be the toughest mofo you know on the other side after she dies. Yes, it'll happen and …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/16 11:23 PM
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A few years ago I never imagined I might give this a go. But I did exactly this move a couple of weeks ago after building up to it in steps of appropriate 'roughness', interspersed with comfort moves. The look she gave me during and after a soft choke was one I'd never seen. A mind-blown mix of lust and submission. It's in the repertoire now and I couldn't recommend it enough if you're ready and you use your brain in its application. And kudos to Blue pill prof for first planting the idea with a…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/16 05:44 AM
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A lot has been said, much of it very useful to you. But I have to add, why does she know specifically about the 10 second kiss?? I'm hoping she was conniving and suspicious then counted to work it out or something. If you told her about it, you completely undermined it's very purpose. And it's no longer useful to you. Don't be a dolt and talk about anything that's going to improve your situation, just frigging do it. Please.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/16 10:46 PM
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The first simple action of tucking in the shirt made me smile. Fantastic write up, thanks for the detail.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/16 08:38 AM
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Why would you waste so much mental energy on something you can't do anything about? She got older, get over it and deal with what's in front of you. Pining for the old her is bullshit and I think you know that.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/16 01:12 PM
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Excellent post. whatever everybody does Consider great men whose legacy have stood the test of time. Say, Da Vinci. Sure, he was presumed homosexual. He didn't spend time gaming women, or whinging about doing laundry. But he kicked ass in so many fields. He became a complete polymath. Died in the 1500s and he's still talked about and admired today. Incredible. Why do you know the name Archimedes? Igor Stravinsky or Usain Bolt? These men had a mission. Yes, they had/have talent. But they also had…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/16 05:56 AM
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First time around (BP) I managed to set a $30 limit on birthday/Christmas gifts following explanations and discussions with the wife. Second time around (RP) I told my wife that obligatory gifts are a waste of money and time and you won't get anything just because it's a certain day. She told me she felt the same, we haven't looked back. Edit: we're saving for a house Please read that bit again
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/16 11:38 PM
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Thank you. And props. Other people's timeframes for dealing with grief are exactly that: other people's. And hauling yourself out of the pit is far from being a linear trajectory. But I have to say after finding my way forward by looking after myself, dealing with last wishes, estate matters etc, it was at around the 1 year mark that I hit a stride. Also helped along by a couple of solo trips abroad to kick around in a strange city.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/16 05:00 AM
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