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exactly. I have a general rule, If the jewelry I can afford for myself on a daily basis is too expensive for someone to spend on a goddamn engagement ring than that person either has no ambitions in life in which case : hell no. or is just being cheap in which case: hell no. Being single and happy is a blessing yall, the right one can come or not Idc for all its worth, living my life the way I want, everyone who disagrees can disagree out of my sight
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 01:57 PM
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Honestly, its sad, that we even have to discuss this. A dinner date is common decency, doesnt have to be the fanciest high end restaurant but a nice place to have food and talk with a good ambience. Ignore cheapskates yall.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:56 PM
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Exactly, nice gestures should not have a hidden agenda, thats what makes them nice. He is just childish and depraved
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 05:11 PM
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My coworker, calling me a "gold digger" for saying she deserves to date someone succesful (she is a smart , good looking really cute software developer with interesting hobbies) her bf is twice her age and earns less and lives off her rent and food money...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 04:54 PM
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Dont let it get to you. We need to maintain a positive mindset, encouraging more females to pursue higher positions and have each others back. The world is beautiful, humans are difficult. I read an article recently about the basic emotional and existential needs of a person. The desire to be accepted, to be seen, to be acknowledged and to be loved. If everyone had that, we would not be facing the hardships we are rn, any greedy or malicious act comes from a persons deep feeling of neglect or di…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 10:59 AM
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Gurl. Queen. For the love and sake of yourself, end it. Open your eyes Queen. "He questions if he is over her?" Only ask yourself this: Are you willing to be anything else than someones first priority and choice? I feel you, I really do thats why, rip the band aid off, end it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:52 PM
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Own it Queen! Every person should learn to focus on themselves, it doesnt make sense to date when you cant even survive on your own, dont see your experience as wasted time, that experience was necessary so you could get to this exact point and decide to take things into your own hand. Learning from past mistakes is whats important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 02:36 PM
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U werent harsh, you have your standards your friends have their own ones, no one can tell you what to tolerate and what not when it comes to dating. Keep the standards high Queen, you're not looking for a fun-activity-guy, so let him pass and dont think back ♡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 11:52 AM
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And here ladies and gentleman you see the bar, being non existant. I honestly believe some humans should pass a basic psychology test before they're allowed to date..would weed out a shitload of people WeAllKnowItsTrue
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 11:16 AM
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Honestly, ask the important questions first. "What are you looking for?", if the answer isnt an immediate "a person I can spend my future with/ xyz" a seriously answered thoughtful plan of their future with a partner, get out ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 05:53 AM
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When I pointed out to my coworker dating a more generous man she called me a gold digger, seemse like having standards and expecting your partner to be caring is gold digging for some people. Its rlly hard to explain to others, I love giving gifts and making people I adore happy, so dear lord, why cant I expect the same? Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:59 PM
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Oh darling let him try, let him get close enough to burn his skin off ; ) Any smart man knows not to fuck with a confident, self aware woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:51 PM
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Guurl Bride and Prejudice was lit, thoroughly enjoyed the comedy ♡ Used to think bridget jones was quite funny but it always left me with a bad taste, honestly after watching the second movie and realizing that good for nothing lawyer is being portrayed as bridgets best option, oh HELL NOO He aint worth shit, a respectable man would not ignore your needs, ignore you when things get tough and be"unsure" of his feelings, oh boy, we need a giant ass sticker with "BEING TRULY UNSURE ABOUT YOUR PARTN…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 10:36 AM
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Feel you there Queen, I initially treat all fellow females with support until Im proven theyre toxic/women haters, but to assure you, there are a lot of females like us out there, looking out for each other against male bullshit, you just gotta search ♡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 08:50 AM
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Saw an article on the guardian the other day "praising the various ways you can make money with only-fans, maybe with eating in front of the camera or fulfilling someones weird sexual fetish", seriously they gave those two examples as well, I wish I made this shit up, Im at a loss of words, how about not selling your dignity for strangers for the equivalent of a starbucks meal?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 10:38 PM
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♡ perfect magic trick ♡ Dont even bother replying to that manipulating lowlife Queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 09:05 AM
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A piece of advice that helped me: Realize your worth, if you truly believe in yourself no matter what and know you're a blessing, you wont care if a victoria secret model walks by every minute in a bikini, because you know how special and freaking amazing you are and if your boyfriend cant see it and has the need to look after other girls- he is done for. Thank you next. You dont compete wirh any women, you are unique and special and just need to own it Queen ♡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 06:52 AM
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Agree with you totally, ofc the power balance in the relationship should be equal, nowadays most guys are way too passive tho, honestly I feel like its better not to date in our current situation, men are becoming lazy, passive and delusional and dont put any effort in their relationships, but expect the woman to cater to their needs regardless, and label it as "equality", I dont like this progression ,also would rather eat concrete than proposing to a man..my granny would fly to europe and smac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 10:16 AM
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This is so wholesome ♡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 06:56 PM
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Giirls, watch "search www", empowering kdrama with 3 independant women , revolves around their work life in mamaging positiond, Queen energy ♡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 06:45 PM
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Thanks for your post♡ I wish we could reach out to more females and just tell them to accept themselves as they are and always prioritizing themselves first. My mother taught me as a child how important it is for all women to be financially independant and to cut people off who make fun off your dreams, I see a lot of females who still make it their lifes purpose to serve a man, its saddening but it should give us all the strength to be role models those girls can look up to, I want to become so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 05:12 AM
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OMG YES I was actually rooting for the prince, whose curse she lifted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 07:27 AM
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Isnt it sad, how still soo many low value guys believe marriage would "tie them down and drain them", not if you work on yourself..have standards and find the right person... Anyone upvoting that cake in the original post I saw, hasnt understood the pure message and beautiful simplicity in marriage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:43 AM
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Comment as Chobyo .public-DraftStyleDefault-block[data-offset-key="76fd45_initial-0-0"]::after { bottom: 0; color: var(--newCommunityTheme-actionIcon); content: 'What are your thoughts?'; cursor: text; left: 0; position: absolute; top: 0; } That is so true, sometimes I dive in to give some thoughtful advice in the hope, to reach the people through their delusional self manipulative state, because we´ve all been there, we all didnt know our worth as a person, what we wanted and HOW TO GET IT. But…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 10:49 AM
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I would have replied "Thank you, next". Make sure to delete and block everywhere Queen so his waste of oxygen ass cant get in touch with you ♡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 06:55 PM
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I like the mindfulness, also it shows he is generous at heart and cherishes having the same memories more than some coins ; )
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 09:49 PM
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I one replied to a couple of girls who posted that they were looking for fellow gaming buddies never got an answer from most weirdly and the two who added me on discord didnt talk?? Why initiate contact if u are being super passive, I dont mind carrying a conversation, unless theres no input = nothing to carry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 02:43 PM
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That sub is a pool of delusional blindsided people who deep down know exactly whats going on but want to keep the lie theyre living going or really disturbed people who have lost all connection to common sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 02:27 PM
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Seriously call the police and call over some male relatives if u have beforehand, dont endure this shit a second longer Queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 03:56 PM
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Thank you, next. Block him Queen ♡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 08:24 AM
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Pride and prejudice ♡ a movie one cant watch enough
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 11:13 PM
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Called out a former friend on his porn consumption, he went into a cicle of self explanation and accusations to change the topic, I ended the conversation quickly but part of me is still glad I brought it up, even if he dismisses it, somewhere in his mind it will linger and sooner or later it will come around again. Its always better to speak up if the consequences arent harmful ofc, to call people out on their bullshit. Ps.his excuse was that pornography itself has been around for long, yes, no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 01:51 PM
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Its one of those roses that last like forever isnt it? Feel happy for you ♡ you deserve it queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 10:29 PM
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♡ Im glad to hear that you freed yourself from him ♡ focus on yourself, heal and improve, be your own source of happiness and light and only allow someone into your life who makes you feel appreciated, its always a mutual taking and giving, also most guys nowadays are LVM, lets be real, they want a low maintanance gf, dont stick up with that, either someone meets you eye to eye at your lvl or he can gently fuck off, everyone deserves the best nothing less
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 09:23 AM
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Run.Block, delete and run. No one who is committed to you would have a dating app on his phone. He disrespects you. Queen leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 09:16 AM
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Felt this so hard, my female friends still insist to split all bills when going out with their bfs because being courted makes them feel like theyre "using the guy for his money", I understand where they're coming from, being brainwashed by modern day feminism had me believe the same thing for a while but even then it felt odd, I paid for the date or we split and it left me with a hollow feeling, am I not worth a dinner? And seeing my older brother who always pays 90% of the time when taking his…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 01:50 PM
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im currently a web developer - trainee, would love to help yall out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 04:55 PM
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You already know what to do Queen, otherwise you wouldnt be posting this, break up. It will be tough for a while but a lot more freeing in a long run, worst case? no boyfriend, so be it , be happy on your own. Best case? you will come upon someone who cherishes you and doesnt need to be spoonfed every wish because he can read between the lines like any normal human being. The more time you waste on him the less time you have for yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 05:12 PM
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THIS. I think males just dont want to put the effort in, because being kind, cherishing someone and acting towards their needs takes time and energy which sadly most are not ready to give, all girls I know give this FREELY to most people, so why is it so hard for 90% of men to be caring? If we do it on a daily basis there´s really no excuse left for them. Reminder: Never, ever, ever, lower your standards, go back to an ex, settle for anyone below what you expect from a partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 09:43 AM
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10 Bucks on "I forgot my wallet, you got it right?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 06:53 PM
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Used to have almost male friends only FOR YEARS, big surprise..they ALL crushed on me sooner or later, most tried to push the boundaries, some were decent enough to be lowkey about it, what I learned tho: do not replace your girl friends with male ones, they always have a hidden agenda or it makes u forget how to be yourself anymore because u take over male attributes and move into the "ugh other girls are so much drama"-zone, which is 1000% bullcrap. I removed all the male contacts or basically…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 07:23 AM
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Its accurate af, and basically breaks down to manners, I don't treat people who I dont consider attractice worse, Its human decency to treat everyone, with mutual respect and politeness (obv not talking about people who do you wrong). And tells you a lot about the person if he cant do that leave Ladies, bag your packs, your future you will thank you. Always pick being happily single over someone who isnt worth your time, he will not only waste your time, he might cause traumas/emotional damage t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 08:12 AM
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If raising your standards, being happy with yourself and realising that every person should live an independant healthy life and support each other means im in a cult, uff than im more than happy to think that way ; )
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 08:38 PM
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A family member of mine molested his kids, they were 8-9 when it happened, mind you it came out 22 years later, because they couldnt keep it in anymore after their parents got a divorce. I can understand why a lil kid hesitates to go against a parental figure buut...now comes the disgusting part, apparently the sister of the pedo uncle KNEW ABOUT HIS TENDENCY TO GET TOO CLOSE TO KIDS, and didnt say a single word to my aunt about it...like wtf. God forbid but if my brother turned out to be a pedo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 08:43 AM
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Why men love bitches -Sherry Argov. Although its a book about dating principles, along the lines it tells you how to level up, and how to be the best version of yourself (Not depending on a partner, holding your own, only accepting males who actually add value and happiness to your life so on) High recommendation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 09:22 AM
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Amen.This. Move on, block everywhere and keep vibing Queen ♡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 09:07 AM
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Feel you , its the little gestures that count, a guy who looks out for you will do it without having to tell him , its just good manners
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 08:00 AM
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Babe. Fellow german here, dont do that..dont pay.. If he isnt willing to pay for a freaking cheap dinner, he is low effort and will never appreciate you fully, raise your standards, those who dont meet them arent meant to be in your life ♡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 07:52 PM
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So proud you did it♡ Sadly it takes a fight or setting boundaries until you find out the true personality of a person, enjoy yourself, raise ypur standards and never lower them for anyone and Always trust your gut feeling♡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 12:40 PM
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If someone is unsure, they ask for validation. Unbelievable how an adult man can let a woman walk home alone, he didnt want to waste gas...sweet baby jesus.. To anyone reading this. I have a brother who is 2 yrs older than me, I see good examples of decent man. He drove his ex home whenever he could and would text her to make sure she arrived safe home when his car broke down, he did it for the entire duration of the relationship. Plz dont let anyone get away with shitty behavior, we need to pro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 01:57 PM
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Its a devils circle, they lover the standards and guys being guys, underperform even more to not have any expectations on them.. which leads pickmeishas to continue the lowering.. Truthfully: Its always better to be single than being together with someone who doesnt meet your standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 08:30 AM
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Amen ♡ needed this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 11:55 PM
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Out of bed, through the window, that bitch better gets running. Any sane person wouldnt take a second of this shit. When did so many women let their self esteem sink to ground zero?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 11:24 AM
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To quote a famous movie "I wasnt ready to marry......you" same old here replace marriage with a relationship. If he knows, he knows, a man who is still unsure after he got to know you isnt in it for the big deal, do yourself a favor, do a clean cut and a self care weekend to treat yourself ♡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 02:33 PM
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Hold your head high, nothing can drag you down Queen ♡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 02:22 PM
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That last line is precious ♡ coming from a patriarchic family, it blows my mind how adults excuse grown up man not to be able to cook/do their laundry etc., thats the epitome of bullshit merely a lazy way of justifying male privilege. If a man is above the age of 20 and cant do chores boooy heelll nooo.Big pass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 11:50 AM
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So so so true. Can we print this shit on every female subreddit to wake up more girls?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 12:21 PM
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The real question is...which bar...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 02:33 PM
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Nope.The.Fuck.Out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 10:05 AM
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Why do we females always argue in favor to LVM? Its a common pattern, is it because its hard to accept that the prince and like minded soul turned out to be a dirty frog and u cant accept ypur own misjudgement? Anyhoo so glad more Queens are getting aware of this toxic modern dating society
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 07:27 AM
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Amen, needed it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 01:25 PM
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Slowly there Queen, as a fellow -not so strict- muslim, the part with the virgins goes for all muslims according to the Quran and there is no number mentioned in the quran itself. What sadly most people refer to are hadiths (sayings of the prophet), but these are highly debated anyhoo..way too much added bullshit. To give you guys a more liberal view on islam, it tells men not to touch their wives stronger than a feathers touch, no matter how heated the relationship gets, to respect and protect …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 11:39 PM
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Ladies, any recommendations for other empowering subreddits?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 11:29 PM
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Amen so true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 04:20 PM
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Lemme sign this with my blood
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 04:26 PM
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Suppressing vomit noises here....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 11:27 AM
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o< Honestly I just google the song and learn how to play it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 07:01 PM
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The "might set you back" thing is so real, experienced it as a student when my ex wated me to visit him. Those out of nowhere plans that come in last second mess with your time, money and stress lvls if not though through like "Oh I picked a date u have a day off to go to xyz", thats the way to go amen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 06:36 PM
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Im teaching myself how to play the ukulele and acoustic guitar,alrdy wrote half a song after 3 weeks, wanna get back to learning swe~dish badass melodic language yass, have a coding project that Im slacking a bit off but it seems fun so and I sketch in my free time too and teach singing to myself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 05:08 PM
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I had a few guy friends and legit ALL of them confessed their "love" after a short period of time or after a few months. Even when I used to be in a relationship, like, where do u even get the courage to ask a taken girl out? Its so true..when ur single and spend time wirh male friends inevitably sooner or later they will misinterpret it because their lonely ass makes them think you must be deeply into them since u spend an hour playing games...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 09:43 AM
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My bf mentioned this interestingly a few days ago, he found it shocking, sadly I wasnt surprised... most men are utter garbage when u look beneath the layer of sweet-talk-bullshit : / Honestly after reading more and more in this sub I noticed the disgudting poisonous behavior of my exes, jesus Im so glad to be together with someone who cherishes, supports and loves me. Ps.NEVER LOWER YOUR STANDARDS FOR ABYONE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 09:49 PM
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As someone whose name means "precious gem" I felt a moment of bliss reading your comment, thanks Queen ♡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 02:18 AM
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I felt this so hard. The question is, while typing it out arent they taking a moment to actually READ what they typed and question their own common sense? "He is abusive 80% of the time ...but" No but. Get out. Pack the rest of your brain and leave gurl. My HVM and me just shake our heads about every post on those subreddits...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 08:39 AM
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Had to learn it the hard way. As a high empath I dont think about moneys importance too much, but not being treated the same way u treat others or even worse having to cater all the time is so frustrating and mentally draining... I honestly feel like 80% the time ur better off single
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 02:01 AM
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so true. Or when I see a chick write "oh he cooks for me twice a week", yes bish he an adult, he cooked for himself before, raise your non existing standards...geez
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 10:21 PM
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Amen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 08:13 AM
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