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| 3 | Do men not care about having female friends?Here's my perspective. And I've discussed this with friends too. I always ask a lot of chicks if they're capable of deep conversations. Like history, philosophy, stuff like that (insert Jaden Smith "can we talk about the political and economic state of the world?" 🤣). I do this from time to time with my guy friends. But most chicks I've talked to in my life it's mostly been jokes or surface level topics like dating and drama about other people and when I've attempted to talk of my deep convo int… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 10:34 AM |
| – | If women say they don't enjoy casual sex, why does hook-up culture still exist?Yes. It's similar to how guys will say sweet nothings to a woman or say "I'm not like them other guys" just to sleep with her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 09:06 AM |
| 10 | Women don’t respect the average man?Average man here. And I ate some yogurt today. I didn't get respect for it, and I'm mad🙃 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 02:47 PM |
| 7 | How Common Is It For Women To Choose Not Hot Men So They Don’t Get Cheated On?Can concur. My mother would tell me about these ugly loose women who NEVER pulled off any dresses without their titties sagging yet always bagged the most attractive young men.......and STILL CHEAT ON THEM. Or even crazier make them do orgies/swing parties. It always confounded us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 07:13 PM |
| 3 | How does a woman's social media use affect your attraction to her?Yeah that's how some rappers got shot. Dangerous stuff | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 10:32 PM |
| 4 | How does a woman's social media use affect your attraction to her?Great answer. Took the words out my mouth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 10:31 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Men should stop caring that assholes have girlfriends.Just ask yourself why you made that post. Why do you care? Why not just write off the men you posted about as losers and give them no consideration? Hold on.....am I in the right subbreddit? Isn't this purplepill? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 10:29 PM |
| 0 | Most guys who struggle in dating struggle because they don't have a social life.Damn right. We gotta uplift our bros. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 10:24 PM |
| 1 | I think men don't understand that most women prefer a friendship bond first before dating.Check again bucko. "Half the dudes" guess who's the other unattractive half? What you just described. So basic.....cookie cutter dime a dozen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 10:21 PM |
| 2 | What's with all the generalization? Yet at the same time complaints of conflict is because humans are not monolithsAnd I'm surprised that people still walk around everyday knowing how the internet has showed us the 1000s of things that could kill us everyday. Amoeba, brain aneurysms, freak accidents, sinkholes, cancer, brain disease, mosquitoes with pathogens, bad food, poisonous insects, psychopaths, sociopaths, mass shootings, drug addicts, gangs, falling off a ledge, tripping and smacking yourself into a coma, hate crime, random heater explosions, random fires, combustion, factory accidents, infections. A… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 05:24 PM |
| 2 | I think men don't understand that most women prefer a friendship bond first before dating.I'm bisexual. And when half the dudes I see have shit grooming skills, don't wash their ass, dick smelling like cheese constantly, can't take a good photo without looking like a serial killer, and complain how they don't get none and also over the smallest issues, yeah I wouldn't fuck you either, buddy. I'd be picky too. Its the 21st century. We have modern medicine and cosmetics and lots of youtube tutorials on self improvement and cooking, landscaping, how to fix things, etc. Get your shit tog… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 05:17 PM |
| 2 | What's with all the generalization? Yet at the same time complaints of conflict is because humans are not monolithsNever? Not even once? Not a single woman in history has never own up to shit? Does that mean your mother threw you in the trash? Since she couldn't own up to it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Most guys who struggle in dating struggle because they don't have a social life.Exactly. Context. Yall generalize the fuck outta everything and we provide context then it's "well maybe for you, but-" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 02:47 PM |
| 2 | Women asking to be "treated as human beings" are really just asking to be treated as royaltyShe probably already did anyway. Make her dreams come true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 02:46 PM |
| 0 | Women asking to be "treated as human beings" are really just asking to be treated as royaltyTell them to fuck off | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 02:06 PM |
| 3 | I think men don't understand that most women prefer a friendship bond first before dating.I'm a guy, and I do the same shit. I dont consider dating some girls in my friend group even if she offers cause she's too cool to date. Don't wanna ruin that. And there's chicks who I'm still vibin with but GYAT! I'd hit the moment I get a chance. So yeah idk bro. 🤷♂️ shits weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 02:01 PM |
| 7 | Women asking to be "treated as human beings" are really just asking to be treated as royaltyThen ignore them. Treat yourself as royalty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Most guys who struggle in dating struggle because they don't have a social life.Preach | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Most guys who struggle in dating struggle because they don't have a social life.Real attractive, dude. You really gonna get some poon now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 01:44 PM |
| -1 | Most guys who struggle in dating struggle because they don't have a social life.So.....you hit on guys too? To expand your social circle? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 01:39 PM |
| -4 | Most guys who struggle in dating struggle because they don't have a social life.Bro who said anything about hitting on someone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 10:55 PM |
| 2 | Would you rather have a female friend that secretly hates you or a "platonic" male friend that is secretly in love with you?Holy cow everyone saying "they're dangerous" yo lay off the true crime podcasts and documentaries my guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 10:54 PM |
| 1 | This explains a lot: Majority of Women declined sex due to body insecurities, dating app findsI kinda always thought this internally cause women would glance at me but when approached, are suddenly cold. But expressing out loud that "women don't apporach me because they're intimidated by my looks and intelligence" is hard to say without sounding cocky as hell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 09:15 PM |
| 2 | Women don’t want men to have success in datingThis reminds me of that Twitter post where a guy confessed he was a moderator at r/femaledatingstrategy and purposefully gave them wrong advice cause "none of them toxic b*tches deserve a chance to exploit a man of his baby or $. Sorry not sorry" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 03:46 PM |
| 7 | How important is having sex to having a happy and healthy lifestyle ?Yeah I don’t like how I will ask a woman to dance and she’s like "oh are you tryna fuck or something?" Lady…..there is music playing, and I want a dance partner…..that is all….or if I try to talk to one they be like "okay so are you trying to get me to bed?" Lady……im extroverted, I just like to talk……. Ever since my looks came in, I’ve been astonished by the sexual prowess of women, as well as their apathetic nature towards romance. They love the aesthetics, but most assume sex before an actual … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 03:20 PM |
| 2 | What do you think of the very common idea of "any woman who rejects you because of your height is a shallow woman who is not worth it anyway"?Here’s a better question. Who is more shallow? Somebody who wants multiple things out of you. Or someone who wants just one thing out of you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 03:13 PM |
| – | Would you treat a female partner differently if she was a hard working breadwinner that wanted YOU to live comfortably?"Yes I do the cooking, yes I do the cleaning" - Nicki Minaj. There is my answer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Serious question. What will you do with your lives if you don't find anyone?Tbh at this point I'd rather be alone and content than to try to understand someone who doesn't want to be understood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 07:17 AM |
| 2 | No one is telling women to have sex with anyone they don't want to have sex with.Read up on the behavioral sink and the rat utopia | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 06:48 AM |
| 2 | If you think sex is damaging to women or causes them to lose their “value,” isn’t it lowkey kind of predatory to pursue sex with women?"I prefer virgins" sicko fucks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 05:07 AM |
| 3 | What’s a good OLD vs. IRL dating strategy for normie men vs. non-normie men?I'm definitely the second category and I left dating apps, choosing to instead meeting people irl. I feel conversations through text and photos doesn't really translate my unique humor and outlook of life/personality accurately, it's once you know me in person where I truly shine, cause my subtle body language entraps them in a trance. Can't do that behind a screen..... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 04:30 AM |
| 5 | What blue pill advice do you think people choose to misinterpret?HAHAHAHAHA | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 04:22 AM |
| 3 | The fact that blue pillers never have genuine counterpoints or refutation to the countless valid TRP grievances, and only seem to be able to respond with insults and ad hominem attacks, is a strong credit to the legitimacy of TRP.Answers I've gotten when I give bluepill answers: "That's irrelevant" "Okay but that's without context" "Are you also 6ft and white?" "It's easy cause you good looking" "It's easy cause you extrovert" when I use personal experience "Okay I guess you the exception, still doesn't refute statistics" show statistics "Well in my personal experience....." "Yeah, but.....[use straw man arguments and hypothetical based on things only a small percentage actually experience]" "It's easy cause you woman" (… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Observing how my male and female friends adapt to reality as we age.So.....using exercise to increase your dopamine levels, being healthier, and feeling stronger and confident is bs? Goddamn I've been living a peaceful lie for months!! Ooooohhhh the horror!!! I'm suddenly happy for the first time!!! It's too late for me!!!!🤣🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Observing how my male and female friends adapt to reality as we age.The stories of what other friends have done to him in the past and I tell him, "dude you can't let people do you like that" I stick up for them but they need to really stick up for themselves. I'm trying to build their confidence by inviting them to my gym. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Observing how my male and female friends adapt to reality as we age.What do you do with a doormat? You step all over it. A doormat is someone who lets people step all over them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Observing how my male and female friends adapt to reality as we age.This | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 12:31 PM |
| 8 | Observing how my male and female friends adapt to reality as we age.Same here. Once I realized I got everything I already need, I was like……oh shit! I HAVE FREEDOM!! WHOOHOO! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 12:30 PM |
| 2 | Observing how my male and female friends adapt to reality as we age.At the moment I’m friends with 3 guys and 3 girls. My 3 guy friends don’t get much cause: one is uninterested (he adopted a stoic mindset), one is a doormat, and the other….kinda has some behavior stuff. The 3 chicks? As far as I know they are single, one is still playing the field while finding the good one, the other is making friends, and the other a religious Christian who’s waiting for a dude. But again that’s just from seeing, them. I don’t really know what’s going on in there lives so I c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 12:25 PM |
| 1 | How do you explain most young women being in relationships?This dude looking at thots and incels and says "society" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Are single moms the "red flag equivalent" of older men?I always tell my friends this: "her son is her #1, she is to be your #1, but you’ll be #2". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 12:14 PM |
| – | The source of all male dating woes has to do with women’s core maternal drive being genetically mutated out of the gene pool. As a result male sperm has zero value.When I see discussions like this, I always think about that 1972 rat utopia experiment by John Calhoun and it’s correlations: how the population stagnates at a certain point, how the female rats lose their maternal instincts more and more with every generation leading to more dysfunction, how they let their babies die cause they’re trying to fight off the desperate males forcing themselves on em, how some male rats turned "gay" and mated with alphas to get close to the female rats, and how a cer… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 12:07 PM |
| 2 | Women Are Happier With Less Attractive Partners, Study SaysI think this makes sense. Whenever I go outside, I notice couples and the chick is a baddie, and the dude is……well not ugly but definitely not attractive, just a regular Joe Shmoe, and they talk around me and the dude has such a….regular, tame personality? But who knows? Maybe I’m wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Even when it comes to relationships hot guys have this "premium" version of it the average guy just doesn't get to experienceYes. Like Brad and Angelina. Oh wait… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 11:29 AM |
| 0 | CMV: most women would choose a physically unattractive neurotypical man over a very physically attractive high functioning autistic manIt’s true. I tell them I’m a sociopath. They say "fuck it we ball" (true statement) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 05:22 AM |
| 1 | How hard it is for you all to be social?Used to be hard, but I’ve improved a lot. Just today I became friends with a dude at the gym cause I saw him do calisthenics and I wanted tips on form. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 05:20 AM |
| 3 | Attitudes such as "No one is good for me" or "my standards are too high" or "I have very specific requirements" are rooted on arroganceI took a bite of the hot dog and my body was so repulsed I threw it back up and now I’m more fatigued…..shit i…….should have…….waited……for….the……steaaaaaakkkk….. dies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 05:17 AM |
| 1 | What are some popular opinions commonly held by people of your own gender here that you not share?I’ve said this before but when the redpill community will tell women if they don’t get married they’ll die alone with cats, but then turn to guys and tell them "don’t get married cause she’ll take half your shit". The fuck? So which is it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 05:13 AM |
| 1 | The best self-improvement for a man is finding a girlfriendlook up "famous men in history who died virgins". You will see authors, kings, philosophers, play writes, artists. Men who have done incredible works but who probably felt painful solidarity. The path of a man was never meant to be easy, but it’s how great men are forged. We do not pursue happiness, but to minimize suffering. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 04:28 AM |
| 4 | Not receiving sexual attention causes lot of issues and society doesn't acknowledge itAll of that stuff you just said only matters……if you give a shit what people think of you. If people were so right, society wouldn’t be fucking up right now. Fuck em, find your purpose and pursue it. Remember this: never take criticism from someone you wouldn’t take advice from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 04:03 AM |
| 28 | Not receiving sexual attention causes lot of issues and society doesn't acknowledge itI second this. As a bisexual guy, I’ve had the unique experience of playing both sides of the dating game. I used to get frustrated when the girls would be nice and outgoing and really put energy, but then suddenly ghost me. And I was like "wtf?’ But when I began to match with the guy profiles…..like MY GOODNESS guys are just talented at taking creepy ass selfies of themselves. like are you trying to tell me you have bodies in the basement? Did you think a upward angle shot of your face really a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 03:55 AM |
| 1 | The best self-improvement for a man is finding a girlfriendMe, a bisexual: "the man in me wants to chill, but the woman in me wants me to work harder. Balanced, as all things should be" 🥰 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 11:53 PM |
| – | Have you given up before properly starting dating? And why?I'm a 6ft 1in Mexican male with long beautiful curly hair and effeminate features. I inherited my face from my mother so surprisingly enough when I wear a dress and makeup I attract lesbians, gays, men, women, and everything in between. I'm just socially weird. Edit: Oh sorry I didn't answer the question. Kinda. It's more they flirt with me and make it obvious they want me to ask for their number | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Reroll your character. Which sex and orientation would you roll to live on easy mode?Whoops haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 01:58 PM |
| 13 | Have you given up before properly starting dating? And why?I like to go up to women like "hey wassup" "I have a boyfriend" "Yeah I know, introduce me to him. He's fine af" 🥰 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 01:20 PM |
| – | CMV Status and Money does improve you‘re GENUINE Attraction if you have base value.Yeah his downfall is a sad one But it was his treatment of people that turned many away. He would throw crazy parties for influencers just for company and even those self obsorbed people just didn't want to talk to him anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 12:44 PM |
| – | CMV Status and Money does improve you‘re GENUINE Attraction if you have base value.Look at Notch. Creator of minecraft. So fucking rich...but ain't nobody wanna associate with that dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 12:37 PM |
| – | How do you think damaged, terminally-online types, with more baggage than your shopping cart can handle, should navigate relationships?Read me like a book | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 12:29 PM |
| 1 | What does your “ideal” dating life look like?As a bisexual dude: a poly relationship with 1 guy and 1 girl. And we all like each other. We coexist with small issues but a quick romp in the sack will usually solve it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Reroll your character. Which sex and orientation would you roll to live on easy mode?Well it kinda depends. Am I gonna be a rich successful guy or a bottom of the rings of society, homeless dude with herione addiction? Am I gonna be a supermodel chick or an ugly Pennywise looking fat girl with flat butt and no titties? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 12:10 PM |
| 0 | CMV: The fact that surrogates are mainly used by women and gays show that men's threats about artificial wombs are not to be taken seriouslyDamn....ya got a point 👉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 12:06 PM |
| 13 | Have you given up before properly starting dating? And why?Same here. Handsome, very handy in cars, houses, landscaping. Have a lot of money, I work out, I learn languages, I draw, make music. But I was only able to do all this cause I'm alone with few friends because of my sociopathy For the most part I'm just a fling for most women. A glorified dildo. And I can't complain about it cause "boohoo you fuck bitches with no attachments, it must be soooooo hard for you" Thank God im attracted to men as well. They're more fun on dates. We get beer, fuck, and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 12:04 PM |
| 13 | CMV : If you’re the guy she had to lower her “unrealistic” standards for the you’re forever on thin iceI have my "types" but also surprise myself with people I never thought I'd date. If it's a situation like this how you described, sounds more like an issue of ego. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 11:53 AM |
| 6 | As a woman why should I get married?"Who asked?" - People who asked | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 11:30 AM |
| 3 | As a woman why should I get married?As a guy it always confused me how the red pill community would say to women "if you don't get married soon you'll become a crazy cay lady and die alone" But then turn to men and say "don't get married she'll fuck you over for a guy named Tyrone and take half your shit" Like pick a struggle dude...... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 11:29 AM |
| 0 | Do women not mind past relationship baggage in man, compared to vice versa?Why you got a history of them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 07:13 AM |
| – | CMV : There’s nothing wrong at all with modern dating. Women are just attracted to less men.Legalize prostitution and watch the tables turn in value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 07:10 AM |
| 16 | How come "nice girls finish last" isn't as popular of a saying?As a guy. I've met both nice girls, and nice girls. Ones telling the truth. The other looks for the excuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 07:05 AM |
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