Chocoedit Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Advice needed: hiking trip, LVM or HVM?		Chocoedit	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/06/20 04:04 AM

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1	Advice needed: hiking trip, LVM or HVM? Ahh, I belatedly came back to this thread. Thank you so much for typing out these thoughts!!! The bushwhacking trip sounds terrifying. So glad everyone seems to have turned out alright. I’m truly really naive to how men/dating work. What you’re saying makes total sense and I can really imagine how those scenarios happen! I do think it’s such an exciting trip but you’ve given me very convincing reasons why it should be more awkward than it’s worth. I’ll look into meetup groups. Thank you so much …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/07/20 05:52 AM
1	Advice needed: hiking trip, LVM or HVM? Thank you for your thoughts! Okay, if I decide to go, I will for sure do practice hikes with my pack. He’s never done anything to be untrustworthy, even though he’s had the opportunity, but as I’ve said in a few other comments, maybe I’ve been too trusting of him as a result? And haha, there was actually quite a bit of chemistry, and now that we’re friends it’s great, I like him a lot more now than I did when we were dating. You’re totally right though that I was turned off by his past so that’s…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/06/20 06:19 AM
1	Advice needed: hiking trip, LVM or HVM? Thanks for replying! Okay, should I explicitly tell him that I’m going as a friend? He hasn’t brought up anything that would suggest otherwise, so it sounds a bit awkward? Could you explain a little more about why he’s getting the LVM vote? I’d love to hear more thoughts.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/06/20 06:15 AM
0	Advice needed: hiking trip, LVM or HVM? Ahhh, it’s so good to hear about you and your bf. Sounds like a good relationship :) Thanks for giving me more things to consider. I definitely pay my own way everything transportation wise and have funds to buy stuff that we’re sharing, like stove and food, if he decides to be an asshole. It would be unpleasant for sure though.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/06/20 06:13 AM
0	Advice needed: hiking trip, LVM or HVM? Thanks so much, I really appreciate hearing your experience! You’re really right, maybe I am too trusting of him :/ I know that I’ve been in lots of situations with him before where he could have coerced/forced/manipulated his way into getting in my pants (or at least tried to), and he never did. He was respectful about it all, and very upfront with me about his past, what he wants, etc. He really wanted it to work. We also work in adjacent research labs, so I think/thought that would be an addi…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/06/20 06:10 AM
0	Advice needed: hiking trip, LVM or HVM? Oh gosh, hippy 4somes 😂 that sounds like not my jam. Thank you so much for your thoughts! I know this isn’t the main point, so to get it out of the way — his friends are really experienced. They’ve both hiked the PCT. He’s the less experienced one of the bunch but he’s your typical workout dude and he’s backpacked before (not PCT-level) so I’m sure he’s athletic enough to be useful. Hmm, do you really think he wants me to catch feelings for him? I really thought we were over this whole thing. Li…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/06/20 05:56 AM
1	Advice needed: hiking trip, LVM or HVM? Thank you for looking out for me! I’ve known him for a year, and we did date for a month-ish when he asked me out. When I told him I only do serious relationships, he said he hadn’t been so excited about someone since his first high school gf so he agreed to be exclusive and look for long term compatibility. Ultimately I always thought of him as a fuckboy because that was the first impression, so I was very negative about the relationship potential — among other things, I told him he’s a walking…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/06/20 05:44 AM