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In this day and age of me too and all this stuff, it isn't worth the stress. If she said don't touch me, don't touch her and move on.
/r/seduction12/02/19 05:43 AM
6

She does not want to look thirsty or desperate but she likes you. Keep initiating, she is playing hard to get, chase her make her feel wanted.
/r/seduction12/02/19 05:38 AM
1

This is deeply accurate and on point.
/r/seduction12/02/19 05:37 AM
2

If I was her, I'd be ticked off.
/r/seduction28/01/19 07:53 PM
2

I am giving you the WOMAN'S viewpoint. Period. You have no idea how sensitive we can be.
/r/seduction28/01/19 07:15 PM
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All of you are missing the key point here - SHE ASKED YOU ON A DATE. We never ever do that. You didn't respect this - then you start talking and touching other girls. Trust me she is pissed. I am convinced men and women are from different planets because when I first read this, I was like oh hell no he was not talking to other girls when she bravely asked him out. She likes you. You fucked up. Now call her and apologise and take her out on a nice evening date to apologise
/r/seduction28/01/19 02:26 PM
1

A really nice lipstick is by MAC and the name is Ruby Woo. She will love that.
/r/seduction27/01/19 09:51 PM
4

Hi girl replying here. Depends on her personality. You could get her lingerie, perfume, makeup, a necklace, a bracelet. I think a wonderful thing would be to take her away for the weekend to a hotel for a fun V-Day time away
/r/seduction27/01/19 09:47 PM
1

Are you socially awkward with women?
/r/seduction27/01/19 09:29 PM
3

They don’t want a man who’s rich. They just want a man who has his shit together. Finally someone on seddit who gets it ​
/r/seduction27/01/19 09:28 PM
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I think the biggest thing you need to understand is just relax and be normal. Don't obsess about the fact you are on the spectrum, trust me, the girl doesn't care and she won't want you to be weird or obsessive over it.
/r/seduction27/01/19 09:27 PM
3

She is now blowing up my phone iniating contact every day. Please do not ignore her and just set up a date for Wednesday night for example. She doesn't want to think you aren't interested ​
/r/seduction27/01/19 09:25 PM
5

Your post makes no sense. You got a lot of positive feedback even from the WIX guy who is known for his no bs approach. You seem like you are attention seeking now.
/r/seduction27/01/19 09:55 AM
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No I mean it. Good tips
/r/seduction27/01/19 12:24 AM
0

Just based off my gut feeling, he might not be interested but I don't know babe
/r/seduction26/01/19 10:59 PM
0

He seems pretty slow. It's totally OK not to give him the number. If you won't give him your number, then I wouldn't reply to his message for now, let him stew for a few days and feel the need to chase back.
/r/seduction26/01/19 10:38 PM
1

Yes I'm a woman + straight. Okay that detail helps a bit. She definitely does like you but she might be afraid to be vulnerable with you and lose her virginity to you if she feels like she can't trust you, as she did catch you kissing another girl. So be sincere and just date her then and not anyone else. She's getting territorial over you that's for sure.
/r/seduction26/01/19 10:37 PM
3

You are good at this.
/r/seduction26/01/19 10:24 PM
2

Hi. F here if that matters. What's your plan? Do you want to have sex with him? I'm not a big fan of girls doing the chasing overtly. It gets me a lot of DVs here as a lot of men on this sub are (rightfully) happy for a girl to approach but I'm just not that for it for a host of reasons. What I do like is you subtly laying clues for him to close. I think you did that but he might be slow, dense or uninterested. I don't like the no worries reply. He apologised for a late reply, that's good. I wou…
/r/seduction26/01/19 10:21 PM
3

Go slow and treat her with respect. I wish my first first time had been more romantic and gentle. It was OK but uncomfortable and not that romantic even though I was in love with him. I would only proceed with her if you are in a relationship with her. My partner got a hotel for us once and laid out rose petals, candles, mood music once and it was so romantic and sweet. If you do something like that, that would be great for her first time.
/r/seduction26/01/19 09:36 PM
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What did he say?
/r/seduction26/01/19 05:50 AM
1

I meant when she Told that she's inviting her friends, you should have said you are interested if it's just you two that's what I mean. I mean OK cool you could go but you could equally go out with your own friend and meet new girls without competing for her attention with other male friends .
/r/seduction26/01/19 12:41 AM
1

It is up to you. I'm just giving you the woman's point of view. This is a test but you don't realise it.
/r/seduction26/01/19 12:14 AM
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Honestly I'd tell her you are happy to meet up for a date with her but you already have friends. Girls do this when they want their friends to critique the guy. Show her you are good if she's bringing friends because You won't close her if the friends are there
/r/seduction25/01/19 11:35 PM
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I was happy to see this post as I am religious as well. Good for you getting out meeting people. As long as you are sincere though, going to church to meet people is a cool idea. You mentioned that you aren't going there to learn about God, I'd say it's a good idea to go IF you are religious or interested in faith or otherwise you might struggle to enjoy it or make friends. In addition, join sports teams at your university. That's a dope way to meet women.
/r/seduction25/01/19 10:30 PM
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This should be easy if you are a woman. No dropping off toys or food, he's the man he needs to woo you. You just need to get his attention. Without coming off stalkerish, find a way to bump into him - the dog thing is a good idea. Go to your next apartment community meeting and introduce yourself to him. If he goes to a local coffee shop near your flat, say hello. If you get a chance to bump into him, introduce yourself and give him your number and tell him to call you if he has any questions ab…
/r/seduction25/01/19 10:18 PM
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Being successful, having a good job, having your own place to bring girls too. To you guys those seem like they don't help but to women they say I'm a man, I take care of myself I can take care of you, I'm a symbol of security etc. Those are important for women to open up their bodies
/r/seduction25/01/19 10:05 PM
2

Thank God for relevant advice from another girl on here (F too) +1 on opening doors and compliments. Men underestimate their power.
/r/seduction21/01/19 09:50 PM
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Lol it matters for the girl trust me. Feminists love talking about breaking down gender roles but it ain't no girl who is a 10 out of 10 approaching a guy or paying for meals, sorry unpopular opinion but it is what it is
/r/seduction21/01/19 06:01 PM
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Period.
/r/seduction21/01/19 03:59 PM
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This sub loves giving advice that makes girls look thirstly LMAO! Give him your number and tell him to call you. Yeah yeah I know, but but women should approach men, you still need to maintain some mystery and not look desperate.
/r/seduction21/01/19 12:40 PM
2

Hey dude, the OP posts the same thing from multiple accounts. He's a freak.
/r/seduction17/01/19 08:39 PM
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Men need to dress better and smell good to attract better girls. Looks are important to us as well.
/r/seduction17/01/19 08:37 PM
2

Tell her (note I didn't say "ask" her) there's a change of plans. You're making her dinner at your place, candles, wine, the whole thing. Smile and look her direct in the eyes and say "Listen, I thought I'd make us a romantic dinner tonight instead of the movies. Be there at 7:00". That. Word for word. Must have the word "romantic" in it, must tell her exactly what time to show up, those are the key elements. This is really good ​
/r/seduction13/01/19 07:32 PM
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It just has to be done. You need to make a move. Putting your hand over her shoulder is fine, it isn't intrusive and if she seems interested she might touch you back. She's not the only girl in the world!! If she isn't interested you move on and find someone else.
/r/seduction13/01/19 07:30 PM
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F here. She probably knows you like her and maybe she likes you but I don't have enough info to judge. Psychologically you are giving this girl a lot of power. It is nice and cute that you care about her but eventually you just need to make a move. I know people think this is kind of silly and old fashioned but it works - when you are hanging out tonight at her place or whatever, put your arm around her when you are watching a movie. If she seems relaxed and cool, she probably is into you. If sh…
/r/seduction13/01/19 06:41 PM
1

Decent troll post
/r/seduction09/01/19 09:47 PM
1

Lol at 2 weeks
/r/seduction09/01/19 08:20 PM
10

She's so full of herself. Block her and move on. Don't give her the satisfaction of knowing you even care
/r/seduction08/01/19 06:22 PM
1

How many more signs do you need? She really likes you a lot. She's just being a classy lady and trying to drop HINTS.
/r/seduction06/01/19 08:50 AM
1

As a woman, I'm pretty sure she is struggling to come to terms with the abortion and you are a walking, living breathing reminder of it. I would leave her alone 100% and let her heal/grieve
/r/seduction01/01/19 11:58 PM
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Money matters 100%
/r/seduction31/12/18 08:44 PM
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Woman. Of course a man who is in shape is attractive. Signs that a woman is interested is her touching her hair, looking then quickly looking away. However, success is the best aphrodisiac. Nothing like a successful man. It says I can deliver if we have children etc
/r/seduction31/12/18 01:45 PM
5

Stop disrespecting his mother.
/r/seduction31/12/18 05:29 AM
79

Yes you were clear and she confirmed that another night would be fun.
/r/seduction30/12/18 10:39 PM
1

I'm going to give you the non-PC answer. He's a kind, thoughtful man. He's generous. He's a gentleman, he's a good provider and I know he will be a good father. There are many things - but I always wanted to be with someone who was kind, loving and successful. So I got lucky. That said, he doesn't share my interests and I guess my point is, it doesn't really matter. He loves coding, technology - I don't care at all about coding or programming. That doesn't mean I am not right for him either if y…
/r/seduction30/12/18 10:25 PM
2

Become interesting. Get lighter, warm-hearted hobbies. You can still be into philosophy, but you can't debate Aristotle or Plato every day or on the first date. Not sure why people think their SOs have to have the same interests as them. I'm a woman and I've been following this sub for a long time. My boyfriend proposed to me recently and now he is my fiance. We are sooooooo different and we don''t have the same interests at all. I love history, politics, current affairs - he doesn't give a fuck…
/r/seduction30/12/18 10:07 PM
1

Make an effort to learn the language then. How are you going to ask a girl for consent if you can't communicate in her language? Not everyone speaks English
/r/seduction30/12/18 02:07 AM
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It will. I lived in Paris and I am a good French speaker. It's important to speak the language to connect with people.
/r/seduction29/12/18 05:38 PM
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Do you speak French? That's needed. Also not being white has ZERO to do with it.
/r/seduction29/12/18 04:30 PM
1

Google is your friend.
/r/seduction29/12/18 01:52 PM
1

Lilliputian
/r/seduction29/12/18 01:17 PM
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You sound upset. Me and my friends (women) use girl and women interchangeably all the time and we call men boys every now and then. ​
/r/seduction29/12/18 12:32 PM
1

Incoming Incel Post.
/r/seduction29/12/18 11:55 AM
2

Totally agree. I really hope boys on this sub use this post as a case study of what NOT to do when you are building a new relationship with a girl.
/r/seduction28/12/18 08:19 PM
2

Yes I'm a woman. She's definitely out to get attention from him because he's showing that he's not respecting her position as his girlfriend. The ex gf is also being disrespectful but she has no loyalty to the new girl. Honestly I'd be shocked if she's not fucking the guy mate as we are typing RN. Hiking, sweating, showering...
/r/seduction28/12/18 08:16 PM
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You are the one who is being inappropriate and you better believe she's telling her guy friend on the hike that "my man meets up with his ex" and he's probably saying things to fuck things up for you. I'm pretty shocked how you thought it was a good idea to keep seeing you ex for coffee. I'll be damned but this sub shows me men and women are totally wired differently. Not going to sugarcoat it. There's no reason to be seeing the ex if you are trying to nurture a relationship with your current gf…
/r/seduction28/12/18 07:30 PM
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Dude why are you meeting up with your ex for a platonic coffee? WTF. Yeah mate she's definitely considering shagging her guy friend on a hike and she will definitely try and make you feel jealous. I'm a girl and I wouldn't stand for my guy meeting up with an ex. What's good for the goose is good for the gander.
/r/seduction28/12/18 07:26 PM
2

This x 1000. Comment is spot on.
/r/seduction28/12/18 07:24 PM
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Well credit to you for responding to me respectfully unlike some other men on this sub. Obviously I don't know the whole situation but I was just providing a female point of view. What the mum did was unforgivable so it is probably best if you just leave her be and let sleeping dogs lie but that is just my opinion. Lots of boys got salty with my comment so it's good you didn't attack me.
/r/seduction27/12/18 10:43 PM
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It doesn't matter to you guys because you are men. I'm a woman so I see this differently. At any rate we don't all have to agree. I think it's bad, you all don't and that's OK.
/r/seduction27/12/18 12:40 PM
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It's a UK thing relax.
/r/seduction27/12/18 05:26 AM
2

Stories like this make me realise that men don't understand women on a fundamental emotional level. You are kidding yourself if you think her mother, the woman who carried her in the womb, doesn't feel terrible or guilty about this. She will find out eventually. Yes lads of seduction, downvote me all you want, but this isn't what seduction should be about. Karma will come back and level this.
/r/seduction27/12/18 03:31 AM
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I hope she texts but she probably thinks you aren't interested. She probably went back and told her friends etc. Nerves in men always comes across like disinterest
/r/seduction24/12/18 08:49 AM
2

I'm one of the only women that posts here regularly and I'm a woman from an ethnic minority. I get a lot of PMs from girls complaining that men just want white girls and don't want to approach them and this is true to a certain degree. Downvote me all you want boys but confident men of any hue get the girls they want but they also don't just put white women on a pedestal. Many WOC feel ignored by Asian men and black men who want to save all their efforts for getting white girls. I've given up on…
/r/seduction23/12/18 04:22 PM
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It's a problem but I see where she's coming from as many Asian women are fetishised by white men
/r/seduction23/12/18 04:12 PM
2

Because you are under 18 and essentially still a young teenager, I want to approach my comment with care and respect because normally I'm pretty blunt on here. I'm 32, also F, and you are 15 so I would like to give you some friendly female advice relating to seduction and men. This sub isn't about not being boring, it's about seduction so I'll keep my comments to that. You are still pretty young, growing, changing. How you feel now at 15 isn't going to be the same when you are 30. Allow yourself…
/r/seduction22/12/18 09:41 PM
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He's not your friend.
/r/seduction22/12/18 09:55 AM
1

Can't believe you are being downvoted for actually writing a sensible comment!
/r/seduction21/12/18 12:28 PM
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Could have dealt without you writing the N word in your post. Gross.
/r/seduction20/12/18 09:24 AM
3

It was your first time. Probably nerves. Don't drink too much and decrease porn usage.
/r/seduction17/12/18 07:22 PM
1

Okay good luck. Give it a few weeks and months - then hang out eventually during the day etc
/r/seduction17/12/18 03:08 PM
8

Reporting this post. Why has this sub deteriorated so much.
/r/seduction17/12/18 02:10 PM
1

I'm a religious girl so let me try and answer this. It depends what denomination she is. In general, and I know from experience, nondenominational women are harder to date as they tend to want to wait until marriage etc but not all. Tread carefully is my advice. The church group doesn't own her nor do they have agency over her body, she does. Just build a friendship with her privately by seeing if you can meet up for innocuous non-romantic things like going out for a daytime iced coffee and talk…
/r/seduction17/12/18 02:05 PM
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What is this?
/r/seduction16/12/18 12:09 PM
9

Is it worth it though? Considering the me-too climate we are in today, he probably won't bite even if he is interested. It isn't worth getting fired. Wait until you graduate fully from school and leave then make a move but don't risk his job before you have graduated. I know someone who did this (a girl) and the professor (man) got fired and lost everything.
/r/seduction16/12/18 11:25 AM
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As a woman, just want to let you know, most men don't really tell the truth about the amount of women they have been with. I'm religious too but also liberal like you however I don't think you are being realistic about dating by trying to fence in the amount of girls a man has been with. What matters is how he treats you and respects you
/r/seduction16/12/18 08:44 AM
1

He means you could say she leaked your personal info without your consent. She'd definitely get fired for this
/r/seduction12/12/18 08:28 PM
1

Lol 💀
/r/seduction12/12/18 08:23 PM
8

She's a bitch for that and it is so nasty and rude of her. Writing down your number works -- I've done it before and men have done it to me and we have hung out and had a great time. Disgusting behaviour from her.
/r/seduction12/12/18 03:58 PM
2

He's just posted again now. Argh! On yahoo answers. What a loser
/r/seduction11/12/18 11:46 PM
1

Yes that guy, he is so annoying.
/r/seduction11/12/18 07:48 PM
2

Thanks for letting me know, it would be good if he could be banned from seddit though
/r/seduction11/12/18 07:06 PM
2

Ugh thank God you have seen it too not just me, I was going mad seeing his posts on here. He just WON'T GET IT THROUGH HIS SKULL.
/r/seduction11/12/18 07:05 PM
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And can the mods ban that guy who keeps posting daily with his picture and UK stories.
/r/seduction11/12/18 06:22 PM
9

Yes it's a terrible mistake.
/r/seduction11/12/18 11:45 AM
1

Stop reading incel content. No woman has to fuck you and you aren't owed sex or a date. Be exciting, warm, friendly and kind and you'll be attracting women.
/r/seduction10/12/18 04:43 AM
2

She means they live with their respective parents.
/r/seduction05/12/18 07:57 AM
2

I *think* he might be interested as he said you can ask him anything you want. I would try and find a way to give him my number. You have two options - you can either subtly hint that he should call you or you can give him your number and tell him to call you so you guys can discuss topics in more depth. It really depends on the vibe and energy. It's important for women to maintain mystery and energy without looking thirsty. Giving him your number protects you. I will get downvoted but mystery i…
/r/seduction01/12/18 06:36 PM
1

Girl give him your number and tell him to contact you, that way you don't get embarrassed if he says no. Men on this sub always tell you to ask him directly and that is terrible advice (I'm a girl). You need to show interest without looking desperate. I've given men my number before first and they get the hint and call.
/r/seduction01/12/18 06:33 PM
2

Just based off her using the N word makes her a write off. She doesnt sound interested in you by mentioning where other men are
/r/seduction01/12/18 06:33 AM
1

You need to lay some ground rules. How old are you guys? If she's your girl, she shouldn't be doing that. Tell her it's not funny, you two are in a relationship and to knock it off. Believe me, she'd be melting down if you did it to her.
/r/seduction27/11/18 10:17 PM
2

You can't even get a bird, that's why you keep clogging up this sub. Get a life.
/r/seduction26/11/18 07:05 PM
2

When is this guy getting banned from r/seduction ?
/r/seduction26/11/18 07:03 PM
5

It really depends on her personality and if she wants to have sex with you. I remember losing my (F) virginity was a huge deal and my boyfriend at the time who took it broke my heart into little pieces. I definitely shed many tears over him. I'd add that feelings make people change. You might never sleep with her but maybe you will. As long as you are honest. You never know, you might end up liking her. Play it by ear and see what happens. Now I'm thinking about what an asshole that first guy wa…
/r/seduction12/11/18 07:17 PM
2

Sure don't mind clarifying at all. Sorry I meant intensity is great but don't suck the clit off completely 💀 build up, make it feel amazing and make the legs shake without making her feel like you will eat her clit off. Some men aren't gentle in this sense. Does that help?
/r/seduction12/11/18 06:11 PM
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Each woman is different. I know you don't want to hear this but you have to experience it a few times to get the hang of what you like and what your partner likes. That said, I'll share some views from a woman's point of view. I'm sure other girls have different views as well and men will give you their views too. I don't want to generalise for all girls but from my (woman) experience of being with men and talking to my friends about sex, the following stand out: --Dont obsess about your size. I…
/r/seduction12/11/18 04:34 PM
1

She's playing games. Don't wish her a HBD.
/r/seduction12/11/18 05:22 AM
-1

Wow thank goodness we aren't your friends. Such a harsh post and arrogant to assume that she even cares.
/r/seduction11/11/18 09:09 PM
5

I'm a girl and I've been interested in a guy who couldn't approach me. As a woman, you HAVE to avoid him potentially rejecting you and you looking desperate. You do NOT ask him out - you give him your number to invite you out. I've done this before and it's worked well. This is what you do - you strike up conversation with him and give him your number on a piece of paper and tell him to call you. Boys aren't stupid. If he's interested he will call. I did this when I was younger with a geeky but …
/r/seduction10/11/18 10:57 PM
2

As long as you are loosing weight it's fine
/r/seduction10/11/18 07:43 PM
2

I'm a woman and I agree with this 100%
/r/seduction10/11/18 06:57 PM
3

Is this a joke?
/r/seduction10/11/18 01:25 PM
1

It's less of an issue of hobbies are attractive but hobbies that are interesting and allow you to meet new people instead of ones like videogames that have you focused on a screen instead of socialising with people. There's nothing wrong with videogames etc but let's face it, they don't make it easy to meet women (Gamergate anyone) The OP could join a local football team (soccer to the Americans on here), or a local basketball team where he can make new (male) friends in an organic way. Even qui…
/r/seduction08/11/18 05:35 PM
1

This post is better than a lot of the posts that are written by some autistic guys on here because you sound like you are making a bit of effort even though you end up wallowing a bit towards the end of the post. I don't think any women would care about your autism as long as you are a nice person and treat the ladies well. My advice to any autistic guys reading this is don't make it 100% of your identity especially when you are dealing with us girls. We want you to focus on us and making us fee…
/r/seduction08/11/18 05:29 PM
1

Yes it's pure masculinity in a bottle
/r/seduction07/11/18 08:08 PM
1

What's your girls personality like?
/r/seduction07/11/18 07:01 PM
2

Please stop... Just stop.
/r/seduction07/11/18 05:54 PM
2

It's the same guy terrorising us on this sub. I've reported him so much yet nothing
/r/seduction07/11/18 05:53 PM
3

Eros by Versace! Trust me on this!
/r/seduction07/11/18 03:11 PM
3

Reported.
/r/seduction07/11/18 12:05 PM
2

Can this guy get banned please. Every week he posts under a new alt!
/r/seduction07/11/18 04:49 AM
4

I just don't get when the seduction sub became this magnet for incels
/r/seduction07/11/18 04:43 AM
14

LMAO 💀
/r/seduction05/11/18 06:21 PM
-1

100% agree. He will look so desperate doing this.
/r/seduction04/11/18 03:49 AM
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Reported. This has nothing to do with seduction
/r/seduction03/11/18 09:43 PM
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The female sub version is coffin dead. Try posting here. I'm always looking for tips and advice for women as well since I'm a girl too but it's hard to get advice without people being triggered about feminism etc. Good luck!
/r/seduction30/10/18 11:27 AM
7

No offence that's an awful recommendation. She will get downvoted by extreme feminists saying she's catering to men.
/r/seduction30/10/18 11:26 AM
1

Not even have entertained this nonsense of dancing with others in the first place. My boyfriend would dump me before I could finish writing this message if I started flirting with a guy in front of him. Sorry I sound like a bitch but have some self respect.
/r/seduction29/10/18 04:49 PM
1

You are a weak man. Source - Girl.
/r/seduction29/10/18 04:11 PM
1

You are a weak man. Source - Girl.
/r/seduction29/10/18 04:11 PM
1

This. Makes him look like a douche and dickhead
/r/seduction27/10/18 11:11 PM
1

You guys are clueless. She's just making a joke about the fact her under eye circles are black like a panda. Tell her she might be sleep deprived but she always looks good in your eyes. Don't reference the panda, it's a red herring
/r/seduction24/10/18 07:37 PM
1

You guys are clueless. She's just making a joke about the fact her under eye circles are black like a panda. Tell her she might be sleep deprived but she always looks good in your eyes. Don't reference the panda, it's a red herring
/r/seduction24/10/18 07:37 PM
1

You seem like a nice guy, and she sounds like a bitch TBH. You were going through bereavement and doesn't really sound like she was there for you? The whole not being sexually attracted to you thing isn't nice either. The question here is if she actually wants to try again or if she is stringing you along to see if you still like her. I don't know what the boys on here will say but I will say that a girl saying she's not attracted sexually isn't a good look. I'd move on but I understand it's har…
/r/seduction24/10/18 07:19 PM
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You seem like a nice guy, and she sounds like a bitch TBH. You were going through bereavement and doesn't really sound like she was there for you? The whole not being sexually attracted to you thing isn't nice either. The question here is if she actually wants to try again or if she is stringing you along to see if you still like her. I don't know what the boys on here will say but I will say that a girl saying she's not attracted sexually isn't a good look. I'd move on but I understand it's har…
/r/seduction24/10/18 07:18 PM
1

You seem like a nice guy, and she sounds like a bitch TBH. You were going through bereavement and doesn't really sound like she was there for you? The whole not being sexually attracted to you thing isn't nice either. The question here is if she actually wants to try again or if she is stringing you along to see if you still like her. I don't know what the boys on here will say but I will say that a girl saying she's not attracted sexually isn't a good look. I'd move on but I understand it's har…
/r/seduction24/10/18 07:18 PM
1

I like King Pyrrhus' approach. Furthermore, you sound like you have a very interesting career in doing remote software engineering. Be sure to bring that up when talking to women who you are buying with while I'm Vegas. Ambitious/successful men are always attractive and interesting to talk to.
/r/seduction24/10/18 07:13 PM
1

None I could use some recommendations for books too.
/r/seduction24/10/18 06:45 PM
1

I'd love a place like that too but the female one is dead.
/r/seduction24/10/18 08:50 AM
1

Look at you, smile, be flirtatious but she won't go overboard. She might ask for help for innocuous things to get your attention etc
/r/seduction23/10/18 10:52 PM
1

Okay fair enough.
/r/seduction23/10/18 07:25 PM
2

Yes you did. Good Grief help the boys of this sub 🗣🗣🗣 I smoke sometimes and this was definitely her way of getting you to ask her for her number. Next time, when a girl asks you for a cigarette, give her one and LIGHT IT for her, old-school style. Missed opportunity 🤦
/r/seduction23/10/18 07:10 PM
1

Move on and forget about it as hard as it is. She will be ghosted soon enough 💀
/r/seduction23/10/18 04:07 AM
0

Yikes married woman
/r/seduction23/10/18 04:06 AM
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You are 16; you are so young in the world of love and relationships. Don't be in a massive rush to grow up, just carry on living your life and meet girls organically. Conversely, you might not care about girls and they might not care either 🤷
/r/seduction21/10/18 01:45 PM
2

You are a loser.
/r/seduction21/10/18 05:18 AM
3

That's fair enough, being late isn't good, I'm just saying it happens from time to time. She probably would have driven you nuts.
/r/seduction19/10/18 03:03 AM
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25 minutes late and you left? Lol my guys, we need time to get ready to look nice for you. Overreaction big time and yes you will be laughed at by her friends. But do what makes you happy I guess.
/r/seduction19/10/18 02:54 AM
1

He's not a friend. Cut him off.
/r/seduction18/10/18 03:58 PM
1

That's just so ridiculous and unfair. So if I wanted advice on an issue about men, I shouldn't come here to ask and get your perspectives?
/r/seduction17/10/18 10:26 AM
1

Not the OP but you should start by forming a friendship with her or going on a low pressure date.
/r/seduction17/10/18 10:24 AM
1

Probably got rejected by a girl lol. So pressed, so bothered.
/r/seduction17/10/18 05:06 AM
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I think there is a bit of hypocrisy with Me-too though. Many women still want men to approach them but don't help them to see how to do it. I can see why it's difficult for men.
/r/seduction17/10/18 05:02 AM
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LOL right but it's so good you are helping the ones with sincere qs I like this sub but there is hostility towards female posters but IDGAF I'm going to comment 🤷
/r/seduction17/10/18 04:57 AM
1

Sigh... Almost all men who aren't white on this sub put European girls on a massive pedestal. Latina women are some of the most breathtaking women in the world (oh hi J.Lo, oh hi Selena) but the almost obsessive fixation that men of colour on this sub have with just white women is indicative of some issues. Yeah yeah lads, I know you are about to downvote the hell out of me but I said what I said. You could probably approach Latina girls and get a lot of connections due to familiarity as well. B…
/r/seduction17/10/18 04:49 AM
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You are brave putting yourself out there like this. I dig it.
/r/seduction17/10/18 04:41 AM
0

You are overthinking this one. She probably just forgot them. I've done this before and not on purpose. Source - Girl, I love earrings and jewellery and men for that matter!
/r/seduction15/10/18 06:00 PM
1

Thank God for this comment. He's psycho
/r/seduction14/10/18 08:12 PM
3

So.. You are going to post this Over Over Over Again? Reported.
/r/seduction14/10/18 07:29 PM
3

Ehh will this really work for me? I do like surprising my boyfriend but eh?
/r/seduction14/10/18 02:32 PM
3

You keep repeating this story on this sub 🙄
/r/seduction13/10/18 11:49 PM
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LOL I am cracking up at your comment but it's true. It's just wildly unattractive when a guy is cheap or stingy in the early stages of dating. I've always judged men by their ability to offer to pay on the first date. Y'all always talk about shit tests. I think a lot of girls are very different these days but I am fairly old-fashioned and before I was in a LTR, my shit test was seeing if a guy offered to pay. Though to be fair, I am not a feminist though and a lot of younger girls are. If you tr…
/r/seduction13/10/18 11:17 PM
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LOL I just want you seddit boys to know what you need to do. No woman likes cheap men.
/r/seduction13/10/18 11:08 PM
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Please just make sure you are a gentleman and pay 0_0 Wine bar sounds good. Smell good and wear your best cologne (Boss is good, Eros by Versace is good as well). I know you guys don't care for female views on this sub but I just thought I'd chime in. I really like the date idea and good luck, hope it goes well.
/r/seduction13/10/18 10:13 PM
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Quick question, how long were you in the incel/foreveralone subculture? You need to unlearn a lot of the shit from those creepy sub cultures in order to enjoy the blossoming romance with this girl. I know people think its corny but just be yourself and don't be desperate. No not all women want a bad boy but don't let her walk all over you either. Doesn't sound like she's a virgin so she can help you enjoy your first time. Get good at eating a woman out. That will keep you in her good books. I lo…
/r/seduction12/10/18 07:43 PM
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This is some of the best advice I've seen on this sub in a long time. The missionary tip is especially good. I never thought of it that way but I do love being pinned down and ditto to the OP not sharing insecurities, that's a turn off.
/r/seduction12/10/18 07:38 PM
1

You are wasting time. And forget feminism here. Just send a text and ask her out for a date.
/r/seduction09/10/18 08:00 PM
3

Jesus Christ, a week with her number and you haven't asked her out??
/r/seduction09/10/18 07:56 PM
4

How old are you? This is a horrifically bad idea FYI.
/r/seduction08/10/18 08:00 PM
1

Agree. I'm here too from time to time.
/r/seduction05/10/18 07:05 PM
1

Honestly you need to get over it. Girls want to go on dates and we want to go for dinner, drinks, ice cream, the movies. You are being too anxious over nothing. Make an effort to meet girls.
/r/seduction05/10/18 07:01 PM
1

LOL this made me crack up.
/r/seduction05/10/18 06:53 PM
1

Not trying to sound like a bitch but it's not that serious. If you aren't feeling it move on. I'm sure she won't be crying into her pillow every night over it.
/r/seduction05/10/18 11:24 AM
1

Yeah mate I don't want to hurt your feelings but I just don't think she is that into you. If she was, she would dump her boyfriend from you. Sometimes people say what they say to keep you invested in the relationship.
/r/seduction03/10/18 06:35 PM
5

Lol he'll be back.
/r/seduction03/10/18 04:12 PM
7

He will love being the first one - they all do. Source - Girl, that's exactly what my first told me when he took mine
/r/seduction03/10/18 01:43 PM
1

Yes in many cases relationships like that just work out. You have no idea how she can flip it if one of you snitches and tells. She could say that you caught her in a weak moment or that you seduced her, even though we know it's a lie Women don't do things for the sake of it like men and by that I mean, when it comes to love and relationships, we make decisions based on how we see ourselves in the future You made her feel good about herself and she likes the ego boost you give her but she's not …
/r/seduction03/10/18 10:57 AM
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She is saying these things to keep you invested in her.
/r/seduction03/10/18 10:00 AM
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THIS!
/r/seduction03/10/18 09:59 AM
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I'm a girl. She just wanted to see if she could imagine herself with someone else. Trust me when I say. If she's been with him for 10 years, she probably sees herself as the mother of his children etc. You were an exciting thrill. It's really hurtful but that's truly what it is. My friends have done this before. You need to really cut her off. Men and women don't have platonic relationships!
/r/seduction03/10/18 09:59 AM
1

I find posts like this so crazy and strange. Indian women are absolutely gorgeous and you don't even want to approach them?
/r/seduction29/09/18 04:40 AM
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This post is extremely unhealthy and misogynistic. Reporting your ass ASAP. This sub isn't for misogynistic incels.
/r/seduction27/09/18 07:30 PM
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You need to stop writing like an incel for starters (saying non black women aren't attracted to black men couldn't be further from the truth, and yes I'm a black girl who went to predominantly white schools and unis, I never had a problem meeting men of any race. Race doesn't matter in dating unless you are a dick). Finding girls at University shouldn't be difficult because you should be meeting girls at societies, associations and events. What are your interests? Make an effort to join clubs an…
/r/seduction23/09/18 06:55 AM
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You get my point. Trust, no girl is going over to your place in the morning to make food unless she likes you. My boyfriend would jump on the rooftops if I did that.
/r/seduction18/09/18 12:24 PM
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The fact she came over to your crib speaks volumes to nourish and feed you. Treat her right.
/r/seduction18/09/18 10:41 AM
3

She seems really into you.
/r/seduction18/09/18 09:57 AM
2

You should play up the army/military thing when talking to women. It's extremely hot.
/r/seduction17/09/18 08:28 PM
4

Girl here -- you have to make the first move. Go on a date and make it very clear
/r/seduction16/09/18 07:26 PM
2

It's deader than MySpace
/r/seduction16/09/18 07:24 PM
1

It's really dead. Encourage girls to post here so we can also learn what you want.
/r/seduction16/09/18 07:24 PM
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Whatever ignore incel dicks like him. Go get him I say. Just don't fall in love, enjoy the sex.
/r/seduction16/09/18 07:22 PM
2

OMG thank you for these amazing tips! As a girl it's wonderful to have them
/r/seduction16/09/18 07:18 PM
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Would you like it if she made fun of your dick? Just checking...
/r/seduction16/09/18 07:12 PM
1

I'm a girl. You aren't ugly. The end.
/r/seduction16/09/18 07:11 PM
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No you have no reason to be insecure. Now, stop fishing for compliments and go bag girls!
/r/seduction16/09/18 07:08 PM
3

I never knew men were this insecure.
/r/seduction16/09/18 07:04 PM
1

Period. He's out here thinking she doesn't have options when she's probably talking to other blokes
/r/seduction15/09/18 10:25 PM
1

She's probably turned on story notifs.
/r/seduction11/09/18 10:02 PM
2

Yes this. He really needs a whip for sure.
/r/seduction11/09/18 09:59 PM
1

Lol complains about not getting a girl. She has to be a 7. Dude, I just can't 💀 Are you a 7 to a girl? Do you have big baller pockets?
/r/seduction09/09/18 03:44 PM
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-_- One of my friends complained how guys do this too soon on Tinder. Someone even asked her if she squirted. Gross and thirsty. Please don't be a dick
/r/seduction09/09/18 03:40 PM
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Because I care about men and I want to see all men succeed with women. Unless the mods of the sub says women aren't allowed to be on here, guess you'll have to suck it up with me being around 🤷 Block me if I bother you so much.
/r/seduction09/09/18 05:31 AM
1

Jesus Christ, take the initiative and set the date in stone. She put herself out there and it took guts to ask you out.
/r/seduction08/09/18 08:36 PM
3

Tell him in a nuanced way (girl here ♥) "I want you to have me tonight" "I want to be with you physically" "Make love to me tonight" If you are nervous about your body, no reason to be. No one has a perfect body and he is already sexually attracted to you so it's moot. If you want to make it special and decrease your nerves: --Wear sexy lingerie from Victoria Secret. --Wear your favourite perfume. --Twist your body like a cat on the bed so when he comes into the bedroom, he sees you lying down l…
/r/seduction08/09/18 08:30 PM
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Listen, I am not going to go back and forth on this issue. I am just one girl in a sea of many girls. On the whole, for many girls, facial attractiveness is not as important as the things I said make men attractive. Be stubborn or not on this point, it doesn't matter to me one iota. I just want the OP to realise his looks won't stop him for bagging the girls he wants. You guys literally obsess over your facial looks, meanwhile your girl is thinking ''is this guy going to kill me when I get back …
/r/seduction08/09/18 12:26 PM
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Put yourself in situations that challenge you - go out, meet people, make new friends. Don't allow the social anxiety to cripple your ability to be you. Also don't mention social anxiety when you are vibing with a girl. It's a turn off.
/r/seduction08/09/18 11:28 AM
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You sound like a douche FYI.
/r/seduction08/09/18 05:15 AM
3

Get one in the gym.
/r/seduction08/09/18 05:11 AM
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You should be using Tinder and online dating to bulk up your confidence, and approaching girls cold to compare the difference. The key issue is confidence. Yes you deserve women's attention. Yes you will get their attention eventually. Don't let religious upbringing or social anxiety be a crutch. I come from a religious background and I'm still a believer and it's never affected my ability to meet men and be with guys (I'm a girl). Don't look for excuses, start making changes to flourish. You ha…
/r/seduction08/09/18 05:10 AM
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You blokes obsess over looks as if it's the defining factor for women. It's not. You need to be attractive, and even then that's subjective Things that make men attractive - Smelling good (invest in good cologne), hygiene (be clean), good haircuts, a nice physique sculpted in the gym, financial success etc
/r/seduction08/09/18 05:05 AM
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Right now the bird probably sees it was the wrong move to invite the friend because she lost the date. The good luck comment is sharp but it's needed here, she probably won't pull a stunt like this again. She was absolutely taking the mickey. If she's interested, she will hover back within a week. If she wasn't, she won't in which case we saved the OP money and time that can be spent on other women.
/r/seduction08/09/18 04:59 AM
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I'm glad you cancelled it. She's got a lot of guts inviting a friend to a date without checking with you. I don't know any women who would do that. Good for you. Find other girls to treat to the smoking lounge.
/r/seduction08/09/18 04:51 AM
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I'm really intrigued by the views from the men here. As a girl, I'm looking at her "let me know if that's a problem" - she didn't even ask you if she could, she just announces it? Don't be afraid to cancel the date and go out with a girl who actually wants to spend time with you one on one. This shows strength and DGAF attitude more than going.
/r/seduction07/09/18 07:26 PM
1

You can be flirtatious through how you look at her and your body language. To avoid being friendzoned, don't give advice or come across too nice
/r/seduction07/09/18 06:04 PM
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Upscale is nice. Just relax, be yourself but show interest in her. Clearly she likes you over guys so don't change your behaviour. Just open up a little bit so she can see more of your personality. Shyness is really cute when it is in the right guy and sounds like she is feeling you.
/r/seduction07/09/18 06:02 PM
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What type of restaurant are you guys going to, upscale or casual? Just be yourself but be warm and friendly. Shyness in men can be really attractive as long as you aren't aloof or cold. Don't overly talk about school or work but get to know her. Standard gent stuff - hold the door open for her, pull chair out, make sure she's okay. Wear nice cologne - smell like a man she needs to be around. Bonne chance!
/r/seduction07/09/18 04:04 PM
1

You've written some good advice. I hope the op cheers up.
/r/seduction07/09/18 03:54 PM
2

the OP is going to benefit from this comment. So salient and well written.
/r/seduction07/09/18 04:31 AM
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She was interested. Your mistake here was talking about how you want to leave? She probably lost interest because of that. Living at home isn't ideal either but it's not a deal breaker. Next time don't tell a girl that you are relocating on a date. That's a pussy juice killer.
/r/seduction07/09/18 04:25 AM
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No it doesn't make me or girls who think like me look at you any different. It can be cute or endearing depending on your energy if you are nervous. Deep down, girls know it is difficult to approach them. As long as she is attracted or intrigued by you, she should respond in kind.
/r/seduction06/09/18 06:39 PM
1

Okay cool
/r/seduction06/09/18 06:29 PM
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Glad it helped you understand a bit. Honestly you approaching does matter. Yes there are some birds who will approach guys first but it is rare, not say it doesn't happen but I would be willing to put money that girls who can approach guys first are 30+, confident, secure in themselves and probably looking for sex. Put it this way, if a girl and her friends are at a bar or club and all of them are single, why would any of one of them approach a guy first when we KNOW that eventually one of you w…
/r/seduction06/09/18 06:29 PM
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Got way too comfortable with the relationship, didn't do anything to develop myself socially outside of work and being with her and meeting friends through her This is one reason why I always tell girls and boys to keep their friendship circles separate. You learned the hard way now but at least you know for the future. You didn't go into detail as to why she fell out of love with you but it is neither here nor there. I am sorry you feel hurt and down but time is the best healer. When my first b…
/r/seduction06/09/18 06:01 PM
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I can't speak for all women but I can speak for me and my friends. When I lived in London during university and after university while working, the most attractive thing about going out was knowing that if we looked long enough, eventually a guy with some guts would come along and say hello. You have to talk to us and we expect you to make the first move. No woman wants to look thirsty and desperate for dick, I don't care how many feminist articles are written on Refinery 29, no girl wants to lo…
/r/seduction06/09/18 05:48 PM
3

She could have been and probably was but it is irrelevant here. She was staring and she was probably attracted to you.
/r/seduction06/09/18 05:40 PM
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You have that stardust of being attractive to them AND being a nice guy. Good quality to have.
/r/seduction06/09/18 05:33 PM
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Please do not go and hire a whore to get the job done. Having Asperger's isn't a reason as to why you can't have sex or have a girlfriend. You need to be interesting or kind. It goes without saying you need to make an effort to meet women. Having a video game to market is irrelevant in the grand scheme of meeting women because unless she is a gamer geeky girl, we don't care.
/r/seduction06/09/18 05:15 PM
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*Facepalm* Men of r/seduction, for the love of God, PLEASE SPEAK TO US when we are staring at you. ​
/r/seduction06/09/18 05:12 PM
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I had no idea incels had taken over this sub Yikes.
/r/seduction05/09/18 08:36 PM
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Most women care about what they look like not the man. You guys think we obsess over a man's looks the way you rate us but we don't. We think, is he going to be nice to me? Is he good in bed? Can he keep it up? Is he kind or loving? Is he financially stable? And no race doesn't matter for most women who aren't bitches.
/r/seduction05/09/18 07:56 PM
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And your point is...? Yes we care about our looks. Yes we want to be sexually attractive for men we like. Yes we want to look better than the next bad bitch. No we don't really care about your looks as long as you aren't the Hunchback of Notre Dame. And yes you need to be sitting on racks. Fin.
/r/seduction05/09/18 07:45 PM
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If he looks like Malcolm X, he would be considered good looking because Malcolm was really handsome. He likes black girls right in addition to other races? Girls aren't approaching the handsome/goodlooking guy, and if they do, it's very rare and it would require some liquid courage. Looking desperate or thirsty for a guy is really not a good look for us. I don't care how good looking he is, looking pressed to catch a good looking guys attention puts the power in his hands. He's going to have to …
/r/seduction04/09/18 05:32 AM
1

Which celebrity does he look like to give a visual? I'm a girl but I'll answer this anyway for a female perspective. I've made my interest known in 2 men when I was younger. I thought they were attractive but they weren't gorgeous by everyone's standards. I'd never approach the guy who everyone said was hot and I'd never let a female friend do that. No one wants to look desperate or thirsty for dick. Good looks for men at least in the eyes of women can be handsome, cute, rugged so there are many…
/r/seduction04/09/18 04:49 AM
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Yay another female question. I'm a girl too. If you fancy them, you have to show interest. It's a natural reaction that you are tensing up a bit but you have to relax a little bit. Since in 99% of the cases, he has to approach you, just take it easy since the poor guys here have to do all of the hard work. I always feel more confident if my hair/makeup looks really good so do an upgrade there. 1-3 glances in the night is enough to show that you are interested without looking desperate. Are you i…
/r/seduction04/09/18 04:43 AM
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IMO you are reading this wrong. She doesn't want to look easy to you but she's interested or she wouldn't have invited you again. She doesn't want to kiss on the first date but probably the second one. Go out with her again.
/r/seduction03/09/18 06:10 PM
1

Yeah definitely. It really works, worked on me lol!
/r/seduction03/09/18 03:49 PM
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Do it. A guy did this to me (he worked at a bank) and I called him back and he came back to mine. It works if there is energy there
/r/seduction03/09/18 03:48 PM
1

You have to see it from our point of view. A man with a high paying job or a successful business tells (most) women the following: *I can take care of you when you are pregnant with my child *I can provide for my family **I can make my lady happy without her struggling Is money everything? No. Does it make men more attractive? 100%
/r/seduction02/09/18 08:07 AM
1

Your comment is true and salient but at the end of the day, women are also judged for how they look. It's okay for men to be judged on being providers
/r/seduction02/09/18 08:05 AM
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Glad to see female questions on here. Angle yourself on his crotch and curve/arch your back so he can get a visual and so he can put his hands on your back. If he gets a boner, stay there if you are feeling comfortable. Heck, I'd grind against it a little bit if I was feeling it.
/r/seduction01/09/18 09:17 PM
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I personally hate it. Would rather go out to eat at a restaurant (excuse to dress up) or order in (snuggle up on the sofa). Cooking together is a nightmare for me but other girls love it.
/r/seduction01/09/18 09:15 PM
2

That's very interesting concerning expats. I wonder what happens though if someone snitches on you for sex if you aren't married.
/r/seduction01/09/18 04:30 PM
2

Woaaah that link you sent. Dubai seems like fun but I think as with all things, when in Rome, do as the Romans do and use common sense.
/r/seduction01/09/18 04:29 PM
1

Thanks for explaining.
/r/seduction01/09/18 04:28 PM
2

Yemen seems fairly conservative. I'd suggest continue being friendly, smile at her but don't make a move unless you know her family is cool. Her feeling comfortable to reveal her hair to you considering that you aren't her relative is a huge, huge, step. That says she feels comfortable and relaxed towards you. We'd need to know more about your interactions to help though but it's a positive step.
/r/seduction01/09/18 12:08 PM
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I need to know what country you are in order to help. Does she wear a hijab, abaya, niqab etc? Are her parents cool or conservative? She seems comfortable around you but that can go either way.
/r/seduction01/09/18 12:02 PM
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She sounds wonderful. Be thankful for what you have. That's wifey material there. You guys don't realise what you have till its gone.
/r/seduction01/09/18 12:00 PM
1

She can make a decision to be covered or not and that's her choice to make. Do you like her? Do you care for her?
/r/seduction01/09/18 11:56 AM
2

Also super hot girls also attract dickheads and jerks.
/r/seduction01/09/18 11:45 AM
1

Mate you need to tell her to cut it out. She's being inappropriate if it's hurting your feelings. I told you this in your main thread.
/r/seduction01/09/18 08:14 AM
1

Genuine question - how can you meet girls casually there when sex outside marriage is banned?
/r/seduction31/08/18 09:26 PM
1

Is that song by Post about his ex, Ashlen? He wants the old thing back...
/r/seduction31/08/18 09:25 PM
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I've done it before and I instantly regretted it but he became my boyfriend, and we are still on and off after 5 years. It depends on your aims, I agree and yes it depends if he is hot. I remember he got me in bed by getting me to his house by offering to make me a cocktail at his place. Very slick, he definitely knew a lot about game and pick-up. Now I read this sub, I can see how smooth some men are.
/r/seduction31/08/18 04:35 PM
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What country are you from, SA? I'm from TZ. I think in the beginning the guy should pay, but as you continue to date, the girl should definitely do her bit and pay for things as well and buy gifts. I am not a feminist though so this could play a role. I am a bit old-fashioned but I've accepted that part of myself LOL. I just love men being the providers, there is something primal about that.
/r/seduction31/08/18 04:30 PM
1

LMAO Not sure why but this comment made me LOL so hard. Shove that tongue deep We do love that. ​
/r/seduction31/08/18 04:27 PM
1

Good luck, let me know how you get on
/r/seduction31/08/18 04:01 PM
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I think you are right that for the US and Europe, you are probably right. I remember dating in the UK and it was similar, the girl should be putting some skin in the game but I still think the guy should pay for the first date minimum. Re Kenya - that's very very interesting, as I am from a country that borders with Kenya but we speak the same language and have the same culture. Our culture is matriarchal but driven by male finances. It is totally normal and expected for a man to pay even for he…
/r/seduction31/08/18 03:59 PM
2

Someone coming off as materalistic and shallow isn't necessarily the truth though. Me and a lot of my friends come across kind of shallow at first because our interests are fashion, shopping and celebrity gossip. That said, once a guy gets to know me or whatever, he sees I have a broad range of interests. You don't need to date a girl exactly like you (even though I am with you on the political part). I think you should be open to online dating and be okay with going to bars, You don't need to d…
/r/seduction31/08/18 03:52 PM
2

Paying for her doesn’t mean getting laid automatically but you lose points when you don’t at least offer to pay. THIS. I am a bit more old-fashioned, I know more women don't expect the guy to pay the entire bill but like you said, it's a nice gesture just to put some skin in the game. ​
/r/seduction31/08/18 03:43 PM
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No 3 - You are right about the amounts being low, just also add don't be that dick that asks her to split the bill. Fastest way to dry up a pussy. No 8 - True but some of us don't want to look super slutty or gagging for it.
/r/seduction31/08/18 03:29 PM
1

Mate she doesn't seem interested and you are coming across too invested. Find other babes to focus on. We don't need many excuses to go on dates with men -- if she's into you, she'd want to put on a sparkly dress, makeup in order to go out. Use this energy to find other girls. She's not the only baddie where you are.
/r/seduction30/08/18 09:51 PM
2

You tell her to stop because it makes you uncomfortable.
/r/seduction30/08/18 08:57 PM
1

Very true.
/r/seduction30/08/18 08:49 PM
1

I was in Bristol and London for uni and working life and men always approached us in bars etc (our reign was 04-10). I feel like men were more confident to go out on the pull in those days to pick up girls. It was totally expected to be asked out even up until your late 20s. I think online dating has made it harder to pull girls because human social interaction has decreased so much in the flesh. Not to say it isn't possible though.
/r/seduction30/08/18 08:48 PM
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They know you are trying to pick them up and are FINE WITH IT! (If you are good at it lol) THIS. THIS. THIS. This is all women want men to understand. You summarised this so well. I need to show this to my male cousin because I keep trying to help him and he doesn't get it. We are fine and we are waiting for you guys to get the courage to pick us up, period, end of. ​
/r/seduction28/08/18 05:42 PM
1

After class ends "Hey I'm X, I noticed we have this class together for a while. Any ideas on study guides I should get to get better at it? "
/r/seduction28/08/18 12:16 PM
7

No problem. Yes of course you should post on social media in a way that is authentic to you. It's better than giving her your account that has a few pics which would then make you look like a lurker. Always post pictures that are authentic to you for sure
/r/seduction28/08/18 05:51 AM
5

You need to do the arm touching thing within context then it works. I once played around with a guy by complimenting him on his arms ("Mate you are clearly killing it in the gym") then gently brushing his forearm. I got his attention, then made nonsense chatter about how I needed fitness tips for myself to keep him talking. As a girl, add touch + talk in order to make it more organic. My next tip is a bit more aggressive for lack of a better word but I found it works. When you hug him, gently pu…
/r/seduction27/08/18 10:47 PM
1

The fact he gives you random discounts is helpful. A previous commenter said you should give him your number - I agree. It's a bold move but one that can work. If he doesn't call, it's his loss.
/r/seduction27/08/18 10:41 PM
4

Honestly the OP should just do this At least then she's initiated, put the ball in his court, if he wants to slam dunk he will.
/r/seduction27/08/18 10:38 PM
1

That's true it depends.
/r/seduction27/08/18 08:46 PM
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Sure. I'll put a disclaimer saying I'm 32 so my view is just speaking for myself not every woman but as far as I'm concerned, I normally send detailed texts if I want to sleep with the guy or if I'm interested in his personality and background. Things that pique my curiosity include personality, what he does for a living and if the guy is mysterious. I like men who keep their cards close to their chest because it gets me more interested. If the sex is good, then I'll be more interested. Even wit…
/r/seduction27/08/18 07:35 PM
1

It depends how much you are attracted to her. If you really like her, you need to play it cool and don't be too polite "Hey are you free for a drink at XYZ bar on Wednesday night" I love it when guys say where they want to take me. Shows decisiveness.
/r/seduction27/08/18 07:12 PM
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It depends if the girl is a texter or not. Some girls love getting into detail over text, others don't. I've noticed I send long, detailed texts when I really like the guy or if I'm curious about him.
/r/seduction27/08/18 07:09 PM
1

She was waiting for you to make a move. Her laughing at silly things you saying was the opportune time to lean over for a snog.
/r/seduction27/08/18 07:06 PM
1

You make it sound so easy. LOL alright I'll give it a go. Any ideas if the guy is shy?
/r/seduction27/08/18 06:36 PM
1

LOL are the most upvoted answers here seriously going to work? I'd love to seduce a guy too but don't want to look like a slut. Any measured options?
/r/seduction27/08/18 03:03 PM
5

Never thought I'd see such a pithy and accurate comment but damn this is true as fuck.
/r/seduction27/08/18 02:57 PM
2

This. Just This. It's a solid piece of advice. She sounds like she's playing games so time the OP dishes them back.
/r/seduction27/08/18 02:55 PM
2

If you talk about yourself all the time, it's going to put her to sleep
/r/seduction27/08/18 02:52 PM
1

Dude the girl in the bar totally wanted to go home with you.... She even touched your bicep. We love biceps -_-
/r/seduction27/08/18 02:51 PM
3

You just ghost him and blank him. There are many men out there who would be happy to have you. X
/r/seduction26/08/18 09:10 PM
1

Send me a PM.
/r/seduction26/08/18 08:34 PM
2

You shouldn't even be his friend if he is this close minded --signed a fellow black girl.
/r/seduction26/08/18 08:28 PM
1

I'm a girl and wow I'm impressed by how you got her. You created competition with her friend and that seemed to have sealed the deal.
/r/seduction26/08/18 07:22 PM
1

You sound like you have a bit of a colour complex. You should work on that a bit if possible
/r/seduction26/08/18 06:56 PM
2

Some girls will test you, some girls won't. Are you afraid that you won't get hard? Sounds like these are mental blocks. From a female perspective, if you seem afraid of initiating but she wants you to, she might think you aren't attracted to her. Work on mental blocks. If a woman wants to have sex with you via consenting, she will be excited to be around you and you have nothing to worry about. Edit --This sounds corny but if you smell really good and look good before undressing, this can help …
/r/seduction26/08/18 06:37 PM
1

She's not interested -- move on to the next bird.
/r/seduction26/08/18 06:31 PM
4

Straight up doesn't matter. I feel terrible even saying this but I'm not even super shallow but money makes men attractive. In an old TLC documentary about socialites, one woman complains that this guy is too short for her. Her friend replies: "When he stands on his wallet, he's 6 ft" That tells you everything.
/r/seduction26/08/18 04:19 PM
4

As a girl, I can say men who earn a lot of money or who are successful are always more attractive than men who aren't successful. Money, wealth and career success tells a woman that you are strong, a provider and that you are stable for her to raise a family with.
/r/seduction26/08/18 04:14 PM
3

She's letting you down gently and keeping you on the backburner to big up her ego :( Forget about her and move on to other girls. If she wants you now, she has to put herself out there.
/r/seduction26/08/18 04:08 PM
2

Sometimes beating around the bush wastes time. She already looks at all of your stories, what do you have to lose by aiming for what you want?
/r/seduction26/08/18 02:23 PM
2

"Hey X, how are you? Just thought I'd say hi. I'm XYZ. Would you like to meet up for a coffee on Saturday? "
/r/seduction26/08/18 01:12 PM
2

He sounds like he's fibbing a bit. Some of those vulgar come ons will be a MeToo lawsuit in a flash
/r/seduction26/08/18 08:55 AM
3

Well done. I think holding back worked and she seems keen!
/r/seduction26/08/18 08:53 AM
2

I see no lies here.
/r/seduction26/08/18 12:05 AM
1

I think it's okay to contact her on IG since you noticed she had a crush from a while back.
/r/seduction25/08/18 11:23 PM
3

You still need to do most of the chasing ultimately but you need to have an edge. Nice guys with an edge = chased Nice guys who are pushovers = not chased, messages ignored (yeah yeah generalisation but you get the drift) You have to cultivate an authentic edge so that girls don't take advantage and want to get to know you more. There is one guy from my past who had a huge crush on me. Now he's gotten an edge, he definitely pulls away then comes back. It drives me wild - I love that I have to tr…
/r/seduction25/08/18 11:20 PM
2

Now see that's interesting. Bowling could go two ways - it seems really fun and sugary sweet and it could get you the kiss or it could be too relaxed. I love the bowling idea but I lean towards going to an upscale bar where you both need to dress nicely so that can put sexy feelings in the air.
/r/seduction25/08/18 05:17 PM
2

I'd give her a second final and go for a kiss for the final time. If she doesn't bite, cut her off and move on. If you cut her off but she likes you, she will come running back
/r/seduction25/08/18 04:59 PM
1

Sounds like she's just shy to me. Don't cut her off yet. Set up another date but one that is a bit more determined. Like go to a slinky bar with a sexy dress code she needs to glam up a bit. This could help loosen her up.
/r/seduction25/08/18 04:54 PM
1

Hmm okay. Ask her out again but this time watch her body language. Do this sooner rather than later. She hasn't responded because she's gone to work. Ask her out again -- sometimes you need to feel things out. She might be a bad kisser, you both might be or she's shy.
/r/seduction25/08/18 04:44 PM
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Wait for her to look at you at least twice before you approach to avoid rejection.
/r/seduction25/08/18 04:42 PM
4

What is she saying in her texts today? No girl texts the day after if they aren't interested so that's a positive
/r/seduction25/08/18 04:40 PM
26

I once had a male guy I'd have casual sex with. We had one shared interest - we both liked reading company annual reports (I do business). When he'd come over, we would watch the business news, talk about business and their earning reports then he'd start kissing me and there you go. You need to focus on one shared interest you guys have that isn't sexual, start touching her neck or give her a massage. It will turn into fucking soon enough
/r/seduction25/08/18 04:38 PM
2

Depends what uni city you are in. When I was at uni, the guys who got a lot of babes knew how to go to different nights out and clubs in different parts of town to avoid this. Make new friends in other social circles to decrease this
/r/seduction25/08/18 04:36 PM
1

THIS
/r/seduction25/08/18 02:23 PM
3

No don't wait a couple of weeks. I'm a 32F and saw your post so felt driven to help. Wait a week, go in and do what the top commenter on this thread said and tell him to call you. That's the best way. I'm a bit more aggressive so when I am slipping the number, I'd say something like 'call me and teach me everything I need to know about pizza' but that's just me. Don't miss out on this opportunity ♥
/r/seduction25/08/18 02:23 PM
1

It's interesting you say that because movie dates help girls feel more comfortable and relaxed to be near you, without the pressure of having to talk. Drinks after the movie creates the connection. Could be different for each girl though but movie dates are old fashioned but they still work.
/r/seduction25/08/18 02:17 PM
4

I love nerdy guys as well and I love fucking them. From what I know, you need to make sure they get the signals that you are interested. Look sexy, gorgeous.
/r/seduction25/08/18 02:12 PM
2

Get a job while working on your music. A job creates discipline, opens your social circle where you can meet friends of colleagues. It's important to have a job. Men with jobs/careers are attractive.
/r/seduction25/08/18 02:10 PM
2

She is interested in you and sounds like she wants to fuck. Play it by ear and be cool.
/r/seduction25/08/18 02:07 PM
1

Awesome good luck and write an update!
/r/seduction25/08/18 02:00 PM
9

Oh okay if she invited you to her place, that changes things a bit. Here's what I would do if I was you. 1 - Send a text and invite her to the cinema to watch a film around 7pm 2 - After the cinema, ask her if she wants to get a drink where you can discuss the film etc 3 - Do not get drunk but one drink for both of you is fine 4 - Ask her if she wants to come chill at your place or if you should escort her home. Give her the option so she doesn't feel pressure 5 - If she agrees to chill at your …
/r/seduction25/08/18 11:34 AM
3

It just sounds like she is becoming more distant. 5 months, she should be able wanting to be with you every weekend but she finds excuses to be away from you? You know as a woman, I have to say I think she might not be as into you as you like her. You need some other girls on the backburner and don't show this current girl that you care so much. Have that super sexy edge that men are famous for, don't be afraid to cut her off.
/r/seduction25/08/18 11:20 AM
3

If a girl calls you cute, she may be into you. Playful teasing is definitely one way that we flirt. Sounds like a positive look to me.
/r/seduction25/08/18 11:16 AM
1

Consider going to the gym to get in shape and slim down
/r/seduction25/08/18 11:14 AM
4

She seems a bit distant although I think it's fine for her to want to travel without you.
/r/seduction25/08/18 11:13 AM
8

Mate you are calling her fat as if she doesn't have options. Maybe she's not attracted to you either
/r/seduction25/08/18 11:12 AM
2

She's not interested. Talk to other girls and don't get bogged down on her.
/r/seduction25/08/18 11:10 AM
9

You need to focus on getting her to date you first before putting the cart before the horse and get sex. Invite her to a low pressure date such as getting coffee or going to the movies. If she says yes, build rapport through dates and gauge her body language from there. Not to be rude but I don't think she's interested though.
/r/seduction25/08/18 11:08 AM
0

Contact her and ask for a cinema date. Move to a chatting app
/r/seduction24/08/18 05:57 PM
0

When are you due to see her? Move from talking from Snap to WhatsApp or Telegram to keep the flow going. Focus on her interests but don't come across too keen.
/r/seduction24/08/18 05:20 PM
7

Dude Indian men are gorgeous... Be upfront about your ethnicity. If she's not into you, that's her loss. Can't believe you would even think your ethnicity would stop you from getting girls. So many Indian/Asian guys get girls like its water. Edit - The self hating tone of your post isn't attractive at all. Love yourself!
/r/seduction22/08/18 07:05 PM
1

Being straightforward is good but also ''I don't have your number, what is it?'' then let her punch it in.
/r/seduction21/08/18 05:09 PM
1

Send her a text and ask her what she has been up to this summer. ''Hey, how are you? How did your summer go?''
/r/seduction21/08/18 05:08 PM
1

Send a text and ask her how she is doing and what she is up to. If she doesn't reply, she's not interested.
/r/seduction21/08/18 05:02 PM
3

Beautiful women don't chase men...ever.
/r/seduction21/08/18 05:01 PM
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