ChocolateMeoww Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	"Against his will: Female-on-male rape" on FRONT PAGE OF CNN Woah there, I literally just wrote a paper for my Human Reproduction class (which happens to be Bio-269) on this exact article! I didn't even see it on Reddit. Regardless, it's awesome to see something like this get some recognition.	/r/MensRights	11/10/13 02:59 PM
1	Why "Nice Guys" are often such LOSERS. You hear it all the time: "He was such a NICE Guy, and she's such a Heartless Bitch for dumping him." This article is such utter bull-crap. What's a nice-guy defined as? It leaves it up to the user to define it themselves, which is the first problem. The next problem is exacerbated by this, because they attack on the said nice-guy. I'm not hating on the article, but attacking on a certain group of people without defining them is utter BS. Think of it, it's practically saying that All nice guys are the reason that the relationship goes sour. They don't even try to make it even. It's as bad as say…	/r/seduction	03/09/13 03:19 PM
0	Strategies to get more female FRIENDS I seem to be particularly amazing at getting female friends, and incredibly inept at breaking/skipping that barrier and becoming SO's. I don't know why, but I seem to project the "best-friend" vibe, on the sense that I'm always there for them, I joke around a lot, and I like to do things that normally friends do in groups. It's hard to explain, but that's just how I am. Every girl that I've dated has said that they "want to be friends" after they break up with me or I break up with them. Some of…	/r/seduction	12/08/13 10:59 PM
8	Cosmopolitan (women's mag): How common is female on male DV? Yeah, really. If somebody found out about my medications without just asking me, I'd be pissed. Like seriously, it's not that it matters, because it's just antidepressants, and stimulants for my ADHD, but still... There's some serious WTF going on if somebody goes to some of these lengths for prospective dates.	/r/MensRights	19/07/13 05:10 PM
11	Cosmopolitan (women's mag): How common is female on male DV? What the actual fuck. If he says he went to Columbia, call the alumni office and say you’re looking to get in touch with an old classmate. If he says he works at Morgan Stanley, call the switchboard late at night and wait for his name. and Take a strand of his hair for a mail-order drug test, enter his name and Zip Code into various criminal databases, etc. finally, A third used a drug-identifier website to find out that her boyfriend was on an antidepressant—she never told him she knew but was …	/r/MensRights	19/07/13 04:13 PM
2	Cosmopolitan (women's mag): How common is female on male DV? What the...? Am I hallucinating because I haven't had my morning coffee yet? Or is it actually a woman's magazine that's being fair, equal, and reasonable? Well damn, Cosmo, you earned some major brownie points. Good on you!	/r/MensRights	19/07/13 04:00 PM
3	[FR] HB9 friendzoned me. Well, that's a wording error on my part, sorry! I meant that I really liked her, but she had a shitty and abusive boyfriend at the time.	/r/seduction	16/06/13 03:01 AM
52	[FR] HB9 friendzoned me. It works! I was friendzoned by a girl that I truly liked because she had a (shitty and abusive) boyfriend at the time. When she came over one day for a party that was at my place, I started hitting on this rather undesirable girl, and she got jealous. I'm now happily dating the girl that I was first interested, and she told me that she got so incredibly jealous at that one simple gesture.	/r/seduction	15/06/13 03:39 PM
1	Seddit, what's your best pickup/story/experience ever? Haha that's awesome! It was seriously my first one-night stand, and still is my only true one-nighter. (I've had a couple others that lead to relationships, so I don't really consider those full-blown one-night stands)	/r/seduction	14/06/13 04:31 PM
46	Seddit, what's your best pickup/story/experience ever? Well, "best" pickup ever? Jeez, it's probably the cheesiest, but it worked the best. So here's the story: I came home with a roommate one night from the bars and I was absolutely trashed. Sitting in our living room was one of my roommates, and 3 other girls. They weren't particularly attractive, I'd say a 4/10, a 5/10, and a 6/10. I quickly made a batch of soft-pretzels with my special blend of spices for when I'm drunk (ton of garlic, salt, pepper, paprika, and seasoned salt), and brought them …	/r/seduction	11/06/13 07:49 PM
23	Are men incapable of love? I need some debate points. As somebody who spent 9 months in a relationship trying to "prove" that all men are "not douchebags, sex addicts, and creeps," you're 100% correct. She'll use Confirmation Bias on anything you possibly do. She'll never be happy with a relationship until she seeks help and/or resolves this problem. It'll constantly be a losing-battle, and will only cause you stress.	/r/MensRights	19/05/13 02:21 PM
7	Are men incapable of love? I need some debate points. That's a major Red-Flag there buddy. I'm not advocating breaking up with her at this moment, but I would seriously start weighing the pros and cons of her. You see, you can't just "show her that a man could love" because she will think it's fake. The worst thing I see about this, is that she refuses to think that her father and brother love her. I'm not a psychiatrist (But I am working my way through school as a Psychopharmacology major... That's close... Right? Guys?), but I would say she has s…	/r/MensRights	19/05/13 02:16 PM
2	Tired. So fucking tired. Stop it. Right now. You aren't whining. You've been fucked so hard... Live for your daughter. She loves you unconditionally, and that's all that matters. Talk to her about how you feel, and I'm sure she'll help you out. Sometimes, when I feel down, I talk to the people who care about me, and that always helps. You're daughter is staying for the summer, and I bet she's happy to do so, otherwise she wouldn't do it. You have been fucked over so hard by woman, I can't imagine. It's hard to trust the…	/r/MensRights	16/05/13 12:28 PM
11	From a reformed feminist (even if I didn't know I was one) - I'm sorry. Thanks for the story! I don't blame you one bit for not speaking up against the women who told you her story. Some of the more out-spoken feminists can be quite rude, and even savage when it comes to their opinion. I personally would have been scared to talk about it in front of a large group of feminists. Don't be sorry about the situation, be the cure. You've been given a unique position: you are a former feminist, and you can start to talk to other women about issues like this. The problem wi…	/r/MensRights	02/05/13 03:22 PM
0	Am I the only one this has happened to? Yep, you beat me to the punch. That's my theory too. The women judges know who's piling on the bullshit and who's not. The male judges, on the other hand, don't. I actually was pleasantly surprised when I found out that the judge was practically on my side. I respect the crap out of that judge, because she knew that my ex was bullshitting everything. You could see it on her face. The look on her face when the charges were dropped, was just explainable. It looked like she knew that it was bullshi…	/r/MensRights	02/05/13 01:42 PM
40	Am I the only one this has happened to? It's incredible how much police, and other government officials believe the women over men. I personally was psychologically and physically abused by a women, and when I told her I had enough, the she called the police. They cornered me and arrested me on her word alone. I had never hit her, either. Thankfully, I got the charges dropped based on the fact that she had sent me numerous messages saying she had wanted to kill me, and had "so much anger built up." With that being said, I had a female…	/r/MensRights	01/05/13 01:01 PM
2	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/26/13 (please upvote - zero karma) Thanks for the birthday wish! And I guess it makes sense. The problem I have, is that the girls who actually want to talk to me, are the girls that I don't think are that attractive. The girls that I find attractive tend to stay away from me, it feels like. Being a girl, how would you go about this? I can't for the life of me keep conversations up unless I'm the one who's doing the talking. I really want to be able to get the girls to talk about themselves, but I never can seem to do that. I can…	/r/seduction	28/04/13 06:03 PM
1	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/26/13 (please upvote - zero karma) How do you build curiosity? I have no idea, and I know I need to do it, but every time I start talking to a girl, I pretty much divulge everything about me right away, and I feel like that hurts me. People say I have good looks, but I don't really think I do, which hurts me in that department. Thanks for the birthday wish!	/r/seduction	28/04/13 06:00 PM
1	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/26/13 (please upvote - zero karma) Kadie told me to ask Carly to prom This is your indication that Kadie already approves of you. Especially since you described her as super protective of Carly. A protective girl doesn't just tell a guy to ask her best friend to prom. If you play it cool, you'll have Carly in the bag. What you really need to do, is to keep Kadie on your side. She is the key in the whole situation. You piss her off, and it's over. You impress her, and she'll help you out in ways unimaginable. Keep in mind, that Ca…	/r/seduction	27/04/13 01:35 PM
2	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/26/13 (please upvote - zero karma) I'm a little late to the game, but I have an honest question: How do you tell if a girl is interested in you? Like legitimately interested? I struggle so hard with this. If I feel that she may be interested, I always discount myself and just tell myself that she's just being nice, or something similar. I've read plenty of things that tell you what to look for, but I can never see that actually happening. If I catch girls looking at me, I try the yawning trick, but that never works, which just fu…	/r/seduction	27/04/13 01:26 PM
1	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/26/13 (please upvote - zero karma) Exactly! I still struggle with being rejected, but I certainly feel that being rejected is way better than never knowing and obsessing about what may or may not happen if you ask the person out. When you're rejected, it's like a weight is lifted off of you. You finally know what's up, and can move on. You will never hit the target if you never pull the trigger, but you can always reload another round into the chamber and fire again!	/r/seduction	27/04/13 01:18 PM
6	Success story, albeit minor, from a longtime lurker. Sadly, she'll probably get shut down by the overwhelming amount of women who are extreme feminists in politics. I know way more women who are attempting to go into politics who are said extremists, than I know who are even just level-headed... Actually, come to think about it, I know zero women who are going into politics that aren't of the extremist flavor.	/r/MensRights	18/04/13 07:08 PM
20	Success story, albeit minor, from a longtime lurker. I've found that there are quite a few women like this, you just have to actually talk about the situation to get them to talk about it, since (it appears) they don't like to talk about it because the other women who happen to be the extremist feminists shun them and shut them down. Whenever I open up to a women because of my past problems (false accusations of domestic violence against me, even though the women at the time had been the abuser), they tend to be sympathetic, and "the good ones" wi…	/r/MensRights	18/04/13 07:06 PM
1	Women Who Batter Their Partners - Hit Like A Girl: Since 1977, multiple large scale international studies have demonstrated the women can and do beat, batter and murder their male and female intimate He gave her an antipsychotic??? Woah dude, I hope he didn't give her anything else, because if he gave her something that agonizes or antagonizes a neurotransmitter like Serotonin, or dopamine, then it would've caused some serious complications. This would include weed too, because CBD works on a serotonin receptor... damn dude, the guys the epitome of a stupid drug-dealer. I feel you with the rejection too, because I was always "the guy who understood her the most" and such. That's how she actu…	/r/MensRights	15/04/13 04:08 PM
1	Women Who Batter Their Partners - Hit Like A Girl: Since 1977, multiple large scale international studies have demonstrated the women can and do beat, batter and murder their male and female intimate Jeez... Drug problems even. I didn't have that, actually quite the opposite. She called me a pussy for being on antidepressants as a matter of fact. I occasionally smoked weed with friends, but she absolutely forced me to quit it or she would "leave me." Drugs can be nasty and all, but enjoying it in moderation and not letting it ever take over your life (IE, not being stoned every day...) is not a problem at all. She, however, had problems. Why would you take sleeping pill if all you had knowle…	/r/MensRights	15/04/13 05:10 AM
1	Women Who Batter Their Partners - Hit Like A Girl: Since 1977, multiple large scale international studies have demonstrated the women can and do beat, batter and murder their male and female intimate OH. MY. GOD. I got slapped ALL THE TIME because I was "inattentive." Well shit, I have ADHD, thanks for clarifying that I have it, because I don't think I did. She wouldn't take my money, per se, but would always expect me to pay for meals and shit. I was happy to pay the bulk of it, but it wore on me because I she just simply never asked to pay or even showed objection like a decent human being would. I also worked in a workplace where I would get hit, and so did she (we worked for a company th…	/r/MensRights	15/04/13 04:39 AM
1	Women Who Batter Their Partners - Hit Like A Girl: Since 1977, multiple large scale international studies have demonstrated the women can and do beat, batter and murder their male and female intimate Man, I know... Just... Wow... the similarities. I too, tried to hide the wrong that my ex did to me. I tried to make her look good so she would be happy. She would always ask me if my parents hated her, and I would always be like "nahhh, they love you!" because I never did tell them... They always wondered why she would break up with me and then come back to me a few days/weeks later. It's just crazy. I always would actually tell them that it's my fault, because she would tell me that it would b…	/r/MensRights	14/04/13 08:40 PM
1	Women Who Batter Their Partners - Hit Like A Girl: Since 1977, multiple large scale international studies have demonstrated the women can and do beat, batter and murder their male and female intimate No problem. You have the choice, you alone do, to either take this as a huge-negative, or a huge positive in life. I almost took the first choice, and I'm glad that I didn't. There is so much out there for men like us, who have been damaged, but are not who we think we are. We are strong. You are down the right path, though, and I'm happy for you. I'm glad that you're choosing to remain single, because that's what's best. You need to heal, and to be who you always were meant to be. You. That's w…	/r/MensRights	14/04/13 08:11 PM
1	Women Who Batter Their Partners - Hit Like A Girl: Since 1977, multiple large scale international studies have demonstrated the women can and do beat, batter and murder their male and female intimate Man, oh man... I don't know where to begin. Thanks for sharing this to me. I thought my stay was hell... I'm truly sorry that you had to go through this, and I can begin to understand, but I can't pretend that I fully do. I wish I could. This is hell, and I hope you get an attorney. I know that logic is so incredibly overused on Reddit, but it's the most necessary thing in this world of shitty judicial processes. It's not so much the legal advice, as it is the fact that they have the ins and the…	/r/MensRights	14/04/13 07:45 PM
3	Women Who Batter Their Partners - Hit Like A Girl: Since 1977, multiple large scale international studies have demonstrated the women can and do beat, batter and murder their male and female intimate As a matter of fact, they did. I heard the women's resources women talking to my ex-SO afterwards, apologizing for "letting this scum get away with his crime"...	/r/MensRights	14/04/13 06:21 PM
1	Women Who Batter Their Partners - Hit Like A Girl: Since 1977, multiple large scale international studies have demonstrated the women can and do beat, batter and murder their male and female intimate Yep, as a matter of fact, the prosecutor talked to my lawyer and I about it after it was all said and done, and said that the police force now is aware that they must have solid evidence to proceed. He told them to do what's right in the end, but not to arrest unless said solid evidence is procured beforehand.	/r/MensRights	14/04/13 06:19 PM
1	Women Who Batter Their Partners - Hit Like A Girl: Since 1977, multiple large scale international studies have demonstrated the women can and do beat, batter and murder their male and female intimate Yep! I learned that very fast from friends and roommates friends that I'm not the only one. That I'm not the "damaged" and "abusive" person that I was lead to believe for a whole year while I was in this relationship. I'm glad that both of us are now free from their tyranny :)	/r/MensRights	14/04/13 06:17 PM
2	Women Who Batter Their Partners - Hit Like A Girl: Since 1977, multiple large scale international studies have demonstrated the women can and do beat, batter and murder their male and female intimate I was in jail for one night. Never do I want to go back. It's always cool hearing jail stories, would you mind sharing yours? I'll share mine first to get the ball rolling: First off, it was by far the worst experience of my life. As a matter of fact, the one time I attempted suicide was half an hour after I was released on signature bond. I got into jail, and was hoping to just everything out there that the stories were all fake. That I wouldn't get raped our anything. Well, 20 minutes after I …	/r/MensRights	14/04/13 06:14 PM
2	Women Who Batter Their Partners - Hit Like A Girl: Since 1977, multiple large scale international studies have demonstrated the women can and do beat, batter and murder their male and female intimate Thanks for the sympathies, man! Things are incredible right now for me, and I've never felt better. I've met amazing people who have went through the same thing, and the general consensus is that yes, there are people like this out there, but there are also amazing people who care about me. She went right into a relationship with the guy who first gave her attention afterwards, and not once have I felt jealous, or anything like that. I just think about how much it's going to suck for that guy.	/r/MensRights	14/04/13 06:03 PM
1	Women Who Batter Their Partners - Hit Like A Girl: Since 1977, multiple large scale international studies have demonstrated the women can and do beat, batter and murder their male and female intimate Sadly, you're right. Sometimes, I do wish I would've hit her back. She certainly deserves much worse than that, but that's just not me. I shudder at the thought of harming somebody I care about, even if it's in defense, or if she may or may not deserve it.	/r/MensRights	14/04/13 06:01 PM
1	Women Who Batter Their Partners - Hit Like A Girl: Since 1977, multiple large scale international studies have demonstrated the women can and do beat, batter and murder their male and female intimate Not once did that actually cross my mind during it all. I've thought extensively about it, and if I was still with her, who knows. However, this whole situation has given me a unique thought process on this now. When the right girl comes into my life, which I know will happen sometime, even if it's many years from now, that I will never let either of us be in that situation. I still stand firmly that I will never hit people. I may hit somebody in defense, but never will I hit somebody who I deep…	/r/MensRights	14/04/13 06:00 PM
2	Women Who Batter Their Partners - Hit Like A Girl: Since 1977, multiple large scale international studies have demonstrated the women can and do beat, batter and murder their male and female intimate I see that a comment was removed, but I meant 60 lbs heavier and 4 inches taller! I was about 200 lbs and am still 6'0" (I hope I'm at least that tall still!), and she's about 140 lbs and 5'8" maybe even a little less.	/r/MensRights	14/04/13 05:58 PM
1	Alpha male mindset: Conveying high status and high value through your actions Okay, yes, this is two days old, but I wanted to say that this post actually did something for me. It worked. A little short backstory: I've been abused by an ex, and I always had a mindset and ended up talking about it when I ran into girls. Yes, it's horrible for game, but I suffer from PTSD because of it. Anyways, I said "screw it" to myself and not once did I mention it. I went total alpha because I didn't know the girl and she was just visiting her friends from a different college. So I pla…	/r/seduction	14/04/13 05:50 PM
12	How a seemingly average night out turned to accusations of "mansplaining" and concerns over my career. Absolutely. I've been screwed over by women thinking this same exact thought. They don't care at all about how the male is destroyed. They actually want to destroy them as much as possible. It's crazy. They don't stop and think for a second that maybe they are making the problem worse. That they are destroying men, and not truly going for equality. It's a disgusting world that we live in now...	/r/MensRights	14/04/13 05:20 PM
154	Women Who Batter Their Partners - Hit Like A Girl: Since 1977, multiple large scale international studies have demonstrated the women can and do beat, batter and murder their male and female intimate 100% true. I'm actually a victim of this statistic. I was hit, slapped, and abused psychologically by a former SO. The shitty thing? Her friends would tell me to "man up and stop being a pussy." Those friends claimed to by feminists. I should clarify something: I'm 60 lbs and 4" taller than her, and I'm athletically built. I could have beat her within an inch of her life, but I didn't. As a matter of fact, not once did I ever hit her. The only thing I ever did was grab her wrists to push her awa…	/r/MensRights	13/04/13 05:15 PM
21	Jezebel article where it states that the majority of one sided violence between couples is by women (70%) and its editors laugh and boast about the abuse they perpetrated against their boyfriends, inc The stupid thing? I was physically and mentally abused by my ex, and when I told her I didn't want to ever talk to her again, she called the police on me. I never hit her for this reason right here. I sat there taking a beating because I didn't want to go to jail ever. Well, I still did. Thankfully, it was incredibly obvious that she was the perpetrator in this case, and the charges were dropped. It kinda helps that she DID send me messages on Facebook saying she "wanted to kill me" and had "so …	/r/MensRights	06/04/13 03:01 PM
50	A link to youtube comment that highlights double standard of borderline sexual abuse of a 6 year old boy is met with reddits top comment: Essentially "Yea but he likes it." Absolutely. I don't see how anyone could see that this is right. Women's rights activists or Men's rights activists. Seriously, it's objectifying women. Now, a bunch of men flopping their dick at a 6 year old girl would obviously be pedophilia, but why isn't this? It's just wrong in general. Everything about it. This kid isn't a player but is just some kid. Seriously, any kid shouldn't be subjected to sexual abuse of this magnitude at such a young age.	/r/MensRights	03/04/13 02:12 PM
1	Should people who make false rape allegations be required to register as sex offenders? I don't support the offender registry, but I imagine that it's so people know who they are living by. Murderers get enough publicity as it is, at least in my small town. If somebody is murdered, it's big shit in the news. I don't read the news, though, so I'm shit out of luck. However, anybody can contact the agencies that do the background checks and pay for a background check. They don't get the specifics, but from what I understand, they get any convictions that could exclude them from employ…	/r/MensRights	01/04/13 03:01 PM
4	Should people who make false rape allegations be required to register as sex offenders? Background checks usually are required by the employers for those professions. I would imagine a sexual act against a minor would be grounds for not hiring somebody!	/r/MensRights	01/04/13 02:46 PM
52	This sub spends too much time complaining about feminism and not enough time pushing forward men's rights and changes in the treatment of men. Well, let's be honest here, who's the reason we have a women's resources center at the courthouse, and not a men's resources? They literally give lawyers to women who are in domestic abuse cases, regardless if they are the one charged with it or not. Men don't get that right. When I was charged with domestic assault because my girlfriend didn't like that I said I didn't ever want to talk to her again after she beat me up, and lied to the police, the Women's resources put up a nice big sign on th…	/r/MensRights	31/03/13 09:04 PM
29	Why SRS became a Feminist sanctuary Well put. The way I view SRS, is that they are my ex and her friend group: They say they aren't a hate group, but behind our back they drop every shit-talking line in the book. They say they hate drama, but they crave it and create it when it's missing. They say they are fair and not biased, yet anything that's remotely different from their opinion gets downvoted to hell. They are a downvote brigade.	/r/MensRights	31/03/13 02:49 PM
3	What the f*** just happened? You sir, are an amazing individual. Props to you!	/r/seduction	21/01/12 11:11 PM