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Nope, spark is that feeling of wanting to do all the things with that person. It's a very real thing that even men feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 10:15 PM
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"if you have to communicate the most basic things, it gets annoying and you probably aren't compatible to start with". Such as? I don't think the examples you used are considered basic (moving in together, joint finances, chores, etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 10:13 PM
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Rich Cooper will say a man can love his wife and still step out from time to time and have sex with other women, then come home to love his wife and kids. Cheapy cheater who will likely have challenging relationships with his kids when they are adults. Rich Cooper will tell you that women who sleep around are used goods and not to be taken seriously Hilarious coming from a cowardly cheater. Telling us (and I agree) that high body count women are disgusting. Cheaters are disgusting. Can't take an…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 10:12 PM
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Because you generally know pretty quickly if you want to spend more time with that person or not. It doesn't take months or even weeks to determine if you want to spend more time with someone. It might take more than a single 1-2 hour date. So maybe 2 dates, maybe 3 if the context calls.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 10:02 PM
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Not really. Women just aren't interested in wasting time, hoping that a feeling that isn't there grows.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 09:58 PM
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You're not really proving your point either. Good luck, kid!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 09:24 PM
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You can't see my walk or hear me talk or even see that I'm a duck. So your test isn't very accurate now, is it? 🦆
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 09:20 PM
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Yes, I think I'll trust my own feelings over that a strange man who thinks he knows my feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 09:15 PM
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Honestly though, how hard is to buy a card on a national fucking holiday. 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 09:13 PM
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I would just think they are gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 09:09 PM
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I never suggested it was creepy to want a grandkid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:58 PM
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I don't think that any of this is accurate. There's a huge gap between 0-1 and 30+.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:57 PM
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Who is angry? I'm not angry. I'm vibing watching a movie and wondering why comprehension is such a struggle around these parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:56 PM
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He doesn't have soap and water on hand? He's got a brand new couch but no soap and water?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:53 PM
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Lol. Nope. Still incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:51 PM
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Idk depends. There's no hard and fast rules. But generally, you'll know if you want to see them again or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:50 PM
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Well, I wouldn't immediately leave. I'd ask for hydrogen perioxde to pull out the blood stain. And then I'd leave. Immediately leaving without letting know is fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:49 PM
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Are they? Can't say I've seen that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:45 PM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:44 PM
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It's not really a competition. But there's nothing appealing about multiple men wanting to fuck you because you have a vagina. There's nothing appealing at men sending dick pics, calling you names because you won't send nudes or have sex on the first date. There's nothing appealing at being rejected because you don't send nudes, have sex on the first date, etc. ghosting/rejection after a date because "he didn't make me feel that initial spark". Good. Don't waste the time of people who you aren't…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:41 PM
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Ew. I don't eat fast food. Fast food is good in a pinch, but it's not quality or something someone should eat daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:37 PM
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Where did I say that I'm going to hop on Bumble? I'm getting concerned at the lack of reading comprehension in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:35 PM
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Dating apps suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:33 PM
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Well, they've had to change strategies lot over the last decade. All the tiered paid levels, etc. Sadly, there will always be someone desperate enough to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:28 PM
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It's not empathy, though. It's an obsession.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:18 PM
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How is he not my equivalent? Only date up? Well, he is taller than me, so I suppose I did date up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:14 PM
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Those Bumble billboards are fucking atrocious. "You know full well" is such a condescending statement. The idea that women don't know what they want and need to be told by a dating app is so 1830s. Good job Bumble, way to speed up your bankruptcy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:09 PM
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Many experiences have been shared over brunch, lunch, dinners, sleepovers, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:06 PM
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My husband isn't an incel.... So this doesn't really make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:51 PM
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Women would stop having sex and children. More women would get surgically sterilized.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:23 PM
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Women would stop having sex and children. More women would get surgically sterilized.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:23 PM
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Nope. It's seen as leading and being assertive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:22 PM
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Always send a follow up text. It's what leaders do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:17 PM
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Yup, I see messages all the time and still take 4+ hours to respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:04 PM
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Ooh, that's weird and creepy. I hope your husband tells his mom to stfu. Politely, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:03 PM
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4 hours? Chill. People work, sleep, and have shit to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:02 PM
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Yes, let's check again in 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:55 PM
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What are you referring to? I'm one woman, and I didn't say that at all. I swear this sub is reading challenged.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:53 PM
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And my point is that most people will still end up married.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:52 PM
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Yes, so high 60s is still most.....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:48 PM
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I think true love still exists for many, if not most. Familial love isn't true love.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:33 PM
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Lol. Okey dokey.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:30 PM
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Some boys on the small corners of the internet are. Most men still end up married.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:29 PM
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Yes, it's a made-up fear spread by charlatans, aka unmarried men with podcasts. It also seems to come from the boys who don't see women are people and thus they don't deserve anything in a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:23 PM
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Yes. Exactly. Never called you are charlatan. I said that charlatans are spreading lies, myths, and conjectures.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:21 PM
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I never suggested you were
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:07 PM
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Yup, absolutely made-up nonsense spread by charlatans.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 05:38 PM
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Umm....okay. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 05:37 PM
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This is made up nonsense reveal how fickle, unreliable, selfish and entitled women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 05:36 PM
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I didn't suggest that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 05:27 PM
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Totes a ring is just a ring. Props to you for knowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 05:27 PM
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Yes, if we're gonna base humans on mammals. Mammals don't choose a defective mate. If the manosphere doesn't want this, than stop basing humans down to just mammals.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 05:26 PM
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Neither of those sound like appealing options. I just like to own a basic 2/3 bedroom home in the city I live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 05:20 PM
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Literally, nobody said anything about "sexually unsuccessful." Who are you quoting? It certainly wasn't me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 05:19 PM
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I'm a childfree and don't feel like I relate to mothers. That's the whole point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 05:10 PM
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The intention is what matters. If it's a ring pop because he's lazy and doing a shut up ring, it's definitely a gross ick and break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 05:04 PM
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Yes, most mammals don't choose the defective male (or female). Humans aren't an exception. What's "alpha" is subjective based on a variety of factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 05:02 PM
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Yes, we do want men to develop networks. Please have friends. “happy wife happy life” Gross sentiment. Happy spouse, happy house is much better. Implies that both spouses need to be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:49 PM
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I told my husband it was an option because we planned to design the real ring together. I said a ring pop, his high school ring, or even a ring made out of a $1 bill. All depends on the context and the couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:46 PM
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They've got objectivity. 😆😆
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:30 PM
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Ooh yes. The idea that someone must have sex every single day.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:27 PM
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No. My previous LTRs ended because we wanted different things. All 5 or so of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:15 PM
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I'll always find a problem with a 20 year ago gap. Been there done that, well 17 year age difference. It wasn't horrible but I wouldn't recommend it. If someone wants the experience, go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:14 PM
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Yes, it cracks me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:13 PM
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Not seeing any reactions mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:12 PM
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Nope, men complain about the age gap here far more than women. I wasn't talking about Tiktok. I was talking about single virgins obsession with divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:11 PM
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Except it's an assumption, not a conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:09 PM
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ACAB.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:08 PM
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Love this exercise in what aboutism.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:07 PM
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Can't say that I've seen women complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:05 PM
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Right? Who wants to be married to someone who thinks that about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:05 PM
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More made-up nonsense. Fear is peddled by these charlatans.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:04 PM
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How do single virgins relate to married men?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:03 PM
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This makes so much sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:00 PM
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Well, if you can bring actual conclusions and not made up conjecture I might be able to respond with more.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:59 PM
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Is a human male upset? Where are these upset men?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:58 PM
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Why are single men so upset by the divorces of other men? We hear more single men complaining about divorce than married men. The charlatans really put fear into thees poor, unfortunate souls.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:10 PM
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There's no argument because you didn't bring anything of value to argue. You've destroyed nothing. There was no debate. The debate stopped when you made up nonsense. Good luck, kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:09 PM
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And people wonder why women are staying single. due to their lack of ability to achieve independent thought 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:07 PM
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Again, all that says is FILE. Your conclusions aren't in the data either. Your argument is null. There's nothing to counter because it is made up shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:06 PM
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That's a wild ass conclusions to come based on no further detail than "women file more". These are all assumptions being made.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:01 PM
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I don't understand the point of caring so much about a stranger's divorce. If some dude gets divorced, why do you care? That dude isn't complaining, so why are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:55 PM
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Okay, but why do you care about the stat? Are you going to share what you think the stat says about women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:54 PM
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Yes, they change and go through rebrands to align with pop culture. It moved to RP and BP after The Matrix. Prior to that, it was PUA, players, etc. We'll see another rebrand here soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:53 PM
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Yup. What's your reasoning? Are you ever going to share why you're so upset about someone else's divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:51 PM
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It says that women get shit done. 🙄 Again, why are you upset about someone else's divorce? Why aren't these divorced guys whining and complaining? We never hear them complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:48 PM
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Emotions are reality. This post just reads like someone upset that they can't express their feelings or that their feelings aren't validated. Men need to validate other men's feelings. Women can't do it for y'all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:46 PM
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Honestly, y'all seem far more upset any divorce than the dudes being divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:43 PM
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We repeat patterns from childhood. Sometimes, they're good patterns to repeat, sometimes they're not. We repeat these patterns in our romantic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:42 PM
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Why are women filing 80% of divorces? Because someone needs to file the paperwork. the lesbian divorce rate 75%. Cool for them. Most women hate monogamy Can't say I've seen that as the truth. They don’t want to work anything out either, once they decide it’s all man’s fault More made-up nonsense. but women are much more physically violent because they usually face no consequences. Women just punch you and hit you with stuff they don’t care. More made-up up nonsense. Women cheat lot more because …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:40 PM
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Will do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:51 AM
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No, I don't have to admit that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:41 AM
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It made waves in 2015. Same manner as now. A song about masturbation is, in fact, glorification.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:40 AM
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So, still different contexts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:38 AM
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Precisely. Not all. If you choose to see everything as performative, that's fine. I saw it as a genuine statement. I see it shared by other husbands around me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:37 AM
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Who is they?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:23 AM
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Buzzfeed has 40 and this is from 2011. Dozens of those songs are well known. https://www.buzzfeed.com/gavon/40-masturbation-songs Male equivalent of Billie Eilish? In what context? Talking about masturbation in an article? Daniel Radcliffe .
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:23 AM
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Sure, I agree that sex is very important. I don't agree that a man saying his wife is the most beautiful woman in the world, to him, is performative. I also don't agree that watching porn every day is particularly normal or healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:19 AM
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Doubt it. Pardon me for not buying into every man is some sex crazed beast always on the hunt for younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:54 AM
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There's no biological factors, it's all society. Women's sexuality has been reduced to an extension of male sexuality. The concept of a woman finding pleasure, alone without a man, is incredibly taboo. There's dozens of songs about masturbation. Some by and about women. But those were and are still considered taboo. Showing a woman masturbating in media is still seen as breaking barriers. It's changing slowly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:53 AM
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Why is it performative? Some average dad can't find his wife, the most beautiful woman in the world. His life partner, mother of his children, is performative for this man to feel that way? Idk. I think I'll defer to what I see in the husbands around me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:45 AM
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Nobody is expecting you to do anything about her fears. Unless you're bothering her and actively making her feel unsafe. If you're just both in the same grocery store aisle, nobody is expecting you to do anything. She'll move to another aisle if she feels that unsafe. I can't really think of a scenario when someone is being passive and a woman is expecting him to do something to soothe her fears.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:43 AM
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I agree. It's much more about intentions than experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:23 AM
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Very different contexts. Feeling safe is as simple as others keeping their hands to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:21 AM
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Just saw the sweetest Tiktok of a husband telling his wife she's the most beautiful woman in the world. This is why I love that app. Seeing all kinds of happy + loving couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:45 AM
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Couldn't agree much. I prefer debating with people who can be objective.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:41 AM
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Oh yes....that's a good point. They really..uh get in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:36 AM
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They do suck but treat yourself afterward.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:25 AM
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Yes. It's always good to get things checked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:21 AM
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Yes, I refuse to answer your hypothetical that objectively has nothing to do with the original hypothetical. You caught me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:20 AM
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Objectively, this is a different question than the hypothetical. I hope that, objectively, you can see the difference in your hypothetical and the OG hypothetical.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:15 AM
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Okay, did that....very briefly and found 1 comment that mentions "bored", but really it sounds like they aren't compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 01:38 AM
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It's the internet. People overshare all the time. If it was so common, you'd think we'd see posts a lot more.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 01:26 AM
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It's hard to argue with wild ass scenarios and made up fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 01:19 AM
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Objectivity is objective. The reasonable answer is that you can't be objective about the female experience with men because you aren't a woman. Thus, your frame of objectivity isn't truly objective. You can apply the objectivity of other women who don't agree with other women, but that still doesn't make you an authority on objectivity or the objectivity of other's objectives. Objectivity can't be an authority because it's limited to our individual perspectives. It's not an agreed upon authority…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 01:19 AM
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People are leaving relationships because they got bored Where are these people? Why is there never any posts from these people? because they "explored their sexuality" and decided that it's incompatible with their family status Good for them. Sexual compatibility is important. hell, people are leaving relationships for the sake of career opportunities Sucks but good for them. EXCEPT when I decide that it's not okay Oh they can leave. It's bullshit to leave someone because they are sick. But yes,…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 01:08 AM
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Well, now you're bringing different stats. Had you shared those the first time, my response would have been different. I'm still not seeing the issue. Why does women being vocal about their own lives bother you? What do you want women to do? Stay in abusive relationships? The one you described is abusive. Why would anyone want to stay in that relationship? People aren't leaving happy, healthy, and love filled relationships. Eta - re the cancer study. It's bullshit to leave someone when they get …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:14 AM
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I don't believe women actively choose to do a thing or are doing a thing simply because they are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:46 PM
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Yes, I shared the worst part from my perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:40 PM
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No. This just isn't true. Nobody cares about men unless that man provides tangible value Men can care about men. I care about the men I personally know.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:39 PM
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I don't need to justify my choices. If I choose to divorce, it would be because the situation is toxic and unbearable. If someone wants to divorce because their husband is "rough around the edges" and abusive, they've got my support. I'm not responsible for my father. I can't abandon an adult. Women initiating the majority of divorces is not "just paperwork". Except it literally is. It's literally filing the paperwork to start divorce proceedings. If someone wants to leave, let them. Why force s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:36 PM
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Lol. The concept that women don't feel pain as deeply as men is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:31 PM
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No. Trends aren't just related to fashion. I don't really think of qualities or characteristics based on gender. Humans have qualities and characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:29 PM
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It's unreasonable to you. So, you questioning their critical thinking becomes unreasonable. Because you're not the authority to determine if they are unreasonable or not. Their answers are just different than yours. Which is perfectly reasonable. "Poor women"? Why is that necessary. Just say you don't agree and move on. Why do you need to insult people you don't agree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:28 PM
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It isn't a quality exactly. Maybe a trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:56 PM
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I don't think so....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:56 PM
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It's more lack of interest or aversion. And used for silly trival things like soy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:55 PM
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Men are entitled to safety. Everyone is entitled to safety. A romantic relationship requires two people. You're not entitled to someone else's hands, lips, heart, etc. Everyone is entitled to safety. It sucks not feeling safe. You should feel safe. Nobody is entitled to someone else's hands to hold or lips to kiss or love to give. It a choice two people make together for each other and themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:50 PM
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It sounds like silly 18 year olds to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:46 PM
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Worst thing? "He's not your type, he's your pattern".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:45 PM
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Okay, and? They think dating their friends is "ick." I'm not seeing the issue. Why be upset about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:43 PM
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Immature people date all the time. Unfortunately, there's no certification before dating. Just move on. Acknowledge their immaturity and move on. Why dwell on it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:42 PM
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Do you expect every woman to be attracted to every male that is attracted to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:37 PM
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If they want to. I don't recommend it, unless you know them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:32 PM
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Oh I'm so thankful that guys want to fuck me simply because I have a vagina. I'm so grateful I'm pretty so that men feel entitled to my body or my time. So much to be grateful for, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:31 PM
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What's sad about it? Sounds like 18 year olds are being 18 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:29 PM
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Buddy guy, you aren't the authority on what is or isn't reasonable when it comes to hypothetical scenarios. My point is, that it's silly to say someone doesn't have critical thinking because they choose different than you might. Someone choose differently than you, big whoop. It's weird how many men are acting like they are the authority on people's choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:11 PM
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Oral sex. Knowing where the clit is. Prioritizing her pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:06 PM
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Objectively however, I cannot fathom a single reason why anyone alone the woods would be safer with a bear. That's fine if you can't. Surely we agree here No, we don't agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 09:58 PM
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It does. Attraction morphs and changes over the course of a relationship. Chemistry keeps that attraction thriving.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 06:35 PM
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Chemistry is a real thing. Chemistry is what keeps us laughing and sharing, and attraction builds off.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 06:21 PM
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Idk never paid attention. It ebbs and flows. Nobody keeps track.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:20 PM
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Good riddance. Agree. Block him. 🚫
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:15 PM
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😆😆 those are the best nights!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 04:56 PM
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Critical thinking is there. It's just that some boys don't agree with how they arrived at the conclusion. It's okay to not agree. It's disingenuous to call it a lack of something because you don't agree with the choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 04:09 PM
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Was this the free night at the club?! Glad you had a good time. Grass touching always has surprises in store. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 03:54 PM
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Well, without a smile and wild ass hair, I'm choosing the bear. A smile and some tamed hair go a long way. Nobody cares about our preconceived flaws as much as we do. Meaning, a smile will always look better than a scowl/frown.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 03:51 PM
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My husband and I were joking this morning how we wouldn't have picked each other in our 20s, had we known each other then. He was too much of a skater boi for my tastes. And I was too much of a nerd for his tastes. I'm glad we both grew up a bit, and our tastes changed, + our personalities developed more.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 03:48 PM
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Thoughts.... Great curls, use some products or better manage the roots. Beautiful eyes. Why are you taking pictures in the bathroom? If this photo is being used somewhere, maybe smile.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 03:42 PM
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Same, we split based on income. Whoever is earning more at the moment pays more. 60/40 usually. Household upkeep is more 50/50. He does the majority of cooking. And then we just do whatever needs to be done around the house. No nagging required.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 03:40 PM
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The men I've dated have always insisted on paying. I guess those men are all entitled. I'm so glad I've married my entitled husband. He treats me like a queen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 03:13 PM
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It's definitely you (general you). I've always lived in large cities and never had pointless dates. If someone is struggling with dating, it's them. Their location might be second.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 03:10 PM
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Most people would assume "relationships". Meaning you can have 1 or 2 or more relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:07 AM
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I wasn't alluding to hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:04 AM
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I didn't suggest at once. Assumptions are pretty degenerate. I don't imagine my husband having sex with other people. That's weird. Why would I do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:01 AM
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I encourage having sex with people you love. And you can love a few people before you marry. Or you love one and marry one. There's no "right" way. Do whatever works for you and let others do what works for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 04:56 AM
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Nope. Can't say I've seen that in real-life. Evolving and changing discovering more than you ever thought possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 04:54 AM
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At work to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 04:53 AM
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What the heck is free babysitting?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 04:53 AM
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No, like the supposed friend Bill, that you mentioned who is a so-called beta. The avoiding of it just highlights how it doesn't exist. It's just a grift repackaged and resold by charlatans. White male late 40s to mid 50s, 5'9 to 5'10", balding, heavyset 235 to 250 lbs, wearing camo cargo shorts, t-shirt with a (stupid) logo, and a baseball cap. So an average 40-50 year old white male is a beta?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 04:52 AM
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Online dating isn't the gym. Almost like different contexts call for different situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 04:49 AM
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That doesn't sound like the beta described here. The beta described here is married to someone who isn't attracted to them and takes all his money. They are unable to say no and would let a strong-willed woman walk all over them. What does this look like in their lives? I would have no problem dominating an aggressive woman but it wouldn't be an enjoyable relationship for me What does this even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 04:43 AM
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Cool. Enjoy and carry on. 👻
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 02:28 AM
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I don't consider him an old man. Idk who he even is to Google his age. But I'm guessing "over 30 old man". To which, I remember those days. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 02:17 AM
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Don't. I'll talk to you at the gym if I'm interested. Otherwise, I'm just looking around without focusing and just being nice if we make eye contact.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 02:15 AM
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He looks way hotter with the wrinkles.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 02:13 AM
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Gross response.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 02:12 AM
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The medium women choose vs men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 02:11 AM
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So beta is based on job/looks/personality? Seems most refer to it as men being married to wives who aren't attracted to them and they pay for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 02:07 AM
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So wealthy men are betas What is the wealth threshold for a man to become beta status? Is it overall net worth?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 02:06 AM
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I asked for you to describe the Bill you know. Not yet another rambling of what it is supposed to be but doesn't exist. who is appreciated for what he can provide -- cash or other services Sugar daddy already exists
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 02:05 AM
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This sub isn't full of married men whose wife isn't attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 02:04 AM
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Lol. Okey dokey.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 02:03 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 02:02 AM
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I think the terms you're looking for are sugar daddy or gold digger.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 01:38 AM
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You don't have a uterus, so you're not the person they are referring to......
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 01:36 AM
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So, none of that sounds like a beta. Sounds like a lot of trauma and stress. Good luck to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 01:35 AM
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Seriously. Obviously, my wants in a relationship changed between 20 and 30. That's going to be reflected in my dating choices, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 01:30 AM
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No, we all don't. I've yet to see any in real life. Please describe Bill and how he is a so-called beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 01:29 AM
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any married man is basically a Beta This is what I've heard, too. Which doesn't make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 01:27 AM
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Scientifically, I am a person. Having a uterus doesn't make me any less of a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 01:26 AM
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Tell us about yourself. What makes you a beta?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 01:24 AM
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So he doesn't actually exist. Got it. More made-up nonsense sold by the single/divorced charlatans.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 01:24 AM
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Yes, I don't tend to see stupidity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 01:21 AM
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Don't see the joke....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 01:18 AM
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So you're married to a woman who isn't attracted to you and you fathered her children and pay all her bills? Tell me about yourself. What makes you a beta?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 01:18 AM
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I'm not sure what that has to do with "people menstrate." Are women supposed to be called "women" all the time? We can never be people?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 01:17 AM
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(I'm bringing to the new daily, so hopefully, I'll finally hear from a beta....) Where are all these so called, "betas"? This sub goes on and on about them. But we never hear from them. You'd think this sub would be full of men warning others about these harpy over 30 women desperate for a husband and kids. Here beta, beta, beta 🍪 🍪 🍪
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 01:15 AM
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That people bleed is being implied. Still not seeing the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 01:04 AM
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That doesn't make any sense. So you don't know any 35 year olds in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 01:03 AM
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People menstrate. I'm a woman. I'm a person. Saying people menstrate makes perfect sense. I'm a person with a menstrual cycle. Why does that bother you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 01:02 AM
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Where are all these so called, "betas"? This sub goes on and on about them. But we never hear from them. You'd think this sub would be full of men warning others about these harpy over 30 women desperate for a husband and kids. Here beta, beta, beta 🍪 🍪 🍪
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:56 AM
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I wonder how many here even know what 35 looks like. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:49 AM
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I don't agree with what you're trying to say. Don't do what someone else does because it works for them. You're not them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:47 AM
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Who is? Where are these men? Why aren't they here complaining about their wives and warning men? Why is it always single men warning about this concept? If it's so damn common, where are these men? Why does no one hear from them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:47 AM
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Yes, the marriage industry has a lot more than weddings and honeymoons. LGBTQ couples aren't temporary. the institution of marriage stopped benefiting men in any way and women have become less marriageable. Which is why marriage is dying. Lol. Whatever you say. It's always the women's fault for having choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:46 AM
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if a guy in high school sees Well, there's your first problem. It's high school. Nobody knows what the fuck they are doing. He's not going to come to that conclusion based on you alone He came to it alone because women weren't the sole focus on his life. His career, his hobbies, his interests were the focus. And continues to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:29 AM
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The bulk of male suicides are fathers? Do you have a source? Usually you don't see them complain or whine because they're under gag orders following divorce rape Oh of course. Always an answer for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:27 AM
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And those fuckboi turn into single dads.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:25 AM
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The pun in the title is cracking me up. Anyway, yes, porn can ruin relationships. Luckily, you don't have to stay in any relationship ruined by porn. If a man doesn't respect your sexaul boundaries. Leave. If a boy can't tell the difference between porn and reality, don't date him. Or break up with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:04 AM
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You realize that married women can become single moms after a divorce. Or widowed women become single moms after their husband dies. Not every single mom is because of some fuckboi.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:01 AM
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What patterns?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:56 PM
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People say stupid shit. Don't build an entire world view around stupid shit people say. Idk what being unmascline is. I don't I've ever seen it. It's not like you're masculine one second and not the next.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:55 PM
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Lol. Masculinity doesn't stop because someone using nail polish. Y'all really have some rigid views of masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:48 PM
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Masculine men can still screech when seeing a spider or mouse. Lol. Masculinity doesn't stop because spiders are fucking creepy and mice are gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:47 PM
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Lol. A woman can have a kid without being tied to a boring man and marriage. And why don't we ever see these men complaining? We only ever see men complain about the so-called existence of these "beta male provdiers". But we never see them complain or whine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:28 PM
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Lol. This is such bullshit. their mate selection, women are deciding what masculinity is. What the fuck? So because I selected my husband, I decide what masculinity is, and other men are going to copy his success? Well, all he did was have a job, have hobbies, and have interests. That's the key to masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:20 PM
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So y'all keep saying but never actually prove. It's just a fear sold by charlatans that boys buy in bulk.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:06 PM
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In both cases, the man is happy and getting laid. What's there to be disgusted by?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 10:11 PM
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Yes, just screams evolving, changing, trying something new. And then succeeding at that new things. Love to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 10:08 PM
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The bear or a promiscuous 30-year-old single mom? The bear or a slutty 23 year old? The bear or a virgin woman who talks back, leads the relationship, and makes you stay home with the kids? The bear or a woman who settles for you but doesn't want to have sex with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 08:48 PM
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Lol. There wasn't any offer to go live in the remote forest with bears. This is precisely my point. Just making up ways to feel upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 08:29 PM
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Marriage involves a lot more than just weddings and honeymoons. How do you think LGBTQ couples lived before marriage was legalized? They weren't temporary because they weren't married. Many finally got married after years together. Wait, so they aren't getting married and then are saying marriage is dying? Well... get married and marriage won't die. It's that simple. It's great for society. Allows people to make choices that work best for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:12 PM
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Nope. I was talking about the wedding industry. Marriage industry =/= wedding industry Less marriages....but not less domestic partnerships or other non married but living together relationships or other LTRs. Less marriages just mean more ways of creating family and using other legal means. Marriage isn't the only way to having a long-term relationship/partnership. Hooray! Isn't that what boys here want? Seems like this is great news for dudes who don't want to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:47 PM
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Idk if we're discussing the same thing anymore.... Anyway, I agree with your overall point. Have a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:40 PM
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Again, your questions have nothing to do with the hypothetical scenario. You're using your emotional response to ignore the actual questions and move into what aboutism. Good luck to you, kid. I'm done engaging with someone so hemotional they can't even grasp the hypothetical scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:28 PM
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You're relying on emotions to make your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:24 PM
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Lots of social status in being a wife. And even more social connections being a wife. At least in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:23 PM
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The man is in green..... So your theory doesn't really hold up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:21 PM
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What audience? The virginal teenage boys in this sub? women slant be allowed to vote Because we engage in hypothetical discussions and it makes you upset when we do so. That makes perfect sense for your argument. Cheerio. Good luck with the virgins!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:20 PM
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Definitely agree with you there. There's lots of shitty parents out there. It sucks and they leave adults with traumas who recreate cycles. But this is why therapy is great. Helps you move through childhood traumas. There's all kinds of therapy, too. Emdr, somatic, horse, water, talk, cbt, art, dance, etc. Therapy can be incredibly validating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:17 PM
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See the therapist and find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:15 PM
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We've explained this again and again. You don't get it. That's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:13 PM
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he was raised to So this isn't something just happening to him. It's someone actively being a parent to him. without a quiver of doubt in his mind You ever ask him about his doubt and how much he has? he didn’t have to work on himself, or “hit the gym, bro!” or any of the other bullshit platitudes; things just worked out for him. So this guy didn't work out at all? Sounds like he was raised well, so I'm not sure what precisely he needs to work on. I'm sure he works on himself constantly as a fat…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:12 PM
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Still no status in being a sister.....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:07 PM
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It's not that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:06 PM
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Lol what? Y'all really just make shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:06 PM
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This is why people don't take these comments seriously. Y'all rant on and on about something you can't even describe.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:05 PM
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No idea why you brought up gaslighting. I literally said, "go see a therapist".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:52 PM
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That's cool for you, my guy. I'm glad that's your dude experience in the world. I'm not the same, because my experience isn't yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:52 PM
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Why is he green? Is he a zombie? Has he single rage made him green?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:50 PM
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Lol. Doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:47 PM
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Lol. And your response to a hypothetical is irrational and illogical.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:46 PM
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Can you explain them?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:45 PM
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You're so upset that women picked a bear, you think they shouldn't have rights. That right there is the picture of being illogical and all up in your feelings for still not being chosen in a hypothetical scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:42 PM
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Not yet. Just some Chad banging. The day is still early, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:39 PM
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Lol. No. Therapy does help.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:38 PM
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What the heck is "raw sexual way"? What does that even mean. What does that look like? how much they worship you ect. What sexual acts they will do for you Ick. Worship? do for you? Ew. Sex is a mutual party between 2 (or more people). A lot of woman are not genuinely attracted to their male partners in a raw sexual way Whoever started this lie needs to be tarred and feather. This is such fucking nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:37 PM
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Nothing falls into place for anyone. Normal is a dishwasher setting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:35 PM
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Marriage isn't expensive. What are you talking about? Marriage rates are rising in age, but people still overwhelmingly get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:34 PM
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Lol. Okay, buddy guy. why nearly every human culture since the dawn of civilization prevented women from being involved in politics More made-up nonsense. Appreciate the laughs this morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:33 PM
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Nope. Younger ones, too. If you don't want help, just say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:21 PM
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Uh huh. It says a lot about men. It's quite funny watching men getting all hemotional about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:20 PM
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Another day, another ridiculously large protein filled breakfast. Eating breakfast feels like such a chore.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:19 PM
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Male therapists exist, bro. See one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:15 PM
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What the heck is visceral female desire? What does this look like in practice?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:12 PM
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What the heck is visceral female desire? What does this look like in practice?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:12 PM
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What the heck is visceral female desire? What does this look like in practice?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:12 PM
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The whole bear discourse from boys here has been too funny to watch. Every single poster who has been upset the bear was chosen has said some horrible stuff about women in the comments/posts. The moment something unflattering is said about men, they go off and cry and whine and moan about it. They act all big and tough, "women are lying sluts", but can't take the heat when the tables are turned. It's been a delight to observe.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:56 PM
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If you don't go, you'll never know if she's into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:53 PM
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I didn't even know them in my 20s. Lol. That's what cracks me up the most. They act like us 30+ women intentionally rejected them. They want to punish all women because 1 woman rejected them in 8th grade.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:47 PM
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I’d rather be anywhere else So don't go. Nobody wants to spend time with a drunk first date who doesn't want to be there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:45 PM
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Marriage isn't dying. Marriages aren't getting more and more expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:44 PM
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Lol. Yes the fuck it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:43 PM
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Not necessarily. Saying I'm a sister doesn't carry the same social weight as saying I'm a wife. You brought up the social component of marriage. I agree with you. Socially, within society, husband ranks higher than sister. Once I'm a wife, my family became me and my husband. I'm still a sister, but it's no longer my primary family. Thus, societal context ranks my wife status as higher. I'm agreeing with your original statement re marriage is a social status.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:43 PM
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Proud of you! Have a good night.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:36 AM
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Does anyone have fun Friday night plans?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:25 AM
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Nope. It's still true now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 12:42 AM
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Do you have stats you can share?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 12:39 AM
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I disagree that court stats show that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 12:25 AM
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I've been provided one YouTube example of a guy who abandoned his family and dealt with the consequences. So sure, call me selfish for not believing one lousy example.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 12:07 AM
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Maybe an example. Nobody has provided one. Just their own fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:32 PM
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Do court stats show criticism?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:26 PM
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Not that I've ever seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:20 PM
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She doesn't want to be with you for the rest of her life. You = general you Why would a man invest in a woman that has told him she plans on either being with no man for the rest of her life, or being with other men for the rest of her life? Break up if he doesn't like this. She'll date or marry someone else. When a woman has multiple bodies, doesn't it show that she doesn't even take her own self seriously? What?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:11 PM
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I have no idea what fictional character you're describing.... The comment I was responding to was social. Social is more than the single scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:05 PM
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We don't have kids. Our prenup outlines various scenarios for dividing our income/assets. Or just vet better and uphold your vows. Easy enough to have a loving, happy, long marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:02 PM
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Being recognized as family is status, especially in a social setting. I wouldn't consider sister to have status in a social setting. Except in specific contexts.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:56 PM
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Because marriage isn't about housework... You're misrepresenting the statistics. "22 percent of those who had never married between the ages of 40-44 reporting that they were living with a partner." (Your source) What problem is knocking on our doors? Our unmarried 40-something neighbors? We'll invite them in and rant about how we never expected to rely on SSI anyway. Or maybe we'll discuss jobs and the cost of living today, how it's not sustainable. But sure...that 3% of unmarried men currently…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:54 PM
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Neither of us have power then either. There's only pain, grief, and sadness in divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:47 PM
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I think y'all call it, "pre selection".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:45 PM
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I don't have power over my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:44 PM
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You're forgetting the most prominent reason at all: social. This. For a sub that goes on and on about "status". They forget that husband is elite status.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:28 PM
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So are you going to wash the dishes or fold the laundry? In return, there are clean dishes for the dinner you cook and clean clothes that your wife gathered, washed, and dried, while grocery shopping + food prepping. Wait. 25% of 40 year olds are unmarried? Okay. There's a whole thread about men who won't ever marry. So.... You and rest of females will soon discover the difference between society that is dangerous, oppressive and poor, and society that females imagine to be so. Huh. Okay then.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:25 PM
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Yes, because laughing at morons online is the only way to help fellow women. You're aware there's a whole big world outside of this sub, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:15 PM
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Okay, so nothing to learn. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:13 PM
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What's there to learn? That some random guy isn't attracted to them? Big whoop.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:57 PM
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Cheat, obviously. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:57 PM
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It doesn't seem like they actually want love. They want power over someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:56 PM
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Necessarily bitchy js
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:48 PM
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With a modern woman, the man is getting nothing in exchange for those incentives. She will expect him to do just as much cooking, cleaning, and child care as her, even if he marries her. Oh no! A man is expected to clean, cook, and care for his children. The horror, the absolute horror. My God, don't get married. Nobody is asking y'all to get married. Why are y'all so pressed about marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:48 PM
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🤢🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:26 PM
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Where are these women? I'm over 35 and still don't see them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:20 PM
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Lol. Such a funny insult. "You're miserable because I disagree with you." Do better next time kid. Maybe you'll actually hurt my feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:17 PM
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I'm a married late 30 something. And for someone of your big age and stature making up fantasies, it sounds like you're the one who needs to touch grass grandpa.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:17 PM
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Men? Like the overall gender of male? Don't really care one way or the other. I don't really think about "men" in the abstract. I can think of things I admire, appreciate, and enjoy about my husband. But that's just one man. What characteristics in the opposite sex do you genuinely find enduring? None that are specific to a certain sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:15 PM
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Thank you for confirming this sub is full of below average boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:07 PM
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Lol. That's a cute insult. Too fucking funny. I'd rather be me than you any day. Good luck with your weight loss. Maybe one day you'll be picked.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:06 PM
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I'm not miserable. I'm laughing at your silly comment. Have a good day. Good luck to you and the bears!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:05 PM
1

Whatever caused someone to be so unhappy, their only choice was to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:03 PM
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I'm married and having sex. If that makes me a loser, what does it make you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:38 PM
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Awesome. Now I can haunt you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:37 PM
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Oh, golly, mister.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:36 PM
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Oh good, so I'll live. Fantastic!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:35 PM
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The only insults I get here are "fat", "old", "304", "cat lady", "dumb". Oh and someone just said, "oh ya, well some people here want to insult you." They aren't even good or clever.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:35 PM
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Lmao. Should I be scared some virgins online want to insult me?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:33 PM
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Ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:30 PM
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I'm proud of every action I take. Because why the fuck not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:30 PM
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I really wish we could be mean here. I love a well placed insult. It would be so nice to put a few of these losers in their place. Oh well, I'll continue to be nice here and laugh offline.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:29 PM
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Well, I'm married and much older than him. But he's cute and looks like an ex from my 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:27 PM
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Ew. Leave me alone. Bear, I pick the bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:24 PM
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I didn't make shit. All it does it make dudes who haven't been picked upset. Not my problem. I'll enjoy laughing at their tears, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:20 PM
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I don't usually eat breakfast, so I'm trying to actually eat breakfast. At my big age. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:19 PM
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What a qt
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:17 PM
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Yes, many things to lead someone being unhappy. My bad for assuming that was obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:16 PM
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Well, I didn't eat eggs or a protein bar. So no, I'm not commending myself for eating eggs or a protein bar. Why does me being happy about eating breakfast bother you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:16 PM
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Oh... so that was a made-up fantasy. Thanks for clarifying. however many of the other engineers I work with did… and regret it. I'm sure they did. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:15 PM
-1

Are you sharing your specific experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:12 PM
1

Lol. I never said it was the only criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:11 PM
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Succeeded in eating 10/30 grams of protein for breakfast! First breakfast down. This is going to be a fucking challenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:10 PM
1

Oh I'd love to see the boys here not make assumptions. Funny how they only want it when it's about man vs bear. Otherwise, they are free to assume.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:05 PM
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They didn't take their vows seriously. Ask them why they got married if they didn't take their vows seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:03 PM
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Shadow someone in those careers. My dental hygienist loves her job. She works 3 days a week. Teachers....I hear lots of bad things. Especially lately with how many schools are underfunded, parents are crazy, and kids can't read.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:01 PM
1

Ask someone who has broken their vows.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:58 PM
3

Alright. So don't get married. Plenty of men find benefits in the things I listed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:54 PM
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One guy's 90 minute rant about his divorce isn't any kind of truth. Seek brain surgery for what? Not watching a YouTube video of a dad who left his family?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:53 PM
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This exactly. The ones who are upset the most are the ones who say the worst things about women. Seems like they can dish it but cry their little balls off when it's directed at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:51 PM
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Nope. I'll take being eaten alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:49 PM
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Wait, are you using the guy who left his family as an example of marriage is bad for men? Lol. Too fucking funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:46 PM
2

What truth? I'm still waiting to hear that truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:44 PM
1

Lol. I'm good. Anyone complaining about their divorce on YouTube sounds like the wife made the right move.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:32 PM
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Okay removed "angry". My point still stands. People get married because they want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:31 PM
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Lots of people understand that. The few that don't aren't my problem to worry about. I just laugh at them. Poor unfortunate souls.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:31 PM
1

Huh. Didn't see that anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:30 PM
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Lol. Okay. Still don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:29 PM
1

Idk we got married because we wanted to. Nobody forced us. Nobody is forcing you. Marriage isn't forced upon anyone. If you don't want to get married done. But it's weird to be so angry about other people's choices to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:28 PM
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Lol. Okay. So, no real examples. More made-up nonsense, myths, and anger over nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:27 PM
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to make us look unhinged. To whom? Single dudes online? Virgins online? Pick me men online? The horror. The horror. It's about how "Bear" has not led to the outcomes we'd have liked. What outcomes? Men upset that they can't take what they dish out? If the kitchen is too hot, get out the kitchen.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:26 PM
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"Bored" is a very common subcategory of "unhappy" when it comes to reasons for divorce. Nope. It's not even an option when filling out divorce paperwork. Okay, removed bored. People should still be able to leave relationships at any point. Relationships, marriage isn't a prison to keep someone trapped in.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:24 PM
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Marriage is a government contract. So, the benefits of marriage are also tied to government benefits (taxes, healthcare, spousal specific laws, and legalities). There's still a lot of social benefits to be a husband vs a boyfriend (especially after age 30). Men who are husbands are seen as more responsible, dependable, etc. Similar to men who become fathers. There's a lot of societal benefits/perceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:23 PM
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What do women get? Do you even know anyone who has gotten a divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:17 PM
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It says nothing about American women. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:16 PM
1

Lurking? In the daily thread? Lol. Duh. I'm only a bad faith debater to the dudes who can't debate or stand by their statements. Fair weather dudes who just go where the wind blows because they have no actual thoughts, opinions, perspectives, or brains. They just regurgitate talking points from charlatans.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:13 PM
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No, I said people should leave situations that are no longer unfulfilling or are unhappy. Unhappy doesn't mean bored. It means being unhappy with your relationship for whatever reason. I never said shit about being "bored". Nobody gets a divorce because they are bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:11 PM
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Divorce is unfair for EVERYONE involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:09 PM
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"meh, I've become bored/unhappy" and then walk away Who has done that? I've personally adapted to by simply removing marriage from my bucket list Seems like an extreme take. But cool for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:08 PM
1

Anyone who cheats in a marriage will be critiqued. Man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:06 PM
1

Just say that you are uncomfortable with Drag Queens instead of pretending it's about "the children". If you're uncomfortable with mascots, circus performers, or drag queens, just say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:05 PM
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What nerve? No nerves hit. Just thought it was a silly concept. If it works for you, good on ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:57 PM
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What truth am I supposed to accept?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:56 PM
1

Forever and ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:56 PM
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If the guy cheats it doesn't matter for what reason they will not criticize him being dragged through the courts. Yes, because he cheated and broke vows. Divorce before you cheat, and nobody will criticize. (Well, maybe some weirdos on the internet who want marriage to be a prison.)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:56 PM
4

What's unbelievable about life being a risk? Accept what truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:46 PM
1

If by 26 it is sub 2 years then the person is fundamentally incapable of commitment. Does that sound fair? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:43 PM
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Life is a risk. If it's dying, why does it continue to increase year over year?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:41 PM
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There are zero benefits a man gets from getting married as opposed to just a regular committed long term relationship Lemme go tell my husband we should get a divorce because he's got "zero benefits". Men who desire long term relationships who are smart will not sign this unfair contract that clearly is not in their best interest So why are a majority of men married? Why is the wedding industry still growing?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:35 PM
1

I wish I was trying to lose weight. Would be so much easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:32 PM
1

Literally don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:28 PM
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Poverty is easy to fix. Not raping is something men could do. But divorce? That will always happen. And it should. Marriage isn't a prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:28 PM
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Lol. No, it's not. People don't divorce for no reason or for shits and giggles. People divorce because they are unhappy. Why do other people's divorces upset you so?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:26 PM
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I eat a ton of fish!! Almost like I wasn't asking for advice on what to fucking eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:24 PM
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Literally wasn't looking for food options.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:23 PM
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Still not looking for ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:23 PM
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I'm healing, not cutting. And feeling like I have to much to eat isn't a positive in this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:23 PM
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That's a lot of fucking food. Oof. I'm full just reading it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:22 PM
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Divorce isn't a behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:19 PM
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As I said, idk how people eat this much in the morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:18 PM
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Divorce will never be non-existent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:18 PM
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Do you know how divorces work? There are penalties. They are painful and not fun. It's really frightening how personally some of y'all take the divorce of others. Adults are able to leave whatever places or people they want. Hell, you can even leave a kid at a fire station without penalty. Why penalize a man because he wants to leave his sexless marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:17 PM
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I suspect that men can leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:13 PM
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Nope. Crimes hurt people and with various forms of intentions. A divorce isn't a crime. Leaving a relationship you no longer want to be isn't a crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:01 PM
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So fat, poor, losers...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:00 PM
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Yes because adults have agency and can leave relationships they don't want to be in. If a man wants to leave a woman, he should be able to. Nobody should be stuck in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:00 PM
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That's extreme. It's leaving an unfulfilling relationship. Staying in an unfulfilling relationship will definitely make someone never feel whole again. Why do you want to punish strangers?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:57 PM
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No, it's not logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:56 PM
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He wants to punish others. Not just his property (ick) but any man or woman who dares to leave a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:55 PM
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The current state of what? Adults being able to decide for themselves what works for their lives and what doesn't. It's very horrifying that you want to punish literal strangers because they didn't act the specific way you want them to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:54 PM
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What exactly are you expecting strangers to feel when they get divorced?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:53 PM
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No shit. I said it was hard to eat that much. I didn't say I needed ideas on what to eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:51 PM
1

Is this supposed to communicate something?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:51 PM
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It's so wild to want to punish someone for, checks notes, leaving a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:50 PM
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Yes, Aristotle is absolutely beneath Emily Bronte. Hell, he's beneath Aspasia of Miletus, Arete of Cyrene, and Hipparchia of Maroneia. Female philosophers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:49 PM
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Divorces do hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:45 PM
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Eating 30 grams of protein for breakfast is impossible. Idk how people do it. At least my adrenal cocktail is delicious. The things I do for my body to heal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:45 PM
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That's horrifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:41 PM
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I want to live in a society that clearly punishes divorce Why, though? It seems like you're unable to state why you want this. Eta: a divorce is the punishment. They aren't fun, they are costly, and they are emotional. And women are often in worse financial places. What more do you want? Death? Dismemberment?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:32 PM
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Again. I'm asking WHY you want to punish people you don't know for making decisions about their life. Why does someone else's divorce bother you so much you want to punish strangers? Are you unable to articulate, WHY YOU WANT TO PUNISH STRANGERS FOR DIVORCING?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:28 PM
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I asked why you want to punish someone you don't know for making choices that are best for their life? Nobody should be PUNISHED for leaving anything. Adults should be able to leave anything that no longer brings them joy, love, happiness, safety, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:24 PM
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Humor. Switch it up. Wait and try again later. Focus on cuddling and kissing and touching.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:22 PM
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failed nobody, whose memory is kept alive by middling desperates. So you can't stand by your statement. Got it. You can dish shit out but not defend it or back it up. Makes sense why you choose 3 mediocre men as your examples. Good luck, kid. You're gonna need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:21 PM
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You said she failed. So which is it? A woman capable of exceptional work or a failure? What do your 3 "great" men have to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:18 PM
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They are both. They put it on display for us daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:17 PM
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Yes. Or fat and alone with cats. Their insults are so 1999. You'd think with all their rebranding for the 2020s, they'd upgrade their insults. But all they got is ugly and slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:16 PM
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Lol. "Failed". A well-known author whose satire and cultural criticism is still being applied today in literature and media. But sure, she failed. We get it. You hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:13 PM
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make the life of those that divorce/fail to uphold the vows as close to a living hell as they legally can Why, though? Why does someone else's divorce bother you so much that you want to make their life a living hell?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:10 PM
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What is lopsided in a marriage contract?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:09 PM
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I'm an "older" woman (late 30s) and still desirable.... I think age gap (7+ years) are gross for both men and women. Kristen Cavallari (late 30s) and her 20-something dude is fucking gross. I'm embarrassed for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:07 PM
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So why are there so many virgins in this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:02 PM
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Where are the great men you're referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:01 PM
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Everyone should get a prenup. Even if you've got nothing going into marriage. A prenup can help with the dissolution of a marriage. Also, if you don't want to get married. Don't get married. It's really that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:00 PM
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Do both. Stairs once a week or every other week. The variety will be good for you overall. Add in some occasional core (yoga is good for staying lean) and weights with arms (light, like 3 lbs).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 09:39 PM
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So what exactly is the difference between modern and traditional women’s standards? From my observations of the discourse in this sub...... Traditional women = are allowed to choose/frequently chosen. They receive a bit more respect because of her deemed "goodness" (femininity). Modern women = need to settle for the nearest single man seeking a woman for any means. ONS, FWB, LTR, etc. If a man wants LTR from a modern woman, she better be prepared to settle. She won't get a "Chad" man to commit. …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 09:34 PM
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Because getting drunk doesn't mean there still is fear in another completely different scenario. Like what do you want exactly? For women to never feel fear? Why does it matter to you if a girl gets drunk on night and isn't necessarily scared because her inhibitions have been lowered due to alcohol AND a completely different time when she's sober and alone in her home with a stranger? Both things can be true. It's not one or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 09:05 PM
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If your partner is going to cheat, they don't need a girls' trip to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:17 PM
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Normal in the sense of using it to determine compatibility. That's what a first or second date is. To have conversations to determine if you want to do it again (and again, and again). Using humor is a way to communicate a complex topic and see how someone responds. Or using humor to rebuff someone's comments. So yes, it sounds normal for a 20-somethings in a large metro city.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:09 PM
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Sure from that statistic. And then you move to a woman vs man statistic, and the fear is recalibrated. Because I'm a woman, not a man. My husband isn't scared in the same manner because he feels capable of handling his own. I'm not so sure and thus experience fear. The fear varies and intensifies depending on further context.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:41 PM
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Spa, shopping, eating. It's beautiful! I went as a kid and remember the air and rain during a lightning storm.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:34 PM
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Yes, he's absolutely wrong. W-r-o-n-g, wrong. That's my final answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:11 PM
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That's cool. Your thoughts don't impact me one bit. Think away, kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:10 PM
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Never believe your girl won't cheat, she will the second she gets the chance and knows you won't find out. If you believe this, stay single. Ladies, enjoy your girls' trips! I know I enjoy mine with my friends. We're headed to Sedona, Arizona, next.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:00 PM
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Chris Brown was right about something, "I don't see how you can hate from outside the club. You can't even get in." 😆😆😆😆
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:55 PM
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Definitely you, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:42 PM
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I guess I gave them the benefit of the doubt. It's shocking to see a generation of men unable to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:41 PM
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Makes sense why they lie. And why they can't read. Seems to be a lot of discussion around teenagers inability to read, comprehend, apply critical thinking. Teenagers are always trying to be cooler than they really are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:39 PM
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Nope. Just applying the same logic. Don't dish it out if y'all can't take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:34 PM
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I hope they've at least updated the video and it's still not from the 80s.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:33 PM
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Today, I discovered that the avg PPD man is a liar who can't read. Thanks to that poster who helped me come to this conclusion. PPD men can all thank him for being a representative for all PPD men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:32 PM
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Wow, y'all really just make shit up and run with it. Won't be taking anything you say seriously. As a matter of fact, you just taught me that the avg PPD man is a liar who can't read. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:30 PM
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Birth of what? Animals, I can handle. Humans, I'm skipping class.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:26 PM
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We're back from our vacation. It was such a nice getaway. It's time to start planning our next trip!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:25 PM
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Precisely why your comment about average men failing is incorrect. Average is going to look different for everyone because of dozens of other factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:17 PM
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5'11. Is avg defined only by height?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:13 PM
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Lol. Because you're the deciding factor on when and where a woman can be scared.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:11 PM
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Huh. I don't agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:10 PM
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Lol. And I'm saying that shit doesn't exist. My husband is an average man, and while I think he's "better," it's because I love him. Not because of some physical thing different than previous exes. But my feelings for him make him the best. Not his height or his physicality. The average man is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:01 PM
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You're suggesting that women shouldn't be scared because men are more likely to be murdered by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:58 PM
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Lol. Seriously. I'm so curious to meet a woman who is still pining for a ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:57 PM
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Nope, drunk driving is intentionally getting behind a wheel. Drunk and barefoot downtown isn't necessarily intentional so much as a possibility. It's kinda rich to complain about dangerous men whilst downing alcohol and reaching a state which would make you more vulnerable. It's almost like humans are complex and can be conflicting. Shocker.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:56 PM
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Idk. Anecdotes is a good place to start.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:54 PM
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My comment about digital literacy was about people not understanding an algorithm. I see the difference and already mentioned it in my first comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:52 PM
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never in their whole life forgot a ONS Where are these women? I'd like to meet them. I have so many questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:43 PM
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alpha widowing Doesn't exist. It's called heartbreak, and everyone gets over it eventually. Like you said, it's more common in relationships, which means heartbreak. Well, maybe not some men. But most women move on from the man who broke her heart. Most often, she ends up even happier with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:42 PM
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So because men kill men more as a woman, I shouldn't be scared?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:37 PM
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My tea cup with a chip said the dresser always lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:35 PM
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Ha. My husband is Gaston height. You might have inspired a Halloween costume. Belle and Gaston.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:35 PM
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A man who was being punished as a bear. I'd still choose the bear over that beast Gaston. Ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:31 PM
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you'll always be compared to your girlfriends past partners No. You won't. This is your insecurities talking. Tell them to shove it. This isn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:30 PM
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Because there's no such a thing as female sense of danger, That doesn't make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:29 PM
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Again, these are different contexts. Alone in your home with a strange man is scary. It's your home. They know where you live, they know the layout, they know your name, and they know so many intimate details that can be used to hurt or harm. Being alone and drunk is also scary, but you're drunk, so your inhibitions are lowered. You feel more emboldened or that you can do it yourself. You can be taken off the street, sure, but again, alcohol makes you feel invincible. Different scenarios mean di…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:28 PM
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1/3 of all murders in the USA are women. This doesn't make it less scary. Men in general have twice the chances of getting murdered By whom? Other men, right? See why we choose the bear. 🐻
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:14 PM
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Yes, TV shows have the same effect on bingeing them. Rage bait isn't social media, though. It's something that's been done even before social media. It just has a new name, "rage bait". None of this is new. It's just new packaging. Blaming it on social media is continuing to pass the buck instead of taking accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:12 PM
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I imagine people are laughing in response to this. A whole lot of words saying nothing and changing nothing. Lol. Good luck with that!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:06 PM
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No, you hear of the gas station being the last place they were seen. Yes, people still take group trips to resorts to Mexico. There's very clearly different levels of danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:04 PM
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Every women talks about how dangerous it is to go to a gas station at night but will go and all female trip to Mexico at the height of when people are getting murdered there. With analogy like this, no wonder you're confused. Alone or with a group? The group is probably safer. Idk what's confusing exactly. A woman, a person really, can determine at any moment if they feel in danger. There's no specific parameters.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:00 PM
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Before social media, there was TV. Before TV there was radio. Social media isn't the issue. The cat has been out of the bag long before social media. What seems to be happening currently is a lack of digital literacy. Far too many kids take a Tiktok as fact or the only way of thinking. There's not enough critical thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 02:53 PM
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Again, the beauty of choices. I loved this approach and would do it again. Getting married in my 20s would have been my version of a time-wasting approach. That's the best thing about advice. You don't have to take it if it doesn't work for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 02:48 PM
-1

Yes, because I alone am the one creating capitalistic conditions. Why do you love billionaires so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 02:46 PM
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And this stagnated wages making any gain moot Lmao. That's too fucking funny. It's wild the way people trip all over themselves to defend billionaires. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:01 AM
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I'd fall deeper in love. Pineapple on pizza is delicious! 🍍 🍕
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 02:37 AM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:53 AM
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just those who are attractive enough Those poor souls.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:53 AM
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This very sub has a bad faith view of women. Honestly, it reads like some can dish it but can't take it. Women are gaslit in this sub daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:47 AM
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And yet you used a twox sub example. Fascinating. Thanks for sharing! Good luck with your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:37 AM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:27 AM
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Not really. They are a bunch of incoherent ramblings filled with what aboutism that. I never suggested my feelings matter more. I suggested that being offended by this is fucking stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:22 AM
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I could be wrong. It's only dudes online who go on and on and on about how upset they are. Nobody in real life is talking about this much.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:21 AM
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Do it! What would you do? Rest, travel, work on a masterpiece? Nothing! I support all options.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:18 AM
3

Sucks for that guy. She's find someone else with courage.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:17 AM
2

Lying has consequences. So lie all you want but deal with the consequences of your actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:16 AM
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If they could express their feelings, then I'll listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:16 AM
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Nothing has ever stopped me from having sex. There's no set frequency. Too many variables.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:06 AM
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My guy, if I was offended by misogyny, I wouldn't leave the house. Lol. I'm not offended that some RP dude hates women. I don't take it personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:02 AM
1

What if a 10/10 says it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:59 AM
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Hell, just looking at it is poisonous.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:58 AM
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Is it possible someone is offended for some reason that has nothing to do with whatever you're implying? Not with this specific example. It's only a specific small subset of men who are offended.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:52 AM
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We got a prenup for our marriage. Prenups are great. They are a protection for both parties. I always encourage prenups. marriage because women have intentionally fucked guys over in divorces are you offended No. There's nothing to be offended by in your example.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:52 AM
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I've dated two different bald men who were bald at 25. So it does happen. Just not frequently as previously. So where does this thing that men go bald at 30 come from? Previous generations. It's not really keeping up with today's 30-somethings.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:48 AM
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Cool. I still don't care that you doubt me. It doesn't bother me. I stand by my general comment that I intentionally made.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:44 AM
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Some boys are just hemotional over this. It's too fucking funny. If you're offended, you're likely the strange man women fear. If you're offended, do some self reflection on why.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:40 AM
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You brought up your very specific anecdotal experience. So I brought my statement down to my individual level to match your anecdote. Overall, even with your anecdote, women dating older men aren't in the woman's best interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:26 AM
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Lol. What? I'm saying you overestimate the number of men that are metaphorically knocking down the doors of women. Most women don't have dozens of men clamoring for their attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:24 AM
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Lol, okay. You're the expert on advice for women and the experience of women. Go off, king.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:20 AM
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You severely overestimate the amount of "options" the average woman has.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:03 AM
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To invent what? A different perspective than you? I wasn't aware your perspective was how I should live my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:02 AM
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Agreed. The burden is on you to provide proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:01 AM
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And yet, people commit crimes all the time. If you lie, expect consequences. Property destruction, reputation destruction, the opportunities are endless for lying liars who lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:56 PM
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I don't care. That's cool, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:54 PM
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Good think there are lots of words in many different languages to phrase things. If you're using OLD, just put it in your profile, ffs. And really, it's not cringe. It's honest communication and expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:52 PM
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Never said anything about the relationship. If you're gonna lie, deal with the consequences. If you're gonna manipulate, deal with the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:45 PM
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What I described is exactly what she's saying. Bad boy smart guys exist. Bad boy nice guys exist. Bad boy considerate guys exist. People don't fit into neat little boxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:43 PM
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None of that has anything to do with being open with intentions of purely looking for causal sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:41 PM
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Well, then they (the lying men) need to deal with whatever consequences occur. Slashed tires, keyed cars, blasted online, gossip, "are we dating the same guy" FB groups, and all the other things they will complain about that a woman did in response to his lies and manipulations.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:39 PM
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60 with one foot in the grave lol How old do you think 60 is? Tom Cruise is 60 and still making Mission Impossible movies. Angela Basset is 65 and currently starting in a TV show. Sure, these are celebrities, but 60 isn't on the brink of death.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:34 PM
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Doubtful.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:30 PM
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Lol..it's not a drawn-out conversation. How many women have you had causal sex with? It's certainly not most. That just sounds needy and creepy I guess, if you don't know how to flirt or talk to someone. Most women don't want that conversation with a stranger or a male acquaintance. The ones having causal sex are having these conversations.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:30 PM
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Lol. That's a terrible comparison. Do whatever you want, but don't be surprised if women get pissy or hurt or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:28 PM
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No, they don't have to resort to any misleading. It's having a conversation with the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:21 PM
2

Dedicating this blunt to the lonely dudes! 4:20. 🍃
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:20 PM
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Have all the causal sex. Just be honest about your intentions. Don't lie to have sex. Don't have sex with someone, and then determine if they aren't worthwhile. You already knew that before sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:15 PM
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🫂❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:50 PM
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My gf is 18 years younger and we're doing great. 😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:49 PM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:40 PM
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The wall doesn't exist. And yes, it's not in a woman's best interest to date older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:38 PM
1

So more of the same. You say this like someone didn't experience this 20 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:29 PM
1

Let Go was my favorite.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:28 PM
1

There's a big social rift already. It's just been deepening over the last 30-50 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:18 PM
2

Landlords have always been a "separate class", aka upper middle class and above
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:13 PM
1

Someone posted about Avril Lavinge. So I started listening to her and now into full 2002-2003 songs. And remembered another forgotten fling....this one is from school, so it was very innocent, no sex or sex acts. But, wow, what a summer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:10 PM
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I never wanted kids. We got married in our late 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:58 PM
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Slap me on the bum and hand me a gift card for spa with me and a few friends? Can't be living a life like that Literally did that for my husband's birthday last year. They loved it. They even requested to do it again this year.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:56 PM
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Idk....I wasn't trying to marry everyone I dated. I didn't want to be with them for ages. A few I did, and those were long-term relationships. But there were a few short-term flings with a race car driver or the DJ who was only in town once a week or the pilot who was stationed there for 9 months. That's what the advice is about. It's okay to have short-term flings with guys you like but can't see yourself with long-term. It's just one of many approaches to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:38 PM
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I hope this loneliness stuff leads to men developing stronger friendships with other men, embracing more empathy, and finding internal motivation beyond women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:34 PM
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The quote and myself, are referring to dating without the intentions of marriage. You like these people to date. Not to date to get married. It's not about dating people you don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:29 PM
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Nobody is forced to do anything. But it is like grabbing things at a buffet and trying new items. If you don't like it, don't eat more. Its not that difficult. Why would you date someone you don't like? That's stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:22 PM
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Did y'all have a competition or bet going? Different majors make different incomes. Since when is that a secret?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:20 PM
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There's literally nothing to be mad over. Lmao. The dumbest shit I've ever heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:18 PM
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people are moving in by the 5th date Where are these people? Can't say I've seen this. Curious where this occurs in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:17 PM
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Who wants a pipeline to cohabitation and co-parenting? Rather stay single than that bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:16 PM
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Don't want to tell him what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:14 PM
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Good thing people are able to choose whatever works best for them. Dating someone gives a lot more things to be introspective of or discovering that you actually don't want that in a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:12 PM
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Not really. It can be easier because there's so much less bullshit and drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:49 PM
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Wouldn't be an issue if that was the case. People can get married whenever the fuck they want. Maybe folks don't realize that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:44 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:43 PM
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Learning about yourself and what you want, don't want. Dating is like a buffet. Try all the things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:43 PM
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Feel the need to respond to what? Stupid shit online? Don't we all? Isn't that why we're here? Lol. Oh yes, I'm so fucking mad about someone I don't even remember interacting with. Seething. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:42 PM
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Intentional dating was awesome. I recommend it to most. I got married when I wanted to. And not just because someone was "an order of magnitude better". Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:41 PM
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Yup, everything all went according to plan. Married and happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:39 PM
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Late 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:34 PM
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I don't even know who you are to get mad. I think it's funny when people say shit like, "old single women most likely aren't prizes". Mad about some kid online talking shit? Lol. Nah, I just feel sorry for y'all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:32 PM
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Lol. Boomers are like 30 decades older than me. 😆😆😆
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:31 PM
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Just did the math.... I dated for 16 years before I started dating with the intention to marry. I can't believe I'm old enough for that much time (and more) to have gone by. 😆😩
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:20 PM
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Why? Because you're not looking to get married right now. The 20s are the entire decade. Date around, have fun, and experience different kinds of people. And when you're ready, date with the intention to get married. I dated for 16 years before I started dating for intention to get married. Not suggesting that everyone should do that but spending a couple of years dating around without an intention to marry should be more common.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:18 PM
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I disagree. There's a whole advantage to dating different people, especially if you want to get married. There might be some hurt, but that's just a part of the human experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:14 PM
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Nobody is normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:00 PM
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No. I don't know you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:59 PM
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Sexual assault includes rape and assault (unwanted grabbing). So you're upset about methodology?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:59 PM
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Not really. Just don't play along with weird hypotheticals. It's like you're trying to get me to say woman so you can say, "see you really hate men".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:57 PM
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13/50 stat What stat is this? That doesn't really sound horrible in comparison to 1 in 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:50 PM
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Why do I have to choose? Maybe they have a death pact?. Plus, I already choose. Both are getting run over in this hypothetical.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:48 PM
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What the heck is a "trolley problem scenario"? Idk both.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:40 PM
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No, but isn't 30 the "wall"? It's hard to keep up with all the moving goal posts. Seems weird to say one is cringe, but the other isn't. But that seems to track for.......you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:39 PM
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Taylor is 34, turning 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:32 PM
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I love celebrating my birthday. And my partner's too. I brought balloons in school. I bring balloons and cupcakes to work. For my next milestone birthday, I'm going all out. Bounce house, custom drinks, theme, a DJ, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:32 PM
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I'm a people hater.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:29 PM
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Oh, how fun! Memories of that song. Aging doesn't mean that a song suddenly becomes less nostalgic or song. Is watching Taylor Swift cringe too? She's "post wall" and singing songs from the same early 2000s.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:29 PM
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I definitely do/did. I expect a lot from our marriage because we don't have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:27 PM
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Yup, and wouldn't consider The Ghoul a bad guy. A guy who had bad stuff happened to him and him acting accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:25 PM
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Yes, I'd absolutely agree with this. Date around, have fun. And when you're ready you'll know everything you don't want and what you do. Someone who values fairness and expects or, even better, wants to do his share in the home. The sexiest qualities to look for when seeking long-term partnership like marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:17 PM
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They can't be defined because they are purposely vague so that they can be customized to soothe some angry boy. The best they can do is some fictional example from movies/TV or their own made-up fantasies. It's a cult full of charlatans getting rich off the insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:07 PM
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Do you agree that they would have a better sex life by changing geographies? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:04 PM
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Oh, definitely. I wasn't talking about promiscuity. I was saying that by now we've long forgotten people from 18 years ago. Especially some dude from a situationship. Most millennials aren't actively thinking or remembering someone from 18 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:01 PM
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Yup. He's too old, a cheater, and a father. 3 strikes and he's out. Not to mention, I don't find him attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:56 PM
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Tom Brady isn't a bad boy. And The Ghoul isn't either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:55 PM
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We weren't in an exclusive relationship. We were dating, which doesn't always mean exclusivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:57 PM
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I don't think of them. In responding to this, all I thought of them was "silly little weirdos". I find it funny they seem to think they are the first to do this or that they are somehow special in doing so. My favorite though is that they seem to think that women care they are leaving to find relationships. Nobody cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:56 PM
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No, 9/10 it doesn't. Please don't make up stats. It's beneath all of us. And no, you kinda always aren't developing crushes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:54 PM
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Oh, thank god you so. 😆😆😆
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:53 PM
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I don't consider 6-9 months long term. Most people I know had many 6-9 month situationships or dating or FWB or whatever in their early 20s. My bubble is absolutely skewed by the early 2000s. It seems like future generations aren't as slutty as Millennials.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:52 PM
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Because of who he is, not because of his looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:48 PM
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Time passes. You don't think of exes daily, weekly, or even yearly. I'm not quite 40 yet, but soon enough. Idk what there is to remember at this point in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:47 PM
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initial flame or passion will die out Not always. Stoke the fires, and the flame never dies. you’re always susceptible to developing feelings No, you're not. If my husband had feelings for someone else, we'd be divorcing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:46 PM
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Based on the conversations I have with people my age, most of us have forgotten about people from 18 years ago. There's really nothing to remember in my day to day or year to year.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:12 PM
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No. I wouldn't. Ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:11 PM
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Aw, so sweet! Thanks for being such an adoring fan!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:10 PM
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I'm not making fun of him. I'm saying, to me, he's bland. I look like pumpernickel bread.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:06 PM
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Yes, it's completely normal to literally forget something or someone who is completely out of sight out of mind. Why on earth would I continue to remember a guy from 18 years ago? I didn't forget him immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:01 PM
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Lol. You're funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:00 PM
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I once beat some Pac-12 athletes at beer pong. Don't really have crazy stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:00 PM
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Yes, men find Tom Brady attractive. Awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:51 PM
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You say gross, we say a life well lived.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:43 PM
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Awesome for you. I can't even count the amount of concerts I've been to. And I don't really care to recall all the details of a relationship that was 18 years ago. You forget because they aren't important to remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:36 PM
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I was inspired by the kids here. So I asked. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:34 PM
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Because it doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:34 PM
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Idk, man, revisit your feelings in 18 years and see how many single dates you remember. Or how many things you remember about a relationship from 18 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:31 PM
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Wasn't 11 months, either. Yes, it's pretty normal to forget things with time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:29 PM
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95 and Jupiter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:25 PM
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Men seem to find him very attractive. Maybe they should date him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:24 PM
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I said he's toast. Meaning he's bland, basic, and looks like generic. I guess the average man does remind me of bland, basic toast.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:23 PM
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Almost a year, bruh, read. 18 years ago. What is there to remember at this point?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:22 PM
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He looks like a piece of a toast. A boring old 6'4 piece of toast.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:14 PM
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I asked my besties if they knew their "body count" and they didn't either. So now it's been 2 days of us recalling various stories and relationships long forgotten. My friends reminded me of one guy. Who I completely forgot about and I dated for almost a year. 😆😆😆
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:07 PM
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You have hard 3-6/10 women running around calling themselves “beautiful” And? What exactly is the problem with women calling themselves beautiful?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:03 PM
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I've had plenty of casual sex. In my experience, there's not one specific quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:00 PM
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Insecurities. It's always insecurity. They want to ensure the woman feels as worthless as they do so they can pretend to feel powerful.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:59 PM
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Stranger encounters are set as 1 per woman per day. Encounters here are actual communications, not passing on the street, which is evident from 1/day setting. This needs to be increased to 3 per woman per day. It's far more than 1 per day but less than 5 per day on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:58 PM
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Tom Brady isn't "the most handsome". He looks like the Ghoul fron Fallout TV show. And looks aren't everything. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:53 PM
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It's photoshoot day!! Time to be delulu.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:56 PM
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I've experienced both. But right now....Quit the job in the first example. Found a job like in second example AND a pretty caring and kind partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:55 PM
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I think you're the one not getting it....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:40 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:33 PM
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Aw, this is so sweet. My husband brings me treats when I'm sad. Sad it's not real for her. Again, though, the graphics are terrible and seem to imply she's alone because she's brown and ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:18 PM
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So what makes you think they want you? Lol what? 😆 Why do you think your ovulation period matters to them? Never suggested it did. It was an example of a well known biological phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:14 PM
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Yes, it's a pretty big world out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:10 PM
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Honestly, some people aren't interested, don't have the time, another priority to center stage, etc. Mostly the reasons that don't have anything to do with you. They just weren't interested for whatever reason. but I can't actually imagine them having much better dates This is a bit odd. Maybe this is the reason..... this vibe.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:09 PM
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Did it fail? Or has dating apps changed since Bumble first started TEN YEARS ago. Seems like a whole new generation is using it and doesn't need to follow the same rules it did 10 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:59 PM
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Oh, they were everywhere when I was 27. And still seem to be around for the few 27-year-olds I know. It's really not that difficult to find an attractive guy who is fun to be around and contributes to the household. That's like bare minimum adulthood. And yup, people complain when they feel frustrated. Big whoop.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:55 PM
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What quality do they lack? I have no idea. It's not necessarily about lacking a quality. Not everyone is interested in casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:51 PM
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Yup, this is a fairly common experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:50 PM
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are you talking about visceral attraction to a partner or to strangers ? Both, based on what I've observed here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:50 PM
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Yes, the boys who frequently post here aren't representative examples of the male gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:43 PM
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Ya I'm confused why you don't think that attractive, charismatic, loyal dudes who contribute to the household are so rare. Maybe at 19. Which seems obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:41 PM
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Lol. Same. My husband is so sexy, I'm constantly groping him. But come active bleeding, and I'm like, don't touch me, don't even look at me. 😆😆
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:46 AM
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NO. That is bullshit Nope. Not bullshit. Literally, some dudes are himbos and other dudes are for long-term relationships. we want relationships with are also fully acceptable for casual sex and FWB. And that's when feelings get hurt for either gender. When one decides, it's "acceptable" when they fully want more.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:40 AM
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I specifically said boys here. Women ovulate 3-4 days a month. That's the one time we're far more visceral than any other time. I used myself as an example of a well-known biological phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:36 AM
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It's so funny to me how some boys here will rant all about biology but fail to understand a woman's hormones. Some boys here will demand "visceral attraction" or some kind of burning attraction..... As a woman, I get that maybe 3-4 days a month. The rest I'm various levels of attracted. The closer to menstrual phase, the less attracted I am to anything or anyone. Seems like yet another thing keeping them in their self-made prisons.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:58 AM
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What the heck is "visceral attraction"? Do you think someone feels visceral attraction all the time? Fun to be around and charismatic are similar enough in this context. Someone is who is fun to be around is also charismatic. Someone charismatic is also fun to be around. Nobody is fun to be around and NOT charismatic. Men who are charismatic and viscerally attractive are rare. Not really. They are everywhere. I've never had trouble finding any. I know zero men like that and only a few who hit mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:45 AM
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Sometimes, I just want to build on the tension and focus on other elements of the relationship before getting sexual. Depends on so many things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:08 AM
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Every long-term partner has been treated differently. There's no one size fits answer or approach. How did your partner take “the news” that you maybe have been sexual on every first date you’ve been on, but made him/her wait longer? Never had any issues. Nobody has ever cared. Does/would it matter to you to learn your partner was looser with others than s/he is or was with you? No. Again, there's no one size fits all approach. Everything and everyone is different, and thus no one has ever cared…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:06 AM
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It's delusional to want a partner you're attracted to, contribute to the household, and are fun to be around? Please explain to me how that's delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:02 AM
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It's actually not that difficult. Yes, a good man is someone who they are attracted to, can contribute to a household, has shared values, and is fun to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:03 PM
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I'm in my late 30s and people are still getting married and having kids. Idk your age but people are still getting married and having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:01 PM
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PUA are also grifters.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 09:58 PM
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Okay so that's why women choose the bear. If a man is allowed to be scared in that situation, women are allowed to choose the bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 09:56 PM
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It doesn't seem natural to be scared in that situation. Seems natural to find a security guard or check in with your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:34 PM
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Interesting doesn't describe any women I know. I do see lots of boys here who fit this.... Is passive-aggressive (posting inflammatory content meant to provoke Is condescending and superior (all the time on social media) Denies and dismisses others’ feelings Identifies as a victim Makes unreasonable demands Focuses on unfairness Envious and vengeful Holds a grudge Rage and contempt in private
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:33 PM
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Women aren't as horny as men. Literally, everyone knows this. It's not the fucking problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:29 PM
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I'm unclear why this would even happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:27 PM
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So it's a dumb scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:26 PM
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Again, still not seeing what is particularly scary. I never said anything about hitting. There's dozens of things to do before fucking hitting someone. Nobody has been able to describe what is so scary about this scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:26 PM
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Again, still unclear why this scenario is particularly scary to where the hypothetical bf is so scared.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:23 PM
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According to this sub, men aren't nice just for being nice. Awesome for you. I am a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:20 PM
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Guess we'll never know what is so scary about this scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:17 PM
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In this example, the bf didn't start shit. So again. I'm unclear what precisely is scary about this scenario that another man would be visibly scared. This father example sounds like a bully of a father. And has nothing to do with the example of the bf in the club.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:09 PM
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I'm confused why a man would be scared in this scenario. What exactly is scary?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:58 PM
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RP is just a grift. Honestly, it's probably the oldest grift. The only thing that feels relatable is the validation of hearing others in similar situations. People who lack accountability want to be around others who lack accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:46 PM
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I'll do it myself Exactly. I've had my ass smacked in clubs before. I always smack back. Keep your hands to your mother fuckin self and you won't be brought to your knees by a woman. Still don't know what's so scary about this hypothetical man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:43 PM
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Good thing those commenters aren't anyone whose opinions I'd trust. They seem like the kind of guys in the screenshot. Think a hello is some kind of flirty invitation or weird compliments on her hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:40 PM
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Be curious about why a bear is slapping my ass in the first place. And then probably roll over and go back to sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:24 PM
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Just you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:22 PM
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Oh, that's a cute response.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:19 PM
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Idk it's probably similar to how dudes approach it. There's not a specific formula or equation. Some guys you just want sex with. Some guys you want relationships with. even though the latter get to experience sex with you in a more unconditional, equal, and visceral form? What? Are you suggesting that causal sex is more visceral than sex in a LTR?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:17 PM
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Yes I'm not sure I would either. Like he's incapable of getting security? Or he's "scared"? Like what? Scared of what? They always make up the silliest scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:12 PM
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What a silly scenario. its clear as a day that your man was scared. This would be concerning. What's scary about this scenario? The man, is the man scary? Because if the man is so scary, then you understand why women chose the bear. 🐻 Would you find it hot if he punched his face in like a g? No, violence isn't hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:11 PM
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Easy A, Superbad, Can't Buy Love, etc. There's plenty of movies and TV shows that depict this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:30 AM
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Right? Like I'm not getting frost bite in my kitchen.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:08 PM
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Most women live in homes, not out in the woods....so independent and build a castle that you have to defend and maintain on your own,just get married be a princess and live a soft life. Or just enjoying whatever home you have and give yourself the soft life. No man necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:57 PM
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Where are you working that you're discussing sex lives with coworkers? This seems very specific to either all young coworkers or industry specific (clubs, restaurants, etc). Not particularly common.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:39 PM
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Men can meet club promoters, too. Having a club promoter friend isn't specifically for women. The men getting a free VIP booth are also bringing their male friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:36 PM
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I have no idea. Depends on how his dating app is set up. Does he have good pictures? Is his profile interesting? Did he have good banter when first connecting?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:30 PM
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Okey dokey. Good luck to you!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:15 PM
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Idk how I would even know my female coworkers are celibate or virgins...... People assume single women can work more because they don't have a spouse or children. As if that's the only way to have a thriving social life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:58 PM
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Ooh yes, the good Ole high school example because that's all the lived experiences someone has. Nope, there's guides and manuals for men, too. It's cute how many men refuse to take accountability for understanding their own emotions and then expect women to do all the work for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:56 PM
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Don't believe that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:54 PM
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So make friends with a club promoters and you'll get free shit too. It's not that hard. Guarantee there is a dude also getting free shit and inviting his friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:53 PM
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Well, good luck to you. Hope you find what you're looking for. I know I found many nice guys and left the assholes behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:52 PM
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Men can't help, they don't know how to Seek help from professionals. Plenty of male mental health professionals can teach you how to manage your feelings. There's guides and manuals for emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:51 PM
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I don't know what you mean. Rejection is rejection. Move on already.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:49 PM
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Only in this tiny corner of the internet is having friends a flex. Go make friends with club promoters, and you'll be able to get VIP and drunk for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:48 PM
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No, it's not a punishment. A punishment requires intention and authority. A woman you're interested in doesn't have authority over you to punish you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:42 PM
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Seems like men are still bitching about it over a week later.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:41 PM
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Okay, so man, figure it out. Why are you expecting women to figure it out for you? You're right, Society should tell men they are desirable. It starts with men, though. They need to set the example amongst themselves. Man vs bear isn't preferring anything. If one feels it is a preference they should explore whether they understand the question or not. I will continue to question why men seem to think that women need to solve their emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:40 PM
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Okay, that doesn't mean that all men believe that commitment is a compromise. If you believe commitment is a compromise, that's all you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:37 PM
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Not having sex with someone or not dating them isn't a punishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:36 PM
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Brag about what exactly? Going to a new club? Having connections to someone at the club? Girls going out to a club to have fun with their friends? VIP section? You, too, could have a VIP section if you knew a club promoter. Having friends is the brag, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:35 PM
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Talking, journaling, going for a walk, mediating, doing something else, and letting your subconscious work through it, lots of options. Why should men process their emotions better? Is that what you're asking me? Learning to not take things personally is a key component of maturing and growing up. Learning that not everything is individually about you. Feel however you want, but definitely explore why you feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:31 PM
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Do you have a specific example? I'm not really sure what you're referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:27 PM
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Ooh have fun!! That sounds so much fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:26 PM
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Punished by whom? You should bring up interests on the first date. Sharing your interests doesn't hurt chances. Suppressing yourself is what hurts chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:25 PM
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If a man feels some feelings about the man vs bear conversation, he needs to process those feelings. That's women listening to men being upset about it. Why do you feel upset? Why does this online trend bother you? Listening to vulnerability also means hearing uncomfortable questions or responses. And reflecting on why you're upset and if that emotion is real or perhaps tied to another emotion or memory.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:23 PM
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Again, being nice for something in exchange isn't nice. Just be nice for the sake of being nice. No ulterior motives.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:16 PM
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"Commitment" is the compromise that valuable men have to make Lmao. Okey dokey.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:02 PM
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It's a whole package deal. Nice and kind on its own isn't a compelling person. I can care about those traits without making them the only thing that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:00 PM
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Ya...poor pictures can make someone look way less attractive. The dance class is an example of how having a wide social network creates better opportunities than OLD. It seems they get their cues from what works for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 06:59 PM
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Oh I thought of more... Real-life experience is key. Don't build your entire worldview based off shit you see online. Charlatans are gonna grift. Take advice from married couples or people who are in long term relationships. Don't take advice from single men who aren't in relationships. Offline is where the magic happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 06:44 PM
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Drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 06:34 PM
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Is it? Maybe I've just done too many non sex acts in a Porta potty, too, assume.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 06:30 PM
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Yup and they are still single. So I guess, that fake nice guys do finish last.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 06:09 PM
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That's a wild ass accusation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 06:08 PM
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The neighborhood nice guy isn't interested in "more women". That's the whole point. A slutty man isn't appealing to women. Unless that woman is looking for a slutty man for the evening. I never suggested your experience weren't real. I was asking if that specific example was fictional. And you still haven't answered that so I'll assume it was. Yes in both the booty call and the friendzone both examples are self made prisons.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 06:05 PM
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What a wild ass scenario. Idk what there is to bring up. You: "Mom, I saw you go into a porta potty with a dude at Music Festival?" Mom: "Huh? Oh that was Trevor, our coke dealer. I found out I was pregnant with you that next week. Sorry hun. You got coke for brains."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:53 PM
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Nothing learned. Nothing gained.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:47 PM
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Yup. Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:47 PM
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Genuinely nice, yes. "I'm a nice guy", no.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:46 PM
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Lol. No, that's "God like". Women's commitment is worthless. Stay single, king!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:46 PM
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Putting timeline expectations is a recipe for disaster. Don't take response times personally. Our phones are on us constantly, which doesn't mean our minds are ready to engage. Even besties get left on read. If dating feels like work. Take a break. Focus on a hobby on something, date yourself for a month. Not everyone can articulate why... sometimes it's just "no".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:45 PM
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Maybe. I've dated men who don't have casual sex. So I'm not sure I agree. And plenty of men who have casual sex are unable to have relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:39 PM
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Okay, cool. I don't think most women would have sex or a relationship or marriage with someone just because they are nice. They'd probably prefer to remain single. Great talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:38 PM
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To clarify, I still think it's "extremely uncommon".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:36 PM
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24+ years of lived experiences. In general, the nice guy wins. Observable evidence while out in the world. If that's not enough for you, that's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:33 PM
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I guess causal sex is a win if you're not capable of anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:28 PM
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So, it's extremely uncommon. Thanks for confirming! Eta : for consistency
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:25 PM
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Women enjoy sex. Good for them. How is this shocking in 2024?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:10 PM
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The truth? Some people are different from other people? No. I don't need your photos for "proof."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:08 PM
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Thanks for that additional context. I'll rephrase my question: Does anyone use "nice" as a singular reason for engaging with another in the sexual marketplace?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:06 PM
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And I've experienced it myself, and I'm sure tons of other women here have experienced the woman choosing the nice guy over the mean guy. Well, good for you, I guess. If you think you're successful "with women", kudos! Yes, women also have friends, and we can see the types of men they go for.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:00 PM
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I never said I didn't know what it meant. Yes, women are attracted to caring and empathy. Women do like nice guys. Women don't like boring guys or guys who use niceness to manipulate. because they were lied to. They should be mad at their parents for lying to them. Pretending to be nice to get sex or relationships isn't a method of success.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:56 PM
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Lol. I'm good on your "pics".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:52 PM
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I'm responding to your words. Maybe you could expand your response. You used "sexual marketplace", does that not mean sex? If not, your statement should include a definition of "sexual marketplace" we can all understand. You said rewarded for being nice on the sexual marketplace. You didn't include any other traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:52 PM
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I love arguing in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:48 PM
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Yes, I dismiss many "scientific" articles from here because they are either outdated or have questionable methodology. When something of quality comes along, my opinions are changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:47 PM
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Because I'm responding to a comment about the "sexual marketplace". And you responded to that comment. I don't consider fuckbois to be "killing it". And I'd suspect the women they go after aren't "nice". It's just a fuckery of trauma. Nobody is winning. No, I don't think they have eyes here. Because there's only fictional, fantastical, and online examples. There's no real lived experiences, only the experiences of others. The friendzone didn't exist. It's yet another self made prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:45 PM
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I used the same words you did. Women also would choose the nice one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:41 PM
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I never suggested they didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:39 PM
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keep fucking around with violent criminals because they make tingles tingle. Is this an extremely uncommon example. Do you have anything more mainstream or average? Just don't read sob lectures to preschoolers about how it was everyone else's fault when you hit 40. What are you referring to here? Is this a fictional or fantasy example? If currently women started having sex with men completely regardless of how nice or not-nice those men are, it would have been a progress Um.... no.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:37 PM
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are seen as "nice", Okay, but that's not actually nice. That's "nice" because they are "attractive"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:00 PM
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Oooh, "the dark triad" sounds like a villain in season 3. So scary. Pardon me if I apply critical thinking and other knowledge, and I don't simply take this silly article as the cornerstone for my entire life. Some do, some don't, it's really not that common in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:58 PM
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College campuses have historically always been a place for protests. I got a diploma AND waffled around a protest.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:43 PM
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Young and dumb or wise and experienced? Neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:38 PM
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I know most boys here where don't know this because they don't have those traits, and their only frame of reference is someone else's experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:36 PM
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Some men here seem to think that feminism is why they are having trouble dating. At what point do these men turn inwards and have some accountability? Some of these dudes wouldn't have been chosen in 1830s, 1950s, 2002. There's always been duds who couldn't get a crumb. Way before feminism too. Lemon laws. 🍋
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:34 PM
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Oh, what does it say? Please enlighten me?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:30 PM
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Again, WHO is having sex with women because they are nice? Whoever is doing it shouldn't expect everyone else to have sex with someone simply because they claim to be nice. Women are attracted to caring and empathy traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:29 PM
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not necessarily attractive or your type, would you seek relationships more No. I'm not interested in relationships where I'm not attracted to the person. Nobody should be interested in a relationship where they aren't attracted to the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:22 PM
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In my experience, nice guys finish first. And nice girls also finish first. Actual nice guys have no issues or challenges dating. Guys who aren't nice are the ones calling themselves "nice guys". And those are on the ones never finishing or finishing last. Nobody wants a guy who pretends to be nice. Idk about women. I can't say that I've seen a woman act nice for sex the same way that men pretend. The cliché is specifically about men for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:20 PM
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Who rewards women with sex for being nice? Why, as a woman, would I have sex with a man simply because he's nice?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:17 PM
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They think it's a smooth opening line and that she'll reply back.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 11:25 PM
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Being short isn't the issue either. She was looking forward to her date with a 5'9 guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 11:24 PM
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Exactly. It tells me more about them and how they're likely to be always wondering and never trusting. Which I suppose is their right. I just don't want to deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 11:15 PM
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Alright, cool story. Thanks for solving that puzzle.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:58 PM
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Nope. I was out in nature with predators. Makes sense someone would say, "what was she doing all alone in the woods?" It's a question about my motives or state of mind. Saying that I should have worn different clothes is blaming me for the behavior of the wild animal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:35 PM
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tech-y Reddit bros. The real betas.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:31 PM
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That's fine. Because I was.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:30 PM
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I'd pick and species of bear. If my skin is ripped off and my arms crushed the only person who has to deal with that is me. See you at the funeral.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:27 PM
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Or they'll take two of the same opinions and say, "ALL WOMEN ACT LIKE THIS".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:25 PM
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Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:24 PM
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Yes, it's called self-improvement to improve oneself. Most men don’t. Sucks for them. Maybe if they focused on doing it for themselves, they might have better luck romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:24 PM
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All of this. I find it useless. If you find it different, go for it. Doesn't impact me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:23 PM
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Exactly. They just keep reinforcing why they are alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:20 PM
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Most women improve for themselves. It's why it's called "self improvement".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:19 PM
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I fear they will whine about this for decades to come. They are upset about not being chosen.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:16 PM
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Shakespeare has far more depth in his characters.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:13 PM
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Awesome. Good for you. Doesn't change the fact that you keep bringing up the bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:13 PM
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What self-improvement are women doing that they said isn't for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:11 PM
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Wow, 2 short stories in 1 day. You're like a budding Ernest Hemingway. In this story, Billy should have more self-respect. What a loser waiting over a decade for a woman who doesn't know his name? Lol. Lu-who-ser.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:10 PM
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Yes, we know bears are dangerous. Seems like even with this knowledge, many women choose the bear. If a bear kills me, nobody is gonna say, "she should have worn different clothing. She was dressed like she was asking for it."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:01 PM
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Women in this sub, aren't the ones bringing it up over and over and over again. Are you a woman? Because you just brought it up again. I've been on Tiktok multiple times today. Haven't seen a single video about it. Yes, an online magazine writing about days of pop culture. If Glamour is writing about it, it's definitely time to stop talking about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:56 PM
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Nope. Just know the stats and would still choose bear. And that's my choice. I'm not sure why it bothers so many. If I die because I choose the bear, that's on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:50 PM
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He will investigate Good luck, have fun. he believes you are promiscuous he simply won't take you seriously That's cool for you. Lucky me, I don't build my life around your beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:47 PM
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Stranger danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:44 PM
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So bored that you keep bringing it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:43 PM
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Still choosing the bear. 🐻 These stats don't change the outcome
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:39 PM
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that the good men (us) 😆😆😆😆 This was funny. I appreciate the laugh. I don't think of any of men up in arms about it are "good men".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:38 PM
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This is absolutely a revenge fantasy. the beta husband Doesn't exist because this scenario is fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:35 PM
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Awesome, oh wow, like totally freak me out, I mean, right on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:33 PM
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It doesn't make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:23 PM
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A fun dress or bottoms/top that makes you feel fun and confident. I hosted a soiree a few weeks ago and wore a polka dotted dress.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:21 PM
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Revenge Fantasy DGAF69
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:17 PM
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This is a cute short story. You should define the setting a bit more to tie it all together.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:14 PM
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Have I? How would you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:07 PM
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Their pay structure is quite crap. You don't get paid until the airplane door closes. I personally wouldn't want to do work that I wouldn't be paid for, ie greeting airline passengers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:06 PM
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I don't think I ever have. Maybe, but it didn't have any lasting impact. As for women? Maybe occasionally happens to those who engage in casual sex. I'm not sure why I should care, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:03 PM
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This also sounds like some folks here. Like if they can just convince us that body count matters or that they are nice guys, we'd finally see the truth. Also, congrats on getting out!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:57 PM
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Because it's hormones impairing our brains. Especially if there's a hormone imbalance.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:56 PM
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On a drug test, sure. On a random cop pullover? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:55 PM
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Caught where? Go back and read those comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:54 PM
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I said it was in your flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:52 PM
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Right? They crack me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:50 PM
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Those tests are for folks currently driving while drunk or on drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:50 PM
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Me? 24? 😆😆😆😆😆 Nope, I never said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:48 PM
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It's so weird to be old enough to have friends with kids in high school and yet still young enough that some friends are having their first kid this summer.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:47 PM
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Long-term effects of cannabis? Lol. Nope. What does driving have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:45 PM
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Almost 2. Like Snoop says, "smoke weed every day"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:42 PM
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Uh huh. I have no idea what your post had to do with LGBTQ. It just sounds like more insecure nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:29 PM
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Makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:27 PM
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He's correct for calling out his so called friends. If having friends is "gay", then men have no right to complain about being lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:27 PM
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Why can't I be a real person? Because I don't encourage people to date cannibals?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:26 PM
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If you're a plain-looking and chubby woman earning 30-40k, what are the chances of a conventionally attractive man earning six figures choosing to commit to you People usually date in their own socioeconomic circles. Has nothing to do with so called "options". I don't want to be chosen for a lack of options, I want to be the special snowflake he chooses out of countless options, many of whom are more conventionally attractive and successful than myself, because I'm just so amazing and a deserve …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:25 PM
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Gay men aren't upset that women have sex. Bisexual men aren't upset that women have sex. People are upset with cannibals.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:21 PM
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Ally to whom?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:18 PM
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Lol. You didn't "beat" anything. You're just mad women choose a bear over you. Stay mad, king.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:17 PM
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I definitely don't encourage men to date cannibals. Women need to let men SUCK DICK IN PEACE. Go for it. Have fun. Not a single woman is upset by this. Enjoy your dick. 🍆
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:15 PM
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Lol. I don't think you understand what semantics mean. Changing it to a woman isn't semantics. I'm done here. This wasn't fun. #teambear 🐻
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:11 PM
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Breaking my tolerance break. Lol. I'm bored, and there's nothing better than a bored bowl and a movie marathon. I still won $100. I'll try again tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:10 PM
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Lol. It's not semantics.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:07 PM
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Soo....what's your n count? Is your personal n count your threshold? Or do you demand that your romantic encounters have less than you? 🍆🍆🍆🍆🍆 Idk my n count. I don't care about my romantic encounters n counts. I do care about ensuring it's consensual and they they know their likes + dislikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:07 PM
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Nope, man is more dangerous by virtue of being capable of rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:03 PM
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A bear doesn't rape so yes, it's safer than a strange man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:01 PM
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We're talking about this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:58 PM
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Lol. Right. I'll pick the bear because they won't say, "Well actually. ".. They keep telling themselves, and it just sounds so whiny.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:58 PM
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made me quit chasing women altogether The bars of your own prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:51 PM
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Yes. Put your own oxygen mask on first.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:47 PM
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It was funny. You nailed how they sound here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:45 PM
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Almost like that's not what people believe. Choosing the bear isn't bigotry. 😆😆
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:44 PM
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My husband chose bear, thank god.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:34 PM
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Ah, y'all don't understand what "bigotry" is. That makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:29 PM
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Revenge fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:28 PM
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Huh. Flair makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:28 PM
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Such a lovely fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:27 PM
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Your experience with a serial cheater isn't the barometer for everyone. Ask her. Instead of all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:26 PM
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Aw cute. You were inspired by my post. That's so sweet. 🐻 Choosing a bear isn't bigotry.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:22 PM
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Right? They are so upset about not being picked. And each of their examples just reinforce why women overwhelmingly choose the bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:10 PM
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Why are their graphics so fucking ugly. Lol And I can't imagine a woman who is also for abortions would act like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:09 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:00 PM
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Good. You shouldn't let an entire gender run your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:59 PM
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Why does a woman choosing a hypothetical bear upset you so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:58 PM
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Good. Let her go find someone who respects her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:57 PM
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They don't care to know or understand. They are just upset that they still weren't chosen.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:32 PM
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No entitled, but we'd keep things FWB. I wouldn't have commitment with someone who can't share.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:27 PM
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Dumb as fuck. Lmao. I hope this is fake because even this moldy choad can't be this dumb. "Sex is making children" said by someone who has to pay or manipulate for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:26 PM
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This endless bear whiny is so annoying. We get it. You're upset you still weren't chosen. Move on already.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:24 PM
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Huh? Men here are the ones bringing it up over and over and over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:15 PM
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Yes, I deny that women with "body counts over 100" are common or exist in any regular capacity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:15 PM
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Uh huh. I'm sure this story happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:12 PM
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Until you can define it with a realistic example, yes, it's fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:58 PM
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I don't make the thread. Mods made weekly threads to discuss recurring topics. I'm just engaging with this week's topic. I'll engage with next week's topic, too. Still don't understand how, "it matters".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:57 PM
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Is it over yet? When the men upset by it, stop talking about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:55 PM
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Idk. Maybe stop friend zoning yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:54 PM
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Lol. Cool man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:51 PM
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There's nothing to puzzle. It's fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:50 PM
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Ya like I said, men jacking off in public is embarrassingly common.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:49 PM
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Why does me engaging in a conversation with a different claim than you mean it matters? What does "it matters", even mean? Matter how? I just don't like what? Your claims? I'm not obligated to like your opinions. Where's the dedicated threads about the sky being red? There's probably some r/sunset subs. Sky turns various colors every day when the sun sets.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:48 PM
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Even more reason to not believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:46 PM
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I have no idea what "high-N turboslut" even means. It's a dumb ass scenario so nothing to concede.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:45 PM
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Yup, wanted to make sure y'all now that 5"11 is 6'0. I didn't think y'all knew that based on the whiny.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:43 PM
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Lol. My point exactly. The meme is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:40 PM
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I live in a big city. I can see it happening with homeless people. They don't have anywhere else. And pardon me, if I don't believe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:40 PM
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I give zero fucks about the made up woman who has sex in an alley with a bartender. It's a silly scenario, and so I say, "good for her".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:38 PM
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Yes. This is a terribly decided graphic because 5'11 is literally 2 inches shorter than 6'0.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:35 PM
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Men jerking off in public is embarrassingly common. Sex in alleys way? Not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:34 PM
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I hope this conversation is enlightening for her, and she does what she needs to pick the bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:32 PM
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Right? Like 5"11 is two inches shorter than 6 feet. Avg woman is 5'4. Every day, they reinforce the bars of their prisons.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:30 PM
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Lol. Charlatans gonna grift. Why is the artwork always so terrible, though? You'd think that with all their free time being single and unwanted, they could design better graphics.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:30 PM
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I didn't scramble anything. You're the one commenting that I'm trying to debate. I wasn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:28 PM
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You did apply it to all women. And you're still applying it to all women. A homeless person having sex in an alley isn't a 'typical' example. Once again, proving the point that extreme examples aren't useful supporting evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:27 PM
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Why does it bother you that I don't think it matters? Do you really think that because I'm countering your claims (it does matter) that somehow it matters? That doesn't even make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:25 PM
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What the fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:23 PM
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One guy told me I was high on ecstasy because I said my husband thinks I'm his dream gurl.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:22 PM
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Lol. So it happened on a visit to Portland? Ah, it was homeless people having sex. And you're somehow applying that to all women. Thank you for proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:21 PM
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Oh yes, I'm constantly insulted here. Always cracks me up. They try so hard to make me feel as bad as they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:19 PM
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Lol. Ya most people aren't going to believe you. Alleys AND sidewalks. Too fucking funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:18 PM
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What are you even talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:17 PM
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I've never been called close-minded. Odd. If you think that, fine by me. Doesn't bother me in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:16 PM
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My comment isn't a debate. My comment was an observation. Nobody is trying to debate in the megathread. You're more than welcome to scroll on by, but you decided to engage.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:10 PM
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Idk what women would do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:09 PM
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Lol. I'm sure it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:55 PM
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That shit happens all the time over the course of a 50+ year career.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:54 PM
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Why is he working minimum wage? That doesn't make sense. If someone owns a business and it failed, they wouldn't go work in a minimum wage job. They'd get another job in a similar industry making comparable money. And with a minimum wage job, our lifestyle would dramatically change, creating stress. That stress would likely be something I wouldn't want in my life. And would actively work together to change it. If there is no change, I'm not gonna stay in a stress filled relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:54 PM
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Points for acknowledging the slutty. I was slutty too but didn't have a rep. Stealth slut. 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:50 PM
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It's hard to have actual debates with people with limited to no experience, no friends, etc. All they have is made-up scenarios and rage fantasies. They build their entire world view off shit they see online. It's such a shame. Merry men of their own misery making.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:49 PM
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People lose their jobs all the time. And then they find another one. These 4 points are more made-up fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:48 PM
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Why did he lose everything? It depends on why he lost it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:46 PM
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I wouldn't count this as slutty. It seems like open and honest intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:44 PM
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I'm not really sure how this analogy tracks. But go ahead and try it out and report back. I've only ever asked after I've had sex with a girl Quickest way to get a woman to never have sex with you again.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:28 PM
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Agreed. Every time I see a man here whiny about it, I know he's the guy the scenario is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:22 PM
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Women aren't stressed. The men who are taking it way to personally are stressed, upset, and acting out. Women have moved on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:17 PM
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So you had a conversation with a "friend" who you didn't like her point so you verbally attacked and tore down your "friend". I hope she ended the friendship. Nobody wants to be friends with someone who throws taking a fucking a sick in your face. Nothing about what you did to your "friend" was logical. It was absolutely emotionally manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:15 PM
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Birds of a feather. People who have similar experiences tend to be friends with others who have similar experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:12 PM
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“I need a man who will support me when I step away from work to be with kids Was done in the 90s. This isn't new. You previously called it "mat leave". Do you think maternity leave stopped? Princess treatment; Why does women being treated well upset so many men? simping Why do other men's actions bother so many men? getting flown out, Again, why does this bother you? only fans Sex work was around in the 90s.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:11 PM
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My life isn't a fairytale. It's pretty great, though. And that seems to upset men who are angry they are alone. It's not my problem. Stay mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:07 PM
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Whatever you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:06 PM
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The car thing is dumb. If you wanna keep the analogy, men don't have the credit or the financial resources to buy a car. Hence why they are here comparing women to Range Rovers. It's dumb and just even a good analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:05 PM
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That doesn't make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:04 PM
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Huh? I was talking about 22 year olds being inexperienced. Nobody wants the "suitors" that come from "spread your legs". Ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:03 PM
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Lol. That's cute. I love when online strangers tell me about my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:02 PM
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Lol. If thinking that makes you feel better. It just makes men sound like little children incapable of making their own choices. If that's how you view men, go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:00 PM
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Lol. Yup, radio has made society worse. It's hilarious to read on social media, how terrible social media is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:58 PM
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Lol. Sounds like a drama king who feels sorry for himself that he didn't get a girl for "just existing". I'm convinced dudes who think like this are time travelers from 1830s. I laughed reading most of it because it's just so whiny. Go make some fucking friends stop with the pity party ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:57 AM
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That's exactly what they said about radio. And records. And TV. And the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:49 AM
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That's a lot of expectations to put on an app. One would think social media, but nope, one little app that nobody really cared about until 2020.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:36 AM
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My dude, I disagree. And you're building your own prison. Have fun with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:12 AM
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It's 2024 and everything is an app. Imagine the dating app as a virtual bar/party/club. You get enough visual information to determine if you want to speak with them. Just like at a bar, that person is a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:10 AM
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Lol. Nothing you stated was reality. More made-up lame ass fantasies and scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:01 AM
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Yes, at my age, 22 is kids. Many young women your age are inexperienced. But hey, you're 22 and know everything. So keep up the good work. It clearly seems to be working out so well for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:01 AM
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If that's how you want to approach your life, go it. Seems pretty worthless to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:49 AM
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The usual: insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:48 AM
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Nope. She's probably equally inexperienced. Like all kids your age.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:47 AM
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Beautifully said.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:25 AM
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why would she pick me She likes you. She wants to experience things with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:14 AM
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Lack of experience isn't always a turnoff. Especially with other 22 year olds who are also anxious or autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:14 AM
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Me too!! It's so much fun. Yes, I'll watch you restock your home or do a Sunday reset or making food or packing their kids' lunches. Plus, all the fun stuff to learn. Seems like some kids here hate it. I truly don't see why. I have my theories.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:12 AM
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What do you want to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:48 AM
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Lemme guess, you know multiple people who have had sex in alleys? Or maybe you know many Ford Focuses, I women. Or do you have a gaggle of ugly mircodicked friends? For something to be realistic, it needs to actually occur in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:44 AM
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Lmao. I had a feeling this was coming. There's nothing realistic about sex in an alley or women as cars. Too fucking funny. God damn morons.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:34 AM
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The survey results say that a majority of posters are under 30 years old white virgin males. Makes sense that their frame of reference is fiction and fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:24 AM
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Oh let's see.... Here's 3 from today that I can recall. Sex in an alley is a common occurrence for women who engage in casual sex. Something about a train with 6 ugly dudes with micropenis. Women are like cars. ...... There's probably more if you scroll or read other threads.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:23 AM
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Nobody is considerably more attractive. My guy is the bees knees. I do occasionally see attractive men and think, "he's attractive," and then carry on with whatever I'm doing. Same with when I see attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:17 AM
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Just once, I'd love to see a realistic example when someone makes an argument instead of extremes or made-up fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:14 AM
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Oh no. Poor thing. That's tragic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:55 AM
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Lol. Too fucking funny. I appreciate the laughs. It's good for the soul.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:47 AM
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If a guy has 0 feelings and is asking my body count, that's weird as fuck. Not insecure just fucking weird. Agreed, making wild conclusions is a very low IQ take.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:31 AM
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Sounds good dude. Idk what more you want from this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:20 AM
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with the premises The premises as defined by you? As soon as I poked with logic you're out. Nope, you concluded I was "selfware". Which fine by me. Conclude all you want. As I said this is the same archetype I've argued with plenty of times. I love this for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:54 AM
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How Millennial of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:52 AM
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You and I are just not "selfware", according to this person. There is no should or shouldn’t in who you date that you need to follow, it’s a personal decision on what’s acceptable and what’s not. This seems like a hard concept for some to grasp.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:50 AM
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Lol. Never had issues or challenges being in a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:29 AM
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My conclusion is that none of you is selfware enough. Lol. Okay, fine by me. There is nothing else to engage with here. Toodles.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:25 AM
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You're forgiven. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:19 AM
1

Props for being consistent. I don't agree with the sentiment, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:17 AM
1

So Reddit should be banned, too?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:13 AM
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I'm not bragging about getting dicked down. I responded to your comment saying that I can get dicked down and post on Reddit. Apparently, you think it can only be one or the other. Which honestly tracks. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:13 AM
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Yes, I don't read them. I'll look at methodology and measurements. And then determine if it's worth reading. Of the maybe 2, I've read, I haven't found them compelling enough to build an entire world view around or to hold a candle to lived experience. I'm always on the lookout for compelling data to challenge my views.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:10 AM
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Really bad? Lol. Definitely gonna change my whole perspective off "really bad". recylcing works, cause youre still breaking the bond with one partner to make new one. Recycling means having sex with an ex instead of a new guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:05 AM
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Alright, I apologize for being incorrect about your feelings. Ok, how soon do you stop speaking with someone after you realize they have an insecurity? Is it only potential partners or does it happen in other facets of life? Depends on the insecurities. Generally immediately or as soon as possible. If you have insecurities, do you give yourself the silent treatment from time to time? Or is it different because you are you (I'm not judging btw) Yup. Various forms of therapy. Acupuncture and yoga …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:04 AM
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Yes, but that's why you gamify it. She's got some stake in it, too. And it's more tangible with someone than alone. It's not the guy. It's the brain pattern the guy replicates. Good luck to your friend. I've been on both sides. Neither is fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:54 AM
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my fat girlfriend Good. She deserves better. Wishing her well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:49 AM
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Get their buy in too. One friend said that it was helpful to know I believed in her, even when she didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:48 AM
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I don't think I'm "cooking," with that response. I don't even think I'm special. I'm just not interested in further talking. Why does that bother you so much? Why does a woman no longer participating in a conversation so troublesome to you? Is there any other insecurity you're looking for? Or is it just Ncount? Do you have any insecurities yourself? Yes, always looking for insecurities. Yup, I've got insecurities too, mostly around myself. I don't have insecurities about someone's consensual sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:46 AM
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Lol. Why? Seems like dudes here hate but can't articulate why.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:39 AM
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I wasn't spreading any ideas about childfree people. I simply said that he could buy what he wanted because he's not putting the needs of a child first. Nothing about being financially successful and traveling the world because we don't have kids. Just that we don't have kids and thus don't have to worry about new school clothes and video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:37 AM
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Foot fungus
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:30 AM
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"You all" I'm literally just talking about me. Sharing what I would do. Just me. I have no idea why you're saying, "you all" or "women". We're talking about one woman, me. I didn't say anyone would be upset. I say, you seem upset because you commented and then have spent the replies trying to insult me and all women. Odd. Again, I didn't see women saying that. It was just me who said it. I'm unclear on the massive loss you referred to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:29 AM
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I started bribing and rewarding my friends. Lol. It works, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:18 AM
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I agree that shared values and morals are key. Seems like most people here just want to complain and attack a specific sex to feel better about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:17 AM
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Thanks for answering! I try and define high paying off data vs my own personal preferences. The data shifts and changes based on locations. Which can impact our understanding of something like "high paying".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:15 AM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:10 AM
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Never said I was trying to be assertive. I don't think my action of choice is unique. Just my actions. It's not off limits. It's not important. Do I enjoy discussing it online and seeing how much it upsets some men? Yup. I don't live my life to make sense for you. I don't really care if my actions don't make sense to you. I don't cook. And what am I supposed to be killing? Ps you're the one who responded to me, seemingly upset that I would end a conversation with someone who asked, "what's your …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:09 AM
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"But enough" isn't very convincing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:05 AM
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I love Tiktok. It's such a great app. I'm looking forward to what comes next in 200+ days.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 12:59 AM
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Awesome. Thanks for confirming that it's something you observe online. Which isn't really a great method of observation. Thanks for answering.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 12:58 AM
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Should I repeat my questions so you can answer them?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 12:52 AM
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I'd ask my parents to set me up. Especially if you're just looking for some things to fill the summer with. Plus they'll feel included and will likely back off a bit. I'd also look at joining some kind of summer class. Like art or a hobby interests or something. Or volunteering somewhere you can go infrequently but frequent enough you're socializing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 12:49 AM
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How many times have you noticed this? Are you noticing this offline in your day to day life?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 12:46 AM
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Why are you shouting? WOMEN DON'T NEED TO DO ANYTHING TO GET A DATE** Except filter through all the unwanted attention for doing nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 12:44 AM
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No, I would have laughed when the question was asked. And then end the conversation. You guys are hilarious. We're just talking about me here. Care to share what is hilarious about my exercising my right to end a conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 12:42 AM
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I'd assume you should be more worried about him deadbedrooming you since you're on reddit all day Aw cute that you don't think you can be dicked down and on Reddit. Must only be one or the other. As I assumed, there's no real data on pair bonding. I am shocked that you're okay with recycling previous partners aka a harem. I thought it would be okay with men but a no go for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 12:40 AM
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I never said anything about "sugary shit or fast food".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 12:36 AM
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No, I'll end a conversation because it's an indicator of insecurities. I don't have time to entertain an insecure man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 12:36 AM
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Use Google and figure it out. Donate, volunteer, mentor, join a political campaign for a local candidate who supports women, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 12:32 AM
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So nothing. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 12:28 AM
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you shouldn't eat food for pleasure What a depressing way to live. Sure, Eat for fuel. But food is also pleasurable and we should eat for enjoyment too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 12:26 AM
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I'm still waiting for what that has to do with feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 12:24 AM
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Well, none of that advances feminism. None of that has anything to do with feminism. You're just living an existence that men have been living. There's nothing inherently celebratory about that. I'm so baffled why you keep trying to connect you doing regular adult things to feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 12:16 AM
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Cool. I said being celibate isn't ADVANCING feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 12:09 AM
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A single celibate man is advancing feminism This isn't actively advancing feminism....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 12:06 AM
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Awesome. I still say Drake is trash. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 12:04 AM
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Ding ding ding. I love how they go out of their way to find the most traumatized women and say, "look all women do this"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 12:01 AM
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There's much better music to shake my ass too. Not his whiny ass trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 11:58 PM
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Especially the men here. They write entire posts about one specific woman and say that all women are that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 11:53 PM
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that if a pretty girl with 20 bodies showed interest in dating the men here I think that girl has too many options to be at that point
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 11:52 PM
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My current burning questions.... 💕 at what point is "pair bonding" unachievable? 🍆 at what point in my marriage will I find my husband unattractive or create a dead bedroom or cheat because I was promiscuous? ♻️ is recycling previous partners better than getting new ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 11:51 PM
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Yet I've never acted like this dude at all. Good for you. Unfortunately, your experience isn't the barometer for all people who grow up in abusive households. but if you put up with this shit you're part of the problem too Maybe. But that problem only impacts them. Not me. Or you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 11:45 PM
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Or traumatized. Which can also impact brain functions. You can call people all the names you want. Doesn't make your assessment true.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 11:41 PM
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Love hearing Kendrick clown Drake. Drake is such trash. 🗑
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 11:39 PM
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Or you just think it's normal and everyone is dealing with similar abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 11:35 PM
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I asked my husband, and he looked at me like I had three heads. And he's a car guy. You'd think he would do this. But nope, he doesn't and he's never discussed similarly with his friends / in locker rooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 11:34 PM
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Must have a great personality Doubtful. She probably thinks it's normal and/or she doesn't deserve better. I'm willing to bet my left boob that both of them are repeating what they saw in their homes growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 11:32 PM
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Cap for what? If men want to leave, there's the door bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 11:27 PM
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I just see them as the emotionally stunted children that they mentally are Because their opinions are different than yours? Very "12 year old" thinking indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 11:26 PM
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I think it's pretty alien to take my comment and apply it to all women. But sure, take my comment out of context and apply it to all women in an (failed) attempt to make a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 11:25 PM
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who ever asks the other person out pays It's based on etiquette.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 11:11 PM
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Me!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 11:10 PM
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It does. Men here talk poorly about women all the time. I don't take it personally. Men attempt to shame or insult me here all the time. I'm not taking it personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 11:09 PM
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What am I larping as? A married woman who runs trails?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 10:21 PM
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That's cool. I'm not gonna build my whole life around what some dude might do. And frankly, if a man ever asked, I'd laugh in his face and end the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 10:20 PM
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Nope, I'm not implying men should do anything. I shared what I appreciate. I didn't say I couldn't handle it emotionally. I said I'm prepared for the worst and hope for the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 10:16 PM
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Nobody wonders or cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 10:03 PM
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Huh? Literally, all cops say, "show me your hands" I'm not compromising my own comfort just to make some paranoid woman feel more comfortable. Nobody was asking you to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 10:02 PM
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Police? Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 10:00 PM
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Guarantee those women who run alone and encounter a man on their trail are assessing their situation and likely have a weapon/method of protection. I run trails frequently. I always appreciate the men who give a wide berth and show their hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:43 PM
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Same could be said that per capita you are more likely to be attacked by a black man than another race. How? Black people (men and women) make up <15% of the American population.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:37 PM
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That's how men seem to define a Chad, "could model". And yet, when planning our wedding, I saw many women sharing their wedding photos with men who aren't 6 feet, didn't have defined jawline, weird hairlines, and certainly weren't models. So pardon me, if I don't build my entire view around this concept. I'm going to go with what I see offline. And I'm NOT going to assume most women are settling in 2024 or beyond. Or even 2014. Maybe 2004, maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:36 PM
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What logic? Is the conversation, Black men vs bear?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:24 PM
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That's a Chad? A regular dude with a beard, a jawline, and hair? Yes, women do tend to find men with faces and hair attractive. this means a lot of women are with a man who isn’t her preference Where are these women in marriages not attracted to their husbands?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:22 PM
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Yes, agreed. If someone suggests alcohol, I'm assuming they are hoping to get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:18 PM
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They are the men that should be feared, and they feel called out. Despite no one naming them specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:17 PM
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Yes, same. I've never been asked or even talked about it. My favorite is the hypocrites. The ones who have sex with "promiscuous women" and then think they are somehow qualified to a non promiscuous woman. And their definition of promiscuous is like 3 people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:14 PM
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Thank you for that clarification.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:09 PM
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Idk how these guys don't know about bots and algorithms. It's not 2014 when this shit is new and still figuring things out. But 10 years later? They've perfected the bots and playing into low self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:08 PM
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Bear trapped in a man's body.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:06 PM
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Oh I get it now. This is what men think promiscuous women are doing. It all makes sense now. 💡
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:05 PM
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A man isn't worse than a bear. Rape is worse than being mauled by a bear. Okay, don't take it personally. Men dehumanize women all day in this sub. See the post about being compared to a car. Am I sad about it? No because who the fuck are these people? Nobody whose opinions I care about. If the people who know you are telling you, they would choose the bear over you specifically, be sad. Don't be sad about an online conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:04 PM
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I did and still had those questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:01 PM
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Average men are attractive to average men. The aforementioned average married man is found attractive by his average wife. Yup, I don't need to find all men attractive. Every woman will "lock down" someone they are attracted to. In 2024, women aren't marrying men they aren't attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:00 PM
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That's something you should process on your own. It's not up to women or society to help someone process things that aren't personal and they took personally. Journal out your feelings. Talk to a therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:58 PM
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Depends on their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:57 PM
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"Don't take things personally." - The Four Agreements People talking about men doesn't mean they are specifically talking about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:55 PM
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So you want applause on a societal scale for not oppressing women? Seems kinda oppression-y to demand that women praise you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:50 PM
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single, celibate man who lives with his parents and has a steady job is very unlikely to be celebrated by feminism Why should this be celebrated by feminism? whereas a chronically dating, high body count woman who lives alone and does onlyfans is generally going to be very celebrated by feminism as strong and independent Yes, this makes sense that it is celebrated by feminism. The whole point of feminism is for women to choose to live whatever life they want. Feminism would also celebrate the wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:49 PM
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A recruit? Lol. I'm not wallowing. I'm laughing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:47 PM
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To me, it seems insecure and rooted in jealousy to think that 4-5 sex encounters is SLUTTY OR PROMISCUOUS. Makes me giggle because it just reads so insecure. Good luck, hope this car dealership approach works for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:46 PM
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What women do you see? I have no idea what a "chad" is. There's no singular definition because it seems to shift and change depending on the person. Women marry attractive men in their 30s. And yes, women in their 20s and their 30s have the same quality of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:42 PM
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I'm curious how many men agreeing are single. Seems like the men who care the most about "promiscuous women are undesirable" are single men that aforementioned women wouldn't even look at. It just reads like jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:39 PM
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I got my pants pulled down in the quad once. Everyone saw what color thong I was wearing. 🥴😵‍💫 I completely forgot all about it, and the memory randomly came to me during acupuncture last month. I'd have to think more about it. I'm sure there's many.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:34 PM
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So it 6 what made Vicky a slut? Maybe it was 7? 10? At what point does mythical Vicky become a slut?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:30 PM
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Such as? Please explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:23 PM
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They don't know and in the absence of knowing the makeup hyperbolic statements. It is annoying. But don't let these people bring you down. Their extreme examples and fantasies are a reflection of themselves, not a reflection of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:22 PM
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Those are your expectations. I was asking how society or half the population should show respect to some random dude who has a job, is single, celibate and lives at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:20 PM
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Promiscuous women are desirable, just not for relationships According to whom? PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:15 PM
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Men look at dating like a car dealership. Sucks for them. They are just gonna be matched with this energy. Guys who think like this can handle the consequences of their own actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:13 PM
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Why isn’t this a lifestyle that gets respect? Where or how should respect be shown? I have no thoughts about this guy. Why should I, as a woman, think about this dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:05 PM
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What kind of shift?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:03 PM
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I don't think it's common either, that's why I think it's particularly high. Yes, it's weird the comments from men here that early 20s women are sleeping with triple digits. I would say almost every woman I know has tried some amount of casual sexual activity but it's nowhere near that crazy We were definitely crazy at 23. Gangbangs crazy? Not so much. Causal sex? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:01 PM
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Nothing new. I'm pretty sure most generations experience this in a society that screeches, "women over 30 are ugly and useless".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:52 PM
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A much more run of the mill high n count would be like 15-20 by 25 Interesting. For me, high n count by 25 would be like 50+. 15-20, over maybe 10 years, doesn't seem to high. But my perspective is swayed from the wildness that was early 2000s.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:50 PM
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The average annual average salary in the U.S. is $63,795 The median annual salary, which is often less skewed by outlying numbers, is $59,384. How much is high paying in your perspective?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:46 PM
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I wouldn't be in a relationship we're someone felt like they were settling. There wouldn't be anything to leave because I wouldn't even begin a relationship to begin with. I'm not sure why this concept is so difficult to grasp. I wouldn't be happy in a relationship where someone felt like they were settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:45 PM
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because I don’t see any. Okay, so don't get married. Seems like many married couples without kids found a reason to get married. But what did you mean about financial goals? How is that a benefit for him? You give him money? Or what do you mean? Two people working towards a goal is a benefit as opposed to doing it alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:43 PM
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Some maybe, but not all. Do friends fulfill the role of sex in marriage? Do friends fulfill financial goals? What's exclusively beneficial about marriage or LTR is commitment to a joint life. I don't make a commitment to a joint life with friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:50 PM
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I'm suggesting I don't believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:39 PM
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I suppose godlike in that there are men who worship us. All attractive women work in some capacity, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:35 PM
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I wouldn't have guessed you're 24, so I suppose we are even in our judgments.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:33 PM
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When did I say anyone has a high paying job? I said he doesn't have childcare expenses, so he's got a bit more money to spend on himself. Neither of us makes 6 figures, what I consider high paying. We do have higher than average incomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:32 PM
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I know, went to college and everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:28 PM
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In my opinion it's different. I don't find conversing here the same as caring about internet discourse about women over 30, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:27 PM
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Use words.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:23 PM
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Because it's a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:20 PM
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We're not having kids. His benefits include doing whatever the fuck he wants, when he wants and not being tethered to the schedule or needs of a child. He's also got money to spend on whatever he desires. He gets to sleep in on weekends and stay up as late as he wants. He has someone to build a life with and have fun adventures. Those are just a few benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:19 PM
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If you want to spend all your energy made at an internet conversation, go for it. can mean you’re talking about all, some, or most of said group Exactly. All, some, or most. In this case some or most.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:17 PM
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Already done.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:10 PM
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At least you're honest. I'll bring this comment to the council.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:09 PM
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of us focusing on your emotional reaction to the idea of if he hypothetically settled for you. Maybe don't focus on the emotions of someone via a text-based medium. You're bound to be incorrect about the emotions. Like you are in this case. Can we please focus on why you would be resistant or react negatively if he did settle for you and you weren’t his idealized/dream perfect woman manifested in real life. Because I wouldn't be in a position to react negatively. There's nothing to react to. why…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:09 PM
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Fabulous! Enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:04 PM
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Yes, the whole thing started just to troll and upset men. Everything women do is to troll and upset men. You caught us.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:04 PM
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If you aren't a strange man, you shouldn't take offense. If a man is taking offense about a hypothetical scenario, one could assume that man is precisely the man they are referring to in the hypothetical. Men make blanket statements about women here all the time. I don't ever think they are talking about me, despite me being a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:01 PM
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Uh huh. It's minimal compared to male on women sexual violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:59 PM
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Nobody thinks bears rape women. Bear over man. Woman over bear. Stay mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:59 PM
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If you feel he always dreamed of being with a 38 year old woman and that’s always been his dream. Lol. What? If that’s what you believe. That’s what you believe. Lemme guess, you know the truth. Why would it matter IF he settled for you and you are not his dream and idealized perfect woman he had unlimited desire for? Yes, we wouldn't have made it past the first date if he felt he was settling or that I wasn't his "dream or idealized perfect woman he had unlimited desire for". his dream and idea…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:58 PM
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Weird that you assume women are calling you out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:54 PM
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The chances of a woman raping another woman is minimal in comparison to a man. You're right, bears don't rape women. That's the whole point. Between bear and woman, I think most women could pick woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:53 PM
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How? Magazines, movies, TV shows, friends, real-life trial and error.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:50 PM
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Yes. Nobody ever suggested that the average man is a rapist. The scenario suggests that if you're alone in the woods, a woman would rather encounter a bear than a strange man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:49 PM
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He didn't settle. I am his dream idealization of the perfect woman that he desires. Hence, why we are married.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:47 PM
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I need therapy to understand your claim that you can't explain? It's quite normal. It's been done for centuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:45 PM
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Rape is the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:44 PM
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Nobody is talking about you personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:42 PM
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What's hilarious is the men rabidly upset that they still aren't chosen over a hypothetical scenario involving a bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:42 PM
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Absolutely, women have the same capacity for violence. All humans have the capacity for violence. Violence isn't the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:40 PM
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There's no fucking way these women truly, in their heart of hearts, think it's better to meet a bear in the woods than a random man. Yes, we truly do. I'm unclear how women having a similar experience and choice is the same as non-player character.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:38 PM
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Okay and? I'm still not sure why some men are taking it personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:36 PM
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I hate the idiocy of women. Care to explain? The choosing the bear scenario doesn't show anything about idiocy of women. but women keep making it so hard to do so. How do all women do this to you specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:33 PM
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Idk why some men are so upset about this. It's like they are taking it personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:28 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:08 PM
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The meme All got it. Fantasy and myths.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:05 PM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:03 PM
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A man we like and respect who likes and respects us back.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:59 PM
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A man we like and respect who likes and respects us back.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:58 PM
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it shows that men are settling for "older" women who they are inherently less attracted to. We got married at 38. I guess he's settled with me, an older woman, he's not attracted to. How tragic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:54 PM
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It would be so fetch if people could actually explain their claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:52 PM
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Wait, why is someone having sex if they don't want to ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:48 PM
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I never had friends on that list. Exes and FWB were great for recycling. ♻️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:32 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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