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The most recent girl I've been talking to that I'm about to meet up with from hinge (attractive 27 yr old, I'm 28), just told me that her most recent ex was a 45 year old surgeon. ​ Everyone is on dating apps now. Even the extremely wealth, successful, charming dudes that us regular guys will never be able to compete with. It's just the way the world works now. ​ The best bet is to meet a girl who hasn't been on the apps before for whatever reason. My step sister is very cute, and she always tho…
/r/seduction30/06/22 07:58 PM
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I played it off and just laughed about it and made some jokes. I was like "oh you were a wild child huh". I don't really mind, because I haven't even hooked up with her yet (just because shes away visiting her brother). But I could see myself minding in the future. lol
/r/seduction29/06/22 03:34 PM
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I have been going out with a girl recently. I started asking her about a situation with her ex... it was a little uncomfortable but then she told me it was OK for asking and said "no question is a stupid question". And I said "ok then. Would you eat only hot dogs for 1 year if you were paid 500k?" She's still interested in me. And it's a genuine question. It's the type of question my guy friends might ask me or vice versa.
/r/seduction22/06/22 04:09 AM
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Just signed up for betterhelp 5 minutes ago. Dropped like $330 on it. haha...i hope it helps. I have put off getting therapy for many many years. 28 years old now.
/r/seduction20/06/22 10:34 PM
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Eh, its not that im trying to exercise power over them. I'm trying to bat in my league. So when I see a girl who doesn't have her shit totally together, I get more excited at the prospect because I think she will enjoy my company because I am able to provide a better life for her. If I see a girl who is extremely attractive who has a good job and everything, I kind of just realize she is out of my league and there really is nothing I can offer her that she can't get somewhere else.
/r/seduction20/06/22 10:08 PM
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Do you have any advice on gaining self esteem after something like this happens? I would really understand more if she was some smokeshow who I thought was out of my league. But part of the reason I was so happy to meet her was that I thought she would really look up to me. I am in a much better financial situation than her all around, I'm 6'2", 175 lbs, intelligent, own a business, do fun stuff like boat and ride motorcycles, really good with her kid and family. She is cute, but has a child, st…
/r/seduction20/06/22 09:56 PM
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The thing that dudes don't get, that I'm JUST now realizing. All women are different. Just like men. Way way way different from one another. Although...of course there are similarities. A couple examples in my life. Both of these girls are same attractivness level depending on your type. Not ugly, for sure. Pretty attractive. (but not smokeshows) ​ Sexually, one girl got EXTREMELY offended when I moaned "baby" when I was literally cumming in her mouth. She brought it up afterward in a "dont call…
/r/seduction20/06/22 12:32 AM
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this puts you at the high end of the normal range. Very close to overweight. Like I said, without current pics, its hard to tell. Different girls carry weight differently. From your photos from a couple years ago, you look like a girl that as long as she stays fit, does yoga, takes care of herself, would still be hot for a long while.
/r/seduction20/06/22 12:08 AM
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are you overweight now? Your pics are old, so we cant judge what you look like now. Most women will still be attractive well into their 30s if they were hot in their 20s and keep the weight off. If they gain some weight..whole different story. I went on a date with a girl who was pretty hot in her younger photos, like you. But she had gained probably 30 or 40 lbs since then and I just was not attracted to her in the slightest. Huge letdown.
/r/seduction19/06/22 11:37 PM
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Lol probably so. I actually keep in touch with my ex from high school/college time period. And when I was like ",what is wrong with me that these mediocre girls are leaving me?" And she told me basically that I'm choosing really weird trashy women and that I need to go back to dating high quality girls.
/r/seduction16/06/22 07:40 PM
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Yeah man, its so weird, I've been recently hanging out with this girl whos moderately attractive. I think most people would rate me as more attractive than her. Her brother talked to me when she wasn't around and said "dude.. Idk if you two are gonna date, and I really don't care either way, but you can hang out anytime, because her last boyfriend was a total fucking scumbag and we all hated him". I looked up the guy's Facebook. I was pretty shocked. Unattractive, dirty looking man. I think he h…
/r/seduction16/06/22 02:50 PM
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Yeah hopefully I'm not doomed by telling her I liked her. I thought I was doing a nice thing by reassuring her that I had a good time with her. lol
/r/seduction15/06/22 10:48 PM
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I dont understand what else to do. Literally the only other thing I could do is get more buff. I have a standard thinner guy body. Do you really think getting ripped is going to change all of this? It might actually. Im just not sure. I feel more like I want to just put a bullet in my head because I dont know what women are apparently looking for.
/r/seduction14/06/22 06:35 PM
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Interesting. There might be something to this. I have only had sex with 4 women in my life, but the hottest ones were way way more into me than the less attractive ones. I always wondered about that. This girl did mention to me last week that shes super paranoid of having her and her daughters heart broke. So maybe she was being genuine with that. I still don't think it's my fucking problem. It's like "Ok..so some asshole broke your heart. So now you cant date me because you're paranoid? Why eve…
/r/seduction14/06/22 01:29 AM
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lol. at one point you told me im needy and obsessive because I said I play darts with her dad and play with her kid. Like....what. Lmao. I was just painting the picture that I have a relaxed and fun time when we are all hanging out during a weekend in the garage.
/r/seduction14/06/22 01:11 AM
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SMV isnt real? So people dont generally go for people "in their league"? I mean, cmon man. Go to a restaraunt and look sometime. If you are a short fat balding dude, you are probably with not the most attractive woman. If you are a tall handsome college quarterback, you are probably with a woman that most people would call "very attractive". Thats essentially SMV. ​ Also, you aren't even giving me any advice. You are just telling me that I'm wrong about everything and that im not confident. I li…
/r/seduction14/06/22 12:55 AM
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Online dating. Women much more promiscous are fucking only the very very top top tier dudes that were blessed with absolutely amazing genetics.
/r/seduction14/06/22 12:36 AM
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so whats the solution then. You honestly sound like my dad. I'm guessing youre a little older? Everything has changed in the last 10 years or so, man.
/r/seduction14/06/22 12:30 AM
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I'm bringing her up to use my past as a reference. Because I dont have any photos of myself up, I am letting the folks here know that I'm not some goonie looking motherfucker. I have dated attractive sweet women in the past, and it wasn't hard. So I guess I just don't get why now that I'm a little older, It's like I cant even get past a couple dates with women who are average looking at best, with tons of baggage as well.
/r/seduction14/06/22 12:22 AM
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I guess I dont understand the building attraction and sexual tension part. I have been lucky because in all of my past relationships, the woman has been the one to seduce me. There was one girl I dated for awhile that I did kind of seduce. In this situation, we have barely even been alone because she lives with her parents. I'm currently living with my mom but I'm just waiting for my mortgage approval to go through this week. Only moved in with my mom because I had to move out of my exes place a…
/r/seduction14/06/22 12:19 AM
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lmao dude. you know nothing about me. The ex i am referring to, i grew up with her. We were together from ages 14 til about 22. Im not still in love with her. I havent even seen her in like 7 years or something. We just maintained a friendship long distance wise. It cracks me up that people like you are like "you arent sexually confident and dont know how to act around women!". 2 months ago I was on vacation and was hooking up with a girl I met almost every night. No issues. It's not like I'm sc…
/r/seduction14/06/22 12:16 AM
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Idk man. Most men my age are overweight or short or missing teeth or some combination where I live. When I walk into a store around here, I'm usually pretty obviously the best looking young man or at least in the top 15%.
/r/seduction13/06/22 09:52 PM
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Something that my friends and family have told me is that these women may not feel like they would be good enough for me. So they cut it off at the very beginning to keep their dignity. This last girl who said she isnt ready for a relationship, I saw photos of her ex, and he looked very bad. I mean he looked relatively disgusting. Most of my friends and my father have told me that I would probably objectively rate 8 on an attractiveness scale for most people. So I'm not a model but I'm not ugly.…
/r/seduction13/06/22 08:05 PM
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Well I guess it's not that I am saying that I just listen to my parents saying they arent good enough. It's just that I INTENTIONALLY aim for girls who are lower SMV than most people would imagine that I would go for. But even then, they still reject me or dont feel it. So thats what I'm not getting. Like when I was younger, some very very attractive girls liked me, but I don't even go for attractive girls now. I go for like really basic looking girls who just are not fat. But not like "wow shes…
/r/seduction13/06/22 08:03 PM
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Everyone in my family and friends says I'm way too good for her. But I don't understand that. Don't I need to aim even lower now if I'm being rejected by this girl?
/r/seduction13/06/22 02:53 PM
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Yeah I know. I know. But...still...
/r/seduction12/06/22 10:14 PM
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