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ChoiceTank/r/seduction07/07/19 05:45 PM
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ChoiceTank/r/seduction05/07/19 06:56 PM
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Always do it in person
/r/seduction26/11/25 11:23 AM
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If your vibes are on fire anything can work!
/r/seduction05/08/25 02:02 PM
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“Hi girls! Sorry im late 😎” worked more than it should for me lol
/r/seduction04/08/25 08:31 PM
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Parks, malls, city centre
/r/seduction30/07/25 10:34 PM
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You just want the dopamine without effort. You won’t learn anything if you don’t push through bro
/r/seduction30/07/25 10:31 PM
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Literally just go out whenever you have a free hour and talk to someone, its not that complicated
/r/seduction30/07/25 10:14 PM
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Its simple, if they don’t want more you didn’t fuck them good enough 😂
/r/seduction14/07/25 05:12 AM
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Preach
/r/seduction01/07/25 09:23 AM
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Go next. Hit her un in a couple months if you like her
/r/seduction28/06/25 10:14 PM
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Girls when they reach to that point of: “okay, now its sex time” their mind starts to be invaded of thoughts, in particular thoughts that may tell her that she’s behaving like a slut, and that she shouldn’t. Game people call this “Slut-defense mechanism” This is society’s fault, self esteem, whatever, doesn’t matter. Point is, girls in that moment tend to shut down and draw back. This is where you need to be prepared and do this: • ⁠first, don’t act needy. That doesn’t mean trying to manipulate …
/r/seduction26/03/25 09:23 AM
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You clearly missed my point but ok EDIT: honestly I am just sad that there’s all this terror and drama between kids about SA and shit. But its crazy how dissociative some people are when it comes to understanding a woman or anyone feelings really. SA is bad, duh.
/r/seduction26/03/25 09:17 AM
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Haha shit happens bro. You just read too much into her words. Girls give this last minute resistance all the time. Old puas used to call it “slut-defense mechanism” lol
/r/seduction25/03/25 11:30 PM
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Tbh you most likely would have had sex with her if you just kept escalating. Words are not as important as actions. If she physically starts to “reject” you in that case yes, you’d rather stop what you’re doing. If she says no sex tonight but she’s all over you, just keep escalating and eventually it’s gonna happen naturally. Either way she sounds nuts so might be a dodged bullet lol
/r/seduction25/03/25 11:23 PM
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He’s an attractive, chill guy in a college. That makes it a lot easier
/r/seduction18/03/25 09:05 PM
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Lmao
/r/seduction25/01/25 12:15 PM
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Abundance mindset, always. It will help you see more clearly
/r/seduction26/12/24 11:08 AM
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Two dates ago
/r/seduction03/09/24 10:50 PM
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Anything simple where the focus is on the both of you. I like coffee dates, drink in the evening, walks, picnics at the park, things like that
/r/seduction29/08/24 10:34 PM
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Bruh don’t go to dinner dates unless you already smashed
/r/seduction25/08/24 06:35 PM
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Memezoned
/r/seduction05/07/24 07:23 AM
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You caught her interest, and then lost it after your approach. Could be your attitude or anything. Next time don’t ask her, take her hand and say lets dance
/r/seduction03/06/24 07:58 AM
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call them
/r/seduction02/06/24 08:01 PM
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2nd message is creepier than the first lmao
/r/seduction27/05/24 07:35 AM
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She just told you. Talk to other girls
/r/seduction16/05/24 09:50 AM
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Forget the flowers bro wtf Flowers are for women who are meaningful in your life. You don’t even know her
/r/seduction14/05/24 01:51 PM
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You don’t. You assume attraction until she proves otherwise. Just ask her out
/r/seduction12/05/24 08:34 AM
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Lol
/r/seduction12/05/24 08:33 AM
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What a bunch of excuses lmao The guy here probably did everything wrong, but also the girl is a nutjob Who cares guys, don’t approach. More success and value for us who actually do it right :)))
/r/seduction11/05/24 11:36 AM
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You didn’t fumble anything cuz you never had a chance in the first place. You sound insecure and extremely needy bro. Unless you start actively working on your personal growth it will happen again over and over
/r/seduction08/05/24 07:34 AM
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Don't dwell on it bro, go out and talk to 10 more girls you will forget about it in no time
/r/seduction02/05/24 11:52 AM
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For gods sake don’t do what this guy said lol. Respect is always a two way street, what he’s saying is just insecure and narcissistic
/r/seduction30/04/24 02:32 PM
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From what you have wrote it’s most likely because of the text “wish you were here” that killed the mood. It probably killed it because up until that she saw you as fun and spontaneous, but that small text crushed that excitement, as it didn’t align with the image of yourself you created during the night Sending that right after she was at your place made you seem really needy. All the messages after probably confirmed her thoughts. Im sorry but you fumbled it bro 😂 take the L and go next
/r/seduction30/04/24 02:29 PM
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Yes you should read it, you won’t be disappointed
/r/seduction30/04/24 08:51 AM
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I have The Natural course from Max, good shit
/r/seduction27/04/24 10:13 PM
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You shouldn’t focus only on her if she has friends. Don’t be that guy. Introduce yourself to the friends, try to befriend them too! Be authentic and spontaneous. They will become your best wingman
/r/seduction27/04/24 12:11 PM
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She’s clearly into you bro
/r/seduction25/04/24 11:12 AM
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Congrats bro! Keep going you ask? My friend, you just experienced something amazing! Of course you should keep going. Don’t get stuck on one girl, try to talk to anyone, guys too! This way you warm up and will be more relaxed as you do it. Next time you see her, just say hi, chat a bit and don’t overthink it. Little tip, if you want to really improve, do it on the street/mall wherever, this way you know you won’t see her again and possibly make it awkward for both
/r/seduction24/04/24 11:52 PM
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You're out here sharing value, 100% respect
/r/seduction23/04/24 07:43 PM
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One is lazy and shallow and the other one will change every aspect of your life. I'm not trying to shit on your post, you made pretty good points actually. I just believe that it's kinda sad to have to go through all of this to get some attention from girls that probably have an inflated perspective because the apps are full of desperate guys that would settle for anything that can be fucked. Of course you can do both but it usually leads with apps becoming your safe net and an excuse to not get…
/r/seduction23/04/24 07:19 PM
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No I act like most people just do online lol
/r/seduction23/04/24 07:05 PM
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Yeah guys! just follow these 68 rules exactly to perfection so that you may earn yourself the chance to have a match and compete with other hundreds of guys for a crumble of attention. Or just invest this time and money into approaching real girls and automatically surpass all of those matches
/r/seduction23/04/24 04:45 PM
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I agree that the ultimate point is to become a self-centered guy, confident and authentic. That way you don't really need to know about this shit, you just are you, you don't need strategies or whatever. But if you were just starting out, and still trying to work-out your self-esteem, understanding this concept could help in your self development because it gives you a snapshot of why girls behave in such way, and why it's important to own your reality. I understand and agree with the fact that …
/r/seduction23/04/24 01:36 PM
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I think you don't really understand the concept of shit tests. They're not bullshit but at the same time is not an intentional thing girls do to test you. Most of the time at least. A shit test i basically a primal defense mechanism that evolved with communication. It's a natural thing women develop in their life to make sure you're not just performing in front of them, a way for them to understand If you're truly aligned with yourself and you're authentic, and you're not just trying to impress …
/r/seduction23/04/24 12:38 PM
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It's very simple my friend. What would you do if you didn't know how to ride a bike? you find one and you start trying. But maybe you still don't have the peace of mind to cold approach so what I would do is start working on that mindset and get you to the point to at least start taking action
/r/seduction20/04/24 09:10 AM
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Bruh. Stop thinking about how society and medias want you to look and just think about it. She's not stupid, she works there too, she's a woman! she knows that after a long day of work you can't look perfect. She might even find you hotter. because that's manly af. Just talk to her bro! fucking own it! Have some banter with her and then just tell her you would love to meet outside of work. She'll be blown away by the fact you did it without caring about how you look, confidently. And then, when …
/r/seduction19/04/24 03:03 PM
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I'm surprised people here have no clue about this. Some comments here had a few insights on what happened, but they didn't hit the exact point. So let me tell you. People call this Last Minute Resistance, as another guy in the comment said. Ignore everyone who said that you spent too much time with her or whatever, if you said she was really into kissing up until that point, you clearly were into each other and you did everything good. The issue is that you're looking for things you did wrong, b…
/r/seduction19/04/24 02:46 PM
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Next time say: i work in porn Works much better lmao
/r/seduction31/03/24 09:49 AM
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Bruhh really? I understand the positive mindset on getting out your comfort zone and pushing boundaries, i really do, but this takes baby stepping to a whole new level lol. You had the chance to talk to her, you could’ve just went there and said anything like “what a coincidence! So funny, whatsup?” Like nothing happened. I guarantee you that would’ve changed the whole night. Good improvement but you need to push harder if you want results. You’ve been lifting for 8 years you know what i mean
/r/seduction26/03/24 07:04 PM
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facts
/r/seduction14/04/23 08:29 PM
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Ohh look at you, you're just an entitle resentful little bitch. Maybe your brother treated you shitty in the past, but what you're doing right now is a lot worse. You expect him do adapt to your problems just because you won't stop crying, making him feel bad, and you want him to die? What the fuck man Stop feeling special, stop victimizing yourself like a little baby and start fucking owning your responsibility. Everyone gets bullied, has traumas and whatever. My brother bullied me too, so what…
/r/seduction30/08/22 11:37 AM
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Outcome matters a lot, but its relative to what you desire. If your goal is to fuck more, girls will sense that, and it will show through your intentions. If your goal is to meet people, be more grateful, loving and generally being more interested in others people lives, the outcome is a lot easier and healthy. Please, do yourself a favor and read the book! it has all the answers to why you feel a certain why, trust me
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:24 PM
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Just took a look at the comments and whoaaa guys. How do you expect someone to like you if you hate yourselves
/r/seduction11/08/22 11:27 AM
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You're clearly outcome dependant. Probably soo much that it comes off as super needy. Try to fix your depression first, and then think about dating. If you don't, you may be "lucky" and find someone that's alike but then you'd just base your relationship on toxic behaviors, and you'll probably lose more years of your life pretending to fix the problem, which is at your core. Work on yourself first, the fact that you don't have friends says it all. Read Models by mark manson and go to a therapist
/r/seduction11/08/22 11:25 AM
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Bruh if this is your belief maybe you should stop hating your life or yourselves before you start even thinking about girls. I can feel the insecurity dripping from your text... I don't mean to be rude but you should obviusly go talk to a therapist
/r/seduction08/08/22 08:43 AM
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Fuck them, who cares about what they think. Its just a bunch of insecure people coming together to prove their shitty points. As if cold approaching was a strategy and not a genuine way of living. Its literally how it has always worked before socials smh
/r/seduction06/08/22 08:17 AM
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You see a problem, I see a crazy opportunity here. Think about it. Be honest with yourself. Unless you are explicitly pursuing each of them and already being exclusive with them, either one seeing you with other girls will only make them more attracted to you. Hell, they may even be attracted to each other too, that would make an hell of a night! ​ I would go just to see what happens, and having them orbit around you will attract even girls that don't know you. The key here is being honest. Don'…
/r/seduction04/08/22 10:56 AM
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Well, don't do that. If there's a remote chance to have sex she'll get ready, you dont worry about that. This way you just seem needy, and you'll look like you only want sex, which is fine but it's better if you are really genuinely interested in seeing her again, having fun together is the only thing you have to care about. ​ ANyway, i usually avoid dinners, like ever. Hard to be playful, escalate, can't get closer. Would go for drinks instead
/r/seduction03/08/22 10:08 AM
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Why the fuck would you tell a girl to shower
/r/seduction03/08/22 09:59 AM
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Well, it is a little pathetic. but the truth is, we've all been there. You have to work on your inner game, and that is, fix your depression and self deprecating state. You need to start doing stuff for yourself, and learn how to love yourself. Therapy could help
/r/seduction02/08/22 08:23 PM
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Bruh gtfo you talk about Women like they're some kind of mythical creatures
/r/seduction02/08/22 03:22 PM
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Because you never step out of your comfort zone, you let your emotions define who you are just like girls do. Men feel emotions but act through it. You lack masculinity, because you avoid taking action
/r/seduction27/07/22 09:39 AM
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I'll tell you where you fucked up, she expected you to make a move on the date, to be bold, and take action. Especially after all that time "bonding". But you didn't. And that my friend is an attraction killer to girls. I'm sorry but there's nothing you can do to recover your relationship with her. The only chance might be if you casually bump into her while out having fun and maybe she sees you with someone else, but even in this case its not worth it. Its okay to catch feelings but the moment …
/r/seduction26/07/22 04:45 PM
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Yes but only because you have to work on what you can change, and that is yourself. If you can't handle a friend of yours throwing shit at you you clearly need to work on yourself, both mentally and phisically. And its okay, everyone has to deal with this to some extent. You could say that he's an asshole but maybe he was just joking around. Someone could tell you that to fix this you should cut him off from your life but that will solve only a symptom of the main problem, as the guy above said.…
/r/seduction25/07/22 08:43 PM
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Because people that do cold are outside taking action
/r/seduction25/07/22 07:06 PM
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Good job with the approaches but... lunch date? come on bruh that's boring af
/r/seduction25/07/22 11:42 AM
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Usually the only fact that you are not trying to bed her will attract her to you, as it makes really different to everyone else who wants to be her friend only to have sex. Honest action and honest communication is key if you're interested in her. The book Models by Manson goes into a lot of detail into this mindset, and it's the most healthy way to approach seduction imo
/r/seduction23/07/22 03:41 PM
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Because creating attraction is not one means to an end. Its always useful in life, having an attractive persona doesn't mean you have to bang everyone you see. Its really useful in any type of social relationship, even work related Being direct and honest about your intentions makes you more confident and more in control with yourself. In dating its useful because you basically expose yourself to rejection, and in the case of wanting to meet women for that purpose its key because not only its sa…
/r/seduction23/07/22 01:49 PM
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Bro why the fuck you take all the advice given here and find excuses not to follow them? You can't just come here asking for advice if you're not ready to accept the fact that you know nothing about seduction. You can sit there and ponder all day to maximize your success percentage or you can grab your balls, squeeze them hard and go fucking shoot your shot. Because guess why, YOU WILL GET HURT. YOU WILL GET REJECTED. Its reeeally unlikely here given the signs but it will happen eventually, and …
/r/seduction22/07/22 08:47 PM
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I mean, its weird that she doesn't want to have sex. I'd start to believe she's getting it from someone else
/r/seduction21/07/22 08:45 AM
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Enough with stupid fucking math and go talk to people. You're a loser not because of body count but because you let this stupid mindset ruin your mental health. Accept the fact that you know nothing about seduction, and work on it. there's nothing wrong with it. But as long as you feel a special lil snowflake for something so common you won't go far
/r/seduction17/07/22 09:49 AM
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Fuck the shitty advice man, BE HONEST. you don't need to fake anything, just be real and be vulnerable. Girls love that shit, you just don't have to be ashamed, you have to own it. ​ She will sense either way that you're not experienced, and your necessity to perform well might even kill your chance completely, you might even not be able to get hard. So be fuckin real and enjoy the moment. Especially if you really like this girl, there's no reason to lie
/r/seduction11/07/22 08:22 PM
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Bro the moment you say HI its a W
/r/seduction11/07/22 07:48 PM
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Of course it fucking works, and if it doesnt for you, work on yourself. Girls react like a mirror to your vibes, if you are anxious and creepy, they'll feel that. If you're smiling and positive, they'll cheer for you
/r/seduction10/07/22 10:34 AM
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We can swing together if you want, but try to keep your hands off me
/r/seduction09/07/22 06:47 PM
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Stop playing games, just tell him you like him and would like to go out with him
/r/seduction09/07/22 05:08 PM
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Thank god tha rejection exists! I don't want to spend all my time pursuing girls that don't like me. Rejection is good cause you'll be able to focus on those who don't ​ And even if you're not good looking you can be attractive, being able to approach without fear of outcome makes you attractive either way. Its a win win, always
/r/seduction08/07/22 08:38 PM
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You know condoms are a thing right? /s ​ You did the right thing, but you should've kept making out I guess
/r/seduction26/06/22 03:03 PM
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Read Models by Mark Manson and try again after
/r/seduction26/06/22 02:13 PM
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Please stop spreading this stupid bullshit around here, it doesn't do anyone a favor. Attraction doesn't come by being good looking only, its about personality, its about intentions. See OP the problem here its that he's trying to rationalize something that for girls is entirely emotional, and you cant do that. If you think a girl will give you her number only because she thinks oh this guy is def a 8 so i must do it its completely bullshit. ​ If an handsome guy anxiously approaches a girl he wi…
/r/seduction26/06/22 02:05 PM
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You could try and fake it, or you could actually work on your self improvement to become attractive. Its not just about physical appearance, Attraction its related to the whole package. You might get a few dates faking it, but you can't keep faking it forever, girls will notice the gap beetween your words and your intentions, and will inevitably lead into a toxic relationship, if any. What you could do instead is start working out constantly, work on your mental health, meditate, journal your li…
/r/seduction26/06/22 01:41 PM
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If you're looking only to have fun I guess go for it. But be sure its not your only egg in the basket or you will be blinded by the intimacy. Obviusly we can't judge people by the cover, but having a child so early and alone, can play a big role on your mental health. And these things usually come up after spending time together for a while, not the first time and clearly not through text. So remember this ​ I'd suggest you to set up the date and then stop texting until you have to see her, you'…
/r/seduction25/06/22 08:41 AM
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Bruh you're stepping into a fuckin landmine 19 single mom, lives far. I'd go next
/r/seduction25/06/22 07:46 AM
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What you did wrong is stop at the first one, just keep doing it man
/r/seduction24/06/22 12:33 PM
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You can't be asking forreal, Graham' She's smiling at you, getting distracted by you, being physical, grabbing you, wanted to hug you, she even said she hasn't a boyfriend. SHE OBVIUSLY LIKE YOU GRAHAM'
/r/seduction24/06/22 11:40 AM
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you're missing the point here bruh, its not about where you will be going, its about PHRASING, being clear with your words. Then you can go shopping or to the laundromat, doesn't really matter
/r/seduction16/03/22 10:46 AM
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Clearly by inviting her to a date and not to go shopping :)
/r/seduction15/03/22 08:31 PM
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you got this
/r/seduction07/07/19 08:32 PM
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Hey bro thanks for the kind words. You see the thing is the real game happens in our heads, and we're pretty much gaming ourselves. what worked for me was disconnecting my mind from my body, and finding the strenght to walk to her even if my thoughts were against it. It scares us but thats just how it is, we must suffer if we want growth. I swear bro that if you manage to approach someone either way it goes you will leave with a smile on your face. Because in the end you cannot lose, you can onl…
/r/seduction07/07/19 08:05 PM
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