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So, wait, you mean to tell me that three people conspired to murder a single person? They conspired in a public restaurant at which they work, went to a public park in the middle of the day (without scoping it out to see which areas are least-traveled), were discovered by a park worker, stayed in the area, got caught for real, and then all gave conflicting statements? Add to all of this the fact that, had their plan been successful, the wife and roommates would have been the prime suspects. Seri…
/r/MensRights29/12/13 06:05 AM
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My response would be: "And according to the actual definition of sexism, anyone- male or female- can be a victim of sexism."
/r/MensRights18/09/13 11:34 AM
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I saw the comments section from the top down (of course), and thought, "I don't see any problems." scrolling scrolling Sweet mother of God. This is where feminist comments go to die. It was like reading gravestones.
/r/MensRights04/09/13 07:41 PM
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Hmmm. This is quite interesting. Either this idea is wrong, or I've had a woman following me around in secret for the last three years correcting my mistakes before they're made.
/r/MensRights11/08/13 09:42 AM
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"We just want people who make threats of rape and violence to be held accountable for their actions." "Well, there are laws that do just that." "But we want a button." "Why?" "To report threats of rape and violence against women!" "As I've stated, we have laws that cover that." "Well, all we want is for men who make threats against women to be held accountable, and if you think this is wrong, then you must be a misogynist." "I'm not a misogynist, my point has nothing to do with women, and it has…
/r/MensRights05/08/13 08:22 AM
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Tell your mom to look up the definition of ad hominem. You might want to sort out a new place to live first, though. Even if she were a tranny, how would that invalidate her position? Also, how would she know there's no proof if she only watched 4 minutes? Crazy radfem is crazy.
/r/MensRights03/08/13 12:54 AM
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I'd like to know how many accusations of misogyny this guy is going to get or has already gotten. To all of those among us saying, "This isn't true support of the MRM." This article, I think, will act as a doorway for many into the MRM as a whole. People have known these issues are there for some time now, but because nobody has mentioned it in a negative light, nobody aside from us has thought that change was needed. Once these issues are brought to light, we can begin working on correcting the…
/r/MensRights22/07/13 02:40 PM
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See, I think we're extremely close to an agreement being met here. I'm thinking about the bigger picture, and you're focusing solely on the emotional side of things. There's nothing wrong with this- for either of us. I'd like to start by pointing out that my proposition was a max sentence, and you completely ignored my rationale about plea bargaining the sentence down. If the maximum sentence is lowered, then innocent people will be less likely the rationalize taking such a deal- this is my only…
/r/MensRights22/07/13 11:21 AM
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Your statement is a bit ambiguous, do you think he's being downvoted because the people suck or his comments suck?
/r/MensRights21/07/13 01:17 AM
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God dammit, I had a long drawn out post for you discussing the proposed length of the punishment since you're finally coming on topic with your rants, but it got erased when I went to correct my spelling and my browser went back to the previous page. I'll give you the brief version. But before I get started, I want to thank you for finally kinda sorta getting back on topic with me (it only took you ~36 hours of countless, pointless, accusatory posts): Way to show a complete ignorance of the syst…
/r/MensRights20/07/13 05:28 AM
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Child sex offender attempts to rape a coworker's child, gets stopped by mother. Never disputed this. Said child sex offender is arrested in what is an open and shut case, knows the charge is life with possibility of parole after 10 years. Never disputed this. Said pedophile could choose plea bargain, meaning lesser sentence, but would have to register as a child sex offender. Said child sex offender does not wish to register as a child sex offender so refuses plea bargain. Never disputed this. E…
/r/MensRights20/07/13 01:25 AM
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Oh man, you caught me. I'm a deep cover troll. I was sent hear nearly a year ago to undermine the MRM from the inside. Damn, if only I hadn't run into you, with your keen troll senses and the mental acuity of a young Stephen Hawking! /s Here's a recap for those keeping track: Claims I'm a white knight. I explain why I'm not a white knight. Claims I'm a child rape apologist because the white knight thing didn't stick. I explain why I'm not a child rape apologist. Restates his argument for good me…
/r/MensRights20/07/13 12:45 AM
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I think it's hilarious that after I explained your arguments, and how they make no sense, you continued to use the same arguments. You're great for a laugh. I'll give you that.
/r/MensRights19/07/13 11:22 PM
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I unblocked you to read your comment history to see if you were always an asshole or if you were a troll. You keep claiming I'm white knighting, and you keep making this about gender. As I've said probably ten times before- this is not about gender for me. If this story were about a man committing lewd acts with a boy or girl, my response would have been the same. You also keep switching between calling me a white night and a child rape apologist. But as I've also stated before, I do not fit the…
/r/MensRights19/07/13 10:00 PM
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I just read through your comment history to see if you've always had such a "holier than thou" attitude (and partly because I thought you might be a good troll). I found a few posts where you mentioned being a rape survivor, and with that knowledge, I can understand your point of view a bit more. I don't agree with it, but I can understand it. I've confirmed your bias, though I haven't yet decided if your bias is a good thing or not. On the one hand, you have more personal experience with acts l…
/r/MensRights19/07/13 12:15 PM
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People say the punishment doesn't fit the crime, and he flips his shit about how we're all "child rape apologists." Despite people telling him that we do care about the boy, but saying that life with the possibility of parole at 10 years is a bit much, he maintains that we don't really care about the boy or we'd be calling for her head on a platter. Despite pointing out that we'd feel the same way if the genders were reversed, he claims we're white knighting and giving her a "pussy pass." This m…
/r/MensRights19/07/13 08:03 AM
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Because they're blind to the double standard. I've had discussions about this with a handful of feminists, and surprisingly, for the most part, the moderate feminists can see the logic I present and agree with it. However, there are some who close their mind to the idea. Most of these people hide behind the same rationale that pro-lifers use, and when pointed out, will try to rationalize that they're actually not using the same rationale as pro-lifers. Some will say things like, "Well why does t…
/r/MensRights19/07/13 07:28 AM
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Stop pretending you're any kind of MRA and get the fuck out of the MRM. Nah, I think I'll stay. I've disputed every one of your points, and you've been stuck on repeat for the past 24 hours. You are a fool. I'll be blocking you, as I prefer not to read the opinions of deluded radicals. It's the same reason I don't sub to SRS. I hope you come to see how blind you are. Until then, do us a favor and keep the drivel spewing to a minimum.
/r/MensRights19/07/13 06:49 AM
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I know you think that you're laying some heavy truth on me right now, but I can't help thinking about much of an idiot you are. You are a victim of cognitive bias. Nothing I can say to you will make you see this because you are mentally defunct, but I love beating dead horses, so here it goes. You say we're child rape apologists for thinking that a life prison sentence is too harsh for this woman, but the truth is, we think life in prison would be too harsh for men in this exact situation as wel…
/r/MensRights19/07/13 03:28 AM
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A "pussy pass" is a woman getting lesser sentence than a man because of her gender. Nobody here is advocating that. Just about everybody is pointing out how fucked up it is that she's getting life for lewd conduct with a minor. (or attempted rape, whatever you want to call it.) You just told a person, whose own mother was molested as a child, and has seen the damage it can cause firsthand, they are a child rape apologist. There are so many fucked up things with that statement it's unreal. First,…
/r/MensRights18/07/13 04:10 PM
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You're delusional. One could argue that the injustice done to the boy is being addressed, and the topic is only about how much punishment is needed. The majority of posts (by MRAs, I might add) have been about how extreme the sentence is. So, it would seem that the default MRM stance on this topic is how the sentencing is too extreme. Now this is where you say, "But the MRM as a whole believes that injustic... rabble rabble rabble." And then I say, "We're not talking about the MRM as a whole, we…
/r/MensRights18/07/13 03:34 PM
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Except I wasn't commenting on whether or not the opinions expressed in this thread were valid. I merely pointed out that your assessment of the "default MRM" stance was demonstrably false.
/r/MensRights18/07/13 03:02 PM
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Attempted rape =/= rape. Saying they're the same thing doesn't make them the same thing, no matter how hard you try. And, no, it wasn't a strawman. I posted on topic about the punishment, and you have been jumping down everyone's throats about our lack of discussion when it comes to the plight of the boy, when the topic was clearly about the punishment. Sure, it's acceptable to discuss the crime in question, but the main topic was the punishment. The two outcomes are mutually exclusive. Murder o…
/r/MensRights18/07/13 02:53 PM
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Stop pretending that your position here has been even remotely close to the default MRM position and own your shit here! I would think the fact that almost every post of yours is in the negative on the MR subreddit, and the majority of top level comments are pointing out how fucked up her sentence was would contradict your previous statement. You are clearly the minority in this.
/r/MensRights18/07/13 02:21 PM
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Soliciting a minor is not the same thing as raping a minor. Clearly you have a problem with exaggeration and speculation. Nobody said the child didn't get a raw deal. I certainly haven't said he wouldn't be scarred for life. But as far as I'm concerned, the punishment was the topic of discussion presented by the OP. So we discussed the punishment- which is completely out of line. Also, my mom was molested as a kid by her grandfather. She was emotionally scarred for a long time, but she's come to…
/r/MensRights18/07/13 02:06 PM
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But yes, it's all about the female child rapist Did she get convicted of rape? No? Was it even reported that she raped him? No? Do you just want to call her a rapist because it fits your agenda? Yeah. Seriously. I've read your replies. They all say, "if she'd had her way, he would have been raped." First off, that's pure speculation. Do courts allow speculation? Remind me. Secondly, if you're likening groping, kissing, and propositioning to the violent act of rape, you are no better than the fem…
/r/MensRights18/07/13 01:37 PM
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It wasn't 10 years. It was life with the possibility of parole at 10 years.
/r/MensRights18/07/13 01:11 PM
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To all the posts saying "she saw the logic" or "she's using common sense," no, no she didn't and no she isn't. She doesn't see the logic behind it. She just wants to shut us up about it, and she doesn't think that anyone would utilize it if it came about. She's created a set of arbitrary, overly-harsh rules to go along with because she wants us to point out that they're unreasonable. Then she can say, "AH HA! I knew you deadbeats just wanted to get out of paying your child support while keeping …
/r/MensRights18/07/13 01:02 PM
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I thought the title was a typo. Life for lewd conduct? The fuck? She deserved jail time, but life- seriously? Nobody thought that was a bit extreme when they were writing the law? I think 10 years with possibility of parole at 2 years would be sufficient. This does beg the question, though, if the law wasn't intended for people like her, who was it intended for?
/r/MensRights18/07/13 12:32 PM
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What argument? The hypothetical, misogynistic statement? You're kidding, right? Please tell me you're joking.
/r/MensRights15/07/13 11:19 AM
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If I said, "I don't think women should have the right to vote because their having the right to vote would ruin society as we know it, but I don't hate women." You wouldn't say that I hate women? Not even a little bit? I believe you'd be intellectually dishonest if you say that statement wasn't misogynistic. And that is the same argument, reworded, that I hear Christians espousing anytime the subject is brought up. When your "stance" involves denying others the same rights you enjoy, that is hat…
/r/MensRights15/07/13 08:46 AM
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This isn't really a discussion about Christian's feelings about gay marriage as I was merely using them as an example, but since you brought it up... Let's rephrase your statement to see if it holds up, yeah? "Most people who are against interracial marriage, don't hate colored folk." or, if the hyperbole was too strong there... "Most people who don't wish for group 'A' to have the same rights as group 'B,' don't hate group 'A." This is bigotry, plain and simple.
/r/MensRights15/07/13 08:33 AM
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I enjoyed the last bit about the NAFALT messages. It always astounds me when people say, "we're not all like that!" True, but it reminds of my encounters with Christians when the subject of hating homosexuals comes up. They say the same thing, to which I respond, "Yes, obviously not all of you are like that, but the most vocal are. So what are you doing when you hear these people speak? Do you refute their opinions, and if they are unwilling to hear it, ostracize them from your life? Or do you d…
/r/MensRights14/07/13 08:26 PM
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I was going to joke and say, "I bet a woman came up with this." But I looked, and it looked like I was only half-right. The program was co-founded by Ted Waitt of the Waitt Foundation and Esta Soler of Futures Without Violence. But I had doubts. I looked a little deeper, and Cindy Waitt, Ted's sister and a big proponent of the program, called it "Futures Without Violence's 'Coaching Boys into Men." Perhaps she's being humble, but I think it means that Esta Soler played a larger part in the creat…
/r/MensRights13/07/13 12:11 PM
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The arguments they use to support the posters they put up could also be used by bigots putting up posters about African Americans selling drugs. This is like Hutus saying their slaughter of the Tutsis was completely different than Nazis slaughtering the Jews in WWII. The details may differ, but the end result is the same. Genocide is genocide regardless of who is getting killed, and bigotry is bigotry regardless of who is the target. I think both posters are terrible, but the MRE version was a p…
/r/MensRights12/07/13 06:55 AM
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People arguing against that would simply say, "his choice was to have sex, and his responsibility is to be a father." Of course, this is the same argument pro-lifers use against abortion, which makes the discussion fuckin' hilarious.
/r/MensRights11/07/13 01:55 AM
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From the pictures I saw, the dude had his hands on her throat in public. Yeah... I'm not going to stick up for him either.
/r/MensRights08/07/13 10:47 AM
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I think if the primary cause of the divorce is infidelity, alimony should go off of the table if the person requesting it is the adulterer. Also full custody should not be granted to someone with such weak willpower, such little morality, and such little regard for their SO- definitely not to someone with no income (since they can't get alimony for cheating) Also, $10 bucks says that in the ensuing divorce she claims abuse. If this man has half a brain, he'll get her to admit to claiming abuse w…
/r/MensRights08/07/13 07:58 AM
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You hear that, men being abused by women, men being thrown in jail for false rape accusations, men having their children ripped from their lives because of vindictive ex-wives and corrupt courts, men paying out the ass for child support for a kid they never wanted? We have no right to complain. We should shut the fuck up, take our beatings like good little boys, and let feminism take care of women's problems. Never mind the fact that we don't actually try to stop women from having rights. Never …
/r/MensRights07/07/13 12:11 AM
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I think the fact that these posters assume that only men are rapists, but also that this is normal behavior for men, is quite telling. Of course, the proponents of these posters always say, "We don't think all men are rapists, I mean, you don't get offended when you see a sign that says 'we prosecute shoplifters' while at a store, do you?" But those signs don't name a specific group. Everyone would be up in arms if the sign outside the store said, "We prosecute shoplifters. Don't be that African…
/r/MensRights05/07/13 11:35 PM
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I'm assuming you've, y'know, talked to her? If you express your desire for fatherhood to her, and she still doesn't want a child, that's pretty much it, man.
/r/MensRights04/07/13 06:43 PM
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I'd wager putting a black man in jail makes them harder than just putting a man in jail.
/r/MensRights03/07/13 02:12 PM
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Statistically... Then you leave out the statistic you're referencing. Tsk. Tsk.
/r/MensRights02/07/13 05:32 PM
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You're saying using protection is better than simply removing the risk involved? Don't get me wrong, what you're saying is sound advice for the world we currently live in, but it leaves much to be desired. Wouldn't you rather that trust not come into it, that you could bow out of an unwanted pregnancy?
/r/MensRights02/07/13 05:24 PM
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TL;DR: "Women should have the right to choose when to become a parent, but men should not have this right because pregnancy."
/r/MensRights02/07/13 01:56 PM
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Wow, that gave me a whole new outlook on women in the Middle East. Seems like a raw deal for men and women.
/r/MensRights28/06/13 03:43 PM
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Obviously women in the middle east are still horribly oppressed by men. These women aren't talking about women in the Middle East, though. They're talking about women in the west. Even if they were talking about women in general, why the fuck am I being held accountable for something I have no say in? EDIT: After watching the newest GWW video, as /u/Nipplestoker suggested, I can no longer say that women in the Middle East are oppressed by men. They are in a situation that may not be ideal for al…
/r/MensRights28/06/13 12:48 PM
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Why would the government do that? They make less money off of married couples from what I understand. This seems like a blessing to the gov't.
/r/MensRights27/06/13 05:03 PM
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I can't help but ask what "rights" I have that a woman doesn't. I can think of a right that women have, but men do not, though. That would be the right to autonomy in reference to parenthood. People are actively fighting for this right to remain with women, but if it's framed as a man wanting the right to choose, suddenly it's: "Oh, no, you've gotta man up! You've got to be responsible for your actions!" And this is coming from pro-choice feminists.
/r/MensRights27/06/13 04:59 PM
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I think you missed my point. Unless the "extra" money is a part of the court order... STOP. PAYING. THAT. SHIT. Have you checked with the Florida Bar Association for aid? 'Cause it sounds like you checked a few lawyers from the phone book, and are now calling it quits. You want to see your daughter ever again? Start working towards it.
/r/MensRights25/06/13 04:53 PM
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Seeing as how the support you've been giving is largely uncalled for, my suggestion would be to fight fire with fire. If she doesn't want to give you the overnights you've been allotted, don't give her the extra money. Pay what the court order states and nothing more. Make it crystal clear that you will not pay more until she starts abiding to the order. I say this because this woman sees you as one giant dollar sign. If that dollar sign diminishes, she'll try to get you to continue paying the a…
/r/MensRights25/06/13 04:29 PM
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That was great. I haven't laughed so hard at a men's rights post in a while.
/r/MensRights23/06/13 02:00 AM
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My thoughts exactly. If we're to infer that the man in the photo is saying, "no," then why does he look so happy?
/r/MensRights22/06/13 08:35 PM
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"The default should be to believe the victim, not the perpetrator." Fuck everything about this mindset. The onus is on the accuser to prove guilt.
/r/MensRights22/06/13 02:04 AM
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So, a woman says that she had consensual sex with a man on the condition that he not ejaculate inside of her. She says he did so, intentionally, and she became pregnant as a result. She calls this rape. If true- yes, it's rape. Now for the crux of the issue: How do you prove it? Did he sign a contract, did she make a recording, or was there no evidence that this was said at all? Because this seems like a "he said, she said" case. This actually raises a point of interest. The article did not use …
/r/MensRights20/06/13 05:49 AM
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I recently discussed this very subject with a mod of r/feminism. They used the same "don't want to be a dad, well then don't have sex" argument. When I pointed out the similarity between their opinion of fatherhood and prolifer's opinions of abortion, they responded with this: Your comment is predicated on conflating parenthood with parenthood risk (or, more correctly, on conflating the position that "consent to sex is consent to parenthood" with the position that "consent to sex is consent to t…
/r/MensRights13/06/13 10:01 PM
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Though I'm pretty sure this is a parody of Andy Hinds' article- from context- I can't help but notice that the author is drawing a parallel with desire for physical violence and a desire for sex. One desire is healthy and normal, and the other is a sign of a psychopath. The fact that she drew this parallel means that she thinks male sexuality is psychopathic in nature. She's either a bigot who needs to wake the fuck up, or she's a piss poor writer who needs to work on her writing skills- or both…
/r/MensRights01/06/13 12:51 PM
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I can understand where the poster is coming. In their eyes, the friendzonee is being nice just to get into the girl's pants. They're being manipulative. So it's understandable to be critical of the behavior- much in the same way we would be critical of a woman manipulating a man with her sexuality in order to get things done for her.
/r/MensRights31/05/13 05:58 PM
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"You don't know what it's like to be a woman, but, as a woman, I know what it's like to be a man- so you should listen to me." Makes perfect sense.
/r/MensRights28/05/13 07:33 PM
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Must be why Africa is such a well-developed, independent, peaceful continent.
/r/MensRights08/05/13 06:45 AM
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So to recap: • MRA's have legitimate issues, but women's legitimate issues take precedence because fuck logic. • The MRM is unnecessary because feminism is working on their issues. Disregard the fact that this contradicts the first statement. Just take my word for it. • The MRM is filled with misogynists. I would like to add that I made up a new definition for "misogyny." I can't tell you what it means, just that it's not the actual meaning of misogyny. • If we're seeking true gender equality, w…
/r/MensRights05/05/13 02:51 AM
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That's impossible. Women are incapable of such malicious acts, and even if they were, women can't be held responsible for their actions while intoxicated! What do you think they are? Adults capable of making life choices?
/r/MensRights04/05/13 07:02 PM
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I'll give you a hint: it's the one who doesn't have a vagina.
/r/MensRights04/05/13 05:41 PM
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My thoughts on trans-gendered people in general? I'm fine with them. It's tough to go through life feeling like you got placed in the wrong body, and even tougher when there are still so many people out there who hate them for who they are. In reference to the MRM? Everybody is welcome here. If they want to join us in fighting for men's rights or simply discussing men's rights- they should not be excluded.
/r/MensRights20/04/13 10:41 PM
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If we started a new movement every time someone said or did something we personally disagreed with, we'd have too many "movements" to be relevant. How about instead of trying to become the "leader" of a new movement, you contribute to the current movement to affect the change you're wanting from the inside? That being said, your post was extremely vague. You essentially said, "I'm an MRA, but I disagree with a lot of things here." What don't you like? Why should we join you? What do you have to …
/r/MensRights20/04/13 10:32 PM
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Another reason I'm not getting married to, having a kid with, or living with a woman.
/r/MensRights20/04/13 10:17 PM
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So wait, she submitted the journal that led to the verdict being given to the plaintiff? She must be the dumbest woman alive. It says right in the journal that she wanted to screw him over. What did she think the judge was going to say to that? Did she think she would just gloss over that and focus on the "poor me" act?
/r/MensRights14/04/13 06:56 AM
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And when she eventually gets what's coming to her, nobody on either side shall shed a tear.
/r/MensRights11/04/13 01:52 PM
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What I read: "It's not a non-issue, it's just not important." It makes me wonder if they thought about what they were saying before saying it, or if words just fall from their mouth like shit from an ass?
/r/MensRights10/04/13 09:48 AM
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I never understood the point that she was trying to make. "If you would just shut the fuck up, you'd realize that we're on the same side!" Two things: If we're on the same side, why are you protesting? If you think feminism is handling men's issues, but men's issues still exist, why protest a talk about them? Is it because you dislike it when people waste time performing redundant tasks? Or is it because you know that feminism isn't addressing these issues, and if you allow them to be discussed,…
/r/MensRights07/04/13 01:50 AM
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My rage has subsided with my morning cup'o'joe, and even more so now that I know your life is going better- with more planned for the future.
/r/MensRights06/04/13 12:39 PM
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I'm raging pretty hard right now. I would have done everything in my power to see her locked in a cage for the rest of her life. I hope you have a happy ending, I know you deserve one.
/r/MensRights06/04/13 12:07 PM
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You either have the patience of a saint, or she was way better trained/ stronger than you are. Or you could be a pacifist, in which case, I give you much respect. It's hard to refrain from violence, especially when it's being perpetrated against you. Had my SO done the same, I would have a hard time restraining myself from issuing a well-deserved beating. That being said, if, in this hypothetical, I actually did hit back- I'd be in prison, and she'd be on national news being portrayed as the vic…
/r/MensRights06/04/13 11:43 AM
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Women are rational about cheating and say "No." when confronted? I guess when my first real girlfriend cheated, and then oh so subtly stopped talking to me and became distant- it was her way of acting rationally. She wasn't letting her emotions get better of her! And when I confronted her (after finding out from her best friend) she bawled her eyes out and begged me to forgive her- it was her way of saying "No, I didn't fuck someone behind your back!" And it wasn't the alcohol that made her chea…
/r/MensRights31/03/13 02:52 AM
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Military and sports should not lower their standards. Women should rise to the standards that men must follow-especially when lives are on the line. I think that they would be able to do it.
/r/MensRights18/03/13 06:53 PM
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If I were married, I'd be happy for her, and it wouldn't bug me in the slightest- however, the responses I'd get would bother me. "Oh, your wife makes more than you? What a deadbeat loser."
/r/MensRights17/03/13 02:45 PM
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"Sir, the fire's spreading rapidly! What do we do?" "I think the best thing to do here is light some more shit on fire." "That's why we pay you the big bucks, sir." He doesn't need another woman. He needs to get himself in order- then, when he's ready, he can go get another woman. Seriously, in his current mental state he wouldn't be able to hold a healthy relationship. The girl doesn't deserve that, and the last thing he needs is another possible fuck over by the opposite sex.
/r/MensRights17/03/13 02:40 PM
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All I could think of while reading this was the "it's not gay if the balls don't touch" rationalization. It's like someone went and applied it to rape.
/r/MensRights17/03/13 02:25 PM
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That has to be the dumbest excuse I've ever heard. "Your Honor, I didn't mean to stab him through the heart, I just wanted to stab him a little, but the knife was so long it plunged right up in there." Ten bucks says she gets a lighter sentence because she's a beautiful woman.
/r/MensRights15/03/13 02:17 PM
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So you're saying I've had it easier than a black person or gay person- who've gone through the same things. I can agree with that. My problem is that it's never used like that. It's a blanket statement. They just flat out say that I've had an easy life. Which is untrue. It takes someone who's actually experiencing a shitty life, and it says, "Oh, if you think you have it shitty, just think about how it would've been if you were black!" Which is, again, extremely dismissive and insulting. To whic…
/r/MensRights04/03/13 10:19 PM
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Which is a vast oversimplification and rather insulting. No two people in the world have lived the same life. To take a group of these people and say, "You've got it easier than party a or party b" is extremely insulting to those who actually have it worse or as worse as party a or b. It's dismissive and hurtful.
/r/MensRights04/03/13 07:14 AM
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If this were a group of boys- the old man would've been within his rights to beat each one and claim self defense if anything came of it. Which is what I would have done in this situation- beaten each girl to the point they ran away or were leaving with a scar. This idea that women are physically incapable of causing harm is completely sexist. Towards women in that they're not taken seriously, and toward men in that they're treated like social outcasts for defending themselves. And you get peopl…
/r/MensRights03/03/13 02:37 AM
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I'm a single, straight, white male. According to feminism, my privilege is off the charts. Forget the fact that throughout my childhood I was beaten by my dad, verbally abused by my dad, picked on at school, and when I hit 18 my drug addled father and mother convinced me that if I didn't take out loans and kite checks in my name so he and my mom could get pills, they'd both die, so my credit is shit. I'm soooo privileged, and my life has been soooo easy. In case anyone is wondering, my dad's dea…
/r/MensRights02/03/13 11:31 AM
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This seems really fake- I refuse to believe that not only are there people like this in the general population, but that they give each other pointers on how to be despicable human beings.
/r/MensRights28/02/13 04:18 PM
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This is gold. I would have been cracking up if I was the one giving that ruling. It would have gone something like this: "Sir, you think that your wallet is more important than the child, that until this point saw you as their father? That your wallet is more important than the financial well -being of this innocent? Well, sir, you are wrong! Here in Virginia, we take child support payments very seriously. We will not let this injustice go unanswered! Right around here the mother starts seeing d…
/r/MensRights28/02/13 06:59 AM
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Having actually had a TENS unit attached to my body at full blast, fuck that noise. On a side note, if they were willing participants- why care? Unless you only care about your friends "jumping at the chance to use it on their SO" in which case, carry on.
/r/MensRights23/02/13 04:36 PM
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Disgusted is a better word for what I feel while reading some of the stories posted here. It boggles the mind how people can be so cold-hearted sometimes.
/r/MensRights17/02/13 03:02 PM
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No need to hope. I'm a good person, and I don't take any act of violence lightly. Man or woman- if I hit you, it's because I have no other option. Though, with divorce/ paternity laws being what they are, I doubt I'll be getting married any time soon. Anyway, I'll leave you with this; Telling kids not to beat their wives doesn't do anything productive. To solve a problem you treat the cause, not the symptom. You need to know why someone hits their wife and then fix that. Even in your situation, …
/r/MensRights15/02/13 01:52 PM
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The funny thing is that I also came from an abusive household. I didn't have any issue seeing who was at fault in my situation. Also, based on your story, you didn't need someone telling you not to hit your loved ones, you needed someone telling you that it wasn't your fault that you were born to shitty father. It seems that you've come to realize this now, though.
/r/MensRights15/02/13 09:56 AM
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I love this idea you're perpetuating. The idea that if there's someone doing something evil in the world, it's because they were never taught any different. News flash: people do bad things in spite of knowing they're bad things because gasp they're bad people.
/r/MensRights15/02/13 07:27 AM
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I assume you mean her use of "waif?" If so, waif usually means "a child covered in filth wandering the streets." Which means you must have been under the impression she was trying to use the Engrish term "waifu." Unless I'm reading too much into this, and completely overlooked her misuse of some other term.
/r/MensRights15/02/13 07:07 AM
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You carry these on you at all times? If so, that is, what, three mags each? What firearms do you carry?
/r/MensRights15/02/13 06:57 AM
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They shouldn't be and they aren't, but when discussing male issues feminists always make the claim that feminism helps males when it doesn't. Not really anyway. It does attempt to break down traditional gender roles but even then the help given is a byproduct and not an intended effect. When you bring this up, they either ignore you or they mock you.
/r/MensRights09/02/13 08:25 PM
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I posted something similar to this on r/feminism when I saw someone calling this sub a hate group. I didn't post it as eloquently as you did, but the message was essentially the same. The MRM is a reactionary movement, but not against feminism. The MRM came about because of feminism failing to address issues that men face. They claim to be for equality of the sexes, but if you bring an issue felt solely by men, they all cry "wataboutehmenz" or complain that the discussion has nothing to do with …
/r/MensRights09/02/13 06:04 PM
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There was a case recently in Oklahoma where a mans store was being robbed so he pulled out a gun and shot one of the robbers, a teenage black kid, in the head. He then went after his accomplice, and after failing to shoot him down, returned inside, reloaded his gun, and fired several more shots into the boy. He also claimed self defense. He didn't get a pass, even though there was physical evidence proving that his life was endangered. This because what he did surpassed "self defense" when he re…
/r/MensRights07/02/13 04:58 PM
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What a condescending prick. He didn't even try to win us over. He just went straight for the ad hominem and sweeping generalizations. I saw this post on r/feminism and many of the comments expressed distaste because "MRAs won't be brought into the fold like this." It's possible to be an MRA and a feminist. Instead of ignoring half of the population why don't we all just be decent human beings and care about other people's problems?
/r/MensRights06/02/13 09:04 PM
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Hillary? Is that you?
/r/MensRights03/02/13 11:33 AM
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When someone tells me to "check my privilege" without actually knowing me or my struggles it comes off as an insult. Its them telling me that Ive had an easy life. Or as they've said to me- not easy, just easier. It really seems like a way to tell someone to shut the fuck up, though.
/r/MensRights03/02/13 11:29 AM
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This something we all can agree on- which is a rarity. I do agree, though, that women should be held to the same standards that men are. This is war. Your inability to do as your comrades do could cost them their lives or your life. There should be no exceptions made here.
/r/MensRights25/01/13 11:00 AM
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Everything I've ever heard of Ayaan Hirsi Ali has made me respect her. She seems like an amazing individual.
/r/MensRights25/01/13 10:43 AM
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Call him to testify? Why would they do that? My God, that could further traumatize his poor, defenseless attempted murderer!
/r/MensRights22/01/13 08:33 AM
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I'm curious to see how this is received. Will this entrench the ever-popular idea that "men are pigs," or will this open people's eyes to the fact that women are just as capable if not more capable of doing harm? I'm sure it will be the former since most people that see the trailer and then want to see it are going to be feminists. It'll probably just end up being feminist porn.
/r/MensRights21/01/13 03:13 PM
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Statistically speaking, your marriage is likely to end in divorce. When a couple gets divorced, statistically speaking, the husband is more likely to get raked over the coals. So, knowing this, why the fuck would any man in their right mind choose marriage over bachelorhood?
/r/MensRights21/01/13 07:43 AM
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I wish you'd have said something like: "Don't flatter yourself." - as you pulled out your keys.
/r/MensRights18/01/13 07:02 AM
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Pretty much hit the nail on the head. I was talking to some friends recently when the topic of marriage came up. Now, they don't know about my being an MRA- mostly because I follow don't ask; don't tell when it comes to my philosophy. I started to chime in explaining why I'll likely never get married, but to my surprise my friend Nick finished my sentence. Everyone nodded in agreement. Not one thought marriage was a good idea, and all because of the trap it's become.
/r/MensRights16/01/13 10:23 AM
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You sure showed him! Way to resort to ad hominem attacks instead of showing him why he's wrong! Usually, this is where you say that you don't care enough to correct "such a delusional group of people." But, honestly, if that were the case, why post at all? You cared just enough to say something meaningless? I like to imagine that people who resort to ad hominem would like to respond in a more civil way, but simply can't think of anything to say in response. So their failure to respond intelligen…
/r/MensRights07/12/12 04:21 AM
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They deny that men even have real issues. So, to them, men stating that they have issues is like a person from third world country hearing someone from a first world country talking about how it's so shitty that their wifi isn't working. This is, of course, utter bullshit. In reality, it's more like someone from the city hearing someone from the country talking about shitty drivers. "Oh, you think you have shitty drivers in the country, eh? Well, here in the city our drivers are actually shitty,…
/r/MensRights18/11/12 01:09 AM
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Or they could see it for what it is, a non-chalant, sarcastic response. My post was not an effort to be cynical. My post was designed to match the spirit of OP's friends' posts. I sincerely doubt that they were seriously trying to be sexist when they posted it. They were operating off of the stereotype that they see day in and day out, that men are terrible parents. What better way to show them that they're wrong, than to literally show them that they're wrong, but do it in a playful fashion. I …
/r/MensRights03/11/12 11:13 PM
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Aside from being a homicidal maniac on par with Hitler, I don't think she understands how war happens. Wars have nothing to do with gender. They're typically based either on ideological or material issues. (ie, oil and religion) Unless she thinks that men are the only gender capable of acts of violence, in which case, she's simply out of touch with reality because instances of female violence are easily viewable on youtube.
/r/MensRights03/11/12 09:12 AM
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I'd post this: A well-known father A well-known mother And maybe polish it off with a non-chalant just sayin'. (PS. just click the video to play it.)
/r/MensRights03/11/12 08:26 AM
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The difference between victims here is intent. A woman dressing "slutty" intends to attract normal people. A man who whips his dick out and flips everyone off during a feminist rally intends to piss people off. When normal people get pissed off they tend react aggressively- be that through physical contact or verbal assault.
/r/MensRights26/10/12 05:15 PM
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If you go to any large gathering of people who all share the same opinion, and then give a display of disrespect- you should expect an ass beating. This would be like showing up to the Vancouver riot in 2011 dressed in full Bruins gear while singing "We Are the Champions." This does't put the perpetrators in the right, but the victim wasn't in the right either.
/r/MensRights26/10/12 06:26 AM
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Was going to complain about the doxxing until I saw the end of the video. She seems like the stereotypical man hater- from her shitty attitude, to her shitty prose, to her shitty looks.
/r/MensRights22/10/12 01:43 PM
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Sounds like you've already made your decision. I hope you can live with it.
/r/MensRights22/10/12 12:59 PM
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Your wife has a skewed sense of morality. There's nothing "selfish" about doing the right thing. She's trying to turn this into a "Him or me" decision because she wants you to think that that is what the choice is. The reality is that the choices are "right" and "wrong." You can choose not to offer to testify (they may not even need/ want you to) which is wrong. Or you can choose to offer to to testify, which is the right thing to do in this case. Your testimony could set this man free. If his d…
/r/MensRights22/10/12 05:46 AM
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Being "really creepy" doesn't make him a rapist. Being "really creepy" doesn't constitute losing your livelihood, being jailed for 5-10 years, and being permanently labelled a sex offender. Nobody knows if your testimony will set this man free, but I can assure you that without it he is most definitely going to jail.
/r/MensRights20/10/12 06:55 PM
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I would offer to testify, personally. This could go a few different ways. Bear in mind, I'm no lawyer, so take what I say with a grain of salt. She fails to get the guy convicted because of your testimony, and the guy presses charges against her. If she loses, she loses her job (assuming there's jail time), and get's what's coming to her. She fails to get the guy convicted because of your testimony, and things go back to normal. Only now she knows that you testified, and she works with both you …
/r/MensRights20/10/12 05:03 PM
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Seems pretty innocent to me. The way I see it, you thought this was relevant for two reasons: one, you think women getting in free while we have to pay is sexist (it is), or two, you think women have a lot more going for them than "free entry." I'm inclined to think you mean the latter... so let me just say this. This is not a pissing contest. This is not an "Oh, you think you've got it bad?? Well how about [insert random instance of misandry]" moment. This is literally the only time speaking up…
/r/MensRights20/10/12 04:36 PM
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I've gone to /r/Christianity and posted opposing viewpoints numerous times. I don't get banned. I get downvoted. I understand what you were trying to say, but I figured I'd come to the defense of their subreddit. The people of /r/Christianity are okay in my book - and this is coming from an atheist.
/r/MensRights20/10/12 10:02 AM
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To what end? What would our justification be? The media would make them out to be victims, and we'd appear the aggressors. We'd look like villains, which would play right into their hand. No, the best course of action is to do nothing.
/r/MensRights19/10/12 09:38 PM
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You know what I did when someone informed me I was getting too fat? I stopped eating as much and started working out. I'm now down ~70 lbs. How a grown woman can be so immature is beyond me. If a stranger calling you fat bothers you so much, maybe you should lose some weight instead of chastising them for pointing out your obvious flaws. EDIT: I'm assuming people are downvoting because I said a fat person that's bothered by being fat should try to stop being fat. If they have a better solution f…
/r/MensRights19/10/12 04:52 PM
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"That's what we call fun." How mature. I can tell this mod is a real proponent of equal rights.
/r/MensRights19/10/12 12:31 PM
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Marriage is such a ridiculous idea to me now that I will never get married even if I find the love of my life. I'm not even sure I want kids anymore. It'd be like getting a sweet car, and then one day your girlfriend absconds with it. Both of your names are on the title, so you go to court, only to find that they don't give a fuck about you because the judge gets paid for making you pay her. So now, not only do you not get to drive this sweet car, but you must now pay for her gas and car insuran…
/r/MensRights15/10/12 09:24 AM
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Are you kidding me? Being raped makes the rape victim feel degraded, paranoid, and powerless. Gender does not matter, and to try to make it sound like men are in anyway worse off, emotionally speaking, after being raped is both sad and disgusting. Rape victims of both genders share the capacity to be equally fucked up post-rape.
/r/MensRights14/10/12 01:45 PM
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I don't think they'd dox the MRM. What would their justification be? "They're misogynistic because they speak out against misandry, double standards, and laws that negatively affect men!" I mean, say what you want about the extremists of the MRM, the misogynistic assholes that they are, but you could say the same about the extremists of the feminist movement, those that publicly call for the fucking genocide of men. I don't get why both sides just can't get along? We both want better treatment f…
/r/MensRights12/10/12 04:32 AM
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The idea that anyone is just naturally better than somebody else at something simply because of their gender alone is ridiculous.
/r/MensRights01/09/12 12:12 AM
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I thought that was fairly obvious. How could that be construed as being the male perspective of abortion?
/r/MensRights28/08/12 08:07 PM
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I wish there was another name for people like them. I want feminism to be synonymous with equality and empowerment of women, not power-grubbing and shaming of men.
/r/MensRights23/08/12 11:14 AM
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In what universe does this make sense? What rational human being can be confronted with that situation and take away, "Oh, I'm such a monster for wanting to do my laundry in the presence of a scared girl?"
/r/MensRights23/08/12 11:07 AM
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