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| 5 | How do you proceed when the girls want a relationship, but you don’t?Still be upfront and direct about it? Anything else will possibly lead them on. | /r/seduction | 24/03/26 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Leave the relationship building to the womenIf that’s what you get from this interaction, then you still missed the point. Have a good day | /r/seduction | 11/03/26 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Leave the relationship building to the womenYes, mutual prioritization. If you think “prioritizing relationship” is all about blowing kisses and sending love letters, then that’s hilarious. | /r/seduction | 11/03/26 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Leave the relationship building to the womenDid I say world and living matters don’t matter? Did I fucking say to spend your time blowing kisses and sending love letters?? Lmao. That’s not what prioritizing each other even means here. You’re putting each other first and putting in the mutual effort to keep the relationship/marriage strong and healthy, for us and our family. I’m sacrificing all that I can for us because I prioritize us. I fight for our loved ones and I expect the same thing from my partner. Your lack of effort and care wou… | /r/seduction | 11/03/26 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Leave the relationship building to the womenIt’s still a turn off when both parties don’t mutually prioritize the other. I love a man working hard towards his purpose and passion, but I personally find it really unattractive and lose interest fast if he prioritizes that over me and our relationship. Good luck with everything! | /r/seduction | 10/03/26 05:20 PM |
| 6 | Leave the relationship building to the womenThat’s exactly how you get her to not put the relationship first as well. Lack of effort and initiation such a turn off from just anyone. | /r/seduction | 10/03/26 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Controversial: It’s fine to text back immediatelyIf they don’t text me back immediately, I take it as they’re not that interested and he didn’t like our time together enough to be excited to spend more time with me. | /r/seduction | 14/01/26 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, how do you like to be flirted with?A little bit of teasing and bantering. If you want to compliment me, then do it. I’d always appreciate it. | /r/seduction | 08/12/25 06:26 PM |
| 2 | What’s more attractive: the guy who sends 10 messages, or the one who replies when he wants?For real. It’s about putting in the effort and showing interest. Doesn’t matter how busy or free you are, I want to know you’re just looking forward and eager to talk to me, because that shit makes me feel special. | /r/seduction | 26/10/25 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Do women really like men who are players, or have opinions?Yes. It’s also like having a dozen people in their dm’s, but they’re only interested in talking to that one special person aka you vs entertaining everyone in their dm’s. Everyone wants to feel special and chosen. | /r/seduction | 17/07/25 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Does asking "are you single" makes you weird?Personally, I don’t think it’s weird. Though if you’re approaching me asking if I was single, I’d like to know why and I appreciate some directness. | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 12:23 AM |
| 2 | If a girl wants a relationship but you want to have her as a fwb, how and most importantly when do you tell her ?Be straight up from the beginning. Tell her your intentions and don’t lead people on. | /r/seduction | 30/11/24 07:56 AM |
| 3 | Women’s Seduction Subreddit?I’d be down, OP. Sounds fun and would like to hear more tips and stories from others. | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 02:18 PM |
| 15 | How many of you fake being into things like astrology and tarot cards to get laid?Honestly, that has always worked on me too haha, when they playfully tease and entertain my curiosities like astrology and such. Way better than fake liking or straight up dismissing it. | /r/seduction | 24/11/24 01:23 AM |
| 2 | Why woman are going to test youHaha I’m at that point in my life where I just straight up tell the guys I like what I’m looking for and what I expect in a relationship. No bullshit or hints. No time or energy wasted on both sides. I expect the guy to express his needs and expectations as well, so our intentions are known and we both could decide if we want to proceed into something more long term. | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 10:54 AM |
| 2 | She is USING you if you are in the friendzone, this is why...Maybe meet more people. I have made plenty of platonic friends throughout my life where the feeling is mutual. If you keep seeing everyone as someone to fuck, then yeah you’re gonna have a problem. | /r/seduction | 13/10/24 06:13 AM |
| 6 | She is USING you if you are in the friendzone, this is why...No, I laughed I swear. | /r/seduction | 12/10/24 06:05 PM |
| 19 | She is USING you if you are in the friendzone, this is why...Yeah, let’s keep it that way. | /r/seduction | 12/10/24 04:49 PM |
| 23 | She is USING you if you are in the friendzone, this is why...Haha I have guy friends who also just see me as a friend. Most of the time it’s mutual feeling. We talk and chill like any friends would. If they don’t see me romantically or sexually, then it’s fine because I don’t go around seeing everyone as potential relationships. I don’t want to fuck every guy I see. | /r/seduction | 12/10/24 01:40 PM |
| 84 | She is USING you if you are in the friendzone, this is why...Damn can’t even like people platonically anymore these days. | /r/seduction | 12/10/24 01:18 PM |
| 13 | Should i seduce girls i’m not really into?If you’re going to do this, be fucking honest with your intentions from the get go. Find those that don’t mind and would half ass it with you too. Don’t lead people on as practice. | /r/seduction | 11/10/24 10:31 AM |
| 1 | 8 mistakes guys make on a date that make you look like a foolDude, just tell her she’s beautiful if you think she’s beautiful. This goes both way in dating. Why hold back on the compliments if you like someone | /r/seduction | 22/09/24 03:54 PM |
| 5 | Is it better to play the long game or be honest with a girl when it comes to looking for something casualFucking right. Please be honest and upfront with what you’re looking for. Don’t waste people’s time. Damn | /r/seduction | 20/09/24 03:25 AM |
| 2 | Be non-judgmental in your repliesMy interest and attraction definitely increase tenfold if you could playful tease and banter, for sure. You kinda have to vibe it out though and remember it has to be a two way thing, because it can be seen as bullying or being mean if it’s one sided. | /r/seduction | 20/09/24 01:50 AM |
| 270 | Do girls like it when a guy is checking her body out during flirting/vibing?If I’m flirting with you, it means I like you. So yes, I do like it. | /r/seduction | 21/08/24 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Feels like my sexual desire puts women off?I’m not entirely sure why it received a block either, but yeah while corny stuff is a hit or miss, it also maybe depends on whether they’re attracted to them. I had a guy that tried to impress me with a shitton of corny puns when he found out I enjoy them. Some of them were just cringe af lol but he really put in the effort to make me smile. We ended up dating for some years. | /r/seduction | 28/07/24 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Feels like my sexual desire puts women off?Personally, it’s corny enough to make me smile.. and I always give someone who makes me smile another chance to get to know more. So I guess it depends on the person, whether they find it charming enough or not. | /r/seduction | 28/07/24 02:56 PM |
| 2 | Stop turning your dates into interviewsI realized I’ve always enjoyed teasing their imagination, kind of painting a picture of those hypothetical “us” and “we”. It’s fun and it gets them to be more passionate during convos. | /r/seduction | 31/05/24 11:41 AM |
| -1 | Rejection challenge new to the gameThere’s nothing wrong with asking someone out, it’s just a matter of what could help OP with better chances of a yes without making the other party uncomfortable. There are people out there who are uncomfortable with being randomly approached, let alone giving them their number on the spot. OP could go either way tbh as both can work, depending on the body language he reads from them. | /r/seduction | 15/05/24 02:39 AM |
| 0 | Rejection challenge new to the gameThe other day I saw someone suggested something similar to what you said, but handing their number instead. Maybe some would be okay giving their number when asked, but I feel allowing the ball to be in their court to contact or not may make it less uncomfortable | /r/seduction | 15/05/24 02:23 AM |
| 2 | Does showing too much interest kill your game long termYeah, shit has to be mutual and reciprocated. Why be with someone when they’re not into you as much as you are into them. I only date to marry, so that’s something I filter out easily. Casual relationships or situationships are turn offs for me. If they’re unsure, I also take a step back. Now I try to follow the whole “if it’s not a hell yes, it’s a no” | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 04:11 PM |
| 2 | Does showing too much interest kill your game long termI’d start imagining how it’d be like if we get serious. I guess I want to know how much they’d prioritize our relationship if it does go anywhere | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Does it increase attractiveness when someone learns your native language even though you already know English?Yes <3 Only one guy have shown interest in my culture before, and it was interesting because I never really put much thought or care into that since many of my ex’s didn’t bother to show much interest and I wasn’t super tied to it either.. but I felt myself falling for him more when he kept showing interest and went out of his way to even google it lol | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 03:50 AM |
| 19 | Does showing too much interest kill your game long termDude, if the attraction is mutual and chemistry is great, I’d love it af if they show a lot of interest in me because I’d want to explore our potential together. People who play too ‘cool’ or not show much interest actually kills my interest too. | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 03:04 AM |
| 5 | Does it increase attractiveness when someone learns your native language even though you already know English?Hell yes, it makes me fall for them more especially if they’re putting in the effort to bond with me through that, and I speak english more than my native language haha. Bonus if they show interest in my culture too. | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 01:18 AM |
| 7 | Can you get your old skills in game back? or is permanently goneIn my opinion, yes. I took a break to work on myself and heal for some time. Recently found out I still got game. It helps when the other also shows interest and you both click well together | /r/seduction | 30/04/24 07:21 PM |
| 3 | why does it seem like the less energy a man puts into women, the better his life gets? such an enigmaHell fucking yes. | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 01:59 PM |
| 3 | Ways to Lose A Girl!For real. If I’m talking to you lots and replying fast, then I’m interested in you. If you’re not reciprocating the effort or constantly replying way later, then I get the feeling you’re not that interested in me. Being busy is one thing and understandable, but trying to play cool or making me feel not that valued on purpose, then that’s a turn off and I’d rather find someone that shows more eagerness and interest in me | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 11:36 AM |
| 2 | Never compliment her looksDefinitely agree. Hope OP learns to compliment better moving forward | /r/seduction | 07/04/24 04:50 PM |
| 3 | Never compliment her looksHaha I was thinking similarly too. Personally, I’d be kinda flattered by the “wow” but then not so much with the reel. A little bit of effort with the compliment would probably keep them more interested. | /r/seduction | 07/04/24 10:47 AM |
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