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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 138 | From willing to do anything for them to straight up apathy | NICE FOR WHAT? | Chonkygrill | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 04:46 PM |
| 44 | I'm constantly seeing red flags... | SEEKING ADVICE | Chonkygrill | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 10:46 AM |
| 38 | Ladies, tiny baby step, but I realised I can do better | LEVEL UP | Chonkygrill | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 10:24 AM |
| 11 | Need advice: Am I overreacting? | Chonkygrill | /r/askFDS | 01/11/20 03:35 PM | |
| 1 | Is this too much too soon? | STAY WOKE | Chonkygrill | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 11:20 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 23 | Le PoWeR woRDs...😂This cannot be real omg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 11:20 AM |
| 3 | The comments section is a bunch of LVM twisting the conversation to victimize themselves, and pickmes/cool girls slut shaming, as usual100% They wear you down They intimidate you Accuses you of cheating Accuses you of not finding him attractive anymore Covertly punishes you when you say no Threatens/blackmail you But if you don't fightback and scream no, you must've wanted it and you're evil if you say otherwise because how dare you ruin his life Healthy, consential sex? Never heard of her.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 11:13 AM |
| 2 | Why do I feel like we all have been here. SORRY THIS IS THE LAST ONE I PROMISE! (Not my image: found on fb)Don't be with someone that doesn't scream from the rooftops what they love about you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 09:59 AM |
| 77 | Truth ✨"LEMME JUST CHECK THE RULEBOOK" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 09:05 AM |
| 3 | LVM & NVM be like, "I wAs JuSt ChEcKiNg In tO sEe HoW yOu WeRe DoInG bEcAuSe I aM sUcH a GoOd gUy." then get salty when you don't accept their shitty outreach attempt because hE iS TrYiNg!Where are you getting these men apologising? All mine just message me to say they think about fucking me, how they saw me on tinder and I look hot or they're "extending their hand in friendship" Love it when the previous conversation from months/years ago exists and their oh so sweet message is following "fuck you bitch" or "you deserved to get raped" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 02:01 PM |
| 3 | Tbh I read “someone who can take my sarcasm” on dating apps as “imma be an asshole to you. Accept that” Is it just me?Sarcasm is a part of my humour but it's definitely not worth mentioning in my profile, I have more important aspects of myself to talk about The definite thing I get from people who point out their sarcasm in their bio is that their sarcasm is something that's probably been a big problem before | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 08:36 AM |
| 2 | How do you tell if a guy is boring or if you're just so used to toxicity in relationships that healthy feels boring?I have the exact same issue as your bff, I genuinely have a physical reaction to trying new foods. I've been trying to expand my diet and eat more healthily but it's just not something I'd ever do in a public setting, it's hugely embarrassing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 09:47 AM |
| 2 | Remember Who You Were Before the World Got Its Hands on YouAlso, a huge of it is fighting for yourself, for who you are and your corner The amount of times I've abandoned who I am for approval or love or fear of rejection, fear of getting emotionally or physically hurt Those who truly love you will embrace you being yourself "what if who I want to be is evil?" Really unlikely, a lot of people's unkindness stems from insecurities and fears, you say nasty things to put others down and make yourself look good Fight. For. Who. You. Are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 08:57 AM |
| 8 | Raise your hand if you’ve been personally victimized by an ugly dusty you gave a chance and he ended up playing you?Those ones have a real special seasoning to their pain Like you are so not worth it... Whhyyyyyyy 😫😫😫 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 08:53 AM |
| 34 | Do not baby-step him through conflict resolution while you're out here with the emotional intelligence of a licensed therapist. I will not teach a grown man how to communicate!Once begged my ex to tell me what's wrong because I wanted to fix the issue and said "please, you need to talk to me I'm not a mind reader" Him: "well then start learning" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 08:22 AM |
| 38 | How many times I used to say this 😩 🤡My needs weren't even being met during sex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 07:45 AM |
| 5 | Grew up hoping I could “prove myself” to guys who weren’t already attracted to meOh no this hurts, how much time have I wasted 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 11:33 AM |
| 1 | PSA - No he's not. Stop lying to yourself.I know people are gonna see this post and be like "holy strawman batman" but this is 100% true. My ex used to hit me, belittle me, emotionally and financially abuse me. When we broke up I was open about it until we got back together (he promised we could do therapy and I'm an idiot) He was so angry when people asked me if I was sure about getting back with him, people would say to me "are you sure, you did say you weren't happy with him?", literally those words and he raged saying he's being tre… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 12:09 PM |
| 2 | Don't learn the hard way, ladies. 🤦🏻♀️He did ask me to Google his behaviour once cus even he didn't get it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 06:55 PM |
| 3 | Never ever, fucking EVER date downHow do you know if you're dating down or if you're dating someone ideal for you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 02:05 PM |
| 5 | Let him go sisWhat kind of things should I work on to 'bring to the table"? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 01:35 PM |
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