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| 3 | Sharing NMMNG with your wife | Choosemyusername | /r/askMRP | 07/10/17 01:13 PM |
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| 1 | 'I wear it on my middle finger': The rise of the defiant divorce ring — according to the Femosphere.I just compared the top posts. Only slightly better haha. | /r/MensRights | 07/07/26 04:00 PM |
| 11 | 'I wear it on my middle finger': The rise of the defiant divorce ring — according to the Femosphere.Sort of like how the top posts on r/women are almost exclusively about hating men. Rather than be motivated by support and love, it’s hatred. | /r/MensRights | 07/07/26 01:16 PM |
| – | Women Get way more than men in relationships and Marriages.That life expectancy comparison study has a flaw. It includes widows who outlive their husbands as single, this artificially boosting the single life expectancy stats for women by including women who outlived their husbands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 02:38 PM |
| – | Wives who don’t have regular sex with their husbands should never have married himAbsolutely. And that is the real reason. That they simply don’t want to. The excuses are just after the fact explanations. But yes if you don’t want to have sex you probably shouldn’t be entering into relationships with other people where you require their sexual exclusivity as a condition of the relationship if you don’t intend on having sex with them. Not unless they are equally enthusiastic about not having sex with you or anyone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 04:17 PM |
| – | Wives who don’t have regular sex with their husbands should never have married himYes almost every reason a woman gives as an excuse to not have sex sounds like a pretty good reason TO have sex. Tired? Great sex improves sleep quality and helps you fall asleep faster. Sick? What else are you gonna do? Stressed? Orgasms relieve stress. Busy? Great. Sex can be a great way to distract you from your task list and recharge ready to work undistracted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 03:19 PM |
| -8 | Why Women Initiate 70% of Divorces - 30 Years of ResearchFiling the paperwork is the finalization of a divorce, not the initiation of it. And obviously the one with the most financial incentive to file the paperwork will be the one most often doing it. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/26 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Why do you ask your Partner to do Sex Acts she Does not Like?It’s weird if that is his thing and she has no intention of doing that with him. Like how does she expect that would make him feel? What is the point of telling him then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 11:56 AM |
| 0 | Gender wars! Thousands of South Korean women have abandoned men by shunning sex and marriage - and the warning for the West couldn't be starker, writes IAN BIRRELLThousands? That is about 4 in 10,000 assuming ten thousand have done so. I think this has been quietly the case all along. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/26 12:55 PM |
| 36 | SoCal college bans men from gym areas to make women, non-binary students more comfortableYou can just say you are non-binary. Problem solved. | /r/MensRights | 21/04/26 10:06 PM |
| 2 | Can someone find me stats on whether medical tests are now done on women as much as they are done on men?They also have better health outcomes than men. Less chronic disease. Longer life expectancy. And are happier as well. | /r/MensRights | 27/03/26 05:21 PM |
| 8 | Women prefer meaningful work to well paidWomen also choose jobs that are less dangerous, less exposed to harsh weather, and with less harmful hours as well. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/26 01:17 PM |
| 1 | We Need To Prepare Boys For School, Not Schools For BoysReminds me of this skinner meme: https://youtube.com/shorts/jkfdu1n-3Jo?si=nfdgUo7OqAo03ARp | /r/MensRights | 24/02/26 03:53 PM |
| 46 | Not enough discussions about the Women Who Enabled Jeffrey Epstein.Also, we need to stop talking about them as “enablers” at least one victim says she was primarily abused by Ghislaine, and that she was much worse than Epstein. Also there was a woman who was Epstein’s neighbor who wanted to have lots of his babies to supply him with a steady stream of girls to abuse. That is much worse than mere enabling. | /r/MensRights | 11/02/26 07:41 PM |
| -2 | The "patriarchy" is a boogeyman used to justify hatred and abuse towards men.The majority of those who hold the power are men, but some rando man and some rando woman have in absolute terms, for all intents and purposes, within a rounding error, the same odds of being one of those people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 06:39 PM |
| -3 | The "patriarchy" is a boogeyman used to justify hatred and abuse towards men.Ya that is because “I” has very different implications than “we”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 06:37 PM |
| 1 | The "patriarchy" is a boogeyman used to justify hatred and abuse towards men.It isn’t just hours worked though. The controlled gender pay gap, which considers factors such as job title, experience, education, industry, job level and hours worked, is currently at 99 cents for every dollar men earn. https://www.forbes.com/advisor/business/gender-pay-gap-statistics/ And this is leaving out the fact that men are more likely to do shift work, which pays more and should pay more because it is terrible for your physical, mental, and social health. On domestic violence, there is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 05:21 PM |
| 0 | The "patriarchy" is a boogeyman used to justify hatred and abuse towards men.I don’t think they are arguing they thought suffrage itself would be a bad thing, but that the benefit would come with an erosion of the privileges their gender afforded them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 05:14 PM |
| 0 | The "patriarchy" is a boogeyman used to justify hatred and abuse towards men.Aren’t “we” and “I” different unless you are royal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 05:10 PM |
| – | QFW: Women - we hear you on the orgasm gap and how frustrating it is. Is the solution for men to simply ask women what they like, and perhaps have the women guide them a bit, when in bed together?This is the most cited study I see on the orgasm gap. And it measures “frequency of orgasm when sexually intimate” https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/28213723/ It isn’t necessarily that the men aren’t caring whether or not she finishes, but that if her sex drive is on a lower frequency, it will just be harder for that woman to orgasm some of the time, when the couple’s sex is at a frequency somewhere in the middle of the pair’s differing ideal frequency. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 03:07 PM |
| – | QFW: Women - we hear you on the orgasm gap and how frustrating it is. Is the solution for men to simply ask women what they like, and perhaps have the women guide them a bit, when in bed together?The orgasm gap stat is misrepresented. The orgasm gap is measured on a per session basis, not over time. When you measure it over time, lesbian women and straight women are orgasming at about the same rates. The reason the rate is lower for hetero relationships could be because men tend to have more frequent sexual desires than women, and women in relationships with men are compromising between their frequency of desire and his. Compromise is a good thing in a relationship. It shouldn’t be my wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 01:30 PM |
| 2 | For all the talk about the differences between men and women, men here seem to ignore the gender differences when it comes to the topic of sex.Keep in mind the orgasm gap is an often misrepresented statistic. The orgasm gap studies measure orgasms on a “per session” basis. And the curious thing is, when you measure amount of orgasms over time, lesbians and straight women have virtually the same rate of orgasms. And this makes sense. When it’s been a while, you are more likely to start pursuing one. Another thing people ignore about the most popularly cited orgasm gap study is that women who orgasm more are likely to do the sorts of thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 05:28 PM |
| 5 | The majority of criminals are not raised by single moms. That’s just propaganda to blame women for the actions of men.How do single moms compare to single dads in the likelihood for the kid to be a criminal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/25 03:09 PM |
| 2 | The majority of criminals are not raised by single moms. That’s just propaganda to blame women for the actions of men.Who specifically is blaming moms for this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/25 03:07 PM |
| 5 | Men Receive 63% Longer Prison Sentences Than Women for the EXACT SAME Crime – Peer-Reviewed Study from the University of Michigan Law SchoolWhen I hear that argument I say ok does that mean other men who didn’t set up that system aren’t actually misogynists? Or that people share vacations guilt if they share one facet of their identity with another person who did a bad thing? Like what’s your point? | /r/MensRights | 01/12/25 06:18 PM |
| 3 | Men Receive 63% Longer Prison Sentences Than Women for the EXACT SAME Crime – Peer-Reviewed Study from the University of Michigan Law SchoolIt isn’t just sentencing gaps. But there are also conviction gaps and prosecution gaps. | /r/MensRights | 01/12/25 06:17 PM |
| 1 | We are being psyoped into caring about declining birth rates.No we are a VERY long way from the last generation. We are just barely below replacement level in first world countries, not at zero children. Still loads of children, just slightly fewer of them. The population is still forecasted to climb another 2 billion or so before becoming steady. Don’t panic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 11:56 AM |
| 1 | We are being psyoped into caring about declining birth rates.I am talking more about our total societal capacity, not just state capacity. We would have more time and money to work and pay taxes to pay for health care if we weren’t as busy raising kids and buying all of the things required to do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 11:05 AM |
| 5 | We are being psyoped into caring about declining birth rates.I am not talking about political parties. I am talking about people. I personally know a person who manages to slip in that we shouldn’t own anything individually in almost every conversation we have. Communism is socially acceptable enough that she feels comfortable sharing these opinions out loud. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 01:33 PM |
| 1 | We are being psyoped into caring about declining birth rates.Look at worker productivity. It’s gone up so much per worker wince the baby boom. We shouldn’t need as many people to achieve the same things theh did. We have invented things that multiply each individual’s effort and time since then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 10:23 AM |
| 2 | We are being psyoped into caring about declining birth rates.The interesting thing about feudalism feudal serfs were actually generally taxed at a a rate several times lower than today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 10:20 AM |
| 1 | We are being psyoped into caring about declining birth rates.Which Bernie Sanders actually praised, and MAGA people like Kevin O’Leary, and actual economic right wingers like Rand Paul condemned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 10:16 AM |
| 4 | We are being psyoped into caring about declining birth rates.You aren’t paying attention. Loads of people are doing just that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 10:15 AM |
| 17 | We are being psyoped into caring about declining birth rates.They always talk about the higher spending on the elderly but never talk about the other side of the equation: less resources, time, and money being spend on young dependents. I wonder what the net effect on time, money, and resources is when you consider less of one and more of the other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 10:10 AM |
| – | Bears > Men. Pt 2. Men ignore consent and touch a woman in the woods.I notice none of those women are ACTUALLY choosing bears. Most of them are in reality, still choosing men. I always put it another way. If you are on a hiking trail, and a bear enters your trail 100 feet up trail, and there is a man 100 feet behind you, would you run to the bear to help you fend off the man? Or to the man to help you fend off the bear? Anyways, trust what people do, not what they say. Look around, count the women you know who date/marry men, then look at the women who live with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/25 06:27 PM |
| – | It’s not that women have it easier, it’s just that dating is horrible for most menThose “low” false allegation stats you see circulating is the amount we can PROVE to be false, not the amount that ARE false. That is a hard thing to prove, similar to how rape is also hard to prove. From the wiki on the prevalence on false allegations: “However, estimates of false allegations are in fact estimates of proven false allegations. These are not estimates of likely, or possible, false allegations. Accordingly, estimating a false allegation rate of 5% (based on proven false allegation… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 11:10 PM |
| -1 | Women dont view having access to causal sex as a benefitI mean, their orgasm rate per minute of sex is similar so I don’t know about all that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 12:12 PM |
| -4 | Women dont view having access to causal sex as a benefitThe consistency over time is similar to straight women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 11:46 AM |
| -1 | Women dont view having access to causal sex as a benefitIf it really went so much better, they would be having more orgasms overall. But they don’t really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 11:23 AM |
| -2 | Women dont view having access to causal sex as a benefitThe interesting thing about the orgasm gap is that lesbian women have roughly the same amount of total orgasms as straight women. That’s because lesbians have more orgasms PER SESSION but have fewer sessions. They also have about the same amount of orgasms per minute of sex as straight women. Because their sex lasts longer each session. So the orgasm gap between lesbians and straight women is simply evidence that they have different sexual time patterns. Not that women are better at sex than men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 10:13 AM |
| 2 | Q4Women: What is worse selling sex or buying sex?I can’t remember what famous sexy celeb was just busted for sleeping with a prostitute. But the saying goes you don’t pay them for the sex. You pay them to leave after. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 04:45 PM |
| 1 | It's sickening on how people will instantly go from "Pedophiles deserve the wood chipper" to "where was she when I was a kid" simply because the pedophile is a woman.What if these aren’t the same people? | /r/MensRights | 27/06/25 09:27 PM |
| 3 | Women who have de-centered men completely, what drove you to this?I know a woman who is roughly 300 lbs, balding, with black/missing teeth, very smelly because she doesn’t have good hygiene, is unemployed, has a drug problem, a severe personality disorder, and she pulls about 5 times a week. She has to be the one to ask. She needs to show initiative, but she has no problems finding men to sleep with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 02:46 PM |
| 0 | Why do you think women are less attracted to men than men are to women ?Yea and if you do the math you will find because lesbians have longer sessions, the orgasms per minute of sex are actually similar even though the per session rates are different. And of course because lesbians have less frequent sex, their total amount of orgasms are similar to straight women’s as well, despite having a higher rate per session. Of course individuals of any given sex vary more than the average between the sexes so I don’t doubt your experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 07:30 PM |
| 2 | Why do you think women are less attracted to men than men are to women ?Why would they think it’s a good thing? They don’t “give” more orgasm less sex. Not per minute of sex at least. And not in total either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think women are less attracted to men than men are to women ?The interesting thing about the orgasm gap is that lesbian women have roughly the same amount of total orgasms as straight women. That’s because lesbians have more orgasms PER SESSION but have fewer sessions. They also have about the same amount of orgasms per minute of sex as straight women. Because their sex lasts longer each session. So the orgasm gap between lesbians and straight women is simply evidence that they have different sexual time patterns. Not that women are better at sex than men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Is it true, in your opinion, that many/a lot of guys aren’t good at sex? I keep hearing this sentiment. Why would this be true?Ya same. At least that is a big ingredient in the cocktail. So that’s part of what a partner is for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Is it true, in your opinion, that many/a lot of guys aren’t good at sex? I keep hearing this sentiment. Why would this be true?Well it’s because sex is about more than just a means to outsource your orgasms. And if you treat sex that way, no wonder you are not achieving orgasm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Is it true, in your opinion, that many/a lot of guys aren’t good at sex? I keep hearing this sentiment. Why would this be true?So why don’t they in bed? Men will tell you they are the ones in charge of their orgasm in bed. Why don’t women do that too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 12:17 PM |
| 4 | Is it true, in your opinion, that many/a lot of guys aren’t good at sex? I keep hearing this sentiment. Why would this be true?These individuals may not blame their partners. But their data shows up in the “orgasm gap” data, which is used to blame men in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/25 01:14 PM |
| 0 | Is it true, in your opinion, that many/a lot of guys aren’t good at sex? I keep hearing this sentiment. Why would this be true?Yes I know exactly what you mean. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/25 10:19 AM |
| 7 | Is it true, in your opinion, that many/a lot of guys aren’t good at sex? I keep hearing this sentiment. Why would this be true?Ya you hear it in their framing. “He didn’t “make me” cum” as opposed to “I couldn’t cum” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/25 10:16 AM |
| 5 | Is it true, in your opinion, that many/a lot of guys aren’t good at sex? I keep hearing this sentiment. Why would this be true?I am sure that happens. And what I am also sure happens is when things aren’t going well, a lot of guys ask what she wants, and she says something along the lines of “it’s not hot if I have to ask” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/25 10:14 AM |
| 2 | Is it true, in your opinion, that many/a lot of guys aren’t good at sex? I keep hearing this sentiment. Why would this be true?Some are better communicators as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/25 12:24 AM |
| 25 | Is it true, in your opinion, that many/a lot of guys aren’t good at sex? I keep hearing this sentiment. Why would this be true?Every woman seems to cum in a very specific, and unique way. And they seem to expect their partners to know and often aren’t comfortable explaining. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/25 12:24 AM |
| 0 | Women have not somehow artificially manipulated the dating market to increase their perceived value, the modern dating market simply revealed that women are more desirable than menThe interesting thing about the orgasm gap is that lesbian women have roughly the same amount of total orgasms as straight women. That’s because lesbians have more orgasms PER SESSION but have fewer sessions. They also have about the same amount of orgasms per minute of sex as straight women. Because their sex lasts longer each session. So the orgasm gap between lesbians and straight women is simply evidence that they have different sexual time patterns. Not that women are better at sex than men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/25 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Feminism mistakes oligarchy as patriarchyYea PROVEN false accusations are somewhat rare, between 2-10 percent. Now imagine how hard something like that is to prove. How good are we at detecting liars with high certainty? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/06/25 08:27 PM |
| 2 | Feminism mistakes oligarchy as patriarchyWe actually have no idea how many of the reports are false reports various stats say under 10 percent of accusations can be proven to be false. But apply that same counting logic to SA. If we only count SAs that are proven to happen, we would conclude that SA itself is exceedingly rare since only about 3 percent of reported SAs even make it to trial to even have a shot at being proven. That’s obviously faulty logic. If you look into what the stats actually say, like this study for example: A 200… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/06/25 10:11 AM |
| 7 | A genuine question (no hate please )The more serious the accusation, the more we need to be absolutely sure before treating a person as of theh are guilty. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/06/25 03:10 PM |
| 13 | A genuine question (no hate please )We actually have no idea how many of the reports are false reports various stats say under 10 percent of accusations can be proven to be false. But apply that same counting logic to SA. If we only count SAs that are proven to happen, we would conclude that SA itself is exceedingly rare since only about 3 percent of reported SAs even make it to trial to even have a shot at being proven. That’s obviously faulty logic. If you look into what the stats actually say, like this study for example: A 200… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/06/25 09:28 AM |
| 1 | Only 2-10% of rape allegations were determined to be provably falseI agree. 100 and 0 percent are unlikely. But why is it likely to be the same as the probable claims? Why could it be some other number between 0 and 100 percent? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Only 2-10% of rape allegations were determined to be provably falseHow do they know that that the probability for unproven claims being false is the same as for proven claims? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Only 2-10% of rape allegations were determined to be provably falseThe claim that the proportion of false claims in unprovable cases is the same as it is in probable cases is also unsubstantiated. Which is why we have almost no idea what the proportion of false claims is. I am not saying I know for sure unprovable claims are more likely to be false. But it is plausible. And until we find out if that is true that unprovable claims are just as likely to be false as provable claims, we can’t assume that such an extrapolation is appropriate. And yes the same could … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Only 2-10% of rape allegations were determined to be provably falseI do not assume “most” are false. I have no idea how many are false. I know where the floor is. And that is the amount that are proven to be false. Most studies put that figure somewhere below 10 percent. The ceiling is the amount that are not proven to be true, which is a huge number somewhere over 90 percent. The real answer is somewhere between those two numbers and we have no idea where that lies. Counting only those that are proven to be false is about as solid logic as only counting SAs th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Only 2-10% of rape allegations were determined to be provably falseYour first paragraph is faulty logic. You are assuming that unprovable claims are equally likely to be false as probable claims. In reality, liars are often opportunistic. They don’t generally pick situations that are provable to lie about because that is riskier for them. If you are going to lie, most liars choose unprovable claims to lie about. Also, your next paragraph is also faulty logic. You claim because rape is common, the proportion of allegations that are true muse be high. That doesn’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 09:54 AM |
| 4 | "Not all women" is fine, but if I say "not all men" and suddenly I'm Hitler. Cool.This is true. The number of women that get raped or sexually assaulted will always far outweigh the number of false accusations. That doesn’t mean we shouldn’t be critical of claims. This is only because most crimes aren’t reported. It can both be true what you said, and that a significant proportion of accusations are false. | /r/MensRights | 20/05/25 11:52 PM |
| 2 | "Not all women" is fine, but if I say "not all men" and suddenly I'm Hitler. Cool.Not exactly. It’s rare that accusations are “Proven to be false.” But apply that same counting logic to SA. If we only count SAs that are proven to happen, we would conclude that SA itself is exceedingly rare since only about 3 percent of reported SAs even make it to trial to even have a shot at being proven. | /r/MensRights | 20/05/25 11:48 PM |
| – | The orgasm gap is because women genuinely need fantasy level attraction towards the man they’re having sex with and physical stimulationYes it’s interesting that noticing that women who do these things that I would argue are just basic for having good sex have more orgasms than average women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 11:41 AM |
| – | The orgasm gap is because women genuinely need fantasy level attraction towards the man they’re having sex with and physical stimulationNo I agree. These things don’t necessarily “make” then cum. We shouldn’t be reductive about it. Good is about the whole experience. Not just the mechanical means that gets you to orgasm. And you can have an easier time getting that orgasm if you have good sex in general. You can think of it like covid. You don’t need to die from covid itself to have a higher chance of dying when you get covid. Likewise, you don’t need to orgasm from the thing you are doing itself for it to improve your odds of h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Men need to stop asking women about Penis Size preferences because it's a completely pointless discussionWe are on the topics of women’s orgasms here. You must be lost. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 10:42 AM |
| -1 | The orgasm gap is because women genuinely need fantasy level attraction towards the man they’re having sex with and physical stimulationMost of the predictors of women’s orgasms are about things that women do or don’t do in bed, not what men do or don’t do. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/all-about-sex/200903/the-most-important-sexual-statistic Women who reported usually/always orgasming were more likely to: Receive oral sex from their partner Have longer sex sessions Be more satisfied with the relationship they had with their partner Ask their partner for what they wanted during sex Praise their partner for his/her perf… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 05:21 PM |
| – | The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax.Oral is one part of it, but just one of many points. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/all-about-sex/200903/the-most-important-sexual-statistic Women who reported usually/always orgasming were more likely to: Receive oral sex from their partner Have longer sex sessions Be more satisfied with the relationship they had with their partner Ask their partner for what they wanted during sex Praise their partner for his/her performance Tease their partner about doing something sexual Wear sexy li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 12:57 PM |
| – | The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax.Of note: lesbians don’t have more orgasms than straight women. They orgasm at a higher rate PER SESSION of sex. But they have sex far less often. So they don’t end up having more orgasms in total than straight women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 12:52 PM |
| 11 | The orgasm gap is because women genuinely need fantasy level attraction towards the man they’re having sex with and physical stimulationWhat is missing in the conversation of the orgasm gap is the details. The orgasm gap is an AVERAGE. Few stop to ask “what are the women who have plenty of orgasms doing”? We have studies on that. Women who reported usually/always orgasming were more likely to: Receive oral sex from their partner Have longer sex sessions Be more satisfied with the relationship they had with their partner Ask their partner for what they wanted during sex Praise their partner for his/her performance Tease their par… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Men need to stop asking women about Penis Size preferences because it's a completely pointless discussionThe last one is from a study from 2021 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 10:44 AM |
| 2 | Has anyone been wrongly convicted of physical or sexual assault against a woman or child(ren)?It’s rare that accusations are “Proven to be false.” But apply that same counting logic to SA. If we only count SAs that are proven to happen, we would conclude that SA itself is exceedingly rare since only about 3 percent of reported SAs even make it to trial to even have a shot at being proven. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/25 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Men need to stop asking women about Penis Size preferences because it's a completely pointless discussion“Because few women have orgasms during intercourse, penis size does not matter for most women's satisfaction, nor does extended intercourse.” https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/all-about-sex/200903/the-most-important-sexual-statistic Women who reported usually/always orgasming were more likely to: Receive oral sex from their partner Have longer sex sessions Be more satisfied with the relationship they had with their partner Ask their partner for what they wanted during sex Praise their part… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 04:49 PM |
| 0 | Men need to stop asking women about Penis Size preferences because it's a completely pointless discussionI doubt the orgasm gap will ever be closed. Even lesbian women don’t really have more orgasms than straight women. They orgasm at a higher rate (still not as high as the rate as men) but have sex quite a bit less often. Depending on which studies you compare, exact figures vary a lot from study to study) straight women might actually have more orgasms than lesbian women. Plus it is generally believed among sex researchers that women’s orgasms are typically more intense than men’s (intensity is o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Men need to stop asking women about Penis Size preferences because it's a completely pointless discussionPer sexual encounter. But they have a lot fewer sexual encounters. You don’t win when you don’t even play to begin with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Men need to stop asking women about Penis Size preferences because it's a completely pointless discussionI doubt the orgasm gap will ever be closed. Even lesbian women don’t really have more orgasms than straight women. They orgasm at a higher rate (still not as high as the rate as men) but have sex quite a bit less often. Depending on which studies you compare, exact figures vary a lot from study to study) straight women might actually have more orgasms than lesbian women. Plus it is generally believed among sex researchers that women’s orgasms are typically more intense than men’s (intensity is o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Men live life on easy modeIn my experience, women are absolutely awful at communicating what makes them cum. There is one thing I have noticed that almost every woman I have been with has in common about how they cum: it’s extremely specific. Whereas I as a man can make myself cum from almost any kind of stimulus a woman happens to be doing to me, almost every woman I have been with has required some very specific kind of stimulus. And my experience I have from the other women is always of no use. One woman required me t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 12:29 PM |
| 3 | Men live life on easy modeIt’s very telling that bi women usually choose men. Even though they are supposedly terrible lovers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 12:19 PM |
| 6 | CMV: It's misogynistic to track a woman's cycle to stay out of troubleMy wife asked me to track her cycle so that I would know when she was more likely to lash out at me or be unreasonable. She blamed me for taking it seriously. I am like: hey, it’s YOUR cycle. You should be more aware than me how you are feeling. And maybe just say “oh that is my cycle doing the talking” and not lash out unreasonably to begin with. It shouldn’t be men’s responsibility to regulate women’s emotions for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 04:02 PM |
| 0 | Is there a shortage of relationship material men as compared to women?Most discussions on the orgasm gap leave out a ton of really revealing details, and use some very carefully curated facts to make points (usually that men are to blame in some way) that don’t make sense when you leave out some of the other facts. For example, the fact that because women orgasm for a higher duration women’s orgasms last about twice as long as men’s. So when you add it up, women actually orgasm more than men. Also, they typically leave out the fact that it’s widely believed among … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 07:16 PM |
| 2 | Women’s Sexuality is More “Selfish” Because Men’s Perspectives Are Baked Into Our Brains From BirthAgain, if that is all sex is to you, a means to outsource the labor of your orgasm, then you will be disappointed. Men would be as well. Yes that link is one of the places where I got my data. I accept it. But I put that info in the context of further info which gives context, like this info, which supports that the biggest factor in whether or not women orgasm is their assertiveness and pride. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/everyone-top/202106/5-key-new-findings-about-the-female-orgasm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Women’s Sexuality is More “Selfish” Because Men’s Perspectives Are Baked Into Our Brains From BirthAgain, you are presuming an orgasm is something done to you. When the number one predictor of whether or not a woman will orgasm or not has nothing to do with the sex of her partner. Sexual assertiveness and sexual pride are the biggest predictor of orgasm frequency in women. Not the sex of her partner. Given that women are forced to be sexually assertive in same sex relationships otherwise the sex doesn’t happen at all, and that pride is a huge part of homosexual identity, it’s not a surprise t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 04:28 PM |
| 2 | Women’s Sexuality is More “Selfish” Because Men’s Perspectives Are Baked Into Our Brains From BirthNo exactly You don’t talk about claws. Because they don’t fit that narrative you are trying to make like that beauty is pain, or that it is about being desirable to men or pleases men. You are cherry-picking. Same reason you left out men’s magazines. Because they don’t fit the narrative you are spinning. Men also don’t need women to cum. It’s more reliable, convenient, more reliable, and fits our schedule best when we do it ourselves. And yet we still prefer sex because for men, it me about more… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Women’s Sexuality is More “Selfish” Because Men’s Perspectives Are Baked Into Our Brains From BirthAnd apparently so do you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Women’s Sexuality is More “Selfish” Because Men’s Perspectives Are Baked Into Our Brains From BirthYou might want to be more clear that you are talking about this small niche of men only because you comment looks generally applicable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Women’s Sexuality is More “Selfish” Because Men’s Perspectives Are Baked Into Our Brains From BirthWell what’s the point then? Unless you only plan on sleeping with men from these corners of the internet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Women’s Sexuality is More “Selfish” Because Men’s Perspectives Are Baked Into Our Brains From BirthYa you might want to get off weird niche corners of the internet mostly populated by people on the spectrum if you want to get a feel for how average men feel about sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Women’s Sexuality is More “Selfish” Because Men’s Perspectives Are Baked Into Our Brains From BirthThat’s such a woman’s way of looking at it, that closing the orgasm gap means being more selfish in bed. Men would absolutely love it if women had more orgasms in sex. That wouldn’t be selfish at all. This would just make sex hotter for everyone. Women seeing this as a zero-sum proposition is revealing about what the orgasm gap is all about. There is nothing sexier than your partner bent more turned on. It just adds to the hotness of the sex for both partners. At least for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 11:11 AM |
| 2 | Women’s Sexuality is More “Selfish” Because Men’s Perspectives Are Baked Into Our Brains From BirthSo many of these grooming procedures have nothing to do with what men find attractive. Take claws. I don’t know a man who has ever expressed attraction to women with claws, but how many women spend lots of time and money on these giant impractical claws? Also, men’s mags also had columns on how to please women. Even playboy had articles on how to close the orgasm gap. Just because Cosmo had tips on how to please men isn’t evidence that sex is all about men any more than men’s mags having article… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 11:02 AM |
| 4 | Women’s Sexuality is More “Selfish” Because Men’s Perspectives Are Baked Into Our Brains From Birthhttps://fivethirtyeight.com/features/the-gender-orgasm-gap/ Women who receive anal or do a wide variety of sex acts don’t have an orgasm gap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 10:37 AM |
| 1 | OrgasmWhy is this survey less useful than the orgasm gap data? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/25 08:55 PM |
| 1 | OrgasmIf equal effort sounds exhausting to you, then what are you complaining about? Are men putting in so much effort that they get exhausted? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/25 01:21 PM |
| 1 | OrgasmIf you are going down the equal outcome road, then you need to consider that women’s orgasms last about twice as long as men’s, and are generally believed to be more intense than men’s. So if we want to talk equal outcome, men should be having orgasms twice as frequently as women just to be orgasming equitably in quantity, and women should be working harder to make up for the orgasm intensity gap as well. There are ways to make orgasms more intense for your partner to help bridge the orgasm inte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/25 11:45 AM |
| 1 | OrgasmSome detail is warranted. Not all women have a large orgasm gap with men. Women who receive anal for example, don’t have an orgasm gap. Not do women who do more sex acts. https://fivethirtyeight.com/features/the-gender-orgasm-gap/ Also, we need to consider what the biggest predictor of a woman having an orgasm is. And that is her sexual assertiveness and sexual pride are the biggest predictor of orgasm frequency. Which could plausibly be related to the above two as well. https://www.psychologyto… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/25 11:43 AM |
| 2 | OrgasmYes I can for sure relate to when women feel comfortable communicating what she wants and makes her feel good, I have a much easier time pleasing her. I have been with both: women who feel comfortable expressing such things, and women who were uncomfortable. For sure the sex is better when she is the former type. For both of us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/25 11:39 AM |
| 1 | OrgasmMost discussions on the orgasm gap leave out a ton of really revealing details, and use some very carefully curated facts to make points (usually that men are to blame in some way) that don’t make sense when you leave out some of the other facts. For example, the fact that because women orgasm for a higher duration women’s orgasms last about twice as long as men’s. So when you add it up, women actually orgasm more than men. Also, they typically leave out the fact that it’s widely believed among … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/25 10:32 AM |
| 1 | OrgasmBasically you are finding some excuse for saying women shouldn’t put as much effort into sex as men. This is nonsense. Look if you want to take this line of logic, then you need to consider that women’s orgasms last about twice as long as men’s, and are generally believed to be more intense than men’s. So if we want to talk equity, men should be having orgasms twice as frequently as women just to be orgasming equitably in quantity, and women should be working harder to make up for the orgasm int… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/25 09:56 AM |
| 1 | OrgasmThen what are you arguing about? If you believe it should be equal effort, then this isn’t about people who think like you. It’s about all the people who say it’s men’s responsibility to get the party started because most women have primarily responsive desire. These are the people I am talking about. Not you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/25 11:56 PM |
| 1 | OrgasmYou are making a conclusion that doesn’t follow. That because men cum more frequently, (not more in total mind you. Women cum more actually because their orgasms last about twice as long) that it’s because women put in more effort. When in fact, loads of men are putting in effort to NOT cum. In fact, cumming too easily is actually one of the leading sexual dysfunctions in men. So it’s not because women are putting in more effort, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/25 11:55 PM |
| 1 | OrgasmIt should be reciprocal, yes. It shouldn’t be up to the man to get the party started every time though. It should be equal effort | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/25 11:12 PM |
| 0 | OrgasmOral is also great, still not gonna cut it for closing the orgasm gap, but tons of fun nonetheless. Fully recommend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/25 11:11 PM |
| 0 | OrgasmYou know who has even more orgasms than lesbians? Women who receive anal. And do a wide variety of sex acts. https://fivethirtyeight.com/features/the-gender-orgasm-gap/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/25 11:03 PM |
| 1 | OrgasmRight but they can do this foreplay. It shouldn’t always be up to the man to manage their moods for them. Both partners should put in equal effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/25 11:01 PM |
| 2 | OrgasmOh ya all this nonsense of people saying women mostly have responsive desire and need to be turned on before they feel desire. As if it’s their partner’s job to manipulate her mood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/25 11:00 PM |
| 0 | OrgasmSeems like I hit a nerve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/25 10:58 PM |
| -1 | OrgasmI think a lot of this comes down to women expecting to BE warmed up, rather than warm their partners or themselves up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/25 06:19 PM |
| 1 | OrgasmWhat is satisfactory depends highly on your expectations. Not objective quality. If your expectations are higher, your satisfaction will be lower even with the objectively identical performance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/25 06:10 PM |
| 0 | OrgasmSpeaking from my own experience learning to love anal, it’s an acquired taste/skill. So yes I do believe that if people give it a chance and learn the skill,ost would love it. But we have a lot of negative social conditioning around anal that keeps people from giving it a fair shot and learning the skill of doing it in the way that it is pleasurable. We hear narratives like it’s for men’s pleasure or that it hurts, or that men only want to do it because of porn, or that it’s dirty (in a bad way)… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/25 05:52 PM |
| -3 | OrgasmYes and heterosexual women who do anal have even more than lesbians essentially the same as hetero men. As do hetero women who do lots of sexual acts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/25 04:38 PM |
| -3 | OrgasmMost discussions on the orgasm gap leave out a ton of really revealing details, and use some very carefully curated facts to make points (usually that men are to blame in some way) that don’t make sense when you leave out some of the other facts. For example, the fact that because women orgasm for a higher duration women’s orgasms last about twice as long as men’s. So when you add it up, women actually orgasm more than men. Also, they typically leave out the fact that it’s widely believed among … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/25 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Women on reddit who claim to be single and perfectly happy due to potential dating partners not meeting their standards are often miserable in reality.I can’t read that because it’s behind a paywall. Does it mention the context that women orgasm at a lower frequency, but a higher duration since women’s orgasms last about twice as long as men’s. So when you add it up, women actually orgasm more than men? Also does it mention that, it’s widely believed among sex researchers that women have more intense orgasms than men as well? So not only is there a total orgasm quantity gap in favor of women, there is an orgasm quality gap in favor of women as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/25 10:42 AM |
| 1 | Women on reddit who claim to be single and perfectly happy due to potential dating partners not meeting their standards are often miserable in reality.It’s a misnomer for the problem they are describing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Women on reddit who claim to be single and perfectly happy due to potential dating partners not meeting their standards are often miserable in reality.Yes and we need to become less androphobic as a society. And also allow male spaces. We are told that it is sexist to exclude women from spaces. But then women are allowed to have their dedicated exclusive spaces. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Women on reddit who claim to be single and perfectly happy due to potential dating partners not meeting their standards are often miserable in reality.Compared to men. But not compared to women in relationships. Both sexes benefit from relationships. But men just benefit more than women. Probably because single life is a bit more brutal on men than it is on women in the grand scheme of things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Women on reddit who claim to be single and perfectly happy due to potential dating partners not meeting their standards are often miserable in reality.Sexual assertiveness and sexual pride are the biggest predictor of orgasm frequency. Not the gender of the person you are sleeping with. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/everyone-top/202106/5-key-new-findings-about-the-female-orgasm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Women on reddit who claim to be single and perfectly happy due to potential dating partners not meeting their standards are often miserable in reality.The orgasm gap exists. But it isn’t what people think it is. Sure women orgasm at a lower frequency, but a higher duration women’s orgasms last about twice as long as men’s. So when you add it up, women actually orgasm more than men. Also, it’s widely believed among sex researchers that women have more intense orgasms than men as well. So not only is there a total orgasm quantity gap in favor of women, there is an orgasm quality gap in favor of women as well. Plus, the biggest predictor of orgas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 04:53 PM |
| – | Men are so hypocritical when it comes to sex (or not having it)This is true. There are all kinds of unrealistic expectations out there pushed by women as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 01:15 PM |
| – | Men are so hypocritical when it comes to sex (or not having it)I have noticed a trend on Reddit where people group together two different opinions from different people in a group of people, and they will be like: this group has two conflicting opinions! As if there is some committee who meets and forms a list of their opinions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 01:14 PM |
| – | Men are so hypocritical when it comes to sex (or not having it)I think they just like monogamy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 01:08 PM |
| – | Men are so hypocritical when it comes to sex (or not having it)Monogamy. That is what people who value both want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 01:08 PM |
| -1 | Do you really believe men were happier in their romantic relationships in the past, according to current standards?Studies show the opposite. Women’s happiness has actually been declining both in absolute terms and also relative to men’s as women have been more and more living like men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 02:28 PM |
| -16 | Remember that conservatives are not your friends. They want men to work until they dieWho knows how natural that is… | /r/MensRights | 13/03/24 11:55 AM |
| – | Woman really don't like most men sexuallyKeep in mind they make straight woman porn for women by women, but it just isn’t very popular. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 11:49 AM |
| 1 | The Data Show that Most Women Can Orgasm from Penetration AloneMan here. Can confirm this is true and wonderful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Men’s loneliness epidemic is not women’s problem.How many think the solution is actually entitlement? I bet that is a pretty small fringe sliver of folks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Why is there no #TradHusband movement?Harder work, more responsibility, more stress, less freedom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Why is there no #TradHusband movement?This is because it’s a raw deal for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 06:37 PM |
| -1 | Statistics on lesbian relationships prove that women are the problem more often than we'd like to admitI think forgiveness is a good thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 11:51 AM |
| 8 | I think people drastically overstate the bias against female candidateshttps://www.nyu.edu/about/news-publications/news/2017/march/trump-clinton-debates-gender-reversal.html This experiment had a Trump/Clinton debate played by actors but gender swapped. Every word, gesture, cadence, facial expression, and mannerism of Trump was played by a woman and Clinton by a man. The woman was judged as more likable than the man. The idea that women can’t get away with being assertive just turned out to be false. They actually liked women better. Even if they are Trumpy. | /r/MensRights | 11/09/23 12:43 PM |
| 2 | What are “boundaries” to you?You missed the part where he talked about her saying she wanted to change those parts of her. And this is just her side of the story. The part the wants us to see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 11:00 PM |
| 1 | What are “boundaries” to you?She promised him she wanted to change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 08:27 PM |
| 1 | What are “boundaries” to you?Sometimes boundaries absolutely have to do with what other people do. When what they are doing affects you. You can’t really get around that. The way it affected him is that he didn’t want to be in a relationship with someone who does that. There is a difference between trying to coerce someone to change what they do, and simply saying that I don’t date people who do x: Decide what you want to do with that. That is what Jonah did. She was free to move on. There was no coercion there. By what he … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 08:23 PM |
| 1 | doesn't the jonah hill situation and his delusional "expectations" give validity to the redpill argment to avoid promiscuous womenThere are three sides to every story: his story, her story, and the truth. Right now we only see her side. I don’t think he has stooped to engaging with such petty revenge porn. But it sounds like she promised him she would change her ways. Maybe that is why he had those expectations. He was being manipulated. Baited and switched. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 12:00 PM |
| 2 | Porn is unrealistic and unhealthy, but society doesn't seem interested in telling people what actually is realistic and healthy.I don’t think porn is unrealistic. We just need to frame it correctly. If you think porn is a depiction of average sex, it is unrealistic. If you think it is a depiction of people’s sexual fantasies, it is absolutely realistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 10:41 AM |
| 3 | How the hell can women commit to a man they don't lust after?Speak for yourself. My lust for my wife has grown through the years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 10:42 PM |
| 6 | What are the exact qualities that passport bros believe southeastern Asian (and elsewhere) women have that western women don't?I was transferred to Asia for work. Not a poor place. A place actually richer than the place I am from. So I don’t think it is about poorer vs richer necessarily. Even the guys I knew in poorer countries that had local partners tended to have partners from the upper class anyways. What I noticed is that you just get noticed by women sexually a lot more there. It feels like the balance of power when it comes to sexuality is closer to equal there. It’s still in women’s favor of course, but it is c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 02:08 PM |
| 5 | Men's obsession with the sexual purity and virginity of women harms young menNot at all. I am saying the more people have sex, the more risks increase exponentially for all of us. I am not going to shit on people who value virginity. Like I said it ain’t my jam, but it benefits everyone. And yes contraceptives can reduce pregnancy risk. But many have negative side effects on health as well. I understand why some people make the choices they do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 02:39 PM |
| 3 | Men's obsession with the sexual purity and virginity of women harms young menThere is something this framing ignores: There are very good practical benefits to remaining a virgin. For one example: We learned during the covid pandemic how communicable disease spreads exponentially, and how reducing your contacts not only makes you safer, but makes everyone else safer as well. Another good reason is that sex often results in pregnancy. Pregnancy doesn’t just affect you. It also affects the child. Being born into inappropriate circumstances has serious negative consequences… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Men and women not owing stuff to each other.Even that only means something if it is voluntary and not “owed” in an obligatory sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Women Are Significantly More Likely To Lose Interest In Sex In Long Time Relationships In Spite Of Age, Relationship Satisfaction, Sexual Satisfaction, and Child Rearing Status.That is just one of the things I am shocked people can get off without. I also said “fantasy or something” Why weren’t you triggered by those words? Why did you pick that one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Women Are Significantly More Likely To Lose Interest In Sex In Long Time Relationships In Spite Of Age, Relationship Satisfaction, Sexual Satisfaction, and Child Rearing Status.K are you some sort of doctor? Also, I didn’t say that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 01:24 AM |
| 4 | Women Are Significantly More Likely To Lose Interest In Sex In Long Time Relationships In Spite Of Age, Relationship Satisfaction, Sexual Satisfaction, and Child Rearing Status.And it costs 100$ I should add | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 01:23 AM |
| 19 | Women Are Significantly More Likely To Lose Interest In Sex In Long Time Relationships In Spite Of Age, Relationship Satisfaction, Sexual Satisfaction, and Child Rearing Status.I find sex is more mechanical for woman than men. I signed up for OMGYES! Which is a huge project which asks thousands of women what makes them cum and has videos of the women showing how they get themselves off and tips on all kinds of stuff. What shocked me was how much focus was on the specific mechanics of it. As a guy, the mechanics are secondary. What really gets me off is lingerie, sexappeal, role play, etc. the mechanics are meh, I can get off whatever the mechanics are generally, but it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 11:40 PM |
| 2 | There where studies done on the Wall- Now there is a price tag and women will have to make trade offs in marriage, according to article done by University of PennsylvaniaMisinformation is becoming synonymous with “something I don’t like” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Women need to experience a strenuous job at least once in their livesHalf the labor force is female, that is true. And yet about 11 times as many men are killed at work than women. That is how profound the difference is in work between men and women. Education, healthcare, and service are strenuous-ish industries, but they aren’t remotely as strenuous as some other industries I have worked in, like forestry, agriculture, and military, specifically combat arms, all of which are vastly dominated by men. Another thing to consider is even in non-strenuous industries,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 07:40 PM |
| -2 | This is how women will behave once the fembot girlfriend technology is out.A 20 dollar dismembered penis isn’t the same sort of investment as a sex robot. Not even in the same league. That is a false equivalency. Plus sex seems to be more mechanical for women anyways, and less about the man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 11:05 AM |
| 33 | This is how women will behave once the fembot girlfriend technology is out.These men aren’t typically in the dating pool to begin with. They are undesirable anyways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 04:30 PM |
| 9 | Why are women like this?There is absolutely no evidence that women who rule are any less likely to go to war. It looks like the opposite actually, that women are more likely to war than male leaders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Women often use fear as an excuse to be rude to men even though men have assaulted/victimized more men than womenI don’t know about that. There are plenty of things I can say that I know will and rightly so, get me knocked out. You can’t say all kinds of terrible things and hide behind the fact that you didn’t throw hands. Throwing hands can be much less harmful than verbally abusing someone actually. I have been in lots of fights growing up. Most of them didn’t ruin the relationship. We worked it out and moved on. But there are worse things that people did to me that didn’t involve throwing hands. Just be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Women often use fear as an excuse to be rude to men even though men have assaulted/victimized more men than womenRight, and the blue hairs call that victim blaming when they do blame women for starting it. Which is fine as long as you are consistent and don’t have double standards for different genders. “men are often actively and willingly participating in violence” anybody who starts shit, male or female, is an active and willing participant until they start to lose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Women often use fear as an excuse to be rude to men even though men have assaulted/victimized more men than womenI don’t think it is so much the caution that is the issue as them using it as an excuse to both be bigoted against men in general, rather than perpetrators, and also using the fact that they are more scared as evidence of women’s oppression. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 01:41 PM |
| 7 | Women often use fear as an excuse to be rude to men even though men have assaulted/victimized more men than womenPick fights? What do we call this when a woman gets beat? Victim blaming. Why do you think we have this double standards? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: what should women know about sex?“If you have a partner that’s not initiating, tell her, it’s perfectly okay to communicate these things.” I agree. Getting women to actually listen and make an effort is the hard part in my experience. The problem is, if they don’t actually get into the sexy mindset, you have a catch 22. What was hot about that scenario wasn’t only what she did. What was hot about that is that she was vibing with me enough to know that I would find that hot, and that she was thinking of sex before I was, and tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 02:32 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: what should women know about sex?Here is an example: once when my GF and I were out at a bar with a group of friends, she was there wearing a skirt and some thigh highs but to everyone else it looked like just normal pantyhose. She goes to the bathroom and when she comes back, she sits down next to me and slides the panties into my pocket silently. I reach in and feel the lace. She give me the fuck me eyes. This is telling me she is enthusiastic about arousing me. Then compare that to the women who just kind of are passive play… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 11:22 AM |
| 2 | Sexless marriage is a form of abuse.Why is it the husband’s responsibility? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 03:24 PM |
| 5 | Sex tourism is only considered wrong when it is done by men because most of society is so sexist it only ascribes agency to men.They only pretend they are the same when it suits their agenda | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 04:44 PM |
| 16 | It is almost impossible to talk redpill men out of their positions because doing so would contradict their lived experiences. Bluepill needs to provide a better explanation for these experiences, not argue that the experiences themselves don't happenI mean, I would be pissed if my wife gave you my contact info. And it has nothing to do with the fact that I am concerned you would seduce me. It is because I don’t like strangers to have my contact info. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 10:16 AM |
| 1 | The damage caused by the sexualization of women is substantially greater than any benefit.Being “watched” all the time isn’t fail safe either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 12:54 PM |
| 2 | The damage caused by the sexualization of women is substantially greater than any benefit.Castration was actually a religious practice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Men are happier in marriage and women are happier singleThe thing is, I have heard all of these lines they are recycling, and dug deep into each of them and know what the issues with all of those arguments are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 12:32 PM |
| 1 | The damage caused by the sexualization of women is substantially greater than any benefit.I understand the significance of point 1. Very significant fact of comparing a human woman with a female dog. And I understand it has zero significance when comparing a human woman with a man. “why do women need to be controlled” they don’t. It’s religion. Why is a nonsensical question. They get their marching orders from a god they pretend exists. I was in a religion that controlled whether or not men were allowed to wear shorts or not. That didn’t need controlled. They just thought it was God’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Men are happier in marriage and women are happier singleIt isn’t a matter of counting points. It’s about the quality of points. We can dig up as many sloppy points as we have time for if we have the time and ideological inclination. Don’t confuse quantity for quality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 10:30 AM |
| 2 | Men are happier in marriage and women are happier singleThe article says that, but where are they getting their info? From ideologically biased sources? For example the housework gap. I see so many of these studies with flaws like the fact that they play with definitions. Some of them define housework as stereotypically feminine work. The work men put into running the household is conceptually excluded from the term “housework” (what comes to mind when you hear the word? Cooking and cleaning. But there is so much more to keeping a household running).… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 01:48 AM |
| 2 | Men are happier in marriage and women are happier singleWhatever the exact reason for the failures, women seem to be worse at forming healthy relationships overall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 01:21 AM |
| 2 | Men are happier in marriage and women are happier singleHere is the quote from the article: “Such unhappiness is not limited to women married to men – women married to other women are more likely to divorce than married male same-sex couples. “ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 01:04 AM |
| 5 | The damage caused by the sexualization of women is substantially greater than any benefit.Right. But just being able to have sex for pleasure outside of estrus is a low bar if you are comparing women to men and not animals. Number 3 could still be “necessary” if women have any libido at all. It doesn’t have to be equal to a man’s for this to happen. Considering they take a zero tolerance approach to sex outside marriage. Once is too much from their view. Growing up religious, I can tell you that there are also repressive sex rules that apply to men. The same ones actually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 10:00 PM |
| 3 | The damage caused by the sexualization of women is substantially greater than any benefit.Damn. I didn’t get that memo! Here I have lived a life where my sexuality has been controlled by women! How do I sign up for a role reversal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 09:49 PM |
| 3 | The damage caused by the sexualization of women is substantially greater than any benefit.OP is comparing women to men, not animals. Don’t think it is relevant what animals do sexually unless you are considering choosing between an animal and a woman. As for number 3, well that can be the case, and it also be true that men want sex more than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 09:47 PM |
| 3 | Is having mental illness or being neurodivergent the most unattractive trait a man have?A lot of faiths are happiness vampires. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 09:04 PM |
| 5 | Men are happier in marriage and women are happier singleMen don’t live as long as women, so I wouldn’t be surprised. Or Maybe women are able to handle the emotions of the loss because it is more likely to have not been working out for them to begin with, as seems to be a trend in women’s relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Men are happier in marriage and women are happier singleIt’s true. I am talking if you control for the variable of gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 04:07 PM |
| 3 | Men are happier in marriage and women are happier single“One oft-noted concern is the matter of sexual relations. Wives often complain that husbands want sex with little attention to other needs. This concern is exacerbated by the traditional view still held by many that marriage implies automatic conjugal rights, with husbands entitled to intimacy any time and wives duty bound to oblige.” Maybe this has some connection to the fact that most women still want the right to demand monogamy from their partner. Also, this article genders the problem, but … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 03:48 PM |
| 8 | Men are happier in marriage and women are happier singleIt isn’t my conclusion. It is in this article. https://archive-yaleglobal.yale.edu/content/should-women-stay-single | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 03:31 PM |
| 2 | Men are happier in marriage and women are happier singleBeing out and about in society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 02:17 PM |
| 2 | Men are happier in marriage and women are happier single“Women, while having a lot more expectation about marriage, altogether seems to not benefit from it so much.“ This is true independent on the gender of the person the women are with. Lesbian women are less satisfied with their relationships than gay men. The problem to be consistent with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 02:15 PM |
| 13 | Men are happier in marriage and women are happier singleEven women in lesbian relationships are less satisfied with relationship than gay men in relationships. Women seem to be just worse at intimate relationships in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 02:14 PM |
| 6 | Men are happier in marriage and women are happier singleFor some reason, women don’t seem to be as keen on partnership as men. Even lesbian women in partnerships are less satisfied than gay men in partnerships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Men are happier in marriage and women are happier singleEspecially for men. Heavier can mean more muscle mass. Muscle mass is associated with health and longevity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 02:09 PM |
| 4 | Men are happier in marriage and women are happier singleAnybody can benefit from a partnership. Even two educated working professionals without kids. What are people’s largest expenses? Typically housing and vehicles. In a partnership, you can share access to those things, allowing you to save and retire, or just achieve financial independence, and hence freedom from wage slavery much much earlier in life. Same with pretty much most chores you need to do to run an life. Almost the same amount of work for one as for two. Plus there are so many things … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 02:07 PM |
| 13 | Men are happier in marriage and women are happier singleI have seen other studies that break it down by age as well. Older man are relatively happier single than older women, while younger women are happier single than younger men. Like most things, it’s more complicated than it looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 12:14 PM |
| 16 | The current dating market is evidence of our slip back into naturalistic mating behavior.Could be. But maybe not. It is hard to count that sort of thing due to the grey nature of it. It is relatively easy to count people turning tricks for a fix. But wealthier prostitutes are harder to count because they aren’t streetwalking, they aren’t advertising, they aren’t filing taxes, they aren’t even talking about it because it’s illegal and socially shamed. Running in wealthy circles, you realize that not all prostitution is blatant and obvious like walking up to cars and listing your menu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/22 01:40 PM |
| 20 | The current dating market is evidence of our slip back into naturalistic mating behavior.I know women who have tons of money and still sell sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/22 10:43 AM |
| 8 | If you only want intimacy through sex, you don’t actually care about intimacy. You just want sex.Sex is like a bathroom in a house. It isn’t going to have the biggest impact on your decision to buy the house or not. But you wouldn’t buy a house without one at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/22 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Gender relations, and dating for men in particular, would be much improved if there weren’t so much societal pressure for men to get laid“not so much out of genuine interest” there is plenty of genuine interest. Maybe not from you. But from most of us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Why is it always "What would you do to me," but not "Here's what I'd do to you?"I hear that topic a lot in feminist spaces, so they seem to have similar takes as you on that sort of thing. That’s why I asked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Why is it always "What would you do to me," but not "Here's what I'd do to you?"Feminism actually does deal with that topic a lot. That isn’t all I this about, but that’s talked about a lot. Would you consider yourself a feminist? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Why is it always "What would you do to me," but not "Here's what I'd do to you?"They talk about this a lot. And you are a feminist and talking about it in a space where feminist and competing ideologies are debated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Why is it always "What would you do to me," but not "Here's what I'd do to you?"In my experience, most men haven’t. Which is why feminism’s claims perplex so many of us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Why is it always "What would you do to me," but not "Here's what I'd do to you?"Absolutely. I don’t understand how other people can feel differently. But they are surprisingly hard to find. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Why is it always "What would you do to me," but not "Here's what I'd do to you?"No I mean willing to please. In my experience it has been more about what they want. I have been more willing to fulfill their fantasies than the other way around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Why is it always "What would you do to me," but not "Here's what I'd do to you?"Where were these women when I was dating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 04:38 PM |
| 2 | Why is it always "What would you do to me," but not "Here's what I'd do to you?"“Tends to be more about the woman fulfilling what the man wants, not specifically what the woman wants.“ I can only speak for myself, but the reason I focus on that is because I am willing to do pretty much anything she wants, but finding women who are actually eager to please is rare, in my experience and in the experience of most of my male friends, so it bears mentioning. "What does the man want to do sexually to the woman?" This is discussed a lot in r/sex. And usually the responses are a do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 04:37 PM |
| 0 | Men taking a portion or all of themselves away is not manipulative or toxicI do see people in feminist and mainstream women’s spaces here on Reddit complain about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 01:35 PM |
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