| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Dealing with jealousy. | ChrisKamanUrMouth | /r/seduction | 18/01/18 06:57 AM | |
| 1 | What to say? | ChrisKamanUrMouth | /r/seduction | 22/03/17 06:10 PM | |
| 1 | How to deal with shy/socially awkward girls? | ChrisKamanUrMouth | /r/seduction | 08/01/18 12:52 AM | |
| 0 | Approach anxiety | ChrisKamanUrMouth | /r/seduction | 17/06/17 05:52 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | How to use preselection after?This, there’s like 3 main places I frequent and have brought like 10+ different girls with me. Staff and regulars already know me so getting girls there when I go solo or with friends there’s a level of “status” at play. | /r/seduction | 28/04/26 09:58 PM |
| 5 | Why do people consider the things i do as lame?.What are you on about? Be passionate about shit and ppl that actually like you will love that about you. Recently got into some “lame” shit like beekeeping and the girls I’m dating love the passion I have for it. In life ppl will either like you or they won’t, go do what makes you happy. | /r/seduction | 28/04/26 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Do you kiss girls hello that you’re seeing casually?I’d steer clear of her or just be honest about wanting something casual. Some girls are surprisingly down for that if you’re upfront about it. | /r/seduction | 22/04/26 05:58 AM |
| 2 | Do you kiss girls hello that you’re seeing casually?Why don’t you see anything long term? | /r/seduction | 22/04/26 01:43 AM |
| 6 | Curiosity killed the catShe’s playing the social media game bro. Just liking so you can keep commenting for engagement. It’s not that deep. | /r/seduction | 26/11/24 09:36 PM |
| 11 | Girlfriend no longer accepts some things in bedIf sex is important to you just move on man. It’s only been 3 dates. Cut your losses now if no sex/oral is a dealbreaker. | /r/seduction | 21/11/24 09:08 AM |
| 1 | Love bombers that suddenly ghost youSee it for what it is, a hookup. Don’t develop feelings and always wear protection when you meet this person. Stay safe | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 10:46 PM |
| 2 | Why did I get ghosted back to back?Who knows who cares why those 2 ghosted. Be at a point where 2 girls not replying doesn’t matter (aka abundance). Good luck brother | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 12:04 AM |
| 5 | My first dates 9 times out of 10 don't go anywhere.. feel more like interviews or a catch up with a colleague than anything else. Any advice?This. You can get further with a woman in a 15-20 min phone call then you can texting her all day for a week straight. Tone of voice is huge for women. Voice memos are also better than texting. | /r/seduction | 26/09/24 08:25 AM |
| 2 | After 300+ Cold Approach Rejections. I think my Self-Confidence has gotten even WORSE (Self-Reflection and mini Vent)Women are leaving it apparently. Eat more bro. Working out is only part of it you gotta eat. Set up a proper meal plan to see gains | /r/seduction | 20/09/24 08:50 PM |
| 2 | After 300+ Cold Approach Rejections. I think my Self-Confidence has gotten even WORSE (Self-Reflection and mini Vent)Hate to kick a guy when he’s down, but you’re not conventionally attractive on top of being short. Build muscle and fill out your frame which should be easier being 5’6”. Best of luck man. | /r/seduction | 20/09/24 08:43 PM |
| 2 | Classmate suddenly uninterestedWith women everything is in the timing bro. Don’t hang your head over this. As cliche as it sounds just talk to more women. The more women you talk to and date the less you’ll care if one bird decides she’s uninterested. | /r/seduction | 19/09/24 12:13 AM |
| 11 | How to hookup - often getting pigeonholed into a long - term guyWho knows and who cares why this specific girl is not into you. Just get more experience with other women and self analyze. I’ve dated long enough to know not to take what women do to me personally. I would’ve gone crazy trying to figure out the reason every single girl that rejected me did. Best of luck man. | /r/seduction | 07/09/24 07:27 PM |
| 22 | How to hookup - often getting pigeonholed into a long - term guyI think you may have misunderstood her. She said she was “Looking for something different” aka not you. Some girls just won’t like you and that’s ok. | /r/seduction | 07/09/24 06:58 PM |
| 13 | Do you agree with this ? I have heard it from a lot of people .Just like basketball. Get to the free throw line and see 1 go through. | /r/seduction | 05/05/24 10:57 PM |
| 5 | Should I reach out to her again?Ball is in her court. Women that like you will make it easy for you to meet up. You’re already seeing other women so focus on them and leave this girl alone. | /r/seduction | 05/04/24 06:56 PM |
| 3 | I’m not understanding my relationshipVery true. My Ex gf gave me an ultimatum by the 4 month mark of us dating. These things don’t have timelines but a woman who wants you will try to make you commit. | /r/seduction | 05/04/24 05:43 AM |
| 2 | I’m not understanding my relationshipCharge that shit to the game brother. She can probably feel the anxiety you obviously have about losing her. Live your life and try not to force anything. Might sound cliche, but it’s the truth. | /r/seduction | 05/04/24 05:41 AM |
| 2 | What to do when she goes coldElaborate | /r/seduction | 05/04/24 02:52 AM |
| 8 | What to text a girl ?Let’s see Paul Allen’s pick up line | /r/seduction | 04/04/24 06:05 PM |
| 24 | Girls gave me their instagram…This . Chasing women and trying to prove to myself that my “game” was good was such a waste. If/when you get the girl you’ve been chasing the juice isn’t worth the squeeze. Girls that like you off rip will respect you, treat you better and fuck you better too. I realized this when I was strung along and rejected by a HB7 and a few days later at a party and HB8 was all over me. Shit was eye opening. There are women out there that just like you and will reciprocate energy. Work on your body, looks… | /r/seduction | 04/04/24 06:03 PM |
| 10 | What to do when she goes coldGuys do that with high interest women. Doing this to lukewarm women essentially leaves “potential women on the table”. Besides high interest women, men do this later on in the relationship when the girl has become attached. Doing this early does absolutely nothing. Women live in abundance and couldn’t care less if some guy she kind of likes went ghost or inconsistent. | /r/seduction | 04/04/24 05:55 PM |
| 3 | Is there any hope after a woman with initial high interest loses it?It’s fine if other ppl are present when you hang out. Go do something fun like going to the beach and isolate her there. While you’re vibing with her, her attraction will rise and you can set up a date for a later time. I’ve invited girls out to a party and isolated them then set up future dates. | /r/seduction | 17/10/22 09:14 PM |
| 10 | Is there any hope after a woman with initial high interest loses it?Women like when things “just happen”, so just ask her out and have a good time and let it happen naturally. Don’t make it logical because she’ll logically reject you. | /r/seduction | 17/10/22 08:14 PM |
| 13 | Is there any hope after a woman with initial high interest loses it?Don’t explain yourself to her. Just talk to her like nothing happened and ask her out. | /r/seduction | 17/10/22 06:10 PM |
| 1 | How can I take rejection graciously?Rejection>>>>>regret. Rejection doesn’t even feel like rejection most of the time because im not emotionally invested in these women when I just met them. | /r/seduction | 26/09/22 04:36 PM |
| 2 | How many of you on here have actually improved with women after spending time on here?While vibing with her you maintain good eye contact, you flirt with her and if time permits you take her on an instadate/pull or exchange numbers at a high point of the convo to take her out on a date later. | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 05:37 PM |
| 34 | How many of you on here have actually improved with women after spending time on here?When you meet her you have to make sure you frame it as a man to woman not friend to friend. She can either accept it or reject it. Yes, asking her out on a date is a way of showing intent. | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 06:36 PM |
| 66 | How many of you on here have actually improved with women after spending time on here?Showing Intent. She will either accept it and reciprocate or she’ll reject you. No friend zone. | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 06:34 PM |
| 17 | I think I know why *some* women ghost randomly even if it seems like you’re both enjoying yourselves.Happened to me too a couple years ago. Just charge that shit to the game and keep playing the field. | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 08:05 PM |
| 9 | [deleted by user]Just finger blast them and play with the clit. Head is reserved for girls you’re exclusive with or have been tested. | /r/seduction | 11/10/21 07:47 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]“INVITE ME PLEASE!!!!!” /s | /r/seduction | 05/09/21 12:02 AM |
| 1 | IdkCharge that shit to the game. Talk to girls within a 15 mile radius so you can actually fuck them. | /r/seduction | 16/08/21 07:39 AM |
| 14 | [deleted by user]Bro, if a girl you’re talking to is letting her ex have any sort of influence on her current relationship. You need to set boundaries or just walk away. | /r/seduction | 15/08/21 09:05 PM |
| 23 | [deleted by user]If your “crush” still gives a shit about her ex’s opinion then she’s not over him. Move on. | /r/seduction | 15/08/21 08:37 PM |
| 7 | Approaching women is fun af!Try .280 lol dudes batting at .333 are generational talents like mike trout and babe Ruth, but I get your point. | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Girl said she liked me. We’ll go on a date tomorrow. But she ignores all my texts. What should I do?Buddy. I had a girl who didn’t text back for 20-24 hours when I first got her number. Got her on a date and got her attracted to me and we dated for like 4 months. Don’t sweat it bro, if she shows up that means there’s some interest. Go get it man! | /r/seduction | 30/07/21 04:51 AM |
| 17 | Made an approach and went horribly wrong lolThis . Rejection>>>>Regret | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 11:05 PM |
| 13 | 7 Day Approach ChallengeShe was lowkey flirting with you lol. Depending on the way she said it. | /r/seduction | 18/07/21 07:10 AM |
| 4 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenWe make our own options. Women pick and choose from the guys that approach them. They have more options, but not necessarily good ones. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 02:19 AM |
| 21 | Quick and dirty reminder“Let me show you something.” *pulls up empty bank account | /r/seduction | 05/10/19 04:23 AM |
| 8 | StartIndicator of interest. Girl looking/smiling at you. | /r/seduction | 12/09/19 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Went for my first approach ever, she was lesbian!Should’ve playfully told her “Love has no gender”. Besides most young women 18-25 are sexually fluid. | /r/seduction | 10/09/19 09:02 PM |
| 91 | 12 ready to use steps: the most specific battle plan you’ve ever seenTLDR: “The voices in my head told me to come talk you” should be my go to opener. | /r/seduction | 25/08/19 08:21 AM |
| 5 | Starting to feel like 'game' = be brave and go for it!!I’m 20 and I would hesitate going for a 17 year old lol, granted I live in the US. | /r/seduction | 18/04/19 09:53 PM |
| 3 | Going for my first approach in about an hour“Heads, you ask her out. Tails, you die” | /r/seduction | 12/04/19 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Trust your fucking gutSounds like a pimp lol. | /r/seduction | 01/03/19 08:53 PM |
| 3 | Felt awkward hanging out in a group of girlsI’ve gone through this too. Ego is a hell of a drug lol. | /r/seduction | 01/03/19 06:15 AM |
| 6 | My therapist basically urged me to approach moreFace tats, prison hmmmm. 6ix9ine be out here lurking | /r/seduction | 20/02/19 08:39 PM |
| 12 | Girl I have a crush on tells me about relationship problems, what to do now?You’re the gay best friend to her. Go talk to other women because she probably doesn’t even know you have a penis. | /r/seduction | 20/01/19 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Scene in new Gillette ad caught my eyeThank you for those words of wisdom. | /r/seduction | 16/01/19 06:12 PM |
| 1 | How Women Rate Men (Krauser's SMV Scale)Messi has no problem pulling lesbians. Dude has celebrity SMV. | /r/seduction | 14/01/19 08:12 PM |
| 1 | How to Flirt and Banter With Women | 5 Easy HacksI think those were veneers. | /r/seduction | 08/01/19 08:14 PM |
| 9 | The Basics of Game and FlirtingI like a confident woman, but I can overlook a slightly shy girl. | /r/seduction | 01/01/19 05:04 AM |
| 2 | Met a girl 4-5 months ago. Here goes the storyThis. She pretty much felt rejected and stopped entertaining OP. | /r/seduction | 30/12/18 11:15 PM |
| 3 | Indirectly opening a girl at the park and getting her numberDamn dude, you look like a skinny Roman Reigns lol. Keep up the good work. | /r/seduction | 24/08/18 08:08 AM |
| 6 | What Makes A Man Attractive To Women? (The Two Traits Girls Can’t Resist)This, Ive met a couple of (lesbian/bi)women in lesbian relationships, but where overwhelmed by guys that pushed the right buttons and made them feel like a woman. | /r/seduction | 16/08/18 02:32 AM |
| 1 | How To Make Your Interactions With Women Sexual + Daygame Infield ExampleGerman dude needed his own mic. He was standing uncomfortably close to you. 😂 | /r/seduction | 24/02/18 02:13 AM |
| 28 | How to escalate if she's already at your place?When I got out of the shower she was gone along with my PS4 and laptop, thanks. | /r/seduction | 12/01/18 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Girl doesn’t want to get hurt?Up to you if you want to pursue her if you do I recommend agreeing and amplify her statement. It looks like she enjoys the drama. | /r/seduction | 11/01/18 02:32 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with shy/socially awkward girls?Yea, i just got so used to being around extroverted girls that I over complicate things with "normal" girls. Thx bro. | /r/seduction | 08/01/18 01:17 AM |
| 2 | Do not be this girl or guy.Wanna breed future NBA players I see. Smart man. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/17 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Asking out coworkersTBH I've asked a co worker out recently, but I had to take some baby steps and keep a flirty vibe longer than I wanted before even attempting to ask for the number/date. You don't want to "burn it to the ground" like you do with random girls out in public because you'll be seeing this girl whether she says yes or no. Just don't wait too long or she'll friend zone you. TL;DR: it's better/convenient to get girls outside of work, but if you're feeling this chick go for it. | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 06:07 AM |
| 53 | Be Humble."My reddit post just went viral" | /r/seduction | 24/11/17 06:01 PM |
| 2 | That Encounter Almost Qualifies Me As A Predator.Pls be non-American lol. We don't need you to go to prison for self snitching. | /r/seduction | 23/11/17 10:26 PM |
| 11 | Approach Sucker!!!! Approach!!Everyone uses internet explorer at least once to download chrome. | /r/seduction | 26/06/17 05:04 AM |
| 2 | |FR/Test| Using the word "date" or not when asking a girl out.Yea, I agree. The word date is polarizing when it comes to asking a girl out. On one hand some girls might feel pressured by it and others see it as confidence and showing true intentions which can make her slightly more attracted to you. | /r/seduction | 13/06/17 10:25 AM |
| 1 | 30 Day Infield Challenge - Day 12: 10 Minute Pull!It was more of an instant date than a pull, but good shit nonetheless. | /r/seduction | 07/05/17 09:45 AM |
| 2 | Why do girls like to play the guessing game?Yes. That's when you make assumptions about her, and that leads to flirting and conversation topics. | /r/seduction | 06/05/17 04:22 PM |
| 1 | I got led on and Im butt hurtHave girl friends first to have a "middleman" per say to introduce you to cool girls. I've got girl friends at ucsb and they've helped me meet cool ass people in general. | /r/seduction | 25/04/17 05:35 PM |
| 1 | I got led on and Im butt hurtGo to any decent sized campus. Specifically a UC if you're in cali, those dime pieces are common. | /r/seduction | 25/04/17 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Do women prefer men without glasses?"Do men prefer women without braces?" Dude it's subjective, some people don't care others do. Just approach and make you're intentions clear. If she has a problem with your glasses and "rejects" you it's no big deal plenty of women who like or are indifferent toward men with glasses. | /r/seduction | 22/04/17 10:57 AM |
| 12 | A girl in my class is really into me,but...Move on. She likes the attention you give her, but that's it. You can try and asking her out in person, but if she makes up an excuse without offering for a different day just cut her off. | /r/seduction | 12/04/17 10:50 AM |
| 3 | How can you tell if a girl is DTF and how do I go about it?Just assume she is by not leaving. Make a move on her and see if she's receptive to it. | /r/seduction | 11/04/17 03:11 AM |
| 1 | How To Build A Social Circle From Scratch And Get The Hottest Girls Chasing You [+INFIELD]This isn't the best infield. She already had familiarity with a common friend so some of the screening process was eliminated, but nonetheless I get the idea of this video. Be nice and friendly with some light flirting. | /r/seduction | 04/04/17 12:38 AM |
| 2 | Going to a girls B-Day partyMake up a "fallback". Tell her your meeting friends somewhere or getting food etc. Just build attraction and try to isolate by using one of the excuses above. If she agrees to go with you she won't be mad if you lied about meeting friends. | /r/seduction | 03/03/17 01:25 PM |
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