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Read Mate by Tucker Max please. Best dating book I've ever encountered, and I've read several dating books, probably too many (btw ppl think Models by Mark Manson is the gold standard, this is about 10X better).
/r/seduction31/01/20 12:58 AM
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I live in one of the biggest cities in North America, and I had the issue of walking around forever like a dumbass trying to find hot girls. It's not a good strategy from my world view, but that's obviously subjective
/r/seduction27/10/19 07:30 PM
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I think you forgot to mention the fact that you'll be walking around FOREVER trying to find a hot 18-23-year-old girl. If there was a place where hot girls all gathered during the day, I would never step foot in a loud night club again. I find Day Game generally to be a waste of time walking around like an idiot in malls looking for women to approach
/r/seduction27/10/19 05:55 PM
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First thing I would advise someone in your position is read The Rational Male by Rollo Thomasi.
/r/seduction19/06/19 09:28 PM
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sounds like a great way to drain your bank account, but I agree it would make you an interesting person
/r/seduction05/06/19 10:01 PM
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This guy has incredible content, I've been following him. he's pretty unknown, but legit
/r/seduction19/12/18 04:33 PM
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If she asks "do you have snap chat," that's always an IOI to me. I can count back on almost every girl I had sex with asked me that question, IT MEANS SHE LIKES YOU! :D
/r/seduction30/10/18 04:28 PM
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Actual, practical value here. Great post. If most of the girls you approach say something to the effect of, “I have to use the bathroom,” or, “I have to find my friends,” - I've heard these lines a LOT when I'm out btw. I open easily but ask logical questions too early and then they run away from me with those lines. "It was nice to meet you" is another one often used by girls basically telling you to Fuck off nicely
/r/seduction28/10/18 05:37 AM
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Alright I re-read the post and I take it back then. What you said would work AFTER a date and a time is established, and you're going out with her. However, what you said about ignoring her while others at the office approach her, and wait until she approaches you, that stuff only works in the movies lol. To be honest, I should take some of this material and apply it to my DATES because I'm definitely a guy who escalates and has sex on his mind, but 100% I'll always be the one to approach, flirt…
/r/seduction13/09/18 04:32 PM
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Sorry, but if this story is true, it's still bad advice. If you "ignore" girls and wait around for them to approach you, you'll go through your 20's and 30's with no girls approaching you. I agree you can't be needy and you need to build desire, but I won't EVER rely on the girl to approach me.
/r/seduction12/09/18 08:44 PM
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What's your method when it comes to having open, casual relationships? A lot of girls want to be with just one guy, and are not down to be "a notch in someone's belt" or "a side girl." Do you tell them "I want an open relationship" before or after sex?
/r/seduction08/02/18 08:36 PM
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Now I ain't saying OP is a gold digger...
/r/seduction01/09/17 05:02 PM
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Basically, I meet them, I try to "seed the date" during the interaction, then the next morning I say "Pleasure meeting you! :)" Even if I makeout with the chick, they still don't fucking respond. It's getting crazy dude, I feel like numbers are useless.
/r/seduction14/06/17 11:17 PM
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The double text thing is the #1 issue that I'm having...it's fucked how impossible it is to get a girl's attention nowadays, I'm always the one to text first, and if I met her in a club most of the time they don't text back...
/r/seduction14/06/17 03:32 PM
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Nono, but your "rule" of 3 dates before sex is the nonsense negotiation game. What I'm saying is if you guys both "click" and you really like him there should be no rules in your head of when and where to have sex. All of my long term relationships started as casual dating then us being together due to "liking each other too much." Nothing was forced and we both decided to be together after having plenty of great sex.
/r/seduction20/05/17 01:18 AM
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Any thriving relationship has to be sex first, then relationship. Can never be the other way around. I learned this from Rollo Thomasi when he said sex should not be a process of negotiation, he's 100% right and it's one of the best "dating tips" I've ever encountered.
/r/seduction20/05/17 12:26 AM
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Can I add you on Facebook to get a closer look into your strategy?
/r/seduction22/01/17 01:50 AM
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the "dating advice for women" industry is about 100X bigger than the dating advice for men industry What what what? This this a joke? This has to be impossible right? You're saying girls spend 100's of dollars on digital products like we do? WHAT? Girls just want to have fun, they don't study seduction?
/r/seduction20/10/16 01:14 AM
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Nope, AFC Adam is legit, trust me his vids at the 21 convention convinced me he's the real deal, and other PUAs like Jon Sinn have praised him as well
/r/seduction22/11/14 12:12 AM
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You got this from the book Influence, right?
/r/seduction17/03/14 11:03 PM
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For anyone who cares this example used in the video is in the books "Influence" and "Switch"
/r/seduction23/02/14 02:18 AM
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