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The biggest piece of advice I can give you is to always have one foot out the door in an LTR. You "gaming" them should never stop. In fact you have a little bit more leeway to pull back and make them chase in an LTR, which will confuse them but also make them fall more in love with you. AWALT, of course. But it sounds to me like you let some of your blue pill beliefs affect your decision making and if you take one thing away from this sub it should be that you cannot use your redpill knowledge t…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/16 06:44 AM
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Couldn't agree more based on the trailer. I'm not sure if I'm more annoyed that we're being grouped in with these worthless crybaby MRAs or pleased that people who see this film won't associate those who lift and take care of themselves with these movements. As long as we're making the best out of this bad situation, I'm never too downtrodden when I get to stay under the public radar TRP-wise
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 03:19 PM
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So much TRP gold in here "I stopped seeing Matthew as my equal. I stopped seeing all the qualities that had made me fall in love with him - his fierce intelligence, our shared sense of humour, his determination not to follow the crowd. Instead, I saw someone who was holding me back." They don't feel compassion unless you have value to them. Otherwise you're dealing with a sociopath
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 02:48 PM
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While I've seen this sort of thing more than I want to admit, it's always nice to take your daily dose, especially when your opposition is giving it to you on a silver platter
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 10:43 AM
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I'm happy to see so much quality on TRP lately, and this post is at the top of that list. We talk about why BPD girls are bad deals, but I've never seen it so meticulously laid out. I know that if I had it my way the sidebar would be massive, but I think that this post should be required reading for anyone who even suspects they've bumped into a potential BPD love interest
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 10:22 AM
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I've seen this too many times. She doesn't feel guilty because she kissed someone else. She took things much farther than that and is letting the paranoia that she'll be caught mess with her emotionally. This is a classic move from the emotionally unstable girl handbook that lets her spin her massive solipsism into what looks like selfless compassion with ease. Notice how she pulls further away the more he's sympathetic. She feels revolted by his weakness and at the same time her paranoia increa…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 09:53 AM
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"One must choose between loving women and knowing them" - Ninon de L'Enclos
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 09:40 AM
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It was a long read but all of it was gold. The last major relationship of my beta days followed this exact pattern to a tee. Even now there are days where I notice subtle changes in my LTR attempting to chip away at my authority in the relationship. Stay vigilant, and always be willing to walk when she crosses a line, no matter who she is to you, or you'll forever be doomed to beta servitude
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 09:37 AM
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No problem man, I hope you dig it. Usually you can find "Beyond Good and Evil" printed as a single book with "Human, All Too Human", a slightly earlier work of Nietzsche's. They're my two favorite Nietzsche works and are readable as hell. The way he writes is in small sections so it lends itself to daily reading, or reading based on your current topic of interest within the volume, since the ideas aren't linear. Anyhow, feel free to message me if you ever pick up the book or have any more recomm…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 07:55 AM
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Yeah, it was a solid read. I've been into Nietzsche for a bit, and have a thing for certain classic authors. Since you recommended me something cool, take a look at this. It's 232 - 239 in Nietzsche's "Beyond Good and Evil", one of my favorite passages. I think you'll appreciate it "But she does not want truth: what does truth matter for a woman! Nothing is so utterly foreign, unfavorable, and hostile for women from the very start than truth, – their great art is in lying, their highest concern …
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 06:36 AM
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I'm digging in and it's exceeding expectations all around "She pays the debt of life not by what she does but by what she suffers—by the pains of child-bearing, care for the child, and by subjection to man, to whom she should be a patient and cheerful companion. The greatest sorrows and joys or great exhibition of strength are not assigned to her; her life should flow more quietly, more gently, and less obtrusively than man’s, without her being essentially happier or unhappier." "With girls, Nat…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 05:28 AM
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Thanks for the recommendation, I'll give it a read tonight. I've heard good things about Schopenhauer but haven't found a good starting point yet, so I appreciate it
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 04:30 AM
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Working out helps regardless of your looks. Do a full body strength day. You'll be hurting but your game will be on point for the next 48 hours from the hormone rush
/r/TheRedPill18/10/16 06:00 AM
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Because even though the hot one probably had more exposure to interesting things, she had no incentive to persue any of them, she could pull chad regardless and she knew it. Not hot chick persued other interests because it was a bump to her SMV and because she wasn't being constantly worshiped so she didn't have to fight to break away from the endless validation suck that makes most who get pulled in boring
/r/TheRedPill18/10/16 05:38 AM
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I met a best friend of mine that way. He got to know the girl I was dating at the time through a mutual circle and was excited about sharing his niche interests. He later realized she was just superficially into all the things I was actually into and we hit it off great. In his own words "It didn't take me long to figure out that everything I thought was cool about her was just you"
/r/TheRedPill18/10/16 05:26 AM
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I find the betas to be worse. They will stab you in the back in a heartbeat at every instance where they feel EVEN SLIGHTLY that female intimacy might be on the table for them. Friends with abundance mentality are a fucking blessing so long as you respect each others' boundaries
/r/TheRedPill21/08/16 09:29 AM
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"All of the things I'm doing are completely okay but of course I'd never tell my partner about them" - That tells you all you need to know. She knows she's breaching a contract and betraying trust. If she wants to fuck more than one person at once she can always take the title off of her relationship and go back to being a plate. But no, she wants her cake, and she wants to eat it too
/r/TheRedPill21/08/16 07:50 AM
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While I agree completely with you, I think the rapid decline in testosterone plays a huge factor. Biologically, younger people just don't have the sex drives they used to
/r/TheRedPill07/08/16 12:56 AM
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This shit right here is why we're all checking out of relationships. Thank you for the post, it was insightful and nice to take my daily dose of TRP lest I start forgetting that they really are all like that
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 05:49 PM
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That's the problem with beta men. They're so starved for pussy and indoctrinated that they'll backstab most anyone around them for even the slightest chance to get in. We say that there's no honor among women but they're easily worse, because they'll pose as trustworthy friends and co-workers
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 06:59 PM
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I've been waiting for this post for a bit, and almost wrote it myself. Good work OP. Even in small ways it can be a pain in the ass, they rationalize harder and are better at powertalk. If TRP doesn't flow through your veins dealing with them they'll tear you apart "No one suspects the 'down rated' HB7 with the glasses to be banging half the city." Sounds like we ran into a similar type
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 02:37 PM
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Get a job and save behind his back. If you can put a few grand in the bank and have a well paying job, you can survive in the real world without him holding you back
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 04:57 PM
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"quit reminiscing about the good old days. Women weren't any better then. We just chained them up and pretended they were." Glad someone finally said it. I've always felt the community romanticized the "good old days" because it cushioned the blow, gave them something to believe in. But pretty lies aren't what we spread here, they're what we kill
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 07:43 PM
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The first 95 pound girl I fucked after finally hitting a set of 225 pound deadlifts was magical. Stood up while I was in her, jackhammered her, and made her cum until she couldn't see straight. She still claims I'm the best fuck she's ever had, and that was almost a year ago
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 03:16 PM
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Very true indeed. Right now I'm with a girl who is obsessed with me to almost psychotic degrees and I see her do quite a few things that seem benevolent because she views my SMV as being so high above her own. I'm sure it will change or end at any time, as this sort of thing isn't realistic to expect to last for too long
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 05:43 AM
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Not a problem at all, looking forward to hearing from you
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 05:41 AM
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If this is how she's treating your commitment to her you need to withdraw it. Tell her she only gets the privilege of having you all to herself if she plays by your rules. If she withdraws her sex, admiration, affection, and respect, what the fuck are you still doing giving her your commitment? This is our most valuable asset as men. Walk away now, and if she fights hard enough and will respect you once she has earned back your commitment, then and only then will she get to have an LTR with you.…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 08:07 PM
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Ah, I have a thing for breakdowns like this. You're exactly right. I'd also add that if she had committed to the beta she would just be texting OP a few weeks (or days) later begging for him to come turn her inside out again
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 07:52 PM
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Well, don't get too hung up on the weight analogy, it's meant to function as a symbol for a loss of attraction. As much nature vs nurture is a debate that rages on, we have this idea that evolutionary ticks are subjective, or that we can transcend them and observing human behavior makes it glaringly obvious that this just isn't so. I do agree that there are cultural fads and changing preferences in the small scale, but the meta remains the same. Women will always be hypergamous because from an e…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 03:49 PM
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If her partner count is low, the relationship is new, and you're well above her in SMV, you can have a good setup. This being said, you slip up and you're fucked. But if you're willing to walk away at any time, she's not the biggest thing in your life, and you're always on your grind, having a girlfriend around can save you a lot of time you would otherwise spend gaming. Mine spoils the shit out of me, if she were to ever stop or her disposition were to change, I would just leave and we both wou…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 03:19 PM
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If women were not beautiful no one would have ever dreamed up the fantasy that they were benevolent or sacred. The cultural idea of the feminine mystique is really just the halo effect writ large That being said, there are women who can be incredibly virtuous when moved by the power of a masculine, dominant man. When you're the Alpha that TRP pushes you to be you can bring out the best in the ones who aren't yet ruined by the carousel. These women will still treat betas like trash, and will only…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 03:10 PM
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Ah, Schumer. Eventually her insecurity will destroy her and it will be a sight to behold
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 03:06 PM
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The most succinct definition of frame I've ever come across is: "the context of the interaction, and how everyone within it exist in that context" The old PUA's that invented the concept used it as a way to make sure that attraction stayed in the set. Did she say something that implies you're a loser? Well then spinning her statement to publicly display that she's interested in you changes the context of the interaction, which changes her statement, which returns her attraction to you. Frame is …
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 03:02 PM
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Good news, you know now and you can start crushing it. You don't have to waste another day under the foot of a woman, and that's cause for celebration
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 02:55 PM
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It's always wonderful to see what some of the great minds had to say about women and the sexual marketplace, I appreciate the link
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 02:54 PM
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a fetishization of pain as a marker of maturity. That's a good point. I've seen a few posts like that. Though on the whole I really like TRP's disposition towards hardship, pain, and struggle. The more you love the good fight and the pain that comes with it, the farther you'll go I'm glad you came out of your allegations alright. Have you ever done a write up of it? I'd be interested to read it
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 02:54 PM
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Nah, don't sweat it. The more that those who understand participate, the more we can keep this place running like a well oiled machine
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 02:51 PM
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This looked like a last ditch effort to put you under control. A nuclear shit test for sure. You did exceptionally well, and you can tell so by her disposition to you now. It's still surreal to me how often these intense displays of emotion are just power plays to domesticate and turn men into good little betas But as I've said before: "She's going to try to break you, because she's looking for a man she cannot break"
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 08:54 PM
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Sorry to hear that man, I can only imagine what kind of tribulation that is to go through. Hopefully all is well now Well, we're growing quickly. Incredibly quickly. When I started lurking 2 years ago we were at 20k and we've shot up to over 10 times that number. This is a double edged sword. I'm glad we can help so many more men, but with the influx of newer people outnumbering the truly dyed in the wool redpillers, ideas and concepts can get skewed very easily. I mentioned in another comment t…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 08:44 PM
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Much appreciated. I'm a long time lurker but I'm planning on trying to contribute a bit more to the community. I see some things of late that I think may be dangerous. Both in cases of us being too extreme and not extreme enough in certain degrees. When I was dragged into hell, TRP was the medicine I needed to pull myself out of it, and all of it's members were the older brothers I never had. I want this place to continue being that for as many men as it can
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 07:47 PM
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Thanks, you too, I'm enjoying our discussion You're very right. We are absolutely more than our wiring, however, that doesn't mean that we have transcended it. The best example of TRP is to imagine being in a relationship with someone you weren't attracted to. Let's say for kicks she's a 350 pound hambeast. But on paper, she's everything you want. She has all the right hobbies, supports you, likes doing everything you like doing, and always is willing to please you sexually. No matter how perfec…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 03:59 PM
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There were a couple of UCLA studies on women's sexuality that came to the same conclusions we did (just with vastly different language). If you like I can try to dig them up. It's not necessarily that we haven't scientifically discovered what TRP is preaching, but that mainstream culture is ideologically opposed to these findings because they have unpleasant implications. This leads to the same rhetoric being repeated even though it doesn't work. No one here is saying that you are JUST your biol…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 03:27 PM
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You'd be very right to say that posts like this don't move us forward, and keep us where they're at, but that is exactly the point. There are a great many members that need to take their medicine weekly or daily to prevent themselves from slipping back into idealism, I was one of them for a great while. Even though I knew all of these things, I needed more and more experiences of them, in the real world and from internet sources, before my subconscious stopped trying to drag me back into my old …
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 03:06 PM
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There's a lot of anger phase misogyny here. I went through it myself. When you kill the disney-land fantasy that a woman can love you unconditionally, it can fuck up your world. Couple this with the unpleasant fact that being a narcissistic misogynist will absolutely get you laid, (much, much more than being a sad sack beta trying to bed girls by being "nice") and you can pretty well imagine why it ends up being the default response for pretty much all of us. That being said, as someone who feel…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 02:52 PM
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Brilliant, I would have loved to see her face as you nexted her and headed off to your new, higher status job
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 07:57 PM
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This was an insightful post, I had no idea that businesses were split like that during divorces. Fuck man, saving this post for yet more "never marry" material
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 03:35 PM
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Same here man, I've been producing music for a bit, but I was lucky enough to find his mixtapes right after they dropped. Starting making ambient redpill RnB and never looked back. The mixtapes are goddamn liberating. I found them right after a nasty breakup that eventually led me here. It was the only music that seemed to make me feel better, and he was the only artist that seemed to make sense
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 05:25 AM
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I've heard it's hell up in Canada for game. The Weeknd most likely pulled heavy when he was there because he was in the drug scene, and you can always get sex if you've got status in the scene. His original 3 mixtapes are the chronicles of him and his crew running the House of Balloons. Haha moral of the story? Get some connections if you're going to game in weedy areas like that
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 04:06 PM
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As someone on the beginnings of a cut, this was excellent to read
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 09:47 PM
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This is a perfect example of what AWALT really means. Even the good ones have the same female biomechanical wiring that dictates how they feel attraction, and by extension, love. This is why no amount of her personal beliefs about equality matter in the long run (and often time, get in the way of you having an efficient relationship with her where she remains attracted to you). Biology is king. I don't give a shit what you believe about how you feel about food, when you're hungry, you're going t…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 07:52 PM
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Usually it takes a week or two for me to get back in the swing of it. Taking walks or doing some light cardio always helps jump start this process and no fap/no porn does the same. Don't worry so much about having no motivation or libido right now, just start doing the actions. The beauty of how impartial the world is is that you can do something that doesn't match your internal state and still experience the effects of it. So just shut out that little voice inside you for a week and hit all of …
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 07:42 PM
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I'm glad that I could help, keep on keeping on and you'll be back in the game soon. All sugar functions basically the same in the body, so in that sense yes it's the same, and you'll still need to watch your consumption. The other side of that coin is that it's mostly bound to fiber so it will time release a bit better, and will contain more nutrients so it's not all bad. The only advice I can really give you is to see what works for you body. If you do everything and you're not feeling the full…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 02:24 PM
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I went through something similar awhile back. Long story short, by the sound of your post your hormone profile is fucked. But not to worry, I started doing quite a few things to dig myself out of low T levels, and now I'm back to rock hard erections whenever I get a girl in bed. I'll outline them below Lift, especially legs. Luckily I'm on a strength based program that's pretty leg intensive, so I'm doing squats almost every time I step in the gym. You want big compound lifts at heavy weights, t…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 05:22 PM
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Pick up artistry is bullshit at it's core, but game is an absolutely invaluable skillset to have. The important thing to remember is that while learning game you understand WHY it works, and then strive to make yourself more like your game in actuality. Game is training wheels for social savvyness. Some people hop on the bike and go, and some people need to start small and work up. But the purpose of game is to eventually transcend game. You laugh at the 33 year old still using canned lines for …
/r/TheRedPill11/03/16 07:28 PM
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