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Your anecdotal evidence of one case that was mishandled doesn't account for all the cases where the woman loses and the man is victorious. I've personally seen countless cases where the woman has lost custody and been "taken to the cleaners" in divorces or other paternity cases not involving divorce. And absolutely female suicide risk does increase in any kind of ending of a relationship. We aren't heartless cruel beings. We get devastated and brokenhearted, even if we do manage to get that god-…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 03:08 PM
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Yeah, yes. As someone who has worked in the legal system for two decades, I've seen PLENTY of instances where the woman lost custody, had to pay child support and/or alimony, and then mean so-called "cleaned house." Do I think the system is skewed toward women? Yes. But it's absolutely NOT the case that men can't take houses or kids. Happens all the time. You likely don't hear about it as much because male ego. Plus it doesn't fit with your "all womens r evil" mantra.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 03:05 PM
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Men do all of this to women as well. This is NOT exclusive to one sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 01:03 PM
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I love it. It shows me he's protective of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 04:51 AM
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And then get full of rage when she rejects them. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 09:17 PM
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It's definitely NOT a physical need. It's purely a psychological need that manifests so strongly, people feel like it's a physical "I have to have it, or I will die" need. People can and do survive psychologically and physically intact without sex. Women AND men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 10:15 PM
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It's not solely about power. Power is a frequent reason, yes. But it's also due to just wanting sex and not being able to get it, so they take without permission. Lots of reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 10:13 PM
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Oh, FFS. Here we go.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 10:11 PM
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Yes, I saw the same picture. She may be large, and she's a woman, but she's not horrendously ugly. Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 01:24 AM
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This thread is disgusting. That girl has beauty. Quit being fucking pigs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 06:38 PM
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So I ain't as smarter as I thought I were. :( LOL Oh well, life keeps knocking me down. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 04:01 PM
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It doesn't hurt me one way or the other if you believe me or not. I totally understand that there are those who lie about not caring, who say it to seem altruistic. And that's gross. But what I'm trying to get across is there really are some of us out there who do not care. ​ HOWEVER....even though I do not care about looks, that does NOT mean I won't date anyone on the scale from zero to 10. I date for personality. If that person ends up falling closer to zero according to society's placement, …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 01:50 PM
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I actually never took the SAT. I took the ACT and got a 32. I wish I'd taken it more than once to see if I'd have done any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 08:22 PM
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t's really baffling the differences between tests. You'd think there'd be one standard way of measuring this specific quotient, or at least some metric so that people aren't misled. But what do I know? LOL But I do know that now I'm direly curious as to which one I was given. My 142 is probably really 95. HAHA
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 08:02 PM
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No, I know the statistics and I'm not denying that this problem is widespread. But, again, it does fall back, quite frankly, A LOT to materialistic ideals. Granted, there is the "he/she doesn't pull his/her weight" argument, and that's absolutely valid if the couple isn't okay with that imbalance at the outset. But a lot of it is "he/she doesn't make enough to support the lifestyle I want/think I deserve/etc.," "he/she is way below my ideal value of a partner/ew, gross," "ugh, he/she is so inade…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 08:00 PM
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I really think the only barriers that exist are ones that are self-placed by materialistic wants and desires. So that extent, yes, your statement is correct. But when that materialistic dependence in life is removed, class status simply doesn't matter and isn't a factor at all in coupledom.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 07:34 PM
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I honestly couldn't tell you. It was administered back in 1996 in college. If I happen to come across that documentation, I'll be happy to update you. I think I have a file somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 07:28 PM
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So, really, how the hell am I a moron for preferring personality over looks? What, pray tell, is so moronic about that?? And I absolutely, irrefutably am not the only one who feels this way. We certainly aren't the majority, but we do exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 06:22 PM
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LOL Please explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 05:45 PM
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The bottom line is we all have our preferences on how much emotion we like or are able to show. I just firmly believe there shouldn't be standards in society dictating how much is appropriate, you know? If a man wants to cry, let him. If a woman wants to cry, let her. If neither want to cry, that's fine too. Just no one should be made to feel bad for their emotions. EVER. ​ And, yeah, I get that crybabies are annoying, but even they shouldn't have their feelings invalidated. We can just choose t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 05:22 PM
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It's better in that you've found it, but so crushing to realize you've been so idiotic and wasted all that time. LOL!!! Like the damn sunglasses on the head. UGH!!! Or talking on your phone and looking for it. I won't embarrass myself any further. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 05:18 PM
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I know I actually do *when I'm at that point*. You're right that a lot don't. But once I'm to that point with a man, you're darn right I communicate what I want. WTF is the point of making them always guess? Is it some "I'm sexy when I'm coy" game?? Wouldn't these women rather have pleasure than just sit and wait and hope it happens? UGH.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 05:17 PM
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First, do you have a reptile??!! ​ Second, I'm sorry that she doesn't want to see that. I'm glad you don't care, but wish it weren't even issue that you have to care or not care. I wish we could demolish this stupid "men always tough" charade. It's crap. I hate saying "real men" as though there are fake men, but "real men" have feelings. Real men are human. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 05:15 PM
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Precaution, perhaps. Still shouldn't be that way. I know for me, though, a man showing his emotional side actually increases my physical attraction by leaps and bounds. So son't always assume that it will lessen. You just don't know. I do, agree, though, that since there is that stupid belief that men should always be tough, playing it safe until you know, that's probably smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 05:12 PM
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Yes, exactly, as far as both points. And in order to give that advice, we tell them what attracts us. "We like it when you A, B, and C." "Do this and women will love it." It's coming from our viewpoint. ​ But on the sex vs. commitment, most women don't want to just be a piece of ass, a fuck. That's why a lot us approach it as a "wine me, dine me, date me" situation. Get to know us, respect us, THEN sex us. Besides, he was asking about dating, not fucking. I suppose if dating to you means only ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 03:55 PM
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I think it begins around 140-145. But clearly they meant excluding me, the person who will be searching for her cell phone with her CELL PHONE FLASHLIGHT IN HER HAND. LOL!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 03:36 PM
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He's wanting to know how to succeed in dating with women. In order to succeed in that endeavor, one needs to know what pleases women and what women will react positively to. The best way to learn that? From the source: WOMEN. I guess I'm clearly not understanding how you can say your primary concern isn't women when you're telling a man how to succeed with women. The two aren't mutually exclusive in any way, shape, or form.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 03:35 PM
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I'm not concerned with what gender you are, really. However, I do apologize for assuming you were a male incel simply based on your responses. That's my poor assumption. The rest of my viewpoints still stand, though. ​ Just curious, though, why as a woman you'd think a man's opinion about women would supersede women's? Don't we know best what works for us, what we want, as opposed to what a man thinks we want because he landed one girl, maybe more, with his tactic(s)?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 03:00 PM
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142, though most days I feel like it hovers around a generous 75. HAHA
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 02:58 PM
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You're right. Her right to her opinion isn't wrong. But this notion being thrown about in society that men shouldn't be sensitive is HORRIBLE. How about NOT saying "Men should NEVER CRY in front of women..." and say something like "Some women prefer their men not cry in front of them"? Why make it sound like some nefarious thing? THAT'S my point. ​ We need to stop demonizing stuff like this. In all walks of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 02:57 PM
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THIS!!! Both points are so important.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 02:19 PM
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God, AMEN!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 02:18 PM
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Though I have a very high IQ and degrees, I've often found more in common with blue collar men than uppity white collar guys, my so-called equals. Brand/badge crap is just that. CRAP. Judge each person on his/her merits, not the degrees, job, possessions, money, whatever. At the end of the day, all that's left is what's inside a person. NOTHING else matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 02:17 PM
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Oh, FFS. So not true. Emotional men are fine. Yeah, perhaps not crying over anything and everything, much like women crying over anything and everything isn't cool. But reining in men's emotions is such a horrible practice in society. I WANT a man who feels free to cry when he needs to or wants to. AND feels comfortable enough with me to know it's totally okay to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 02:12 PM
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Please forgive me, master!! I mean no harm!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 02:04 PM
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So why are you guys stuck in an echo chamber of fellow incels?? But seriously....the best way to get something, learn something, conquer something is to learn from the source. Not believing the source is foolish. But, hey, I'm just a woman. WTF do I know?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 02:03 PM
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LOL And yet you want women. Sounds like a good thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 01:22 PM
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Other than obesity, and I'm going to guess that's the main thing you're calling ugly, what else shows in appearance? Someone with acne? That's hardly a genetic precursor to diseased children. Offset eyes? Buck teeth? I don't know. Guessing here. NONE of that is some indicator you're going to have malformed children. Bad hair? Poor skin tone? Come on. Yes, I absolutely know poor health can and is passed on. However, poor health generally isn't portrayed through appearance. In fact, even the oppos…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 01:03 PM
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If that's all a man cares about, I'd suggest he reorder his priorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 12:55 PM
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because not caring about looks is how you end up with diseased children. HAHAHAHAAH! Um...what? Attractiveness has ZERO -- ZERO -- to do with the healthfulness of offspring. ZERO. Good grief. ​ Yes, there are people I find unattractive, just SOLELY based on a first look. They can then turn into the most beautiful people with a simple sentence or what have you. Conversely, the most gorgeous person on first look can become the ugliest person with a simple sentence. And, ABSOLUTELY, yes, I am equal…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 12:32 PM
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Who are you to say, though, that what I think is nonsense? I genuinely DO NOT care about looks. At all. I care about the person, the personality. Looks can and do change in the blink of an eye. It's foolish to care about them. Yes, I realize the vast majority of society is guided by outward appearance. I'm here to speak for the minority that isn't. And we ARE out there. That said, yes, I do admire good looks and check people out. However, it is NOT a criteria I use when falling for someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 11:55 AM
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And what? Let you guys perpetuate the lie that no one cares about anything BUT looks? OKAY.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 11:46 AM
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And this is actually geared more toward just getting people to notice you, not so much improving an existing dating life. But maybe someone just needs a tip or two on getting the engine started. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 11:40 AM
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I'm tired of giving advice. It always ends the same way: "You're wrong. Shut up. Doesn't work." You asked a female's opinion, you got a female's opinion, you refuse to listen to a female's opinion. ​ But to appease the OP, I actually had typed up a long message to someone asking this very same question (who replied almost verbatim my quote above) yesterday, so here it is: ​ So for starters,when you're out and about going through the motions of life, look happy. Look confident. Look as though you…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 11:40 AM
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I really absolutely adore it when you guys tell me I'm wrong about MY OWN preferences and what *I* like.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 11:00 AM
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Um....yeah. I say it because I legitimately mean it. We exist. I know, I must be lying, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 10:12 AM
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Well, then grab that gym by the horns and make it your bitch. :) The only thing to keep in mind is NOTHING in this world is a guaranteed fix, unfortunately. Hopefully someday someone will invent a fix for us, but until then....all we can do is make ourselves the best we can be and hope for the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 07:00 PM
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Well, if that's how you want to approach your happiness, then by all means, that's your choice. I think you're bound for disappointment trying to live up to some standard that this shallow society has set, but it's your decision. ​ Hell, if you Google dad bods, you'll see the immense popularity they hold. ​ That all said, even if you pop your steroids and become a musclehead, the chances of you still not scoring a date/fuck/whatever you're after are still there. And then what? Are you happy with…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 06:51 PM
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Chippendales make me want to vomit. So absolutely gross. And I never saw Magic Mike and have ZERO desire to see it. And, although this is not really public info, my sex drive is insane, so it's not an issue of sexual vs. nonsexual for me. As for bods I think are hot - Seth Rogen, Ricky Gervais, Alec Baldwin, James Corden. YUM! BUT - a lot of women DO absolutely prefer the ripped physique, hence the popularity of the Magic Mike franchise. But not all of us are into that. That's the point. Not one…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 06:42 PM
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Well, for one, I don't do ONSs. But if I did, absolutely NOT. Jacked bods do nothing for me. Muscles are actually kind of gross. That said, I don't judge on appearance and if said jacked guy had an amazing personality, then I'd be with him regardless. But I do MUCH prefer dadbods all day every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 06:31 PM
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God, PLEASE give me the dadbod guys. PLEASE take away the ripped gross ones. THANK YOU. Amen.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 12:43 PM
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I LOVE men's emotions. For a man to never express any kind of vulnerability or sadness or anything is a HUGE turnoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 01:54 AM
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As a court reporter who covered a lot of divorce proceedings, I can attest that this is the case. Rarely was alimony awarded. Child support, yes. Alimony, no. And if it were, it was the highest earner, NOT always the male.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 09:30 PM
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As a woman, a good way to handle this is to suggest extra things she can do while in the action. Don't come at it as, OMG, you're the worst! But guiding is AMAZING! Even if we've been great at it with other guys, not every guy likes it the same way, so guidance isn't an offensive thing. :) Or at least it shouldn't be. I guess there's super sensitive people out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 08:28 PM
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For me, yes, that is totally true. I get it's not the norm for the vast majority. I don't care about height, face, and certainly not muscles.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 03:31 AM
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Oh look at you, the expert on what I think. I absolutely do believe what I stated. What, praytell, would I get from lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 03:21 AM
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I honestly do not care about looks. Looks are a great side effect of a wonderful personality and a terrible aftereffect of a bad personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 11:00 PM
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I couldn't care less if my man makes lots of money, moderate money, or no money at all. All I care about is our connection. The rest will work itself out. Of course, I've also supported myself (with struggle) for all my adult life, so I'm not one who wants to ride on someone else's coattails.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 08:20 PM
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