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Interesting point
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 04:12 AM
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Yep
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/25 05:39 AM
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Fair points
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/25 05:36 AM
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Thank you.
/r/RPChristians23/04/25 04:13 AM
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It’s disgusting how dishonest that is.
/r/MensRights05/02/25 07:41 AM
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I suppose your goal was to offend, but the only one you offended was the Holy Spirit. You’re walking a dangerous path spewing poison like that.
/r/RPChristians05/02/25 07:34 AM
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A “bad boy” typically doesn’t get married and settle down, so I don’t think you’re using the term “bad boy” right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 10:01 AM
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Sadly true. The sexual revolution has destroyed western civilization. It’s caused wide-spread male depression, and collapsed birth rates, among several other societal ills.
/r/MensRights31/01/25 09:57 AM
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Yea, unless OP is a viking-grade Chad, he ain’t getting no cooch.
/r/MensRights31/01/25 09:55 AM
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It’s been a long time since I’ve posted. Still a fat slob, and still a single virgin, but just 35 years old now. Trying to deal with all the bitterness and anger connected to it. Isn’t it unfair that women judge men for being fat? Meanwhile fat women get thousands of matches on dating apps, and they’re able to order sex like ordering food on uber eats. I know it’s sin, but it feels unfair at the same time. I’ll admit I’m probably sinning by being jealous of how easy it is for a fat woman to get …
/r/RPChristians31/01/25 09:41 AM
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Yes and amen. It’d be great to have some more activity here.
/r/RPChristians25/11/24 09:45 AM
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Sorry for the late replies as well. I actually wrote on large reply comment yesterday morning, but Reddit would give me an error and wouldn’t let me post it, but I seem to have been able to reply when I split my large comment up and replied with smaller comments.
/r/RPChristians25/11/24 09:44 AM
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Why did Ancient Israel have laws against sexual morality (laws that are in the Bible, in the Pentateuch)? Why does the Bible say that a homosexual should be put to death (and that the blood guilt for the death would be on the homosexuals themselves)? To quote Leviticus 20:13 If a man has sexual relations with a man as one does with a woman, both of them have done what is detestable. They are to be put to death; their blood will be on their own heads. A libertarian would tell an ancient Israelite…
/r/RPChristians24/11/24 04:53 PM
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I'm not criticizing anyone. I'm proposing some general law/government-based solutions that would strengthen the family, lead to more strong families, reverse the declining birth rates, and just slightly reduce the amount of evil in the world in general.
/r/RPChristians24/11/24 04:48 PM
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Sure, and today, I'm a 35 year old virgin man, who is a born-again Christian (which trumps and triumphs over everything else). But does me being a virgin really matter here? How does that preclude me from having opinions or thoughts on the government, and policies we could enact to reduce the gross amount of sexual immorality in society today?
/r/RPChristians24/11/24 04:45 PM
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I agree, and I'm proposing to try to slow down the rate at which it increases with government/laws.
/r/RPChristians24/11/24 04:43 PM
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You are preaching what is known as the Social Gospel, which is heresy. I generally like CARM's articles, as they've written a lot of good articles on a variety of topics, but this article was pretty bad. It doesn't advance a cogent argument, and what a "social gospel" seems to be poorly defined. I still am not sure exactly what a "social gospel" is. There's only one gospel in my mind, and that's the Gospel of Eternal Life through Faith in Jesus Christ. In some places, this CARM article seems to …
/r/RPChristians24/11/24 04:41 PM
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You will not find one single verse in the New Testament that shows Jesus or any of the disciples using the power of the government to create or enforce morality in society. That's true. I've made a mistake if I've implied that we should rely on the Bible as a source and authority for all legislation. There are a lot of areas where the Bible is silent. The Bible has nothing to say about copyright law. Neither does the Bible have much to say about building safety codes/laws, even though one of the…
/r/RPChristians24/11/24 04:41 PM
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Martin Luther King Jr. said, "Morality cannot be legislated, but behavior can be regulated. Judicial decrees may not change the heart, but they can restrain the heartless." This is the crux of the problem really, because what needs to change is the heart. I agree with this, but I don't completely agree that regulations on behavior are useless. They certainly do not change the heart, but I think they can, to a very limited extent, protect people from the generally evil inclinations of the human h…
/r/RPChristians24/11/24 04:40 PM
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I’ve ironically found that cheaper gyms are better in this regard. The instagram types seem to hang out at the Equinox and equivalent type gyms.
/r/MensRights17/11/24 05:11 AM
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Are you really married to (as your fair says) a broke short king? How did that come about?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 04:18 AM
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I’m talking ~100000 years If you subscribe to evolutionary theory, at a 100,000 years ago, Homo Sapiens did not even exist. So you're talking about some ancient extinct hominids. The only historical time period it really makes sense to look at is the post-agricultural time period, which starts at around 10,000 years ago. If we look at the last 2,000 years of history, enforced one-man-one-woman monogamy was what the most of the population practiced in most civilizations. A small percentage of men…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 05:41 AM
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Yea, this post would be near-black pill level material for men. OP has treated him like absolute garbage. It's putrid beyond words.
/r/RedPillWives31/01/24 05:24 AM
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I edited my comment above -- see the drop at age 30 to 34 -- any idea what's going on here? Did a whole bunch of 25 to 29 men just suddenly disappear into thin air? Either that, or Stat Can is doing a poor job collecting census statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 05:16 AM
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This doesn't explain anything. Most women are not happy being a member of a harem. Most women who want to start a family want an exclusive LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 05:14 AM
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It seems like it's worse; closer to 5% to 10% in Canada for younger age groups. 20 to 24 years 1,313,100 men 1,207,178 women 8.77% more men. 25 to 29 years 1,403,901 men 1,299,746 women 8.01% more men. 30 to 34 years 1,417,447 men 1,365,551 women 3.8% more men. What caused this drop? 35 to 39 years 1,370,181 men 1,348,668 women 1.6% more men. Source: https://www150.statcan.gc.ca/t1/tbl1/en/cv!recreate.action?pid=1710000501&selectedNodeIds=1D7,1D11,3D1,3D7,3D13,3D19,3D25,3D31,3D37,3D43,3D49,3D55,…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 05:02 AM
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Good point. Would it be accurate to say that: Around 70% of women and at least 70% of men want LTRs and want to start families, so they find each other & settle down. 30% of women want to ride the CC. Around 5% of highly-attractive men (who also don't want LTRs) service the sexual needs of these 30% of women. This leaves around 25% of men behind as incels. It seems the majority of incels just want to find love with 1 person, have a life-long LTR basically, and start families. But they can't sinc…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:51 AM
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I can relate to this a lot.
/r/seduction30/01/24 10:52 AM
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I’m guessing these are “childfree” forever “single” women who watched Sex and the City a lot? Note: I’m aware of birth rates hitting rock bottoms because of women like these. What about women who actually want children, and want to start a family?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 10:49 AM
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Why though? It’s not like Planet Earth’s population is 80% men and 20% women. Most western countries have pretty darn close to 50% men and 50% women. I imagine most women want long-term monogamous partner, and don’t want to simply share a chad with other women. Especially if they’re trying to start a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 10:43 AM
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Studies show that hookup culture is a minority of both sexes mostly hooking up with each other. Hmm. This is interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:39 AM
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Could you link to your old thread? I agree with your excerpt.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:36 AM
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What’s your number? My number is 0, at age 34.
/r/MensRights30/01/24 06:28 AM
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Yep.
/r/MensRights30/01/24 06:25 AM
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Thank you.
/r/RPChristians30/01/24 06:10 AM
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Amen.
/r/RPChristians30/01/24 06:10 AM
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This is so incredibly false. So many men want love; true love with a lifelong partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 05:14 AM
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Damn. I know fitness is critical (and I’m fat as well) but I didn’t think it would be this incredibly critical.
/r/seduction28/01/24 10:47 PM
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And appropriately so. Why would the gospel writer hold a woman who committed adultery in high esteem? And a woman who possibly intentionally exposed herself to David.
/r/RPChristians28/01/24 10:41 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 09:43 AM
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What about men in tech? Tech is male dominated, but with lots of nerdy men.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/24 09:37 AM
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Yea, it’s messed up how women don’t feel emotions at the same level as men — even though they express emotions they do feel a lot more often.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/24 07:48 AM
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Pure-cut throat is a great way to describe many women.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/24 07:47 AM
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That’s a pretty good observation.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/24 07:45 AM
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Damn. Men under category (3)…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/24 07:35 AM
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Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/24 07:28 AM
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I honestly need to think long and hard on why I’m still single and unmarried at this late age.
/r/RPChristians25/01/24 10:04 AM
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How do you hook up with someone in a concert!? Could you explain it step-by-step? (I know I sound a bit autist here.) thats where I've met most of my hookups because tinder is terrible for it unless you look like a greek god. Yup, nailed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 08:09 AM
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It’s obvious to everyone what he (or most fathers in this situation) is going to do—most likely something that will get him in the range of 40 years in prison…
/r/MensRights25/01/24 07:40 AM
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Why aren’t the women from their countries also moving? Why are their women being left behind?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:37 AM
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Alright, I'll try to reach out Discord tonight/tomorrow. By the way, I was wondering if you had any thoughts on this question of mine: https://www.reddit.com/r/askRPC/comments/19eq2ax/how_bad_is_it_to_try_and_get_laid_outside_of_the/ ​ Women don't owe you I don't think women owe me anything. But I think the situation we have today where several women share one chad in so-called vaguely-defined "relationships" has caused inceldom to rise to the millions. The fact that only 10% can get laid on non…
/r/RPChristians24/01/24 08:28 PM
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By the way, would you have any thoughts on this post of mine: https://reddit.com/r/askRPC/comments/19eq2ax/how\_bad\_is\_it\_to\_try\_and\_get\_laid\_outside\_of\_the/
/r/RPChristians24/01/24 08:17 PM
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You've got to figure out what you want in life and actually go for it. So far you've got 34 years of not going for a dang thing. You're right. I do need to do this. And get a job. Stop planning on being unemployed for the next few months. Between savings and unemployment benefits, I have enough to live on for quite a while. This might be a good opportunity for me work on stuff that has been laying on the wayside.
/r/RPChristians24/01/24 06:52 PM
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visit some prostitute I don't think this is kosher from a Christian perspective. Especially in light of 1 Corinthians 6:15: Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ himself? Shall I then take the members of Christ and unite them with a prostitute? Never! So I don't think that's an option... Also, I want a deep, emotionally-close relationship + sex. Not just sex.
/r/RPChristians24/01/24 06:50 PM
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I just need a way to cope, honestly. I've been trying to stay away from porn and masturbation, but that's (more recently) just been making it harder to handle the sexual frustration.
/r/RPChristians24/01/24 06:46 PM
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Well, if a pill existed that switched off my libido until marriage, I possibly might feel compelled try to take it. Considering how incredibly painful this state of sexual deprivation for the last 23 years has been. I definitely don't want to permanently shut off my sex drive. I want to find a wife, get married, have lots of children, and of course have lots of sex in marriage, etc.
/r/RPChristians24/01/24 06:24 PM
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Alright. Will do so. I'm going to try to be more consistent with my OYSes going forward into the future. I was sort of in a mental hellhole between OYS #1 and OYS #2.
/r/RPChristians24/01/24 06:19 PM
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Unfortunately if you've got one person who struggles with reading body language and the other also doesn't want to make the first move for whatever reason then you come to a bit of an impasse. Yea, that's definitely a sad situation to be in. I've wondered if explicitly just asking "can I kiss you" would be okay in those situation, and asked on the seduction subreddit about it before, but the answer was overwhelmingly to not ask a woman for permission before you kiss her. I know counselling is de…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:11 PM
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I've never just gone and planted a kiss on someone that I didn't think would appreciate it, but observing body language and signals can make it fairly evident when an approach would be appreciated. I really struggle with this reading body language part. Body language to look for - is she leaning her body in towards you? Touching you (could be arm, leg, chest, or putting hand on shoulder or side of neck while leaning in to converse in a noisy environment). I think this has only happened once or t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 05:51 PM
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so all one of you has to do is turn your head a bit and voila Not gonna lie, the idea of kissing someone without asking for permission sounds quite terrifying to me. What if the woman slaps me? What if that woman screams "creep" and say I sexually assaulted, and ruins my life? Even on a date, I'm pretty scared about kissing. I asked about it here. The last time I've made out was around 15 years ago in university, and even in that case it was this girl who kissed me first. Now I'm a 34 year old v…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 04:40 PM
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I've never had sex, but I've dated / had relationships with evangelical women before. These were more-fundamentalist evangelical Christian women, so the highest level of physical intimacy was kisses on the cheek, and with one woman it was cuddling (but no making out / or anything else / etc). Even though some of these women had more experience (in physical intimacy) in the past when they were less devout. I tried meeting women outside Christian circles (i.e. church, Christian dating apps, etc) j…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:07 AM
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How does consent even work with a party smooch? Do people just randomly kiss each other at parties? I was worried about the same thing as you (but no at 12, moreso at like 16 or 17). And I’ll copy my comment form elsewhere here: I posted on Reddit about my virginity (from a different account) back in 2009 when I was just 19 years old. I also posted on a different forum when I was 18 (circa back in 2008). Got a bunch of advice. I’m still a virgin at 34.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 02:58 AM
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I’m a 34 year old virgin man who’s active here. I posted on Reddit about my virginity (from a different account) back in 2009 when I was just 19 years old. I also posted on a different forum when I was 18 (circa back in 2008). Got a bunch of advice. Still a virgin at 34.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 02:54 AM
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Yea, I know they’re screwing other men. I’ve tried and tried; I’ve been trying to get laid since high school; I’ve sex obsessed since age 11 (middle school); and here I am an old virgin man at 34 years old. Honestly, it’s been a source of extreme emotional pain. And I’d even just be happy with just 1 woman (a wife) to love.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/24 01:39 AM
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I didn’t say anything about sex. I only talked about my desire for the emotional warmth and closeness of a relationship with a woman. I admit that I am clueless about sex, since I’m a virgin (at 34 years old).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 01:11 AM
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Thank you for this comment. As a man, I value the intimacy and warmth and closeness a relationship brings (outside of sex) massively quite a lot. I’ve never had sex (still a virgin at 34), but the thing I desire the most is the closeness and warmth of a relationship. Someone you can have a deep close connection to; open up to; confide in; share your deepest thoughts with; etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 09:46 PM
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Thank you. I'll take a look at 207 tonight.
/r/RPChristians23/01/24 02:08 AM
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Personally, I’d be happy with that, but such a person is so rare, at least here where I’m at. I'm personally okay with any woman that I'm attracted to (which is 80%+ of women of certain races). So my bar is probably 3+/10 woman. But far more important than physical appearance to me: (1) do we have an intellectual sapiosexual connection?, (2) does she follow God?, (3) is she a truly kind person?, (4) other personality/intelligence/psychological traits.
/r/RPChristians23/01/24 02:03 AM
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To be honest, I'm still not in a good place with that. And watching it makes me feel worse, and just reminds me of all the sex many men are getting, and increases the angst and pain I feel about being unmarried/a virgin at 34 years old.
/r/RPChristians22/01/24 05:52 PM
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Enjoy food, but don’t be a glutton. Enjoy sex but don’t be a reprobate. Enjoy your family, but do t let them be an idol. This is spot on.
/r/RPChristians19/01/24 12:19 PM
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What a putrid bucket load of crap. This isn’t RP. I’m a Bible-reading Christian as well, but this post reads like a joke, like some 12-year-old wrote it.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/24 12:03 PM
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Be as financially sound, as physically fit, as well groomed as possible. Nobody wants to admit it but TRP was basically PUA 2.0. and the end goal was to get more average and below average men laid. Where can I find some solid advice of this nature--any blogs, books, articles you'd recommend?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 06:09 AM
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psychopathic So Bernie Sanders is a psychopath according to you? Since he wants to tax the rich, and help the middle class? That's oppressing and harming and stealing from the rich. (Note: I'm being sarcastic here.)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 06:06 AM
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The difference though is that Romans contained it to landowning patricians and the same behavior from common plebeians who weren't in politics was pretty repressed. Good point. I can imagine the reason why: hypergamy would be extremely destabilizing to society writ large.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 06:04 AM
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Alright. I'll keep that in mind. Thank you.
/r/RPChristians18/01/24 06:02 AM
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OYS #4 (previous) I don't have much to share, so I'll keep it short to the physical part. I'm down 2 lbs to 192 lbs now. I've been eating around 1300 calories a day the past week. I've started exercising a lot more in the past few days. Hoping to achieve rapid weight loss, and build muscle.
/r/RPChristians18/01/24 06:02 AM
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who want to maximize their financial success Hopefully with the goal of helping the poor. and take the 10/10 Would a Christian woman who is devoted to the Lord and a virgin, but only a 9/9 not be sufficient for you? virgin as a wife are a minority pretty much everywhere I do want a Christian wife (and I'm a virgin myself), but I guess I'd settle for anyone 4+ or 5+ especially considering I've struggled for year to find someone. Personality and intelligence are more important (see sapiosexual) to…
/r/RPChristians18/01/24 05:55 AM
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Excellent point, lol. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 08:16 PM
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OP, I think you might find a more welcoming audience for your single-life-partner marriage-oriented version of the red pill at the RPChristians sub or at the marriedredpill sub.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/24 05:31 PM
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You could journal your prayers. Instead of “Dear diary” try “Dear God” or “Dear Jesus”.
/r/askRPC16/01/24 03:47 AM
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Wow. Is there a thread on this?
/r/seduction15/01/24 10:43 AM
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Interesting point.
/r/seduction15/01/24 10:41 AM
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Same here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:08 AM
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Dang, that really sucks. I wish men wouldn’t be so penalized for clear/explicit verbal communication. Honestly the #MeToo movement has also terrified me quite a bit about making a move without prior clear verbal communication.
/r/RPChristians15/01/24 06:07 AM
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Alright. No probs
/r/seduction15/01/24 06:04 AM
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Honestly, I personally think I’ve been pretty sympathetic and reasonable in my comment. Maybe I haven’t. What troubles you most about what I’ve proposed?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:02 AM
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Thank you for the detailed response. This is definitely some solid stuff to think about!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:53 AM
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Both genders. Methinks the men must be punished even more than the women. For example: men who sleep around get prison + torture (so regular painful/violent bodily punishment) women who sleep around just get prison (no physical punishment for women) As a 34-year old virgin man, I thoroughly despise the the men who sleep around far more than women who simply pick the hottest men on their dating apps. That’s fairly understandable selfish behavior. Many men would do the same thing if hot women did …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:42 AM
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Enforced long-term monogamy, in my opinion, would go an extremely long way in solving current societal / dating market problems that’s caused a lot of bitterness among men and left tens of millions of men sexless and unable to find partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:24 AM
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Wow, this is pretty sad and horrible.
/r/MensRights15/01/24 04:59 AM
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Yup. As sad a state of affairs as that is. This is why methinks that restricting sex to two-person monogamous marriage through well-enforced (and brutally-enforced) legislation would be the best societal fix for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:53 PM
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Thank you, I really appreciate the thorough and detailed answer here.
/r/RPChristians14/01/24 08:04 AM
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I might be a neurodivergent man, so maybe some of these nonverbal stuff doesn’t come naturally for me. I sort of need it to be explicitly spelled out, at some point. Can you tell me this: Why on Earth would a girl go on 1-1 dates (where it’s just the two of you) multiple times, like 6 or 7 dates, never kiss or touch you — and then when finally make a move after several dates immediately leave + ghost you? I am speaking from my lived experience. FWIW, I’m a 34 year old virgin.
/r/seduction14/01/24 08:03 AM
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Honestly I keep seeing the same advice to avoid saying anything verbally to a woman (especially on r/seduction)—and to just use body language, or physical actions to communicate interest. But I personally strongly dislike the lack of certainty that nonverbal communication has, and I strongly prefer verbal/explicit communication. What do you think about saying (in a dominant / assertive tone) this: “What are we doing here? Are we dating? Because I don’t want to waste my time or your time. I only …
/r/RPChristians14/01/24 07:59 AM
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Can you finish that sentence?
/r/seduction14/01/24 07:46 AM
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must be the leader in relationships Could you share more on this? Or are there any posts on this sub about this? On a different note, it’s sad to read that Kevin is a 36 year old virgin. I’m a 34 y/o virgin myself, and it is a pretty sad state of affairs.
/r/RPChristians14/01/24 03:12 AM
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Why is asking a girl on a date such a bad thing? Doesn’t it avoid getting friend-zoned? A related question: if you are hanging out with a girl regularly, would it make sense to ask her to clarify whether it’s dating or just hanging out? (Asking since I’ve been burned by this situation before.)
/r/RPChristians14/01/24 02:58 AM
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So, to be more accurate—you’re looking for a relationship that leads to marriage—right? In my opinion, Christian groups might be a good place to meet men interested in the same thing (who, fwiw, are probably virgins themselves). It’s a safety thing. What do you mean by “it’s a safety thing”?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 02:28 AM
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My goodness, do you really think salary helps a man score more women? I’ve earned more than 98% of people, and yet I’m a virgin at 34 years old. I have a broke ass friends who gets laid non stop—primarily because of his looks, and women pay for his dinners/etc, lets him live with them rent free, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:10 AM
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It exists in Canada.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:08 AM
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Dude, stop being silly. People, including men, probably choose to live with their partner out of love. If their partner later leaves, they didn’t know that would happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:07 AM
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done a major glow up … I’m now attractive enough What did you do? I would appreciate the insight.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:04 AM
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actually experienced genuine excitement or interest What does this look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:57 AM
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You now have to wallow in misery How do you guys deal with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:54 AM
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What’s the reason for your virginity, by the way—if you can? Is it a religious thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:23 AM
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Is a lean bulk typically all protein?
/r/seduction13/01/24 08:20 AM
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There are things called 'provider-lover' frame and 'beta shaming'. Check that out. Wow, this is definitely interesting. Will check this out.
/r/seduction09/01/24 04:41 PM
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No, this is going to massively decrease your chances as you just told her that you are meek. What do you mean? How is confirming her interest verbally meek?
/r/seduction09/01/24 04:39 PM
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if the women aren't attracted to you? I fairly well off materially speaking. And I'm a good listener (a few different girls have told me that). Like I listen well, and apparently share good feedback/thoughts. One of my guy friends literally told me I should be a therapist -- I had given me a lot of good advise on problems he was having with his girlfriend -- even though I had never been in a real sexual relationship -- I was sorta like Otis Milburn from Sex Education who would give out sex advis…
/r/seduction09/01/24 04:39 PM
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A hot girl agreed to go on a date with you, then proceeded to tell you she wasn't interested, and then showed you pictures of guys she wanted to fuck? Is this some cuck fantasy? She lived nearby (in my condo), and I had bumped into her a few times. She actually initially asked me if she would give me a ride to some mall (so she could go shopping there). She didn't have a car, and I was like a free luxury car uber service initially lol. She told me pretty much upfront while in my car that she was…
/r/seduction09/01/24 04:34 PM
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Wow, lol, the 3 date rule sounds intense. I've gone on like 5-7 dates with multiple girls, and not even held hands. I guess those women were just using me to fill their empty evenings with some guy that would take them out...
/r/seduction09/01/24 04:30 PM
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OSY #3 My previous OYS. Not much to add. I think my current focus is getting better in the: (1) physical/health realm, (2) mental realm, and the (3) spiritual realm. On the physical/health side of things: I'm cutting down on calories. Doing 500-700 cal deficit 4-5 days a week. I am worried about muscle mass loss. Next Step: go to the gym more and/or join a fitness regiment/program, to avoid muscle loss + build more muscle. Focus on strengh exercises. Currently at 194 lbs. Can bench 95 lbs comfor…
/r/RPChristians09/01/24 03:42 PM
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Where do you meet women in real life? Like I'm asking genuinely what sort of places have worked for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:30 PM
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Actually look like a sewer monster [...] Look like a serial killer So according to you 50% of men (who get nada on apps) look like sewer monsters? Thanks for proving my point that western women are insanely and unrealistically obsessed with looks. ​ You're just talking about material things I only mentioned the material stuff to avoid the accusation that 30+ year old virgin incels are men with no careers who live in their parents' basements. That wasn't the case. And just to make clear, I am pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:29 PM
1

Fair point.
/r/RPChristians09/01/24 02:57 PM
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I love her with everything. This is awesome.
/r/RPChristians09/01/24 02:48 PM
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Not saying you can’t be truthful, but you don’t want her to bathe in your own pains/traumas. Hmm...
/r/RPChristians09/01/24 02:48 PM
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I'm literally telling you what my dating apps experience was. And, yes, living in NYC -- having a nice apartment in Manhattan, owning an expensive car, making good money in fintech as a software engineer -- do you think any of that mattered? I know there's a stereotype about incel virgins, but I never was it. I would strongly recommend you try making a dating profile for an average 5/10 guy and see how many matches you get (since your flair says Woman, I am assuming you're not aware how bad men …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:46 PM
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I was getting zero on Tinder in NYC. And I was fairly doing well, working in tech (6 figure pay), so I was living independently; and I was young (in my 20s). Now I’m a 34 year old virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:31 AM
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I’ll admit that was not a bad dig.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:03 AM
1

Also, did the pangs/pain of loneliness get better after getting married?
/r/RPChristians09/01/24 04:56 AM
3

How did you meet/find your wife?
/r/RPChristians09/01/24 04:56 AM
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2 and 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 06:50 AM
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I’m sorry I have to say that you seem like a really bitter misandrist woman. I would encourage you to get over this hate. Your comment history is pretty dark / depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 06:40 AM
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Getting banned made me feel pretty hopeless and I engaged in destructive eating You let getting banned from the MRP sub affect your mental state so much that you began engaging in destructive eating?
/r/RPChristians06/01/24 11:25 AM
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OYS #2 (my first OYS) PHYSICAL: I was a giant failure for most of 2023 (until late October). I posted my first OYS on March 1, 2023. But after that i did absolutely nothing. No exercise, no diet, no reducing screen time / weaning off my screen addiction. I kept eating junk food, including having Pringles and multiple bars of chocolate as dinner for many days in the summer of 2023. I don't know why, but I massively self-sabotaged myself. I was in a sad, depressive mood for most of this time. Unha…
/r/RPChristians06/01/24 11:03 AM
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How does whether the man gets off / cums affects the woman’s pleasure? If he’s hard, she’s still getting a somewhat good experience, right? And if he can’t cum for a long time and that makes him last longer, isn’t lasting longer something many women say they want? When you say abusing himself—do you mean porn and masturbation?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 10:51 PM
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I don’t get the gallon lube part
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 10:46 PM
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That’s sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 10:46 PM
1

Why under? Couldn’t she be on top, cowgirl style?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:41 PM
2

Barbie was the most-feminist-wokiest movie in the past decade (or decades). I went to see it out of curiosity, but it was so nauseatingly bad that I felt like walking out of the theatre several times during the movie. Yet it made crazily absurd amounts of money.
/r/MensRights05/01/24 05:39 PM
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that doesn’t stop biology What about married couples? Surely a husband can rest a bit on his wife for emotional support?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:35 PM
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Dang, this hits hard. Hopefully in a loving safe marriage one can actually open up to one’s wife…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 12:59 PM
1

Do they really put ideology over stock price or profits? My impression is that most corporations pretend to care about “issues”, but in the end they’re all about making a bigger profit.
/r/MensRights04/01/24 08:26 PM
1

What exactly do you mean by applying the red pill? And, also what would that look like when you’re “80 years old” (as you say)?
/r/TheRedPill04/01/24 08:16 PM
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PIV is quite a skill Specifically how? Like what did those two guys do differently? Is this like a posture/angle (or rhythm) thing? Or something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:31 PM
1

What’s death grip syndrome?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:30 PM
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that at uni everything will be on and he will meet hot girls and all that Hey, I went to uni, and was miserably lonely for a large part. And I’m a 34 year old virgin today. I posted from another account on Reddit back when I was 19 years old bemoaning my virginity — not knowing that 15 years later at 34 years old, I’d still….
/r/TheRedPill04/01/24 07:18 PM
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Gross
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:32 PM
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I think one-man-one-woman relationships were far more common until the late 1990s or late 2000s. So, there were about an equal number of single men and women. What PPD, Jordan Peterson and others has described as happening now is that 1 hot man dates 4 average women. That’s what messes up the market.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:28 PM
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Well problem 1 is I’m not right now. Problem 2 is…should I really be broadcasting my life on Instagram..? Yes, I do interesting stuff, but I wonder about this. The whole endeavor just feels so artificial…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 10:11 AM
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To be honest, not really. I think what I need to do (that I'm not doing yet) would be: Praying and asking God everyday for a true-Christian godly loving wife. Especially since Jesus says: "“So I say to you: Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. 10 For everyone who asks receives; the one who seeks finds; and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened.11 “Which of you fathers, if your son asks for a fish, will give him a snake instea…
/r/RPChristians03/01/24 05:30 PM
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Thank you. I appreciate that. I've only asked out one woman in the past several months, and that wasn't even a Christian/godly woman. I'm still fat / overweight, so I've sort of been putting off dating until I can fix that.
/r/RPChristians03/01/24 05:22 PM
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That's not at all what she's saying. Roosh said somewhere (maybe in his "bang iceland" book) that he just had to go and sit in a corner in a bar in Iceland, and some rando woman approached him & asked him to go back to his (or her?) place. And he fucked her all night long
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:17 PM
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Lol IG... for real? How do people meet on IG? Do they just message random women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:11 PM
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Do you have to be a 8+ guy to get approached in Iceland? Or do all guys get approached?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 09:22 AM
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Purple possum says above in another comment that he went to her place for the night.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 09:20 AM
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it’s not the same kind of approaching Could you describe what it looks like?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 09:18 AM
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Man, I relate to this question so much. I’m a 34 year old virgin who’s been suffering sexually (ie from a lack of sex) basically since puberty. I started watching porn at age 10 and been lusting after girls (actually attraction to girls started at age 8) from that point onward, and been desperately wanting to have sex since age 12. It’s been painful and extremely angst / sadness / depression / mental pain-inducing, for me. I reduced porn watching quite a bit this year though. I am dealing with a…
/r/RPChristians03/01/24 04:03 AM
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What do you mean by “get your money right”?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:57 AM
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I literally quoted Ephesians 5:21 earlier above. You clearly done even know the context of these verses. And seem to harbor strong anti-Christian sentiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:02 AM
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The dating apps have created a hellish and ultra-capitalistic dating market where 10-20% are sleeping with 70-80% of women. And 50% of men get nothing. It’s sad and messed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:29 AM
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What about men who lose interest? That's definitely a bad thing as well. It's obviously extremely bad if either partner (regardless of gender) loses sexual interest inside a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:16 AM
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Can you actually quote some of these verses? Verses that are about: I’m thinking about all the verses that prescribe marital hierarchy and give men power and control over their wives thus limiting their rights, freedom, and opportunities. The only relevant verses in New Testament approaching even a tiny bit close to the patriarchal insanity you've described above might be in 1 Timothy. You might want to look at the authorship section of this article then: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/1_Timothy_…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:06 AM
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The majority of women have loose morals in this generation. This is just such a sad state of affairs. And the media is encouraging this sort of vile societal immorality. We need our education system to teach true sexual morality, but not sure how likely that is to come about.
/r/RPChristians01/01/24 11:39 PM
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What’s DEERing?
/r/askRPC01/01/24 11:04 PM
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That’s a good video. Starting from around the 2 hour mark it talks about how feelings are heavily prioritized by this movement. Mike Winger’s YouTube videos on Bethel church are a good counterpart to this as well.
/r/askRPC01/01/24 11:02 PM
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Dang, 45% is pretty close to half. Didn’t expect things to be this close. Maybe soon in a decade women as equal or even as the primary breadwinner will overtake as the majority. It would be as though one interpretation of the Bible verse Jeremiah 31:22 comes true…
/r/MensRights01/01/24 02:39 AM
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Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 02:03 AM
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The side bar PDF on r/RPChristians delves in detail into what it means to be a red pill Christian: https://www.reddit.com/r/RPChristians/comments/huvh1e/new_sidebar_compilation/ Just to be clear: Red-pill-Christian men do not have sex outside marriage! I don’t know about role models, the only RP Christian people I’m aware of are the folks on that sub (who obviously I don’t know personally, and so who are relatively speaking strangers to me today).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:21 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:54 PM
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Yea, it’s messed up beyond words. There really needs to be some social shaming around conduct like this.
/r/MensRights31/12/23 05:28 AM
2

that is one truly sad subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 03:22 AM
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I understand as a Christian making women miserable is kind of the point, This is a pretty unfair thing to say about Christians. You're probably thinking about cherry-picked examples about spousal or clergy abuse, but you can't use that to paint the entire Christian faith community in a negative light. ​ male headship for example What about male leadership? The Bible literally says: "Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ" (Ephesians 5:21) And, regarding marital sex, the Bible says: "T…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 03:20 AM
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I would rather blame the breakdown of love in general, and traditional marriages at large, and the fact of pre-martial sex becoming the norm for 99% of people (and I'm sorry to say this: rampant pre-marital sex with many parters is likely a major factor here). I'm speculating here, but I imagine that more men want to have children in society overall (well, I don't know, maybe we need a large-scale survey on this). But I speculate that a woman who has slept with many men in their 20s is not someo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 03:07 AM
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Personally, I would try my hardest to share my faith with my future children (with love and gentleness) and by trying to live an exemplary Christ-serving life. (I'd never be controlling or domineering, and I'd share with them the experiences I've had with God.) I do want children very badly (and lots of children preferably), I don't know why. I understand it's impossible to convince anyone (incl. your own child) of supernatural miracles and things like the resurrection of the dead. Anybody would…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 02:49 AM
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I’m sorry if this is a bit of a personal question: why don’t you want children? There are so many people saying they don’t want children. I don’t understand this phenomenon. It’s really sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 11:53 PM
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Regarding this one thing: too many male friends complain about sex stopping soon after marriage I’m not married, but I’m trying to understand: why does this happen? I can think of a few scenarios: 1. The wife loses her libido after marriage for whatever reason (maybe the men letting themselves go). 2. The wife retains her libido, but satisfies it outside the marriage (pornography and masturbation, or adultery). 3. The wife never had a reasonable libido to begin with, and she just feigned a passi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 10:24 PM
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So, in terms of long-term life partners, each man would have 5 to 6 wives?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:15 PM
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To me, they’re both equally important problems. They can be analyzed similarly, with a Gini coefficient (that measures inequality). If I were some sort of a dictator, then men who monopolize women (who sleep with multiple women) would be arrested, and sent to gulags to suffer (and be tortured) for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:14 AM
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Sheesh that is a really dark & depressing comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 01:40 AM
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If 80% of women only had children with 10% of men, then you’d have far less genetic diversity. Not sure if that’s a good or bad thing… Then we’d kind of be like wolves. Most wolves 🐺 don’t actually breed at all. They stay with their parents’ pack all their lives, and never pair up. It’s a safe life with a far more guaranteed consistent supply of food. Wolf parents will actually actively interfere and prevent their children from mating. The ones that do pair up & breed, leave their parents’ pack …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 12:10 AM
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Extreme pathological capitalism is what it is. If 20% of men get a majority of the sex, and the remaining 80% are left sexless (or nearly sexless), that’s extreme pathological capitalism. Since sex is basically a basic fundamental need in Maslow’s hierarchy of needs, that amounts to about 80% of men living in sexual poverty. I’d wager a guess that the Gini coefficient of the online dating / sexual marketplace in the U.S. and Canada must be horrible today (for straight men).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 11:03 PM
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Yup. Many men on Reddit are acutely aware of how women don’t perceive them as attractive. Dating apps have destroyed any fantasy of looking attractive for the majority men, since data shows women view about 80% as being unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 01:29 AM
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Mid 30s virgin here. I’m right there with ya, buddy Same here as well. 😢
/r/RPChristians17/08/23 06:18 AM
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Huh, why is this not surprising… I guess the ones who accuse others, are often guilty of the same sin themselves…
/r/MensRights13/06/23 10:35 PM
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Wow, if a man did what she does in that video, he’d be toast.
/r/MensRights13/06/23 10:34 PM
3

Wow, 215 to 160 in 4 months is impressively fast.
/r/seduction09/06/23 02:49 PM
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In fact, any person who read Russian Criminal Code and Code of Criminal Procedure knows Ah, popular books indeed. Who in this sub has spent an evening reading the Russian Criminal Code and Code of Criminal Procedure?
/r/MensRights03/06/23 12:01 PM
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Uh, this is quite brutal. I wonder if a woman would ever go to jail for staring at a man — or forget staring, I wonder if a women would ever be imprisoned for coming up to a man she thinks is hot, and touching him without consent? Probably never
/r/MensRights30/05/23 09:59 PM
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Link for the guy who got arrested for staring at a woman?
/r/MensRights29/05/23 10:32 PM
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Always keep in mind: a creep == unattractive man. Chads can act like mega creeps, and receive fawning attention & spread legs in response.
/r/MensRights25/05/23 07:05 AM
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This ball was set rolling by 'The Scottish Feminists Judgements Project', and in order for these feminist tactics to prevail, the huge number of instances of false rape accusations must be obfuscated and covered up Wow, this is just plainly evil / unjust. How on Earth does a judge decide to join in this parade of injustice?
/r/MensRights03/05/23 08:40 PM
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Thanks for this post. This is so depressing to think about. I’m just hoping that true Christian don’t have any/much history or baggage.
/r/RPChristians23/04/23 05:02 AM
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If OP wears a body cam all the time† (and I mean I know, it'll look ridiculous for a civilian to wear a bodycam all the time), then OP might actually be able to help her. † and also keeps full camera coverage wherever they go (in their car, at home, etc).
/r/MensRights20/04/23 04:16 PM
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Why are Toronto and New York the worst places? Lots of successful men? I’ve been thinking of moving to Seattle / Vancouver (maybe living in Vancouver while commuting/working in Seattle). Would that be a good idea? Mostly thinking about the amazing weather in the PNW. Where (in Canada) would you recommend, in general?
/r/MensRights13/04/23 12:56 AM
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You may as well deliberately do what you're incidentally doing anyway. You have a good point here.
/r/MensRights11/04/23 12:29 PM
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I’m a 33 year old virgin, fyi. You’re wrong about the wealth part though. I work in tech. I hit an income of 180k USD at age 26. I drive a moderately expensive car (a Tesla Model Y), I have an expensive luxurious place in the middle of Toronto (where I live alone). I lived in Manhattan (NYC) in my mid-to-late 20s, and I had my own place (and a car). Never even French kissed a girl once during my time in NYC. Also, I’m not looking for a whore who’s after a guy’s material wealth. I want a woman of…
/r/MensRights11/04/23 12:26 PM
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No, these passport women are paying — they’re not getting paid squat. They basically pay 💰 for young athletic Chad dick. Essentially, alpha widow spinsters who are thirsty for more of that Chad cock.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:10 AM
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Umm… I don’t think that works. What do you do with your sex drive?
/r/MensRights11/04/23 12:20 AM
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That stupid mentality only works if they’re Chad cock riding — it absolutely does not work for regular monogamous marriage. Picking a Chad to fuck is very different from trying to find a long-term marriage partner. There’s about an equal number of men & women. And if they’re that banal / childish while dating for marriage, they’ll end up not getting married (like, admittedly many women are today).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 02:54 PM
2

Dang. I’m worried it might just increase my anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 02:50 PM
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Lmao, that’s so true.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 02:49 PM
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Have you ever met people on the spectrum who have a DGAF attitude and are impulsive?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 02:48 PM
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True. Not sure which the original thread was now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 02:51 PM
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Neither is particularly true. You’re probably talking about the average nominal Christian; not fundamentalist evangelical Christians.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:58 PM
1

There's a specific PUA term for that! Peacocking.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:12 PM
2

The top 10 comments here are great
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/04/23 09:02 AM
1

Great comment.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/04/23 09:02 AM
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Adding this to my list of books to read.
/r/MensRights03/04/23 08:56 AM
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I’d do this even in a two-party consent state.
/r/MensRights03/04/23 08:48 AM
2

Congratulations on the amazing wife
/r/MensRights03/04/23 08:46 AM
1

Well said.
/r/MensRights03/04/23 08:45 AM
1

What a bunch of pathetic blue pilled cops. How are so many male cops blue pilled?
/r/MensRights03/04/23 08:40 AM
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You're not wrong that a good portion of the toxicity around the red/black pill is because of having socially damaging formative years. People are very dismissive of this "damage" but it's there and it's real. However, something does alarm me about the posts people are making here. I hope everyone is aware that being sexless in high school and then having sex during college aged years is still pretty normal right? People who try to relate by sharing stories of feeling isolated as a teenager miss …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:31 AM
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too late to even pretend you’re normal to a potential partner? Wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:30 AM
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Hey, I’m a 33 year old virgin here as well. Nice to meet you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:29 AM
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33 year old virgin guy here. Lived/living in big cities, including Toronto, and NYC. I’d desperately like to overcome the rage & bitterness over having missed out on years of intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:28 AM
1

Lack of width, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:23 AM
2

Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 09:13 AM
1

Fair point.
/r/MensRights02/04/23 09:10 AM
2

In reality, she probably spreads her legs regularly for complete strangers off Tinder.
/r/MensRights02/04/23 09:09 AM
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Girls—as in plural? Are you a “plate spinner”?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 06:01 AM
1

Lol, good reply & funny examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 06:00 AM
1

Neil Strauss and other PUAs are a major exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:59 AM
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In the animal kingdom, males broadcast (like colorful birds singing), and wait for the females to come. Why can’t people behave like birds?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:50 AM
2

Alright. Cool. I’ll try.
/r/seduction01/04/23 07:38 PM
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Meanwhile I saw this post with a deluge of ignorant comments: https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/128lf7f/i_will_never_apologize_for_having_an_active_sex/ — yea, no man or incel is surprised that females desire sex — it’s more than they’re having sex with Chads in a polygamous manner — and leaving millions of men sexless (saying this as a 33 year virgin guy)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 07:37 PM
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Get as close as possible then. Do you mean get as close as possible to Chad level looks? Like work out / gym, lose weight, dress better, etc?
/r/seduction01/04/23 07:16 PM
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I’m sure that shit works if you’re a Chad in looks. I’ve talked to women in random places, and it’s never lead anywhere. Just in the last few months, I talked to 2 cute chicks in public places (for like 20 mins with one & 1 hour with the other—and the conversations went well), but both girls made sure to drop a sentence with the words “my boyfriend” within the first 5 minutes.
/r/seduction01/04/23 07:05 PM
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I think you may be forgetting the part where the guy needs to be a Chad in terms of looks…?
/r/seduction01/04/23 07:02 PM
2

Did he ever impregnate her?
/r/MensRights01/04/23 05:48 PM
1

Clown world Great point, tbh.
/r/MensRights01/04/23 05:47 PM
2

He uploaded the videos to PornHub.
/r/MensRights01/04/23 05:05 PM
8

Canadian judiciary seems to be run by feminazis.
/r/MensRights01/04/23 05:04 PM
2

A girl being strip searched would probably result in riots. A boy being strip searched would just make people laugh. I wonder why?
/r/MensRights31/03/23 11:50 PM
2

Man, sorry to hear it’s been this hard for you. I’m not sure what words of encouragement I have to to share, but I just want to say your interests in botany & the life sciences in general is pretty cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 07:14 AM
1

Huh, are you aware of the women over at r/RedPillWomen and r/RPCWomen ?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:48 AM
1

Wow, I salute your sheer dedication at reading that incredible volume of material (I’ve only begun to scratch the surface), and, at least a part of which, I assume must’ve been ever-so-slightly-nauseating to you as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:14 AM
1

Minor note: I’ve read Native Americans in the U.S. commit suicide at a far higher rate than any other group. Iirc, the same pattern repeats with the First Nations in Canada, and Aboriginal Australians. (Afaik, the Moari in NZ are not quite the same kind of outliers, though.)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/03/23 11:03 PM
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If women somehow managed to take over, and committed a genocide of the men who they don’t find attractive (at the same % as women reject men on dating apps), then I’m sure Sally Miller’s vision would be realized. These women literally want to be in a polygamous relationship with men, a part of the harem of some hypersexual man. Meanwhile, all incels want is to just find someone to truly & deeply love, get married, have kids/family, etc.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/03/23 10:45 PM
2

This is really sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:17 AM
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I’m a 33-year old virgin, and I remember seeing posters like this in college. It enraged me back then, and it angers me today as well. The hypocrisy of these fucking feminists has no bounds.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/03/23 04:43 PM
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Exactly, yea. There are likely are many incels created by posters like these. Meanwhile the very same women will spread their legs for an asshole who breaks all these rules above (assuming he’s somewhat good looking). It’s madness.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/03/23 04:31 PM
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Yup, basically.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/03/23 04:28 PM
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Women’s final goal is probably to increase the male incel population percentage from 80% / 90%. Meanwhile, they’ll blame the hell out of less attractive men by calling them “creepy” and shit, while happily being treated like nothing more than another wet hole in various Chad harems.
/r/MensRights15/03/23 04:10 AM
2

Yup.
/r/MensRights15/03/23 04:08 AM
2

Great links. Thank you.
/r/RPChristians13/03/23 12:43 AM
1

This was quite an insightful comment. Thank you.
/r/RPChristians13/03/23 12:41 AM
1

Why was he single? (Was he physically unattractive or something?)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 05:38 AM
1

Do you have any stories you could share of bitter men you’ve come across?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 05:36 AM
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🤮 the thought of that is so gross.
/r/MensRights06/03/23 11:41 PM
1

The 5% stat was recently repeated in a study, fyi. Will try to look it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:57 AM
2

Such a sad thought, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:52 AM
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Hey there, I’m one. 33-year virgin guy here. Lol, I make more than like 90% of people. I drive a Tesla. You’re on point with this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:49 AM
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What’s the gender of these friends? I’m a 33 year old credit virgin guy btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:28 AM
5

While we're on the subject, the U.S. isn't actually experiencing a birth decline, as millennials are having more children than boomers and Gen X. Source(s)?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:27 AM
1

This is so random. How did you find this comment from 22 days ago?
/r/MensRights06/03/23 03:04 AM
1

We have to be 100% content with working hard in our career and having an absolute blast with our friends without having a longing for female love. We have to have INTERESTING LIVES and INTERESTING HOBBIES that put us in INTERESTING PLACES to tell INTERESTING STORIES We do those things, everything else becomes easier. Absolutey. Amen to that. (Thank you for this post!)
/r/TheRedPill05/03/23 10:39 PM
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never being officially consummated with penetrative sex Why? (Also, did you attempt an annulment instead of a divorce, due to this?)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 05:24 PM
1

Or, a plain and simple red pill men’s revolution. Once non-plate-spinning red pill men are at the helm, it’s very much within the realm of possibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 04:05 AM
2

Yup, as expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 04:00 AM
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Who gets to bang more in the poly situations you’re aware of? (As in, which gender gets to fuck more?)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:54 PM
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Exactly. The husband gets a dead bedroom + be a beta bux, and the wife gets to continue to ride the Chad carousel as she did in her 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:53 PM
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Thank you
/r/askRPC02/03/23 05:41 PM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:19 PM
2

Yes, exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:49 PM
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You’re a mentally ill bot. You’re blocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 12:55 PM
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The woman (or bot) above is mentally ill. Best block it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 12:54 PM
2

You misunderstood the first paragraph you quoted. That was referring to the sort of behavior that would become verboten / forbidden / prohibited. I seriously doubt millions of women will choose lifelong abstinence / femceldom, instead of just finding a non-Chad guy. Also, yes, I wear 100% cotton. (On a more serious note, although much of Mosaic law is no longer applicable today, the ones regarding sexuality is still in full effect.)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 12:49 PM
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Way to deflect and not answer. You clearly have zero idea what you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 11:18 AM
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Love = wanting the best for another person, selflessly caring about their well-being without expecting anything in return I have literally seen this is so many instances, between Christian couples. Or parents taking care of their disabled children. Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:59 AM
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I've known old men from church whose wives are severely disabled (the woman could barely move, and was in wheelchairs). These old men take care of everything for their wives. They cook, clean, they feed them etc. I don't think these old couples were in a physical state to be having sex. In church, several men would come over and help him carry his wife-in-wheelchair up and down the stairs. Explain that. There's such a thing as love. But I'm done wasting my time talking to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:58 AM
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He'd be a servant for sex Wow, amazing to see this is what you want in your ideal man. /s 🤢 🤮 Sad to see some men wronged you so much that you ended up in such a dark dark place.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:53 AM
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What you're saying is 100% not true. I know several deeply-in-love couples who are in 10+ year marriages. I know the guys well, as they are my friends. And, yea, they love their wives, and they would literally die for them. You seem to be in a really dark place mentally. A lot of trash men act the way you describe. But there are many high-quality men who are capable of deep Christ-like love. I'd recommend vomiting the black pill out. Black pill is 100% lies and nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:50 AM
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I didn't say even say marriage or relationship for life. All I said was restrict sex to publicly-registered relationships. The relationship can be broken by either the woman or the man, but have a reconciliation=-or-abstinence cool-off period. This would solve a lot of problems. To quote from my other comments: Sexual deprivation/poverty (i.e. millions of sexless humans) is strictly a heterosexual cis male problem, and that's what we're trying to solve here. Note: men and women are free to have …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:45 AM
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So if a woman doesn't care to appear attractive It could be that getting a dick is so easy for a woman, that she can be ugly af. Of course, she ain't gonna get no Chad being unattractive, so there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:40 AM
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Because history shows that laws regulating sex are just a start of abuse. What? How? Where? Anything to back this up? Note: the proposed laws here emphatically are not gendered. They regulate the behavior both genders equally / the same way. ​ Education and work comes next Now, you're just imagining things up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:39 AM
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Thanks. A lot of good points.
/r/askRPC02/03/23 10:05 AM
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Sure but not just people who "want to be promiscuous". People who are [...] Maybe you misunderstood me. All the groups of people you listed are obviously free to break up their relationship, and form a new relationship. Nobody is being forced to stay in a relationship that they don't want to be in. In order to make the mandate of a minimum relationship duration, it might be good to impose an abstinence / cool off / reconciliation period. ​ How would this solve that? Women get horny, but maybe no…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:57 AM
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discipleship focus in your marriage (e.g. headship-submission, love-respect roles and you take spurring one another on toward Christ seriously and loving your wife for the purpose of her sanctification) Are there any articles/posts you could link me to, on discipleship focusing a future marraige?
/r/askRPC02/03/23 09:48 AM
1

Definitely a lot of solid advice in this post.
/r/RPChristians02/03/23 09:40 AM
1

This is pretty interesting & insightful. Thanks for writing this up.
/r/RPChristians02/03/23 09:28 AM
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Honestly, I don't care what the gays do. The gays aren't a part of the equation in any way. Sexual deprivation/poverty (i.e. millions of sexless humans) is strictly a heterosexual cis male problem, and that's what we're trying to solve here. If a government does pass laws like that, I honestly don't see why there would be need for as much resistance as you're suggesting. Because, note: men and women are free to have long-term relationships, and have whatever sexual adventures they want, inside t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:15 AM
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Amen. The advice on this sub is indeed really solid.
/r/askRPC02/03/23 09:08 AM
1

Thank you. Those are solid points. I'll post updates on my progress on the OYS every week.
/r/askRPC02/03/23 09:06 AM
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Lol, colored hair is essentially a proxy signal women used to tell men that they’re “wild”. Short hair is just plain ugly though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:36 AM
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Enforced monogamy means we’d require every person to register a relationship with another person, and we’d prohibit any sex outside of the in person that they have a publicly-registered relationship with. There would be a required minimum relationship duration/length, so women do not have 1 or 2 day long relationships back to back with various Chads, in sequence. Sex outside these rules would be punished severely. Long prison sentences or/and torture/corporal punishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:33 AM
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As a 33-year old virgin / incel, I think the people you’re thinking about are either close to Chads or Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:50 AM
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You can’t generalize this. I imagine only Chad-level men are banging a massive rotation of women between LTRs, most likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:44 AM
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I’m a 33-year old virgin guy. So, yea, plenty of men with no experience. I was on OkCupid at age 20, and on other websites/apps later on, and have never gotten laid once. And mostly while I was in NYC (Brooklyn, Manhattan), not in the middle of some farmland.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:42 AM
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Game isn't dying out, in fact it's in higher demand . Women are inundated with male attention moreso now than ever. To the point that women are ditching OLD. Interesting. Most women are still meeting their partners the old fashioned way. Where are they meeting men the old-fashioned way? Despite what this sub thinks, women still like the cold approach. Like just randomly approaching a woman and asking her is okay, even if you’re not a super attractive guy? In either format, game is still paramoun…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:38 AM
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Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:29 AM
3

What was the bet?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:28 AM
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I guess there a lot of shallow women (you’re not one of them), and some men seemed to have been burned by them, and are now generalizing their one experience & thinking that all women are shallow like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:21 AM
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My first OYS is now up, at: https://www.reddit.com/r/askRPC/comments/11f2vs4/first_oys_a_bit_of_background_where_do_i_go_from/ (note: it's really long)
/r/askRPC01/03/23 01:15 PM
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Hi u/Deep_Strength, I've posted my first OYS here (it's a separate post of its own): https://www.reddit.com/r/askRPC/comments/11f2vs4/first_oys_a_bit_of_background_where_do_i_go_from/ (I was trying to be thorough, so it's really long, I hope you'll be able to read it) I'll try to reply to your comments soon. Thank you for your thorough & in-depth responses to my posts/comments. I really appreciate it.
/r/askRPC01/03/23 01:00 PM
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I've posted my first OYS here (since it won't fit in a comment due to the comment length limit): https://www.reddit.com/r/askRPC/comments/11f2vs4/first_oys_a_bit_of_background_where_do_i_go_from/ It's really long since I tried to be as thorough as possible, with each question. I'll try to keep my future OYS comments short and to-the-point.
/r/RPChristians01/03/23 12:48 PM
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Women lie about the reason they’re not attracted to someone like crazy. It’s so sad and disappointing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 07:17 AM
1

That's a really high percentage...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 10:17 AM
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Yea, this state of affairs pretty much explains inceldom. Young women banging attractive guys (aka Chads), with one Chad-type guy having parallel "relationships" with multiple women, and millions of men being left in the dust lonely, depressed, sexless, and angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 10:12 AM
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Sorry, I'll try to post it & reply tonight.
/r/askRPC26/02/23 01:36 AM
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You got laid at 13? Well, I gotta congratulate you on having at least a 20-year lead on me, lol. (As I'm still a virgin at 33....) Are you black by the way, or is that just a random profile pic?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:14 AM
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It wasn't the only factor. It was a mix of things, like how kind the guy is, the character of the man/woman matters, his career or societal success mattered. Right now, a bum with Chad looks gets fucked by career-minded women who also provided housing (their place) for the bum.¹ ¹ I have literally known a guy who did this at one point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:03 AM
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Any answers to my questions?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:59 AM
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Eww, tbh, the way you talk is a bit nauseating. You objectify women too much. Also, if you looked like a freaking Adonis in your 20s, why didn’t you get any pussy? Why were some women attracted to the puny tattooed guy who spoke no English?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:44 AM
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Dude, I have "a little bit" of both money and maybe status? I mean I'm not a millionaire but I've had income close to $200k even in my mid-20s (when I was lot less fat), a pretty fancy car, and when I lived in NYC, I had an apartment in Manhattan. But I'm still a fucking incel virgin – and right now I'm 33 years old, and fatter than before, and have far less hair than I did in my mid-20s. Also, I was literally on OkCupid while living in Brooklyn NYC at age 20 when I looked handsome (when I was a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:23 AM
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Honestly, if I got to keep my current mind (my intellect, my passions, my faith in Christ, etc), I can honestly see being reborn a female (with heterosexual attraction) being a far far better deal. You’re talking about unlimited sex whenever you want it, and with practically speaking whoever. You can go on dating apps, and order sex like ordering food. Isn’t this a pretty big fucking deal? I’m a 33-year old virgin man living in North America. Not in some backwater of the world. I hate being a se…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:42 AM
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How do you learn to attract women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:37 AM
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If you're not quite there, there were always many avenues as a man to become more attractive to close the gap. Now expectations have been skewed so far the gap simply can't be closed anymore for an increasing number of people. What do you mean by the second sentence above?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:35 AM
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Did you delete your comment, or did they? The mods of that sub removed my comments, and issued a perma ban with “…” as the reason. ROFL 🤣. That's a sub where women who call a guy creepy for existing near them while being unattractive, are cheered on and upvoted. Yup. It’s shocking (and deplorable) how commonly many women act like this (even IRL).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:38 AM
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I'll be doing the same thing Sorry I don't understand: you'll be doing the same thing that these horrible men are doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 07:23 AM
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Lol, yea, I chucked at “cheating” part. I wonder: are they so deluded that they really think an incel virgin is going to cheat on his first girlfriend/wife (instead of being, you know, madly in love with her)… They’re just thinking of Chads, and just hate men because Chad treated her badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 05:25 AM
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Yea I just made a comment about this on this terrible sub: https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/119xooe/sex_is_on_the_decline_no_idea_why/j9qwvb7/ — and I obviously got ripped to shreds by the entitled women on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 03:03 AM
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What pathetic nonsense. I’ve been financially really well off since my early 20s — and I’m in my mid-30s now, and I still have my V card. Fuck your crappy nonsensical point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 10:12 AM
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I'm sorry there's so little other info in my post, I'll try to edit and add more info, after finishing my comment on the OYS thread for this week.
/r/askRPC22/02/23 08:48 AM
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Since a lot of virgins tend to be the more nerdy guys that talk about video games, books and the bible all the time. And those types repel women to the point they don't get any. Yea, that would be me. I feel so sad reading this.
/r/askRPC22/02/23 08:19 AM
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Thank you; this is a solid point.
/r/askRPC22/02/23 08:15 AM
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PSALM traits (power, status, athleticism, looks, money) I just want to clarify: is this true for Christian women as well? I have this vague idea in my head that real Christian women (should) mostly care about the man's walk with God, about how humble the man is, about how devoted to the Lord he is, about how pious he is, about how much the man devotes his time towards helping others (as Christ calls all Christians to), etc. Do Christian women really care about power/status/money/etc? I've honest…
/r/askRPC22/02/23 08:14 AM
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women’s sexual motivations are dysgenic in a broader context. Well said. I wouldn't generalize this to all women – the major exception would be believing/Christ-following women, who buck the dysgenic trend, and do what's righteous – but most (non-Christian) women in society at-large do act in a rather horrible, selfish, entitled, and in a largely dysgenic way†. † Not that many men don't act in this manner either – most Chads are as pathological or worse than these women – but the average incel j…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:57 PM
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I see it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 08:02 AM
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They want to be victims of evil Chad who pumped and dumped or abusive George because they have a history of choosing assholes,. So they say these dudes tricked them and they were really nice at first, but also they want to be able to say they rejected the loser geek guy because they got "dangerous vibes" from him instead of just being honest. Yup. Thank you again. That was spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 06:58 AM
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All of this would be solved by honesty. "Women (in general/on average) are sexually disgusted by men whom are neither physically attractive nor socially adroit" explains why the "creep detector" fails miserably. It isn't a "danger detector," its an innate ick reflex towards ugly nerds. You're right. Reality is so sad sometimes. I hate this so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 06:58 AM
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It is a "ewww gross" detector that they frame as a "danger" detector because it makes them look like a defenseless victim instead of someone looking callous and elitist for being disgusted that a low value guy plucked up the courage to be in their vicinity and talk to them. Thank you for saying this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 06:56 AM
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No, the hypocrisy and dishonesty has to do with the way these some of these cunts react to men approaching them. If a super-ugly woman approached me, I'd politely say I'm not interested. Entitled sluts meanwhile instead get so grossed out that they'll scream sexual harassment if a non-Chad approaches them being the entitled bitches they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 06:44 AM
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Yup, these fucking dishonest hypocritical women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:37 AM
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I’m surprised he didn’t become a deadbeat, and actually decide to step up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:33 AM
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Well, I've mostly been in/near big cities (Toronto, Boston, and NYC). If it were this easy for you, then you are by definition a Chad. It sounds as though you gets girls like it's nothing out in the country.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 10:12 PM
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I think she’s projecting. The woman who wrote this probably looks like Andrea Dworkin (look up she’s 🤮 🤢 ugly as f), and the reason this author is so bitter and misandrist, is because she’s so fucking ugly that no guy would rape her — probably so ugly even an incel would reject her. She’s jealous that no men are attracted to her.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 09:12 PM
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Wow, nice to hear it was/is so easy for you to get girls. /s Sorry, I’m a 33 year old virgin guy, and I just can’t help but feel bitter (and wishing you & other chads would just die).
/r/MensRights11/02/23 09:07 PM
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Love of money and power is the root of all evil Source (for all wondering): https://biblehub.com/1_timothy/6-10.htm Thanks for sharing a Bible verse; appreciate it. The Greek: ῥίζα γὰρ πάντων τῶν κακῶν ἐστιν ἡ φιλαργυρία. (Literal translation: "A root of all the evils is the fond love of money".) There's even a Wikipedia article on Latin term derived from this: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Radix\_malorum\_est\_cupiditas
/r/MensRights11/02/23 08:47 PM
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Yup, this is the way
/r/MensRights11/02/23 08:30 PM
1

Next step: have the government put “a gun to head” of these women, and serve the country by reducing the incel/lonely men problem (by dating them). That would be true service to the nation.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 08:25 PM
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He should have knocked her onto the ground, and kicked her in the face until she was bleeding profusely.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 08:23 PM
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Fuck these dumb ass posters. It’s probably a bunch of blue pilled men behind this crap as well.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 08:14 PM
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That fucking woman should be in jail. In an ideal situation, I would have beaten the fuck out of her, but in the world we live in, us men would get further punished for self-defense.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 08:13 PM
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Which country was that, if you don't mind sharing?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 07:56 PM
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Honestly things are way worse today than during even the feudal system. During the feudal era, the rich (the kings, the barons & the landlords) could maybe have multiple women — but the vast majority couldn’t. I’m pretty sure even in the medieval & feudal era, most men (who were mostly farmers) were able to successfully have a wife. Life was highly labor intensive, most people were farmers; both men & women worked the fields doing very hard labor-intensive work (and “housewives” were super rare,…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 04:04 AM
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I mean Islam literally allows men to have 4 wives; the reason it isn’t that common is probably because the women + their dads don’t want it (ie the dads don’t want their daughters to be 1 of N wives, and probably try to find them a husband who isn’t already married).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:23 AM
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Sorry to bring up Jordan Peterson, but this is a result of the “virtual polygamy” that he talked about — one man dating multiple women at the same time. As a 33 year old virgin, I have to say it’s incredibly unfair, and I hope/wish our society was at a place where we could pass harsh laws against this. A scientific study found that 5% of men have 50% of sex acts: https://www.researchgate.net/publication/367325876_Sexual_loneliness_A_neglected_public_health_problem (via https://news.ycombinator.c…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:09 AM
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Legs? Really? Women care about men’s leg muscles?
/r/TheRedPill10/02/23 08:01 AM
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Setting up a shop and just hoping that any warm body will saunter in Lol, this reminds of spiders. 🕷️🕷️🕷️ 🕸️🕸️🕸️🕸️🕸
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 08:59 PM
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It doesn’t matter if you’re not “jacked” enough yet, it doesn’t matter if you’re not rich enough yet, stop just overpreparing and go out there and socialise with some females. You can start off in a friendly manner, not necessarily flirty. This is great reminder & solid advise. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/23 07:55 AM
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Most people don’t know the psychological definition that’s been quoted above. In causal everyday English, “agreeable” doesn’t quite have the same meaning. The author of that profile could have actually listed out those words: cooperative, polite, kind, and friendly, more trusting, affectionate, altruistic, prosocial, empathetic, showing great concern for the welfare of others, are the first to help those in need, etc. To be honest, I’m extremely skeptical the author of that profile meant it this…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 07:52 AM
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Regarding your last paragraph: Why did you spend a single cent on this girl? Always split. Ever read Surely You’re Joking By Richard Feynman? One of the greatest scientists who’s ever lived refused to spend money on women, and got laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 02:02 AM
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Are there really women who are trying to hop on the CC again at the age of 45?!?!??
/r/TheRedPill02/02/23 02:42 AM
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That’s really terrible, and sad. It sounds to me like true love is dead in France.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:25 AM
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https://travellingjezebel.com/sex-tourism-the-gambia/ Just reading this link (that OP shared in the post), and I have to say it’s really disturbing and upsetting.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 10:06 AM
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Sorry if this is a dumb & silly question, the other commentor has got me confused — are you in an open relationship with this guy, or a closed/exclusive relationship? Also, are you 100% sure he isn’t seeing anyone else (ie cheating) if in a closed relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 10:04 AM
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Wait, is this really true, or is this sarcasm? Are love and relationships dead in France?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 10:03 AM
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Feel sorry for all of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 12:10 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 12:09 AM
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I’ve always wondered why this person was cast into the outer darkness (for not using the talents/gifts God had given him). It’s rather scary.
/r/askRPC10/01/23 01:39 PM
2

I imagine a lot of unmarried women are unwillingly bi as a consequence, and licking each other in secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:44 AM
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Non-denominational evangelical Christian; avoid the Trump supporting churches though, they’re full of ****. Real Christ following churches are amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:42 AM
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I read women can’t go outside with a male family member with them in Saudi. That’s pretty close incels treating women like property to be guarded from other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:34 AM
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Go to a non-fancy-looking church, you have a high probability of finding people who are actually trying to be good there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:27 AM
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Unless you lock them Explains Islamic fundamentalist behavior in Saudi Arabia, Afghanistan, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 02:24 AM
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What does “imprinted” here mean?
/r/RPChristians08/01/23 08:27 PM
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Where was the 250k offer? Was it a big tech company?
/r/RPChristians08/01/23 08:03 PM
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How does he get shut down by them?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:55 PM
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Full Text of the article, since it's paywalled: If you are on the proverbial market, as you rack up phone swipes, first dates, and—likely—new sexual partners, you might start to ask yourself, Is all this dating going to make me happier with whomever I end up with?In other words, are you actually getting any closer to finding “the one”? Or are you simply stuck on a hedonic treadmill of potential lovers, doomed like some sort of sexual Sisyphus to be perpetually close to finding your soul mate, on…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:20 AM
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Well said. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 05:37 AM
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True.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 05:35 AM
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Also, I noticed your post — https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/u8c3ns/i_think_i_might_just_hate_men/ — let me take a guess—I suppose you got burned out by riding the Chad carousel, and you’re now simmering with anger at being an alpha widow?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 09:34 PM
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There’s extreme hypocrisy on the left when it comes to sexual poverty. I’m a quite far left-wing person myself, and a Democratic Socialist; an NDP supporter in Canada, and a Bernie supporter in the US. But I believe that socialism needs to extend to helping those suffering from sexual poverty, and not material poverty alone. Just like material poverty is often caused by a rather unfair distribution of wealth, one major factor causing sexual poverty is the multiple FWBs/plates that Chads monopoli…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 09:33 PM
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You’re wrong, and you being a woman doesn’t make you right. I might be less attractive physically, but I’m very good socially (to the point that people have even remarked that - not that they’d want to date though). I have an easy time connecting with people, and buildings meaningful friendships. I do very well in social gathering. I’m quite extroverted, and I like spending time with people. I’m involved in multiple Christian / church related activities, and have a lot of acquaintances and frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 07:19 PM
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I’ve wanted to have sex since I was 12, and have been obsessed with it since then. But I wanted / want to have sex with someone I love (true love), and not some random person. Sex with a person I don’t love (and who doesn’t love me) does not appeal to me. Hence I am virgin, since I’ve not yet succeeded in finding true love.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 05:23 PM
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Also, just fyi, I spend 8-9 hours of my day working for a pretty famous software company based in California that you’ve almost certainly heard of. My income is likely in the top 1% or 2%. You can check the website levels.fyi — my income is actually only slightly above average for big tech. I’ve been living alone since moving out for college at age 17. I crossed the 100k USD/yr mark at age 25 (again this is pretty typical & absolutely nothing special in tech). I’m 32 years old, and still a virgi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 04:25 PM
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I don’t agree with any of the horrible stuff you’ve referenced. Stop attacking a strawman, and be truthful. My only proposal is to ban and vilify polygamy and criminalize sex outside marriage. I agree with Jordan Peterson that the status quo is “virtual polygamy” because a small percentage highly attractive men monopolize multiple women. This fucks up the number of available women. If monogamy were enforced, there would be enough leftover women at the bottom, who because they aren’t getting serv…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 04:15 PM
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Spoken like a true out-of-touch fiscal conservative. “Poor people just need to work harder!” See how successful I am! I achieved this all on my own! Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 04:07 PM
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Imagine telling a poor person that they’re not entitled to anything, and then mocking them for their poverty, by creating sub-reddits like “PoorPeopleTears” and “PoorPeopleInAction”. It would be amoral and horrific. (There literally are subs with similar names dedicated to mocking incels.) That’s exactly what sexually successful men (and most women) do to men suffering from extreme/abject sexual poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:11 PM
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Imagine telling a poor person that they’re not entitled to anything, and then mocking them for their poverty, by creating sub-reddits like “PoorPeopleTears” and “PoorPeopleInAction”.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:10 PM
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Hmm, I think it makes sense, if the sin happened before you became a Christian.
/r/RPChristians16/02/21 04:40 AM
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Just want to add one more thing. A related post appeared on r/Christianmarriage today: https://www.reddit.com/r/Christianmarriage/comments/l7zp4w/shared_something_difficult_with_my_spouse_and_it/ It’s about how much better both of them felt after they had shared what they’d done. Any “past women” you slept with was sin. You’re basically asking if you should hide past sin from your future spouse. In general, hiding past sin is not a good thing. Hiding past sexual sin in a marriage might be even w…
/r/RPChristians30/01/21 02:30 AM
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Why was she pissed off? (Because is was too high a count, or was it because you were a virgin?) Asking since I’ve read on non-Christian subs/forums that girls absolutely despise virgins. So I’m a bit concerned (since I’m a virgin myself).
/r/RPChristians30/01/21 01:43 AM
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I’m not sure if that advise is even applicable to Christians. Per Jesus’ teaching (for example in the Sermon on the Mount), Christians are meant to have one partner, and divorce is prohibited unless for adultery. Sex outside marriage is not allowed either (see the side bar of this sub). This rule seems like a piece of very-worldly advise that only really applies to non-believers.
/r/RPChristians30/01/21 01:41 AM
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Amen.
/r/RPChristians19/01/21 09:51 PM
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Because honestly at 26 very few women are waiting for marriage if they’re not already married. What do you mean by this? Is it too late, or too early? What’s the ideal age for a guy to look for a wife?
/r/RPChristians19/01/21 07:14 PM
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Are you serious? How does one suppress one’s sexual desires (and be celibate) until one is 35? You must be kidding.
/r/RPChristians19/01/21 07:13 PM
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Yup, same here. Also, the root of bitterness due to long-term celibacy / not having (or eve had) sex. It’s incredibly emotionally painful.
/r/RPChristians19/01/21 07:12 PM
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Just a quick note: I don’t think some spooning and kissing in any way makes you a non-virgin. Also, congratulations on keeping up the purity for so long.
/r/RPChristians19/01/21 07:09 PM
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With that said, books I recommend to get into this: Libido Dominandi and Sexual Utopia in Power. Do you know where I could get some PDFs or other electronic copies of these books? Based on my research, I found these resources on them: Sexual Utopia in Power: The Feminist Revolt Against Civilization by F. Roger Devlin This analysis: http://grahamseibert.com/Reviews_of_books_now_banned/Sexual_utopia_in_power.pdf https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/25755297-sexual-utopia-in-power https://books.goog…
/r/RPChristians13/01/21 03:53 AM
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