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I feel like I just need a new mindset about how to do it, how to have it as a universal trait that is always with me, instead of something I have to turn on. How to do it in a way that feels natural all the time, and tbh a more concrete understanding of exactly what "it" is in the first place.
/r/seduction30/04/18 06:40 PM
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Yea makes sense, working on that, it is a combination of so many things, mindset, body language. Gotta keep working on it.
/r/seduction30/04/18 06:10 PM
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I do flirt with them, touch them, etc, hell I have had sex with them before, and still gotten thrown into the friend zone, but I suppose I don't flirt the same rawness, I try to be more... respectful or something like that, and of course that doesn't work. And hey, I had my time being salty about it, and then I am like, how do I fix this, let me go and ask some people who know better. That's why I am here. As I made clear in my post, I am not saying that women need to change so that I can get mo…
/r/seduction30/04/18 05:47 PM
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Hey thanks a lot man! This is really helpful!
/r/seduction30/04/18 05:44 PM
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Hey if I thought I was perfect I would not be in here asking you guys how I can improve myself. I am certainly not an "egocentric prick with my head up my ass" but yea you are right, I probably am a bit boring when I am on these non nightlife dates with girls, that is one of the things I am trying to address, how to still bring that heat even in more casual environments.
/r/seduction30/04/18 05:38 PM
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About a year from the time I decided to actually try and do something about it.
/r/seduction30/04/18 01:15 PM
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Real life, tinder, bumble, school, bars, extracurriculars. I pretty much only interact with girls, the only guys I talk to are the ones I have already known for a ehile
/r/seduction30/04/18 08:19 AM
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Yea it is hard to maintain that respect when you know women are going to think less of you if you are genuine. I have tried to just remember that they are humans too and deserve basic human respect, so I don't get bitter about things.
/r/seduction30/04/18 05:36 AM
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Nah man.
/r/seduction30/04/18 05:27 AM
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Figure out what brings out Mr. Hyde and seek out more of those contexts. good music, flashing lights, nighttime, and just a dash of alcohol haha. Which I suppose is why it is hard for me to replicate the feeling at the fucking Starbucks haha. But I understand and agree with what you are saying.
/r/seduction30/04/18 03:45 AM
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Haha thank you man this is really helpful. I suppose it is imposter syndrome, it is like deep down I feel like I am not actually this alpha big swinging balls character, I am mostly more of a nerdy type, so when I go around acting like Chad I feel like a fraud. Some of the shit I do when I am acting like a bad boy seems genuinely crazy to me, not anything illegal of course but just way more risk-taking than I normally am. So at the end of the day, I just need to nut up and add some of that shit …
/r/seduction30/04/18 03:41 AM
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It does make sense. I guess it is just strange for me when I am with women who I am attracted to for not just their looks but also their intelligence, which means that I have actual respect for them, to "not give a fuck about them". Like I totally get what it means, in the context of a dark nightclub or whatever, but how do I exude that same quality in more sophisticated settings with more sophisticated women. Like there is more social structure there, you can't just do whatever comes to mind.
/r/seduction30/04/18 03:10 AM
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P.S. Just for background, I used to be a complete chump who was afraid of approaching at all, through a combination of reading this subreddit, working out, and going to lots of bars by myself in different cities while traveling, I was able to get better at getting dates and approaching women in daytime and nightime (this is also how this Mr. Hyde character was created, to help me navigate nightlife on my own). So this is a relatively new problem for me as I used to just have no contact with wome…
/r/seduction30/04/18 02:13 AM
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These sound like the most basic ding dongs ever, I mean a lot of women are like that but not all of them, this seems to just be reinforcing stereotypes.
/r/seduction22/12/17 05:40 PM
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Well if you are star you can do anything. They'll let you do it. Grab em by the pussy.
/r/seduction22/10/16 06:49 AM
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So I have noticed a phenomenon recently, but I don't know why it keeps happening. A girl on like Tinder or Facebook or whatever will agree to a date or hookup or whatever after I've been chatting her up for a while, but then when I actually try and set up a time that works for both of us, boom the girl evaporates into thin air. Why does this happen?
/r/seduction16/03/16 04:57 AM
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Very well written.
/r/seduction21/02/15 04:50 AM
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I don't know about this. He says he has no approach anxiety, he just doesn't know what to talk about. It is a good question. What do you talk about? A friend of mine (who is basically an Apex Predator when it comes to women) told me to just say stupid Shit, just say whatever comes to your mind, just blurt it out, that seems so weird to me and I don't understand how it would be helpful. I am the type of person who thinks carefully and measures every word, I think this hurts a lot when trying nto …
/r/seduction19/02/15 10:08 PM
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I would go with an i5, and you don't actually need 16 GB of RAM. Don't go cheap on the motherboard though.
/r/seduction11/01/15 06:18 AM
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Don't dip your pen in the company ink.
/r/seduction24/11/14 08:43 AM
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I know what you mean, I was just trying to highlight that I feel I have gotten over the hurdle this post is describing and am now trying to use the advice in a constructive way.
/r/seduction11/11/14 08:29 PM
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Well I don't go around saying that to people, but I am intelligent, I'm not going to deny that.
/r/seduction11/11/14 02:41 PM
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Talk about emotional things Create emotions in people. Take people on emotional journeys. LIKE WHAT!! HOW!! HOW!! Great post by the way, but you leave a guy like me, who is very intelligent, and does not blame anyone but myself for my social shortcomings, totally hanging.
/r/seduction11/11/14 05:52 AM
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That is not how any courtroom is going to see it.
/r/seduction31/10/14 06:59 AM
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I have been in this situation once in my life, and unless you think she is crazy or something, all you really have to do is just have to walk the pigs to the market. If this is anything like when it happened to you have this Shit so I'm the bag it is like being up by 50 in the fourth quarter of a basketball game, you literally just have to make any sort of move on her, I mean ask her to go to a movie (go to a really bad one because leaving a movie of worth before it is over is a sin) with you, t…
/r/seduction30/10/14 05:24 AM
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DO NOT FLIRT WITH GIRLS ONLINE, ONLY USE THE INTERNET TO ARRANGE STUFF Trust me on this one man, do all your flirting talking meaningful conversation in person.
/r/seduction30/10/14 05:20 AM
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Just out of curiosity where abroad did you go?
/r/seduction20/10/14 06:43 AM
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Let me tell you man, I am what these good folks around here call an AFC. But last night, I went to a really shitty party, the ratio there was 6 guys per girl. And 99% of the girls there came with their boyfriends. I was like fuck I did not walk my ass in the fucking 30 degree cold in a toga to stare at dudes, so I go up to the hottest single girl in the joint, and ask her to dance, (I am the worst dancer on the face of the earth by the way) so I tell her I am going to teach her to salsa(ha.) She…
/r/seduction20/10/14 04:32 AM
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That video, I started crying a little bit. Thank you for posting that.
/r/seduction20/10/14 04:21 AM
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You don't understand what this guy is going through from what I gather this is purely a novelty thing, like fucking the amazing freak at the freakshow, you had your fun and now you get away. This guy wants to be treated like a human not a roller coaster.
/r/seduction17/10/14 09:05 AM
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I talk to plenty of girls all the time but this "making a move" business is foreign to me. I don't even know where to start there. In other words, I can talk to girls,but I can't flirt with girls.
/r/seduction16/10/14 05:17 AM
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Fuck chicks when you're bored. Or play video games? Is playing video games alright? Becausethatismyonlyoption
/r/seduction16/10/14 05:08 AM
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What kind of actions in your opinion constitute putting another person on a pedestal?
/r/seduction05/10/14 10:03 PM
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Listen to this guy, he knows what he is talking about.
/r/seduction02/10/14 04:17 PM
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Campus security!?!? Jesus Christ man what does your "day game" consist of, grabbing ass and running away?
/r/seduction16/09/14 10:09 PM
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I would call you an American hero but I get the feeling your not American. A hero nevertheless.
/r/seduction07/02/14 08:56 PM
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This sounds kinda like a dumb thing to say.
/r/seduction16/12/13 05:21 AM
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You were saying that its perfectly fine to tell jokes about killing animals to people you just met. I beg to differ.
/r/seduction15/10/13 02:50 AM
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I think that if your "funny jokes" are about killing pandas you are going to be not fuckinghur.
/r/seduction15/10/13 02:05 AM
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I mean I have seen plenty of people call young professors by their first names and not have any problem, but this is your professor, so I warn you to avoid getting overly casual. What do you call her when you greet her? I hope you don't say "hey you".
/r/seduction14/10/13 04:38 PM
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Wait is she saying "you" or are you saying "you"?
/r/seduction14/10/13 03:16 PM
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Nope. Source: 6'5" not unattractive.
/r/seduction14/10/13 04:22 AM
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Hey baby let's go kill some pandas. Alpha as fuck.
/r/seduction14/10/13 01:41 AM
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Its not a scientific thing, what do you find funny? As long as it isn't jokes about killing animals or something you are going to have to rely on your own sense of humor to be funny.
/r/seduction13/10/13 09:02 PM
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When people fuck with you, get in there face and tell them to fuck off right away, don't let that shit go on or you will find yourself at the bottom of a large pile of shit.
/r/seduction11/10/13 11:18 PM
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Wow.
/r/seduction09/10/13 10:05 PM
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I like my fish tacos with that red sauce.
/r/seduction07/09/13 05:53 PM
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Oooohh,I see, I didn't know they made pink tacos. What are they like strawberry flavored?
/r/seduction07/09/13 05:23 PM
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Wait why is it bad that she's into tacos?
/r/seduction07/09/13 05:14 PM
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