ChristianeLuiseHegel Archive

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3	why it's mostly easier to date as an older woman If you don't have family nearby, make them up. Last year I was traveling for work and met a scrote on OLD (yes, I know...). He was verbally all over me until I told him on a video call that my brother and his wife were coming to visit me. His face crumpled and he literally said "oh...family", in a tone as if I'd just told him I had cancer. Blocked me immediately afterwards. Male relatives are most effective for this because scrotes see women related to them as their property, so they think all o…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/03/22 07:14 AM
37	Steps on becoming indifferent towards your abuser and trauma (bond)? I think it helps to be aware of how pathetic these people really are at the end of the day. Unfortunately, the internet has built up abusers, especially narcissists, sociopaths etc., into larger-than-life superhuman monsters with incredible powers of perception and manipulation. It's understandable that when one just comes out of an abusive relationship, or even more so when the abusers were one's own parents, they would appear like that. But in the cold light of day, they are not superhuman or …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/02/22 09:28 AM
18	Good Luck Because their masculinity is so fragile anything except crawling before them makes it crumble like last year's birthday cake.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/02/22 06:28 AM
12	“Interview with a Sociopath” - Sociopath admits he actively hones in to manipulate when he senses a person is weak; Behavior is similar to that of LVM/NVMs. Perhaps many of the LVMs/NVMs discussed here also have Cluster B personality disorders (including sociopathy, narcissism, etc) like this man. I don't mean it in the annoying "you're not a professional, you can't diagnose" sense - ofc an informed layperson can recognise patterns in personality and behaviour, including pathological ones, especially when their life depends upon it. But some of these constructs actively serve to depoliticise and thereby excuse male depravity - I'm thinking of "porn addiction", "sex addiction" etc, in a context where addiction is seen as an illness. Men now walk around wanting pity and compassion because t…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/02/22 04:50 PM
7	“Interview with a Sociopath” - Sociopath admits he actively hones in to manipulate when he senses a person is weak; Behavior is similar to that of LVM/NVMs. Perhaps many of the LVMs/NVMs discussed here also have Cluster B personality disorders (including sociopathy, narcissism, etc) like this man. Yes, true NPD is literally crazy making. At least a garden variety abuser has a rational goal, he wants power and control and all his strategies are designed to achieve that. A NPD man is entirely irrational, they undermine themselves every step of the way and then blame someone else, even if you show them photographic evidence of them trashing their own life. A regular abuser can be beaten at his own game, with NPD there is no game, just delusions and emotional dysregulation.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/02/22 03:45 PM
60	“Interview with a Sociopath” - Sociopath admits he actively hones in to manipulate when he senses a person is weak; Behavior is similar to that of LVM/NVMs. Perhaps many of the LVMs/NVMs discussed here also have Cluster B personality disorders (including sociopathy, narcissism, etc) like this man. This is maybe a little OT, but my general opinion of psychiatry as a discipline is pretty low. The whole disease model of mental illness in analogy to physical illness, doesn't really work. MH conditions aren't like viruses or cancer where you either "have them" or not, it's very subjective and subject to trends and fashions within diagnostic practice. Neither are they clearly distinguishable from each other in many cases, and oftentimes diagnosticians disagree - hence why some people end up wit…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/02/22 10:49 AM
16	“Interview with a Sociopath” - Sociopath admits he actively hones in to manipulate when he senses a person is weak; Behavior is similar to that of LVM/NVMs. Perhaps many of the LVMs/NVMs discussed here also have Cluster B personality disorders (including sociopathy, narcissism, etc) like this man. exactly. and if he really was a sociopath, what is the point of sticking his ugly noggin on the internet, so that any and all potential victims immediately know just what a dangerous, big bad wolf he is? I've met many narcissistic men in my life, but only two or three that would maybe qualify for a diagnosis of NPD, and only one who I believe was a sociopath. This dude was off the charts insane, I would not at all be surprised to one day see his mugshot on TV wanted for murder. The rest of them …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/02/22 09:27 AM
138	“Interview with a Sociopath” - Sociopath admits he actively hones in to manipulate when he senses a person is weak; Behavior is similar to that of LVM/NVMs. Perhaps many of the LVMs/NVMs discussed here also have Cluster B personality disorders (including sociopathy, narcissism, etc) like this man. Oh puhhh-lease. Latest fashion among boring-ass LVM is claiming to be a Narcissist or Sociopath because it's somehow glamorous and "alpha". No, dear, you're just a manipulative douchey garden variety predator. A genuine cluster B is unmistakable by the fact they ruin each and every relationship, friendship, family, work - they can't help themselves. Unless they are very rich and powerful, they are completely incapable of flying under the radar because they're obviously batshit insane. As Lundy B…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/02/22 07:25 AM
7	My friend says "I don't like men that are kind to me, they're boring, I like my men a little bit toxic" how to respond to her? She keeps ending up with trashy men, and when they use and discard her I'm the first person she comes running to and I'm sick of it😩 I had the same problem. Then I had therapy and realised the reason non-toxic men felt boring to me was because they were boring af. Nothing to keep LVM in a steady supply of bangmaids than therapists telling women to settle for a boring-but-not-outright-abusive man because they "don't even know what normal feels like" (not saying you did that, but this kind of gaslighting has been my pet peeve for a while now).	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/02/22 10:20 AM
6	My friend says "I don't like men that are kind to me, they're boring, I like my men a little bit toxic" how to respond to her? She keeps ending up with trashy men, and when they use and discard her I'm the first person she comes running to and I'm sick of it😩 I know you don't mean it that way, but this belief that people who grew up in dysfunctional conditions seek out more dysfunction because it feels familiar (a.k.a. "repetition compulsion") is just a fancy form of victim blaming. It's basically saying women who were abused in childhood are asking for more abuse because they like it, and they like it because they're already damaged. Cue women trying to "fix themselves" so they no longer get abused, and men justifying their abuse with the fact she j…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/02/22 10:14 AM
2	Men Who Block For No Reason? He may have put you through some shit test to see if you are easily manipulated/controlled/abused and you failed. Good for you, keep doing what you're doing	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/01/22 05:53 AM
3	When we say some men are delusional, this what they mean. Your wife is not yet born is creepy! Calling women pretty young things is gross and dehumanizing. Meet Your Second Wife I was wondering recently why it triggers me so hard when men brag about their body count. I mean, sure, it shows he's a misogynist who sees women as objects to collect, but then, men who have only slept with one or two women can be just as misogynist or worse. Then it finally occurred to me: unless you're a Hollywood A-lister or rock star, it is pretty much impossible to sleep with that many women without lying to/manipulating/bamboozling at least a good part of them. Parti…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/11/21 01:25 PM