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| 4 | I’m engaged … told my kids… ex is nextBut is it about her or about the kids? If she had a bad reaction to OP dating, does he really want to put the kids in the uncomfortable position of being the bearer of this particular news or would it be better to tell her himself to save the kids that burden? | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/02/26 01:32 PM |
| 13 | I’m engaged … told my kids… ex is nextDivorce attorney here- definitely tell her and your text is perfect. While I agree that your ex-wife does not get an opinion on your marital status, you are doing this for your kids, not for her. Your kids are pretty young. If your ex-wife has a bad reaction to the news, you want her to have it privately- not in front of your kids. If she finds out from your kids, they may be put in a bad position if she is upset and needs some time with the news. Telling big things that affect your kids (and yo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/02/26 10:43 AM |
| 1 | 50/50 CustodyThis is an important question for your lawyer. In particular, ask them what you should be doing to assist you with this goal. I am a lawyer, but not your lawyer, and I cannot give you legal advice on the internet, but here are some suggestions of things to ask your lawyer about: Does your living space provide an adequate environment for 50/50 custody? If not, what do you need to change? Have you had any opportunities to spend time with your children and failed to do so? Are there other opportuni… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/09/25 12:54 AM |
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