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| 2 | How can I get women to talk to me1) make sure you have good hygiene and groom yourself well. 2) don't dress like a slob. Make sure you have at least one or two decent outfits. 3) start small with small goals. Even if it's having just a normal basic back and forth with a cashier or something. 4) try online dating where it's not face to face. Create a decent profile and take some decent pictures. See how far you get with conversations. Remember though this can be a crutch if you let it, and the idea is to actually meet up and God… | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 10:40 PM |
| 23 | 20(M) I match with a lot of girls but never know what to say.It really doesn't matter what you say as long as you are conveying value but in a way that conveys comfort. That's the technical way of saying be a high value guy but don't be an a******. If you follow those guidelines you will be fine although that is the most simplistic way possible to sum it up. To put it even more simply it's not what you say it's how you say it. | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 02:26 AM |
| 70 | How long should you wait to reach out to a girl after you had sex with them the first night without coming off as desperate?As a man once you have sex the balance of power has definitely shifted and she is usually justifying why she had sex with you in her head and hoping you weren't just using her typically. You texting her shortly after is more reassuring than desperate more often than not. As long as you don't say anything weird it is generally a positive my experience. As long as the experience was positive which I hope it was... A simple "Hey had a great time. Let's get together next time you're free " would be … | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 02:45 AM |
| 1 | How does a deformed guy even attempt to date?Fair enough. All could be true... Just speculation | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 02:23 AM |
| 1 | How does a deformed guy even attempt to date?It can work in a lot of contexts absolutely but I think considering op's deformity it might be better. | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 10:01 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]A light pec on the cheek or something might be fine but it's probably too much upon first meeting I agree. Definitely go for the hug though. Obviously the strength of the previous interaction matters here | /r/seduction | 20/02/22 01:24 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]The more you worry about fucking it up the greater possibility that you will, it's just a law nature almost and not your fault per se. Instead of worrying about getting laid just be proud of yourself that you made the next step. Keep working towards the next one though and don't expect a touchdown immediately. Maybe work on getting a kiss or whatever and consider that a victory. | /r/seduction | 20/02/22 01:23 AM |
| 8 | [deleted by user]This is the correct answer | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 04:44 PM |
| 1 | having a sex doll instead of dating?I agree with all this except I would just like to throw in that getting into a hobby where you can meet girls, learning how to speak, and I hate to say this, because don't get sucked into the pickup community, but there are definitely some nuggets of wisdom there about how to talk and relate to women. As long as you take it with a grain of salt obviously. May I make the suggestion that you don't set your goal as sex just yet but take it incrementally. I don't know what stage you're at but it cou… | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 06:03 AM |
| 3 | Todd V - it’s NOT a numbers gameFor Christ sakes does nobody understand this? It's a numbers game only in the sense of percentages. If you can only close one girl on 100, you will approach 100 girls and close 1%. If you increase your closing percentage, then you will close more girls/sales/whatever. So let's say you're closing percentage is 25% right? Then you will close one out of four girls/sales/whatever instead of one out of 100. That's 1 out of 4 instead of 1 out of 100. Yes it's the numbers game, but you're closing ratio… | /r/seduction | 30/10/21 01:26 AM |
| -1 | Get a load of this 💩What a bargain! Sign me up!!! | /r/seduction | 10/05/20 02:08 PM |
| 1 | I (40M) am having a first date with my tinder match (40F) via videocall. Any recommendations?Or if it goes really well... | /r/seduction | 25/04/20 09:09 PM |
| 1 | I (40M) am having a first date with my tinder match (40F) via videocall. Any recommendations?Damn, beat me to it... | /r/seduction | 25/04/20 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Are you here for the girls or preparing for the Seduction Examination?Geez I hope there's not going to be a test... | /r/seduction | 10/03/18 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Telling a girl that I am a 20 year old virginVery well said | /r/seduction | 08/11/17 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Telling a girl that I am a 20 year old virginI concur good sir | /r/seduction | 08/11/17 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Telling a girl that I am a 20 year old virginMaybe but that's just not how I was. I was so horny I could fuck for days in my early twenties, but I do realize everyone's different I suppose. There's also another angle I didn't consider... if that things don't go as planned him being a virgin may actually make her want to sleep with him. That really all depends on her though of course. Regardless I wish him luck. If OP is reading this, just don't overthink it and go with your gut. You'll be fine trust me, and it only gets better from there. … | /r/seduction | 08/11/17 06:33 PM |
| 5 | Telling a girl that I am a 20 year old virginWon't he anyway? | /r/seduction | 08/11/17 03:31 PM |
| -1 | Telling a girl that I am a 20 year old virginIt's his first time at 20, he'll get It Up trust me... | /r/seduction | 08/11/17 11:17 AM |
| 143 | Telling a girl that I am a 20 year old virginDon't tell her. What good could really come out of it? Tell her after if you want. Telling her before would not just be presumptuous but makes things awkward. Just try to be smooth about it and let it happen. Also Try to go at least a few times because youre probably going to bust in like 2 seconds. I don't blame you, just saying... Good luck PS. Definitely rub one out before she gets there. I'm totally serious. You'll last longer and be able to think clearer. | /r/seduction | 08/11/17 12:29 AM |
| 1 | How to get a guy to have sex with meWell if you want to lose your virginity, you're in the right place I suppose... | /r/seduction | 04/11/17 01:34 PM |
| 9 | Girl I've been talking to sent me this. Does this mean anything? Am I over thinking it?I read this as her seeking validation from her friend who gave you the thumbs up. She's happy about that and figured she'd mention it in a roundabout way. | /r/seduction | 27/07/17 05:19 AM |
| 1 | My personal principles for getting better with women and staying sane when shit hits the fanGreat list! | /r/seduction | 15/08/16 02:48 PM |
| 1 | What PUA video has been the most help for you?Saved | /r/seduction | 11/02/16 06:09 PM |
| 2 | 24 years old and going on my first date ever. What are some things I should know?This may be to advanced for him at this point to be honest. I would do some research on Kino first... | /r/seduction | 29/10/15 05:12 AM |
| 1 | 24 years old and going on my first date ever. What are some things I should know?This ^ | /r/seduction | 29/10/15 05:11 AM |
| 1 | 30 years of lonelinessHey listen, First thing you need to do is calm the fuck down. Not trying to be a dick but i'm just saying that kind of thinking is hurting you and at least definitely not helping. Try and disconnect yourself from the need to hook up so badly and be cool with who you are. You don't like yourself? Start improving something small, it helps. Work to improve yourself, even if it's one small small thing at a time. Just improve. But right now It's like you're stranded in the desert and you can't get wa… | /r/seduction | 16/08/15 03:42 AM |
| 3 | Best response to "I was thinking about you"I know (As i read the comments i see i'm not the first person to post this. I also like "good") | /r/seduction | 05/05/15 08:19 PM |
| 127 | What is a good comeback to a guy saying something like "I've had sex with your girl, enjoy the sloppy seconds!" or "Your girl is a slut" ?After the first two inches it's brand new | /r/seduction | 08/04/13 02:34 AM |
| 1 | How does one proceed after you find out she has a boyfriend?Slow Clap.. | /r/seduction | 10/03/12 04:24 AM |
| 1 | How does one proceed after you find out she has a boyfriend?Her: Sorry I have a Boyfriend... You: That's OK I'm not Jealous. | /r/seduction | 10/03/12 04:22 AM |
| 14 | NEWBIES READ THIS - IOIs & IODs, Qualification, and more!I love "When she has to go to the bathroom, she comes back" I knew I was missing something! | /r/seduction | 13/10/11 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Dating the sexually repressed: How do I get her to open up to me?Get her drunk and initiate sex doggy style. Then reach around and firmly squeeze both her nipples. When you have a good grip, tell her this is her sisters favorite position and hold on as long as you can. Works every time. | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 03:19 AM |
| 4 | Tips for first date with a stripper?Beat me to it... | /r/seduction | 18/09/11 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Help! Got a number last night...have no idea what her name is.Just don't use her name at first, it's really easy if you think about it. Then you can make a joke or two about not believing her age and ask to see her drivers license ha ha. | /r/seduction | 16/07/11 07:49 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Atlantic City for a Friends 21st, #/K-Close, Problem?Ya what he said . Also don't get to over anxious or she'll think you're a stalker. One more text tomorrow and then that's it, leave it in her court. | /r/seduction | 10/07/11 12:13 AM |
| 37 | If you meet eyes with a girl, what reaction from her tells you that shes interested?If She starts licking her lips while rubbing her nipples, she's interested. | /r/seduction | 28/06/11 03:57 PM |
| 6 | How to challenge a girl's cocky-funny?Smack her in the face with your cock...That's how. | /r/seduction | 26/06/11 01:51 AM |
| 5 | [FR] First attempt at PUA, 18-y/o cutie. How to improve? (Scott Pilgrim's got a Knives Chau)Wouldn't it be funny if he was like 45? lol | /r/seduction | 10/05/11 04:42 PM |
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