ChromaticFinish Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Are you good at sex? And failed all 7 times to please them lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/20 06:56 PM
5	Are you good at sex? When I make an effort to, they often tell me to stop and 'dont bother/worry'. This just tells me you don't know what you're doing. Orgasms are good. People like orgasming.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/20 04:27 PM
5	Are you good at sex? Most women my age would probably say something like: 'a man that dominates me entirely in bed and treats me like his little slut' Is that really what you think most women want? Also of course women care about whether they orgasm. Username checks out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/20 03:59 PM
1	Do not let this sub become a hate sub. You would need to invent quite a few more details for the hypothetical to play out in a meaningful way. Sometimes yes, sometimes no.	/r/MensRights	21/09/18 04:40 AM
1	Do not let this sub become a hate sub. Not according to his narrative, I guess.	/r/MensRights	21/09/18 02:41 AM
1	Do not let this sub become a hate sub. Who are people like me? Have I suggested a strange definition of rape somewhere? There is not always clear evidence. How could there be? Not everyone is brutally beaten. Also, whether it is rational or not, it is common for people to not come forward immediately. The more time passes, the less likely there is to be evidence.	/r/MensRights	21/09/18 02:30 AM
2	Do not let this sub become a hate sub. It is possible for someone to be raped, but be unable to provide enough evidence for a conviction to be warranted. This is fairly common in rape cases. Would you disagree that "false accusation" is language which implies a lie? As far as I know, that phrase is usually only used to describe accusations which are intentionally made falsely by the accuser.	/r/MensRights	20/09/18 08:30 PM
2	Do not let this sub become a hate sub. This is ultimately semantics, but it doesn't sit well with me to use the term "false accusations" for accusations which are true, but supported by insufficient evidence for a conviction.	/r/MensRights	20/09/18 06:15 PM
2	Do not let this sub become a hate sub. Why do you use the phrase "false accusation" to describe accusations which have not been proven true or false, as well as accusations which do not result in conviction?	/r/MensRights	20/09/18 02:49 PM
5	While males deal with 18 years of slavery, fake rape charges, high amounts of child support/alimony, sexual harassment at work, suffer from societies expectations of them, happen to lose their kids, and are now facing domestic violence, females breeze by. Condoms exist. And remind me what reproductive healthcare and options are available to men These are distinct issues. Abortion is a question of bodily autonomy. HBC is not only used as a contraceptive, but in legislation is almost always treated like it is. Condoms are completely unrelated, and the lack of options for men is certainly an issue, but we don't have legal debates over whether a man should be allowed to get a vasectomy. If you only include sex trafficking, if slavery is include then …	/r/MensRights	15/07/17 09:43 PM
–	While males deal with 18 years of slavery, fake rape charges, high amounts of child support/alimony, sexual harassment at work, suffer from societies expectations of them, happen to lose their kids, and are now facing domestic violence, females breeze by. Off the top of my head, in most first world countries: Access to reproductive healthcare. Legislation is regularly written with the intent to make it more difficult for women to access hormonal birth control and abortion services. In the US, the GOP has the plainly stated goal of overturning Roe v. Wade. Women are significantly more likely to be victims of human trafficking. Women are underrepresented in our media. Female led movies and shows are less common and women tend to speak much less tha…	/r/MensRights	15/07/17 09:02 PM
4	Axe just started a campaign for challenging what it means to be a "man". This is something wonderful to see from a company like that. You sound insecure.	/r/MensRights	15/07/17 07:47 PM
–	Feminist believes all terrorists are men. Gets fucking destroyed. (x-post r/CringeAnarchy) All I'm saying is that the numbers pretty clearly show that men are more likely to be involved in mass killings. This is a fact.	/r/PussyPassDenied	08/06/17 11:07 PM
–	Feminist believes all terrorists are men. Gets fucking destroyed. (x-post r/CringeAnarchy) How is that relevant? It's still pretty clear from the numbers that women are for some reason less likely to participate in this particular form of violence.	/r/PussyPassDenied	08/06/17 01:31 PM
–	Feminist believes all terrorists are men. Gets fucking destroyed. (x-post r/CringeAnarchy) 15% is dramatically higher than 0%. To all those who claim all terrorists are men, their argument has failed spectacularly. Assuming both genders are equally likely to participate or be pressed into in this kind of violence, the baseline is 50%, not 0%. c) Men are expendable. It's the same reason why >99% of combat and workplace fatalities are men. I didn't suggest the reason for the disparity at all, I just agreed that it is a statistically significant difference and that the conversation needs…	/r/PussyPassDenied	08/06/17 01:30 PM
–	Feminist believes all terrorists are men. Gets fucking destroyed. (x-post r/CringeAnarchy) 15% is still a pretty dramatically low. It's still a conversation that needs to be had...	/r/PussyPassDenied	07/06/17 10:01 PM
6	Judge Judy Not Having It It's absolutely true that, being such a broad movement, there have been horrible incarnations of feminism. You present a completely fair critique. However, I think it's a little unreasonable to define a movement like feminism so narrowly. Even if you determine that modern feminism doesn't fit with your worldview, remember that, had it not happened in the first place, women would still be unable to vote, control their bodies, exist meaningfully in the workforce, access education, etc. Furthermore…	/r/PussyPassDenied	24/05/17 01:25 PM
8	AMERICAN CIRCUMCISION FREAKS OUT DANISH WOMAN That's not the same guy and wtf does that have to do with fascism?	/r/MensRights	26/03/17 11:10 PM
2	Cool social experiment on Tinder [x-post "All men are pigs who care only about looks!"] This is a selection of messages from an app intended for hooking up, selected specifically for the purpose of proving your point. The people replying are individuals who may or may not be hypocrites, and may or may not be feminists. How does it makes sense to say this is calling anyone out? These people aren't being hypocrites by using a dating app.	/r/MensRights	04/03/17 02:05 AM
-11	Marvel was hijacked by cancerous propaganda So individual writers/artists should intentionally dumb down their messages? These comics were probably written to a specific audience -- not for all of mankind. Even if you want to pick apart these examples for things you disagree with, why get pissed off about the fact that someone wrote about something they believe in? You're not being force fed anything.	/r/MensRights	02/01/17 07:21 PM
1	So... is this Festival choosing to exclude men and boys, or is Google intentionally doing that on their own? How on earth would giving women work "unbalance" the system? It would just generate self-sufficient women who could break out of incredibly confining roles. Such men are still confined by social expectations, but they are not being sweepingly disenfranchised and treated like property. Your arguments make sense post-feminism, but most of the world is not post-feminism.	/r/MensRights	26/09/16 01:40 PM
0	So... is this Festival choosing to exclude men and boys, or is Google intentionally doing that on their own? I agree that men's issues are understudied worldwide. However, in these case of countries where women are married off as children, or can't drive, or can't control what they wear, or when 80% of girls never even start school... I think it's blatantly obvious that women's issues are more pressing and reasonable to promote in a global issues campaign. Like, in South Africa during apartheid, I'm sure there were social issues facing exclusively white South Africans. But would social movements to fix…	/r/MensRights	25/09/16 08:55 PM
9	So... is this Festival choosing to exclude men and boys, or is Google intentionally doing that on their own? https://www.globalcitizen.org/en/issue/women-girls/ Seeing that this is a festival about global issues, I don't see anything wrong with this. Feminism and patriarchy might be debatable in first world countries... But in most, if not all, developing nations, women are straight up second-class citizens. Some of the articles are about minor issues, but most seem to be about shit like marrying 14-year-old girls to adult men.	/r/MensRights	25/09/16 02:27 AM
5	Saw these bicyclists in downtown SF There's a profound difference between cutting your baby's genitals for your personal preference and otherwise going about influencing them. People defend it as a medical choice, but it is not medically advantageous for an infant. Other body modifications are illegal to do to kids. You can't tattoo a kid or give them cosmetic surgery, and you can't cut a baby girl's genitals as you please, even with similar "medical" justifications.	/r/MensRights	28/08/16 01:31 AM
25	Saw these bicyclists in downtown SF Yes.	/r/MensRights	27/08/16 11:07 PM
3	Ten (10) boys lost their lives this year due to circumcision. In 2015, during winter and summer Initiation seasons, approximately 101 boys lost their lives and in the last 10 years, there has been an estimated 1,000 penile amputations. but not harmful procudres, like infibulation The reality is that circumcision is a harmful procedure in almost all situations. The foreskin is the most sensitive part of the penis. The glans is a mucous membrane, which evolved to be in contact with the foreskin, not fabric. The foreskin does not impair good hygiene. The people participating in cultures which are pro-infibulation will offer arguments in its favor which are analogous to pro-circumcision arguments. They say that it is medically adv…	/r/MensRights	05/07/16 07:21 PM
5	Ten (10) boys lost their lives this year due to circumcision. In 2015, during winter and summer Initiation seasons, approximately 101 boys lost their lives and in the last 10 years, there has been an estimated 1,000 penile amputations. As for the rest of you, I just flatly don't respect you. ... To be extremely charitable, I think you're just motivated by anti-religious bigotry. To be less charitable, you're a bunch of anti-semites and islamophobes. I haven't seen anyone here be antisemitic. I don't think anyone is even offended at the idea of adult circumcisions. Many men who are born Jewish and not cut, or who convert to Judaism, have the procedure done when they are adults. It's their body, it's their choice. That's okay. W…	/r/MensRights	05/07/16 07:01 PM
3	Ten (10) boys lost their lives this year due to circumcision. In 2015, during winter and summer Initiation seasons, approximately 101 boys lost their lives and in the last 10 years, there has been an estimated 1,000 penile amputations. Infant baptism is a symbolic ritual, though. They splash water on the baby and have a special church service. Circumcision is the amputation of a healthy body part with important functions.	/r/MensRights	05/07/16 06:28 PM
5	Ten (10) boys lost their lives this year due to circumcision. In 2015, during winter and summer Initiation seasons, approximately 101 boys lost their lives and in the last 10 years, there has been an estimated 1,000 penile amputations. It's not bigotry to think a specific religious practice is abhorrent. A significant number of people practice FGM for religious or "medical" purposes. But we are not bigots for saying that FGM is disgusting.	/r/MensRights	05/07/16 06:25 PM
4	Ten (10) boys lost their lives this year due to circumcision. In 2015, during winter and summer Initiation seasons, approximately 101 boys lost their lives and in the last 10 years, there has been an estimated 1,000 penile amputations. Why don't you respond with actual arguments, if you want to participate in a conversation, instead of insults?	/r/MensRights	05/07/16 06:19 PM
6	Ten (10) boys lost their lives this year due to circumcision. In 2015, during winter and summer Initiation seasons, approximately 101 boys lost their lives and in the last 10 years, there has been an estimated 1,000 penile amputations. Yes, medical professionals in the United States tend to recommend circumcision for medical purposes. This is highly unusual on a global scale. Something like 70% of men worldwide are intact. The majority of men with genital cutting have been cut for religious reasons. Circumcision is a cultural trend in the US. It is not a medically necessary or beneficial procedure. It was originally popularized in the states in the 19th century explicitly to make masturbation more difficult for boys.	/r/MensRights	05/07/16 06:15 PM
18	Ten (10) boys lost their lives this year due to circumcision. In 2015, during winter and summer Initiation seasons, approximately 101 boys lost their lives and in the last 10 years, there has been an estimated 1,000 penile amputations. Your right to modify a body based on your religious beliefs ends after your body. Your child's body does not belong to you, and you wanting his penis to be like your penis is not a justification of this practice. It is his penis. If your son is Jewish, he may be circumcised when he is old enough to consent.	/r/MensRights	05/07/16 06:14 AM
1	OK Men Here's the Data. 80% of you are ugly, 10% average and 10% attractive What's wrong with that, though?	/r/MensRights	23/06/16 10:59 PM
3	Boy sues school district for $1.35 million alleging that multiple teachers conspired to enable his sexual abuse at the hands of a female teacher You're right that hitting them in the wallet works... But depending on the district, that amount of money could really hurt the other kids in the school. Not sure if it's the best solution.	/r/MensRights	21/06/16 11:36 PM
2	Uncomfortable talk: Is Men's Rights Movements contributing to creating divergence and inner conflict within societies? People in power decided to change because feminists successfully spread their ideas. We didn't just snap into legal equality at the whim of our benevolent leaders. People had to fight long battles for that shit.	/r/MensRights	16/06/16 12:58 AM
1	Uncomfortable talk: Is Men's Rights Movements contributing to creating divergence and inner conflict within societies? I don't understand, who is denying women access to birth control? The debate over abortion is still a debate, and it can be insanely difficult for women to obtain them in certain areas. How is LGBT rights a woman's issue when L is women, G is men, B and T are both? Or do you mean only the L and the female B and T part? Feminism is the flag under which most LGBT rights groups organize. Feminism is frequently used to mean "academic gender study"; it is not just the word for women's rights activist…	/r/MensRights	16/06/16 12:53 AM
1	Uncomfortable talk: Is Men's Rights Movements contributing to creating divergence and inner conflict within societies? In Saudi Arabia, women cannot drive, they have to adhere to a dress code, they cannot travel without a male chaperone. They cannot spend too much time with men they aren't related to. They are required to have men swear for them in a court of law. Women make up between 14 and 16% of the Saudi workforce. The Saudi marriage contract is between the husband and the father of the bride, not the bride herself. And it goes on. Men might have issues, but it's a blatantly patriarchal culture -- and most …	/r/MensRights	16/06/16 12:31 AM
1	Uncomfortable talk: Is Men's Rights Movements contributing to creating divergence and inner conflict within societies? You say that even though most politicians are men, that does not mean they use their power to help men but that women are able to use victim power to influence institutional power So in this way, you're saying that women do have a "control over institutional power based on gender." Why do you believe that women consciously utilize their privilege any more than men do? Furthermore, if most politicians are men, it is a problem, even if they are not malicious toward women. The enemy is not a gender…	/r/MensRights	15/06/16 11:27 PM
-1	Uncomfortable talk: Is Men's Rights Movements contributing to creating divergence and inner conflict within societies? Access to birth control, LGBT rights, gender roles in media, parental leave, sex trafficking (most sources estimate 98% female victims), etc. etc. Many feminist groups campaign for women's rights in countries which are explicitly patriarchal. Try telling me that Saudi Arabia doesn't desperately need a massive feminist movement. Women's issues obviously exist, and this does not devalue men's issues.	/r/MensRights	15/06/16 10:55 PM
2	Uncomfortable talk: Is Men's Rights Movements contributing to creating divergence and inner conflict within societies? I honestly think that if prison sentences were made even, men were treated fairly in divorce, etc. That the MRM would just go away. Objective accomplished, let's move on to living our lives. On the flip side, I don't think feminism will ever just pack up. Just wondering -- why do you think that the movements are different in this way? A healthy chunk of feminism has has devolved into entitled whining about "manspreading" and the like. But feminism hasn't finished -- sensible feminists have plent…	/r/MensRights	15/06/16 10:20 PM
15	U.S. Code Title 18 § 116 protects girls from genital mutilation. Do you support extending that protection to boys as well? When people compare the two, they don't mean to say that one form is strictly worse than any other form. It's fucking barbaric to cut any infant's genitals to any extent. The comparison is also legally relevant. Any degree of female genital cutting is strictly and rightfully illegal, even pinprick ritual circumcisions. Why should we deny baby boys the same protection?	/r/MensRights	19/01/16 12:16 AM
4	U.S. Code Title 18 § 116 protects girls from genital mutilation. Do you support extending that protection to boys as well? There is nothing inherently wrong with circumcision itself. If you want to be circumcised, be it for religious, cultural, sexual, or aesthetic reasons, that's fine. Go ahead, it's your body. It's also okay to be okay with your own infant circumcision. It doesn't bother everyone. That said, doing it to infants is disgusting, and is mutilation. There is no advantage which is scientifically proven which justifies this behavior. Infants cannot consent to what amounts to a cosmetic surgery. If you wa…	/r/MensRights	18/01/16 06:59 PM
1	The real agenda of Feminism is to spread male hatred Yea. I think we agree on most things in your first paragraph. Men in our culture do face serious issues which are way too hard to talk about under feminism, which is the only socially acceptable label for a gender movement. The thing is that SJWs blame MEN for their problems. They blame the evil patriarchy! And then a lot of MRAs turn right around and blame WOMEN for their problems. It's the same speech from both sides. The reality is that our culture is the enemy, not feminists, not women, not …	/r/MensRights	09/01/16 12:37 AM
–	The real agenda of Feminism is to spread male hatred I'm not defending them. I'm saying that construing their ignorance as hatred is pointless. There's a crucial difference between feminism not always understanding the bigger picture of gender equality, and feminists intentionally spreading hate. You can't change people by calling them filthy. You sound the same as the people you are complaining about.	/r/MensRights	08/01/16 11:56 PM
–	The real agenda of Feminism is to spread male hatred I agree that feminism is often misguided, and that feminism does not pay enough heed to men's rights issues. However, I think it's a bit far to call this an "agenda" and to say that feminists hate men as a blanket statement. This just deepens the chasm between the two movements. Furthermore, "men's rights activism" contains the word "men," and so by the logic of your question, cannot promote equality. That's silly. Both men and women have different societal obstacles. The solutions do not have t…	/r/MensRights	08/01/16 09:49 PM
12	What Men Would Be Like If They Were Accountable To No One Like Women Are Today Agreed. Well said. It was probably cathartic for OP to write this. But I'm actually astounded that it hasn't been locked yet. The reality is that if men's rights are to be respected, we have to reject blatant and fucking embarrassing displays of misogyny. Men's rights issues do not have to come at the expense of feminist issues, whether or not you believe that mainstream feminism is misguided. Humans are humans. This hatred is disgusting.	/r/MensRights	08/01/16 08:13 PM
11	What Men Would Be Like If They Were Accountable To No One Like Women Are Today Hate begets hate. This guy is the entire reason that people don't care about men's rights. He only tries to understand his own demographic's perspective, and for whatever reason thinks that his rights have to come at the expense of others'.	/r/MensRights	08/01/16 08:04 PM
1	UK: Our education system must stop ignoring its bias against boys. Young women in the UK are now 35pc more likely to go to university than young men Fair enough, if there is real data showing that single-sex education produces better results. But in the case of co-ed education (which is honestly more important since it is the usual mode of public education), pandering specifically to one gender only flips the problems around. Equal treatment in a single setting is possible. Not plausible worldwide for a long time, but perfectly possible.	/r/MensRights	07/01/16 08:06 PM
1	University Psych Class turns into chick crying orgy over their victimization. Lone male student at the end tells by far the worst story of abuse and the entire class laughs at him You are repeating the dogma that you are complaining about. The pendulum is the problem -- not its current location.	/r/MensRights	28/12/15 07:24 AM