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| 1 | Is cold approach in this day and age pretty much dead? Why or why not?You’ve def not done enough lol | /r/seduction | 01/08/26 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Is cold approach in this day and age pretty much dead? Why or why not?No, go out and approach | /r/seduction | 31/07/26 10:05 PM |
| 1 | What is your favorite piece of advice from Mr. Locario dating coach?To get into an open relationship with an busted sugar mama | /r/seduction | 10/07/26 03:18 AM |
| 1 | How often do women approach you?That’s normal, go out more. Dress like a peacock. Where do you live, roughly? | /r/seduction | 07/07/26 07:09 PM |
| 1 | How often do women approach you?Never cat called? Where are you hanging out? Familiar environments, social events and night life should be getting you some cues if not approaches. | /r/seduction | 04/07/26 05:06 AM |
| 1 | How do I cold approach (talking about the opener)Regular openers, your energy and body language is how you succeed. They need to find you attractive | /r/seduction | 24/06/26 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Dedicating a few years to cold approach - Crazy to do at 32?Not too old. What city? | /r/seduction | 22/06/26 09:38 PM |
| 2 | She slept with another guy quickly, but is taking things slower with me. How should I interpret that?He escalated and sexualized earlier and more. Logistics of having a place after she’s had drinks seems to have helped him. Make it happen bro! She’s waiting | /r/seduction | 18/06/26 07:40 PM |
| 11 | How to escalate for a kissCan you share a link for the almost kiss theory? Not finding anything at first search | /r/seduction | 07/06/26 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Everyone says join a club. I did. Here's what actually happenedYou can dance salsa for an hour but don’t go to more salsa dancing classes or events? | /r/seduction | 16/03/26 07:26 PM |
| 1 | A lot of attractive guys go home by themselves..Learn to dance, make as many approaches as you can and have fun. Choosing a club that’s dark enough but still has good visibility helps. Was grabbed by a girl the 2nd to last afters I went to. The afters on NYE was too dark and filled with fog and it was raining outside, not ideal | /r/seduction | 20/01/26 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Unethical seddit tipAre you in non legal state? | /r/seduction | 16/01/26 03:50 AM |
| 2 | First attempt at going out soloHave you ever used innuendo with a girl you were dating/seeing? Same thing as approaching, gota try it and probably fail at first. Easy low compliance stuff like come get a drink with me at the bar or come meet some friends. Asking them to isolate outside or in your car is too far at first. | /r/seduction | 30/11/25 03:35 AM |
| 2 | I know what to do, but I choke in the moment. Need advice on fixing my executionBe in the moment, stop paying attention to being nervous, overexplaining, forcing the vibe. If you’re in the moment you’re reacting to her and you’re less likely to be incongruent. Get those reps in | /r/seduction | 28/11/25 01:54 AM |
| 3 | First attempt at going out soloNice bro! Now you know you won’t have your head bitten off talking to a girl or two. So now try to push the escalation sooner, jokes and innuendo, try to get rejected faster is another way to look at it. If you already had some rapport with a group of musicians you could have the girls come meet them and then better chance to isolate one. | /r/seduction | 28/11/25 01:50 AM |
| 2 | How do I get better at talking to girls on dating apps? 22M needs guidance.😫It’s for logistics, set up the date asap. Don’t try to be clever or end up being a pen pal. If they match that means they’re interested. Girls will have lots of options so it doesn’t mean they will all want to meet, some are bots and some just want attention. | /r/seduction | 26/11/25 09:22 AM |
| 1 | 35M virgin, quit my job to focus on game. Where do I start?Don’t focus on you being autistic or any other imagined disability. Do you want numbers or do you want a single girl? I’d say it’s better to get some experience with multiple girls before you settle as it helps to give you a well rounded idea of a potential ideal partner if and when you settle. Find a slut and have you be your wing girl lol. If you find one and tell her you need her to help, in a funny way and own it, there’s a chance they’ll love the challenge and help you. Also lots of coaches… | /r/seduction | 24/11/25 02:40 AM |
| 1 | People are surprised when I say I get no girlsGirls giving you compliments like this is good. They are in the category of people you want to sell to / be with so they’re confirming others would be interested, focus on that instead of your lack of action thus far. Specifically in the scenarios you mention, do a “yes, and” relevant to the situation. Be in the present and say whatever comes to mind that you find funny. Try dating apps, get good photos and be diligent about setting up dates quickly. Don’t chit chat on the apps. You need to prac… | /r/seduction | 11/11/25 05:26 AM |
| 1 | No reply after strong interest the night before?Same shit happened with a girl from halloween night. Crazy amounts of interest in person but haven’t heard back from her after she asked if I saw her friends credit card in my back seat lol. Got head and made out so guess that’s a win if I never see her again. | /r/seduction | 05/11/25 08:42 AM |
| 2 | Im afraid that i will get ignored or rejectedHang out as friends, if you guys have a good time it can be whatever you and her want. Escalate early if the vibes are good. If she says she wants to go slower and that’s good with you then stick around and keep hanging out in the future. If it stops being fun don’t try to force it though. It’s about you having fun not making her like you | /r/seduction | 31/10/25 08:42 PM |
| 2 | Im afraid that i will get ignored or rejectedAsk her how’s she’s doing and ask her out. As with any online dating it’s about setting up a meet and figuring out logistics. Don’t small talk online, just make plans to meet | /r/seduction | 31/10/25 07:00 PM |
| 1 | How do I show girls the same confident, funny side I naturally have with friends?How long are you trying to game a girl? Maybe you’re good at first but don’t escalate fast enough | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Juggling various women and I don’t feel anythingDon’t simp and become a chump for the one you want. Be yourself and have fun. The speed and timeline with the other girl is going to be different than the ones you’re having as fwbs. Probably not great she knows you have other girls but it doesn’t really hurt for her to know other girls like you. If she asks be honest and prove you’re leaving the other girls behind and focusing on her | /r/seduction | 17/10/25 09:49 PM |
| 12 | I think I am becoming a "Bad Boy"! 31MSame experience. They are the one who chooses so they can be as picky as they like. Guys are more forgiving because we’re pursuing. I think caring less and improving you can get better results. I’m in the same stage. Good job writing this out | /r/seduction | 11/10/25 07:37 PM |
| 7 | Broke deadbeats who pull beautiful women...how do they do it?Is he putting himself out around girls more often? As in meeting them when he’s out spending all his money on booze? Dating apps? You have to be meeting or networking around girls for them to know you exist let alone want you. Have you ever gone out with him and been a wingman for each other? | /r/seduction | 25/09/25 11:54 PM |
| 1 | I’ve realized I hate the process of trying to find women to date, and I hate the process of maintaining romantic relationships. Anyone else? What is your dating life like? How do you navigate this?So what do you plan to do to get a different outcome? | /r/seduction | 21/09/25 09:11 PM |
| 1 | I’ve realized I hate the process of trying to find women to date, and I hate the process of maintaining romantic relationships. Anyone else? What is your dating life like? How do you navigate this?Find a coach and or wingmen. Pay a photographer for better photos. There are professionals for all this stuff for a reason. Beyond that everything else is a skill game | /r/seduction | 21/09/25 08:46 PM |
| 1 | I’ve realized I hate the process of trying to find women to date, and I hate the process of maintaining romantic relationships. Anyone else? What is your dating life like? How do you navigate this?Cold approach and or making your dating profile better | /r/seduction | 21/09/25 07:50 PM |
| 1 | I’ve realized I hate the process of trying to find women to date, and I hate the process of maintaining romantic relationships. Anyone else? What is your dating life like? How do you navigate this?Get more leads and have more in the pipeline so there’s less time between encounters | /r/seduction | 20/09/25 06:21 PM |
| 1 | I’ve realized I hate the process of trying to find women to date, and I hate the process of maintaining romantic relationships. Anyone else? What is your dating life like? How do you navigate this?Do you like relationships and having sex with women? Maybe a better strategy so you have more success. But also have the right expectations will help | /r/seduction | 20/09/25 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Weird ghosting situation and unsure if I should pursue or not, etc.You can double text, just keep in mind to not think they’re going to be a good or serious relationship. She’s just for fun if she comes around at all. Move on and find more options, charge it to the game | /r/seduction | 16/09/25 07:53 PM |
| 2 | Seduction works best when you drop itCompletely agree, there are lots of different scenarios. It’s cool you were able to notice this unique situation and have a good outcome. Would be interesting if you’re able to get this to work again in the future. Then tease out the similarities to make a recipe for future success | /r/seduction | 16/09/25 03:38 AM |
| 3 | Seduction works best when you drop itNot an expert either. Escalating quicker will help you weed out who is going to be more resistant to your advances. It depends on what you want. If you want new girls escalate and figure out if they’re interested or not. If you really are into the person, sure you can stick around and do more dates. The friend zone is a big issue, most guys aren’t getting out of that. And if you become too platonic, by not trying and setting the tone early on, you will end up as a friend with little to no chance… | /r/seduction | 16/09/25 01:15 AM |
| 2 | Seduction works best when you drop itYea this is limited to a group you are already familiar with. With cold approach you try to escalate and not be seen as a friend. If they resist or act like a stick in the mud then you can either forget them or dial it back and then try again later. No doubt many guys get laid from social circles, especially if they have desirable qualities like looks and social game. Then with the familiarity the girls will start making advances like you experienced. It is nice when that happens but it can be s… | /r/seduction | 15/09/25 06:41 PM |
| 2 | A letter with the dating advice I would send to my 13 year-old selfGood mantra. Saved the post, thanks bro | /r/seduction | 31/07/25 07:46 PM |
| 1 | hate towards women: how to get rid of it?You made some people mad lol. Men and women are like ying and yang, you don’t need to have exact same interests and ideas. That’s what guy friends are for. Robert Glover talks about this in his book, No More Mr. Nice Guy. Also, the song Girls just wana have fun is very true. | /r/seduction | 22/07/25 06:43 PM |
| 1 | How to stop being easy to sleep with?Having sisters prevents me from doing this. Maybe that’s something you can look for haha. You might also like the type of guys who can do this tho. If you can’t lock down a fuck buddy or two maybe work on yourself | /r/seduction | 22/04/25 02:23 AM |
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