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| 2 | Texting after first date troubles / failures.At least they say they aren't interested so you don't have to spend any more time with it. Most of the time I get no reply at all. | /r/seduction | 30/01/15 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Develop a routine: 3 things I do every single day before work for Inner GameAny tips you use on actually getting out of bed at that time? I can wake up, no problem, but I never seem to get out of bed so I just go back to sleep. | /r/seduction | 30/10/13 10:16 PM |
| 2 | 24 yr old, beta as fuck, need assistance.I'll just add this here. I think it applies to everything in life! Keep it up, bro! You'r'e doing just fine. | /r/seduction | 07/07/13 11:15 PM |
| 3 | AFC to Ballroom Dancer: How learning to dance changed my gameI've been curious at all the benefits of learning to dance. Now I need to get off my ass and finally take the lesson I've wanted to take. | /r/seduction | 01/07/13 11:06 PM |
| 3 | Big shout-out to the Seddit Local Lairs, or, Why you shouldn't go about this aloneI'm near Columbia. As much as I do enjoy going solo, it'd be nice to have some more people to go out with. | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 01:37 AM |
| 3 | I am stepping down as moderator to focus on my writing. Please read, I have a big announcement.Tofu, your posts here are what helped get me started. They told that a guy like me can do this stuff. While I'll miss your stuff on here, I'll definitely be one of the first ones to support you in all of your future endeavors. Following you on Twitter and subscribed to the subreddit. Good luck in everything! | /r/seduction | 16/05/13 10:36 PM |
| 1 | A Deeper Look Into Body LanguageJust wait until you read more and more on it and spend tons of time watching people. Definitely! I'm only about half way into the book OP mentions and I notice a lot more body language than I used to. Whether I interpret the correct meanings, however, is a different matter. | /r/seduction | 11/05/13 09:42 PM |
| 6 | Above The Game Part 6: Logistics (getting the number, texting, setting up dates, etc.)After getting the number, it's usually a good idea to send a "Did you get home safe?" text later that night. To be honest, this is the first I've seen this type of message advocated. Usually I hear/read the opposite as to not seem needy and such. Although, the kind of messages endorsed here seem to be a good style. I've tried the one-liners and such and then, even after having made plans, the attraction is gone and she either cancels or flakes. | /r/seduction | 07/05/13 12:18 AM |
| 1 | [FR] computer science acne nerd gets it inAll Asians girls are at least an 8 to me... | /r/seduction | 28/04/13 07:38 PM |
| 6 | Fun field-tested opener from last night (and more)Working on it! | /r/seduction | 07/04/13 09:12 PM |
| 3 | Fun field-tested opener from last night (and more)People like me would over analyze the shit out of these if trying them ourselves. Then wind up not doing it. ಠ_ಠ | /r/seduction | 07/04/13 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Extremely valuable lessons I learned tonight.Number 12....right in the feels for me. I ALWAYS tend to over analyze. | /r/seduction | 18/03/13 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Top mistakes newbies makeI was going to mention this as well. I actually see this pop up a few times here. Perhaps something worth posting about in itself? | /r/seduction | 29/11/12 03:03 AM |
| 1 | To those who're looking for / already in relationships, DO NOT STOP reading Seddit and keep practising your game....when you've turned yourself in to a genuine, charming, confident, better person than you used to be This sums it all up for me for why I even visit this subreddit. Thank you, sir, for sharing your experience. | /r/seduction | 25/11/12 07:22 PM |
| 6 | Start taking cold showers, especially if you have AAI've (tried) to alternate between hot and then switch to cold to rinse off. I still need to man up and get some consistency, though. | /r/seduction | 25/11/12 05:25 PM |
| 1 | If a strip club is too much, start at a HootersVery interesting write up. I'm sure this is a dilemma for most of us AFCs out there, but I've always found it much more difficult to tell if a waitress or someone serving me is interested or just being nice due to the job. Regardless of that, though, definitely worth a shot. | /r/seduction | 25/11/12 05:23 PM |
| 2 | To those who're looking for / already in relationships, DO NOT STOP reading Seddit and keep practising your game.Nice post here and I believe it to be true, as well. I learned this the hard way. | /r/seduction | 24/11/12 06:30 PM |
| 3 | Psychological (childhood) roots of AAWell, honestly, it was more him just trying to convey to wear a condom. | /r/seduction | 22/11/12 11:32 PM |
| 3 | Psychological (childhood) roots of AAAhhh now this is more like me. My dad gave me the "talk", of course, but nothing really more than that. | /r/seduction | 22/11/12 11:29 PM |
| 3 | On awkward silencesReminds me of the scene in Casino Royale (can't find the clip, but I'll keep looking) where Bond offers the lady a drink at his place, she replies, but he holds eye contact and just smiles. | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 12:55 AM |
| 7 | Text Game Tips with an ExampleWouldn't this just give her validation? Or am I just missing something here? | /r/seduction | 12/11/12 06:43 PM |
| 2 | My permanent smile is hurting my game. Advice?I think smiling a lot is a good thing. Been trying to do more of it myself. I say keep it up and who cares if others don't like it, that's their problem. Keep on being happy, bro. | /r/seduction | 07/10/12 02:10 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Part 2 - The First DateVery well written. I think I learned a few things from this, myself. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 06/10/12 07:21 PM |
| 2 | 20 Life-changing things I learned from Robert Glover's book 'No More Mr. Nice Guy'Weird thing for me that makes it harder to relate to what the book is trying to convey, is that I have a good relationship with my father even though I fit the other descriptions quite perfectly. | /r/seduction | 30/09/12 11:13 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Out alone. Take lead.Awesome story. This should help motivate me to go out on my own more often. | /r/seduction | 23/09/12 11:05 PM |
| 5 | How to give a girl shit for being late without sounding like an ass...So then is it rude to be on time to work? Then again, I'm an anal east-coaster. | /r/seduction | 18/09/12 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Can we have a frank conversation about STD's for a minute?I'll be honest here, guys. I'm scared as shit about getting something. Probably one of the reasons I'm still a virgin, really. I should get tested anyway just for that peace of mind. | /r/seduction | 16/08/12 02:45 PM |
| 0 | Undeniable Proof That Women Crave Mind-Blowing SexI just want to agree withi TofuTofu that your articles are great! I swear, they really do help me out the most. | /r/seduction | 26/06/12 10:20 PM |
| 2 | [FR] ALWAYS be on! ALWAYS!Perhaps you can still go back and "look" for it? :] | /r/seduction | 16/06/12 06:52 PM |
| 2 | I've started experimenting with getting girls to buy me drinks.My problem with this is, when I have a couple of drinks in me already, I get pretty generous with buying drinks. I should learn to get the water a bit earlier next time. | /r/seduction | 13/06/12 12:17 AM |
| 8 | [FR] "Fine....I'll have sex with you" ChallengeI like how you just didn't care what they said and did the opening anyway. If nothing else, this FR should show us that. I give you a big pat on the back for this try, sir. | /r/seduction | 09/06/12 07:19 PM |
| 1 | 47-year-old male virgin looking for pointers (no comments from whiners who have given up please)As a fellow virgin (soon to be 28) I wish you luck. I've been lurking in this subreddit for a couple of months now and I can safely say I have improved overall as a person because of it. I, myself, had a successful second date just the other night. Please let us know how it goes if you can. | /r/seduction | 09/06/12 01:58 PM |
| 1 | I'm that SAP on the bus. I'm not subscribed to this subreddit but it keeps getting mentioned in posts and PM's. Thought I'd give it a try.There are more than 3 billion women on this planet, and more of them want to fuck you than you can deal with in one lifetime. Your job is to go out and find them (Credit: 60 years of challenge). There's another hot redditor girl out there and she probably likes you more This definitely puts things in perspective for any of us. Thanks for this. | /r/seduction | 27/05/12 06:48 PM |
| 4 | I'm that SAP on the bus. I'm not subscribed to this subreddit but it keeps getting mentioned in posts and PM's. Thought I'd give it a try.I didn't see the story, but it's ok, man. I have a feeling that we are quite a bit alike and the best thing I can tell you is baby steps. Do something small that's more confident or something small that you were just too nervous to do before and all that will build up. Has helped me quite a bit. | /r/seduction | 26/05/12 07:43 PM |
| 2 | Approaching Women Confidently eBook (free!)You always give good advice in this subreddit. Now I can take that advice on the go! | /r/seduction | 04/05/12 10:14 PM |
| 5 | Seddit, how do you come to terms with your level of attractiveness?I came here to say how much OP and I have a similar mindset but instead of saying that, I must say, this post is just too inspiring. | /r/seduction | 15/04/12 10:00 PM |
| 2 | For nerds only: steps to work on socializing with women.Awesome post! It got me thinking more of what I can do for myself. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 10/04/12 04:03 AM |
| 4 | The Real Man vs The "Nice Guy"Truer words were never spoken. And I have been doing better than before on this, myself, but definitely got plenty to improve upon. | /r/seduction | 06/04/12 08:28 PM |
| 7 | The Real Man vs The "Nice Guy"The more I read this the more depressed I feel. | /r/seduction | 06/04/12 08:02 PM |
| 1 | It really is the small things that get to youHey, after that last week I'm going to wear this shirt more! | /r/seduction | 05/04/12 07:08 PM |
| 1 | It really is the small things that get to youI had a similar experience last week. I was walking with a friend to lunch and passed a place and a woman working there comes out and says how awesome my ninja turtles shirt was. All I said was, "Thanks". ಠ_ಠ | /r/seduction | 05/04/12 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Dance with her.I want to be this guy! | /r/seduction | 03/04/12 10:27 PM |
| 3 | Dance with her.I'm glad this post is here. Recently I've started doing some club dancing. I'm, by far, not the best, but the times I've done it have been the best nights out so far. I'm sure the touching you do while dancing with the girl helps as well. | /r/seduction | 03/04/12 12:32 AM |
| 2 | 3 Rules I Live By EverydayThat's the exact mindset I have. It's all about the baby steps. | /r/seduction | 01/04/12 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Noob To Bar Scene : How an Introvert's First Night At The Bar WentAwesome stuff here, bro. I should probably start going to places by myself more (movies, restaurants, then eventually the bar). I don't know why, but I just feel weird going to those places by myself. | /r/seduction | 01/04/12 01:56 AM |
| 83 | 3 Rules I Live By EverydayYou wouldn't be afraid to talk to someone if they were sitting on your couch I'm fucked | /r/seduction | 01/04/12 01:51 AM |
| 8 | Beginner Sticking Points – Where Most Rookies Get Stuck [RSD Nation]Good post. I'll definitely have to remember these points, especially the Assuming It's Not On one. I've done that so many damn times. | /r/seduction | 25/03/12 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Bar archetypes & how to have fun at each (and pick-up)It's ok, I'm still new at it, too. Luckily, I have some friends that can help out and they know tons of people I have yet to meet. Hope it goes well for you, bro. | /r/seduction | 25/03/12 12:01 AM |
| 2 | Bar archetypes & how to have fun at each (and pick-up)I feel the exact same way as you about the volume of the music. Unfortunately, I don't believe there are any chill bars in my area for me to check out. One thing I've been thinking of, however, is just to have people over to hang at my place. Invite a couple of friends and have them invite their friends. Should be much easier to get into conversation. | /r/seduction | 24/03/12 11:27 PM |
| 3 | If you let them, they'll walk all over you! (About Personal Boundaries)Still, it's an article that makes some people think about their past experiences and go, "Hey, that's me. I should stop that." | /r/seduction | 24/03/12 07:07 PM |
| 1 | How to Be a Gentleman That Turns Women OnI actually have a copy of No More Mr. Nice Guy and I can definitely relate but the reasons I act that way that the author mentions in the book just doesn't seem to relate to me, however. I'll definitely give it another read. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 24/03/12 06:45 PM |
| 3 | How to Be a Gentleman That Turns Women OnThis may help me out quite a bit. I like being a gentleman but I can't help but wonder what the line is between a gentleman and just being a needy nice guy. | /r/seduction | 21/03/12 09:40 PM |
| 31 | Conveying Sexual Intent Early On: How to Avoid the FriendzoneIt's one thing to read these but it's a total other beast to remember about them when out in the field. | /r/seduction | 21/03/12 02:01 AM |
| 8 | I kind of had an epiphany when it comes to my entire approach towards women...Speaking from personal experience here...I think the reason a lot of guys don't use a lot of kino is because they believe that it isn't appropriate or may offend the girl. I know I still got a ways to go before I can get this out of my head. | /r/seduction | 18/03/12 03:19 PM |
| 13 | [FR] TofuTofu & TheEngDude pick up two 20 year olds in Pizzeria -> f-closed 'em both like bossesLooks very slick but not being in one of the top cities of the country, these types of services are just a fantasy. On a side note, Tofutofu FRs are the biggest motivator here. | /r/seduction | 15/03/12 09:44 PM |
| 29 | Guys that get friendzoned read thisIt's because nice guys don't go for what they want and they're afraid that showing a girl what he does want is going to make her dislike him. You totally got it right, there. I definitely used to think this and still kind of do, but to a less extent. | /r/seduction | 08/03/12 12:16 AM |
| 2 | Should losing your v-card be meaningful? Should you lose it at your first opportunity?Funny you mention the exercise, I just went back to the gym earlier today after about a year off. Good call! | /r/seduction | 06/03/12 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Should losing your v-card be meaningful? Should you lose it at your first opportunity?You're not being a dick or anything at all, so don't worry about that. To be honest, I didn't really think about it since I read your comment. I think it really comes down to insecurity. When I was in high school, I had a pretty bad issue with acne. It's way better now but I still get some breakouts which may cause me to still think like that. Probably doesn't sound like much or seems like an excuse and that may be true, but I believe this plays a big role. I will end on this note, however...I a… | /r/seduction | 06/03/12 01:30 AM |
| 11 | Should losing your v-card be meaningful? Should you lose it at your first opportunity?This is not AFC or being a chump This may be true, but aren't most women put off by this? One girl even told me it was creepy that I was still a virgin at 27. | /r/seduction | 05/03/12 03:28 AM |
| 10 | I've read hundreds of biographies and have noticed one common characteristic amongst all successful people...Side question here...which biographies stuck out for you or impressed you the most? | /r/seduction | 26/02/12 09:25 PM |
| 3 | It's Sunday... So what did you learn this weekend?Went out with some guys Thursday and I chatted up with some girls we had met. May not be a big thing but it was for me. Made me realize that I can do this! The two buddies I went with mentioned later that they were proud of me. Felt really good. | /r/seduction | 26/02/12 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Name remembering methodI'm kind of cursed being that I remember names way more than I can recognize faces. People I haven't seen in years will ask if I remember them and I always go, "what's your name?", then I remember. | /r/seduction | 26/02/12 09:19 PM |
| 2 | SEDDIT PODCASTI sense a lot of lulz to come from this. It doesn't matter but, but I approve. :] | /r/seduction | 31/01/12 04:23 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Date + lay, learned about what makes a good dateIt's nice to know that you can be social and not like bars/clubs. Then again, it tends to be too loud in those places to actually be social. | /r/seduction | 28/12/11 03:16 AM |
| 3 | MTV's Friend Zone - If there was ever evidence for learning what we know, this is it.Strong oneitis. But props to these people coming out and finally escalating, especially on MTV. EDIT: Damn, I feel bad for the guy in the first vid. | /r/seduction | 26/12/11 10:38 PM |
| 3 | Why a bad date can be a good thingThanks for clarifying. Makes so much more sense now. | /r/seduction | 15/11/11 08:20 PM |
| 8 | Why a bad date can be a good thingThat's basically the definition of "oneitis" and that's the main reason we need to let that go, correct? | /r/seduction | 15/11/11 07:40 PM |
| 1 | First [FR] ever, First approach ever (sort of) and first # close ever.Stories like this is why I browse this subreddit. Now I need to contribute to it myself. Good job on the #close! | /r/seduction | 01/10/11 05:31 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Random street + bar line gamingSo nice guys can get some action. Good news for me | /r/seduction | 26/09/11 01:00 AM |
| 1 | FR[12]: Invincible.Awesome FR, bro. Loved it when you just told random groups of people that they were gonna kill it that night | /r/seduction | 26/09/11 12:50 AM |
| 7 | On Conquering Approach Anxiety (to my fellow recovering AFCs)Just curious, how did the phone call not work out? Props to actually calling though. Doubt I could do that right now. I'm worse on the phone than in person. I get nervous and have a hard time understanding the other person and even if I do, I have no idea what to say. EDIT: I think you posted this separately, so disregard my question :p | /r/seduction | 25/09/11 06:51 PM |
| 12 | How do you say "I'm still a virgin" without losing value?Good advice. I've done it myself where I've mentioned I was a virgin and they get turned off by it :/ | /r/seduction | 25/09/11 04:53 PM |
| 0 | [FR] HB7.5 F-closeExcept when it comes to me...they just walk out the door 30 min later. Of course, that's just my fault for not doing anything. | /r/seduction | 25/09/11 04:43 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Very first cold approach! both success and failureThanks for the link. Maybe reading this is just the kick in the balls that may help me just do it. | /r/seduction | 19/09/11 12:51 AM |
| 2 | First night in the field - reporting backAwesome job! Hope I have a night like that soon | /r/seduction | 18/09/11 01:34 AM |
| 2 | Need help with AA, kino, leading and being assertive and being confident about yourself? I have found a secret weapon.Awesome! Now I just need to get out there and actually go to the first class :p | /r/seduction | 15/09/11 09:56 PM |
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